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Absolutely. That’s so important. Because then, if you actually like the person inside after you get to know her, it gives you a reason to put in the effort. It feels like you found somebody compatible with you (to a certain degree, since you just recently met her), thus making it more likely that you’ll actually attract her (since it is more likely that she likes you too). Also it comes across not as needy.
can i be perfectly honest, thinking you need a guide on this is the problem, if you think that you are bad at "speaking and charisma" well then thats just your mental health thats bad beceause you probably arent, go see a therapist instead
@@Vikto7. to an extent yea, but a full long guide? im telling you right now, its just your brain telling you you're bad at speaking to women, you arent actually
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being
Hamza. You have helped me and so many of my friends on self-improvement. I still have people who doubt what you teach after I have tried to introduce them to your channel, but that is ok. Thank you, for everything you have done. You are legendary and a gift to all who listen.
hamza your videos have changed my life so much, I have a new video explaining how you have changed me, and all i want to do is say thankful, you have single dramatically change the trajectory of my life, im so grateful for you ability to speak into my soul and say things in a way that completely resonates with me, i literally watched every single new video from your, you are the best thank you
I totally agree with modeling someone you admire’s behavior. I did that when I first got out of college. I put on a suit and “became” the successful business person I wanted to be by modeling the top performers. At the end of that year, I was in the top 10% of sales people in the Fortune #1 company. Eventually, that behavior became who I was, and I no longer had to “model it “, as I had become that successful person. You are spot on about talking to others to get comfortable. I learned that in my teens and stopped being shy. Hamza, this is a great video, keep up the good work.
But that can't be a goal tho, your purpose refers to your contribution to the world, what will you do that will help your fellow humans have a better life, what legacy will you leave? And if you set a goal like that you're kinda putting the woman on the pedestal which turns her off because she doesn't want to be #1 in your life. She wants to help you fulfill your mission. And after you have a child and you become a father, you won't have any other goals in your life? Will it be fulfilled already? I don't think so. I think you can do much more than just having kids and raising them (even complete failures do that)
If you're a Christian, your goal should be to serve the world and try to get as many people as you can to come to the truth of Jesus Christ, at least that's the goal that God has showed me. Start to accumulate riches in heaven where you'll live forever.
@@AngelGarcia-oy3yjthat can totally be a goal. his goal is to love and raise children to be good people. how can you say “that can’t be a goal”. his goal can be anything. quite literally ANYTHING. so can yours, and so can mine. just because you don’t have the same goal as him doesn’t mean it’s not a goal he “can” or should have. he’s his own man. “even complete failures do that” is wrong. failures raise children poorly. it takes an incredible man and woman to raise children properly. there is a large difference in the way a healthy and stable couple raises their kids vs parents who live in poverty or are participating in a cycle of abuse. when he says his goal is to raise children, that is his goal NOW. once they’re all grown up, he’ll find another goal. this is how goals work. hope this helped you understand.
Hamza everytime you say it’s in the description or it’s gonna pop up as a window it’s not there thought you should know to include it but loving the videos keep it up
Hey Hamza, been watching you for a long time. Make a video on how to fight and how to stop bullies that can’t be stopped through yelling or telling the teacher or any other way.
Hamza, to be honest, these long unedited videos are much more valuable than your older videos. Everytime there is this type of videos made by you I make seeing it my priority.
This Video is at the Perfect timing, I had a First meet up some days ago, i thought it was good and shii, i texted her again and been left on delivered for 8 Hours Now, so thank You like always hamza
Hamza, you're probably not gonna see this comment but I would like to thank you because, firstly you helped me, but my bestfriend was going through a breakup and (call me an asshole if you want ) I purposefully used that to get him in the gym and I am actively introducing self improvement tactics (cold approach, making money with me, ect.). Thank you and may God bless you soul.
Bro i'm so grateful for your videos and advices , I was on self improvement like last year and lost track, stopped some good habits, and you are putting me back on my feet right now. Thank you so much hamza
you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years". That was a powerful quote or statement I heard from another guy, a dating coach, who gives advice to men, it's in regards to men getting better at just approaching or interacting with women. I just want to be sure I interpret it or have the right mindset and that is, men even have to risk getting labeled creepy or just even screw up and mess up interactions, that results in getting negative reactions from women as in the woman is uncomfortable from the man's presence, makes her feel uncomfortable As in its part of the journey of getting better, do I have the right mindset or not? "It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc. The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward. This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS." so is making mistakes socially with women, as in, getting labeled or perceived as creepy or weird when approaching, messing up interactions in which the woman was uncomfortable, is that part of the process of getting better? was the ever the case for you or guys you helped, knew? Do i have the right mindset, right perspective or not?
