After 3yrs living in a van at 76. What exactly have I learned.

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  • čas přidán 8. 06. 2024
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Komentáře • 240

  • @SharaBinghamMills
    @SharaBinghamMills Před měsícem +50

    Lord, Lindy. You are keeping it real. I'd rather be homeless in a vehicle than without one.

    • @susanstancliff2937
      @susanstancliff2937 Před měsícem +7

      Thank you for being honest and down to earth.
      You have the best of both worlds.
      Letting us know you do have storage because you have a hard time giving up your antiques is an honest omission. I appreciate that.
      You were also honest about the heat and your ac and you and little Marley were going through a hard time.
      Also about parking in a parking lot and those two big semi trucks parking near by and keeping you up all night.
      The good times and meeting up with other people who live the van life.
      I think I remember you being in the Army. You definitely are a tough person and have lived through a lot!
      Amazing you don’t take any medications!
      Thank you for being honest. Life is not easy and to do what you do certainly takes a lot of work.
      God bless you and thank
      You for your videos. You reach a lot of different kinds of people.
      ❤️🕊️🙏🐶

  • @joannacurran8475
    @joannacurran8475 Před měsícem +62

    I think the biggest thing is the acceptance. If a van is your only option you must leave the pain, sorriw, blame etc. behind and embrace the new. Not easy but the only way to thrive, like Lindy.

  • @sarahleahB
    @sarahleahB Před měsícem +30

    Your life is testament to your inner strength, Lindy. Keep these posts coming.

  • @gloriouslifeonwheels3621
    @gloriouslifeonwheels3621 Před měsícem +27

    People need to know the truth about van life so they are prepared and enter the lifestyle with realistic expectations.

  • @bettysuelong4268
    @bettysuelong4268 Před měsícem +16

    No pills. Awesome. You go girl…

  • @suntzu2ya358
    @suntzu2ya358 Před měsícem +31

    Thank you Ms Lindy, your videos are very inspiring, not only for van living, but for life in general! Be safe

  • @cadence9055
    @cadence9055 Před měsícem +26

    I suspect that when a person does van life for a lark and a way to afford travel, it is exciting and even glamorous. But if that same person stays in the lifestyle beyond a couple of years, it gets real. Same for folks who go into it knowing it’s their only home. We’re not going to theme parks or rock climbing in exotic locals!! You’re a treasure, dear lady. I’m honored to have found your channel. ♥️

  • @rvgrandmacharlotte4604
    @rvgrandmacharlotte4604 Před měsícem +52

    It also applies to people, especially women, who sell all, buy an RV then find out it is not as glorious as they were led to believe. My late husband and I moved into our motorhome in 2004. The 13 years of his illness much maintenance was deferred. He has been gone almost 4 years now. It is overwhelming at time to try to catch up which I am failing at. But, the motorhome is all I have to live in.

    • @grannyprepper1181
      @grannyprepper1181 Před měsícem +12

      I have been living in a 32 ft 5th wheel for 4 1/2 year. Not by choice, my long haul trucker husband decided after 17 years he wanted a divorce. I was blindsided. I am looking for a small manufactured home I can afford in northwest Arizona.

    • @wanderingstar5673
      @wanderingstar5673 Před měsícem +4

      Always have an exit plan. Circumstances can change rapidly.

    • @lorrie5881
      @lorrie5881 Před měsícem

      ​@@grannyprepper1181 I know there are still a few campgrounds in AZ that don't charge that much....if you refer to Bob Wells channel...he's good at finding them..

  • @mythicalnomadadventure969
    @mythicalnomadadventure969 Před měsícem +27

    A truthfully honest account of living #Vanlife on a daily basis.
    Thanks for taking the time Lindy. 👍 Rock on 🙂.

