How to Build an Entitlement Free Family | Episode 27
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- čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
- In a society where the pursuit of status and self-importance prevails, particularly with children exposed to an endless stream of media, our aim is to offer valuable insights that will help us guide our kids to understand that the world doesn't revolve around them.
But here's the kicker-shaping the next generation's perspective on entitlement starts with us, the parents! We're the ones setting the example.
In this episode of At Home with the Beveres, hosts Addison and Juli Bevere are joined by Arden Bevere as they discuss some truly paradigm challenging perspectives on entitlement.
Tune in to learn how we can instill values of purpose, position, and inheritance in our children. We'll also discover how to safeguard our children's identity from being compromised and hijacked by a broken culture.
Don't miss this thought-provoking episode on At Home with the Beveres!
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Chapters:
0:00 - Teaser
0:13 - Introduction
1:16 - Burning Question
5:15 - Today’s Topic
6:13 - When You Hear Entitlement, What Comes to Mind?
13:24 - God Intended Us to Grow Into This…
14:56 - Signs of an Entitled Child
16:46 - Practical Things to Keep Your Kids Entitlement Low
25:00 - Gratitude vs Entitlement
28:13 - Addison on Entitlement
29:55 - Practical Tips
37:00 - Final Thoughts
38:02 - Closing Prayer
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It's so so so so so very rare to see men today take responsibility, own their stink, and admit their faults. Very proud of you guys for setting a tremendous example with this, takes a very very strong man to share their weaknesses, mistakes and faults!
Yes, please I would LOVE to watch listening to you all talk about kids, phones, social media etc. I am raising my grand daughter and you really have no idea how much I enjoy listening to y'all now with different topics. It has really helped me to be careful, watchful and even learned something new tonight when you said giving them too much attention can be detrimental. I never thought of it. Her mother isn't around right now and I've felt so guilty because I know she misses her so much and I try to spend a lot of time with her to the point I'm barely getting any time for myself. So that has really opened my eyes.
Do not forsake her, and she will keep you; love her, and she will guard you. The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom, and whatever you get, get insight. Proverbs 6
Oh Juli, that was my word - 'what the enemy meant to harm me will be used for my good' - after my divorce. Glory to God, I receive that IJN. Bless you!❤
I definitely want to see an episode about kids and screens!! Thank you for all these videos you and your family make❤ it enriches our family!
I want to hangout with Addison & Julie so badly 😂 I absolutely adore you guys and I am so grateful for this podcast, your vulnerability and your commitment!
#prettyflyforawhiteguy
Aw I found this podcast so so helpful! This was my first podcast of yours that I’ve watched - and I can’t wait to delve into the others! I’m actually going to rewatch this with my eldest daughter - I think it’ll be a really great conversation - I just love the honour at your table, and the honest navigation that you’re currently on as parents. Thank you for your honesty and practical advice!
Yes to screen and kids please!! Thank you for providing these amazing resources to help parents navigate with more wisdom!
I must say I love y’all podcast. I am an older single mom. I wish these were around when my children were younger. But I can speak this into my grandchildren and foster children. Thanks for making these podcasts. God bless y’all. Great idea with the cell phone.
I would love to see an episode on screens. Love all your perspectives. Very insightful. Not only training entitled free kids but Christ-filled kids.
Thank you, it’s wonderful to listen and could help a lot parents on how to react with their children and guided. Specially now a days. Thank you and God bless you. Love watching you guys..
Please!!! More content about kids. How to navigate the social media / phone and devices issues. Not only when to let them access those things but also how to explain to your kids why you can’t be on your friends phones or access certain social media platforms on their friends phones.
Also some advice for parents dealing with their kids playing with children who are growing up with no boundaries and discipline. We live in a townhouse where the backyard is a common area. All the of the kids in the area are playing outside together. None of them are believers and most of them will not respect the authority of any parent but their own. There are no boundaries or rules for those kids, they disrespect and damage private property and common areas. There is no parent supervision. The kids destroy all their own toys and don’t take care of anything they own. My kids have Boundries and rules and I am trying to teach them the value of the things they own. I am constantly being compared to the other kids parents saying why can’t I let them do the same things the other kids are allowed to do. Also I have had to navigate through the situations where my kids come inside having just llearned a cus word or a violent gesture from a kid. How as Christian parents do we navigate age appropriate dialogue with our kids to explain why we have set different boundaries and rules for our them because we are teaching them biblical principles and godly standards of living that other families are not. This world is not parenting their kids and the kids are not being taught respect they are being taught entitlement and selfishness.
