Asking Women About Male Income... What Is Enough? $650K?!
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- čas přidán 12. 05. 2024
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Chapters:
0:00 Intro
1:05 Ideal Partner Age?
4:20 How much do you want to contribute to household income?
7:10 Ideal Lifestyle (House, Kids, Car)
19:00 Ideal Income
22:40 Median Income
39:30 What Is Causing Women To Have Unrealistic Expectations?
34:00 Would You Marry A Man Who Makes Less Money Than You?
36:28 What Do You Think These Top Earning Men Want?
40:45 Thoughts After Hearing These Statistics? - Jak na to + styl
This was honestly unbelievable. Courtney we need to do a check back here in 10 years and see if these women got what they wanted.
I agree
That's what's missing from this world is follow up. There is a lot of TV and social media geared towards women, telling them what they want to hear, that makes them feel good. No one ever checks up later. It reminds me of when I was watching JPT question a girl who wanted a top dollar man bc she wanted a 200k ring. She had a dating coach (not a match maker) encouraging her in this. My first thought was "who is holding the dating coach accountable?". Which is the reality of the situation, there is no one holding these people accountable.
do you really think this is needed?
Even one year from now. Would be nice to see if this changes their perspectives in the long term
They'll be All alone saying men ain't sh*t, Where are all the Good men. Etc etc. They are Going to be the Next Wall Smashers at MACH 1
@@KleinmeisterPang lol, um YES
As a man, my ideal woman has to be making around 10mil a year, contributing 100% to the family income. She has to be loyal and sweet with me, she has to cook and do everything at home. She has to have enough time for raising the childern and to make me feel special every day.
I still want my freedom to spend time with other women and my friends.
😂
Slay king
That's the spirit. Good job you awesome clay flesh male human.
This is gold 😂
@@keithbarlow5624 Everything about this makes sense. I would also require her to at least have two PHD's in any given field and to be a non virgin.
Damn, im 38 & make 130k & these women make me feel like i flip burgers 😂
My advice? Fucking RUN! A real quality woman who likes you for you will come around. These women are way too young, naive, and haven't had reality hit them yet.
like Ebony K. Williams said: they would date you if you own the burger shop.
@quadoduece i know right 41 here 160k these girls silly
You don't make 60 s hour bro quit the 🧢
@@lamar3697 Riiiigggghhhhttt.
Remember: cooking dinner, and taking kids to the school, being sexually active, and not complaining about a life where you have hundreds of thousands of dollars to spend a year is 'an unrealistic wife'
Are these actual real people??
u do men also have unrelaistic expecatations
@@justaguywithapowerpolenope
@@justaguywithapowerpole Don't be fat and be loyal. "MeN hAvE uNrEaLiStIc ExPeCtAtIoNs"
These women look like models or something. I don’t think all women are wanting money to this extent, but women who want a lifestyle over 100k may become disappointed in the future.
@@peppapigthekiller7539 I don't think these women have model looks, they are all in the 4-8 out of 10 range. They are going to have to make some compromises.
I burst out laughing when Courtney asked the blonde girl to pick a more realistic car and she picked an F12 Ferrari
Yeah that was great, listed a bunch of Ferraris but then stated that she needs 120k/year.... hmmm something doesn't add up here 🤣
@@omnitravellerShe is so dumb on so many levels. Firstly, nobody making that kinda bank buys a Ferrari. Second, guys who CAN afford Ferraris usually don’t drive them very often. They’re not what you’d call practical daily drivers.
Yeah a car worth more than the house she mentioned...jesus.
and also a 4-5000 sqft house on 5 acres lmao
Hotwheels!!
These videos give incredible insight into how much social media falsely gives a bad perception of reality.
It’s insane.
There’s some truth to it. These days u can get wealthy on social media if u work hard
All these girls who believing in manifesting a husband are all single. Manifesting is fine but how much work or effort they are actually trying to put in to get a husband, the answer is probably none. Faith without works is dead. That's the reason most people who believe in this manifesting stuff are broke and single. You have to learn how to communicate and interact with men in a way which will make you attractive to men who are looking for relationships, but how many women make a effort to do that. Probably 2%. Men have become lazy daters due to easy access to PN and women have become lazy daters coz they are entitled to think they deserve it all just for existing. There are so many men chasing them and they have to not put in any effort. The result is more people will end up single
Wait she got a kid?!!! Where the baby daddy at 🤔 😜?
Absolutely
they don't want a man, they just want a lifestyle
I am in my 50’s and make over 300k, but my wife has been with me as my teammate and partner through this process when I did not make anything. Those 0.1% guys likely have a partner who helped them get there. This ladies want it given to them.
What about guys who make 7 figures a year there’s very few of them
@@bobhey4969 - and those dudes do not need to tie the knot. - Every day is a buffet of women.
are you a software engineer? curious
Yeah, if I can find a woman that understands the teammate part...she may well get more than a stupid prettywheels 2-seater car to flaunt. But these women seem to just want to cash in their birthright.
you dont make over 300k buddy
I love that someone who "cooks dinner" and "takes the kids to school everyday" are attributes of an "unrealistic wife"
Said the clown that wanted a sports car, huge house and a 0000.1% faithful man
And complain about it to you when you come home, how the wife's life is so hard. LOL
That is because they know they wouldn't be up for the task. They wouldn't cut it.
@@misterm5325
Exactly!! Anyone can be awesome if they got help on all aspects of life, baby-sitting, cooking, washing and cleaning teh home... many woman expect this up front... and if hard time come (and they WILL come) and they have to do those things they feel like they are the help or a "maid" and why would she cook for YOU, etc etc miserable!! Instead of feeling like a wife!! So yes, they would NOT cut it.
This is also why it is super important to STRESS test any relationship you might be thinking long term with. "Lose" all you money, "sell" the nice car, "lose" your job, take her to regular fast food places and PAY ATTENTION... STRESS TEST any relationship you think is solid, most times it is solid like a frozen lake, underneath is all soft and cold and watery, not solid, but it is all those things that kill you if you fall into it.
I guess I found an "unrealistic" wife! 🤣
... I guess she doesn't actually take the kids to school, but she gets them on the bus on time.
