Why Women Can't Find REAL Love... | Scott Galloway
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- Scott Galloway provides a deep analysis on the forces influencing modern romance, highlighting the challenges faced by modern women in the wake of growing socio-economic gender disparities.
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Why can't women compeat with porn and video games?
The more society raises women’s self-perception of themselves as well as what they deserve, especially, the sense of what they can have and demand in life for themselves…?
These high valued ladies will get less and less the more women gain…
Men who are lesser (shorter) in value in comparison to women’s “standards” of all they want…?!?
They are invisible to most women than to be used as friend zoned orbiters or vilified as as creeps or Myso-s (or only visible Post-Wall if at all).
….YES…women do gain overtime MEN…!!!
But only a skewed higher (taller) sense of the man who supposedly suits their deleterious desire for a “Real Man”!!!
But…that “Real Man” will NOT be found today…to serve their Trad-Com disposability!
I call what is happening to women today…the Cognitive-Behavioral Obesity Effect common to people who overeat (and other consumers)…the more most obese people eat indiscriminately, enlarge their stomachs and gain weight?!?
The less likely such a person feels fulfilled and less willing to eat less…
…irrespective of what they really need (or limits).
….even if it means eating healthier and of greater quality (and less quantity) to lose the unnecessary and harmful weight.
This man, Mr. Galloway, is right “no woman is responsible for serving a man” but all the same “no man is required today, no matter how dusty or high value he is, to invest into a Romantic commitment or thirsty prospect that is today’s woman, one which offers little to no R.O.I no matter how much she has in herself or says she can offer in an LTR!!!
Think? No woman is held to what she says or even the child she bears and invested by a man- legally all she has is hers-even her child- no man owns HER nor is she made accountable to what she creates and destroys, in the same way as men are- today’s lay-dee isn’t judged harshly nor fairly along with MEN…
…but placated by those like her in collusion with the State and the majority of S!MPs.
I truly can say: BOYS and MEN do much better by giving up…
….giving up on their delusional search for POON and Romantic Love and putting all their M.E.A.T into a better, more well-deserved place…
…on their own Peace, Quiet and Freedom…
And STOP trying to chase becoming a thirsty protector and Beta-Bux provider…
…to not only women and their high demands, with their often unreasonable sense of what they can really offer boys and MEN?!?
…which is often nothing but fluff, chameleon thirst trappings with a good dose of baiting & switching…
And boys and men do much better for themselves by renouncing all of it…!!!
…Really, what does any man get long term in bettering the lives of women for what men really get from soy-iety?
We are most often blamed for every problem that supposed affronts these ladies, while every heavy smite from a particular man or minor smidge of criticism or joke on the lives of these higher valued adult ladies…is ALL MEN’s FAULT….
….these same ladies who one time said they don’t need a man until she needs one for “X”…
…that is until they are tired and willing to divorce him scam the next dope!
Sorry but I am the type of man today b/c I have learned to give up…to give up on all their B-S!!!
….all the bag carrying, wasteful and unnecessary spending, playing replacement delivery guy and/or substitute fix-it person…
These “gimme-gimme” ladies can all high tail that self-entitlement to the place of Post-Wall tragedies!
Did marriage…never will I EVER marry again…
I rather die alone and NOT be burdened by the trials and tribulations of another woman and her bags of nonsensical wants and needs!
As for Mr. Galloway? He is a trad-Con-doo-doo head, and a shoddy misandrist to boot…pitiful waste of an interview!
LET ALL WOMEN be as risky and practical as they want- all by themselves- with their entourage of sycophantic men and pandering politicians!
@@kungfujoe2136 Women will never do b/c they offer little to no long term R.O.I.
Mysandry is lauded among women in Universities thus contributing to the rise in singledom and independence
@@laturista1000 You can't even spell it. STFU.
I went out with some female colleagues a few weeks ago. One of them hadn't seen the other in a while and asked her about her boyfriend. Girl B mentioned she broke up with him, and girl A replied with "oh he seemed so nice". Girl B replied "yeah he was pretty much perfect: kind, handsome, successful, supportive... But I got bored with him". Girl B then mentioned she's dating a new guy who is also seemingly perfect. Girl A asks her if she thinks this new guy is "the one" and girl B replied "no, this won't last. I'm starting to get bored with this one also" and girl A replies "I get you". Both these women are in their 30s. I thought to myself, having recently been dumped, "being a perfect guy, checking all the boxes doesn't matter anymore with modern women... Why bother?". No wonder things like passport Bros exist.
It's really very simple. Never change your plans for a woman. Never break your principles. She's along for your ride if she makes the cut, not the other way round. This is the ONLY strategy that works in a 'market' where women get unending attention and therefore options while men have to beg, borrow and steal for a single date with a high value woman. Reverse the roles and ask yourself how you'd act if you were in their shoes. What would you do if you had a line of women running out of your door? Be honest and use that as your starting point.
@@eb9720 sorry I wasn't put on this earth to be anyone's jester. It's also not my fault that modern women can't seem to find satisfaction in anything. I live a very happy and fruitful life, someone can choose to share in that or not, but I have no need to change to satisfy the urges of another.
@@eb9720 Be less of an asshole.
It's on the simps that demand such behavior by being too afraid of stopping their lunacy. Either they get on your program or they get out.
Low quality women deserve just a quick pump and dump.
@@davesmith826you're a clown
Truth be told it goes beyond just mediocre guys. And guys making minimum wage. I’m an airline pilot making well into six figures and financially free. In decent shape as well. It’s virtually impossible for even me to get a date on an app with even a girl who is unemployed.
A lot of guys are really unaware of how poorly they come across on their profiles. Find a girl you can ask and get some honest feedback.
Every guy is having problems. I'm sure you're aware of the passport bro movement lol
@@XAUCADTrader yeah 1. Most Most who want to eb passport bros doing make enough annually to qualify. 2. have her come over and work 50/50 like you expect women to do here and do the trad role and watch her leave you when she gets her green card... because it's a raw deal.
How tall are u and are u good looking? Are ur photos good? Can they tell u do well financially? Tinder research shows that pilots are cleaning up as the app's most-right-swiped male profession. As long are ur not short and are decent looking u should be doing well if ur pics are good
@@johnw6468 Some of these factors are not controllable. The next question you have to ask is what you receive in return? ...There's a reason our fertility rate is collapsing in, requiring mass migration from the third world to make up the difference. The data speaks for itself. Women control the market, yet 45 percent 35-44 will be single and childless by 2030 in USA. Divorce rates 50 percent of those who were successful in finding someone. This society is broken =).
"You can have it all, you just can't have it all at once" bless this man, I have been saying that for years.
I once knew a woman who was eternally single. She wanted a good man, a christian man, wanted kids (she was getting old but adoption was fine), loved music and maybe going to concerts. So far so good? AND he had to be a fan of the old Tarzan movies. That was NON-NEGOTIABLE. AND, he had to like the same Tarzan actor she liked, of the countless actors who played the role. She refused to be with someone who liked any other actor in the role ........................ She was also unable to find a guy who had ever seen a single Tarzan movie, and she declared they were uncultured and why oh why couldn't she find love? She has numerous cats now, cause obviously there were no good men and they were the problem.
Meow!😅
That’s a pretty bizarre nonnegotiable. No wonder she now just has cats
I am sorry to tell this about your friend, but I think she should seek for mental health care, before finding herself a man.
Okay. Do you hang out with mental patients often in your free time? Usually we just treat them as stupid and go on our merry way
@joelt1002 hey I'm a Johnny Weismeller fan myself. I even say ungawa every now and again lmbao. I used to love seeing the old king of the jungle grab a dugout and capsize it drowning the idiots in the boat. What kind of fools would get in a boat knowing none of them could swim! Ungawa!!!
It was 1988 in Coconut Grove, Miami, Florida. I had an apartment near the downtown "grove" area and used to have Sunday breakfast at one of the beautiful local hotels. I was at the Doubletree hotel coming down the elevator, and this was a hotel that was just full of models for outdoor sunny day photoshoots. The elevator stopped, and into the elevator stepped three stunning models who were having a girl's conversation about how they never get asked out. They were all in their late twenties and one was early 30s. I was 37 then, never exercised, but not fat, ordinary brown short hair, five feet seven inches. I was dressed business casual for Sunday breakfast. The elevator hit the bottom floor, and everyone got out, but I said rather loudly, "Excuse me," and all three turned around. "Which one of you would like to go to dinner with me at Versailles for some good Cuban food? And if you go, I'll get two tickets for the Miami Sound Machine, who's playing at the new club in North Miami, and we can hit the club after that. I'll have you home by 11. Now, who wants a real date?" So this short, fearless, ordinary guy stood there, and all three much taller women laughed, and one said, that is the nicest thing I've heard in ages. Hell, yes I'll go.” We had a lovely time, I had her home before midnight, we danced a the club and laughed a lot. She would call me whenever she hit Miami. She became my wife Lana who died from breast cancer a few years ago after thirty years of marriage.
