positivity V's happiness
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- čas přidán 21. 07. 2017
- Being positive & light-hearted V's being happy are very different things and that's probably why I have often been misunderstood! I do believe in trying to keep a good attitude, especially in this world that is saturated by negativity,hostility & judgement.
And also, that ONE person can positively affect many others.
Obviously keeping a ‘good attitude’ can be hard -everybody has their shit, and it takes practice and valuable energy... energy DOES creates energy though.
If everybody made a conscious effort to be open and positive our lives could be immediately lighter. Home-life & Work-life would INSTANTLY improve. There would be more motivation and teamwork, increased productivity, better customer service, less stress and more relaxation...
Relationships would become more meaningful, people would feel less alone...
This was a weak video. There was so much more I could have said that I didn’t fully think through at the time. But keeping the sunny side up, when you can, benefits your whole psyche and everybody in your life. It’s one of the easiest ways to contribute to society 🙂
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"We all are suffering", so true.
Today I've been mourning the loss of Chester Bennington (Linkin Park), their music helped me emotionally vent a lot of pain growing up as a teenager.
You are an amazing beautiful person! I understand completely. I have been the same for as long as I can remember. ❤️
I know exactly what you mean, your words ring loudly to me when it comes to being misunderstood. When I'm feeling under a dark cloud people are shocked that I the joking happy go lucky person can have such feelings, 90% of my family understand me or try to at least but friends and co workers over the years have had a hard time getting their head around the agoraphobia. Its still a taboo subject saying you have a anxiety disorder, what you don't see kind of thing or if we're not bleeding we're not hurting. It's who I am to give all of myself to other and I know I don't leave much for myself but I can't help wanting to make others feel happy, pretty or just good about them self, let's face it doing good for others makes us feel good in turn. No matter how many times I'm told I am respected and liked by others I don't feel worthy of such compliments, I don't know how to like myself never mind love myself, no matter how many positive quotes I read they go over my head. There's only one thing in this life I know for sure I gave birth to four wonderful children and that's beyond my comprehension how I achieved such beauties, I don't know why I feel lonely most time or afraid of taking a walk go shopping or. I scream so loud in my head sometimes that Im afraid someone might hear it, I cry that I can't let it out and wish I could stand on a mounting top and scream everything out not knowing what I want to let. I feel guilty that I have have a good life and people that would do anything for me, not being able to truly express to myself or others why or how I feel is to much at times, yet when I write I can talk for bloody England how fu.cing ironic is that. Sorry I spat all that all over the place Yvonne love, it's lovely to see you again pretty lady it's always a pleasure. Take care hugs Margaret 😘
Im so glad you spilled that out to me. Seriously. The pain of carrying that inside is ferocious and needs to come out so badly,so regularly. seriously we should chat more on facebook.i would love to talk to you more,share what has helped me when there is a mountain in front of me that goes on for miles.
Totally get you on the giving all of yourself to others...I'm very like that..But have managed to curtail it and save it for my brother and my boyfriend.
Also hon,what you say about not being able to take compliments...I personally feel that is something crucial you HAVE TO commit to working on and changing. Positive quotes don't work at some levels. they make NO sense whatsoever because our anxieties stem from really dark places.
Also,an FYI i think it is so cool that you make such an impact over the years through comments alone. You have a broad scope to your personality. I would love for that to shine through *along with* your frustrations and fears and struggles. You so deserve it. Thank you so much for commenting as always. Your comments are always thought-provoking and helpful.
So much love to you 💖. Exactly what I was mentioning in my comment on your last video. Thank you for putting your thoughts out into the Universe 💕
thank YOU for taking the time to listen!!!
I totally feel you! Take care of yourself, glad to see that you're doing so well. ❤
Thanks a million girl!! :* xx
Pardon me for the lateness but anyhow this video is amazing. I too have appeared to be as happy as can be but despite that, I've been suffering. And I still do suffer from Anxiety at times.
Steve Flynn sending lots of positive energy your way :) thanks for the comment - I get u
I so understand what you say, when i was 23 i became very ill, so bad that i needed a wheelchair a service dog and homecare, a week after my diagnose i thought i can do two things i can go compete Angry or i can be myself How always have been, sociale caring and funny, a lot of people back then could not understand why i was so happy when i was so ill, and i always say it helps me, i am realy happy i can stil do the things that are important for me in my way, now i am 39 and still happy and a complete idiot acording my friemds 😉😂👍🏻
Sorry for my spelling i am from the netherlands so i am trying 😜
great story,great attitude!
Sending
and you from The Netherlands! :)
It's true that when you put out positive energy, you are giving to people. But what some may not realize is that when you are down in the darkness, and you *say* you are in darkness and share your suffering, you are *still* giving to people!!! Anyone who cares about you or cares about people in general will be heartened, and maybe even flattered, that you shared your inner experience with them. Good people thrive on honest, genuine connection and respond with empathy. Telling people that you're down, does not bring them down (unless they're bringing themselves down by being selfish or self-interested at that moment). Telling good people that you're down brings good people closer; it's OK if uncaring people leave your life. Over the last seven years I've written so many times how your sharing of your worst days is actually a positive inspiration. And 'tis. 'tis.
With people like you I had the will to keep going back then. Don't actually know how I made it. And made SENSE of the agony. And you know Ray,you're right. I need to remember that it's the decent,good people that are left. And for that I am SO lucky. That I can be fully REAL with nearly everybody I spend time with. It's such a luxury. It's also a skill that took VERY long to put in to practice! Also, I think good people draw inspiration from good people. And you certainly are one of those good people!! :) xxx
Aw, shucks, ma'am ~ blush ~ I'm honored. Bigly!
I think it's great if it's to genuinely make other people happy 😊 However I cant help myself being like this and sometimes I find it annoying 😂 I care far too much what other people think which can be damaging because not everyone is going to like me no matter how nice I am to them! My boyfriend used to tell me I always seem like the most happy positive person. Little did he know then 😂🙈
ha ha, lol at the last part :p You know hon, you can practice putting more warmth & compassion behind your smiles etc.i know that when i come across somebody who makes an effort to be nice to me it can lift me to no end.good energy rubs off. good energy neutralises self-doubt too.. :) but yeah. its all about balance and practice i guess. i do feel in general we need to be more attentive to the needs of the people around us..in the end it helps create a nicer environment :) less bitchiness,less judgement.... Xx Happy weekend btw
This video completely confused me. But I totally get what you are saying. And I feel the same way. There is a lot of sincerity and honesty in the message and from different points of view. I am going to watch this video a few more times to let it sink in. I think there are several ways to interpret the points. I mean this as a huge compliment. I have read all the comments some a few times and it's wonderful to see how many lives you have affected in a positive manor.
valued comment. cheers robert! :)
Thank you for replying! Love the Video as always.
Cheers.
Is it possible for fibro to prevent you from walking,I have fibromyalgia and nerve damage in my arm and my legs on and off don't want to move or the bottom of my feet burn so bad I can't stand and they swell up ,
what you describe is characteristic of nerve pain vs fibro. because you have nerve damage i wouldnt exercise without the guidance of a physiotherapist. fibro shouldnt hold you back from walking though