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 Před měsícem +21

    P.S. Lindy, "downsizing" is VERY difficult. I don't care WHAT the minimalists say! This was wonderful. Thank you! Rosemarie ❤️

  • @dapper30001
    @dapper30001 Před měsícem +5

    I was captivated by your thoughts I'm not in a van I'm in the UK I have gone from a three bedroom house to a flat /apartment i lost a lot of the things i worked my life for they have now gone but I have adapted after a few months i have faced my issues I'm am now happy after this experience we must adapt at 67and retired limited income thanks Lindy

  • @sheilahoness-dd9ws
    @sheilahoness-dd9ws Před měsícem +17

    Hi Lindy and Marley
    Hope you are having a good day today. Thank you for your help and information

  • @lead8mare
    @lead8mare Před měsícem +13

    Thanks, Lindy. Wise words.

  • @montanateri6889
    @montanateri6889 Před měsícem +3

    Thanks! Your smile, that love of life, is utterly beautiful.

  • @AllThingsClarice
    @AllThingsClarice Před měsícem +6

    Good evening from France lovely lady 👋 this was a lovely video and so true in everything you say. Sending you hugs and a pat for your fur baby. Stay safe 🙏😘💐🐾

  • @tammygonzalez4144
    @tammygonzalez4144 Před měsícem +14

    Thanks for keeping it real. ❤

  • @bekind5738
    @bekind5738 Před měsícem +16

    Lindy, you are such a gracious, caring ,loving lady. I am also finding it difficult to let go of my antiques, my books
    (oh how I love my books), my art, things I have collected on trips. So true when you stated, " You can't take it with you." My children for the most part do not want these things. I am trying to find people that will love these "objects of a life well lived". Thank you for sharing your experiences and your life with all of us.

  • @wandacraig8286
    @wandacraig8286 Před měsícem +9

    This was a great video for anyone, not just nomads. I've been studying this life style for 4 years so that I'm prepared if things change for me. I'm 65 and slightly handicapped and have a mini van that I could make do in if my lot rent goes up one more time. I'm already thinning things out just in case. I too would rent a small storage unit to keep just a few things that are precious to me but would mean nothing to anyone else. I'm so glad you were able to get your AC situation figured out. I'm in NW Montana and we are still dealing with the cold, but another 3 weeks and the heat will be full blast for the next three months. Thanks for sharing the realities of everything. If you're ever up my way, please reach out as it would be nice to meet you. But who knows, if I end up in my van I may meet you in the desert in winter😊. Take care, safe journeys!

  • @judybw706
    @judybw706 Před měsícem +9

    I think you have brought the Van life realities to the internet.

  • @carlostaylor7740
    @carlostaylor7740 Před měsícem +9

    May God bless and keep you.

  • @migratingRobin3767
    @migratingRobin3767 Před měsícem +9

    Hello Lindy and Marley, thank you so much for sharing ! I love your happy upbeat personality! Thanks for all your tips . I really appreciate all you do to help us learn about this life style. You are very inspiring! Much love to you and Marley ! Stay safe !🙏🏼

  • @penelopeprimrose90
    @penelopeprimrose90 Před měsícem +7

    I can sympathize with you about not wanting to get rid of your antiques and things you have collected. We do grow so attached to these things. I wish the younger generation would appreciate them.

  • @elsathal7359
    @elsathal7359 Před měsícem +10

    Thank you for sharing ✌🏽💖🤟🏽✨️🧚‍♂️

  • @louiseevans8242
    @louiseevans8242 Před měsícem +17

    It's one thing to live this way because it is a choice, it is a different story if you have been forced to live in a vehicle. No senior in the U.S should be forced to live this way. Van life fantasy!! you said it. I would love to travel around and camp and when I get tired of it I could come home. That's called fun. Living in a van full time would be torture for me. I love small , but not that small full time . I agree that less is more. I've learned that material things never made me happy. we've learned much through the years.