She even packs my lunch most days! 😱
Courtney: The top 1% at age 30 is 338,000.
Girl: I mean 338 is still okay.
😂😂😂 You can't make this up. She doesn't want to leave the 1%.
Now ask me why it is that she thinks she can get that.
@@grantwithers Most likely it’s has something to do with the depths of how much she truly cares about what other people think of her. It’s not as if that’s more destructive than other things people do in pursuit of a partner. But most people care too much. And nobody understands all of reality. There is way too much of it. Give people some grace and let them fail at their own pace sometimes.
Does she really think she's top 1% herself? People need to get out in the real world more.
@@grantwithers Why is it that she thinks she can get that?
@@Moneybee665 Insta and her having supposedly met 4 dudes "at that level" in her whole life (two of which at least were faking it I'm sure lol), and she thinks she can totally get those dudes because they were liek tots into her (wanted sex from her only obviously, but she cannot tell that in her mind). That's 4 in her whole life. None of whom were slightly interested in marrying her I'm quite sure.
Instagram and 'Real Housewives' shows, really made all these 'adults' lose sight of reality. Very unfortunate, delusion is a hell of a drug.
Great video Courtney! Bringing awareness to the types of some of these people is a great thing for all.
These are all facts. Materialism has been on a steep rise since the introduction of social media.
Wtf? 300K?! So the guy she marries is going have to be a plastic surgeon, stock broker, or mergers and acquisitions attorney. This is hilarious.
I'm a stock broker. But you can just call me by the second half of that word.
Most types of doctors actually make that kind of money in the US. A plastic surgeon probably makes 500-900K on average. But yes, the expectations are just skewed and crazy. If you want to marry top 1-5% earner, then you better be in the top 1-5% in the looks department as a woman.
So moral of the story, if you want this kind of guy, study hard and get into an ivy league / equivalent school
@@CuriousInquiror don't forget to be beautiful.
To make s 100k is 60 dollars a hour these chicks delusional
Reality is going to hit these women hard
If there 25+ and they still believe all this nonsense I think they are just a lose cause at this point.
“Reality is often disappointing” -Thanos
you got that right
I thought I was the only one that thought this, I'm really curious to see where they are 10 years from now
@@sebastiaanjohnson3358 Thats why the Passport Bros. Exist
As someone who grew up poor and now makes over 100k a year. Honestly I’m just grateful to have a place to lay my head every night and have reliable transportation. You can’t miss what you never had. These women standards are crazy. They’ll die alone
I felt this. I’m the same way. Grateful to be eating 3 meals everyday
going from broke to well-off is really the best journey. you get what you wanted when you were poor but you never forget (hopefully) the past struggles you went through to get to where you are when you got rich. very comfy
I guarantee they won’t die alone. They are very sought after. If they do, it will be because they divorced or are widows.
As someone who now makes over 200k a year, I'm grateful there are still women like my wife who still works and is nothing like any of these spoiled brats.
You don’t need anywhere near 100k to have a roof over your head and a car. It’s okay to admit you enjoy the finer things in life
I’m a 34 YO professional woman, with a household income of over 250K. I actually make more than my husband. We met when we were undergrad students, supported each other through all kinds of hardships and build our financial safety net (including passive income) together. I just cannot believe how spoiled and unaware of the world these women are. Girls! If you actually want so much money, travel, and a life of luxury go ahead and work for it! Don’t look for a sugar daddy. Believe me, respect, honor and independence priceless.
I'm a female wealth manager and I work with extremely wealthy people every day. Women that are married to rich men often scout for talent and do exactly what you did - marry while young, struggle, and build from there. Already rich men marry already rich women. They don't mess with broke women - they understand that even with the best prenup, marrying broke people is a speed ticket to being rinsed in divorced court. It's also doubtful that a broke woman would be able to roll with them and their social set. The vast majority of people marry folks in their income brackets. These women will probably end up with men on their level or above (if they themselves can rise above) and most men leaving messages marry the same. The dream of marrying someone significantly wealthier than them is just that - a dream
What’s yo job 250k household kinda low between 2 people
No offence to your parenting skills but you're daughters will EXACTLY be like this.
@@1bluegreen2 not yet!
@@bobhey4969 like I said, I’m not including passive income or properties (equity).
I've never once been in support of the red pill community in any way. But this makes me understand and almost appreciate why someone would take that route. I've buried myself for the last decade to make the money I do, and be in the shape that I am. Hearing these demand/desires paired with zero time spent speaking on what THEY would bring to the table is astounding.
Why not support the red pill? Stop living in denial
650k? Girl, just manifest it. That's all it takes. You just have to believe 🤣🤣
😂😂
Yeah... Sort of like earning that kind of income! Just "manifest it"! So easy! 🤣
My former female flatmate used to tell me how I can obtain everything I want through manifestation. She was trying to manifest a cool job, a boyfriend, money, and what have you. Needless to say, she got none of those and had to go back to her home country.
Not that hard to manifest. You just need a money printer. Oh wait you meant legally
They manifest til they realize selling feet pics is faster for money
Mercia is definitely the most realistic one with the mind set of ok to be the bread winner of up to 75%, average car/house, 127k income is difficult to find but is not unrealistic depending on area. And she give a lot of wiggle room. I think she say the most "it depends on the guy" out of them all.
Gab is also very genuine as well. But it sounds like she doesn't care much about having a family rather than a life partner to just vibe with.
The median income in the US in 2024 is $44k a year. Good luck with these unrealistic expectations. How about love, safety, companionship, trust, loyalty etc?
They're not even looking for financial stability for a family they're literally looking for somebody to just buy them everything without having to work for it
In other words they are looking for a man to leech off of.
I’m wondering if this is legit. A part of me thinks this video is just rage bait. Which if true, would be really discouraging for this channel.
Are you deaf some of them said they will go 50/50 - a lot do you men don’t even want women to work anyway like make your mind up
@@danjenkins21yes they want to exercise hypergamy in the best situation but they do understand to an extent that they may not be able to achieve that
I mean... back in times it wasn't chocking for the men to pay everything so why it would be now, it's just a very old school way of viewing a relationship. I just think it become delusional when they expect a rich guy for buying everything wanted and having few to zero things to do in return.
