"Marriage Is Modern Death Sentence For Men" | Pearl Davis vs James Whale
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- čas přidán 19. 05. 2024
- The traditional institution of marriage is facing a decline in modern society, with fewer than 50% of adults opting to tie the knot. This shift raises questions about the future of relationships and family life. Some argue that marriage as we know it is already dead, with the average marriage lasting only seven to eight years. The rising divorce rates and challenges faced by men in the family court system are also contributing to the changing attitudes towards marriage.
This discussion around marriage and relationships has sparked debates about gender roles, feminism, and societal expectations. Some believe that men are facing increasing challenges in the current landscape, with issues like infidelity and lack of intimacy being brought to the forefront. Others argue that women have more freedom and choices in the dating world, leading to a shift in power dynamics within relationships.
Pearl Davis: "Marriage is a modern death sentence for men. In the future, there will be a lot of single parents, and a lot of people without children."
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I'll never get married again. Can't believe guys marrying again, again, and again. Insane.
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Only boomers were that blue pill to do that.
Marriage is the most financially reckless thing a man can do to himself. He loses all power and leverage in the relationship because she can threaten divorce and take the money, house and kids.
Agreed 100%
Guys should have a rent-a-car mentality towards women nowadays.
Marriage is a lose lose situation for men, i never really understood why men want to get married again after going through the 1st divorce. It's like taking a 2nd trip on the Titanic.
Was married for over thirty years, kids grown up and left home. She had an affair so I initiated divorce proceedings. Despite being told there would be a 50/50 split of assets it ended up being 75% in her favour. What I was told was that she’d given up her career to support me in mine and that’s why she ended up with a more generous settlement. Additionally, I had to pay £1600 a month in spousal maintenance so she could sit on her backside and do nothing to support herself. In most cases courts are biased in favour of the woman regardless of the cause of breakdown in the relationship.
I'm a woman & I agree. Courts are biased against men.
The one with the most looses every time!
Wow 😳 Exactly…!
seeing it live and direct here. Sorry man 👊 what a disgrace the system is
@@tropics8407 Forgot to mention she was awarded the only decent pension I had too. Even though she had her boyfriend living with her I still had to pay maintenance as she’s entitled to a relationship. Good news was I went overseas to work and recovered financially. She’s still with her boyfriend who cheats on her regularly and is miserable from what I hear.
@@suzannevasterlings2084 Correct, a friend’s daughter was successful and owned her own home, she married and the marriage broke down a few years later. He didn’t pay a penny towards the home but when they divorced she had to pay him 50% of the value of the property. They had two daughters and he didn’t pay a penny in child support. Hardly surprising people are reluctant to get married !
The government is scared because men are done with these women
It's the opposite. They want the breakdown of the family unit so we can be more easily controlled.
Men are done with the whole matriarchal system. Leeching recourses from men is over.
They are worried though because the lack of people gives them less money and they won't have a society to leech off of in the long run.@@OnderHassan
@@OnderHassan That is your twisted narrative.
Also, feminists are acting like children who won't accept that we all have roles to play to keep society going. Men didn't have some wonderful life working the hard jobs to support a family. But they didn't complain. Men accepted it.
They want two taxpayers instead of a family
Never enter into a contract where the other party gains by breaking it. This is all by design.
100% agree. Lopsided as hell.
Yup!!
still , guilibe in love , pssy wipped men will be dragged against their will and get married , i say agaisnt their will cause they can't think for their selves .weak willed fools .
Yep all of this is planned its part of the depopulation agenda.
As a man that has gone through divorce, I can fully attest that the courts are FULLY behind the women. I once spent over an hour in court and was being grilled non-stop by the judge. After literally 55 mins I straight asked the judge if she was going to ask my ex wife ANY questions at all??? The judge asked TWO questions and then closed the court session. It was unbelievable. My ex had emptied ALL the money, home assets, everything. When I protested that I had NOTHING, the judge just dismissed me saying if I didn't like it I would have to formally object. The legal fees were enormous. The ex had no problem paying as she had all the money! I will NEVER get married again. It's a rigged system against men. 100%.
The Lord will fight for u Sir, He is the God of justice. That evil judge and ur evil ex wife will face the consequences of their evil actions. God is by your side
Go to Africa and find a traditional woman. Many people from the west are doing that now.
11:12 Pearl is correct. Wives are paid to leave marriages. I lost 70% of my money, assets and home equity in my UK divorce. Marriage is the most financially reckless thing a man could do to himself. Once men have got married, the wife has all the power and control in the relationship as she stands to benefit from the divorce.
Never enter into a contract where the other party gains by breaking it.