    • @tpkyterooluebeck9224
      @tpkyterooluebeck9224 Před měsícem +1

      I found that most people don't get the right stuff. They avoid learning things, don't really study or read what the library doesn't have. They are quick to judge that I personally, should have only the bible, notebook and pen. I do lego because it relaxes me. I used to do jigsaw puzzles, but found lego less stressful because missing pieces don't matter. I have textbooks because they amuse me. I have one offs china here and there, because I find joy in using a different dish, depending on what i feel that day. I don't need a 6 piece setting of everything I found cool looking. Thrift store finds are good enough for me. Do I own a lot of stuff? Yes, but I live in a sardine can. I got rid of around 75 percent of my non-fiction stuff because I decided I'd never make sense of it and moved on. You can't eat minamalism or air. This is why I make sure if have enough First In First Out foods, if I can afford to do this. I'm slowly working on this. I have 3 weeks of FIFO currently, but hope to get more. I believe we need LTS foods, but who can afford that?
      Collectables - I only collected lego, chess sets (my bad - too much brain damage) and textbooks. Sure you can't take it with you, but I can't think of anything more boring then sitting on a couch watching Telly while people (not you, but other people) scream you must get rid of everything because you can't take it with you. Knick-nacks never amused me. Just something to break as i was always a klutz. I am going to sell most of my chest sets.

  • @lindageiling5922
    @lindageiling5922 Před měsícem +12

    Many you tubers living in vehicles make living in vehicles look glamerous n happy . So they get more subs n make more money

  • @spwriter1
    @spwriter1 Před měsícem +9

    Thank you for your honesty. We do the best we can on this planet and you've done an amazing job and said a great example for us

  • @carolrivers292
    @carolrivers292 Před měsícem +8

    Watching videos
    Helps me feel less washed up
    And more
    A beautiful woman dealing with challenges
    Keeping mental health and physical health good

  • @jlooks1
    @jlooks1 Před měsícem +7

    Much to learn from we walking antiques ❤ thanks Lindy.

  • @cheryellemley-mcroy6758
    @cheryellemley-mcroy6758 Před měsícem +3

    I'm 77, and as it gets harder to shower, i use baby wipes more and more. I've been pouring a couple of tablespoons of white vinegar into a just opened pack of baby wipes. Then, I use them for pit baths between showers.
    Thank you for your videos. God bless and keep you in the palm of Their hands.

  • @jeannepalumbo6514
    @jeannepalumbo6514 Před měsícem +12

    You are right Lindy. I am an RN. In doing home healthcare years ago, 1:3 vinegar/ water solution or 1:10 bleach/ water solution were used for cleaning and disinfecting medical equipment and supplies. Today, I think a 1:2 and 1:1 vinegar/ water solution are more common. For your own personal use, some people use straight vinegar.

  • @siriusstar99
    @siriusstar99 Před měsícem +10

    I lived on my boat for over 25 years ,Van life is similar to boat life but dirtier, all the things you are saying are so true now I have been forced into a Van ,it’s better than being stuck in a house or apartment. For those of us that are older on a fixed income it can be a challenge . As on a boat whatever comes in that is multipurpose puts a smile on my face . It’s the simple things that count Funny how people don’t realize how much water they waste and how much stuff they don’t really need.Happy Birthday Dear ,all the best to you .🎉🎂

    • @JacquelineTarleton
      @JacquelineTarleton Před měsícem +2

      Thank you for this video. I’ve met you once at Susan Hare’s camp who is also a great author and content creator. You were at Van Aid near Yuma Arizona in 2024. You have told the truth. People need to hear reality. Those content creators run off and make videos that look fun and exciting. One young man quit vanlife the first time he had diarrhea in the winter but no way to potty indoors. Several couples broke up. One couple built a tiny house in the woods ad had a baby. Other people built a tiny house in the woods contributing to the rising land prices. When times grew hard, that couple bought a house in the city. Every point you made was the exact target. I have not figured out my way to van life yet but videos like yours keep me grounded. People are not talking about seniors aging out of vanlife when they need to stay close to their medical providers. Being sick in a vehicle is awful. Your videos are both educational and inspirational. Hold firm.

