If Your Girlfriend is Doing This, BE CAREFUL - Red Flags
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Deepika Bhardwaj is a men's rights activist. Indian journalist and now also a documentary filmmaker. It was an absolute pleasure to be speaking to someone with so much depth and clarity about what one stands for.
Deepika and I talk about a few checkpoints for a successful relationship. Most people in India have arranged marriages, Deepika shares the importance of talking openly about everything to your partner before saying yes.
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I was dating this girl for many
years. I didn't care about her looks, despite my friends telling me I could do better. I gave my energy, emotion, love, attention and my self respect to the girl but she went from a shy to a overconfident girl over a period of time when we went for college in different places. She started having problems hanging out with me and started belittling me on how I know nothing and her friends don't like me or have asked her to stay away from me cuz according to them she could do better. She chose to listen to them and would only call me when she would need me or wanted to rant about something. I held on till the last thread of our relationship broke. She made me feel so bad about myself. As if my self respect didn't count. I was there for her when she needed me, didn't care about how she looked or was as a person when we started dating. I gave her boost of confidence every now and then, and I made sure to make her a part of my friend circle even if she didn't want me to be a part of hers. I didn't pay attention to the red flags back then and when I broke up with her, she blamed me for everything and what not. I am happy today and looking back I think I took the right call. I even told my parents about her and wanted to marry her. Guys, the only take away from my story is, always look for a partner who enhances your self respect and gives you the confidence to do things in life not belittle you.
Same story..you are not alone dude
same thing here dude
Thanks for this!
You are lucky that she gained confidence and self-respect fast enough. Imagine if this had dragged into the future.
Wo kisi aur se kud kud ke chud rahi thi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Relationship is ruined when friends come in between. They both are wrong. The life you are leading and planning to lead is manipulated by friends. Listen to yourself(both boy and girl)
thats quite wrong,especially for boys
I respect your opinion but you are wrong.
Cz When someone is in Love they can't see the reality.
@@ashrafulohi463 reality is wrong, only dreams are real
@@anishdayani4862 might be, some friends help and some steal your love
I am strongly agree with you❤,they are completely wrong in this case
"Remember one thing Cheating Is not Mistake it's Choice"
Thank You❤
Just having flashbacks of how he cheated on me and how I handled myself without telling even a single person And how did I accept that he was the only Guy who will never betray me Although his elder brother had told me about the cheating because I was his friend and understand him otherwise his brother will not leave him. We had one year of relationship and its been two years after we broke up but still he says that it's not his falt it's only her falt he just got distracted Common 💔 it's more painful because it was my first Love ❤️🔥 and after all this i truly believed that single life is only happy one 🙂♥️
@@_Princy__Gupta__. No You are Wrong Single life is may be Peacful Life Not best life Remember one Thing "Rishta Sab Se rkho umeed Kisi se nhi Kisi ke chhod jane se Bura utna nhi lgta jitna us insan k sath hamare Umeede Tutne pe hoti hai ki ye hame Chod ke nahi jayega kabhi badlega Nhi " Coz Changing Is Nature Rule And humans Are part Of Nature Not Above The nature" When You Find Someone Who understand you Give that Importance What You Deserve At that day Your sub conscious mind Give you signal That it's right person for you But You have To Make Yourself Ready for that person Don't lose Hope On love Coz You chose Wrong Person For Love it doesn't mean Love Is Wrong May be Universe Have Something More comfortable And Meaningful Relationship Ahead In Your Life "Maine v dhokha khaya hai Par Mera to 6 Sal ka relationship tha 3 Sal lage scenario se Nikalne me waise Av v single hu but I know That aage ki life me relationship kaise manage karna hai i mean my future married life ye sab Yaadein Bhulaye nhi bhulti Par Bhulna padta hai Bhulana pdta Hai 🙂🙂🙂
Gf is not cheating you ... Actually they did not find a perfect match for herself...
Tum bf pyar k itne bade bade promise karke muh uthake chale aate ho.. fir 6 months me tumhari aukat pta chal jati hai . Utna hi feko jitni haisiyat hai tumhari... Fir gf ko blame karte ho....
Kyu pehle se ambani ki aulat banaba jo ho jaise ho apne type ki gf dekho ..
Gf chahiye beautiful efucated n wife milti hai anpadh gawar😂😂
@@Akashsingh-xj6td I m not her perfect match Aur ye bat use 6 Sal Baat pta chali h bhai na ki 6 mahine me Everybody Have Their Own circumstances She also cheated on Me Just Aftet 3 and half years of relationship when She move In another city For her Ahead Education She Met with her So called Bestfriend Behind me She use to go to theaters and Restaurant And Hanging out places In name Of Friendship And when I Know This Things wo v kiske jubaan Se usi k so called bestfriend Ne mujhe btaya ki Ha Mai 180 km Jata hu Har mahine usse milne Means meri gf Se ??
Offcourse I m not ambani son but Jo v Kamata tha jitna ho ske uski jrurate puri krne ki koshis krta Tha I am A dialysis technician in hospital to tu andaza lga le Kitna kmata hu but I want tell you something special har mahine itna to kma leta hu ki ek iPhone 13 har mahine le skta hu tu hoga Tata ambani family se coz u r very fast in judging someone according to his/her Relationship status
Yupp cheating mean gaddari karbe
Loyalty & honesty is practically the most important factor in any relationship. With this 70% of the problems will eventually find its solutions
It’s the bare minimum
Well said. But note that honesty includes loyalty.
In relationships with who and fr in wht types of things plztell define it plz
Very difficult to find honest partner
@@VivekTiwari-yx1gb Experience and educated guess
2 years of relationship went into shit when her long lost bestie come ex come noble soul from past came back.