Wait I thought it only happens in the US but never in the UK. Wow. That's why I never listen to a tradcon.
Wow, my sister is married to a British guy and now lives in a nice home in the UK. My brother in law seems like a cool nice guy but once he finds out what my sister can really do, he's gonna change his mind.
@BlazingNChilling7s
One day, your sister will snatch her mask off and reveal her true intentions ?
Is that what you mean?
@@iveyhealth2266 Yes. I have seen her bad side.
Pearl speaking intelligence to a couple of utter knobs.
Pearl is an red pill 💊 idiot who panders to men telling men to take accountability while placing all the blame on women 😂😂😂
Glad to read the comments and see others can see what a farce this is.
These are 2 old women sitting there
"An 18-year-old girl use to marry her high school sweetheart, now she's getting flown out to Dubai by a billionaire."
So very true. Young women and women have become monetized nowadays. It's game over for the average and below average guy.
Not much better for the above average guy either.
@@dannnyjos How so ?
@@iveyhealth2266"How so?" Are you serious?
@@ReachingHigher001 I am interested in hearing how above average guys struggle with relationships.
@iveyhealth2266 I think he means even above -average guys are no longer getting the good girl raised with good values. They are likely also going to get either some high maintenance woman, or one who has been used up by many men, cannot pair bond & sees her union to this above-average dude as a paycheck 10years later in divorce court.
Basically the reason why some above-average (+6figs $) men are going to Asia, Africa & South America to find wives.
No family, no structure... A weak society
Exactly, woman like her make it sound like all mothers want to rase a family without fathers. The men are just as important as the woman to raise children.
AND NO CHILDEN, NO FUTURE!
A collapse society as the men do not trust each other and go to war over a woman.
Oh there will be children but a lot of feral kids.
If humanity goes extinct it won't be because of wars and anything.
It will be because of women.
Divorced in ‘81, had nothing to do with women since. The divorce laws have removed marriage from being a sensible choice for men.
So being a bitter old man is a better choice is it?
@@TanyaJackson-no2rs Far better than fully supporting a woman then being forced to give up most of what you have worked for.
Women these days work, not like in your day. Believe it or not they can support themselves!
@@TanyaJackson-no2rs - [snort] BS
@@TanyaJackson-no2rs Women nowadays will have to support themselves as the divorce laws have made traditional marriage impractical for men.
Pearl Davis has more intelligence in her little finger than both of these 'interviewers' combined. This is one of the most unprofessional interviews that I've ever seen.
100% true
Bruh, it's a casual conversation ... professionalism at the level you are referring to is not required but common curtesy was there.
@@red-hat-mike Over talking her when she was making a point is not what I would call "common curtesy." It's so repulsive seeing these Boomer/Gen X male femists mansplain to a woman who is advocating for men. These men are absolutely part of the problem and we as men should hold them accountable for their choice to push false narratives.
They were scared to agree with her, even though she was spitting facts.
@@red-hat-mike But Bruh, this is a formally televised interview, not a "casual conversation".
The pain of talking to idiots. These guys could barely stay on topic, not only interrupted Pearl, but themselves.
What do you expect from two old beta guys with old way of thinking and ingrained blue pill conditioning. And I don't mean that in a bad way, but they don't realize many things young guys today are facing... It's a waste of time trying to explain them modern problems.
They are trying to deflect. It's on purpose, trying to make fools out of anything that portrays men in a positive light. They themselves being the "fools" as per the narrative that mass media allows.
It's why they invite Pearl instead of Paul Elam. Pearl only understands MRA's at a surface level and thought she has good information It's all taken from men like Aaron Clriary, or Greg Adams.
She can't truly argue about mens issues, and anyone who could will never be given a proper platform.
They are awesome. Pear will have enjoyed the interview
They think they are being "cute" or "post-modern witty."
I'm 59 got my own house got divorced 20 years ago would never get married...... Imaging loosing everything through another divorce 😢
Worst mistake of my life...over 30 years to a woman that never loved me only for how well I treated her and all of the things I did for her. Save yourselves, gentlemen...go your own way.
True, as was my ex wife! Wmn cannot love like men love them, as it's based on her hypergamous instincts, as if her current man is injured or dies, she can't afford to waste time pining over her "so called" lost love, she must be ready to immediately monkey branch to the next highest value man she can bag, to secure the bag to provide for her dependant needs!
I wish they would let Pearl talk more.
This is what's wrong with the world, no stable marriages and familys. Very very sad !
Get back to work lady your reports are due. Serve your boss for your independence!!