    • @l.a.v.alindysawesomevanadv3428
      @l.a.v.alindysawesomevanadv3428  Před měsícem +1

      @JacquelineTarleton did you come to the chili meet I did. I do remember a Jacqueline

  • @carmenmarquez1150
    @carmenmarquez1150 Před měsícem +10

    Lindy and Marley Love All Your Videos is Inspiring to All Be Safe 🙏♥️

  • @susie4517
    @susie4517 Před měsícem +7

    Your so inspiring Lindy. Thanks for your videos. ❤😊

  • @familylifetoo9541
    @familylifetoo9541 Před měsícem +11

    Take a picture of All your antiques and make an album. Save maybe 50 items in case you move to a bigger place.

  • @tameraholland6347
    @tameraholland6347 Před měsícem +4

    Oh my gosh! I know how you feel about getting rid of your antiques. I have some antiques and collectibles that I'm having a hard time getting rid of. I'm downsizing to minimize my living space in a very tiny apartment since my grandson has moved in with me. They've always brought me joy looking at them. It's hard but necessary. Ugh!

  • @brusselsprout5851
    @brusselsprout5851 Před měsícem +11

    Detaching from "things," especially the "things" that have meaning to one's heart...once started I began feeling relief. The "things" are yesterday, and yesterday is gone.
    The honest video about your life is golden.

  • @kylieanderson3916
    @kylieanderson3916 Před 11 dny +1

    Hi Lindy, watching you from Australia. I have a van but do alot of housesitting. You are amazing lady. God bless you, may the Lord always protect you 🙏

  • @62WILDCAT
    @62WILDCAT Před měsícem +12

    Thankyou Lindy for all you share. I missed my window of opportunity to get into vanlife before having health issues pop up that I now must take care of .
    I too have learned along this journey in life !! My budget has made it necessary for me to rent a room & share living space. Definitely not ideal .
    Now living my 81st year after several injuries adversely affecting my physical strength & mobility is my biggest challenge along with $ money issues. I definitely encourage anyone to pay attention to your heart's desires & go for them as much as possible as early as possible❤
    Blessings to you Dear Lindy on your continuing Journey thru Life🤗❣️

  • @sponzie1
    @sponzie1 Před měsícem +2

    You motivate me,at 61 my friends are sitting at home watching TV,I can't,not yet. Safe Adventures girl❤

  • @BennyC-qg6rd
    @BennyC-qg6rd Před měsícem +5

    It's all about doing the best you can with what you got, Lindy.

  • @maumau1958
    @maumau1958 Před měsícem +13

    Thank you for your insight. Go with God ✝️

  • @lorishoemaker3906
    @lorishoemaker3906 Před měsícem +5

    Iam very proud of you. You have made the best of your situation. I always look forward to your videos. You offer a lot of wisdom😊

  • @hmbl-cb1be
    @hmbl-cb1be Před měsícem +7

    Lindy I love watching you more and more each time! Cynthia.
    I live in a studio with my daughter, I am 64. 😊

    • @pinkiesue849
      @pinkiesue849 Před měsícem

      That has got to be close quarters. All the best to you

  • @3generations393
    @3generations393 Před měsícem +7

    Great video Lindy. Life is what you make it, you can see the glass as half full or half empty,we can choose to say we were forced into van live or choose to see it as one more chance at freedom & better health 🙌❌⭕❣️

  • @Suki272
    @Suki272 Před měsícem +10

    I love that you include God in your messages. May you be the one to plant the seed as God's vessel to save souls. You're beautiful and it's nice to see you have so many subscribers.

  • @Aspen_stitcher
    @Aspen_stitcher Před měsícem +2

    Great life lessons! Thank you!

  • @2eyesopen244
    @2eyesopen244 Před 25 dny +1

    Hi Lindy, I really appreciate your straight up honesty. I'm 61yrs . I bought a coaster bus as I was homeless in Western Australia. So many people have no home. I am very grateful for mine. Having somewhere to call home is so important for our well being.