Build your values titans, shit can go wrong but your career must stay.
I need to hear that thanks man!!!
Similar happened to me 2 years relation gone like nothing it was when old ex jumps again in her life.
Exactly bro...same case happened to be...last year...our case is same...u are not the one...I am also victim of this...now I don't give a fu*k about it...
Edit bros : we all are titans. Work on yourself.
I am working too.
Got the job.
Got the salary.
Will leave this comment here so that i can come back again here.
@@RajatSharmamadgenious yes...😊
I have followed Deepika bhardwaj since 2015 and yes, she's enough experienced to understand marriages ... Way better than anyone can do
Nothing and no amount of knowledge can replace years of personal experience
@@akshadgir3576 people learn from their experiences but smart people learn from others experiences, and she is a smart woman
Specifically don't marry a boy or girl. Because you can't change yourself
We need men's commissions and men's ministries to protect men from atrocities by women
@@yadneshbhaisare3984 walking away is fine but you can't escape the tyranny of females. Lots of cases where women have blackmailed stranger men
@@yadneshbhaisare3984 not every man can be that. Not every man is literate. Not every man is brave. Male suicide rate increase after marriage. And lots of men have committed suicide due to these laws. So don't expect men to be brave and face it. We need men's commissions and ministries at every level of the government
@@yadneshbhaisare3984 yes, if we are talking about gender equality and perfection, we need men's commissions and men's ministries immediately. At every level of governance
True
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 absolutely right, totally agree with you , now it's time for us Men to unite and demand for Men's Commission, this is the time we should demand for Gender Neutral Law in India , and we should fight against cancer Feminisim ❌
There are so many red flags these days, it's impossible to find someone unless you become saintly and stop giving a damn. But in that case, the girl dumps you because you are happy without her 😂
True but kinda funny😂
Man, Most people who date or think are falling to each other, anyway are not going to last till marriage 99% times, in India in my experience 🤭🤭🤐🤔
underrated comment 😂💯
@@abhinav1860 Man... Its too MUCH true to be an underrated comment.😅
@@abhinav1860 Problem is MEN AND WOMEN dont match in their priorities, and our Indian culture of ARRANGED MARRIAGE SYSTEM as the ONLY WAY FOR HIGHEST DHARMA' has made a match between a Mature compassionate Masculine MAN and Mature kind woman IMPOSSIBLE to happen. Where is a second chance to go and learn, before one can go for MARRIAGE here?
In other words, in India PARENTS are forcibly inducing younger men and women into ARRANGED MARRIAGE INSTITUTION 95% times and thr remaining 5% Love marriages that happen also arent between Two mature people too, in the end. Except only USEFUL to create BOLLYWOOD MASALA story around it, with HEAVY Family emotions involved OR post Marital emotions dominating THE RELATIONSHIP, than a real mature relationship to see the RELATIONSHIP beyond Emotion....
THIS IS A FACT and even the speaker DEEPIKA BHARDWAJ herself is unmarried yet, and seem to chose to instead dedicate her life TOWARDS saving Mens rights that are being abused for WRONG REASONS... Instead she could simply see, sometimes ADULTERY in women is also A POSSIBILITY, when it is ACTUALLY MEN who are the ones too much into ADULTERY and HENCE shaming of Women on ADULTERY CHARGES is what is provoking MARRIED WOMEN AND HER PARENTS, to file 498 A in court, to defend herself on FALSE DOWRY, AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE charges.
Now once DOWRY is influencing a MARRIAGE, and GROOMS side has automatically taken more advantage too in a 'Marriage, where do u expect MARRIAGES really supporting DHARMA as a Marriage system /GRIHASTA in India EXCEPT leading to MISOGYNY /PATRIARCHY/MALE CHAVUNISM etc , I DONT KNOW...
Talk about Dharma and CAPITALISM mentality as going on in Modern world, cannot go together and LOOKS SO ODD and creepy...Indian culture itself seems SO BIASED being only HALF TRUE,, just like any other religion Islam or Christianity or even ATHEISTIC ways too.... Only Buddhist cultures seem to give ACTUAL EQUAL GENDER RIGHTS, to be honest as DHARMA neednot be part of MARRIAGE SYSTEM totally, except in 50%- 70% cases and the rest 30% humanity, can actually manage DHARMA just from their INNER CONSCIENCE only, that helps in adapting to even healthy competence in life. HUMANITY is going to wakeup to this Truth in coming YEARS, where a 'MARRIAGE, a Society, Making lots of Money, a Gender or caste discrimination all these ALONE dont decide the Meaning behind living. It is DHARMA' which is a HEALTHY COMPETENCE and occasional contribution to society, preferably THROUGH allowing a HEALTHY COMPETENCE, should do good
Personaly I have felt that while in love, brain gets a little bit foggy to analyse red flags. One needs to have a right set of friends to weigh there opinions.
Being a guy, I don't weigh 50-50 on looks. That's a 100 but when that's threshold is matched, a whole lot more things come into play like understanding, honesty, loyalty, trustworthiness, compatibility, goals, past behaviour, friends circle.
It's the hormones bro ....so it's always better to involve friends and family since they are out of that hormonal effect and they can see the real reality and long term outcomes.