Then come to Islam and see how marriage works. You can see that in the Muslim world, marriages last until their final breath. Social structures are mandatory in marriages which is lacking in Western countries
Well, the muslim women would always be there for their men and for their kids
@@markrobby7136 Are they happy though?
'Most men have had a bit on the side'. Absolutely not! Not in my 57 year experience.
He s full of shite
Maybe you're not there type. Especially if you watch these 2 muppets
@@jake751 *their
I think it's most married women who've been adulterous
And women never cheat, but won't ever be held accountable for initiating almost all divorces.
I'm never getting married again. Worst decision I have ever made. I don't recommend it, ever...
Nowadays about 0.1% of women younger than 65 years old are truly traditional.
what in you not so right mind made you get married ?
@@crisalcantara7671social conditioning by society is a powerful force
Got married at 23 now I'm 49 and I'm still making those payments! Welcome to indentured servitude.
Married for 58 yrs now, my husband's health is failing. I look after him - we've always been a "team". If we've had a bad day and he's driven me mad, before I go to sleep at night, I get out an after-shave stick from my bedside drawer. This fragrance instantly "transports" me back in time to our twenties when we were madly in love. He was tall dark and handsome and had a voice like Gregory Peck. I have always felt safe in the world with him. I was a blonde 5ft 2" (5ft 6" with my high-heels on). We made quite a glamorous couple then and loved being together. He always wore that particular after-shave (still made today) and that fragrance reminds me of how happy I was to marry him back then. I got the man of my dreams - and mustn't forget that, despite the onset of old age.
Reckon that your husband knows without any doubt, how lucky he is to have you to.
A team means equal though
That’s so sweet. ❤
That's how I feel right now with the love of my life. I hope we spend 50 years or more together. Bless you, thank you for sharing this story. I want to keep a scent he wears next to my bedside.
That is brilliant. If only relationships marriage and commitment to the unit was the same these days .
As a woman I would advise men, send them home after the deed, don't let them move into your house because they can claim half married or not
Thanks and Blessings to you and yours.
So true
Works both ways, men can take the woman’s property as well. Woman are panicking now cause they have money that men can take.
Weeel thats not fair
wtf is this true?
Marriage today doesn't work because its too easy to get out of and the reason for Marriage is no longer respected imo
I don’t think it’s easy. It’s financially not possible. You divorce you end up poor and the kids suffer living in squalor.
@@TheQuietGuyAtTheBack only if hes un bum
True. I'm not American but I can see how families work in America. Man, in my country there is a lot of culture values tied to having family. Plus, child care and distant relatives help in raising children - this is different in the States.
Remember, gentlemen.....you are in love, she is in business. Do not sign the legal contract.
This comment should pinned for all eternity
Then let them be able to work and sustain herself and her kids by herself and then she won’t be in business with you… actually, she won’t even look at you anymore… but that’s something you’re afraid of… that’s why, throughout history, the religion taught everyone that the women should submit to her man… otherwise you couldn’t make her clean after you, cook and raise your kids
@@marcustsenov853 womp womp daddy issues
@@roslynnamy your answer just proves why a woman in a normal society won’t even look at you
@@marcustsenov853 lol we all know who is dying alone with a cat...male gender repellent
Men's achievements are dismissed in society. When he does good it's seen as gender inequality, not he worked hard, put the hours in, he's skill etc, it's seen as inequality
A lot of feminists have a communist mindset. They believe they should be entitled to half of what a man works for without doing any work themselves.
Pearl is SO smart when it comes to this stuff. She is literally 100 percent spot on!
Her vieuws are the other extreme ! Enslaving woman to a man and force them to get married and have kids is the other side of the extreme !
The world needs women like Pearl Davis
No we dont, she is not as bright as tou might think she is
Really? She’s pretty stupid. And the world, the world, you mean America. Because the world doesn’t have these problems. Women don’t get half of men’s property after divorce in the world. This is an American American thing. When will you guys wake up?
What? Single? Self hating?
@@josejgarciarodriguez3239 you are an absolute simp... Pearl is talking facts. She is effortlessly expressive and a critical thinker
@@lloydgermin2022 ohh no.. another simp... she doesnt have to be married to be able to express observable reality... please grow some balls
As a healthy, fit, 43 year old, who is a successful small business owner and has his life together, I'm glad I never got married or had kids. It's a rigged game and I saw too many good, loyal men go through the meat grinder. No thanks.
Children are a big profit, but yes, I would never marry again, I cannot afford it…..
I think you are gay or transgender cus real men 99% of the time has a kid or 2 and still married and still have gf
For men would they jump out of an airplane when the parachute doesn't open 80% of the time.
Misandry divorce laws contribute.