You are on right track, don't worry! In order to get better in speaking with girls, you need to practice on, you can already guess, girls. So yes, you gonna screw it multiple times, I did too, I came out as social retard multiple times but everytime you screw up, see what you screwed up, think about it and try not to make same mistake again.
I believe raising or training animals that are otherwise difficult to discipline or train may bring insight on how to raise a child. Especially raising a child to be on Self-Improvement. I’m an animal lover, but I know they stink and trash houses and your life may not be suitable for having an animal. But living with a farmer for a few months may bring insight how to raise your children in the future. Cats and horses are a perfect example, cats don’t understand discipline. Meaning the best way to train them or raise them to do a desired behavior is through positive reinforcement. Dry Creek Wrangler trains horses that are difficult and stubborn, by always providing two options to give the horse a choice
The last tip about nervousness/excitement works because your adrenaline and noradrenaline circuits give the exact same response for both. The difference between the two is just the framing that your mind gives to the "release" of that circuit, but there's biologically no difference between the two. The more you know 👍🏼
I still have a long way to go, but guys, if you can, get a job as a waiter in college/uni. It will 10x your skills cold approaching and speaking to women like it did for me. However, this video is straight facts and the last point is key
I discovered your channel in May 2022. I am less awkward around men but I struggle with girls. I still have thoughts in my mind that I don't need to talk to girls because I'd rather focus on my hobbies like drawing and also God. I am also 22 and in college. I see girls I am attracted to in campus but too afraid to talk to them. I think it is because I lack confidence since I am skinny-fat 120 pounds and 5'6" I am also short and brown so I think that I am unattractive. I also feel like I have to self improve first and then talk to girls when I gain the confidence to do so. I still have a lot of work to do because I have no income and I am too anxious to deal with people and I need to overcome pmo. I did make a lot of progress compared to previous years when coming to my pmo 'addiction'.
Hey there. I have a few genuine questions regarding cold approach that I still struggle with and I often get mixed answers to. - What do I do if a very attractive woman is let's say at the same bus stop with me but she has earphones in. Is it better to leave her alone since earphones often signal "leave me alone" or should I approach her in a respectful friendly way? She can still say no but if you don't do it you are most likely missing out on a great chance. It's still hard to believe that women (generally speaking) like being cold approached by a strange man they don't know. Do you have any opinions to share on this?
5th year medical student here. Underwent varicoele surgery same as you a couple of weeks ago myself. Just wondering what the outcome (regarding spermogram, fertility etc) has been for you since living a healthy lifestyle including avoiding cancerogenic materials etc?
I think an important point to understand is: Choose a woman who chooses you. I recently forced myself into liking a girl in my school, so that I could ”train the skill of asking girls out on dates.” I essentially wanted to get close with her and then ask her out. After a little bit of exchanged texts and conversations, it became clear she doesn’t like me. Her personality in general seemed very incompatible to mine from the get go. Even like the most intricate details like mannerisms, humor style and all that stuff (that’s already not considering values, long term goals, morals) of hers was drastically different to mine (not that that’s bad). But I kept trudging through the snow, thinking “I gotta at least ask out one girl this year.” Don’t do that. I think that’s stupid.
This is the same level of quality of the videos you had after you “quit” your channel, love this new direction
Hamza is such a great guy bro.
@@tvsadonisss He definitely isn't
@@Toast2005 why not?
yo ishaan whats good bro
Nah they're even better.
A mindset shift that has really helped me while talking to women has been trying to see if I like her rather than trying to get her to like me.
Absolutely. That’s so important. Because then, if you actually like the person inside after you get to know her, it gives you a reason to put in the effort. It feels like you found somebody compatible with you (to a certain degree, since you just recently met her), thus making it more likely that you’ll actually attract her (since it is more likely that she likes you too). Also it comes across not as needy.