Never take relationship seriously bro act like you care abt her, analyse her completely then only give her your heart, You need time to understand a person.
weak man
Everybody comes with a set of red flags it’s all about how you wanna deal with them, have a conversation about them, don’t be blind…….you have truly loved someone if you are aware about your differences but are willing to address them, talk about them and compromise to a certain degree. The human mind is very complex, today we might be very happy and in love and after 5 years we might be completely miserable, it’s all about how you look at those things and are how you are willing to sort them out and come to a conclusion
@@shreyaputhran7646 You're completely right. On this planet Earth humans lives at multiple consciousness states. People living with higher vibrations are always evolving, you won't face these issues of problems coming down the line with them because such people are focused on inner self-mastery. One should always aim for the same and if all aligns, things will get better for them in all dimensions. It's a very deep concept but I've experienced it and have seen it.
I'm neither in a relationship nor the friend that comes between. BEhencho me dekh kyu raha hu yeh.😭😄
Tu bhai hai mera..... Chai piyega??
Are bhai same! Aa gale lag!
@@0xDEAD_Inside mai bhai lag jaun gaale?? 😅 Dard divide hojayega 😇
@@randommosaic7080 Are lag jaa Bhai!
Sahi hai in relationship or marriage ke chakkar mai mat padna its a trap
I whole heartedly agree with you on being comfortable with each other on a daily basis..... I think that is the most important thing..... Compatibility is the key
People in the comments are wise too.. repeatedly mentioned sometimes friends ruin the relationships that were good. The best way is listening to your heart...spend time apart from your partner to listen to your heart occasionally.
No don't listen to your Heart. Listen to your Brain. Ask then why are they saying this & try to see from their Perspective.
Heart becomes blind in Relationship.
@@gamesbond0074 She's a woman, just disregard what she says. It's futile to ask them to be rational and not emotional
"Frnds ruin relationships" Happens mostly with GIRLS... rarely with men. . Jealousy isn't that much prevailant in mens cirlcle.. Also its usually not cool to discuss private affairs once a guy frnd is in a relationship.. It stays limited to teasing..
Also notice that most people disagreeing with the frnds part are WOMEN!
@@theefficientfrontier people like you are a problem to society now who always make everything about gender. You point out something and then go crying about "women do it more, we men don't it that much". And jealousy is not between men?? Aren't yall the same one who keeps screaming about "men are competitive" and "just cause there's a goalkeeper doesn't mean you can't goal". Also all the mms about girls that get viral is because men record them and share it with their friends. And their friends leak them. Most cases have been like this. So men can't even respect their girlfriends or wives and objectify them by sharing their private intimate moments. Just like after break up guys go slt shaming their ex. It's not about the gender here.
First keep your internalized hatred aside so you don't play blame games and then go on preaching your bs
Summary:
1. Having detailed conversations about the future is important for making life decisions like choosing a job or getting married.
2. Pay attention to the opinions of your friends and family if they express concerns about your relationship, as they may have insight into whether someone is right for you.
3. Men often prioritize physical attractiveness in a partner, but they also desire emotional support and TLC (tender loving care).
4. It's not healthy to seek a parental figure in a romantic relationship; instead, focus on being comfortable with each other's habits, lifestyles, and friend circles.
5. In the context of arranged marriages in India, it's crucial for parents to allow their children to have conversations and get to know each other before making a decision, as it can help address potential issues beforehand.
I don't really agree with the friend's point. For this your friends need to be quite mature. At times they could be jealous or like tad bit toxic.
They are not wrong , your definition of friend is wrong
Then you should make an actual true friend rather than a "so-called" friend
Yesss I Agree With U Coz, Most Of The Times Ur Frnd Zone & Family Circle Are Not Trustworthy & Genuine/Well Wishers From Their Heart Core Abt U & Ur Relationship...
Maybe,They've Also Their Own Personal Manipulative Agendas & Toxicities Abt U & Partner & They Could Be A Major Influencer For Ruining Ur Relationship With Him/ER...
So, Be Careful & Mature Enough Coz, Basically U Can't Rely 100% On Anyone/Outsiders Or Even Ur Own Family Members,,Without Using Ur Own Gut Feelings & Intuitions Abt Ur Partner's Behaviours/State Of Relationship...
It's ok ,we.understand 😂why you disagree..
@@sachinkapse110 oh really?? Do tell me!! Assuming stranger. I'd like to hear your generalised opinion based upon the behavior of another human being in your past!! Go ahead.
To all the young boys like me out there, don't fall in a random relationships at all.
Set standards, high, and work.
I had a very TOXIC girl.
She left.
Plot twist:- came back
Me :- na na na
Friends turn foe....you never know....be vigil....be ready....for any contingency.... don't expect anything from any friend or Gf or Bf....be Strong....
There is no guarantee for success in a relationship. What made you fall in love with a person could be the exact reason for breakup.
Eg. If the boy is caring and macho girls may love but after marriage the same quality can seem controlling.
Also sometimes one partner is not ready to grow like before marriage there is thrill of meeting and eating ice-cream under the rain after marriage responsibilities take over couples need to mature but if 1 of the partners is constantly looking for teenybopper romance then that marriage breaks. Goals may change, wants may change. Anything.
Above all effort to want to keep a relationship is missing these days. Instant gratification and instant boredom
very true
When He Said TLC, My First Thought Was Why Table Ladder Chair are important in relationship...😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I thought TLC channel lol but what is he talking about ??
LOL , WWE flashed before my eyes instantly 😅
@@doctorsincebirth5072 same even I thought about the channel Lmfao
Wwe fans spotted 🤝🤝🤝
Hi bros😹😹😹🤝🤝🤝
If she's asking to move away from your parents that's the biggest red flag.
Never simp over her
But sure ask the girl to move away from her parents as if the girls parents are disposable. Incel logic.