With 250K you'll get Stella's honesty and loyalness because it is "The most hard personality trait to find nowadays". What a bargain!
“Loyalness”
@@SP-1414 yeah, it's a word. We're just too dumb not knowing that.
"Loyalness" as long as u keep bringing the money lol
Yeah but shes still gonna post those thirsty pics on insta, cause who are you to tell her what she gets to do 😅
@@lasse4416 oh sorry dude you're missing the point. Am outtie
This is why im a single 28 year old dude making 130k and still dont feel like im making nearly enough in the dating scene lol
Don't get married, they'll take everything you have
@@chevysaregr8legit the best advice
Don't bother. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
As a male, the woman with the white shirt just made me pissed she wants to save her own money and spend her husband's??? And wants to make sure he makes 500k a year???
36:35 "I want a $1.5 mil car, a 4-bedroom house on 10 acres of land, and a passive income of at least $500k. But he cannot expect me to make dinner, wear lingerie, take the kids to school, or not complain -- those would be unrealistic expectations of me. My honesty and 'loyalness' should be enough."
Ah this is golden
Bro the audacity for that woman to expect those insane things and then start shit talking how men have unrealistic beauty expectations was absolutely wild!! I
The ridiculous value they put on their aging V. And the man gets the privilege of sleeping with the same crap woman his whole life, when she lets him. Great deal!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙉
And she is the less attractive of the bunch 😂
All I got from this is "I have never worked a day in my life." "I don't understand money." and lastly "I am extremely spoiled."
💯
As a woman it's just a bad look
It screams ignorant
I cant believe how delusional these women are 😬
40:20 Despite this woman having absurd expectations, this is the only thing you need to hear out of her mouth. She’s allowed to dream of crazy expectations but to sit there…and say you will always argue because it’s fun to you with a rat smirk on your face is the most nightmare type of woman there is. She doesnt want a man to love, she wants a man to control.
The key here, ideal = happiness. I like how all of the women basically tried to sell themselves. It’s like watching a sales pitch. They don’t lie when they tell you, all relationships are ran like a business. Nothing wrong with it, just most of this will lead to divorce.
The fact that one of these women wanted to have her own income, but have it to where only the mans income is used for the family seems genuinely crazy to me. As if she wants to have a family but keep her finances seperate from that just in case. Truly wild.
Its called manipulation and finessing men
The sentiment is not overly rare. "What's mine is mine, and what's yours is mine. "
Easily the biggest red flag just due to money being the #1 reason for divorce. She wants to have her cake and eat it too, and has zero accountability.
absolutely disgusting and narcissistic
DEEPLY selfish!
22:15 - "ideally my husband should be making $650k... I want someone to be able to match my hustle"
1) her baby daddy doesn't make $650k
2) A man that makes $650k doesn't want a working woman and especially doesn't want a working woman who has a kid.
when asked what the MEDIAN salary is of a man in his 30's, she says $250k. so either she doesn't know what MEDIAN means --OR-- she has no concept of salary because she is not salaried nor does she actually know anyone who is salaried.
The audacity to ask for over 200k in annual income but then call a woman who cooks in lingerie “unrealistic” lol
I'm 35 and earned $202,000 this year. Most years my normal earnings are around $170,000, but this was my highest earning year so far. My circle of friends are people with incomes around mine; some even double what I make. Speaking from an insider perspective from a social group that is in the 1-5% range, I can say that most people like me can see women like this coming from a mile away. These type of social climbing gold diggers never get the type of guy they want b/c they are users. People like me made our money b/c we have strong interpersonal skills and are good at reading people. Contrary to popular belief, most wealthy people are not famous, doctors, or lawyers. Most wealthy people are small business owners or investors. We make lots of money b/c we know how to deal with people. We see through women like this, that is why women with normal expectations end up getting rich guys. Men don't want to feel used the same as women don't want to feel used. Women like this are looking at men like a meal ticket not as a person.
I sincerely hope they change their mindset after finding out the truth. Money doesn't make you happy anyways; people do.
my father raised 7 of us with less then 40k a year and our mother stayed at home taking care of us. we use to share clothes my older brothers grow out of it younger once grow into it. life was amazing having alots of siblings always plying with each other and never feeling lonely nobody fucking with us . now we all grown up and have our own families my fathers has 29 grand kids soon great grand kids.
I'malmighty the lord of the earth
You are very correct. How do you gain these interpersonal skills and skills to read people? I feel like this is what’s holding me back in life, is my inability to be very good socially.
Exactly! I work at a fortune 10 bank and make good money, but I’m surrounded by far wealthier people. Most married men married their high school or college girlfriends. Others found women through their family social circle to weed out any freeloaders. Marriage for me though is out of question, and if I ever consider it, there’d have to be a prenup put in my place, and several offshore trusts lol.
100%. I'm up there as well. the EQ and IQ required to perform at that level in a regular, non-entertainment industry role is also useful in your personal life. Anecdotally, most my peers from business school that are married met their SO before or at B-school OR are happily single.
What ? Doctors , Lawyers and people in tech do make 6 figures
Don't they ? What am I missing
Social media has destroyed these women’s perception of earned income. That woman with a KID said she wants a man that makes 650k…with a KID in tow. A man making that much money will have options far greater than this lady and she thinks SHE will get chosen😂
They don’t have the slightest idea of supply and demand which is why they are dead serious when putting forwards these demands. They are in for a rude awakening.
Maybe she should look in Egypt
DE NIIIIIILE
I came here to say exactly this. I make $105K in a part of the country where that’s good money which will take you pretty far. I’m 39 and would love to meet the woman I’m gonna marry. But there’s no way in Hell I’m gonna pursue a woman in her late 20s with a KID from some other relationship who says she’s not ready to have any of MY kids and needs me to make 500K a year. She’s living in fucking fantasy land.