After my divorced, I was at the edge of losing my life so many times and I couldn’t live with the idea of losing my partner. What she said is so true and her words give me comfort. Thanks so much
The future: a lot of old women with 15 cats.
At least they would be loyal
and/or dogs, maybe a big dog.🤣🤣🤣
Who cares? Older women after 40 are basically seen exactly the same way as the overwhelming majority of men at ANY age
@@Bella0480 cats are well known for loyalty
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I skipped marriage, I retired a multimillionaire at age 40. All my friends are either divorced or in the process of divorce, and basically broke. They all spent their time and money renovating houses for their wives and vacations, then when divorce happened she took it all. I spent my time sleeping with random women when I wanted to, and the rest of my time was building a real estate portfolio and a business. I still enjoyed great sex, lots of fun memories, but I also built something that is making my life better today. All that time you spent with your ex-wife is a total 100% waste, you'll curse those memories and hate them after a nasty divorce. All that time you could have been building a business, making money, etc. When you consider the real cost in terms of your time and how much $ she stole in the divorce, a failed marriage costs MILLIONS for the average guy.
This is the way. Great comment.
My two marriages weren't great, but I'm glad I have four children and now grandchildren.
@@georgemooyman7155yea and how much money did your ex steal from you? A million ?
Im pretty sure you go to thailand for sex. These Americam white women usually dont like to give it up umless they ate getting something
%1000 correct!
I tell these young Boys out here, don’t do it. It’s a waste of time and money that will set you back in life for years to come.
Work through infidelity? Forget it. That is a deal breaker. Zero second chances.
She said women work through their man's infidelity
She said that women should work through their man's infidelity
@@psy-op Ues, and he said no second chances. He thinks she's wrong to say that.
Why don't anybody talk about the relation between economy and marriage... In the 80s, a factory worker could provide for an entire household...
Well, the topic did not make room for such a conversation. However, what you say is true. People tended to me more happy with less in the past. I do live according to my needs and not my wants. I can afford to live according to "some of my wants", but somehow don't see the need for it.
@@johanlourens723 @johanlourens723 bad economy is the start of most of these problems... they enslave you with a job in return for healthcare, housing is too expensive, and the list goes on... We need to talk about the cause, not just the result... The BS lie will not last forever as much as we want to believe it...
Once women came into the workforce, the supply of available workers doubled, so employers could reduce the pay. Now both spouses have to work to get the same pay, plus lose a chunk in child care.
@@johanlourens723 I don't think they had less... In the 1950s, a factory worker could have a house and a car (maybe two cars, I'm not sure).
In these day's woman have to work indeed. You can't live on one income !
'If you talk in my ear again I will sack you'. That is a bully, right there. It is that persons job to talk to presenters.
He can't sack anyone it's his usual bravado ,he's been like that for years it's a bit boring these days but he feels powerful
A playful act thrown in to spice up the already enjoyable conversation.
If course he's a bully! This is the c**t that advocated that people who were too smart to inject themselves with an experimental gene therapy jab should have lost their jobs!
I think he had a show producer talking to him. I don't think he was talking to Pearl.
Are you American?
You've probably never seen these two dick heads before.
What he said is English humour, sort of.
Wow these two guys are not emotionally equipped to handle a serious conversation.
They're afraid of a backlash by their seniors ( probably women), or their female workmates.
I Never tied the knot and Never Will. Dodged a lot of bullets in my days. Godspeed to all the men out there who are married or thinking about getting married. REALLY THINK about it before you tie the knot, boys. Peace and Blessings.
This woman is the voice of truth in a very rotten feminist WOKE society
It might be unpopular to say but supporting single mothers encouraged them not to care and pick the right men to settle down with.
Not true, it’s certain demographics that are intent on the collapse of our society by lying to each sex telling them what they should think and do, and telling them what the other sex thinks of them etc. When in reality everyone.every sex jousts wants to be loved and find a partner to have a family with.
She would say that since she never found a man
@@marumaru6084 yep. They are looking for a meal ticket
She’s a fkn cabbage lol she thinks women shouldn’t vote and also thinks woman don’t pay tax 😂.
Over 50% chance on loosing the MAJORITY of your assets sounds like a good financial decision. 😂
Stay Strong Pearl , Something is wrong with those two guys. ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
They are SIMPS
Don't know how far one would have to go to find two guys who are more out of touch.
Pearl is right! These guys are simps! She would call them simps.
I've been married for 48 years and still Happy ❤
But is your husband?
@@christalmeth613of course he is… full stomach, empty nuts, and unlimited sandwiches and silence. This woman knows what she’s doing.
@@christalmeth613that’s old school marriage. They used to work.
Very happy for you - I mean it.
