What They Don’t Tell You About Marriage || STEVE HARVEY
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- čas přidán 15. 04. 2019
- Wedding season is coming up, so Steve thought he’d help everyone out by spilling the truth on the things no one tells you about marriage.
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I am a woman and I like some alone time from my husband too. I think every body needs some alone time for mental health, just an hour or two. You can’t be together every single hour of the day!!
Preach it sister. Ive been married for five yearsthis year. Lords knows if i didn't have alone time. My husband wpuld not have been here now😂😂
Especially if your spouse or mil r policing your every move...
Doesn’t he has some work to do!
I need more time alone than an hour or two.
I think even if you get married, you can (and should) still do things by yourself...
Sorry to break it to you, you can't. You'll always be under surveillance. Enjoy your life as long as you're single.
Remember Steve is from an older generation where couples become a single, bonded unit forever once you're married. But most people tend to forget that even after you involve yourself in a committed relationship, you are still you on some degree. Your partner should never be relied on for your own happiness, but at the same time should never be a virus in your life that consumes every aspect of your existence. There is a balance between personal time, and Us time. Sadly that balance depends on the couple and shifts like the tides....
I love playing PS4 by myself. Will that be a problem too ?
Yes with friends and all or to go get groceries or pick the kids up from school or even go for a jog.
@@ratlakmin Unless she's better then you and yeah it could be a really big problem.
Nothing is wrong with asking your wife nicely: baby I need to be alone for half an hour, love you 😘
Baha T LMAOOOO 😂, trust me that she will think about it allllll day about why you want to be alone!!
Ohh you wanna be alone..okayyyyy okaaay she whispers:(you'll see)😂😂😂😂😂
I've had a reverse situation several times.
@@SkyMine911 id responce this to her i need time alone with myself if u not down with that there the door youre not the one for me
Nope that's not how I'm asking I'm just going to be like baby I'm going out for a little bit I'll be right back it's better than saying I want to be alone because she will be wondering all day why he needs to be alone just say I'm going out for a little bit I'll be back
LMAO ! Married 33 yrs we respect one another's alone time ! But also have our time together !
Need to pay attention to MeTube hahahaha
Ree Ree hahahahaha best punchline ever.
Almost peed on myself when he said that😂😂😂😂
Yes.
jaaaj
This one had me ronllig 🤣🤣
To all men who plan to marry or already married , always remember that when you leave your mother’s home, and cleave onto your wife, your wife becomes your number one priority. Your mother will always be your mother, and you must honor and respect her the same as whole she raised you. Your wife is your Queen, confidant, advisor, support system, and one who you must honor, respect, appreciate, treasure, and value value with unconditional love through Christ Jesus.
Yesss preach baby preach
AMEN
And that I why I prefer sex dolls
Yeeeessss!! Amen! Preach!! 🤍
And that is why unfortunately,,,,, men are choosing to stay single,,,,,, for the very biblical reasons,,,,,, that are given,,,,,, unfortunately those great biblical principles,,,,,, are not being reciprocated by women,,,,,,, they use the Bible unfortunately to browbeat,,,, their husbands into submission and getting whatever they want,,,,, which in turns makes marriage hard and challenging,,,,,, and unfortunately not worth getting into,,,,,,(it is a hard but honest truth,,,, a lot of wives were their husbands to death),,,, the good book says,,,,, it is better for a man to dwell on the rooftop of his house,,,, 🏘️,,,,, then to be in the angry presence,,,, of a cantankerous woman) 🙏🤷💯
My wife always is telling me, that we’re a team. When a wife says that and stands firm on that, accept no substitutes.
if you and your partner learn how to give each other space then u won't go through what steve just mentioned.
"Need to pay attention to MeTube !" 😂😂
Alone time makes the US time SPECIAL. Gives you the opportunity to miss your mate and have something to talk about
Omg, when I was married, I wasn't allowed to read! Thank you, Darren, divorcing you was the best thing I ever did!!