Exactly smh
@@jamesphillips4599 Exactly. What’s even crazier is when we tell this to these women, they actually believe WE’RE the crazy ones. It’s like expecting a unicorn man that makes $650k/yr to eat Spam dinner every night for the rest of his life and then saying he’s not a real man and insecure if he refuses.
I think this shows how social media influences our expectations, not only for women. Because I see that men also and I can't exclude myself, that we look for a above average good looking women when the reality is we won't get those womens and we simp. This is the equivalent of what we're seeing with women. They want a high status men and we want a beautiful, caring, kind, sweet and innocent women.
Always great content Courtney and always very impartial. Thank you
This is a great video, the reality check is important for everyone to understand... Whats most important to me is working as a team towards shared visions and goals, allowing each other to grow while creating positive memories. It's about creating the life together...
Yes and Yes
Single mom that expects a man to make $650,000 a year. Yeah, that's a keeper -- I'm shocked she is still single 😆
And she said she will always argue and voice her opinions and expects her man to be monogamous on top of that guy accepting her with a kid already. If that’s not delusional then idk what is 🤣
Imagine the entitlement. I'd be embarrassed to get on camera speaking that nonsense. She nukes her own value bringing a kid into a relationship and she wants the man to make that kind of money? 😆🤣😂
She's gonna be lucky to even get a second date once the man finds out about the kid let alone a man anywhere near that income bracket.
Don't forget she said she would contribute 40% of that $650k. By doing what exactly? 🤔
Crazy part is she dont even look 24. I thought she was 30-32
@@Phoenix_cataclysm_in_2040Only fans lol
Women care about a man’s future just like a man cares about a woman’s past.
Accurate lol
Facts 💯💯💯 facts 💯💯💯💯💯 hella facts 🏆 🏅 🎀 and a sash bro
Accurate quote from Entrepreneurs in Cars but not the full story. The past and future are both important considerations but the present motivation and values of a person is by far the most important factor.
This is a true statement; I’ll borrow your quote
Everyone has a past.. male ego applauds a man sleeping with lots of women… men care about her looks and age then personality
Great interview and overall good questions! I laughed my ass off all the way through, the sheer audacity and shamelessness of some of these people, man. Social media distorted reality for a lot of people
The face they all have when hearing the stats of men earning is pure joy to me. Like did you think it’s so easy to make that much money??😂
This is some of the most discouraging content on CZcams for single men. Thanks Courtney
I'm not sure how she selected these women but they aren't normal.
@@PhillipStewartYYZ naw bro, this is the new normal. Trust me. I’ve been single for 7 years…
Not “discouraging” but just a reminder to be weary of these types of hoes
How is this discouraging for single men? I'd imagine a number of those men went and got a passport and have flights booked thanks to this video.
@@TJ347 all power to those dorks
These interviews really put into perspective why we are living through an epidemic of older, unmarried, childless women...
And incel men. Join the blackpill that’s where all of us are heading
YEP !!!
It’s the other way around love. Women are happy to be single if their needs aren’t being met.
@c gc this whole time I thought those needs were a caring husband/father, home, food on the table...apparently women's "needs" are a Ferrari, 300k, and frequent vacations to Europe.
I'm glad that they are happy to be single as long as those "needs" go unmet but think they may be happier with more meaningful needs in the first place
@@cgohoh let's not go there, men are happy to settle.. women WILL EVENTUALLY SETTLE FOR LESS if they ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO.. that's the difference so idk if that can be more safely said.. I really wish I could believe that but I can't..
I saw another video on this subject in which a woman expressed her delusion that 60% of American men earn six figures. And another where a group of girls settled on 9-10% as the percentage of men they thought owned a yacht. I have no idea how anyone can get that utterly divorced from reality.
Just over from the bachelor site. Im crying here in UK. You handled it so well.😮
"I want a million dollar car"
"Okay, temper your expectations a bit"
"I'll settle for a $400K Ferrari"
What planet do these women live on? 🤣😅🤣
This is what happens when Instagram is your life.
@@wingedhussar5528 You don't know what live rich children have and you shouldn't judge their expectations based on your limitations.
this really was in that video? Good heavens this must be much worse than I thought. I dont watch these shallow wahmen anymore.... just browsing comments.
@@arthurmorgan2906 it's @ 8:00
@@dwings21 facepalm... you werent kidding... no self reflection... in my opinion this is the fault of tons of male simps that give these broads lot of free attention and then they think they deserve the best from the best... crazy... Im out of words.
Hey Courtney, please do a video with these ladies asking them what exactly THEY bring to a relationship/marriage. We're heard a lot about what they want most in a man. I'm dying to know what these girls think they're offering 😂😂
Courtney please do this ^
Fresh and Fit has done vids like that and all the women say something stupid like emotional support, as if they wouldn't jump ship if the guy gets laid off or hours cut haha
Spicy
Haven’t you heard that that is a “toxic” question that you aren’t allowed to ask? Although it should be noted that it is a rhetorical question; if you are asking it, you pretty much know the answer already
Pre-owned 🐱
When you think about it, things actually balance themselves out pretty nicely. If women have these income expectations, then me, as an easygoing man with below-average income who prefers living his life over wasting it chasing money, will never have to deal with women like this because my income alone filters them out. Well, actually the fact that they even have a requirement on what a man's income should be filters them out. What percentage of men even think about stuff like that, I wonder? How much money does my ideal gf have to make? Never thought about it.
As much as men get criticised for just going after a pretty face, some of these women show themselves as no less superficial, just in a worse way. A good looking woman doesn't necessarily have to mean she has to be pretty by nature. It can also just mean she's healthy, fit, takes good care of herself, she puts effort into her well-being so it's more realistic to expect she will be the same in the relationship. Caring, invested, dedicated to herself and her partner. Meanwhile for some of these women, a man's attractive quality boils down to "how little do I have to do to have my dream lifestyle provided for me by someone else"? Which is essentially just "how much can I exploit my role as a woman to drain a man's account dry for my own benefit"? A true show of love.
Ladies, the moment a man's income even becomes a factor in who you choose as a partner, you've already fucked up. Or, I should say, you've already been fucked up by external influences telling you that's ok. The princess mentality needs to exterminated like the pest it is.
I love the moments when reality sets in with these women.