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You got lucky dude. The exception to the rule, doesnt make it the rule! You had to make her such an incredible offer (most men arent financially able to 1. take a woman to a nice restaurant...AND...2. pay for two tickets to see a hot band perform...AND..3. take a woman to the club AND pay for overpriced drinks)! She probably was at a point her in life where the Chad's/the Tyrone's/The Brock the Bartender types (who were breaking her back when she was in her 20's)...werent going to wife her up. When you crossed her path...your offer to treat her to a great time on a date...was probably her 'what heck, I'll give it a try, the worst that can happen is that I get a free dinner/music performance/free drinks out of the deal' moment! And after you wowed her over with your charm/humor/etc....she woke up and said to herself 'maybe dude isnt so bad after all..maybe I'll give him a chance'!
However, most men cant afford to take such a chance. Sure, if a man knew that it was going to work....he would be stupid to not take that chance and fork over that cash, lol. However, in reality...what happened to you....isnt typical for most men.
@paullentz1972 When she met me I was managing a small machine shop and was making $500 a week. It was kind of an expensive date. She didn't say anything about the 10-year old Buick Century Sport I was driving and on later dates she seemed comfortable in my cheap one bedroom apartment that was fixed up nice. She was a beautiful model and I was ordinary guy. The one thing that keep our marriage together for thirty years was something I never forgot. Me at 5-7 sitting with my 5-10 beautiful model girlfriend who was making a lot more money than me, on the old couch of my cheap apartment she said "your wonderful" and once a women thinks that it makes no difference how much money you don't have, or what your appearance is, how how flash your life is, when they say that, they found 'home'.
@@nrdas8912 Great story!!!!!
@@nrdas8912You are the 👑
I'm sure everyone would laugh at me if I said I would only date a woman who is a literal supermodel with the personality of a comedian and the cooking skills of Rachel Ray. What these women are saying is the same equivalent 😂
But they “deserve” it 😂
@@darbyohara yeah everyone has a sense of entitlement these days so nothing would surprise me lol
Exactly. Except if a man says it, he's a "misogynist, pig, needs therapy, small dick energy, etc. etc."
If a woman says it, then she "knows her worth, is a queen, men need to step up, etc."
It's so ridiculous. Society has obviously pedestalized and coddled women yet nobody seems to realize it.
Men and women aren't the same though. Women have to be more selective than men.
@@rf-uj5sc selective and living in complete fantasy are two different things.
I've been with her for 35 years & she has been unfaithful twice (that I know of). Since giving birth when she looks at me it feels like she is saying I could have done better. Prior to having kids she gave me 10 years of awesome so in my opinion post-pregnancy hormones (postpartum depression) destroyed our relationship. I'm just a typical married man hanging on because of the phrase: It's Cheaper to Keep Her. An emotionally unstable woman can take all the joy out of a man's life.
ALL OF THEM, are emotionally unstable. All of them. You never stood a chance. It was always going to be this way. I was lied to, you were lied to. Personally, I am relieved I went through with divorcing my crazy unstable woman. She was amazing in the beginning, but that person died and got replaced by some monster. I still miss her, even though she's alive and I share custody with her.
At the end of the day, there is no substitute for a peaceful life. IMO, you should still divorce your wife. Downsizing your life into single-wide mobile home and going fishing every other day is worth it. Fk the house, fk the "stuff" in the garage, all that other stuff you worked overt-time to get. In this situation, that stuff owns you, you don't own it. Surprise everyone, do the unexpected, and escape your doomed life.
That sucks but you can still mentally check out. Yeah she’s your wife but if she’s disrespectful toward you, don’t go out of your way for her. Put yourself before her from now on, don’t give her gifts or be too available. If she’s not really committing to the marriage, you should do the same
Im legitimately sad for you man, thats absolutely horrible she betrayed you, you deserve better!
X10
I am sure it's all her and you are just an innocent victim..
Before l met my partner.
I tried on line dating!
Thankfully now, never again.
I met a lady off a dating site in a bar.
And we got on ok, the conversation was flowing.
But there wasn't that romantic spark for me.
Anyway, end of the date.
As we prepared to leave. This lady said to me.
"Well Paul it's been lovely talking to you, but l'm looking for someone a little more professional than you!"
Exactly.
You can imagine what l was thinking at that point.
What a dreadful and cold individual that was.
Absolutely zero chance of meeting someone with that mind set.
The thing is as well.
How does one determine professional?
I was just happy to drive out of the car park in my 72 plate Merc.
And l also run a property conversion company, own house.
Interesting watching this after my experience.
women do this all the time, it's a head trip they have, that women will always be trying to trade up till she hits the wall
Society: you dont meet the requirements to play this game
Men: ok then i wont play this game
Society: no you cant do that
Exactly
And you can't leave the country for a different game either!
@@hahamasala And we won't "legalize" the other game!!!!
Capitalizing on male desperation has always been at the forefront of societal progress.
Go gay
The correct answer is to stop teaching our children that life is a fairytale and that prince charming isn't coming to sweep you off your feet and make your life perfect. We should be teaching them that life is difficult and you aren't going to get everything you work for. So you need to prioritize the important things and if you get the bonus things that just a bonus. We also need to teach everyone that happiness is your personal problem, if you want to be happy you have to make yourself happy. Too many people rely on their partners for their happiness.
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Good message. Far better than most I’m seeing here
Same with men wanting women for their happiness in these comments, lol.
I would argue it isn't 'happiness' - it is fulfillment. And you're fulfilled by working hard. Struggling. You cannot be happy all the time. That relationship is going to take the wind out of your sails (maybe more often than not) and what are you going to do when is does? Give up? Or work at it?
Yeah about that...Men make life easy for women they are attracted too. Relationships shouldn't be that hard. Women shouldn't be working overtime and also do all the house work and child rearing. If you aren't getting something from working hard then you are doing something wrong. You are pretty much a slave. If happiness is a personal problem then why is the "lonely men epidemic" all of a sudden everyone's problem?
I really feel that, if you are single and looking for a partner, you should do everything you can to meet a variety of new potential partners in person (and not online). The reason I say this is there are so many wonderful people who don't appear as wonderful when seen on a screen. You don't see a person's real personality or potential until you've spent time with them. Also, your "criteria" for who you want to be with changes as you meet and interact with others. Dating or spending time with a variety of people (even those who don't fit your current standards) really allows you to understand what makes you happy in a partner...that criteria changes with time and experiences.
Great advise!
This is why I recommend that if you get anxious the best way to approach a woman is to literally give her a compliment and walk away. If she chases after you she is interested if she doesn’t then no. It worked for me a couple of times and by no means am I super attractive. I am a calm 7 at least to me. The only women who come to me directly and are supper flirty are women 24+. Women that are 22 are attracted to me but do not come to me at all. My dad told me the reason is that you give off a serious vibe and what happens is girls my age do not like that at all. Meanwhile older women do. Come to think of it now it makes sense.
probably yhe best advice here. thro away the laundry list. go out and live and see whats there.
lmao a joo
What REFRESHING advice! (Frankly, I DON'T do online dating--so, it's nice to hear your perspective. Thanks for the validation!
I’m so glad I got married at 20, part way thru nursing school. Married recent grad 22 yr old from Penn , in 1975.
We built a life together while married. I never had an expectation except a person have good character.
Ummm... Then, you are not one of the women being discussed in this video.
Excellent, happy for you👏
Yeah but I bet you’re overweight
A very very different time compared to now. Like comparing apples and orangutans.
Dear Kathie,
When cheated did you feel any guilt or remorse?
I know quite a few career women like this. The problem is that they're a nightmare to be with in a relationship with behaviour traits that might serve them well in the business / corporate world but are completely toxic in an intimate relationship.
Yep. Have to be the boss all of the time.
Most straight men don’t want to date other men in a woman’s body. The minute a woman got combative with me, I would walk - if I were looking, which I ain’t. I have a gf and if this one ended, I would never look again.
Because they're _bastardized_ men.
that s not the case. if a man could support us both i would be happy to stay at home
@Sky10811
How old are you ?
About a decade ago when I was just out of Uni and online dating was still relatively new, a friend of mine said that the problem with it was that a guy who is a 9 will go home with a girl who is a 7, because someone to go home with is better than nobody. This leads the girl who is a 7 to believe she should be aiming for (I hesitate to use the term 'entitled to') a relationship with a 9, resulting in multiple dissapointments when the 9's drop them. He said he thought the top slice of men were cleaning up, and girls were developing an unhealthy dislike of men. I have to admit, I thought he was just someone who wasn't having much success online being bitter. Fast-forward a decade and there's a wealth of research and data to show he was onto something. For 99%+ it isn't working. Bizarre how online dating continues to grow despite this.