He’s crazy
Wow this sucks
Notice that he only asked the men,,,,,, mainly because Steve knows women are controlling,,, manipulative and argumentative,,,,, fellas please don't get with a woman,,,,, that has been either mentally or physically abused,,,,, trust and believe you will never live a happy life,,,,,, or for that matter,,,,,,U,,,, definitely won't live long at (ALL)🤦💯🤷
Let my wife read all the time. Any time she wants. Hell I even go to Barnes and Noble with her all the time. I had to start letting her go alone cuz I can’t look at books for hours like her lol. But I got to see Batman alone and she encouraged me to do so. We let each other enjoy alone time and we enjoy time together. Especially with two kids. She needs a break sometimes and so do I. So we grant that to one another since we have toxic family members that we don’t want them around. It’s been a hard 7 years. But we love each other and couldn’t picture anyone else honestly. Sex with other women was great and all but I ended up feeling empty. Needed love man. Got that now. Blessed.
You can tell Steve nailed it with the last couple!!! His reaction though 😂😂😂
Ooooh oh 😂😂😂😂😂, I did not marry you to watch you read.
Class 😅😅😅
Watchu readin
Steve is hilarious
Not true for me, I'm a low maintenance introvert. I like my space
Can i know u alittle more? I wana be ur friend and if it works out, we might even date
Same! My boyfriend and I know how to not smother each other.
Me too. I like my space without a lot of talking lol
Me too.
Use the bathroom alone!!! Yes 😂😂
This is why marriage rates are dropping like a rock.
I believe it’s because people live together first. Men don’t have to buy the cow if they are already getting sex on a regular basis .
@@64katesy Divorce rates are higher if you live together first anyway, so that is not a good idea.
I think it has to do with the fact that people today do not take marriage seriously. They don't. Also, they view love as a feeling and certainly it starts out that way but love has to become a choice or it will not last. Further, I think that people are less careful in picking their mates. They seem to understand themselves less and therefore pick people who make good boyfriend/girlfriend but horrible mates. You need to be honest with yourself and honest about the other person's qualities.
@@64katesy Women initiate 80% of all divorce, so what does your point about sleeping together have to do with divorce rates?
LMAO the reading guy had me dying that he kept pointing to his wife lol
Women struggle a lot being married as well. Specially when we start having babies.
I hope and pray that my husband will respect my alone time is meditating in my own beautiful corner filled with candles 🕯
It is so important to keep individuality with some separate independence and united companionship. Be best friends right from before I do so that you always enjoy talking about stuff and can be comfortable and silly with eachother. Passion might come and go but being married to a best friend makes it last even when things are hard because nothing gives support like friendship does. I've seen this with my parents, my grandparents, my 3 aunts, extended family, and of course myself where love never fades. Nobody ever says this but your friendzone might hold your ultimate catch and you are not seeing it because in your mind friend and spouse are opposites. It could be the same but it starts before the aisle. What you see is what you get so take your time and look closely.
Honestly I like my alone time. Marriage is hard very hard
Be careful too much alone time can be very dangerous and detrimental to a marriage,,,,, it can be a setup,,,,, to let the devil 👿,,,, sleeping and destroy your happy home 🏘️,,,,, because if you enjoy a long time all the time,,,,,, the overcast of your marriage may already be a failed one,,, with dark clouds and thunderstorms approaching ⛈️💯🤦
You don't want to be alone all of the time. Just give me space sometimes and I'm good.
I mean who doesn't want to use the bathroom alone 🤔
Fr
Wait till you get kids... Everything's a group activity for them.
@@TheEverfever *sigh* no thanks 😊
I must be the man, I need space, this would drive me crazy!
Gotta try
Same here!! Lol!
His audience is mostly house wives
Yup u and me both!!
Can someone give advice about marriage
One key to marriage is to have your own friends,hobbies and things you enjoy ,your husband too and do things together give each other enough space to enjoy other aspects of LIFE! .....
Ohhhhh the ‘in-laws’ that’s a show of its own 🤭🤣
Steve , thanks for all the good adorable advices, I’m Muslim but I adore the way you believe in Lord
I swear this my favorite
"You have always got your face in CZcams....what about MeToo???? Oh man, this guy Steve is classic!!!!
Love your show...i am learning alot...i always learn something...God Bless You
Love you like a Father Steve you inspired me alot
Strangely enough, there isn’t much I wanted to do without my wife.