I make around 250K at the age of 34. I had to grind my ass off to get to where I currently stand. There's no way in hell I would ever even remotely consider of spending the rest of my life with women this oblivious from reality and entitled.
U GO KING !!
Way to go, mate!
this guy is fucking balling out
Well deserved, brother
Poppin bottles
This video has made me think of the line 'women don't care about your struggles. They stay at the finish line and pick the winners' SO much.
Red pill 💊! Coach Rich
unfortunate that you had so little actual experience with women in life that a single video that presents a bunch of cherry-picked CEO's daughters that never had to work a day in their lives makes you think that women as a group are lazy and evil opportunists.
says much more about you and the people who liked your comment than about any woman
@@roolyfe They all quoted me and the gang at TRP, but whatever.
@@realjoedee 👌🏿
@@roolyfe its our own fault for staying out of the public eye for so long. But I and 2 others created TRP on reddit. A fair amount of the sidebar was my doing.
"Imagine being a 5 at best, and wanting a guy who makes 650k and is ok with looking at a 5 who also already has a kid. Thats the ultimate delusion."
Yeah I didn't see any 10s
@@alexMendoza-wl5oj Didn't see any 7's....
Lol with the exception of a widow it's advisable to stay away from single parents. Yes I agree pure delusion, they chose the wrong partner and now wants someone else to clean the mess up. No thanks from this guy I'll enjoy my piles of money and singleness before doing any of that.
@@Notme-tq4xsdidn't even see a 6
Guess my standards are lower, I don't see any below a 7. Still could never see myself with any of them given their ideals.
Thank you Courtney Ryan, this video is one of your best.
People ask me why I'm so picky with the girls I go out with. This is exactly why. I aint letting my 200k a year go to waste for someone else.
"I mean, 338 is still OK." Good to know that the top 1% is still just OK for this girl
People who make 338k date people like them. They rarely go out of their own social class.
Don’t forget she’s already a single mom
@@theskyizblue2day431 who is?
Solid 6 thinks she's gigastacy
@@grantwithers She is 5-10 years away from a TikTok breakdown, asking WHERE ALL THE REAL MEN ARE?????
"If your wife can spend more money, you have to make more money...." Allow me to introduce another POV. You could instead, get a new wife! 🤣
The "cancelation charges" can bankrupt a man.
@@tailgunner2 Yup. Those "hidden" fees are dangerous.
ahahaha thank you
Test them before you get serious.
@@tailgunner2 absolutely agree - personal experience - it’s 💩 out there for men
I loved the introspection at the end because at first none of the women interviewed realized that the 1% man is also going to be choosy. This sheds a lot of light on why some women are offended by the question of “what do you bring to the table”, because they dont realize its only asked because it wasnt self evident. What does her “presence” offer that isn’t interchangeable, assuming that’s complementary or sought after on its own at all.
I would like a lot more videos like this one. The second half was truly enjoyable.
This woman actually thought the average income for a 37 year old in 250k....
This is an adult woman, who votes, with opinions about the world, and she misses this by 5x?
daddies girl, daddies money, never steps out of her little bubble, considers it a waste of time.
More than 5x. The median salary per capita in America is about 35k.
That’s the scary point; her vote counts as much as yours
To be fair, they vote but they're very few in numbers anyway.
We know now that she voted for this disaster we are currently in.
*"So my expectations are not realistic."*
*"If your wife spends more than you make, you gotta make more money."*
The second one is really eye-opening because it's always what I've felt a lot of women believe when it comes to money in a relationship. Frivolous spending just because and that means the man should just magically find another way to make more money instead of the woman learning how to be more financially fiscal and responsible.
Capitalist brain rot. They’re SUCH good, obedient consumers, and they’re proud of it.
Spot on. I think there are many women who have this mentality.
@@AlexanderSkinnerVids older generations grew up also in capitalism but many of them are more fiscally responsible. this is more like a single child syndrome of narcisism. they didnt have to share with multiple of siblings and this mentality created this world view.
@@CourtneyRyan the sad part is, I come from a culture where women used to be house wives and while that is changing, they still generally are the finance ministers of most households. They understand how much their partner or they themself if they are working, work hard for the money and are more responsible than the males in fact.
These videos came as a massive shock and sometimes make me wonder if anyone serious about relationships can find a decent understanding partner these days. Romance can be fickle and short lasting but couples who understand and accept each other and motivate each other to be better and happy last longer than materialistic ones
For real. I make pretty good money now, at 42, but the idea of men simply being able to manifest a great, REALLY high paying job, where he's also able to spend a lot of time with his wife and kids, is not realistic.
If we use this standard in the UK (which is true for many women in the UK as well), especially around Greater London area, so, the criteria comes down to:
4000 - 5000 sq feet area home: costs upwards of £1.2 million (mortgage for 25 years)
3 children: upwards of £300 per child (if public schooling) / upwards of £6,250 per child (if private schooling)
An entry level luxury sedan/estate car (Merchandise/BMW/Audi): upwards of £85,000
2 Holidays abroad: ~£4,000 per trip for the family
(And several of these women don't want to contribute to the household income if they are stay-at-home mum)
So, guys in the UK, I hope your monthly salary is upwards of £12,500 per month after tax or a salary upwards of £150,000 after tax per year. This would mean, you guys have to have a salary upward of more than £218,043 per year before tax.
As per Office for National Statistics (ONS) in the UK, the top 1% of earners (including men and women) in the UK typically earn above £150,000 per year. Therefore, someone earning around £218,043 per year would fall within the higher up of the top 1% earners in the UK.
So, guys in the UK, I hope you start making that extra cash on the side (maybe try becoming a drug dealer or OnlyFans Marketing Agent - not condoning these hustles though) to be able to attract such women in your life as a wife.
I make $230K at 28 and it took so much sacrifice, school and rejections to get here. There's no way in hell I'd squander my money away with women like this.
I'm in my early 40s and just got to $450k per annum, and even with the age difference incentive I still wouldn't want a woman like these spending my hard earned money, it's litterally taken decades of sacrifice to get to this level of income, and they come along thinking it's the median income, and buying her a Mercedes-Benz is just expected rather than greatly appreciated.
