Miley Cyrus - The Backyard Sessions - "Jolene"
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- čas přidán 23. 12. 2012
- The "Backyard Sessions" took place earlier this summer when Miley brought her band together to perform some of her favorite songs. The last in the series is "Jolene". Checkout the NEW MileyCyrus.com for more!
Jolene
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, jolene, jolene, jolene
Please don't take him just because you can
Your beauty is beyond compare
With flaming locks of auburn hair
With ivory skin and eyes of emerald green
Your smile is like a breath of spring
Your skin is soft like summer rain
And I cannot compete with you, Jolene...
Jolene is a Dolly Parton cover
Featuring: Jamie Arentzen(Guitar), Jaco Curaco(Guitar), Paul Hager (Sound Engineer), Filmed and edited by: Kevin & Rebecca Joelson
Checkout all of Miley's videos on MileyCyrus.com! - Zábava
People can say what they will about Miley Cyrus, but that girl can sing.
its not about the singing , its about yourself .... chosing a Dolly Parton song is low rolling , which is what she is.
@@patthewoodboytrue true anon, she had to resort to becoming a "pop" "singer" she's totally trash now
@@patthewoodboyyes dolly partons goddaughter singing a dolly parton song is completely unreasonable.....
Miley Is One Powerful and Entertaining Talents Too Many People Sleep On. She’s Actually Extremely Gifted and Equally Beautiful As Well! 👍
@@patthewoodboythat’s her god mother so complain to Dolly I guess
This girl was born to sing country music.
Fantastic.
and Rock 🤘🏼
Country is my favorite kind of tree.
Exactly
She did it justice- the Beyonce version sucks.....
In one week it's already outsold Miley Cyrus and Dolly Parton's put together. So deal with it😫🤑🤣🤣 And as always, haters gonna hate💁♀️
The fact that she's owned this cover since she was 20.
19*
Jack White did better
The best "Jolene" version. Absolutely!
Dolly’s version is still the best imo. Miley has a much more powerful and technically good voice, but I still think Dolly’s voice was the perfect voice for this song. She inhabited the role of the person singing this song flawlessly.
I do love this cover, though!! Definitely my favorite cover of the song.
No at touch on dolly
Who else comes back to this every year
Fuck you seven years
yessss
Not particularly fond of Miley but she did her thing with this song , she sang it!!
me 🙌🏻
Thought I was the only one lol. Everyone’s raving about her heart of glass cover, but this cover has a special place in my heart!!
This seems to be the perfect style for her voice!
Have you heard nothing breaks like a heart?? That song is definitely her best fit.
I agree
They are related thats why!
Agreed
@@kaphamusic4786 who?
Who 's here in 2024
I am
I am
I am!!
I'm still there...and I think it's the best version since its creation.
Me too
Miley, when this came out I was homeless, on drugs, and then jail. I now have a house, job, and husband. This song and “Clover Cage - In the Moment” are the two songs that helped get rid of my depression. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together..I love you 💕
Congratulations on turning your life around! I admire you ❤ I didn't have It as bad but I sttuggle to have a normal life. I wish I had your strength.
Jk😅 0:50 😊😊k😊
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Miley has such a good voice for country/folk music
U mean Hannah
Do you know who Miley’s dad is?
Her paw is Fucking Billy Ray Cyrus!
Jakiyah Kyles What? Lmao
Ben Beard HANNAH MONTANA
Miley Cyrus really won at life with Dolly Parton as her godmother.
Truly? That's quite surprising! I would have thought Dolly would have knocked some sense into her then when she was really spirally out of control. 💔
@@jaelynrae5493 dollys a long time feminist im sure she suports mileys liberation and sexuality
Really!? I thought she was just her god mother in the show 😭
Jaelyn Rae leave her alone miley didnt spiral out of control, she just formed into the person she is today. She wasnt gonna stay a disney star forever
This life here is not what's important ,the after we leave this world is the all should be focusing on,John Ch.3 one must be born again to see or enter the kingdom of God,John ch 14:6 (Jesus)I Am the way the Truth and the life and nobody goes to the father except through me.Having talent and being pretty isn't enough eternity is an awful long time to not get this life RIGHT,what God has given us we need to help others come to know Him(JESUS)i will make all the difference.God Bless the LORD God almighty through His SON,Acts 4:12 Peace and Grace to ALL
Can you all just take a moment to stop and appreciate Miley - She has been one of the most slept on artist of my 34 years on this earth! The voice, the range, the discipline. Miley should always and forever be protected at all cost. No matter what she is singing, Miley will cover my body in goose bubbles every. single. time. 🖤🤍🖤🤍
FACTS
PLEASE THIS EXACT VERSION TO SPOTIFY
Yes!