@@raxn2673 exactly! It’s an act of self respect, and other people will only respect you if you respect yourself
Exactly! And I have found myself asking more important questions about her to see if I will like her.
real advice man
We want a full guide on speaking and charisma
Anyone who agree hit a like
👍
+storytelling
can i be perfectly honest, thinking you need a guide on this is the problem, if you think that you are bad at "speaking and charisma" well then thats just your mental health thats bad beceause you probably arent, go see a therapist instead
@@Jake--be2jv
But some easy skills, tips, and tricks don't hurt either
@@Vikto7. to an extent yea, but a full long guide? im telling you right now, its just your brain telling you you're bad at speaking to women, you arent actually
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
Same here after 7+ years. I am happy already but the memories are still there...
17 Indian Guys WAS PERSONAL 😭
most the time its like 200
Haaha 😂
“I love you bby girl” that shi killed me😂
In order to be less awkward around women, first become less awkward around men.
Sun Jin Woo, the art of Propaganda
Solo leveling?
Solo leveling?🧐🤔
I didn't expect to see such references here haha
GGGRRRRRRRIIIIIIIIIITTTTHHHHHHIIIIIIITTTTTHHHHHHHH
solo leveling?!
jesus is king ✝️✝️
Yup ☦️
Kanye🗣🗣🗣
He is
Dude I actually was just awkward and thinking about how to do correct things great timing
I'm always awkward
same bro
Women aren't important you can always jerk off
or we are just trapped in the algorithm
Thank you for updating the old videos.
Been loving these longer, off the cuff (but still focused) videos. Feels very down to earth.
Wouldn't it be so funny if Hamza's next relationship is with a girl called Jessica
* finds 10/10 women *
"whats your name ?"
"Jessica , i kinda like you tho"
"sorry we cant be together"
"why"
*give her his yt channel link*
Hamza. You have helped me and so many of my friends on self-improvement. I still have people who doubt what you teach after I have tried to introduce them to your channel, but that is ok. Thank you, for everything you have done. You are legendary and a gift to all who listen.
Bro always comes with the best🔥
hamza your videos have changed my life so much, I have a new video explaining how you have changed me, and all i want to do is say thankful, you have single dramatically change the trajectory of my life, im so grateful for you ability to speak into my soul and say things in a way that completely resonates with me, i literally watched every single new video from your, you are the best thank you
Man those raw videos with no edit and just power point style of teaching are so damn good. Keep it that way 🫡
hamza bro thank you for these full guide I really cant thank you enough.
Hamza's videos these days are killer! Keep this shit up
Just needed this so much lmao
Love watching these vids while working out, doing neck rn.
I totally agree with modeling someone you admire’s behavior. I did that when I first got out of college. I put on a suit and “became” the successful business person I wanted to be by modeling the top performers. At the end of that year, I was in the top 10% of sales people in the Fortune #1 company. Eventually, that behavior became who I was, and I no longer had to “model it “, as I had become that successful person.
You are spot on about talking to others to get comfortable. I learned that in my teens and stopped being shy.
Hamza, this is a great video, keep up the good work.
Another lecture by professor Hamza, gotta watch.
Love the new style of content, so much value!!!
My goal in life is to become a father, so this is the first step.
Respect to you
But that can't be a goal tho, your purpose refers to your contribution to the world, what will you do that will help your fellow humans have a better life, what legacy will you leave? And if you set a goal like that you're kinda putting the woman on the pedestal which turns her off because she doesn't want to be #1 in your life. She wants to help you fulfill your mission. And after you have a child and you become a father, you won't have any other goals in your life? Will it be fulfilled already? I don't think so. I think you can do much more than just having kids and raising them (even complete failures do that)
If you're a Christian, your goal should be to serve the world and try to get as many people as you can to come to the truth of Jesus Christ, at least that's the goal that God has showed me. Start to accumulate riches in heaven where you'll live forever.
@@AngelGarcia-oy3yj I am not reading all that.
@@AngelGarcia-oy3yjthat can totally be a goal. his goal is to love and raise children to be good people. how can you say “that can’t be a goal”. his goal can be anything. quite literally ANYTHING. so can yours, and so can mine. just because you don’t have the same goal as him doesn’t mean it’s not a goal he “can” or should have. he’s his own man. “even complete failures do that” is wrong. failures raise children poorly. it takes an incredible man and woman to raise children properly. there is a large difference in the way a healthy and stable couple raises their kids vs parents who live in poverty or are participating in a cycle of abuse.
when he says his goal is to raise children, that is his goal NOW. once they’re all grown up, he’ll find another goal. this is how goals work.
hope this helped you understand.