First of all, what do you even mean by simp. Secondly, guys move away from their house by their choice these days.. haven't seen a single guy that moved out because he was pressurized.. it's always the guy who agrees with the partner mutually when both of them know parents aren't very supportive of the relationship and WILL cause trouble. Many marriages break because of families involved. Point is, one shoe doesn't fit all and you claiming that it's (biggest) red flag is absolutely incorrect.
That is not a red flag , first understand what red flags in relationships mean . Living with someone's parents can be difficult for any normal human being imagine you yourself living with her parents where she gets all the love and you are treated like a second class citizen. Post marital depression is very very common among women because of this and most of them don't even know about it. And a couple mutually agreeing to move out of the house for privacy and space is called Maturity that's how normal relationships work.
The same "forced" can be used for you when forcing her to live with your parents even when she doesn't want you. If a girl is married to you she's only married to you and not the entire family !!
That's so true... 👍
Better leave such Karens...than leaving your parents 👍
I met this girl sometimes back, just after I went through my breakup. She was new, and we became good friends. Initially, she was such a caring figure in my life and she provided me everything, even help me heal from my broken relationship. She used to consider her relationship with me as a best friend and i still fell for her. A month later i confessed and she didn't accept. However, now it was me who kept giving my best efforts to make her change her mind. However, she slowly started taking me for granted and in several occasions told me things which hurt me. She said she respects my feelings, but didn't keep her words though. Eventually, she also started talking with my own male best friend, who also happened to be her best friend now. Basically, she considered ourselves as a bestie trio. I obviously had objections because both us got treated by her the same way, even though I clearly put in more efforts. Now, we don't talk that often and I'm much happier.
my boi , guy best friend is one and only red flag you need in order to run :P if you can be a guy bestfriend anyone can :P
@@zuhaibkhan8108 I wish I knew bro
That's how they turn guys into orbitors
Bro there can be 2 scenarios
First is this girl is really just want both of you to chase her. If that's the case just stop prioritising her.
Second she's just being a good friend and even if she told you how she felt you're trying to get her by investing more efforts but let me tell you if that's the case nothing is going to happen
You can't change someone's feelings for you and you're just destroying your friendship and your self worth again...
Now it's for you to decide which scenario is applicable in your situation.
If she gives you advice as a friend and you're still having feelings for her when she clearly doesn't have for you..whose fault is this??? She never said she wants you?? So why did you chase her anyway. Because even after being friendzoned you wanted her presence, her company in your life with a hope that she will say yes. Delusions! Look what you get into.
Love makes people blind and i was also blind in love for a while ! So that's why if your friends says she or he is not good for u , so don't ignore all those things
Read 📖 ‘ Road less travelled ‘
True Love is much more than romantic love.
‘Self care’ should be thought and practiced from a young age. Prioritize while taking responsibilities. Stress is a major reason for relationship and health issues. So be aware of what responsibilities you can take on. A job you enjoy, keeps you happy and helps you pay your bills. Hormones shouldn’t decide marriage. Marriage is a long term commitment for a common goal.
Having a best friend even if one have bf or gf ( truly loving) is bullshit and immoral according to me ...
Agar best friend he chahiye to usi ko partner banao...
I want men to see best friend & partner in same girl ( as I am like this too) man with a female best friend is a no for me
I disagree with the part that if your friends say your partner isn't right dor you, they are right. It usually applies for men and their friends because 80% of times women don't like their friends' bfs and ask them to breakup at the drop of a hat.
Another red flag: if she has a male bestfriend. Sorry have burnt my fingers earlier.
they are jealous creatures
If you are trying to get opinions of friends and family about your partner then don't go in a relationship with them in the first place tbh! Because if you cannot trust the person or have doubts then you cannot love them or they aren't the right one for you. If you let others judge the situation based on what you have told them, most of their opinion will be biased. There is a difference between take advice about something and asking them that the person is right for you or not. Because you are the one who is supposed to decide and understand that. Your friends or some family may not like the women for many reasons even on a energetic perspective. There are many layers of this conversation. Just be mindful and conscious enough to understand yourself and the other person before taking the next step in a rush!
Yesss you are right... I also don't like his idea like when your friends are warning you than breakup.... Dude, it's your relationship not your friends...
@@ennafromuk IKR! You should have enough maturity to understand who is right for you or not. Others can never decide for you.
@@yourangel777 yup meri ek bestfriend thi usne mere bf k baare m bola that ki "ye ldka trko chodh k chla jaaega jldi to mt pd iske ckkr me, kisi k upr itna trust mt kr breakup krle isse "
And usne esa isliye bola kyunki hmare relationship ko 4 months hi hue the to new tha.
Bss uske baad phir hm dono m choti si ldaai hui or usne mrse baat krna hi bnd kr diya and friendship tod di. So and mera bf usne mujhe saadi ki commitment di apni family m sbko btaya and wo khud bhot bde CZcamsr he. And I'm really happy with him he is like my true bestfriend mujhe bhot comfortable feel hota unke saath. And hmare relationship ko 1 saal hone wala h . So agr mene apni so called best friend ki baat suni hoti to syd me hi aaj pachta rhi hoti .
@@ennafromuk That's so sweet.. 🥺 Thank you for sharing the story dear. I feel so delighted for you. Best wishes from my side.. truly. May both of your love towards each other increases by every passing day. May you stay in love and flourish with each other always. 🙏♥️ 🥰
@@yourangel777 thank you so much. God bless you too dear 😘😘😘❤️
I agree but I have a different take too...
What you said might be true for people who have had fulfilling relations with family and friends but it is not true for people with difficult families... narcissistic parents and people who are introverted to the point of having only 1 or 2 friends who don't know the real you...