I've also noticed women like this constantly expect lavish dining experiences or nights out when all I really want is a home cooked dinner and some peace.
They don't understand that even if you've managed to reduce your hours, the stress of work obligations is still very real, and the energy isn't there to chase pointless drama in a club.
Doing well bro, proud of you!
So what kind of woman would make the grade? Self made fashion icon? Or also an old money girl that just wants to be a mom in the city?
Thank you! Honestly, just a beautiful modest girl who would stay at home to raise a family and work on any side projects she's passionate about. Haven't found her yet.@@Cloxxki
@@Playboysmurf1dream on. People with 450.000 per don't sleep on youtube
Nevermind u did
Let my bloodline cease to exist If I had a daughter like these girls
It`s a 50/50 chance ;)
These are all spoiled brats, unless you’re very wealthy you won’t need to worry about it
@@aaaa-xf3hx NAW, NAW WHEN I get rich my daughter will not be a spoiled brat she gonna have to earn things just like my son
@@aaaa-xf3hx So.... a single mom is a spoiled brat?
😂
It's crazy how once they hear the median incomes their response is always "that's crazy" or "that's insane". By definition, no it's not because that's what the median is. A median is NOT insane otherwise it wouldn't be a median. Their perception of money is what is insane.
It may still take them many years and many hits to finally understand it.
Slow learners, not by nature, but by nurture. When you grow up coddled then graduate to thirsty idiots kissing their ass on instagram, you don’t see reality. You love in a fantasy world.
I bet that instead of adjusting their expectations for what they should accept from a man, they will just end up resenting and looking down on the kind of men that they deem regular.
Well said!
@@raularango3539 You are 100% correct.
Best podcast ever! Extremely interesting to listen to as a man. Don’t know about my commuter car being a Ferrari, but what a great format for a discussion.😊
“Let’s pick women that are marginally attractive to show how even they have unrealistic expectations.”
I think we all had a collective heart attack when she said 650.
I think we all had a laugh.
I’m currently on the heart transplant waiting list
What delusion do they live in 💀
I had a bigger heart attack at 5 acres. What the hell do you need 200,000 square feet for? That's 100x bigger than a COMFORTABLE middle-class home.
Nah, I just laughed and said good luck. Lol
The last time I had unrealistic expectations like that was when I was 8 years old.
women are perpetual children...
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Indeed.
$300K income19:00 19:33
“Unrealistic wife”36:38
"If your wife can spend more money than you make you need to make more money."
You do realize that I can actually visualize how I, personally, could be able to spend $19.4 trillion right? How much you can spend is irrelevant, in fact it actually speaks volumes about these women's characters--negatively. I'd want to be with a woman who believes in God and thinks of things like wanting our money to go to charities, or at the very least IT'S FOR MY CHILDREN NOT YOU. Jesus. That outright disqualifies most of these women. The fundamental fact is that the whole reason a man wants to make 100k a year is literally to PROVIDE FOR HIS CHILDREN. The overgrown girls that want a man to spend 100k on them and spoil them are too selfish and immature to really be raising children. Like I can at least understand the ones that think "we need 100k to put our children through school and buy them nice things" but any woman who seriously believes life is about taking selfies on some yacht off the coast of Ibiza like an instagram prostitute is delusional.
Just remember that there are software engineers that make 200k that cant get laid while broke musicians crush it.
True!
it’s all about the title/lifestyle brother… women are obsessed with labels
And the reason is simple, they're more handsome so its not about money, its all about appearance.
You have no idea how much women don't care spending money to go out with these handsome boys.
The conditions are always put to inferior genetics males, and remember average face today equals The New Ugly
Groupies think the musician is going to make it some day.
Dual mating strategy in a nutshell...The software engineer will finally become interesting if she is a single mother of hot musicians offspring🤦♂
I find it fascinating that we hear I want 100k, 150k, 200k, 600k, then you give them facts and all of a sudden it changes to i'll take 50k if I love them. Its almost like they have no idea what they want. EDIT I'd love to see a similar series but with women in mid to upper 30's or 40s for comparison sake.
That would be interesting indeed. Reminds me of a documentary called "7 Up" (or something along those lines) that interviewed a specific handful of 7 year old children in the Britain in the 60s and checked in on them every 7 years to see what their life was like and how they changed. One of the most fascinating documentaries I've ever seen. The best participant story was one woman who was all anti-establishment punk vibes as a teenager and then when we see her at about 30 years old she's a quintessential housewife 😂 then 7 years later she's divorced 😔. I haven't seen it in years but I recall that when the people reach their 50s/60s most of them had families and were content and just simply pleased with life. I highly recommend the documentary!
Yeah I would love if Courtney can gather women in their 30/40s and see their perspective and “acceptance” on these statistics
This^^^^
They have no concept of how much money any of this is. Numbers whooping them up
Once they get past a certain age the standards change dramatically
Someone please make a tv show based on these interviews. I haven't laughed like this in years.
It was great to hear and see you wake them up a bit!
At 26 , I made 120k this year. But, I worked hard since 18 years old. No travel , no party lifestyle, no clothes, and pure frugal living. Now, why the hell would I settle down for a girl with a princess mentality? I’ll continue to grind and if the right one comes along, then that will be fine.
Same making that 150 was the hardest thing I ever did at 25. Why would I share with some lazy girl? I grew up in a family that went thru the great depression. Non of my elderly women relatives were stay at home moms. They worked hard along with their husbands and it wasnt an expectation. It was necessary for them to work.
Just focus on finding someone who shares your values.
But why is it that everyone that’s successful talks about how hard they worked when it’s plain the number of opportunities are limited? There are tons of men who work hard that are around the median. Isn’t this part of the problem? We have to recognize that people that make the median aren’t necessarily lazy. Happiness tied to excessive money for most people.
@@stevebagley3436 working hard is a common cognitive perception bias. It's how you are working hard and where it is leading you too. This is where my generation gets their expected salary opinion wrong. I know lots of people that "work hard" but do not push that extra mile to take more responsibility and risk. No one spoon fed me my opportunities and I never had a mentor or a rich father to guide me. I was once a carpenter, I learned quickly you can only be payed so much for "hard work". There are lots of people that work hard but do not want more. It is where and how you take risks that lead working hard to something.