You have to be acute to see the pattern 10 years ago, even when now it's pretty obvious (although unseen by the majority of society). Chances are your friend has made a more valid points in other things, he is intelligent, keep his friendship.
Everybody has known of this effect. This is why women were constantly called full of sin in the olden days. It was a direct attack on women to get them to stay in their lane with the men on their looks level and not try to get impregnated by the rich men. The priests were actually doing the men around town a favor by labeling the women as potential traitors, because they all are. "Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die" (Eccles. 25:22).
I've always hated how being bitter is an insult.
There's a lot of 49ers out there... girls who are 4/10s who think they're 9/10s.
Not to mention a never ending epidemic of women saying “men are trash” and they “don’t need no men”. Women are emotional thinkers and it’s hard to reach a rational ground with creatures who thrive on pure emotion. Truth is, majority of people won’t be able to build healthy families unless a man settles with an unattractive woman.
Tripling the minimum wage does nothing but raise the price floor for everything….its the equivalent of printing money and utterly ineffective on a macroeconomic scale in a term longer than a business quarter.
Getting private equity out of housing, and making the big 3 (healthcare, housing -OWNING, and higher education) affordable at a minimum wage level, would go infinitely farther than raising minimum wage.
Increasing the purchasing power of the dollar and stopping the constant flood of low skilled illegal immigrants is the solution for lifting young people. Galloway always disappoints. It’s too bad. He does identify key issues.
No it doesn't. It has been studied it plenty of times, and raising minimum wage does nothing to prices.. all it does is boost the local economy and economy overall.
@@mdaniels6311 Except when corporations simply raise their prices in response to keep profits up. Which is literally what happened after labour got a breather post-pandemic. Now it's worse than ever. Without price control, you have to focus on affordability moreso than just giving money away.
I’m very successful financially and have been married and have a great daughter. I have ZERO interest in even dating anymore because women I meet are not anyone who I’d want to really know. Very shallow and I’m not too particular. The expectations are nuts. I’m now content being alone.
I’m married now but when I was younger and single I often noticed a strange double standard in the way men and women spoke about the opposite sex. A woman would say “I wish I could meet a decent guy…there just aren’t any out there” and her comment would often be validated by other people…older men, women of all ages, cultural “authorities,” etc. No man would dare say “I wish I could meet a decent girl..there just aren’t any out there.” No one would validate that comment. Furthermore people would be all over him telling him to get his sh*t together and the right woman would appear.
That's because in most people's eye, it's man's fault unless proven otherwise.
Even with cheating: If he cheats, he's a dog; if she cheats, it's because he wasn't there for her emotionally.
No one would validate him bc it isn't true. There's less decent guys than decent women. Everyone knows that.
@@tizodd6There's some truth to every stereotype.
@@SamanthasUniverse No. There's individual *PERCEPTION* to every stereotype.
@@SamanthasUniverse How much bonnets do you own?
Men find out how loyal their woman is when they are broke and destitute, women find out how loyal their man is when they are super successful and have lots of money.
That's brilliant and so true, I assume someone has said it... is it a quote or your own?
Poor men cheat everyday and being broke isn’t sustainable in a relationship. If you don’t have money, you can’t afford to be in a relationship. It’s simple.
@@stephen-wahl That's just a red pill saying.
Nope, I know men that make well into the six figures that can’t get a date. For men, it’s about looks AND money. Not one exclusive of the other
@@Ferien7 This is an excellent turn of events. It means that women are rarely interested in dating no matter what a man offers. Keep those high standards, ladies. Women these days don't seem to consider the hassles of dealing with males worth it unless they've really got something to offer. We are centering ourselves and living for ourselves. Ladies, keeps it up!!! Walk away from dating. Let the males be alone. We will enjoy each other and our children. Our mothers, sisters, friends, girl cousins, and our little ones are fulfilling our social needs. Yessss!!!!!
The only thing raising minimum wage does is make it easier for huge corporations to destroy their smaller competitors. Double the minimum wage, small businesses go bankrupt, large companies then double their prices or half their staff.
Bingo
Large corporations contribute to political campaigns. Small businesses do not. Politicians can't get elected without money. Like everything else, campaigning is much more expensive now.
He literally stated in the video he was aware of all the negative outcomes people expected, but it had the opposite effect.
@@kenji2787 no it didn't, businesses are currently already closing. You cannot just force business to pay people more, why not just force them to pay everyone $100/hour then??
The most hilarious part is the USC themselves don't even have a $20 minimum wage 😂😂
@user-ze3sg6ix1u so business is closing when the minimum wage has not been raised to $20 but raising minimum wage to $20 is going to be the cause of business closing? Why not raise everyone’s weight to $100? You know the difference between 10x and 2x? Oh eat 1 meal a day is too little, eat 2x a day. Why not 10x meal a day??!!
I'm a 64 year old male so I've been around the block and I'm telling you this is one smart guy.
Thank you for addressing the “rage”. There’s 7 million men in the US right now that wouldn’t care if it burnt to the ground today. That’s an awful truth. An awful truth that’s only gonna grow. What happens when it hits 10 million men? 20 million? Who’s gonna stop this trend? Who even CARES to stop this trend?
Sounds like 20 million votes for the bald guy with the bad comb over and the orange makeup.
@@jim2376 That's one way to burn it all to the ground
@jim2376 Trump derangement syndrome is the real pandemic. The media has really done a number on the public. I didn't vote for him but it's impossible to deny that things were better under him, and that Biden is nearly completely brain dead.
The 2 system politics is mental.
those men are ravaging North East Paris right now. They are refugees and outkasts of society! There will be a huge war and blood in the streets in Europe soon. Loveless women finding LOVE is the least important thing right now. We are on the verge of mass economic collapse in many parts of Europe! Wake up folks! Women today are delusional! Let's see how their entitlement behavior works out during World War!!
ITS HER!
She’s not what men want. She is unqualified for the men she wants and she’s not what those men want.
They want to have their cake and eat it too. They get bored easily and want a life of adventure and have no problems leaving their long-term husbands if it means more tingles for them.
I don't think increasing the minimum wage will fix this. 7 months later and California increased the minimum wage to $20 and 10,000 people are out of a job. Can't find a mate if your jobless or struggling to compete for a job.
CA is running a real world experiment on forcing a non market minimum wage. There is also a proposal to force a $25 minimum wage for non professional health care workers. Let’s see what happens after a year or two. The other states can learn from CAs example.
I couldn't believe he recommended higher minimum wage while citing the 3 states approaching net outward migration and that the women are the ones filing for divorce for the most trivial reasons (wage had little to do with it). Also, higher wages won't do anything to allay the verbal assaults (subtle and overt) directed at white, heterosexual, males all day long and every day.
He is proposing a rise in the minimum wage that is so high it would force employers to accept hiring the young people who do want to learn on the job.
At 20 dollars an hour, you can still afford to lay people off and do the work yourself. Or so this is what we are seeing empirically regardless of economic logic.
At 60 dollars, it makes more sense for you to shift major responsibilities to an employee who can satisfy with productivity the increase in wages. Few candidates will qualify. Fewer will take over and run the business. This is how America began after 1945. Except people saved their money at the time because there was war even if they did win the war
Today, people will spend their money. And so, you have to pay them more to be able to replicate that system.
The problem? Too much inflation which unless exported raises prices too fast.
The solution? Growth. Or War. And they cannot be mutually inclusive.
You can't mate with a low paying job either so what is the point
Also he’s making the mistake of looking at the tax rate instead of revenue.
Only those suddenly rich paid that 92%. Everyone else had friends in that income bracket that told them to park their money in tax shelters or things they knew were going to lose money, just not enough to be more than the tax break from that loss.
Part of dropping the rate was paring back some and removing other shelters and deductions. So that even with the lower rate the tax revenue went up. Too bad Congress acted like drunk sailors and blew the windfall.
You make some good points about changing gender roles. I just have a hard time wrapping my mind around boosting the minimum wage to the point where a McDonald’s combo meal will cost $25. Seems to me all that will do is speed up the replacement of workers with robotics and AGI. It will also make hard-working teenagers who will go on to college anyway just that much more wealthier with more toys.
Also, you’re old enough to remember the malaise era. You may even remember seniors having to eat cat food. Not sure we can avoid these pitfalls with such a radical overhaul of the economy.
When they made women the focus of education and put a strong hiring and promotion bias towards women and minorities, it basically obliterated male achievement in both education and the workplace.
Women should understand this truth about men. Most men live by the philophosy (among many), "If you weren't there for my struggle, don't expect to be present for my success." As men we never forget who was there for us when we were nothing and who wasn't.
Not true. I've known men who left their women after they got their success.
@Nova226 those are outliers and if you investigate further there was a deeper issue behind it because men don't just leave marraiges.
Women don't care about men struggles; they wait at the finish line & bang the winner.