Like my family didn't even get to know the person i wanted to marry, they just said no without even meeting them ...
Respectfully disagree. Dont let friends and family come in between your relationship. Most relationships(and marriages) in desi scenarios ends because of interferance of friends and families. Also, it depends. Sometimes they are right but most of the time it comes from a place of insecurity. Desi parents always tell their kids that the person they chose for themselves isnt the right choice only because they want their own choice with a certain check list for their kids. The scenario is completely different in europe, USA or such countries where parents and friends never interfere in relationships..if someone is wrong for your kid, let him judge that for himself. For all those guys's friends and family, you're not only blaming other women for your son's independent life choices and decisions, but you're indirectly putting him down. You also seem to think that he has no mind and personality of his own..it just shows how little you think of his ability to think for himself! So both of your thoughts in this very aspect is very very primitive and oh so 12th century. I hope you stop giving advices to your friends about their relationships and let them learn from their mistakes if its wrong.
So, western culture failed in relationship. Follow everything from western culture but not relationship 😢 Do research more about western relationship
Your friends can also make you in with someone after even knowing you don't like. Some parents don't understand the need they are manupulative. And even if your partner say some negative about your friends you also should look into this also.
A lot of time, family says no is just because of intercaste reasons in India and arrange marriage happens sometimes for not right reasons...so when you say listen to family in general.. it's the wrong message you are putting across. Same way friends sometimes say things that certain person don't deserve you only because they feel that guy or girl is not hot enough as per their standards. So for taking such big life decisions, you just can't rely on others' judgment. Rather use your judgment and understanding of each other.
Having said that please get your facts right about hormones... studying biology for more then 12 years, I have never seen someone casually talk about hormones without context just to prove some irrelevant point..I suggest you to go back and read your 11th class ncert books again and understand hormones better
On family part, I would like to disagree with you but it might happens in your family. In my surroundings, families do say no, not because of caste. They say because of their experiences and I do follow whatever my family says but not 100% rely on them ..I do my own research too.
@@AnantMundhraCZcamsr It's good, your surroundings is not influenced by caste issues...my few friends have separated because family didn't agreed and then they had to marry someone else. Though it's not like they don't accept there new partner but few things are not 100 prcnt in there companionship and quite filled with compromises.
Family has much bigger experience than you....its your ego not listening to family you will regret in long term for sure ....most of the intercaste marriage never work since they belong to two different sects ....your hormones might tell you otherwise but the reality is always transparent and your family knows it .....trust them and live in peace
Sorry to say but your comment is v delusional...there are so many happy intercaste couples who are leading life peacefully and happily..your sample size seems to be very small..
Also if you will continue to follow the channel and Ranveer show, you will come to conclusion that even he will go for love marriage with 95 prcnt chances being intercaste...he will be living example of how stuborn and obselete you are in mindset.
@@chandel_rajputbundelkhand8490 but in arranged marriages if the relationship goes worse u can't get seperated
To all the girls who are thinking that every guy goes after girls look don’t be delusion by him he is only talking about himself as there are women who don’t chase money, fame , status similarly there are men who don’t chase looks some are just looking for simple loyal kind person
He's talking about majority and let's be honest here u won't gonna marry a fat girl and fat girls I noticed are loyal kind down to earth most of the time. If girl is in your friend circle then u will go for her even if she's not good looking but when u are approaching random girl u obviously going with her looks
@@SuperGetoverhere thats a good point
@@SuperGetoverhere that happens little Unconsiosly with both men and women..
This particular podcast must get a good boost.
There are instances when relatives n friends misguide you to break your relationship just coz they are jealous so one should always listen to one's own judgement not others .
Exactly 👌👌😌
The only advice matters is someone parents.. They know you for 30 years in and out .. if you believe in your relationship please convince them with out any pressure
Seriously so true... My ex always used to tell me why to think about future... To discuss about future is soo important... Got you so well
aur tumne uske sath breakup kr leya
This is so perfect advice i wish our ancestors, thousand years back, had this video to guide them into marriage. Many of us wouldn't be living human lives. Maybe even this two wouldn't have made it as humans. And probably this podcast also wouldn't have been shot. 😅😅
Very often friends are jealous and they say that this person is not right for you and their curse manifests when we start believing in their negative words.
Don't let anyone come between you and your partner... Just don't get super excited about anything... Take some time and confirm that both of you are serious about your love... And both should do their part... Not only one partner should compromise and sacrifice all the time... Both should have understanding and kindness... One more point... Don't expect much. Little expectations is the key for peaceful relationship.
Boys give time to your Girl to speak and listen them carefully...
Also Girls give time to your Boy and talk to them when they need you...
We as boys don't expect much...
We need a friend who can stay with us, understand our problems and talk to us when we return from our day to day fights of our lives...
If any Girl reading this comment... Please share your main expectation from a boy... What you guys really need?
are bhai chahiye na koii dikkat ho jati life me akele hi best hai 19 ke hai ek tha jabse aaya dimag kharab hi rhta hai
If your friends are insulting ur partner on looks and joking on personality and instead of saving if he/she is toxic...you need to change your friends.
Relationship is coming together to fulfill needs from time to time and at the same time reproducing to extend yourself into future. You will have to identify the needs and work together. The needs can be material and mental.
sometimes it's the family that knows the least about you. sad, but true!
It's difficult to actually believe in real relationships these days. Though most people are not bad, there are just enough bad people out there which can deter people from wanting relationships.
The only thing which ruins a relationship is - different Principles....if u r luking for a loyal partner ,nd in any case even as a joke he or she thinks casual dating is ok..nd one night stands are normal then just leave that relationship.