Awesome! Yes, on the episode about screens and phones for kids! Have a teen and preteens that we’ve not given phones too. Would love input on that subject!
Screens and kids episode.. yes, please!!
Get your kids to do as much house work as possible, get them to be part of the team.
Great episode! Good practical advice for all stages of life - learning to navigate entitlement! Also, the world does not revolve around us (kids or adults) Loved that you all brought it back to what the enemy meant for evil, God used it for our good. So true! What a great life lesson for children and adult’s!
This is a fantastic episode. Such great advice!! Yes to screen time for kids.
Beautiful prayer at the end 🙏🏻 I feel very convicted about spoiling my children in ways I didn’t even realize.
Same me too!
I just love Arden, he is so articulate and he can cite the bible so appropriately.
Thank you for the time effort and intentionally put into these episodes, it’s truly been transformative for our young family. We have been listening since day 1! We have three kids under 4, so grateful we can learn from you who have gone before while we’re in those formative years with our kids.
Yes we would love to see an episode on screens! Especially what content they should be watching.
Y’all speak Jesus and my heart loves it! Thank you for this. Will y’all send a ‘Let God be God whilst Parents navigate through Parenting’ topic conversation my way? I’d love to hear a how to approach to this topic. Y’all are beautiful. Bless y’all. 🤍❣️🤍
Yes screens and kids episode please 👍
Yes pleeease so an episode on kids and screens! Thanks for the show, love it ❤
This was a really, really helpful episode for me. Thank you for that insight.
Very insightful episode. I believe a lot of parents can learn from this, even those who aren't parents, can learn in other ways!
This podcast is such a blessing, thank you! God is good!
I would love to hear a conversation about screens and kids. I love all of the conversations u all have and I always leave inspired and with tools on how to take action!! Appreciate u all so much ❤
Yes, please talk about the devices for kids. I have a 12 years and I see the need for emergency but I don’t want him to be out there with the social media or internet.
Thank you for such a wonderful episode. It's always such a wonderful and edifying time to watch you all. May the Lord continue to anoint you all to continue serving the Lord. Been following the Beveres from Kenya for the last 11 years
Yes! Would love to hear your thoughts on kids and screens
I love to see the love and respect and honor being shown from older brother and sister in love to the younger brother
Thank you gives me hope to attain this as an older sister to see and admire the work God is or will do in the lives of my siblings
This was my first time and I was blessed! Thank you!
Lookin forward to learning more... And yes to 'screen time' episode..
Yes, screens and teens - would definitely tune in!!
This was yet another great episode. I appreciate the vulnerability that each of you share with us. God bless you all. - Craig
Awesome!!
Absolutely love you guys and all your wisdom! Looking forward to the next episode!
Love the conversation. Thank you!
Appreciate, all your podcast it sheds so much light on many things that have become a norm.
Another great episode 💓
I am always looking forward to these episodes, thank you the Bevere family for blessing me. Thinking through entitlement, how do we deal with it when it comes to our spouses? There can be a delicate balance in there.
How do you combat the idea of favoritism with your children if you do not give equally?
I agree
Wisdom
This is excellent content
Thanks Bevears
Almost spelt beaver😮
Yes please to screen and kids
Regarding not spoiling your child with too much attention...What would you say is a healthy way to not give your children too much attention? I never want them to feel I am not paying attention to them. How is this done effectively?
I would love to watch the episode on Screens, phones, tablets, I pads and PS 5 e.t.c.
Cell phone- not just screen time
Radiation is a concern
France has called for a ban on the iPhone 12- high radiation emissions
At what age do you teach your children this?
Screens and kids!! Pleasee
Yes!! Tackle how navigate this. I don’t want a formula or an exact age that it’s appropriate…that doesn’t exist. But how do we fully explain this technology to our kids and equip them to make wise decisions. What books, research would you point to? My kids like learning about this with me!
@@careytomlinson9874 YES!!
Could you make a video about divorce or separation of the parents.
How to navegate that when your partner makes that call without the justification of fornication and you still want to save your marriage.
And even though you trust God and that He wants the best for you, you feel that the divorce is going to affect you and your chikd. How to cope with that as a mother of a toddler, how to help him become the man God wants him to be.
Emotional stability and absolutely no no no reaction to a woman's emotions. Learn to process woman's emotions without any answer and learn to show empathy.
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