When you come up with “you got to pay attention to meTube” on the spot!
Class act!
Mothers Need to Train their Sons to Love their Wives and children. They Need to Teach their Sons to Treat their Wives and children Good.
Mothers Need to Train their Sons to Live with his Wife and children.
Mothers Need to STOP Trying to Make their Sons Love Them Only ❗❗❗
Mothers Need to Let their Sons Live their Own Lives ❗❗❗
U are a man among men👌
Yess👍a real man here
@@hhyufsky2690 what does that even mean?
Fathers. You mean "Fathers need to teach their sons..." 😀👍
And so should the father
Good point!
😂 oh lord take me now lmao 🤣 Steve Harvey is hilarious he keeps me laughing even when I’m not at my best 😆 thank you Steve I have also find him very inspirational and motivational! Amen🙏
This is so true.
I have to admit that was GOOD. I love it & it's the truth.
Aw thanks Steve that so nice of you, to let us know on how to do things a marriage.ooh boy mr. Harvey you are a best advice regarding ladies these days. Nice talk.
Thanks Steve
Brilliant man you Steve!
She better grab a book too and be quiet. However you're welcome to talk to me about my book. I like that.
Unfortunately, a lot of women are controlling to the point it's abusive, and it ain't cute like Steve's trying to make it seem.
Too bad, women you are missing out on getting to know another side of the gentleman. If you want to know what he is reading, lay in his lap and let him read to you aloud.
😂👍
DAMN Zodac😂😂😂😂, he like hush woman I'm reading 🤣
@@calledqualifiedjustified9054 He doesn't want that, bud. Why not just answer the q!!
I love me some Steve Harvey weather it's funny or inspiring it's always good! Blessings on you and yours😍😂
Always bring Enlightenment with and are of jovialness.
Mr.Harvey is hilarious 😂
The reading part sounded just like my husband, actually.
And the best part of it all is that men think us girls don’t need some alone time as well...
i love steve Harvey the love for his wife and marriage and god is wonderful
That was a good one Steve.
What he said is so true
Love me some Steve!
I really appreciate your videos Steve you are the pro the best
Amen Steve
This guy is awesome.
Don’t forget once she says “I do” over time it always becomes “I don’t”
I can’t show my husband this segment at all 😂😂🤣😂❤️😂!
Brilliant Steve as always:)
Love him!
Steve never disappointed to make me laugh
Love your outfit at the end❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉!!!
My brother also got married and he rarely go to the gym now. Im like wow, I wanna keep training, thats how I can get in shape and one of the reason she would marry me, because yes, physical appearance is one of the reason why you are attracted to someone.
I’m an introvert and I like my space thank you😂
I think there is a right time for everything, you can't be on social media when we are having a serious conversation.
all I need it’s one advice from you to know if I’m doing the right thing
You are just so real Steve ... u a reallly so funny, I actually had never taken the time to listen to your you tube videos but after watching the movies.. think like a man... woow u a so real and funny
Marriage 101:
Don't marry someone BROKE!
Don't marry someone YOU have to take care of financially!!
I personally don't desire to marry someone that is NEEDIE!!!
Separate bathrooms, next and stay blessed!!!!🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎
Sadly I was in that situation didn't know it going in but yeah happened and then had to leave
Don't marry someone broke?? Don't marry someone who have to take care of financially?? If all men think like that, you imagine many women would stay single!
@@jamesbonofffradestin761 wow, true statement
Amen
King Steve 👑
I'm not married, but I like to follow u in CZcams Steve
I think I'm the only 14 year old that watches 🤷😂😂
Aayonahlove Marshall
Please learn from these videos little sister.
Use the Wisdom
That's good! I wish I watched Steve's videos at 14 yrs old
Well, you're doing something right! I'm 19 and I wish I had found out about this show a little earlier, but whatever I guess 🤷🏼♀️ I've learned a lot through experience, and this show is helping me learn even more and is bringing more awareness.
ur not the only one
Thank you guys for the positivity..😊
there's nothing wrong with having time to yourself I think all couples need that from time to time
I've been there too!!!