That's it.
They are not made for you
If? Ma'am every woman and man wants a loyal partner. I'm a Muslim so I have never been in a relationship. That's why I don't have any idea about it. One thing today's modern generation should consider in a person is loyalty. If he/she cheated on their previous partner. Please brother and sister Run away from that person as much as you can.
This generation women are not worth of dating and marrying.Most of the women are just headache for men.
Disagreed on TLC.
Tender loving care is actually a good factor as it emotional aspect in the relationship and is one of the factor for long lasting relationships.
A mutual TLC towards each other shows not mom or father like attitude but both patner are taking the responsibility of each other more than simple friend...and ready to give more than demanding.
In western world relationship is more materialistic or practical approach.
Ironically they use word "baby" or ( babu, in Indian version for western style Indians) for calling out their partner and behave more like business partner with completely give and take relationship.
Top notch sharp points....Excellent!
Thank you ..... such kind of videos are really helpful ❤️
Girl needs to be loyal, compassionate, kind hearted and not ruthless, gold digger, lier, cheater.
Such girl can dump a boy if girl find a better alternative or upgrade.
Girl are supported by govt, administration, judiciary, media, NGOs.
Girl don't have to pay any cost for wrong decisions most of the times
One of the most useful and liberating moments for a man is the second he no longer gives a shit about any women
Stack your money
Get your gains
Avoid dating,committing,marriage
Ignore women
True sigma mentality
Incel
lol that's some teen bs
@@eehan1769 wait how? Explain?
Yeah friends can be unpredictable same as unknown outcome is therefore a discipline characteristic which should be bared by all the individuals in relationship you must menten a boundary conditions between them.
Very true you should listen to friends as they know you better. Been through it.. Happy now out of it.
I think the involvement of friends in your own relationship is dangerous, we should control our emotions when we are in to the relationship, if the girl or the boy is a sign of red flag you will get it within a month or a week but you will get it for sure and that moment you should move on from their. Many times friends involvement causes a lot if the person is good then also your friend some how approach you to not into be the relationship with that person. If you go through and your friends know him/ her really well in the initial stage, talking about that stage where you are still introducing each other for better relationship at that time your friend can spoil the whole environment and at the end of the day your friends will tell you i haven't not expected this mess will going to happen. Introducing your gf/ bf to your friend after having a strong bond it will be effective and easy to proceed life further.
To get a grounded and a simple girl is very hard in this generation, specially in mumbai so it's good to not introduce your relationship to early with your friends. I think if the emotions and decipline are in control so guy can handle himself in the relationship.
My girlfriend's best friend ruined my relationship. She didn't like me from day one. Thus, she always try to manipulate my Gf and finally succeed to break it.
Wht about now
It's also happened to me😄😂😁😅
Lucky you
you dont have a GUN ¿
I think someone who is close to you and whom you trust fully can actually tell if something is wrong for you whether it is a relationship or anything else, it depends on you whether you want to listen to them or not.
I don't think that friends can guide you on this because they are different human being having different perspective. Suppose, A believes in marriage and loyal relationship and B is a Casanova. When A faces trouble in relationship so, B cannot guide A, B will always try to manipulate A and try to break the relationship. Of course, while choosing friends we don't judge them on their attachment styles. Only you and your conscience can help! Nobody else. If your conscience matches the words of your family and friends then do listen to them!
Being a guy i have ignored many 🚩 flags, even i ignored when my friends and sister asked me to stay away from her .. Eventually she broke my heart but i am happy when i realised that i was not in a right place ...
In a 6 minute video, the host asked a question for 4 minutes. Wtf
The Idea is to check always whether you want to grow old with this person and have the confidence to go through the highs and lows together, people love as per the conditions..
I was everything, caring, successful and considerate, still she didn't move from her ex, it destroyed me, but now I am happy and strong
Bhai meri ek friend hai Meta me job karti hai and uska husband bhi....to unhone to pehle se apni aage ki aane wale 10 saal planned kar diye the abhi sirf dedh saal ho rahe hai uski job ko aur they are still a perfect couple in people eyes because of their high paying job par reality bahut alag hai.... She is saying to me one day that mujhe to vishawas hi nahi ho raha hai ki jise mai 6 saal se date kar rahi thi wo ye insan hai shadi k baad totally different aur haan uske husband ki bhi apni side hogi jo mujhe nahi pata hai isliye yaha bata nahi paya..... And same ek dusra friend hai jo 35-40k earn karta hai and uski biwi home tution deti hai and sath me tailoring ka kaam bhi karti hai ghar se arrange marraige hai unki 2.5years ho gaye hai aur tum jab bhi unke ghar chale jao unko dekhke lagta hai ki asli me life ko jeena ya celebrate karna kya hota hai..... Aur ye tumhara jo friends wala point tha ye to mujhe bullshit laga tumhara khud ka dimag hona chahiye..... Saaf seedhi baar ye hai life ko jitna simple way me dekhogi utna sahi rehti hai agar ghar me khushi hai sukoon hai to baki sari cheezein apne aap apke sath sahi hone lag jati hai chahe waqt fir bura bhi kyun na chale.....maine jitna notice kiya hai ye jo mordern concept aa gaya hai na ye full chutiyaap hai.....itna hi acha hai to fir kyun ho rahi hai marriages fail qki love ka concept hi nahi rehta hai bus wo live in wali life chahiye hoti hai shadi k baad bhi aur fir depression me jaye rehte hai so called mordern couple....planning karna bhi jaroori hai mai ye nahi keh raha hu ki na dekho future ka par itna na ghus jao us planning me ki agar uske hisab se koi choti cheez bhi na hui life mein to fir rishte todne lag jao
All this BS and quotes/inspiration don't matter.
