BOUNDARIES IN DATING PT 1| EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
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- čas přidán 28. 04. 2020
- Hey All,
I thought I would share some of my thoughts around boundaries in dating as Christians! Part 1 deals with Emotional Boundaries. I hope you find this video helpful.
Let me know what areas around Emotions you guard when approaching dating!
p.s. please forgive the sound quality (cars passing and maybe kids screaming in the distance lol). My audio file got deleted so I had to work with what I had!
I hope you enjoy x
Yes! Very useful vid. Word! Emotional promiscuity - I shared a bit too much with someone once (those blurred friendships) and felt I had given them access to a part of my heart (it was about a past stronghold). They had this secret knowing about me. So I decided to confess (we are overcome by the word of our testimony) to my church family as a testimony of what I overcame. I'm glad I did that because it was freeing.
That’s so powerful . Anything kept in darkness has the power to control your thoughts, emotions and actions. Exposing it to the light disempowered shame. The moment you did that you reclaimed your power by taking your story back into your own hands. I pray more people would be courageous like this so they can properly heal too. Thank you for this! xx
I just got out of a relationship. This is indeed timely.
I want to be pursued too, a guy recently told me I look too independent so I scared him away. 🤷♀️ - such a clown.
Thank you for sharing ❤️…Independence can either be a sign of strength or a sign of insecurity. Too often women’s assertion of independence is really a fear of losing control or a fear of dependency. Healthy independence is so important in relationships as it helps to distinguish what's yours and who you are. Interdependence on the other had is also good, but only when greater commitment is established i.e. marriage. If a man walks away because of a woman’s independence (outside of marriage), strength, or confidence, it really reveals intimidation and insecurity in him. Get lost in God and pursue purpose. God will send the right person who recognises and values you.
This was a much needed video. There are lots of conversations in the church about physical boundaries in relationships. You're the first person I've come across who's addressed emotional boundaries. I wish someone had told me this sooner
OUCH! this came for my life! Emotional promiscuity, oversharing of past sexual experiences, using a man for emotional intimacy until the real husband comes along! WOW WOW WOW. These are serious revelations that I didnt realise were the reasons for a lot of the problems i was experiencing in my past relationships and here's me blaming the guy when I am as much at fault. God help me to be responsible with my own body and emotions and not to awaken love/marital benefits before their time.! Thanks so much for this Nickella. I will click over to part 2 but I need to meditate on this a little longer first! Gosh! I wish this was taught in many churches to singles preparing for relationships or even young/new couples who are courting. them pitfalls are like sinking sand once your in them. Better to be forewarned!
You have no idea how true this is 😅
Initially I was avoiding playing dating games, but I'm now realizing there's a difference between games and wisdom.
girl, this word is so powerful. people talk a lot about physical boundaries, but not that much about emotional ones, which are just as important. and emotional promiscuaty is really a thing. for a long time i thought that if i was not giving my all from the start, then i was being fake. but that's not true. that's not how god designed it to be
thank you for sharing
Can't wait for part 2!
Everything about this is gold!
Thank you for sharing this. Getting into relationships seems more complicated than it looks. Still single but definitely already made most of the mistakes you have mentioned . But really have some fear about relationships.
yesss girl you're absolutely right. I took notes cos Lord knows i needed to hear this.
God bless
Everything you said in this was absolute truth! Thank you Sis xx
Great video!!! So much wisdom & so much insight
Thank you for this. I needed to hear this.
Loved this! Wise woman you are. Thanks for sharing this sound advice ❤
bringing the wisdom! 🙌👏💓
Wow I needed to hear this teaching. We need more content! X
I needed this!!!!
such a great video and so needed thank you x
Such a great and insightful video! Thank you🙌🏾
Thanks Nicola, this is helpful!
Encouraged by this x
I love this you should make more videos!
Excellent video! Thank you
Thank you for this 🌸
This was so very helpful
Pure facts 🔥
Thank you
Good!!!
This came for me. What happens when you have overshared these information's with someone of the opposite sex. What happens when you have engaged in emotional promiscuity. How do you get back from that please
Can you do a video in how your husband pursue you?
All I want to say is that you are so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much
I don't have any plans to marry but I'm still very intentional with dating. It's totally possible to date with intention even if your goal isn't to marry.