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Inside my new home and mind....Empty House Tour and Vulnerable Life Update
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- čas přidán 6. 04. 2024
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Mel, I started watching you just after Jonah was born. You have made so many changes! I am a person with adhd and other mental health issues, please remember one thing- you are a person too. You are not just a wife, mother, employee, friend, career, school mum, your children's mum. You are Mel. You have a name and had a life and were an entity before all this. Find who she was before this life. You are not a failure. You are human. We make mistakes, but how will we learn if we don't? Look at how you have made the changes to your life. You did all that with 4 children, 1 income, mental health issues, studying, CZcams, and now working full time AND doing videos. My God, Mel, you are a bloody powerhouse. It's not your job to put yourself last. It's your job to ensure you are taken care of so you can take care of your family, life work, etc. 💜🧡🩷
I hope you see this and it brings some... relief or knowledge that you are not alone and you matter to others more than you can possibly know.
This made me cry with gratitude. Thank-you… I do need to find me. X.
Very well said….❤
@@MySemiSortedLife You are an amazing person and we are all proud of you with your resilience. As my psychologist said to me, take one day at a time.
I agree with you 100 percent. Mel is a freaking rock star and definitely not alone. ❤
Do not feel bad about being in a rental. Owning a home can be overwhelming and stressful. We’ve had a couple years of everything that could go wrong in a home has gone wrong. Big ticket repairs and mandatory replacements have put us in deep debt. We are in such a vulnerable financial situation that we fear anything else will devastate us. There was many many days I wish I could have made a phone call to a landlord and make it their problem. The only things that matter is that you are all together and healthy. Good luck to you
We’re in the same situation now, our water tanks are cracked, the fence is falling down, so many things wrong with our house at the moment.
Homeownership is financially stressful. Recognizing that the full cost of repairs & replacements fall on us, my hubby and I have set up so MANY sinking funds to cover those costs that will eventually come (cost to replace appliances, fence repairs, gutter repairs, roof replacement, etc., etc., ECT...😮). We are extremely grateful to be homeowners as we see the cost of renting going up and up, but sometimes it does seem that we are working just to fund our house.
@@YunuPolsen. We had money ready for a new fence and a couple of other bits but then hubby’s contract wasn’t renewed back in late November, he still hasn’t got a job, plenty of ongoing interviews (one since December which is still going) but no job as yet. I’m pretty much housebound from chronic illnesses but not disabled enough for Centrelink, they class me as an invalid, so yeah it’s been a crap 6 months. Hubby is leaving to do tractor work on a farm up in Mackay in a few weeks just so there’s some money coming in. Don’t know why I wrote an entire novel, sorry about that. 😅
Looks like a beautiful space with good organizational storage. Easy to clean! Congratulations Bloom where you are planted!💖💖💖
Girl, we all have struggles! I like your car analogy, but allow me to make a couple additions, and advice, if I may. We all know cars need fuel to run, and the more efficient the fuel the better it runs. I'm not going to tell you how to eat, but I would strongly suggest reducing the processed foods because they mess up your gut microbiome, which is where depression starts and travels to your mind via the vagus nerve. Fix the gut, fix the thoughts. Ok, next up is the oils and transmission fluid needed to run the car, aka vitamins and minerals. Try this and see if you don't feel better in just 2 weeks... 1. Vitamin B Complex that says either Methylated or Bioactive, take daily, 2. Vitamin D3 + K2, and take 20,000 IUs (500 mcg) daily, 3. Omega 3's, and maybe the most important part... 4. a GOOD pre/probiotic. Go to your local pharmacy or druggist or whatever its called there and ask for the kind that is refrigerated behind the counter. Get the kind with the highest CFU's. In the US we have a kind called VSL#3 that is over the counter but pharmaceutical grade, but ask the pharmacist for advice on a brand. I bet you see a difference starting in 2-3 days and feel like a whole new person within 3 weeks. And once you see the difference these make, consider adding in a Magnesium supplement too, preferably Magnesium Glycinate which helps with sleep, anxiety and inflammation. Seriously, try the supplements without changing anything else... don't worry about your diet or sleep schedule or any of the things "they" tell you to do for self care. I really think you will see an improvement, and once your chemistry and microbiome start getting back in order you'll notice other things like cravings going away, sleep getting better, hormones balancing out, etc. I not only got my mood under control, I also reversed my autoimmune condition!