Please!
Why not?!
If you had Apple Music you could have just upload it by yourself xd
With a voice like that it's Jolene who should be worried about you.
pippaknuckle πεπα το γουρον´κιπ
Jolene is shook
Xeno theslayer Jolene has left the chat
True
Oh Jolene ,you better run for the hills
This is the best performance of hers I have EVER heard.
I agree!
Watch Slide Away at the VMA's. Equally beautiful. Miley is such a talent
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watch Mark Ronson - Nothing Breaks Like A Heart in the Live Lounge ft. Miley Cyrus it's great too!
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How? 😕
Miley Cyrus with Temple of the Dog - Say Hello 2 Heaven
an absolutely amazing performance, highly recommend you check it out
This is the Miley Cyrus I will remember forever. Pure talent
I’ve been listening to this for a few years now and always are amazed how country singing comes so naturally to Miss Cyrus . Let’s not ignore this sensational group of musicians backing her . This rocks !!!!!!
This cover is so damn timeless, I wish she would make more songs with this style cause she sounds so beautiful and looks so comfortable. She's definitely a country girl by heart
Yes! I love it so much.
She honestly is everything, I think that's why she gets critisized more. She's just too damn beautiful and talented.
Have you heard the Dolly Parton and Miley unbelievable version czcams.com/video/aVDDV1MXHwE/video.html
Agree!
Loved Miley. This type of songs suits her well.
She shine's like a diamond and sings like an angel
Her voice is made for country music 🎶 🎵
i do agree with u Madeline Schuster
tantonia
Madeline Schuster omggg can't agree more!
Just like her dad :D
Madeline Schuster pop country
best cover of for "Jolene"
Miley Cyrus dun went off 2 da next level like fr fr 💖 *a u t h e n t I c v i e w s* 💖 is what got them HUGE!
The kind of song that Miley's voice is made for.
No
@@yahwerietadesse5579 yes
is
I 'd really like her to make a country album finally !!! Cheers from Italy
agree
What makes this so much cooler is the fact that Dolly Parton is her godmother
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😂
..that Dolly Parton is his godfather..
What?? That really does make it soo much special 😀
Ikr
Being a devoted Dolly fan, I have to give credit where credit is due. Miley has captured the pain that is so much part of this song. I am very impressed with Miley's presentation.
With a voice like that Jolene should be the one who is worried
best cover of the song
Yes real musician with a heart and soul....go away beyonce and taylor do something other than l9ve yourself...miley all the way
Agreed! The best cover.
Probably the best ever cover song, its truly spot on. She's flawless.
The petersons are better
@@BombDame no
@@BombDame In terms of voice and singing itself, they're not even close to Miley's. She blew this song away!
Music wise they are pretty impressive though.
@@fedreserv6133 doubt you even watched. The girls are way more talented than Miley Cyrus
@@BombDame I've watched of course and don't deny their musical talent.
Miley has better voice and this song matches her potentials perfectly.
Simple as that.
It's just such a sad song when you really think about it. Love is a blessing and a curse at times.
11 years and we're still listening!
amazing 😻
This is the kind of music where Miley’s voice really shines. Such a professional sound.
What I’ve been saying anytime I listen to this. It fits her voice perfectly
@@KatTastic77
Most Definitely.
I think this and her current songs are her perfect vocal range. She can do this and vocalize but she also does the grungy rock sound sooo well as well.
@@cait9266 yes I would totally agree. Her cover of Zombie was truly the best I’ve heard. The video is so well done too.
Exactly . She’s just amazing at everything she does tbh .