@@daRich_X I have no doubt they exist, but picking out a couple of exceptions among a sea of the opposite situation isn't a good argument
@@mbg9650 isnt that due to the fact that for decades when they had no option BUT to be loyal, many of them were stuck in the WORST relationships and so now when the current gen of women get to experience a lot of freedom, they have standards cuz they know better.
As soon as I heard the phrase "social media" in 2007 and Facebook I knew it was going to make people more anti social and seperate them more than bring them together. And now hear we are.
Yeah you totally knew, like Houdini
Asocial .. yeah I realized a few years back just how asocial and lazy social media makes me. I can only imagine how it is for younger people that grew up with it
@@TV-oc4ml
I think you mean Nostradamus, Chief.
Yup, also knew it was the beginning of the end in 2008 here in europe. Was baffled that people had no problem putting pictures of them on the internet and giving up their privacy
@@TV-oc4ml a lot of people were predicting it because they were just combining their knowledge of human nature with an emerging technology.
It's not that genius of a prediction, and I don't see why the commenter would be "making it up". I was in high school in 2007 and plenty of articles and commenters and people were saying that it's going to ruin a lot of regular society.
Just because some people are now saying "I told you so," it doesn't mean that in 2007 they had no idea how destructive social media could be and they're lying.
A lot of people literally said that in 2007, and people I know in my family have said Facebook is an idiotic platform to waste time on, and that it will lead to misinformation.
That was since 2010.
He said massive "high increases in the minimum wage worked so well in NY & California economies invreased." Sure, they increased for U-haul & moving companies cause people are moving out of those states at record levels.
A delusional leftist is similar to a woman whose standards only go up. Completely out to lunch and not living in the real world!
Galloway's idea of rasing the minim ujm wage is a SOUND one.--it's been STALLED OUT for 40+ YEARS. That would certainly help a lot of young men get a foothold. Don't know why you';re knocking it!
@@user-cz5lj2vx1f if raising the minimum wage is so sound, then why do the states with the highest minimum wage have the most people moving out? These srates/areas also have the highest cost of living which actually hurts low income workers the most. They are also on every list as the worst places for retirement & seniors to live, look it up.
Also...
@@user-cz5lj2vx1f These minimum wage jobs are meant as a stepping stone to a higher career or education. They were never meant as a permanent career. You're actually hurting those lower income to not get educated or go to a trade school to better their lives. If higher wages for menial jobs worked, then the Soviet Union would've been a paradise. Instead it collapsed.
agreed. the guest is an economic ignoramus.
I’m 5’5”. What bothered me was tall men dating very short women - who might date me. Dude! You are dating someone who is child size! It took me a long time to find someone to marry - and I tried all types. I rarely got past a second date. Took me 30 years but have been married now for 8. She is 5’5” and I’m grateful she never saw my height as an issue for her. We fit pretty well too which has advantages.
I totally agree with what was said, unfortunately women are also looking for trophy husbands, tall, good looking, intelligent, successful, no baggage and so on but it doesn’t exist, society now wants instant gratification….. unfortunately
It exists, just have to compete for it.
@@RC-ol8qgexactly this 🤡 is complaining but never looked in the mirror
@@RC-ol8qg That's like 5 guys on the planet that ticks all those boxes.
That's crazy because 80-85% of single women are overweight or single moms. They'd be lucky to just qualify for one of those
Correct. Women 30+ are mentally ill in how they choose mates
You can’t break the glass ceilings, tell men to be an ally to women, not to “mansplain” or a “know-it-all” and expect to find the same number of ambitious and successful men as you would have in the past. That’s delusional.
Now, if a woman legitimately believes in true gender equality and actually is attracted to men that are comfortable embracing their feminine side, and is willing to work part time/part time houses husband/stay at home Dad - that would work, but many of most women still don’t want that.
Most of my friends at work are young female elementary school teachers. Several who are looking for a male partner fit the stereotype discussed in this video. I joke with them that they are following the rule of 6s. He has to be 6 feet tall, have 6 pack abs, and have a 6 figure income. They seriously are looking for all that and surprisingly can't find it.
I dated such a guy I met through online app. He’s a control freak, selfish as hell. But, works out daily, great high paying job, and hot. He just got a divorce and now an available ass hole, I mean, bachelor.
@@Foxie635 Why not date a short king? They're better at everything.
I tend to be skeptical when I hear a woman call a guy controlling because a lot of the times women are trying to do things in a long-term relationship they shouldn't be doing like going out with other men or going on girls nights out which we all know are designed to go and get hot with other men.
Clamping down on women's thinking they can have open relationships and having relations with multiple men while in a long-term relationship is one of the goals of my life.
Meanwhile, they are not what those men want. Those women think men that meet her expectations are looking for similar characteristics and nothing could be further from the truth.
Get this. Men need to work harder, earn more, hit the gym more, be better in every single way...
To then get turned down by obese women with multiple kids by different men (this has happened to me multiple times too), which bad or dismissive attitudes.We're in crazy land now literally!
I've got a house, good savings etc, average looking but in good shape. Can't get a date pretty much. I'm only after short term relationships really. Why would I risk my situation for an most likely unsuccessful long term relationship, the collapse of which could lead to financial ruin?. It's high risk & low reward for me ...& women have tons of options. I'd be seen as a mark to be exploited pretty much.
A long term relationship with a good woman who's average looking is a relic of a bygone era...like a coal miner yearning for the mine still to be open, when everyone had a good full-time job & the community was booming. It's over for most men. We need to stop chasing the past & accept this new Instagram reality. The genie isn't going back in the bottle. Long term relationships are pretty much doomed for the vast majority of men.
Straight from the heart, Travis. Lot of painful truth to what you said. Grab the passport. Vietnam, Indonesia, Thailand, Philippines. Check them out. Stay strong, bro.
100% truth!
Yup u have to be around women when they get horny. Then pretty much get used for sex. Then rinse and repeat. That gets boring too. Women get hurt they get attached to them that same process is a roller coaster the truth is the modern women is by 20 years ago standards the modern “hoe” feel bad for the guys that put a ring in those creature’s fingers
Do you see the things you listed?
You have a house, savings, and are in average shape.
You basically listed nothing of value that most other men already have.
@@Corgiking521how do you reach that conclusion? 🤔
Most men in the US & the western world don't own their own property & are obese. Also, most men don't have the savings to cover a $1000 unexpected bill / would be homeless if they were made redundant & couldn't find a new job within 2 months. Those are facts. That puts me comfortably better than average financially.
Also, I'm comfortably better than average shape.
On the surface though, my financial situation isn't recognised by the wider world, as mine is paid for, wheres most other peoples situation is serviced my mountains of debt.
"The key to a healthy marriage is low expectations". I would also say that you should avoid giving yourself too many options or choices. The key to painting a masterpiece is not to fool yourself into believing that you have to travel to the ends of the earth to find a scene worthy enough to paint. Many of the world's most beautiful artworks were painted just a stone's throw from the painter’s home. How often have we marvelled at a painting depicting the most mundane of subjects and be utterly moved by its simplicity. We have lost the power to be moved by simple things because we are always looking and looking for something better and not able to truly see what is in front of us. We are never satisfied.
Agreed. You can either have standards or you can have a man, but you definitely CANNOT have both. Pick your poison.
Then that rule should apply to BOTH MEN and WOMEN…
BUT
Women want the the top, the best or the alphas making $$$$$$.
With the growth of passport brothers, they’re being shamed for looking for love, companionship as well as cooperation abroad however if they’re not getting love, affection and respect at home???
can you be surprised if they go abroad (if they can afford it) for what men who want long term relationships, companionship and marriage at home???
Men get your passports, you are not obligated to fix or help a society that villainizes and demonizes you. There are cultures that appreciate men and where you can thrive and create strong,healthy,loving relationships and community. Let the west burn and get your passport. Don't waste your time trying to save it.
PERFECTLY STATED!!! ❤
I love this
Love that he told the truth about tax rates being higher before Reagan and minimum wage myths. We really did sell out our middle class thinking the rich would make us all rich too (we always fall for it).
10:38 I’m sorry, my wallet isn’t a tool for your social banking.
The situation is considerably easier for women because it is the women who are CHOOSING not to date the majority of men around them. The men are not making a choice, they simply have no options and no hope of a relationship or even a date. The women may cry more and complain more on social media but the men keep their pain to themselves. For men, having "no options" leads to a considerably more depressing life than the typical life experienced by women who have chosen not to date 80% of the men around them.
Boohoo, then date men. Help men out
@@ehhh193typical immature ignorant response of a poisonous juvenile person.
Most good men I know ether just stopped looking or left the country.
I wanted a wife and children, gave up at 30 and never tried to date again. At least I now know I'm in the majority.
Most guys gave up on women.
@@ehhh193 typical insensitive response. Showing a total lack of respect or care for men.
At this point, it might be better to make it less about individual choice and more about collective responsibility. What will happen to society if men and women refuse to procreate because everyone's gone nihilist?