Getting through social awkwardness really is so important!
Your video about embracing change resonated with me.
Dear Hamza;
This was so good ,it felt illegal to watch it free.
W my G.
I like rhe humor in your vids man keep it up
Great guide hamza, very proud
I love these guides❤ please help us all improve upon the different aspects of masculinity
Hamza everytime you say it’s in the description or it’s gonna pop up as a window it’s not there thought you should know to include it but loving the videos keep it up
Timing is 10/10
Hamza your videos geniunely help men like us who are going through issues no one talks about
Thanks man I will definitely use this to my advantage
good video mate ! nice to see Chris made a change in you
These slides are 🔥🔥
I'm grateful for u for giving me the knowledge needed to change my life.. thank you Hamza Ahmed
Hey Hamza, been watching you for a long time. Make a video on how to fight and how to stop bullies that can’t be stopped through yelling or telling the teacher or any other way.
Hamza you’re the best
Hamza, to be honest, these long unedited videos are much more valuable than your older videos. Everytime there is this type of videos made by you I make seeing it my priority.
Great video as always , well dome hamza ✅
Thanks a lot bro !
"Send me a DM if you're an attractive woman" what a g!💪🔥
Amazing Man! 👍🏻 How about Full Guide On Stoicism!! Being Emotionally strong 24 x 7
thanks hamza
This video is going to save my life. Going out and taking action TODAY
Thanks bro.
Keep up the good work I wish if I watched your channel before
thank you hamza
This Video is at the Perfect timing, I had a First meet up some days ago, i thought it was good and shii, i texted her again and been left on delivered for 8 Hours Now, so thank You like always hamza
it’s crazy how you upload such valuable information on the internet for completely free
Nice powerpoint presentation
Hamza, you're probably not gonna see this comment but I would like to thank you because, firstly you helped me, but my bestfriend was going through a breakup and (call me an asshole if you want ) I purposefully used that to get him in the gym and I am actively introducing self improvement tactics (cold approach, making money with me, ect.). Thank you and may God bless you soul.
The fact that it was completely uncut, sets status
Absolutely valuable guide bro, you help us all, God bless you Hamza bro.
I feel like a SPARTA after getting respect from HAMZA
MORE FULL GUIDES!!!!!!
3rd one is gold
That mustache is killing man! W new look
I'm getting addicted to these full guides
Thank you in advance❤
A very inspiring video for young men
GOATZA>>>>
long Life bro 😎
wow i wanted this video
Much needed , genuinely
Amazing video
Bro i'm so grateful for your videos and advices , I was on self improvement like last year and lost track, stopped some good habits, and you are putting me back on my feet right now. Thank you so much hamza
This is hazma best video top 3 breh lol
you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years".
That was a powerful quote or statement I heard from another guy, a dating coach, who gives advice to men, it's in regards to men getting better at just approaching or interacting with women. I just want to be sure I interpret it or have the right mindset and that is, men even have to risk getting labeled creepy or just even screw up and mess up interactions, that results in getting negative reactions from women as in the woman is uncomfortable from the man's presence, makes her feel uncomfortable As in its part of the journey of getting better, do I have the right mindset or not?
"It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc. The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward. This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS."
so is making mistakes socially with women, as in, getting labeled or perceived as creepy or weird when approaching, messing up interactions in which the woman was uncomfortable, is that part of the process of getting better? was the ever the case for you or guys you helped, knew?
Do i have the right mindset, right perspective or not?
You are on right track, don't worry! In order to get better in speaking with girls, you need to practice on, you can already guess, girls. So yes, you gonna screw it multiple times, I did too, I came out as social retard multiple times but everytime you screw up, see what you screwed up, think about it and try not to make same mistake again.
I believe raising or training animals that are otherwise difficult to discipline or train may bring insight on how to raise a child.
Especially raising a child to be on Self-Improvement.
I’m an animal lover, but I know they stink and trash houses and your life may not be suitable for having an animal.
But living with a farmer for a few months may bring insight how to raise your children in the future.