'tell me something you like doin' by yourself'
- dressing up, getting ready, put my makeup on. ✨ Just doing my beauty routine.
That's why you talk and compromise 😊
Ahhh the moments where I value being single
I love my mother in law❤ everyone should have a mother in law like her! I push my husband to do things alone or with friends I like my alone time a good book gardening horse back riding ...
3:10 noticed the guy saying "good answer" XD
He was pointing at her whole time 💀🤣
this is so funny because it is so true!
married?
now that's your problem right there 😂
Steve wa tshegisa tlhe. lolly(south africa)
This is hilarious!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm going through this now with my fiancee. Lol
I can relate to people to this even though I am didn’t get married my father mother and relatives are annoying me during reading I liked to read alot of story and they’re annoying that all I do is reading
im so happy my girls mother is so nice to me and is so cool
I love you Steve! 😂😂😂
Rejoice in HOPE,
Be Patient in tribulation,
Be Constant in Prayer
🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️
Romans 12:12
This is so funny because my mom does this to my step father lmaooooo
Stewe is the best
Man, that impression at the end is so on point.. 💀💀💀💀💀 - @Acharich
Steve is hilarious
Facts
Lol. 😂. My soon to be husband cannot leave me alone. He sometimes calls me when he's with the boys out and asks me to join. He thinksnks I don't love him enough because I ask him to leave me alone at times cause I want my space. So it's not always women who are clingy.
This is how most men act when they are seriously in love sometimes they can go overboard which can sometimes be a little annoying,,,,,, but you would rather have your man to be crazy about you,,,,, then to have a man that regrets,,,,, ever marrying you in the first place,,,,,,
Balance that thing out,,,,,,, and if I might add never deny your husband good loving,,,,, never make the mistakes of what some women do,,,,, or better yet won't (DO)💯❗🙏🤷
Yep
Good video
2:46 well they both smiling now wait till she gets home or reaches the car.
I love this cat lol lmbo lmbo
We are not all like this. This would be draining as hell 🥴
thanks Steve thats what i try to tell my husband pay attention to me tube
I so love this Episode What are you Reading did not married you to read lol
you are too good 🤣
You its strange sometimes I see these Steve Harvey videos pop up on my feed and I am like man why does this dude care so much? Like I always have a thing to mind my own business when it comes to other people's relationships.
But then I think of thbjbga I have seen with my self, siblings and friends of how things can awfully wrong where people get hurt, depressed, lose their self worth, how a bad relationship can really change a person, get them new addictions, people get used and abused, end up in never ending cycles, second guess yourself or even fool yourself cos maybe if you don't care anymore u won't get hurt. I mean it just takes one bad experience or even one bad moment and it can change u so much.
So I think man this dude actually cares
He does man...He is thinking about the Up and coming generation...We the Millennial need this alot,.
@@sumailaatilare9660 omg we do! I get so frustrated with the narrative mainstream media has created and imposed on us... One where our hedonistic side is being amplified and exploited like there's no tomorrow. We need the guidance in order to be able to know where to go to or to do better when we did something harmful..
@@peacheskong2245 Definitely...the ideology that the mainstream imposes on us is unbelievable. The beautiful ending is good but don't we need to thought about the hard work involved to have a successful and beautiful marriage. I am always learning and reading about it. The needed knowledge there is never ending.
My boyfriend is that person with no respect of personal space😂😂😂😂😂 il be in the bathroom doing whatever (and by that i mean ANYTHING) and he still wants to come in and do what he wants to do.if im taking a bath,he wants to do number 2;or brush his teeth...its alwys something🙆🙆🙆🙆
Gee Gee y’all don’t have y’all own bathroom?
My boyfriend does too and honestly I don’t mind it. I love it, it doesn’t bother me. Especially when I eat I always ask him... before I get this food do you want anything? He says no. You sure? Yes. Once I get it BAM! Half of my food is gone or he’s in my face like baby can I have some please lmao but I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Put a lock on the door!
@@IntegrityJones 😂😂😂😂😂 yeah its cute.wouldnt trade it for anything!
@Ms Lolah 😂😂😂💯💯💯