We can never talk about men's issues on their own terms, can we? The discussion can take place only in the context of the effects on women. "Men are committing suicide at an unprecedented rate; women hit hardest."
Men just can't leave women alone even though they think them (women) lesser than them
@@stophittingyourself123 I find it hard to believe that women are lesser because it appears men collapse when women leave the building. Hardly "lesser in terms of logical reasoning and holding the standard of societies". Whatever "holding the standard of societies" means. Women rule the world, whatever you all think. We are the ones who decide whether s*x takes place or not. That is why you have religion taking away that power and giving it to men through their gods.
He’s an academic. They’re all brainwashed by a female centric education system
@@the8thchurch461because women are still taking from men more than they give back. Of couese we shouldnt leave them alone happy with their wants.
Right? This is so disgusting
Good information! Thanks!
Triple the minimum wage???? When, in the last 100 years, has that helped?
Look at the number of workers. Look at the imported workers.
It will help tremendously. The US is like a third world country where restaurant workers wage is dependent on tips!?!
It's crazy in EU your restaurant is not able to exist. Pay the minimumwage, or get fined. Where I live, a minimum wage is a LIVING wage. Our benifits are 70% of that and people don't go homeless. No need to own a gun, because nobody feels the need or hunger to burglar, steal, or rob anyone.
I heard Sadia Khan say something that resonated with me as a 33 year old with no family but financial success so far. Life begins to feel like a slow suicide.
jesus Christ mate. You are still young as for a man. Play the long game and dont worry about your "feelings" so much, your future family will thank you for pushing on.
You've got money but you're thinking about suicide because you don't have a family. Be careful what you wish for!
The problem with life is essentially all of its most interesting content is frontloaded into its first trimester (the first 25 years). There's a reason people eventually want to partner up and procreate because just going to and from work to an empty house or apartment with a TV, Laptop, and frozen dinner filled kitchen gets old after a few years.
For God's sake, don't get your information from Sadia Khan! She constantly insults men and says incredibly harmful insults at them. Most guys are simping for her because she has pretty face. Don't be fooled by her.
@@johnnastrom9400agreed...I honestly can't stand a bunch of these "red pill" creators. They say a bunch of BS with confidence and people buy into it because that's what confidence does. It make people believe whatever you say. I don't mean it's all BS but none of these people have shown why they're worth listening to. Those Fresh & Fit guys are a couple of jokes too
Women used to have to settle for the hottest guy at the bar. Then they all went online and decided to trade up. The problem is, they all traded up to the same men who now have 8 women each.
A lot of women prefer to put themselves on some Chad's 7 day rota than settle for an average boyfriend.
@@KevTheImpaler Yes, women can prefer to share Chad's harem when we have the Welfare State paying for her Section 8 rent, EBT card, SNAP benefits, Obamacare and Gender Studies forgiveness. Now consider that all net taxes are paid by men and you see that the welfare state is a form of cuckoldry for most men.
@@KevTheImpaler Let's not pretend that Chad (in the 97.7 percentile) is just one step above "average boyfriend" (in the 50.0 percentile). No, women are shooting down a male 9.4 to share a male 9.8.
I have to take issue with Scott Galloway essentially being an apologist for female hypergamy.
Here's what's happening over the last 50 years. Many of us men also to promote female equality and female economic viability and progress.
Back in the old days though men were willing to date women and marry them and when they made even no money whatsoever.
How have women rewarded men for their economic progress?
Why is it that so many men are apologists for this?
A good deal of the time women are saying men are pigs cuz they like sex or whatever but never can you say the opposite.
Are women not pigs for insisting that they're men have to make more money than them even though they're making way more money than their mothers did?
There's definitely a double standard there and it's not good.
I am amazed at the fact that more men are not making this an issue, especially those men who are under 30 who are suffering the most.
I'm going on record right now I have absolute zero and I mean absolute zero sympathy for women who are lonely because of the fact that they dare not date a man who makes less money than them or is maybe only about as tall as they are when they are not wearing high heels.
Did men ever get sympathy because a man was lonely because he refused to date a woman who was not a 9+? Absolutely not and nor should a man get sympathy for being alone because he refuses to date someone less than a 9 plus.
I think it's high time that we make the same statement about the way women are regarding hypergamy.
well said, seen many professional women single well into their 30s and beyond, at 50 some of them finally wise up
@@michaelsix9684 Nothing is more satisfying than that.
Yes!!
Here we are. Saved to review more comments later. Thanks for sharing (everyone), gracias
90% of women looking for the top 10% of men is like 9 people applying for one job. Gonna be a lot of "We're sorry but you were unsuccessful" letters going out.
After one or two "interviews"😅😅😅
At least they still get to be volunteers and interns gaining experience (bodycounts), and a stipend (bastard kids). Men wish they'd get those opportunities
And they’ll all be baffled why it didn’t work out. Because none will take accountability
@@dmonk926
Being used for their body isn’t something that women want.
You’re looking at it from a male lense
@@TheShowOff2I i see it as women having complete agency in growing their body counts. Stop taking responsibility from women.
Alot of guys have gone through the whole dating, romance, marriage, disinterest, dislike, breakup and divorce settlement poverty cycle to know that the risk sometimes simply isn't worth it. Sometimes even going through the whole cycle more than once.
Maybe modern life simply isn't suited to a long term relationship and neither women nor men shouldn't be guilted into one.
Yes. The current model of marriage seems a historical outlier, but is now held sacrosanct. We are living with a broken model, no wonder there is so much confusion.
deep
@@apergiel The only reason it's like this is because of female overempowerment and no-fault divorce laws. Fix those and these problems will go away very quickly.
It's a Brave New World.
Dinosaurs became extinct because the environment didn't allow for their survival. Same with relationships. They can't be cultivated or survive in the current environment
This guy nailed it. He’s spot on and totally gets it.
I've found that most women can't tell arrogance from the confidence they love. The bad boy attitudes are sexually interesting to them, but after a while, the narcissism becomes intolerable.
And they wonder why domestic violence is so rife
I missed the part about people being completely obnoxious and awful to be around.
Exactly.
A woman I was seeing casually said "men are trash," and she thought I was way out of line for having a problem with her saying that.
Well there is that lol
@@unnecessaryapostrophe4047avoid women and people in general like that. Thats her belief so her actions will move in order to make that belief true
@@unnecessaryapostrophe4047 Tbh that's not a problem actually. It helps us to avoid misandrists. It would be better if women expressed their thoughts openly.
40 % of American women are obese 70 % are overweight but they deserve high value men. STAGGERING DELUSION ON the part of Galloway !
@@P.90.603 That's idealistic plus your avoiding Galloways claim men can't get women when in reality men don't want alot of them...
Aren’t the stats similar for men on obesity and being overweight
@@gm9460 no the average American man weight 180, woman 160. Over 20 years mens weight has stayed the same and womens has jumped 20lbs
@@bk_c7704 This isn't true. You are not collecting your information from a reputable source. (I guess you probably didn't think a published researcher in Public Health from a world-renowned research university would be in the comments section, did you? 🙃)
Americans as a whole tend to be overweight. While women, as a whole, tend to have higher percentages on the overweight scale, American men aren't very far behind.
Essentially, you are like the 400 lbs person calling the 425 lbs person fat, not realizing that you're BOTH in the same sinking ship; yours is just sinking at a slower, but still definite, rate. 🫠
You mean like how MOST American men are average earners yet still want/expect to date an attractive woman? 🫠
Or how MOST American men are average earning men who cannot single-handedly financially support a family/household, but will turn their nose up at an overweight woman? 🙃
Raising minimum wage at the Federal level makes no sense when the cost of living varies by region.
Wrong. Raising the minimum wage just destroys the business entities that can only provide the low wages and job experience for young people. Probably the biggest problem is, that young teen-agers are basically prohibited from working by law. I had my first job when I was 11 years old. Made $3 a day that summer. Leaned to show up on time and do what I was told. I have hired 20 year olds now, who can't qualify in any way for a job at any price. Some of them, I was able to pull into reality, while for others, it was too late. How can one of those find a relationship that lasts? And who would want to be their mate?
I feel that the US is facing a crisis of a lost generation of men bowing out of dating and giving up hope of marriage and children because of the disgusting and demoralizing situation in our economics and status wars. We are in the age of American Hikikomori.
It's not worth it anymore. I used to hold women on a pedestal. But after years of trying to date women, I now see that they are no better than petulant children. They are like spoiled kids who expect you to do everything for them
I've never visited the US but I read about it a lot and it almost seems apocalyptic. Where I'm based in the UK, things are not quite as bad but they are definitely getting worse. I'm not a bad looking guy and I'm very well educated and successful. I look good in photos - better in fact, than real life - which should count in my favour on dating apps. But I have never matched with a woman on an app who is my intellectual and social equal. I've dated several who are, including my (now ex-) wife, but I met them all in real life, not on Hinge.