My Husband is very happy, having gone through what we've gone through. We've lost a lot in our lives! when you lose babies who only live for 10 days and a lot of your family to cancer and my husband had half of his lung taken away through cancer, he love me very much and I love him very much his my life
I'm married forty some years and my wife and I live in a little heaven.We did it with ❤️.
That was 40 years ago, things are different now specially with all the socjal media 7 women to 1 men women with no morals.
Marriage does not equal family life
Perfectly said!
Would you go skydiving with a 50% success rate?
Rather than get married?
To answer your question, HELL NO. If the success rate wasn't 95% or higher, I'd pass. And most men feel the same way
In Spanish the words ‘handcuff’ and ‘wife’ are the same.
😂
Are you serious?? Yes, you're right. Those words are the same. Dude!! I learned something new. Thanks....
It could be solved easily. The government needs to stop paying people to abandon their families. Stop telling people it's ok.
Currently people get divorced because they "aren't happy" and the government steps in to help raise their kids.
They could say: no welfare if both parents are alive and don't live together. We could all say "stop being selfish and put your kids first. Who cares if you are happy.
They could say: outside of abuse... the one who initiates divorce automatically loses custody of the kids.
We should all stop promoting and incentivizing dysfunctional behavior. We didn't used to have this problem. Raising a child took two parents. It still does.
I'm a single man and @ 44, I will stay that way. It's not worth it for me.
Thumbs up. Same boat. Cheers, bother!
@@davek5777 The feminist movement has Backfired. Too many options for us Men to enjoy & be Happy with Real Women that knows how to enjoy us.
@@madisonodom2107 yes it has. Enjoy your days, my friend. Let those feminists enjoy their days fighting amongst themselves. Cheers!
46 here. Same.
Same here brother! 43 years old!!!
The 2 interviewers were old enough to be Pearl's grandpa but have the wisdom of a toddler. The family court has been annihilating men for decades, but these men are clueless to these facts, with Pearl having to quote studies and explain to them how the court system works. Just goes to prove that some people can be naive despite being so old and ancient
I’m 100% never getting married again - I’m a top 5% guy, but I’ve noped-the-fuck-out
Hookups, casual dating, nothing more
These interviewers are the worst. Trying to be, and failing, at a comedy duo act, whilst constantly talking over the guest, then baldy’s rude enough to let his phone ring, then spends his time reading a text whilst the guest is talking.
I could not agree more, I feel embarrassed for they way that Pearl Davis was treated, particularly for the very personal questions that were put to her.
They are so rude and lack the manners of a chav, embarrassing to watch, but James Whale is a pratt at best!
They’re the rudest most unprofessional duo of clowns on British media.
@@bldtv7038 The bald dude was for sure the other guy was actually trying to get some good questions out but kept getting cut off.
Exactly!
I'm 65+...I was married twice, and I can't believe that I did that. I've been single for 22 years and it's been the best time of my life. I was in a band, collected cars, wrote three novels, ran my own business, saved money, hiked with my dogs, raised my daughter, and dated whenever I wanted. Stay single, my friends.
A future with a lot of women without children is a future without a lot of people.
And that is what is happening,slowly but surely!
And it will reach a tipping point and you will see the government drastically change the laws.
Why cause this is all their doing, corruption leads to destruction of a society and its happening as we speak.
My parents have been married for 50 years and my father has been unfaithful for the majority of that period… my mother is faithful but has been left mentally unstable and exhausted while my father has been abusive and a violent alcoholic. Some people are lucky and some aren’t when it comes to marriage. Signing a contract with god and abusing it probably won’t help get you into heaven.
Sjoldschool Marriage is a Covenant, you make your VOWS before Almighty God who hears every word that’s uttered and the congregation are witnesses to every VOW you speak, everybody will stand before GOD one day and all will be judged for there wickedness, there unfaithfulness, fornication, adultery, lying, stealing, all will be judged unless the realise that Jesus died on the Cross for their Sins, Jesus paid the price, we are all Sinners, we have all fallen short because we are all sinners. Unless we believe that our Father sent His Beloved Son Jesus Christ to take the Sin of each and every human being, Jesus was obedient until death on the cross, it is done ! but death could not hold him for HE rose again and is seated by HIS Father in heaven, HE is coming again very soon . Our sin separated us , but through the blood of Jesus Christ we can be reconciled to Our Lord by admitting we are a sinner and asking for forgiveness of our sins and we can be followers of Jesus Christ, filled with the Holy Spirit and Baptised total submission under water, death to our old life and all our sin washed away as we come out from the water a new Born Again follower of Jesus Christ ! Hallelujah 🙌🏻🙏
Sooo Sorry And sad for you and your Mom! 🥲🙏🏻
Sounds like a woman
This story of yours does not invalidate the evil you women are doing in marriages. Infidelity and emotional abuse of men and you women always want to play victim
Thats unfortunate, however the exception does not prove the rule.