  • @libbygardner3021
    @libbygardner3021 Před měsícem +6

    I concur with much of what you are saying! I’m coming up on one year full time, and absolutely love living in my van. I think I travel more than you-I’ve been mostly in CA, but back in the East Bay every 2-4 weeks, and I mostly boondock. Because my chronic illness makes me very temperature sensitive, I travel with the weather-I’ve been avoiding the worst of the heatwave by staying on NFS land in the sierras. Sure, it’s uncomfortable and stressful at times, money and adequate water are chronic concerns, but I’ve no desire to return to stix and brix. I’ve already met and dealt with one of my greatest concerns-breaking in down in the middle of nowhere-but new friends and the kindness of others made the difference, and now I have a “new” (older!) van with more space. Be well!

  • @sjordan7085
    @sjordan7085 Před 16 dny +1

    Lindy, I am so impressed by you. There are so many people who claim they cannot afford, or do not have the space to be a Prepper, you have proven, there are no excuses, yet many choose to remain delusional.
    "Everybody's in your business," you made me laugh, I used to live in a small Victorian Town, in a Conservation Area in the UK. The gossiping that went on was unbelievable, so much so, my hairdresser said, "You can start at one end of town with just one feather, but by the time you've walked to the other end of town, you've got the whole bird! lol

  • @WaywardAbode
    @WaywardAbode Před 27 dny +1

    You hit so many nails on the head. And i still have so much to learn. ❤

  • @rogettesteele5322
    @rogettesteele5322 Před měsícem +2

    I admire your honesty and frankness. You are telling it like it is. Your wisdom is wonderful. You are an amazing woman.

  • @colleenbrown230
    @colleenbrown230 Před měsícem +5

    I think you are an amazing woman and very wise . I hope everybody is listening to experiences and learning from you. I wish you so much joy in your life and less hardship on all your journeys. Take care, and God bless you ❤

  • @user-ez5es8sf6g
    @user-ez5es8sf6g Před měsícem +2

    Lindy for President. 😊

  • @deborahkimball-billups6405
    @deborahkimball-billups6405 Před měsícem +6

    Thank you for sharing 😊 ☺ ❤ 🙏 💕 ♥

  • @Lisa-kz7vw
    @Lisa-kz7vw Před měsícem +7

    You're so right I knew a lady who was living in a retirement place that cost her $3500 a month most people living on savings or social security can't afford that most of these companies and jobs didn't have 401K or 403B plans so people depend on ssi sadly vanlife looks hard to me I admire you guy's youre tough and people have tried to make vanlife look glamorous so many channels on CZcams and I'm not sure I believe most are real enjoy turning 77 you are a tough cookie Lindy😊

  • @caroltardif5999
    @caroltardif5999 Před měsícem +6

    Enjoy watching your videos👏👏👏

  • @ukulelebutterfly
    @ukulelebutterfly Před měsícem +7

    Let It Go!!!!!
    They're Just Things!!!
    I had a little forced practice. I'm glad I did.
    I no longer desire things, especially expensive things.
    "The more you own, the more it owns you!" Amie G.
    ~ Mary 🦋

  • @kimberlysanders1826
    @kimberlysanders1826 Před měsícem +1

    Awwww God bless u. Do what makes u Happy Aunty vanlifer. May God Continue to bless u and your Safety. Big hugs Ms. Kim

  • @miriam2909
    @miriam2909 Před měsícem +1

    You just popped up in my feed. Your words are so real and refreshing. Thank you

  • @user-pr8yu7zx7i
    @user-pr8yu7zx7i Před měsícem +6

    I always enjoy your videos Ms Lindy. I appreciate your frugal advice. Thanks for what you do. You inspire me. Camping Granny7

  • @Bernimv
    @Bernimv Před měsícem +1

    🎉❤yes, si right on definitivamente correct. 4 me 4yrs and it's my freedom... gracias 🥰

  • @user-mi2xb1rd5o
    @user-mi2xb1rd5o Před měsícem +3

    Happy birthday to you sweet lady

  • @jillmartin5734
    @jillmartin5734 Před měsícem +3

    How about a tiny house village, community and shared kitchen and showers, cute little homes