For a while I thought this was a matter of age - as we get older, the pool of viable mates gets smaller - but the more I read about divorce rates and loneliness, the more I think it's the deranged logic of social media that is the cause of my and other people's woes. I think a large number of women are deluded into thinking they can bag a top 10% guy even if they're in the bottom half of their own sex. On many measures, I would be considered top 10% - the only major shortcoming I have is that I'm going bald, but in every other domain, from looks to fitness to intelligence and height (I'm just under 6 foot) I score high - but I find it very difficult to match with someone who simply interests me, let alone excites me. I get lots of single mothers, some of whom don't want kids but match with me even though I specifically state I do, and a handful of women who are, to be blunt, not in my league.
It's the same or even worse in Europe and SE Asia
You left out the fact that women of all ages who do online prostitution and/or the younger ones that have a body count similar to a s3x worker. They are not the same people that our society tells us are quality partners
The economy is only one issue.
I'm married with a kid, but hearing shit like this still depresses me.
I am happily married for 32 years and it also gets me depressed - mainly for today's young men and the shitty situation they face with today's young women. The fact that most of them will never be able to marry an attractive woman with a low body count like I did is so sad.
@@RonHarrisMuscle ok incel
2:17 From an inquiry or survey now notorious:
when asked "Could you be satisfied with 80% of
all the traits you require of a man if you found
them in a man you're dating?" an overwhelming
majority of women responded "NO." Because
this majority felt "That would be 'settling'."
I'm already investing in Meow Mix and vibrator companies.
And pharmaceuticals that deal with depression since men are more likely to deal with depression and women are more likely to use a Band-Aid on depression.
they have a phone stuck to there face... there is the answer to the problem in one.
I agree! People need to get off social media and hit the gym. Men as well as some women need to find purpose in their life.
So if men have a problem, they need to improve themselves.
If women have a problem, society needs to solve it!
As he said, he has to ask everyone he interviews what is the solution to his fem a le friends problem.
That’s always the way. Along with “men have a problem - women most affected”
Women totally work on themselves thr time spent on appearance, studying etc is crazy
@@meglarson9401Not all. Many women are overweight single moms with kids from different guys and still want a 6ft+ tall handsome guy who earns in 6 figures
Im 60, in the best shape of my life, have a good job, my own place decent car. After years of failed relationships and a marriage im single and i love it. No dating sites, no chasing women, do what i want when i want buy whatever i want. Done with the whole dating and relationship world and im happier than i ever was when i was in a relationship.
More and more men are realizing this. Marriages and societies only work long term if men have authority over women.
Some of us are just ugly. Facial ugliness is the primary predictor of dating success for both men and women. This has been incredibly well researched. People who get lots of dates easily are more physically attractive. But that makes for a depressing story...
People want their romantic lives to be a mythology, so they come up with this narrative that men go out there, accomplish a list of things, and women become attracted to them. We make a gigantic number of books and movies repeating this narrative and eventually people think it's real. To the extent that people notice the superficiality within themselves they feel it must be unique - that there must be tons of people out there that are more attracted to behavior. But there aren't. We are all strikingly similar in what we want. Certainly people care about behavior, but that comes later on in a relationship.
Finally some truth in the comments height and looks are number one there is no negotiating this there is no gym for your face or your height all these three or fours are trying to bag a Chad or a Brad it's always been this way it used to be a caveman Brad or Chad
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Damn I'm reading this thread, I'm going through your comment now you are so on the money you're practically a genius. I want to see some more on this topic because I'm afraid it sounds all to Drew and pretty much the key to it all. Good job let's start a channel exploring this topic considering everything else is just exploring the ancillary and symptoms that make great titles for books, but none of it actually gets to the core of the matter. My interest also is I have wondered can we be rewired? I mean at some point we will have a different concept or will feel differently about what was once considered maybe physically unattractive? We might need to be hardwired but at what point will we change the traction to certain characteristics that aren't really that important anymore, such as having a man that's taller and bigger and can defend you excetera excetera. However clearly being more attractive, and having the stature of what is considered the idealism of a man, the data certainly confirms that attractive people also make more money so is it just some self-perpetuating reinforcing feedback loop? We won't change? It sure will be interesting when we won't actually need physical contact with other people to have well somewhat satisfying sexual encounters or fantasies excetera
@@tonydiesel3444 I haven't seen a study taking height into account - mainly attractiveness. I imagine height has a significant influence once the man gets shorter than the average woman. But my general impression has been that short men with attractive faces do much better than tall men with ugly faces.
I'd personally rather have a better looking face and be only 5 foot 7. But my face is extremely unattractive so I'm biased.
That male achievement narrative perhaps meant something in the 20th century, now it's just a Boomer relic. I don't know why anyone sees this Galloway as an oracle, his views are totally out of date. Face and height are everything. Lower class or ethnic women view high IQ males as weird and threatening.
I hope my lovely gal/women/lady/girl friends who are looking for male companionship will read and understand this--PLEASE don't stop being the great gal pal you were/are at the beginning of the relationship. ALL of my male friends say that this is the first thing that dissolves. I've noticed it too. I'm happily married now and I will attest that maintaining the FRIENDSHIP was what has allowed us to endure. Best of luck.
This is so true. Unfortunately it is the joint responsibilities of home and family that starts to take the fun out of things. And when men expect women to take care of those, or don't appreciate when she does, the friendship suffers. I mean, we don't expect our friends to run around after us like a servant. And for those suggesting that men pay the bills - well by far women go out and earn to pay the bills as well.
I thought men didn't want to be friends with women?
@@inspectortiddles Good points. Yeah we can all fall prey to taking our mate buddy for granted, particularly in ways we wouldn't do with other friends. Gotta be on the look out for that.
@@gemmeldrakes2758 Some don't. But I've always enjoyed female friendships. Friendships with women present similar challenges and rewards that friendships with men have. I grew up with 3 sisters and was close to a female cousin, aunt and grandmother (as well as a sweet fun mom) so it may be that I got a nice set of associations early on. But straight up, just as I don't like toxic dudes, I don't like toxic women. In my career as a musician I've generally gotten along with women at the same rate as I do men.
It is simple: women go for resources (dollars )and protection (physical ability)
men go for looks ( beauty and cuteness) and fertility
and so it goes on and on, for hundreds of thousands of years
Totally lost me on the minimum wage. It’s inflationary to the max as CA is finding out now in the fast food industry. You increase some pay (govt also gets more in taxes) but give it right back in higher prices. The answer is not the proliferation of min wage jobs but skilled trade work which is in massive demand with too few workers.
Bingo, dude lost me there
We are from Texas and my wife is in Sacramento right now. She went to breakfast and spent $19. I asked her if it was good and she said yes. I asked her if I would like it and she said no, "I paid $19 for a $9 dollar breakfast at home".
European countries minimum wage prove it is not inflationary (within reason). The whole economy benefits when the lowest paid have money to spend.
@@autoclearanceuk7191European countries tax to the hilt, so all of that disposable income that would have been available to spend, goes away. Despite the greatly improved social services being offered, their replacement rates are even worse than that of the US. Their unemployment rates are higher, the countries themselves have high debts and deficits and are not successfully wrestling back manufacturing work from China like the US is as things deglobalize. Despite the welfare state, family formation is not doing any better.
@@quantummotion - before the UK introduced a minimum wage they had these arguments. There is zero debate now saying the MW is a bad thing now. The whole economy benefits when the poorest people have more money to spend. Low paid people spend all their income. Rich people do not.
Find a good guy by:
Establishing your make or break life values and make sure the man lines up with those. (Don’t have superficial values).
Learn about what unhealthy personality traits are vs healthy ones.
Know your partners flaws or quirks ahead of time, and make a commitment to accept them and not try to change the person if you’re going to commit to them.
Choose A NICE/KIND/PATIENT GUY!
Don’t allow little things to bother you. If they do bother you - get therapy!
Be willing to be wrong. (If you always have to be right, you’ll never have a truly happy relationship).
Also:
I found prayer to work (praying for God to bring you the right person and to give you the ability to recognize that person). It brought me the most amazing man in the world!
Amen sis I just been fasting and praying for direction for a longtime now. I guess one day He’ll speak to me
You lost me at the prayer bit.
Prayer does nothing. It's a coping mechanism for stress, that's it.
It's out of your hands & in someone else's. It's to offload the task from your brain instead if thinking about it. That's why most people pray at night before bed.
Meditation & knowing some things are out of your control, like finding the perfect person. They accomplish the same thing.
This is the best advice in the comment section 👏
Aside from the prayer part, this sounds like good advice for everyone, not just women. Notice that there is NOTHING here about appearances or income!
High Heels Effect = polite way of saying Hoeflation
I loved how at the end all came down to economics! :D
One thing to be noted, the increase in income must be REAL RATE increase for people to spend, not the irratic inflation.