Be with someone for who you don't have to compromise your health (be socially, emotionally and physically healthy). That's it.
or just don't be with anyone
@@gigachad1021 debatable.
@@everyone2905 not debatable its pure facts
With all permutation and combination no relationship can run by the purpose it's started but some can survive and sustain out of no other better option available and habituating to the relationship.
I feel friends family and whole society getting involved between two itself is huge red flag.When you are getting into arranged marriage then family's opinion matters most but dating noooooo waaaayyyy.
But, who's even talking about dating here? Dating is casual, marriages are not. And that's what they said, your family and friends know you the best, so listen to them before marrying someone.
Its nothing to do with dating/marriage, it's all a 'relationship'.
I'm a Muslim so I have never been in a relationship. That's why I don't have any idea about it. One thing today's modern generation should consider in a person is loyalty. If he/she cheated on their previous partner. Please brother and sister Run away from that person as much as you can.
This is correct for all guys and to some extent for few girls !!!
@theranveershow love ur podcast, not able to follow regularly but it's quite educational
It depends how good your friends are.. the friends who you are with at least 6 to 7 years with daily touch, try to understand their advice for you. But the final decision should be yours... But most of the cases friends saves..
Hi Ranveer!!
I came across a girl(via friend and havent met her yet).
We had few conversation over msg no calls.(I tried but she was busy both the time)
On third day she was very straight and wanted to ask my annual earnings. I was taken back with this question I didn't knew what to answer. I told her my potential (like what I was doing before covid) and also told her that what I am doing now. As I am into fashion and run a small unit.
I also added, if in case money matters you more then emotions then I am wrong guy, you should reconsider your decision before procedings. ( she saw my pic and she was intrested in me.)
Now: I am lost, I don't know what I said was wrong or right.
I would have up front told her if we would have got into that comfort zone or would have been in to that emotional state.(though I work hard and make sufficient to keep my family happy)
Pls advise me have I played right and if wrong then do let me know how would I have been able to turn tables???
Bro break up. Don’t convince yourself the reasons which she cpuld have asked for and don’t try to make her reasoning right in your head
@@depensu1854 I have made my mind today to get clarity on same.
@@hemanshupansanyia5784 bro listen
@@depensu1854 say
@@hemanshupansanyia5784 step 1)
get strong emotionally first and in your mind be clear for the break up.
Step 2) tell her that first off you were offended by her asking. Secondly, tell her that your money is for your kids future, and investing. And even if you see our future, there would be a pre nuptial agreement through a lawyer.
First thing which came into my mind after reading this title
"Ok , but how can I have one"
Good school/ college friend became my well wisher she told me everything 2 years back now she's all like my mom... She cares me lot
Shes protective about whom I'm talking to now
its not like a guide because just like she said every case is different but yup reds flags are imp
My lady gives her list of red flags at 3:02, before that we witness Ranveer giving his takes. You're welcome ❤
Thanks dear ❤️
Thank you
After experiencing breakups, i will stick to arrange marraige,falling in love with my husband other than having a bf gf relationship
Wish all parents should go through this!
Best thing happen to my life is my girlfriend broke up with me basically sge was cheating on me and she is waiting to it to end the relationship and after it ended i was so depressed but after some time i know i was in good place and now i am so grateful that the relation ended. Loves the feeling of being single
My grandfather told me marry a girl who loves you that's it.
You will have a happy life.
How
THERE IS NO RED FLAGS , NO GREEN FLAGS , IF GIRL MAKES AN EFFORT YOU MAKE AN EFFORT. IF SHE DOESN'T YOU DON'T. SIMPLE AS THAT.
No bro my girlfriend was so nice, she gave me gifts, her time, energy
But she was very short tempered and got pissed very easily
Then she starts being verry rude and hurtful
After that she comes back in her normal self
Thats a red flag
Her red flag was that
She didn't talk to her parents properly
@@harbanslal976 nothing bad about being short tempered . Tell her she is going to get pre diabetes’s and cholesterol at an early age If she don’t improve
Gfs are always good.. they did not look money to marry n to love you...
She choose you over a thousands boys roaming around her..
Wife can be selfish but gf never❤❤
@@Akashsingh-xj6td Lolol, duniya dekhi nahi hai tumne
@@ark3140 Bro.... I think tum kisi achhi khandani n good profession ki ladki se mile hi nhi ho...❤️❤️
Tumhari wali tiktoker hogi.. but sab esi nhi hoti bhai..🤣🤣
going to a third person when u both had argument is the point u started ruining your relationship does not matter how old or how pure it is
it is fact that human beings are great market researchers when it comes to other people. even random people can look at a pic of a couple and guess if the relationship will work out or not.
Deepika in the show. That is great. She should be given more space in order to expose Hypocrisy of Feminism. :)
Ukraine is the finest example of feminist fraud, hypocrisy and double standard.
Exactly 👍
"A lot them look for mom in the relationship" Thats mommy issues 😂 they need therapy and help not a girlfriend/wife
in comment section mostly people are weak and how they got breakup and how they got easily wanted to get manipulated from friends or get from them man grow up . grow up
Spot on, Indian internet full of betas it's absolutely disgusting
Try to ask short crisp question,and you asks similar question on realationship to each one of them
Yes that's why I do everything to discuss
with my mom because she is very supportive and open minded my bestest friend ☺️☺️☺️☺️ 😊😊
Him: "If your friends say she's not right for you, She's not.
My friends are like ethics in politics, They Don't exist.