This is the kind of music she should do. This is wonderful.
nope she should do the music the wants to whether u like it or not
***** why are you attacking this woman? she just said what she thinks.. freedom of speech. And i couldn't agree more with miss *****. she just can't handle the fame and now she's completly lost in my opinion. oh and ps: don't take the effort to keep reacting, i'm not interested in more bullshit like this..
KoreanSHINee1 and johannes said what se ment..
Wow, Johannes, not meaning it as an order, meaning it as a compliment. She sings this style of music beautifully. Korean SHINee1, thank you.
Sure she should do whatever she wants. I think the OP just meant to say that this is awesome. I actually have a couple of these backyard mansion session songs on my phone. Seriously good, unlike anything I've heard from her before.
I'm also from Houston.. I love Queen Bee.. I've driven by their FAMILY HOME several times.. but her version of Jolene - makes me want to cry. Whitney (god rest her soul) at least paid homage to the Original Version of "I Will Always Love You" as did Miley for "Jolene"
well we all know that miley is the one who stands out the most singing jolene ❤
she is an absolutely amazing singer..i never knew this :(
love her so much
filip. no..i watched some of her instagram videos she recorded on her phone and also watched her perform live..she is amazing
filip. no..i actually became her fan because i liked her voice....its not about the voice its just about the way u feel it and put those exact emotions into your singing..i feel it
Tyrion Stark I know... all I could remember was her being Hannah Montana and then dry humping a man on stage... she's good af at singing 👍👌
Austin Má
Tyrion Stark hey
My favorite cover ever
You should listen to simple man by Shinedown. That's the best cover I've ever heard.
Trinity Vera
Trinity Vera no doubt! .....mine too.
I'm hooked on this song!
Trinity Vera I agree
Your mind might change when you hear the Pentatonix Version!
One of the best voice. She is crazy but she knows singing
She is not crazy though. Have you even listen to her interviews? She is wild and like to do unexpected things. But girl is smart and know exactly what she wants and doing.
Miley’s supreme 🎉👏👌
God. She kills this song. It’s a time machine back to the time of glorious female country singers.
or really any glorious country singers
Well dolly Parton is her godmother
Please don't use The Lord's Name in vain, it is a sin and one of the Ten Commandments please take time to connect with God and repent of your sins to be saved and accept Jesus Christ into your heart.
@@patrickoshnock6925 people have different opinions....like..I LOVE her...and many people don't...he just shared his opinion.....and also did you listen to her latest album....you should...get back after you do
@@patrickoshnock6925 ok...listen to angels like you, hate me , gimme what I want... These are 3 different types of songs from her latest album ...you can even listen to midnight sky....listen to them and tell me what you think
I hate that she gets so much hate from people. She's so talented and humble.
*was
is*
SEXYANDguesswhat She still is talented. Just because you don't like the music she does now doesn't take away from her natural talent.
***** How isn't she?
N Jones. Honestly, I've gone through periods of both liking and loathing her, but in the end the girl has serious talent. I mean, she has spent her whole life growing up in the spotlight, so how can you really expect for her to grow up "normal?" Everyone makes mistakes when they're growing up and trying to find themselves, and I can only imagine how even more distorted and confusing it is to try and navigate through those years when you're famous and that is all you know. Talent-wise, she definitely has a real gift.
Only version worth of replay for me 🫶
Miley sings this beautifully
Man, she sounds sooo good in this type of music.
I know bruv!!!😁
I agree!
well her dad is one of the most famous country style singer what did you expect of his daughter ahah
WOW!....I like this Miley ...nice voice beautifully done.
her voice never changed idk what u want to say but miley has still the same voice
Nika Chkheidze Everyone makes mistakes.
Nika Chkheidze that doesn't change that she has an awesome voice ;)
yeah me too buddy she really did great and i think dolly can be proud
Search for her Summertime Sadness cover. She has a nice vocal.
Jolene rips your heart from your chest. Beautiful cover. Devastating song.
Dolly wrote the song and sang it with her own purity… Miley extended it with her own spirit… And Beyoncé got us to listen to this song again… Beyoncé’s layering of voices and music is incredible… But we don’t have to choose… Hats off to all these extremely talented women..❤❤❤
This where she shines. Pop has its place, but Miley is so much more classy in this genre.
I dont care about classy but her voice more suits it
Exactly !