This feels massively overanalysed
She has never been in a relationship, so has 0 relationship skills
She refuses to "lower" her expecations, suggesting she is looking for a guy with more than 0 relationship skills
So she just overrates herself
this is happening en masse tho which needs to be analyzed. clearly womens egos/self perceptions are inflated by the past decade’s social environment and men’s deflated and now there’s a correction happening. Mostly women now are projecting that onto men instead of looking in the mirror.
Never had a boyfriend... could be ugly
Well that is part of the problem. Women do overrate themselves. I know single mothers that are barely above average looking that expect to land a good looking, childless and successful man. No just no
@@brianmeen2158 yeah that's really sad.
@@patrickdoyle9304 or shy, or busy.
I often hear this argument on podcasts "if you want to continue to be with me, you have to have your sh¡t together." HOWEVER, being one of those rare men in this world that actually knows other men in real life, i find this argument null and void. What I've seen on more occasions than i can even remember is this... the woman wouldn't even give the guy a chance if he doesn't already have what she's looking for - OR - she'll "see" other men until he can procure what she wants him to procure. In which case, she claims that she'll stop "seeing" other men. Look, I'm not a player in this game, BUT I am blue collar and work with mostly men. This scenario I just mentioned is more common than you would think. I don't blame these guys for being upset and not wanting to participate when the woman they want is giving herself to other men until he can obtain what she wants him to obtain. And only then will she stop "dating" other men. I don't understand what's going on these days. My own son is a teenager and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to help him through his obstacles with the opposite sex because i literally never seen or experienced most of the situations he's going through. It's crazy out there these days.
As the saying goes "Modern women wait at the finish line and pick the winners"
Women no longer want to be with men at the beginning and go through the entire journey together.
@@asdf-fl1ib That is truly unfortunate because I think that's how the truest and most pure bonds are built.
Here is some advice. It is not the woman he wants. It is the woman he deserves. Once he worked on himself and is only focused on himself the women come to him overtime naturally. I am not struggling attracting women, I am only struggling finding the right one for me. For example, at 22 I attract plenty of women my age but none want to commit cause most of them want to play and have fun with guys. Tell him to ignore these girls. I attracted women 24 and older and all I am is just physically fit not buff, serious, mature, and quiet. Just tell him to take it slow. Please also do not chase them he will only waste his time with these girls. Just tell him to live his life and improve as he gets older. They come to him over time. All he has to do is pick right and not just any girl either
As a guy who's only 5'6, it's over for me. It's actually been over for me for a very, VERY long time. It also didn't exactly help that my mother emasculated me (she still does to a certain extent) My father who passed away years ago was to all intents and purposes a loser who never made more than around 35k a year while supporting a family that he chose to make. He would berate me on my schoolwork and grades meanwhile he's the one with the college degree and he never did shit with it. So yeah all in all, two far from great parental role models who seriously hampered my social development especially when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. So I'll order an escort from time to time and that's about it
Don't blame your parents for the absence of your own "success" , your life is in your own hands not theirs, God bless you
@@user-pb2dp4bt2l Exactly. Blaming his parents for being lazy is the biggest cope I've heard this year. There is no excuse for someone in a first world country to be complaining about not finding a nice girl and finding success in his life.
I can tell you, the passport bro thing is truly a refreshing, but sad state of affairs. I left my rich, western country last year for a year long work holiday in south america. I have some money, am very tall, but probably too slim by western standards and average looking by western standards, and the insane difference in attention and success here compared to back home is astounding. Women stare at clubs, and will initiate..and quality women..like doctors, lawyers, beautiful, and with money.
Ultimately, even when I have most of these things women want back home, its not quite as high as a disney prince or some other blokes and so it was almost impossible. Over in these countries, i feel like how i imagine women feel every day. The worst experiences ive had are having to reject women over here.
If you are a man who is half attractive, average white man height, from a western country, you will find more success in south america or asia. And it isnt just gold diggers. Wealthy young women in these countries are also into white men because of their cultural attitudes. Kind of unfair, but good for me!
How can any man invest in a creature that is only loyal to her feelings? Looks, status, money don’t make a difference, eventually she will get bored. Ask Tom Brady, Jeff Bezos, Kevin Costner….on and on.
Right. I'm 78, don't look for loyralty in today's generations of American women. You may find it in some other countries, not here. Not to say that you can't find affection, companionship, et al., just not loyralty.
I've known several guys who screwed up their lives by making women pregnant, and then having to pay child support. Opportunities lost, money lost, time lost, sad. Delayed retirement, one guy couldn't go into business for himself, because he had to pay for health insurance for his kids, etc. Of course, that goes double for the women they impregnated.
This is what happens when you try to prove your masculinity or manhood through sexual prowess.
Meh they chose to have seggs😂
If abortion is banned in the US, this will be an even bigger problem.
Sounds like a gift to have those kids and to not focus on one’s career (or retire younger). The guy you refer to is blessed to be in this situation.
it's also their kids. actions have consequences
A relationship is nothing more than a crossroads to frustration , and eventually you meet up with the intersection of Misery. A man travels farther and faster alone in life .dragging a bunch of baggage with him is counter productive .
I’d rather be lonely than be miserable any day .
Preach man. I am Catholic and I still am a virgin due to the strict rules. I believe I can find someone but I am not searching for it. I am just going to let fate and god decide for me.
Men don’t need much to be happy.
Once a guy steps away from dating less stress and less money is a winning combination
I think the issue is that American dating culture was so centered around a man’s money that once women’s started making more money, and men started making less money, relationships lost their appeal because a lot of men had no appeal outside of their ability to provide. Look at dating apps. Most male profiles lead with what they have and what they do for a living. Zero mention of intimacy (outside of the bedroom), romance, partnership, etc
Yep, third world countries where women make less or don’t work at all don’t have a birthrate problem.
Women don’t care about that anyway. Have you seen their swiping stats? They want a tall attractive model man that has to at least make more than the woman for anything longer than a one night stand and we’re talking about average women here. Maybe the solution is to sop displacing men in the workforce and devaluing labor by importing immigrants
I think it's deeper than this. I think theres a lack of meaning and purpose among people in general. If you dont have any significant sense of meaning and your attention/services/money can be sold to the highest bidder; everything about upgrading based on superficial metrics, then there is no basis for meaninful relationships.
100% agree.
What she's really looking for his a lavish lifestyle or be on her own. She will not lower her standards.
I used to be a manager of a printing shop in a large skyscraper. Some days I worked in the front end; I wore a suit and tie. Some days I helped in the back with the presses; I wore an old shirt and ink stained jeans. Either way, I would often deliver orders myself with a dolly full of cartons. If I wore a suit and tie, every single woman I met would hold a door open for me. If I wore the grubby jeans NOT ONE woman would hold a door open. Make of that what you will.
My experience is identical. I'm treated like a celebrity with a suit and a bum with a t shirt. This is not an exaggeration.
As a footnote, I'm in good athletic physical shape, but I think if I were in the level of shape for a competition, like ripped enough to be on stage, or magazine cover, then this would change the perception in casual clothing. It's a pain in the butt to get there though
I worked in a men's store. The men were so much more attractive when dressed well. The men who worked there, who were forced to wear suits, realized that they were perceived as higher income and, overall, better looking and started dressing better in their personal lives.
Tbh bro a lot of women just weren’t raised well. Like are women taught, like men are, about what they need to do for the opposite gender? Like men are constantly told what they need to do to improve, what they need to do to make their wife happy, and to “do what’s right”. Seems like the only message women get is “do what’s right for you” and “put yourself first”. I think men need to start putting themselves before women. Be more selfish
A woman I’ve been hanging out with, who’s 75, still wants a really tall man. Even though I’m an inch or two taller than her.
I'm six foot, six figures, in good shape. Driven, motivated, healthy, unaddicted, all that good stuff.
I find dates rarely and when i do it seems like the same cookie cutter woman who spends all her free time on tiktok, drinking with her friends or watching bullshit on tv.
What's the point in engaging?
@@P.90.603True. But even the good looking ones only get so far. Even Michael B Jordan wasn't able to keep a literal nobody. Aging daughter of a washed up celebrity and she thought she was too good for HIM. Being good looking, tall, built, rich, and famous is no longer enough. Same with Tom Brady. If they can't keep aging average women happy, what on earth is the point in trying?
I remember back in the day people would make fun of people who were trying to meet someone online.
I agreed with him until he said raising the minimum wage. I'm not sure what good that is going to do. How is that going to help women find real love?
The quality of a society is best measured by how the bottom 10% is doing, not the top 10%. Read into the multiplier effect, it kept Britain from going bankrupt, and importing goods from the US during WW2.
The only way raising the minimum wage helps is if we put a freeze on rent, housing costs, food costs, and taxes.