Hi Mel, finally a new house!🤩 Congratulations - it looks visually bigger (and nicer) than your old house!😍 Anyway, many God's blessings in the new house!!!🤗 S.
I loved the car analogy.
I'm glad you have reached out & are getting the help you feel you need. The short notice you were under to move & not knowing definitely where you would move would have broken anyone emotionally. You DID it though! And look at the beautiful home you have now. I don't like change & the immediate life change you had to make would have been too much for me. Keep your chin up, Mel. Big hugs to you.
Perfectly said!! ❤
I became a SAHM and paid for it financially. My kids are now young successful adults so I now know that I did the right thing. Give yourself grace. You did the right thing at the right time, and now you made the right decision to go back out to work.
Listening to you was like revisiting myself back then. Especially the crying. The light on the other side will shine on you as always xx
Hugs, Mel ❤ You aren’t disappointing me. I’m proud of you. Surviving a stressful chapter wherein you’ve held on for dear life through the ups and down is an absolute accomplishment! So so proud you! Sending a bundle of hugs your way. See you soon.
I cried through this video as it mirrored my life four years ago in many ways. I had hit rock bottom & couldn't see a way. Fortunately, finally, I was thrown a lifetime & I grabbed onto it with both hands. My life is better, but still has its challenging moments as life tends to do. I've learned that I have to take care of myself before I can take care of others or other aspects of life. You've got this, Mel! You are stronger than you think, but you need to prioritize self-care. Love the car analogue. Just had my older car in for service & compared the need for a tune-up to myself & my life. Praying for you.❤
Mel Mel Mel so good to see you today. I know you are so hard on yourself I hope you know you are only human. You take all the time you need to heal. You were mentioning a car going down the road we your friends are in the buses following you to give you support each day . Do you keep on that path and we are there to help or give you the strength you need. The house looks like it will do great for your family look forward to when you feel like visiting us again.
New rental is beautiful.❤ You take as long as you need you dont have to be sorry. Your not letting us down. Its your life and we want you feeling better. You gotta take care of you.😊
❤❤❤ Baby steps are often underrated. I've been watching your journey for years. The ups and downs are what make you human. You are so brave for sharing everything with us. Thank you! And never forget , you matter!! ❤❤❤
The new house looks lovely. I too adore those blue tiles... so pretty. No wonder you were willing to take that house despite it apparently being a little smaller. Looks like plenty of storage options though. I'd be tempted to use that walk in robe as my office - it is so huge!!!
Thanks for sharing it with us... (I have been so looking forward to getting to see it). And can't wait for your first cleaning video, where we can see how you have set all your things up in those new spaces. :)
Much love, eat a big juicy, fatty steak... 😁
Your analogy of the car is so helpful!!! I’m coming out of a bad place myself and this will help going forward… thank you ☺️
Mel, moving house is a major life change! It is so hard to make lots of changes. I have struggled with my mental health since turning 30 and i will be 50 this year. I highly recommend some medication and supplements. I cant function without them. I am a different person and It has worked wonders
It was great to have a tour. Excited for the next chapter and will be watching along. Take care of yourself. So much of what you said resonated. I really struggle with shame too.
Glad you are back. Grace is powerful and you need to give yourself grace. Staying home with your kids is a gift and there is no shame in making that choice.
Glad to see you again sorry you have been struggling . No matter if you rent or own a home your keeping a roof over your children's head . You are helping so many people by being real never think your not , xx
If you're looking for one person you helped today (not for the first time 💖) 👋 Thank you! 🌻
Hi. We’re here for you. You are very Blessed.