Cats and horses are a perfect example, cats don’t understand discipline. Meaning the best way to train them or raise them to do a desired behavior is through positive reinforcement. Dry Creek Wrangler trains horses that are difficult and stubborn, by always providing two options to give the horse a choice
The last tip about nervousness/excitement works because your adrenaline and noradrenaline circuits give the exact same response for both. The difference between the two is just the framing that your mind gives to the "release" of that circuit, but there's biologically no difference between the two. The more you know 👍🏼
How do you always make videos with precise accurate topics
1000hours plus of recording , reading books, etc. Also clean diet so zero brain fog
With all the shit going on with hamza on CZcams, this vid shows he still has the best intentions for us.
I still have a long way to go, but guys, if you can, get a job as a waiter in college/uni. It will 10x your skills cold approaching and speaking to women like it did for me. However, this video is straight facts and the last point is key
This was A absolute W guide but what was it about cold approaching?
I’d really like to see a full guide on how to stand up for yourself
I discovered your channel in May 2022. I am less awkward around men but I struggle with girls. I still have thoughts in my mind that I don't need to talk to girls because I'd rather focus on my hobbies like drawing and also God. I am also 22 and in college. I see girls I am attracted to in campus but too afraid to talk to them. I think it is because I lack confidence since I am skinny-fat 120 pounds and 5'6" I am also short and brown so I think that I am unattractive. I also feel like I have to self improve first and then talk to girls when I gain the confidence to do so. I still have a lot of work to do because I have no income and I am too anxious to deal with people and I need to overcome pmo. I did make a lot of progress compared to previous years when coming to my pmo 'addiction'.
I like the new ceo of testosterone style vids
New profile picture😍😍😍😍
Hey there. I have a few genuine questions regarding cold approach that I still struggle with and I often get mixed answers to.
- What do I do if a very attractive woman is let's say at the same bus stop with me but she has earphones in. Is it better to leave her alone since earphones often signal "leave me alone" or should I approach her in a respectful friendly way? She can still say no but if you don't do it you are most likely missing out on a great chance.
It's still hard to believe that women (generally speaking) like being cold approached by a strange man they don't know. Do you have any opinions to share on this?
15:23 another one to write in my "Hamza quotes" notebook...
I would probably be volunteering and writing (poems and maybe even books)
Hi broo I'm from INDIA ❤❤
5th year medical student here. Underwent varicoele surgery same as you a couple of weeks ago myself. Just wondering what the outcome (regarding spermogram, fertility etc) has been for you since living a healthy lifestyle including avoiding cancerogenic materials etc?
Go on the George Janko show, Hamza!
Love from India broo 🇮🇳💖
I don‘t know if it‘s just my personal development but I feel like Hamza‘s videos are getting a lot better recently than a few months ago.
THIS IS THE PATH HAMZA, DON'T FUCKING FAIL AGAIN.
I've got a similar Chad friend. I will copy him, I already did in a few ways, and it works really good.
Yesssiirrrrrr!!!💪🏽
next guide on how to win an argument or how to argue with dominance.
make a video about cold approach ?
Can you do one for last minute resistance and how to sleep with a girl..... like all those PUA strategies and stuff?
Love from Kerala India
Uff
Kattinaadhyanam cheyu, prethyejichu ath cheyyan thonnathirikumbol
Njanum
polayadi mwone
I think an important point to understand is: Choose a woman who chooses you.
I recently forced myself into liking a girl in my school, so that I could ”train the skill of asking girls out on dates.” I essentially wanted to get close with her and then ask her out. After a little bit of exchanged texts and conversations, it became clear she doesn’t like me. Her personality in general seemed very incompatible to mine from the get go. Even like the most intricate details like mannerisms, humor style and all that stuff (that’s already not considering values, long term goals, morals) of hers was drastically different to mine (not that that’s bad).
But I kept trudging through the snow, thinking “I gotta at least ask out one girl this year.”
Don’t do that. I think that’s stupid.
Hey Hamza, We need a guide on TESTOSTERONE as well big bro.
He already made a 2h guide on testosterone if you scroll down on his channel you will find it he's shirtless on the thumbnail
Hamza, you should make a full guide on being a good son.
Hamza could you try using black background with white text? when i watch it during night it's so bright hahaha
I second this
sleep at night
He knows what we young men needs
14:17 ->20:41 real thanks for the advice