True. Just raising the minimum does nothing to improve anyone's situation.
One thing that I have noticed in conversations with ladies is that it tends to be that they have dedicated time to the wrong man or man in the past, rather than any given career.
No such thing as the wrong man. In an unregulated market, nothing is permanent. Their failure of relationship is the norm
Young men should be either better compensated for working, or houses should be more affordable. Either way, we need to empower people’s time that they spend working.
Interestingly, a large part of wage suppression is due to women entering the work force. If you increase the availability of a resource, the cost for it goes down. Basic economics.
@@Minotaur-ey2lg yup been saying this but whenever i say it to women they get mad "cuz my rights n sheeeit"
It's been proven that if young men are just given money or opportunities without a strict hierarchical framework and steady hard work, they just become either profligate or senselessly violent out of boredom. Testosterone cannot be left with nothing productive to do. Hence why you're always starting wars.
Women need to stop taking men's jobs. They shouldn't work, and if they do, they should be in either healthcare, or highly specialized and technical fields only (like mathematics).
As a person in academia I have seen some things, so I now have a suspicion when it comes to studies of increasing or decreasing minimum wages (which is one of the core differences between left and right). The people making those studies are now so far enmeshed in the politic of the left that they would not get published if they found the opposite result.
100 years ago there was no minimum wage but people were marrying and forming households at
a higher rate.
"I'm not willing to drop my standards."
That's the answer. She admitted to the 80/20 rule. I guarantee you she's only looking at the top 10% of "alpha men" and ignoring everyone else. And considering that most women age 20-45 are looking at the same 10% of alpha men, why on earth would those alpha men bother with anyone over 30 years old?
Everyone has choice
@@roshinitoenlightenment i sincerely hope you never learn what it's like to be disabled.
All those women are not searching for the top 10% of men, most of them don't want any man. That is the competition facing most men.
So tired of this alpha crap. How about just men who are not a Grinch, can maintain a conversation and can cleanup after themselves? That is Alpha male in my book
@@windycity301 All that Alpha stuff is horseshit. We should be who we genuinely are, while having some integrity in the right areas. We don't have to be some "alpha male" to not be a pushover. Just stand for what's right when appropriate.
People are not going to find love today, for the simple reason that they don't actually know what love is. If you really love someone (and this goes for both genders), you will respect them, make sacrifices for them, make their dreams yours, and love them for who they are. If you really love them, there will be no 'laundry list', no 'type', no expectation. The person you love will be a surprise, a revelation, an amazement - not what you could have predicted. Your heart will be wide open, not full of petty judgement and criticism. Your life will change and derive a meaning you never knew existed. Today's pampered narcissists have no clue, because it is all about them - their needs, their goals, their 'perfect life'. Real love doesn't work like that; it comes when you least expect it, sneakily, without stars or promises, but with total commitment, the impossibility of even looking at someone else, and the will to become a better human. I can't imagine the angry, cynical, judgemental, cruel people out there would have an inkling of what I am talking about. No, they will not find love, especially not when hunting for it, since it never comes when called... 😉
That's beautiful.
when does it come then? I'm genuiely asking
I suspect that there are few or no activities where people actually work together for a common cause. Some dating meetups are like this. But in old days, you met community members doing community things and people had community reputations. Even if it was helping a neighbor collect his escaped cow or something like that.
Even if you aren’t short, if you don’t have a good-looking face / symmetry, the odds may still be discouraging.
People place too much emphasis on relationships, people bring their own shit and chaos 100% of the time. Relationships bring just as much headache as being single. One of the only true guarantees in life.
Find solace in being single, enjoy your own company, if it happens it happens, if it doesn’t, don’t spend your life forcing it. Enjoy yourself. Don’t overcomplicate it 👍🏻
Bad advice. If you're not intentional about something, the chances of it happening are slim to none. Most people eventually want family and kids, that's one of their primary goals in life, debatably the most important one, and you have a limited timeframe to do it.
@@mrdouche9172 "...most people eventually want family and kids..."
The divoeice rate is 50%. What most people want clearly isn't working out for half of them...🙃
I have been studying this for literal years and something I've noticed that rarely EVER is mentioned is looks! A woman can be ridiculously successful financially, but if she is average looking or overweight, then she isn't going to get a successful Henry Cavill or Chris Hemsworth look alike
Women think that because financial success is more attractive to them than physical beauty, men are the same, but that's just not true. NO woman struggles to find a man. It's just that they struggle to find a man they think they deserve; the same guy, 80% of the other women are also chasing. But, again if this hot, tall, successful guy can choose between the gorgeous sexy woman working at a grocery store or, the average looking slightly overweight CEO, most men are going to choose the model... Sure, he will still have sex with the average looking, successful woman, but he won't commit to her.
I think the reason so much dating material avoids admitting this uncomfortable truth is because they know women won't buy it. Hope is lucrative.
'Hope is lucrative' 👍
Absolutely correct. From childhood, consuming fantasy Disney Princess narrative, of Cinderella meeting her Prince Charming...
Plenty of male gold diggers and hobosexuals out there.
@adamsinger7345 I actually don't think it's Disney's fault women act the way they do-it's men's fault. Men teach women that unrealistic expectations are acceptable, and then we get upset when women believe what we taught them!
What typically happens is the average woman is a 5~6 out of 10. A man who is a 7~8 out of 10 (remember for women 1-10 is not simply about looks but an accumulation of features attractive to women such as wealth, height, status, etc. His face can simply be a 5 out of 10, but when combined with other things that trigger attraction in women, his overall value can easily be a 7), so this guy who is a 7~8 specifically hunts for women that are 5~6 because they require low effort from him while giving him her maximum effort but, their looks are still high enough for them to be passable enough for him to get an erection.
If these women who are 5~6 keep being pursued by men that are 7~8 even if it's short term (he puts in enough effort to string her along to keep her hopes up thinking he will commit but he is really just doing enough to get sex from her) because the 7~8 guy never commits long-term because he is saving that for a woman who is also a 7~8. Anyway, from years of being chased by 7~8, these women who are only 5~6 started to think they themselves are also 7~8. Which is why when a man who is a 5~6 approaches them, they think they are too good for him... The Okcupid data from the book "Date-onomics" by Christian Rudder verified this. It wasn't the most attractive nor the least attractive women that receive the most attention online; It's the average women in the middle.
@@adamsinger7345 A lot of that spins out of Anglo-Saxon puritanism.
I think you need to talk to more women. We don’t think men value our financial success as “more attractive”. Sadly some of us think it is easier to get a man if we will provide for HIM financially. Usually these are below average and average looking women who think this way.
I tried dating apps at the suggestion of a dating coach…..horrible experience it seems like an overwhelming amount of men on the apps were just looking for a good time or a woman to control. Our social relationships are in trouble.
Imagine if society started focusing on the life outcomes of men the way we do with women. Women haven't achieved the results mentioned in this clip without help
I know socializing will never be the same , but younger people need to find social circles , go volunteer , join a club , start a meet up group , go for a hike, we are losing our social skills and our humanity ❤ hang in there
Yes
Exactly 💯
It's not just young people. I'm in my late 30s, and I'm pretty much completely alone. It's not so bad, though. It's certainly better than being around people who make me feel lonely.
"go volunteer" Outstanding suggestion for men. I don't recall offhand the stat, but women volunteer FAR more frequently than men do. Think about the women that do volunteer. Helpful. Considerate. Socially aware. They are givers not takes. All great attributes.
stop telling people to go volunteer and clubs, it will drive all those “pua” wannabes to miss the point of volunteering in those places. The amount of guys coming to volunteer solely for the fact of meeting women is becoming an issue in these centres. People need to go back to social spaces as before, period. Not volunteering to people’s in needs centre to see if they can hook up with someone..
This is why im glad instead of jumping on every guy in college I found mine at 21. He and I have been through everything together and now hes successful. Ive only had one serious relationship before him and hes only had me.
Dating is a nightmare world now.
Even if it gets tough or boring, you guys lucked out hard. You have a home in another person. I haven't slept in the same bed as someone since I was like 12, and I'm 34 now. Ah... That'd be sweet.
This is how it should be, you are very lucky I am afraid of the future of the western world if this trends keep uo
Gotta meet them before turning 30. They're basically all gone by then and most also have kids, including myself
@@KidFriendlyGamingmost of yall now in a dead marriage. Or have a cheating spouse or divorced already😂
5:29 When did people stop counting character traits as a factor into this “ranking” criterion? men who don’t want long-term relationships are not in the 10% for women seeking relationships. Those two characteristics are mutually exclusive.
spot on. good luck y'all.
When I was single most of the women that would date me were single moms. No thanks ! I ain't no cuck !
SM are not looking for love, but for help.
Too right, no thanks not looking after someone else kids.
@@mbg9650Not always.
I guess you're married now.
@dumfriesspearhead7398 Yes, married a no body count woman, now married 45+ years.