Mel, it's really good to see you. Welcome back! I just want to tell you I understand all too well about what your going through. I deal with depression and anxiety. Give yourself some grace. I went through the same thing you're going through last year with the moving thing. (Except out landlord was raising our rent to high that we couldn't pay it) It took time, but we finally found a place. We were scared and didn't know what was going to happen. We kept searching and praying. Things worked out for our good. All I can is God took good care of us.
Mel, your mental health is so important. Do whatever it takes to get yourself in a better state of mind. I am happy that you and your family have a nice home to live in. God bless you and your family. 🌿🪻🌸🪻🌸🪻🌿
Mel! We rented until we were 35 & hubby was 36! No shame. All of our family siblings etc all bought a house when they were like 25. House prices are crazy now they were not back then but still we could not afford one.
Hubby was in the service for 6 years so when he got out it was like starting all over again a with a 2 year old to boot!
Yes depression is hard to understand unless it happens to you! I heard a therapist on instagram describe it as having a blanket covering you and you could not get it off aka unable to make yourself to get off the couch even know you should.
Many times my sister would call me or text me and say just go outside and get some sunshine and sit in your swing or take a shower but I couldn’t,
I didn’t do it!!! My husband would say every day before he went to work just go take a shower and you feel better You know what you need to do but then you don’t have the ability to do it. I understand!
Hugs to you ! xoxoxoxo
Lovely to see you again Mel. Your new home looks great. Hope you will all be very happy there ❤. Hopefully you get really well and stay healthy. Keep smiling sunshine ☀️ x
Mel, I think once you get the new house together you will be feeling so much better. It is beautiful. It’s ok to still be renting.
Mel, I was just starting to sort out my trauma issues when I found you. You have given so much encouragement and ideas over the years on how to navigate when I havent had anyone in my offline life that can do that. You are definitely helping people by sharing. Huge hugs and a big thank you.
Hi I understand we’re you are but I want you to know you are worthy, valued and glad you can give yourself grace 😊
Oh Mel it's so good to see you. Take of yourself! sending big big hugs
I can fully understand you and I have the same problem with depression and have suffered for 3 decades and still suffering. I am sending you a massive virtual hug and shoulder to cry on or share anything you want without any judgement💜
Mel, you are doing a great job. Psychologically moving house is equivalent to a death in the family... I learnt that in my first year studying to be a psychologist in Uni. It is in the top most stressful events. I changed degrees when I discovered you can't be brutally honest with clients but you have to let them discover things on their own!
I think in time being a creator on youtube will be in the top most stressful job.
You feel compelled to constantly create content which is not good for your mental health.
I often have anxiety just having to read my emails and often miss important email... modern lifestyle is angst ridden.
You keep going Girl... you've got this..
😂 sometimes I think we’re all too sheltered and need to hear some hard truths - having said that - there’s some “hard truths” and the abuse I’ve been giving myself. I’ve def been in the position of feeling the YT pressure - which is why I am glad to have my main job. YT is a bonus and I’d like to keep it that way. Thank you for your support. X
Hi Mel! It's so good to see you back. You have let no one down. Moving can get the best of us. I'm loving the new house layout. I cannot wait to see what you do with it. You take care of yourself 1st!! Sending positive energy, prayers and much love to you and your family. 🙏 ❤❤
So glad to see you back, sorry you been in a dark place we have missed you here and i know im not just talking for my self.cant wait have a house tour now your more moved in keep ya chin up you are enough and your doing great.
Im sorry you're going through it. I love your new home. It's very nice. Maybe now, without the stress of where you're going to move, you can concentrate on yourself a little. Always remember, there's NO hole too deep for God to reach us. ❤🙏
The house is very pretty and everything is brand new!
Sunshine is certainly key!!! Ask me how I know!
Love the blue tile he chose for the bathrooms!
Hello Mel so good seeing you again! Congratulations, the new house is so nice and even if the whole situation was so stressful and sadly triggered all the negativity that you felt, it is also a chance to start something new. Take care of yourself, breathe and take a day just for yourself. Greetings from Munich.