@@jonr9574 I agree with this. The part I don’t agree with is the idea of “my experiences apply to everyone” that some others have expressed in various forums. My biggest opportunity was a lucky break. I do agree there’s a price to pay for wealth and you can decide whether to pay that price. It’s just not the same price for everyone. There are about 165M people in the labor force and part of your journey will be what you were exposed to along the way. Do you agree with that, Jon?
I’m a lawyer (net worth over 7 figures multiple times over).
A woman who asks me any questions about that on the first or second date is an absolute nope. You want expensive stuff? Get yourself out there and earn it, like I did
Amen brother. Lot of “men” (pussies to me) don’t get that
Yessir. We dont entertaint these goldiggers
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Not Heroes wear cape
Unless you go on a date in a T shirt or pick her up in a Honda and never tell her about your work. I think they will take a good guess on howucb you make.
It's wild their looks are not even remotely worth that money, and the one that was actually level-headed was the cutest one.
“Everything so expensive nowadays”. Yeah, baby…your dreams are.
Not only do you need to be a top 1% earner, it needs to be passive income! Unbelievable!
Don't forget being over 6' and attractive.
@@elijahwise3060 Can’t forget that lol
"I'd marry a guy making less than me as long as the money I make is enough to sustain a family... As a housewife!"
Wut?!
gotta be jesus himself at this point lol
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Please - ladies, keep up these lifestyle demands, expectations, and entitlements!
Based on my experience, most guys making $500k+ per year are not getting married anytime soon. It’s just too risky and the deck (divorce laws) are stacked against them. Stay safe out there!
You just might be the guy to ask. Is a South Dakota Trust (DAPT), established prior to the marriage (trying to avoid a claim of fraudulent conveyance), effective to protect against the financial risk of divorce. Specifically since alimony and child support are not exception creditors in South Dakota? Or would trying to structure yourself like this to avoid potential financial liability be pointless?
You’re literally a divorce lawyer, you’re untrustworthy.
"Based on my experience, most guys making $500k+ per year are not getting married anytime soon."
Based men.
@@JonniMartini "Or would trying to structure yourself like this to avoid potential financial liability be pointless?"
Just say no to marriage till the laws change if youve got $$$ ESPECIALLY if the girl knows you have $$$.
@@grantwithers He said “based on my experience” meaning it’s complete bs. He wants it to be true.
"I'm an uneducated, unemployed, single mom... but my husband must earn at least $650,000/year."
This is extremely disturbing.
She will be single mom forever.
I have a video idea! Can you do one where you interview like 6-10 women where some of them are married (we don’t know who in the beginning so maybe if they are comfortable taking their rings off or only filming neck up) and when you ask the questions about “ideal” scenarios, the women who are married describe their husbands while the other women describe their ideal and at the end revel who’s married and who’s not.
This is equivalent of a guy wanting a supermodel who’s going to keep her body in shape all her life, not cheat, be a great mom, cook and clean and not bury the guy in debt. Good luck.
Good point
at least 3 of these women are literally paid models so I'm not sure why this is being paraded around as if these are typical women with typical expectations.
@@tristn9 They sure as hell dont look like it. Plus they're gonna hit the wall in like 5 years anyway, clock is ticking for them.
@@BlightFilms lmao tell me youre gay without telling me youre gay. They are so conventionally attractive its actually beyond subjectivity - so unless you're into men you're just coping!
@@tristn9 If you think most of these women are model tier I'm sorry bro but you're a pathetic simp. Only two of these women are 8/10, and that's pushing it.
Question for each:
1. Where did you grow up?
2. What did your father do for a living?
3. Do you have a college degree and if so what was your major?
4. You currently work a job and if so which job?
Very curious about the answers to these questions.
1. Venezuela
2. My mom was an oil engineer
3. Yes. Bachelors in HR management
4. I am recruiter :)
And no student loans
1. New Zealand
2. mum- civil engineer, dad- chemical engineer
3. Currently dentistry student
When Mercia said she worked in Stem her expectations made sense. She works in a leading field of science starting $55K per year and I think she is under the impression she's making entry level income.
@@mariecoheng ''Venezuela'' you already kinda lost when it comes to money, at least when it comes to head starts (No offense intended, I'm Venezuelan myself). I really hope you're being successful now.
A black single mother wanting to marry a man making $650k is less likely than me, a 56 year old white male making an NBA roster.
Thankyou for making this video. This does not motivate me to try and make more. I want to make the best, most fulfilling life I can. That was my goal before and shall remain after. I hope I find a partner who shares those goals, if not so be it. Good luck to all others on that path. 💪
- Stella "Yeah, I’d love a $1.5 mill Pagani"
- Courtney "Maybe something a little more obtainable?"
- Stella "Ok, a $400k Ferrari would be nice"
This with a 3-4bedroom house with a garage and a nice backyard. Oh, and the man’s gonna have to foot the bill since Stella here wants to be a stay at home mom.
Man, being single is a blessing these days 😂
A $3+ mill Pagani... like that's not even the top 0.01%, that's billionaire money. Those are the people who have long wikipedia entries and articles written about them titled "richest people on earth".
Not to mention a 5 acre lot. I live on a 0.95 acre lot and it’s more than enough yard work for me to keep.
@@jazzyjake99 I am pretty sure she also wants 5-6 mexican immigrants to do the yard work for her!
@@jazzyjake99 the 5 acre thing killed me. Do these people have no concept of overpopulation? 8 billion people and these selfish broads think privatizing 5 whole acres for themselves is something sane people do???
All in a terminal economy thats on downward spiral.
This was a surreal experience. I've gone from being unable to look away in disbelief (like a fatal car crash), to exhausted and depressed 47 minutes later. I'm VERY happy to be single, and these videos are the booster shots that maintain my immunity from seductive eyes and curves.
Indeed. Women are the greatest con ever perpetrated on mankind.
