How to Help Your Child Find Their Purpose | Episode 15
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- čas přidán 26. 07. 2024
- Are you struggling to help your children discover their God-given purpose?
As parents, we want to support and guide our children along their journey, but it can be challenging to know where to start.
Through personal experience and Biblical wisdom, Addison, Juli, Alec, and Arden Bevere gather around the table to discuss how to foster purpose in our children’s lives.
In this episode of At Home with the Beveres, we’ll explore practical ways to help your children navigate their calling and make meaningful decisions. From cultivating a solid spiritual foundation to empowering them to take risks, join us as we equip parents with the tools and insights to raise purpose-filled kids.
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Chapters:
0:00 - Episode Teaser
0:16 - Burning Question: Cultivating Healthy Sibling Relationships
3:02 - Cultivating a Sense of Purpose in Your Children
6:09 - The Calling Complex
10:30 - God Works with Motion
15:30 - Making Idols of Testimonies
16:30 - The Starting Place: How's Your Relationship with God?
20:35 - Three Practical Steps for Cultivating Purpose
29:58 - Closing Prayer
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3 statements that we can regularly communicate to our children
1. God has an amazing plan for your life!
“For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”
Jeremiah 29:11 NLT
2. God delights in and knows the details of your life, both the small and the big ones.
“The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.”
Psalms 37:23-24 NLT
3. God will always be there for you! Helping you along the way.
“You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.”
Psalms 139:16 NLT
Thank you for these videos Beverley family! May Gods blessing and protection be upon you.
Absolutely love At home with the Beveres.!!! So rich, so deep, so practical & so needed. Thank you all
This is EXCELLENT!!!!! Calling does not equal vocation only...love that point...I have 3 boys (9,6,4) That is something that I have already tried to get across to them. I have explained to them that their general purpose is the same as mine, and as all sons and daughters of God: 1. To know Him. 2. To make Him known. I try to remind them that it doesn't matter what they're doing, this part of our calling is the same and it hearing from God is a JOURNEY, being led, BY FAITH, one step at a time....Learning to be led by Holy Spirit...also love how you mentioned that people/parents are acting and placing a burden of pressure sometimes on teenagers by asking these questions and they don't even know how to do life yet!
Amen!
These videos bless me so much, I have 2 boys i pray become Godly men!
Thank you for these videos, I appreciate you all sharing your experiences, guidance and wisdom... we're raising 2 boys with our 3rd on the way so I am thankful I found these!😊
Thank you all for “the short answer” to my question. Makes me so excited to hear the series!!!
Great point about making idols out of people who are t living the day in day out of regular life with God
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WOW. That was so good: God calls us and forms us through so many dimensions on the calling of our lives. So good 🎯
This is so so good. Much more effective than a sermon. Thank you so much!!!
And so young in age to have that depth of understanding
Mentoring adults in vocational positions that a child is interested in can help them know about the field when they are seeking. The comment can get to long, so I will just say thank you for it is important. Great conversation here!
Beautifully explained. Praise God for the wisdom shared 🙏 God bless you all
Thank you this was so amazing and insightful and valuable.
So so good 🙌🏻 we are a military couple stationed overseas with two toddler boys. 🇺🇸💪🏻🫡 👩🏼❤️💋👨🏼 👦🏼👦🏼 I love hearing the input from you guys on what life was like when dad and/or dad and mom were traveling as it is similar and insightful for us as we live that way often. Solo parenting and being a parent that has to parent from far away, could you elaborate on things you did to foster connection and to not just survive these seasons?
Also, Julie, awhile back, alluded to your move from Colorado being a big transition (I don’t remember exact words). As military we move a lot (pros and cons for sure) but I think because it’s more normal we forget that it is a really big impact on us. Even the aspect of sometimes it creates a running away or escaping, a distraction. Can you talk about seasons of transition, the challenges, and how to end one season well and begin another, not escaping or leaving things undone, but freely able to receive what God has for the next? 🗺️📦📦📦 🧳 🧳🛬🛫🙇🏼♀️💆🏼♀️
This was exactly what I needed, exactly what I needed seriously. Thank you God and thank you guys for making it.
I been struggling with finding my purpose with God and talking to him about it so much. Asking for my purpose and trying to find it and waiting on him and also trying to do my own thing and maybe God not liking the path I chose and me going back to him to try to find the calling. I've really been in a little cycle and this helped me fs.
I like your podcast, y'all!🥰🙏🏾💕
Wow, this message is incredible. Thank you!!
One of my favorite scriptures ❤️
God gave me a word the day after my husband passed away and it was so big that I couldn't make it happen on my own if I wanted to, my 14 yr old son has been really angry at times with God that it was scary. I think because this promise hasn't come to pass yet is part of it. I'm not sure how to handle this problem.
Thank you for wisdom through this series. How do we help our kids navigate challenges with friendships? Every child comes with their own values and beliefs on some subjects (gender) and there is so much peer pressure to conform. How do we encourage our kids be of influence their schools and with friendships.
I just wanted to say thank you for making these videos and sharing so much knowledge and power through the word of God. I am from Brazil and been married for 2 years to my beloved husband. We dream of having kids and parenting them in Spirit and in truth. I am very much inspired by your lives and how God is glorified in your family!!
Addison looks like Superman!🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much for these videos! I do not only love the topics you bring up but also the atmosphere you guys create within your conversations. Thanks for your invest!!
I have a question concerning toddlerhood. To be honest, I have a multitude of questions. 😅 But the one I wanna ask: What are your experiences in teaching toddlers about God and His kingdom? I didn't grow up as a Christian and feel sometimes a little clueless with my boys. What are you best advices in modeling and teaching the kingdom's culture?
Would love to hear your answers.
Blessings from Germany, Aylin
#replay Thursday April 13, 2023
How donwe teach our boys (3 brothers) to lean on each other for advice and support?😊
I'm having a very troubles relationship with my 20 years old daughter who go to Liberal college where all the ideas and life principles are much different than us. Everytime we are having a conversation would end up in big argument. How to draw her back to listen and willing to learn God's words and having more relationship with Jesus?
what books do you recomend for identiy in Christ? what books do you recomebt about controling your toungue/ biblical purpose for your words
This is so good. I’m struggling with this issue with my 17 year old. She had a passion to join the military then received after a prophetic word with confirmation. But in the last year she’s lost interest in most everything and has no drive for her future. How do I encourage her without being overbearing?
17 is a time of figuring out who we are , maybe have other women come alongside her to encourage her, sometimes our parents aren't the ones to do that at that age.
You say “navigating “ a lot
Will you do an episode on being a single parent and having to fill both parental roll for your children? Quick run down~their father has recently come back in the picture and is being a part of their lives, however he is married to his mistress, forsook Christ and our church and tends to try to give the kids a worldly view of things simply to cause division. I need to know how best to help them see truth while combating his words without hurting that relationship and how to navigate the sex talk with my boys (12,9,6-B,G,B) Most things I’ve researched in reference to talking to the kids about all aspects of sexuality, especially mastubation and pitfalls such as pornography recommends same sexual parent having that talk. My oldest and I have communicated about a lot of it but those pitfalls haven’t been tackled yet simply because it’s something I don’t really understand from the male perspective. I’ve listened to lots of commentary on porn addiction (due to experiences with the ex husband) but I’m not sure how best to address it. Sorry for the lengthy comment but I wanted to be very specific about my needs. Love your all’s podcasts, I’ve listened to your family in many arenas of conversation and am thankful for your heat to help others. ❤