I was married for about 10 years but I got out cuz I couldn't stand it anymore and I didn't care how much I had to pay to get out. If I had to do it over again I would just service women who wanted to have kids and just pay for the upbringing whatever they needed
I enjoyed the conversation but the 2 journalists came across as flippant and childish, and unprepared. They appeared to be taking the P. At least that is how I perceived it.
I thought they were asking pretty stupid questions too. If they had done at least some small amount of research they would have had a better discussion.
Mass migration, that is what every country in Europe, except Hungary, has chosen, or has been chosen for.
Children from broken homes die 4 years earlier then from families that stay together also parent that divorce die 4 years earlier as well.
I never got married and will never be. Marriage is a joke.
Pearl is so on the money it's unbelievable she get any opposition.
These dudes are the British equivalent of Beavis & Butthead.
Weak sackless doofuses
But with less intelligence!!!
Why do they place these two blokes right beside each other? It’s a tad bit odd
Dumb and Dumber
The hosts were so clearly uncomfortable. Hilarious
Because they are men working under women. They can easily be cancelled and fired for perceived misogyny if they openly agree with everything Pearl says
Enjoyed the bantering.
Im happy single have never been married but have children,im a loner don't want anyone in my life
Cool story bro
So u Are black ?😂
I get what you are saying but dying alone, in some expensive old folks home, no children to see you when you're older isn't good
@@kaloriekongenno white mate
@@DrJams There is no "perfect" life that we all seek. Those that you mentioned are simply what a single man would have to face and endure in Life. While in marriage, a man could be ravaged by a nasty divorce and still end up "alone" when the dust settles - only to die alone as well. I'd prefer to stay single.
I knew two men that put a gun to their mouths, one broke up with a girlfriend, the other a divorce, they both survived.
She is spot on.....women have ruined their futures for themselves 😕
Enjoyed the bantering. Pearl, you are a star. Sensible and what I've heard, coming close to the biblical concept of a woman and her role in society. Children needs a father and mother (preferably within a stable marriage) to grow up a balanced (or as far as possible) person. As for social media - you can make a choice - you can allow it to control you, or you can do the controlling. I have a old small dumb "Moses phone" (Nokia). I cannot even take a photo. However, I do have a goodish Canon camera with a 300 mm lens. And yes, a laptop to do something more that my old Moses phone. I've decided to experience reality through what I do and not through social media.
Traditional times we don’t even ear the word faithful.These days, to be faithful is the biggest challenge in one relationship.
Very sad how a young woman has to educate these old dudes who are so far removed from the current reality they created.
Two old idiots pretending they don’t know whats going on . Thats what there doing, trying to make it all into a joke .
Men have taken their lives and had their lives destroyed by the government over marriages.
Completely absurd thing but it is happening and these two wanna take a serious topic and make jokes out of it.
Marriage is a relationship that is constantly being negotiated. Don’t do it, it will lead to unhappiness!
Been with my wife since we were in high school, happily married 12 years with our wee ones, marriage takes work, takes integrity and honour and worth it.
Actually, without compitulation it'll be a loss either way...
Complacency Kills
@@RaymondNelson-qc2hs why I wrote 'work', I don't do complacency, I work hard now and play later.
My wife left after 20+ years and 3 children, I got sick, she left with over half my money…
When a marriage goes wrong, it's mostly the Men who lose the most, especially in the Family Courts 🤔
I have been married for 57 years, I only regret one thing, and that is having made one woman unhappy, when I could have made several others happy!
I can't watch this. If you are going to have a guest on let her speak. Constant interruption makes it impossible to listen to.
None of my friends are happily married. Neither are my two siblings. This lady is speaking some uncomfortable truths. Some of my mates have been nagged that much over years their reward for it is massive debt, blood pressure problems, and a bald head.🤣 I'm 54, not married, no debt, and I have a full head of hair.
Lol she’s a troll
Agree with you. Im in my late 40s. Most of my friends who are married either look defeated. Tired or financially bound. When I meet them it feels they want to release or express themselves but cant or wont or have lost the will to. Just 1 or 2 appear happy. "Women are in debt" - also correct. They suddenly want to go all "traditional" and want a man to look after them. But actually provide or have little to nothing to offer back.
@@rpg5017 Totally agree I would say 95% of the men I know are not happily married there on a treadmill they cant get off, even go as far as to say they dont even like there partner that much which is very unhealthy!