Guys, we all need to understand one fact! The quotient of human beings and our perception of a relationship will always remain variable! The only constant "relationship" is the relationship with the divine! It's always constant despite the magnitude of effort.
Any human relation will always remain variable. It needs constant effort, constant nurturing but still variable! We forget that we are just one level above monkeys dressed in suits, lol.
The moment you understand that your happiness is not an emotion to be controlled by the outside world, you'll be in constant harmony with the divine 🙏.
We have complicated our lives so much.
Just breathe and learn to love yourself first!
This episode matters because each and every man ♂️ matters too... Thanks
Agree with Deepika Ma'am , she spoke the bitter truth of certain girls
99.99% of women will stop being in love when they see a richer guy. Similarly, 99.99% of men will stop being in love when they see a more "providing" girl.
Good luck finding the .01%.
Women are hypergamous
Redpill
100 tofo ki salami
😩
I had a bf who accused that i didnt trust him and we had a lot of fight it was always why she is texting calling anything like that i was always insecure and used to check his phone..he used to accuse me that i am the one who is at fault because i doubt him...but after we broke up few years later a person came into life and i have never ever checked his phone or had a fight for third person being involved the reason is clear is not attracted or entertaining other girls...when someone is constantly having trust issues with its the other partner equally responsible..
I have seen lot of your interviews/podcasts and they are quite good. A few suggestions on body language please relax your facial expressions and avoid unnecessary hand moments the sessions will look more relaxed and seamless... right now the body language looks a bit tight and stressed out...my two cents...
Being the girl ...who has talked to a lot of men for marriage...guys no matter how forward they say they are..they mostly expect women like older men used to...tlbut like the video shows...women have progressed...they just assume I ll move with them or do all the housework...or have kids or sacrifice everything for kids ..etc etc ..it's scary ..that said I knw women have idiotic expectations too
What's wrong in it
@@amneetsingh8510 😑
@@amneetsingh8510 Because you expect a slave not a wife
I got a solution stop marrying and relationship BS
It can solve both men and women's problem both genders has had enough it's finally time to end this 💩 am i right?
Imagine being a woman and not wanting to be a mother and expecting a guy to care for you. Fulfil your divine duty and quit being a crybaby. Get support
fact...u must have the money to buy out her love....besides love in 21st century is like a neutron star in a black hole society...
Soo truee
Here is advice for all , suppose you go with your parents and see the boy/girl just by some how get to know that , that girl/boy have prepared for that meeting or not ,because if not just say no to your parents afterwards .. cause that person was not serious enough to have meet , and that meet was just forced.. which is huge red flag.
Pls don't give such biased advices. There are even times where just in a friends circle your friends sometimes wants you to be with someone who's their frnd who likes you or who's in your friend circle is after you. So what they do is try to slowly give you a perspective how your bf/gf is not fit for you how you should avoid them. And eventually ending up to give you a positive perspective about the person that they want to set in your life. These things are actual facts. I've seen a lot of my friends going through these situations so what actually people need is analysis from independent perspectives bcoz your family and friends know what's correct for you. But what's correct for you need not necessarily work out for you for lifetime. This is why people need to understand to analyse properly. And not get biased on any body else's perspective.
But women's friends will always tell them that this guy is not right for you. Especially when they see that this guy is better than what they have.
All WWE fans here thought TLC means Tables ladders and chairs🤣🤣🤣
I am dating this girl for past 2+ years. She had changed a lot after the first 6-9months. I thought its because it had been a while and thought it was fine. But now for last couple of months, she is this entire controlling and toxic person towards me - restricting my limits in everything, asking me to provide whatever she wants, etc. I am exhausted and it is not possible for me to be the person who she wants me to be. She will not leave me. She will be abusing, hitting and also threat me to ruin my life with fake police complaints if I leave her. I have no clue about what I should be doing.
First of all, stay calm. Document her actions secretly. Start recording her audio. Gather evidence. Make sure that your phone's audio is on whenever she is around you. This evidence can be used against her in a court of law, if it gets that bad. Make sure you have enough evidence of her being abusive. Then break up with her. Such toxic people will ruin your life.
i too gave simir advice to someone sometimes back, but he didn't listen, and eventually, they ended up breaking,
Its always the 3rd person who can understand the situation clearly without the filter of love... That person can identify who is playing the cheating card... If its you who is the third person you can understand the real situation of the others persons relationship...
Dude.....let her speak
I used to tell good things about my boy with my friends and we had a low phase in our relationship and took a small break from each other for few days and my girl bestie was trying so hard to Console my bf and make her way to his heart. Opposite gender relationships are of no use when in a relationship.
Back in 2021 i met a girl who was 5 years older than but dispite of this fact i still fel in love with her. But things get worse after just a week she always starts talking about feminism with me always talk to random guys with sharing her flirtations . She always wanted to know everything about me but she didn't tell anything about herself like she went on a photoshoot she did go on parties with her friends and mostly all of them are boys she did even planed a trip with all but didn't talked to me . I did know everything at time but i just ignored the fact thay someday she'll be gone ohh mannnnn i just suffered alot it's hard to tell somtimes
Here's an advice for you all
Never ever talk to any girl at first
Stay alert when you are falling for and elder person 🙏🏻
In this journey you will still get to know who's your real friend 🙏🏻
I did cut my hobbie coz of that
Becoz it was really hard for to be in that place 🙏🏻
God bless you all
👍time heals
@@Riyaa2 try my best bro still sometimes it's become anxiety for first time in my life felt i lost something
@@ashutoshmishra7142 are u fine now
Pray for your healing 🙏✨