Welcome back Mel 💜 house looks great but I’m so sorry and sad to hear you’ve been battling mental health issues. Sending you hugs 🤗
Can’t be an easy thing to bare your soul like this. You’re stronger than you think. Hope this dark chapter stays behind you and that you and your family have many happy years in your beautiful new home. Hugs XXXOOO
What a great space! Sometimes these hurdles come up, you are doing great! You got this ❤
Hugs. ❤❤ that is all.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ hang in there Mel
Good to see you Mel ❤
Beautiful home! Congrats!
Here watching 😊
Love watching you again. We still don't have a new lease but did have an inspection, rental. Just waiting to hear back as that was February and now it's April 😮😅😊
Hi I suffer with anxiety and depression and I write down everyday on how I am feeling in book and by the end of the week try to resolve how I change things on a daily scale 😊
Girl your not letting anybody down! You are going through a lot and your coming through it with dignity and grace. We are here and will continue to be. I have been around awhile and you have come so far. You really have…you got this
I so agree with you! ❤
Been there....hugs. I don't think anyone who hasn't lived it can really conceive the reality of this state of being. I think of it a little like the ocean. It comes and goes like waves, sometimes crashing into you, sometimes gently lapping. It ebbs and flows like the tides in our life and it's storms are terrifying in the intensity and relentlessness. But there are also times when it's beauty pierces the soul. You'll get through it, I have faith in you 🫂🫶
Super relatable chick x hugs. Enjoy the rest - have a picnic! Enjoy the countryside :)
Moving sucks. It does mess with your head. But yay a nice new place. With drawers that aren’t falling apart!!!!
Mel I have definitely been there. Be kind to yourself. What helps me is looking at what I have to be thankful for. I do little bits at a time so I don’t become overwhelmed. I have learned not to allow other people to demand things from me that I don’t want to do. Take care of yourself. We are here for you
Good to see you Mel! The new house looks very nice...I'm so glad to know that you are all getting settled in to your new home. Sorry to hear how much you have been struggling. Prayers for strength and peace. 🙏❤
Awww Mel, there is always opportunity cost. Being home with the kids is a huge opportunity that you don't get later. Owning a house, if you want, totally doable later..... as another possible mindshift, many people that take early retirement find that if they had bought a house there was no way they could have retired. Not sure how eclipses really work, but if you guys have an eclipse happening tomorrow like we do, they make great times to let go of some of the yucky stuff from the past. Maybe some visualizations or guided meditation for letting go can help reduce the emotional trauma even though you will always have the memories. Big Hugs!
So happy for you guys.😮😮😮
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That's something that I am grateful for in getting older, is that I've gone to those places enough times to know that it always gets better. I am never to act on how I am feeling in the moment, because I will not feel that way forever. It always passes, it will always pass. It doesn't mean it's easy, but it gives me comfort. You have so much on your plate! I assume you are in therapy. I have not been a very good subscriber, as life gets in the way sometimes. Sending you love
Hope you are doing well and enjoying your new home!
WOOH! Welcome back Mel🎉🎉🎉 xxx
Thanks so much x
I'm so glad you shared what you've been going through. I've been through the same thing! I'm going to start watching the sunrise and sunset, & see if it helps. I hope it's helping you. 🙏❤
It’s a nice place with lots of storage. I hope you and your family have many happy memories in the new home.
Hi Mel! So good to see you! Moving is hugely stressful and having it trigger past trauma makes it that much more challenging. Great analogy that we are like cars...take the time to get yourself good service and moving forward. The house is beautiful with lots of closet/cabinet storage. Hugest hugs!
You are so encouraging to others please remember that, everyone needs help also to help ourselves too ❤😊
Mel, we all make decisions that were made for the best reason at the time, with all best intentions. Sometimes the decision is the right one. Sometimes it’s not. All we can do is learn from it. That’s why I keep telling my children that life is one huge lesson, we are here to learn, therefore it’s okay to make mistakes or to make decisions that others don’t agree with. Be kind to yourself, be gentle to yourself, most importantly forgive yourself. I don’t see the shame in renting, everyone of us has different reasons. Sometimes I think it would be easier if we had rented, we can just give notice and move elsewhere without the faffing about with putting our house up for sale and such.