  • @bambihargrove6499
    @bambihargrove6499 Před měsícem +1

    ❤😊Great Advice Lindy 👍 God Bless you ❤🙏

  • @raveninavaniam9438
    @raveninavaniam9438 Před měsícem +1

    ❤❤❤ 👍
    Love you Lindy 🍀🌻🌸

  • @sued1116
    @sued1116 Před měsícem +8

    I appreciate the honesty. I have a hard time believing all these people think it's wonderful. There is a difference between making the best of it and it being preferred over a house or an apartment. I think a few people really enjoy it but to most it's an end to a means if for no other reason than the bathroom situation. God Bless you Lindy, please get to a cooler place😊💕🙏

    • @libbygardner3021
      @libbygardner3021 Před měsícem +2

      I’ve been full time for a year now, and love it! I’m 70, disabled, below the poverty line, and couldn’t stay in my apt., but would far rather live mostly outside than in stix and brix. However, I stay out of cities except to see my kids and resupply, and travel with the weather. Can’t hike much, but it’s my best life. Gonna do van life till I’m too decrepit to drive.

    • @sued1116
      @sued1116 Před měsícem

      @@libbygardner3021 Well good for you, I'm glad you truly enjoy it. I know some of you do really love it and that's all that matters. God Bless you 💕🙏

  • @silka9187
    @silka9187 Před měsícem +2

    Wow Lindy, you are wise beyond your years. Thank you.

  • @jeannemarie3704
    @jeannemarie3704 Před 27 dny +1

    So wise. This is excellent.

  • @blnmadisonbm
    @blnmadisonbm Před 27 dny +1

    I just found out about you watching another lady who interviewed you a year or so ago.
    So I SUBSCRIBED because it helps you get MONITIZED.
    While I probably won't watch but so much, I pray that you'll be well as your close to my BEAUTIFUL LATE MOTHERS age who if she was still alive would be in her late 70's.
    My mom's been gone almost 5 years now.
    I wish you well!

  • @theunspeakable24
    @theunspeakable24 Před měsícem +6

    Thanks for this video. I am still struggling to stay out of my car. I have a difficult time in a tiny apt. LOL. Life is not easy . I know I could do a mobile life if I had to but it would be really difficult for my temperament. I appreciate all of your perspectives on vanlife.

  • @getlostmike
    @getlostmike Před měsícem +4

    💯 correct. You also have learned to adapt to technology. You are rocking CZcams.

  • @Cassieboce
    @Cassieboce Před měsícem +1

    Lindy I think you are a amazing awesome women and .enjoy your videos

  • @HOPEbus
    @HOPEbus Před 5 dny +1

    I just love ya woman , u are an inspiration sharing ur journey and who u are 💗🙏🏾💫
    I am so happy to hear u are not on any meds and embracing this life adventure 🙏🏽🤗

  • @PeachyKeen84
    @PeachyKeen84 Před 21 dnem +1

    All of what you mentioned is totally correct. Discovered the same things. Knowing what I personally am capable of doing now. Physical limitations and living within that. Not a limitation but self respect!!❤

  • @susanevans4428
    @susanevans4428 Před měsícem +5

    Good job, Lindey. Love watching you.

  • @joanswafford8696
    @joanswafford8696 Před měsícem +1

    Love this lady

  • @timewilltell5476
    @timewilltell5476 Před měsícem +3

    You are such a wise, caring and practical lady who shares nuggets of raw truth! Such a rare, honest, tell-it- like it is person with a heart of gold, coupled with a "don't you dare mess with me" (when needed) attitude. What a delight! Hope to meet you one day at a convention or the like. Your no nonsense videos are so appreciated and enjoyed! Be good, be safe!