Seduce you with the curves etc, and then soon you'll find out what those sexy curves are really for, when they become...
utilitarian.
Bait & Switch.
I just hope this ideology is confined to the big city. Because this is insane…
You’re just not rich enough to get hot women. Adjust your expectations as you want them to adjust theirs.
Don't worry dude, reality will punch these spoiled brats very soon. I really wonder like, where did these women life to come up with that BS. Just insane.
@@justbite6355 The city. Reinforces to me the need to have concrete in your wheatmix.
3.5m Pegani - realistic
A Woman in a bikini cooking - unrealistic
This shit is hilarious
Don't forget her "down to Earth" alternative of a Ferrari 🙄🙄
Lmao
@@canman87 that made me laugh. I was expecting her to say range rover or a beemer.
Instead of a multi million dollar car, she's happy with an half a million dollar car.
truth 🤣
@@Montasir125 That makes her reasonable and down to earth.
And by reasonable I mean compared to her peers. And by down to earth I mean on the peak of a mountain where her head is in the clouds.
this is why men would rather have a computer transactional relationship with women.
This video is fire! Im glad Courtney is doing these interviews
Wow. These women are all still young, they have no idea what’s coming and what real life is like. In a perfect world Courtney will interview them in 10-15 years from now and rewatch these interviews with them.
Idk a lot of these women are pushing 30 and at that age you should probably know that expecting 250k+ is extremely unrealistic.
They will all adjust though. Life rarely hits you with all the shocks at once - they tend to come in dribs and drabs and you adjust. Being young is about having dreams, and time inevitably takes care of dreams, even the ones that come true.
Courtney please do this
IMHO They aren’t that young. Fertility is already dropping and will begin to crater when they hit 35. Facts, science -they are clueless.
Problem is they won't have a chance getting an average man in 10-15 years that will manage to get them pregnant and also be providers. These are average girls, not 7 to 8s. Men above 40 will not date average girls in their 35s unless they are sub average.
I make $60k a year and I've traveled to 8 countries in 6 years. I think the issue is that these women, and many others including men, don't understand how to budget or they don't want to. And I'm shocked that not a single one of these women said that money wasn't everything and the relationship was more important when it came to an ideal relationship.
My ideal relationship and life is to be with a woman who isn't looking for me to solve her problems, and wants me to be a part of her life, not BE her life.
Exactly, and it really depends on where you live that can effect your salary cap. Unless you live somewhere out west like California, the average salary here in the Midwest is far less than the numbers these women were throwing out. It's just not realistic for most men to be making "650k". Even 100k is good where I'm from. I just don't think modern women have the slightest clue of realistic salaries. I'd like to know why they expect this kind of money? They must be uneducated on the reality of it all.
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No, you're wrong LOL. It's not about a budget or anything. It's simply that these women are DELUSIONAL. Absolute delusion... The sole fact that they even THINK that the medium salary is 60K....
Nah the issue is that they want WAY more trips than that within 6 years, they want to see the whole planet by then.
Same here bro. I traveled for a year on 30k of savings but they wouldn’t travel the way I do. And it’s not like I’m living in poverty on the road I am just not traveling bougie
As someone who is always trying to understand everyone's perspective and spread truth, I appreciate you doing the work with these videos Courtney
This was great conversation
Women like this is precisely why successful men chose to be single. Women like this can be easily rented without the headache of hearing "Buy me this! Buy me that!" or "You need to make more money." I go to sleep alone, in my own bed, and always smile after I close my eyes.
Bingo. I’m 32, I don’t want kids. I like dating but I have zero intention of getting married. I don’t even care about successful in a career. Success to me is being happy and healthy, not whether I can take care of a woman financially lol
@@3WordsCollector word
And when these men do this they can retire early and live their lives in peace.
@@3WordsCollector Sounds like you’re on the right track. Keep healthy, that’s one of the best habits you can have. Try to eat well, don’t smoke, get some exercise and stay away from the reefer. You’ll live happy and forever,
Settle down champ.
Stella is the perfect example of the modern woman ; she looks good, but not great, but in her mind she must think she's the hottest thing to walk this earth with those expectations
yeah she's between 6 and 7 and wants a 10 man. Hilarious!
A lot of women take the quote "You are the most precious person in the world. Believe in yourself." and as once as they take a little validation over social networks, they think they are the most valuable women and deserve the top men....
According to her Instagram, she works for a Land Rover dealer. Seeing rich people (or people who appear to be rich) on a daily basis at her job has given her a skewed view of what the economic reality is like in the general population.
@@angelnedyalkov7420 It is a really sad reality.
@@Robotlien it`s getting worse
10 years from now there are going to be a lot of tear filled tiktok videos about "where are all the good men out"?!
4000 to 5000 sq ft home is big. Most regular people will never live in a house this big
In talking to young women, I've learned many of them don't have any clue about the subject of money. I had a girl tell me "5 million isn't a lot of money. How would you ever live on that?"
So many people have no concept of money 😭 it’s scary
WHAT……THE…..FUCK
5 million isn't alot, we live a world that has limitless possibilities, think bigger
@@dualmassot a limit for you. Breaking the speed of light while having mass. Actually no, at least 20 tons of WEIGHT with 1G.
Actually no clue about much of anything - money, relationship, world, politics, being a wife and mother, hard work - and the 6’s OMG - idiotic.
The most depressing part about this is, I'm old enough to remember what life and dating was like before social media was common.
Way waayyyyy better before social media. I'd say that post MySpace dating only got worse.
I agree with you, it's just that social media has integrated an image of unrealistic expectations
That is a problem. Can't have you talking like that. Sounds like you are due for a vax booster.
@@taliesinhalliday i agree with you, but those are celebrities, moreover, its not just gold diggers, women have some sort of unrealistic expectations towards men because of social media
I'm old enough to remember when a girl was happy when you took her to the movies and bought her a drink and some popcorn. And the guy was happy she went with him.
There's a lot of spoiled people in the world today.
The fact that this woman said her ideal man needs to bring in 650k a year and couldn’t do simple math hurt my soul. 40/50 split 🤦🏾♂️
I would love to see a video on what rich men expect from their wives