This isss what she is pure soul if she used it right
yea this is so much better
classy... your funny, she is many things but classy isnt one of them... yet.
How could anyone possibly hate this angelic voice
riigghht
It's not her voice it's her personality
+MyNameIsLongerThenYourName Her personality or her on screen persona?
+MyNameIsLongerThanYourName you really have not met her in real life you're just saying that cause of her nasty videos (the songs are good) Miley is a wonderful person she gives you great advice's on what to do later on in your life (your future goals).
elizabeth Have you met her?
Jolene de miley es increíble 😊
When this came out I was homeless, on drugs, and then jail. Now I have a house, job, and husband. This song and “Clover Cage - The Chess Piece” are the two songs that helped get rid of my depression. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together..I love you 💕
I love her voice so much in this song. Wish she did more stuff like this.
Miley you're so talented 👩🎤
Ikr
totally agree.
same here..........
Listen to.her cover of Madonnas prayer she rocks it!
Damn, I actually forgot just how great she is as a country singer.
mm, people do seem to forget her dad is Billy Ray Cyrus..
Rosehawka no I don't think we forget he's her father I think we forget how good of a country singer she is because how she acts now
Zach Whetstine can't we just appreciate Miley for who she is?
Miley Fangirl xx90 I was, just forgot how good she was at that particular genre was all.
Her Southern accent and country styl are so amazing. I'd prefer her in songs like this, than the ones she's singing tbh.
This version is forever
Miley is perfection for this song ❤
Miley can pull off so many musical styles. This is definitely a favorite.
Bullshit. She only sings pop. Fucking pop. That's it.
@@adriantrusca1245 she sings almost every genre now of days
She's mediocre in country. I like her pop music
@@adriantrusca1245 Like a Prayer search it you nonce
@@adriantrusca1245 she literally just dropped a rock album. Don't talk. You're wrong.
I miss this Miley :(
What's different?
Me too
+Jeferson Pika She's the same, just happier.
+Jeferson Pika someone who cuts hetself is ?
That Miley is dead. And I don't mean that metaphorically.
I turned off the Beyonce version after 20 seconds. My only complaint about Miley's version is that this ended too soon. This is amazing
Sometimes I forget how talented Miley is. This is a good reminder.
She's absolutely gorgeous in this video.
Jolene thinks so
@@noway2836 czcams.com/video/4-nQQGdAaV4/video.html
a c .....I’m speechless.....You did incredible....
I agree. You know?
sameee she's what i would want to look like in this vid
She killed it ❤
this is by far the best jolene cover, u cannot tell me otherwise
Oh boy, she can sing!
Gery S. U
Vitc po in
Yep 👍
Ruben Salazar really
yeah, I'm shocked! oO
dat voice :O
I love your Profile Picture!
After all Tokyo Ghoul is my 4th favorite Anime :)
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Abbey Scarlet anime is for facking emo's u fackin niphead go play with fackin lego u fackin kid
IPKEDYOURMOM100 You have no life you idiot, get one, oh yeah you can't you have no money!
Abbey Scarlet I don't have money? WHAHAHAHAHHAHA fkin lmao dude hahahahahahhahaha
Best Cover !!!
*MILEY CYRUS CONGRATS ON WINNING YOUR GRAMMY!* Love You! ❤
I'm so amazed with this cover. She is indeed her father's daughter. Both their voices suit country songs
I agree!
Hi
And isn't she dolly's god child or grandchild ?
She does a good job at rock too. Her voice isn't the same since the surgery though.
@@ellenstacy6028 Yes. They keep in touch often.
she´s so good
Ein Klassiker.. Hat sie gut gemacht :)
she's so bad (NOW) SHE WAS GOOD
There are a large amount of new bands in the world today, but those folks have something exclusive!
*watch?v=fKTYND_4x2U*
Like her voice!
CZcams this URL and enjoy!!
Adelyn Holden lol shes still good... cant understand people who cant handle little skin and crazy`^ness , She have more spunk now,, and willing to share here great body little-bit:) still that tongue could stay more often in month :)
I agree, she gets a lot of bad press but she was just a ' Disney kid ' who's trying to put her own stamp on things now and people are slating her for it ? She has a fantastic voice and an incredible talent !