@@petermaclellan9977 it is. I had my good friend messaging me over last few days. Saying his greatest success are his lovely kids but then kept going for a few days on "I wish things were different". Ive known him for decades and he sounded tired and exhausted. I cant represent all marriages, but what I have seen is some really wierd vibes. Some marry because of age or cultutre. Others marry because they are following the crowd. Im seeing more and more of this. Sadly this lady is correct. Most (not all) women these days have forgotten the innocense and sanctity of marriage and instead look for the financial security. They know if it goes wrong then itll all be theirs. Ive seen this happen to my brother, who was an emotional wreck for 2 years getting over it. Luckily he saved himself from a psycho.
@@run2cat4runa truth troll
Got my own 4 bed detached. 6 figure ISA investment. Pension. Sports car. 6 figure income. Not married. Never will. My woman knows I’ll never marry. She gets looked after whilst she’s with me. Never get married. It’s insane
She probably doesn’t want to marry you either so no worries
@@jmjenkins97 bitter much 🤣
@@jmjenkins97 you think women dont want to marry rich men who own homes and sports cars ?
Americans are so naive. Here in Germany a formal marriage isn’t longer necessary to apply marriage laws. Marriage was extended to “cohabitation” in 2008. If you just live together without marriage, same laws apply. Furthermore the justice department reversed the burden of proof, so you have to prove if you didn’t live together.
@slchance8839 Well, if she wants to marry money (assuming your "6 figures" is over $200k) and knows you'll never marry, she is certain to leave you for a rich man who WILL marry.
It is a shame that the world ignores what men go through until a woman says men are discriminated against.
"If you talk in my ear again i will sack you" he's definitely talking to a bloke.
Women have every right to go out to work but i believe this lead to the downfall of the family unit. My mother was a housewife all her married life and this created a stable home life.
I agree to a point lots of women had ‘ little’ jobs to add to the main wage, my grandmother did in the fifties as did her mother. Women have been sold a lie and so have men that women should want a family whilst still going to work. Most of the young men I know including my sons think women should be contributing to the family income, although I couldn’t we just went without. Women can’t have it all and men have to realise this as well, plus don’t look down on women who stay at home to look after their kids.
I am sometimes a bit lonely, but never for very long, and certainly not enough to even consider entering into a relationship with a female. Having my 2 children and giving them fun and happy memories is the centre of my life. Since having reconciled this with the rest of my life, it's almost like my very soul, or my spirit, took a deep sigh of relief and I felt so glad to be free. I support any genuinely principled men out there and the choices you make. Just, please, really REALLY think carefully before you make commitments; does she have attributes like loyalty, trustworthiness, sincerity? Pearl takes a lot of stick but she is absolutely correct with this.
I have a feeling "females" are happy not to be in a relationship with you 😂😂😂😂
You have nothing to offer but demands
Yep, you so right with being careful before making a commitment. Enjoyed Pearl's wisdom in the day and age where are living in.
No she’s not correct. Because she’s making women out to be this toxic sex, while men are innocently just working hard and contributing to society and being good, decent human beings.
It was quite offensive to me, as someone who has been always loyal, I have worked hard in my life and in response I’ve had men who have cheated, and one man who had the ambition to just become a stay at home dad to my kids.
She’s not 100% correct. Because she defines all the good attributes to whether or not you have a penis. It comes down to the type of person you are. How you were brought up, and your own personal morals
once again, Pearl is correct - there is ABSOLUTELY no benefit for men to get married
prove me wrong......
But her conservative vieuws are the other side of the extreme. She wants to live in a world were every woman is forced to get married with someone and forced to have kids. If she don't she has no income or a home. What if she does not want kids and do something else with her life? What if she likes to be a lonewolf and loves being alone? You want to force her to be with someone against her own will? This is why most people don't take conservatives serious anymore ! It is ridiculous !
Feminism and conservatism are both extreme. Nobody has the right to force a system on you that forces you to do everything you hate !
They can't. I may be pro marriage but the advise I hear from pro marriage ppl is that they say regardless of the laws being against you,still you should get marriage. That's bs advice.
@@ryansalford thats just insane.....so peeps are saying its a bad deal - but you should do it anyhow lol
@chriskirsten8221 Yes. Let me use an example. I don't know whether you will consider this a good example but the Daily wire are an example. Especially Knowles. He admits that the divorce laws are against men but they should get married regardless to "take marriage back to tradition." Then has a debate with Pearl and he was delusional in that debate. Pearl actually smoked him.
@@ryansalford there is no evidence that tells any man these days, that marriage is a good deal.