Hey Mel. How exciting! I know you were sad to move but think if it as a fresh start! You got this 👍💜👍💜👍
Thoughts and prayers for you. Remember, we in Texas love you,
Lovely house Mel, new beginnings, new memories!
That is a perfect analogy Mel. It can be a hard bumpy road but there's always going to be bumps here and there. Slow down and take your time sweetheart because you'll find smoother roads ahead. ❤
Hi Mel! You always make my day when I see you. What a beautiful home you have for you and your family. When moving especially when you have anxiety and depression can be so stressful but again you have done it, what a very special lady you are definitely not a disappointment and on top of everything else you have raised 4 children one of the hardest thing to do when suffering Mental Health but you did it. Love always beautiful lady and all the best❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Nice to see you back. Your new home is beautiful.
I hope you are going to be very happy in your beautiful new home! I hope you’re settling in and making it feel like home!
It is so good to see you. I have look for you and been Praying for you. Remember you are Loved!
Beautiful place!
Is not easy to keep on top of house work with many family members in a house.
You have to work and study.
Ya list out the tasks to complete for the day.
But not to list too many.
If unable to complete you may get depressed.
Get your children to help out.
Put dirty dishes into the sink not to leave on dinning table.
Older children help to load and unload dishwasher.
Older children put their own load laundry to wash.
Put away their own clothes after washed in their own bedrooms.
Dirty laundry not to put on the floor.
❤ Good video.
The house is lovely. If home ownership is what you want, you still have many years to make it happen. I know a couple who retired and used their super to buy a house, after having rented their whole lives.
This is our plan. Right now we travel, do experiences and pay for our kids schooling, so for us if we owned right now we would just be working to pay a house that we would never leave and we would have to take our kids out of their school. Having previously owned a house I understand just how much extra $$$$ it takes. It would destroy us with todays current costs. There’s nothing wrong with owning a home, I just don’t want to put myself in a position where we would struggle so much. Mel has time and I’m sure she will make her dream come true ❤
Thank you for sharing your video. Sorry to hear you have been struggling with your mental health. Finding a home and moving is so stressful and brings up so many feelings from the past. You need time to process everything. Take it at your own pace ❤
The new home seems nice. Glad you are feeling well enough to give an update. ❤
I was following your move really closely cause there is a huge possibility that we will have to move too after 12 years of living in here with my five children and I am terrified, but am happy to know that even though it was hard you are getting on to the other side… means a lot to me for sharing your journey😘😘😘 BIG HUG!
Hugs Mel ❤️ You are an inspiration and so relatable. So happy to see you back x
sooo good to see you Sweetie, now that you have moved in, I hope everything will begin to go back to normal for you and all the negative thoughts and anxiety will slowly drain away. Are you practicing gratitude??? I found that writing things I was thankful for helped me. It is amazing how much we have to be grateful for, that we take for granted every day, and you were really lucky, especially scoring your new home. Seeing you like that made me tear up and want to cry. I hope you continue to try and fit CZcams in occasionally, I always look forward to seeing your lovely face, see, something to be thankful for! 😘
Thank-you sooo much. I def need YT for my sanity to be honest. It brings me such joy. Especially when I read comments like yours. I will practice more gratitude for sure!!
Mel it's so nice looking. Congratulations! Definitely more modern. I hope you all are doing well and settling in good.
Great to see you Mel ❤ Your new home is looking good 🎉 look after yourself xxx Margaret in Cyprus
Hi Mel❤️
So happy for you and your familly to finally be in a new place; looks so good👏
Thank you so much!!
Welcome back 🤗It is lovely to see you. Thank you for sharing. 💙
Hey Mel 👋🏻 I can see and hear just how much that took for you to do, I appreciate you so much 🙌🏻
Take good care and looking forward to seeing more when you are ready ❤️❤️
So lovely to see you Mel ❤ your new home looks beautiful.