Awesome cover, never really followed Cyrus but this actually slaps so hard
It’s safe to say that Miley holds the best remix of Jolene to This day
She did the song justice ❤️
Even those who don’t like Miley know she’s the queen of the most beautiful Jolene cover
I wouldn't say I didn't like her, I was kind of indifferent, but I truly never thought I'd be a fan of hers tbh, But I am, she's got an amazing voice and I love listening to her sing.
Miley’s cover will forever be my favorite! I can listen to it on repeat!!! 🫶🏽
Miley all the time🎉
still one of my favorite cover of hers ever.
Same
same
Yeah I miss it
The original sucks, THIS IS THE BESTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
Martin Macedonia the original is the best and always will be
never thought i'd see the day where i enjoy a Miley Cyrus version of a song more than a Beyonce version, but here we are.
I searched for this immediately after listening to Beyonce's version 😂 Miley's Jolene is superior even after a decade 👏
It’s crazy cuz I came HERE 1ST ❤❤❤I love me some Miley I had to hear this version before I listened to Bey’s 😊
same exept for i dont like bey her music isnt country its just wannabe i do like her pop thou
Helps her history with Dolly. She actually cared about the song.
for the record, Beyonce > Miley in every way imaginable but this cover is just aces. also, country music is mostly trash so this ain’t about “wAnnAbE cOUntRY mUSiC” or whatever lame ass people are crying about
In a comment section like this, I’m glad I have a great appreciation for diversity in music styles, meanings, etc. I don’t see a need to compare song versions, so I thoroughly respect Dolly’s original version - as well as Miley and Beyoncé’s renditions. Many artists’ do covers in their own artistically creative way all the time, but suddenly one cover “ruins” the song. Not true- the other versions still exist which fit your palette better, while a newer take on a song may suit someone else better. That’s why music styles, genres, and creativity don’t need to be categorically strict. (Hint: one overarching point of Beyoncé’s new album). Will keep coming back for Miley’s rendition always ❤
Best cover of Jolene ❤Miley
Whenever someone says something bad about Miley and her singing, I IMMEDIATELY point them in the direction of this song. The girl has got pipes.
Well she doesn't fucking use them these days
ChuffedMuffin She just did an amazing cover of a Bob Dylan song last night on the Jimmy Fallon show.
she's very talented but recently has ruined her reputation 😣
Bethany Palfrey What are you talking about? What recent thing has she done thats bad? Shes been staying out of the media this past year. Shes happily engaged and is going to be a coach on The Voice. Shes changed a lot.
+JXP I hope you're kidding
Would love to see Miley do more covers like this
There's a whole album. My favourites are Lilac Wine (she REALLY does it justice), and Don't Dream it's Over (which she did with Ariana Grande). czcams.com/play/PLri1SD7nMWCHW61xie83tmzHeoERik-X-.html
That said, I'm not sure she beats the original for Lilac Wine. Maybe for Don't Dream. Lovely to listen to though!
yeah, this is what she should be doing.
@Mark Hanson you mean Fancy by Bobbie Gentry? Reba covered that tune.
@@jaydenvengeance Thank you!
Best cover🎉
everycover miley does is masterpiece. Noone can do it better than her.🧡
2016 still listening 👂
Yep
Stefan Theking she sang it on the voice a couple months ago
+Jadyn Harris I saw it,but thank you😘
Stefan Theking np I just watched it like 5 minutes ago
oh Yes, and when i don't, i just keep singing it even though i don't know all the lyrics of the song. LOL
I am not a country music listener, but if Miley went back to singing that's type of music I would buy her albums in a heartbeat. She has such a rich voice.
She literally released a country influenced album called Younger Now and it flopped so hard
@@alexandrumarin2873 I didn't know. I'll go look it up haha
She’s releasing an album soon with a mix of genres, make sure to buy it!
Ikr
Since when does she sing this type and style of music...? This smacks of studio magic. Sounds far more like Dolly than Miley.
Love her voice and best Jolene ever
10 years ago first time I heard this song and still fire, you’re the best Miley ❤
I always find myself coming back to listen to this. Seriously incredible.
This, and her live version of Man of Constant Sorrow!