  • @amyschaefer1140
    @amyschaefer1140 Před měsícem +3

    I enjoy your videos, because you show the realities of van life. ❤️

  • @marthabradas8873
    @marthabradas8873 Před měsícem +3

    I enjoy hearing your thoughts and reflections on van life. I think it's good to realize that you care so much about your antiques. I bet they are so pretty. Have you taken photos of all of them? I read somewhere that if you take a photo of your treasures, that it is nice to look at them when you no longer have them. I had to sell some things at one point in my life, and I actually ended up buying some of them back later ( found them in a local antique store :) . But now I have downsized and don't have most of those things. It's all good though. You are always such a practical person Lindy. You are very refreshing and smart. 🥰

  • @glennd9527
    @glennd9527 Před měsícem +1

    Great one Lindy. It is very hard to get rid of and give away cherished items because they are a part of you and your past. The same goes for gifts received thru the decades and remembering those who game them. Keep up the good work.

  • @freedomdove
    @freedomdove Před měsícem +1

    I'm glad to hear your health has improved since moving into the van. That's not surprising at all. 👍💯

  • @georginelawson6905
    @georginelawson6905 Před měsícem +5

    Hi Lindy I'm 80 and drove my suv packed with a lot of stuff from Washington to Michigan made stops along the way to visit friends and family was gone 7wks a year ago. This year I plan on driving to New Mexico and this time want to set up a bed for sleeping instead of a hotel. Shower in a truck stop. Buy food at deli counter. Wish me luck.

  • @sandeedobberstine5591
    @sandeedobberstine5591 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you Lindy for all the great advice ❤ wishing you much happiness 🌈🙏🧡

  • @SusanaLie
    @SusanaLie Před měsícem +2

    I wish I live near you, when I cook I will share it with you. ❤take care and GBU.

  • @stormdavies250
    @stormdavies250 Před měsícem +2

    I love and appreciate your honesty and you also make me laugh, usually because of your honesty. 😆

  • @GEAUXFRUGAL
    @GEAUXFRUGAL Před měsícem +3

    I've been drawing closer to God it's the only constant I can count on . Not correcting things that are all wrong but it be his will it can't be argued. Roll with it find the good no matter what. I've seen the mighty change.

  • @donnarasp3738
    @donnarasp3738 Před měsícem +1

    I remember watching my grandma after years of taking care of her 6 kids. Then being up some of the grandkids. Then not having enough for rent and food. We need to have some help for women who stay at home and get no retirement money.

  • @orbyjett2864
    @orbyjett2864 Před měsícem +1

    Have things in storage too and will be on road soon. Can't get rid of some things just yet, sentimental. Would like to have a home base some day so can set up livingroom to grab blanket in winter, relax and watch tv. Temperature is one thing not looking forward to, but rest can be exciting.

  • @lind5180
    @lind5180 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you

  • @carmenwalsh8114
    @carmenwalsh8114 Před měsícem +1

    I admire you ❤

  • @kendrasmith6637
    @kendrasmith6637 Před měsícem +1

    Thanks Lindy. Nice to hear honesty from you. 😊 I am glad you like van life. I think i might like it too. But would do lots of research on it first. Enjoy your van life with your Marley. Be safe. I do enjoy your channel. Thx .

  • @Lokelani50
    @Lokelani50 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you. I may have to do this in the next 2 years. I’m both excited and scared. I do know I’m strong!!

  • @SugarBear-xq3xc
    @SugarBear-xq3xc Před měsícem +1

    Living in a vehicle big enough for a bed and your clothes is not homeless. That is your home and in many ways it is way better than renting an apartment. Being locked down to a lease and single location even if your neighbors are awful is worse than living in your vehicle in many cases and it’s cheaper living in your home on wheels as well.

  • @vetburnerchick
    @vetburnerchick Před měsícem +3

    I love what you said, your final adventure! I’m so glad we met. I enjoy your videos.

  • @sharonwensel3140
    @sharonwensel3140 Před měsícem +2

    One of your best videos yet!

  • @Michelle-bw1xg
    @Michelle-bw1xg Před měsícem +4

    Lindy thank you for sharing. I appreciate every reality video and info on van living. I have a bit of time to get ready. I'm literally "training" now to experience some discomforts at home (cold, hot, less showers, minimal needs). Trying (!) to sell my nicer furnishings and things as I emotionally prepare for a big downsize. Chose to get a used minivan with current expenses (fits in the garage), not going into debt to get a larger van before exploring the lifestyle first in a more affordable way. I have loads to learn from many like you.