True. I would never get married ever again. It has been the worst endeavor I’ve ever engaged in. I was able to delay this disaster until I was 40 then met someone that I thought was undeniably wonderful. we were together for three years before we got married and things were pretty good, and I’ll be damned if things didn’t start to go south practically the day after we said our vows. Seven years later, I’m on the verge of calling it quits.
I lived with a woman for 6 years and she was fine. They can hide it pretty well. It changed within months once I married. The courts are biased against men, they know once you commit the whole system will be arraigned against you. You are powerless once you marry in a modern society as the institutions (police, courts, society) now completely support women's concerns only . Young men should think very carefully about marriage. I suspect there are few diamonds out there but beware thinking you have found one.
She's well informed and I'm glad she shows that regardless of the panel.
Marraige , ie a business , why would you involve the state in your life more than you already have.
I love you Pearl, fellow Chicagoan. Put this in your pocket so you’re not blind sided.
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The key being CO-invented, wanne bet the other inventor was a man…..
And wifi was invented by an Australian man called John O'Sullivan.
Watching the majority of marriages puts me off the idea, too many are full of bitterness and friction, then there's divorce. Marriage started as a practical arrangement with a reason to do it; love was not necessary. Romanticism appealed to peoples loneliness with the idea of a soulmate to complete them. Unfortunately no two people are the same. People marry to try and meet their needs, not to sacrifice themselves for another. If people didn't think a marriage would improve their own wellbeing nobody would do it. The last divorced man I spoke to described it as 'like non terminal cancer.'
Pearl is savage & I will always be here for it
Marriage is a CONTRACT for the safety, welfare and protection of children. The rest is responsibility and commitment, which few seem capable of doing in this modern world.
Marriage is a guaranteed pay day for women who can be compensated for leaving out of boredom
I was married once 11 years ago, haven’t even dated since.
First woman I ever heard that completely support mens rights..
I agree. Marriage is a death sentence!!!!! I asked for a Divorce and I was devastated when I lost custody of my daughter. When you don't have custody your a part time parent at that point. Your kid or kids don't respect you. They mother was teacher my daughter to lie and make excuses not to see me. Instead of my ex parenting she tries to be my daughters best friend instead letting her lay around the house and do nothing. Let her not do her homework. Where I would make her do those things. With the economy being bad now paying $1,000 to $2,000 a month extra paying. Child support will make a man broke.
You "asked" for a divorce?
Her respect meter just dropped 10 points, mine did 20!
@@stevenkrupka3670lol u someday u will know what a toxic partner & sxless marage is
Old school traditional marriage with mutual respect still works. Me, me, me, my needs type marriage doesn't work. It's a choice. Get married, have kids, have dignity, and you will be happy. These are rewarding attributes.
My parents have stayed together all my life and I am greatful. They are the best
I signed my man’s prenup. NO alimony . He said I was his soulmate 😂❤
7:23 after kids come, theres no sex.
I will never get married again. I lost so much money, lived in misery with an ungrateful hag.
Now I have freedom and more women than ever. CGA gand up
I hear ya dude, my "wifey" chopped off her hair, had it cut like a man, was so hard to have s3x cuz she resembled a dude from behind.
I hated it!!
People marry for the wrong reasons, in the wrong ways, with too many exit options.
A successful Marriage is between three people, a man, a woman and God, without any consideration for exit strategies.
Pearl is SO right, and refreshing to hear her speak the absolute truth.
Lol she’s a grifter
I was married 15 years.. I put her through nursing school..she met a doctor and filed for divorce and dragged me through the divorce meat grinder. NEVER again!!!!!!!
I know your pain I loved 1 girl since childhood for 13 years, we waited for her 18th Birthday to marry and she takes the kids and leaves for that cover boyfriend her abusive mother dumped her with you wouldn't believe the story it even was in the news but thankfully it got cut out by the law after a month etc. Same never again at least she was kind it was due to obsession.
There is no alimony at least and I m alive because normally men commit suicide with what was done to me not to mention the violation of my human rights.
BumbaClart!!
Marriage once was a life sentence, now it's the death penalty.
Every bodies situation deferent. I was married once. Never again !!! Married in Europe . Came to US. She left ..abounded me after 25 years . Became American.....money, car, condo....! I don't need you any more, she said. 6 months later...can I come back?
NO She used me for money. She had no money. Paid for wedding, Trip to come here. Nice tourist trip. ( cost me a year salary in Hungary ) Had two jobs.
Applied for asylum. Got it. Thank god !!! She said money is not important, not everything. Love is 🙈😂
Stand firm
you two talk too much
I thought the same thing. They are an embarrassment to men as well.
Pearl is great