You have had a tough few months take your time at the truck stop and don't rush things. We will be here whenever you are ready ❤❤
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Mel I missed you!! It’s so nice to see you again. I wanted to thank you for that car analogy. It makes so much sense, and as someone who also suffers greatly with depression it resonated with me so much. Unfortunately I don’t have an understanding boss.. and work is the most stressful thing to do when I am struggling the most. I wish more people understood how it feels. I’m so sorry you have been struggling my dear friend and I hope that you emerge from the “service station” and take some “scenic routes” along the way ❤ you and your channel mean a lot to me, Mel, and I really appreciate you. Thank you for this video. I was feeling low and this motivated me to go and paint my nails, and now every time I look at them, I’ll think of you and this video and how it made me feel understood. Thank you again. It means more than you know ❤
🇹🇹🇹🇹 congratulations
Great to see you Mel, thanks for sharing your journey ❤️❤️
Thank you! 🤗
Hi Mel so happy to see you after a very long time I’m glad ur sharing ur thoughts with us I’m always here for u Mel take care love from uk❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤
Mel, Welcome Back! I've missed you. I love the new house and the blue tile is so pretty. I have blue accents, blue couch and recliner in my apartment so I just love the tile. My depression and anxiety has been triggered lately when my health problems become an issue. I've been isolating myself too much and I know that is not good. Then I feel guilt about it and as you mentioned in so many words that we are hardest on ourselves. It is just so good to have you back because you are someone that understands what I'm going through. I hope you realize how much your speaking about depression and anxiety has touched me so much and I'm sure the same is for many others who watch your channel. I truly empathize with you and you have my support and prayers. Mel, you've been through so much and it may be hard but you'll get through this too. I'm sorry my comments are always so long. Take care! Love ya! 💙💙💙
I sooo appreciate the time and effort you put into your heartfelt comments. I’m so truly grateful for your understanding and support. X
@@MySemiSortedLife Same here! I think weekly videos is a great idea and should help lessen some pressures.
Love the house Mel! ❤❤❤ lots of love ❤❤❤
Welcome back x
Best wishes 😊
Not through the whole video yet. I cried in my 30’s all the time. I was a sensitive child just I just figured it was my disposition. Through lots of school meetings I cried. Our son gets accommodations. I had a personal goal not to cry during an annual meeting. My period had started winding down. Then I realized I was going through the change not young enough for it to be medically early, but way early on the normal range. 42 was my last and for years few and far between. Looking back a far bit of the emotion was more about that than just feelings and I wonder if I would have done been had I realized earlier and managed the change better. Not saying anything is the change. Just there might be other things going on that will lead to an ah ha moment later on. Life was hard when my son hit the toddler age. Then at 4 1/2 we got a diagnosis and there was an ah ha moment. Same with the change, after I realized.
Yes - I suspect perimenopause plays a big part of all this
If you bought years ago you might have had great stress needing a new roof, having to move cause of work or kids school and moving while owning has its own stresses. Life just manages to give people a mix of stress and gratitude.
True that x
Yay Hiiii❤
The house is really nice
Gosh your words speak straight to my soul
Hi Mel, love the new home, very posh looking, so sorry to hear that you have been struggling with mental health problems, it's a hard path to travel and I wish I could just give you a Big Hug and take it all away but I know it's not how it works 😢, I have an 8 week cycle for 7 weeks i try not to think about the myeloma and then I have blood tests and wait for hematology to ring me with the results and check how I'm doing and it's hell waiting for the call but i have been told that I'm stable for now so I just need to recover from my latest surgery and enjoy life and you my friend are a good part of my life even if we never meet face to face, stay strong and committed to making the journey through this stage of life with everything going on as joyful as possible and I know that you will have a good life because you are a good person and you deserve a happy life with your family and friends. ❤
Hugest hugs Lesley. I so hope that stability continues. X