  • @insearchofEldorado
    @insearchofEldorado Před měsícem +3

    Great video, Lindy ..

  • @MelissaJohnson23408
    @MelissaJohnson23408 Před měsícem +10

    I bought a truck last year and I've been living in it for 8 months in a driveway who's house is full of people. I couldn't afford the rent increases with the utilities and have insurance for my vehicle. I'm on SSI. I'm paying 250 rent plus utilities. I pay more than each one of them are. There's 4 people living there and only one has a job. I would rather be camping and doing my own thing. I think that 250$ a month is too much for a driveway. I'm stuck in a bind right now I had to get a payee and they just can't get along with me. So I told her just KEEP HER MONEY.
    She's dreaming when she says get a real car and a house to live in.. she a veteran and she's not very educated. So until I obey her orders I'm not allowed to have anything I want or need for my truck. I've reported her to social security. She's making up lies now about being my payee. She's spent over 500$ of my back pay and bought me a 109$ junky battery .. I've never spent over my check. I'm hoping I can find a way to hold her liable for taking my money. I'm speaking directly to the person handling my case at social security. The thing is getting a hold of him.
    But I have and I told him she's neglectful and abusive. And she's threatening me always about social security and handing everything I have over to them. So I've reached out to social security and asked for a change in payees. Now I need social security even more because they said I can and she lied and said I couldn't. She's telling me and my daughter we stink. 😅😢😅😅 I know I don't stink. It's just her new car and condo smell she's so used to. I should really notify the police if social security doesn't step in. I think she was putting my money directly into her bank account and lying to me. Social security said she just had direct deposit for June. She's been my payee since March.!! Did she use my back pay in her account also. ?? 😮 😢
    She's really got me on the edge of my seat. And she's holding back from me until she gets the health department and police over here. She said she could do that. I was wanting to visit some campgrounds and explore some. Now I'm her prisoner with no friends here. Just a niece who's on her side .
    Nobody likes me.

    • @Hatbox948
      @Hatbox948 Před měsícem +4

      Why do you need a payee? Your situation sounds bad. Why can't your daughter be your payee? Why pay $250 to park in a driveway? Lots of states have reduced campsite rates for elderly. A campsite with water and electricity would be better than a driveway. There are showers and bathrooms. You need to control your own money. Get yourself out of the mess you're in.

    • @MelissaJohnson23408
      @MelissaJohnson23408 Před měsícem +2

      My reply got lost. I sent a long reply explaining my life and it's gone. Sorry 😮

    • @Hatbox948
      @Hatbox948 Před měsícem +3

      @@MelissaJohnson23408 If you're getting SSI weren't you supposed to get extra money recently? If your "payee" is siphoning your money go make a police report or report it to your district attorney. That's stealing. Also report it to social security.

    • @MelissaJohnson23408
      @MelissaJohnson23408 Před měsícem +1

      @@Hatbox948 I've been reaching out to social security. That's a start. There's a representative there handling my case and that's who I report to. I just told him that she's a abusive and I have a physical and mentally challenged daughter to care for. My sister is being abusive to both of us. You asked about my daughter. She was born with epilepsy. I'm living in my nieces driveway. She's a drug addict. She's a very hard person to get along with. She's living here free because her landlord is letting her in exchange for repairing and fixing a dilapidated house. He gives her money and food. But I've been told to leave several times.
      Because they all say we stink and she's saying the real landlord doesn't want me here. But I'm paying her rent. Plus my sister is probably giving her money on the side.

    • @krisb7465
      @krisb7465 Před měsícem +3

      Also contact Aging and Adult services. That is elder financial abuse.

  • @familylifetoo9541
    @familylifetoo9541 Před měsícem +4

    I think you could run for a council in government also because you are very smart and you know what needs to be done

  • @katykwan3748
    @katykwan3748 Před měsícem +1

    Thanks!