4 Steps To Setting Boundaries With Toxic People & Narcissists
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- čas přidán 19. 07. 2022
- Trying to set boundaries with unhealthy, toxic, and narcissistic people can leave you confused, abused, and tormented.
They’ll trigger you and then offload their own trauma onto you to maintain their false and delusional narrative, pushing back and smashing any boundary you try to set up.
Then your emotions will go into a tailspin, and just like that, they’ve managed to make YOU look like the one with the problem when all you really wanted was to create a safe, healthy, and sane space for yourself.
In today’s Thriver TV episode, I take you through the four steps to firmly and absolutely set boundaries with any toxic person in your life. By the end of the video, you will know how to reverse the damage in your life so you can start living the glory of your life. Watch now!
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I don't care how upset I may get by certain people, Mel always brings me back and grounds me. Her Thriver class is for anyone who has to deal with toxic people or narcissists and they are everywhere, especially if you are an empathetic person or co-dependent.
I’ve been watching your channel for years and it’s helped rewire the trauma thinking. I’m so grateful you keep making videos. Thank you so much for your kindness and dedication!
some brutal truths... 💥🔥
the narcissist never sees you as a flesh and blood person, just a tool
"I'm choosing my soul." Thank you for your wisdom. I spent over 20 years "forgiving" my mother for her ongoing narcissist abuse. I finally disengaged from her 5 years' ago. It has been hard, yet I know wholeheartedly that it was the best decision. #motheringmyself
If narcs worked as hard as they do on you, and turned it towards self betterment the world would heal.
Thanks Melanie! I loved ❤️ your comment about "disappointed but not devastated"...when I don't feel chronically devastated but occasionally disappointed it feels like a good sign! 😌 ❤️🦋❤️
Sanity truth and values. Yes. I love that you say understand that you don’t need to explain it. That always tripped me up Yes choose soul over all else. It’s what it came up against
Brilliant! This is the most comprehensive, brilliant help I've ever seen! And I've been dealing with this for a long time.
I am beyond grateful for you, Melanie 🙏❤❤❤❤
Holy crap.. I totally love you! ❤️ thank you.. thank you thank you.. I get it. This is amazing.
I know who I am and that definition doesn’t depend on you. Stating truth short and sweet without getting into to the cracks. I like this for future journeys as I am rediscovering my truth.
Setting Healthy & Strong Boundaries! Cutting Off contact with the narississtist forever! 🙏🏿💯♥️
#1. Sit
#2. No!
#3. Stay!
#4. Taze. Done, walk away. 🤣🤣🤣
All jokes aside, there is no boundaries with narssisists, if you cant cut them off, you keep them as far away as possible.
Beautifully presented and explained..very healing ❤️ Thank you 🌷😊💖🍀
Good video Melanie. Thanks for posting. ; )
I've listened to you now for a couple weeks and it's helped me so much with my ex-husband and my ex-mother-in-law where I felt responsible I felt like I had to be this perfect person for them and I appreciate everything you've done. I had to have somehow their approval now I don't
I dealt with them for years now being toxic I'm no longer seeking their validation and it's such a free feeling God bless you Melanie
Wow. Wish I had that phrase 2 years ago. Did it the long way round. Still extremely useful; you always get right down to it.
Brilliant. well done Melanie.
Thank you.
Thanks for the video. I really enjoyed it. Lots of truth in this. Bless. X
I love Mel! She is the BEST!
you don't have to worry about setting boundaries with other people if they are already set. It does help to understand them though. Abuse is abuse, narcissism is blindness to the soul. Common in today's society given how horrible some people have used what was learned last century with respect to cybernetics and human psychology to exploit people's suffering and promote self destruction for their own selfish ends. People deserve the truth.
One of your best messages!
Thank you for being here for me and all survivors! We need you❤️🩹
Thank you ❣️
Thank you Melanie.
Looking very well Mel ❤️
Hi melania! Thanks for all you do for humanity. I wonder... would you do a bideo about how to deal with people who interrupt repeatedly?
Much love and blessings!
If Melanie does make a video like that, I think I want to send it to my ex! LOL! She never stopped interrupting and still hasn't...🤮
They don't listen to anyone. I, I and I..bla bla all the time
@@starseed8809 LMAO! 😂 Blah, blah, blah, blah! Yup! 🤮...from the mouth of a narcissist comes....🤮
So powerful
The Instagram Stories I have seen are completely enjoyable.. This video should also be completely enjoyable.
Amazing woman
Dealing with a totally psychopathic narc of a landlord. Such a pain... I set boundaries and he escalates his abuse. Got physical on the weekend. Absolute psycho.
You are stunning!
I'm detoxing from him. Taking cbd oil to help.
Melanie do you have a business email where I can personally email you at?
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unfortunately easier said than done to not react, also, is it bad that it appears like you are reading from a script , i can see your eyes reading through. I'm just so over ppl trying to understand our low points in life
Thanks to 🔝🔝 It is heartbreaking that I had an intermittent relationship for 5 years with my ex-drug addict, to always forgive him and come back to him, so now I broke up after finding out he was a total cheater and flirting. i couldn't take it anymore, i had to uncover the truth thanks to 🔝🔝 who helped me gave me useful information which really proves he was a cheater and also a liar.
Boundaries are not respected or even recognized by narcissist. In fact they see them as something to be broken down. ☺️
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