Of course you do
Me too!
same here
Her singing this song shows her true talent.
By far better than her hip hop tracks. She has that deep down soul to pull off a classic country song of this magnitude. Id love to hear her try some patsy cline
Her voice is stunning here ! Ican't stop listening to this cover *-*
Same!
ㅠㅗ어츄ㅠ터커너터머녀오뱌ㅏ누투👎👎
same here
2 £ the 😠😱
Hi Malak. how are u doin hun?
dolly and miley will FOREVER own this song
I’ve listened to this an unhealthy amount of times
Me to and i hate country
Vida Cruz and I thought I was the only one🙂
Katie Walker Me too!! It's ridiculous but..I absolutely love it!!
Katie Walker same lol
Oh me too !!!
Binging all of Miley's covers after *that* certain video
You know
heart of glass
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For real thooo 😩
saaaaaaaame I can't get enough
Check out her cover of
Fifty Ways to Leave Your Lover on SNL great performance again !!
The best cover of “Jolene”.
Is there anything she can't sing and sound absolutely amazing?
I do not think so.
What a true singer.
She does her godmother proud in this cover
Heather McDonald yes definitely
Have you seen/heard their duet? You can see the pride in Dolly's eyes and smile...
I have, and I about cried
DeadlyHenry 101 alvn
OZ P
I'm so stupid I never knew she was really her grandmother
Country music is clearly in her blood She should do it more often, fantastic.
She did great rock music this year
It’s where she started. She should do more, you’re right.
@R A Clark Well, when your dad is Billy Ray and your godmother is Dolly Parton, it goes deeper than blood.
I am from indo and i want to say *remember to always COLI*
that could cause clots.....
Miley. Still holds the best cover.
My favourite version 🥰🥰🥰
i could listen to this for hours upon hours, miley's voice is just mesmerizing. you don't have to like her, but the woman can sing beautifully. you have to admit that.
C V she just released a new song. Malibu.
and god is "Malibu" a TERRIBLE fucking tuneless abomination of a "song", ugh
Shoulda kept appropriating Black Culture at least she got some good music out of it
she recorded it in a trailer which just shows she can sing bc its an amazing song about her reuniting with liam..
kiki bee hang on, you DO know this is a Dolly Parton cover, right?
um, yes?
Jolene WHAT'S GOOD?
I could picture Nicki saying this and I am laughing so hard right now !!! Best comment XD
me
😂😂😂😂
Marta needs some MILK🍼🍼🍼
cool super
I loved this version amazing 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
Miley… Your version is way better than anyone’s. Your voice is so beautiful, deep and inspiring that it gives me goosebumps. You’re awesome.
SHE SOUNDED AND LOOKED AMAZING HERE AND SHE STILL DOES SO
+Cordell Romines no I'm just saying everyone is saying she's ugly when she literally looks the same except her hair u haven't seen her latest performances her voice sounded good again
+Breanna Parker Don't know if i should upvote or downvote. On the one hand, she looked and sounded amazing, but she certainly doesn't now.
Maybe to you, since you are a girl and she undeniably tries her hardest to look like a guy now, but yeah not to the majority
+Cordell Romines lol "pretty decent job" at 18 - I bet you work at mcdonalds
She sold out to Hollywood and gave up her Nashville values .
+sheneverlookedback Dont say you cant be successful at 18-21, I make 50k a year and im 21.
I still have hopes she will be again the beautiful and inspiring girl she used to be.
Frede Contre She is still beautiful, and she is actually a very inspiring girl who fights for equality and does her own thing. She doesn't listen to what others want her to be and THAT makes her inspiring. She's happier now, she has even said so herself.
JazukaiX No you're the idiot here. Let go of your Hannah Montana and let her be who she is.
+JazukaiX She has done so much for human and animal rights in the past few years. You're the brainwashed individual who thinks because she performs wild and naked that she must be a terrible person in general.
JKalama
All she's doing is teaching kids to be degenerate.
JazukaiX She's not teaching anyone anything. She's doing whatever she wants. It's the parents' job to decide what is suitable for their child or not and if they don't find miss Cyrus suitable, then they have every power in their hand to stop their child from watching/looking up to her. It's not that difficult, it's just easier to blame someone else for their failed parenting.