Building strong children | Ranbir Puar | TEDxRenfrewCollingwood
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- čas přidán 30. 11. 2014
- This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. Building strong children is easier than repairing broken adults. Why allow something to break only to try to fix it later? What if we could give children the tools to finding their true path and learning inner strength? Ranbir Puar presents a profoundly moving case for a new methodology…a true paradigm shift. She shares inspiring stories of children that are now lighting the path for others because they were given the key to being in control of their lives.
Ranbir’s journey was born of a deep desire to transform despair into destiny. Her passion for empowering others led to the development of Spirituality for Reality Inc., an organization that focuses on integrating mind, body and spirit to instill positive self-image in children and adults. Ranbir’s unique ability to get to the heart of the matter in a highly intuitive yet pragmatic and direct way has enabled her clients to achieve clarity and make dramatic changes in their lives.
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Her voice is so Motherly. Her messege so pure and clear.
What a great person she is. So strong after what she's been through. It's horrible for a child to grow up without love because it's always blaming itself and she made something great out of her own suffering.
I absolutely understand her rythm of speaking. She is a mother, a parent. I feel her because I am a dad and think about my little ones all the time.
Very emotional...speaker was not just speaking, but reverberating her inner thoughts!
I always felt my father was ashamed of me. But my time in the army taught me I was a leader and was valued. This knowledge carried me through life.
single mothers are a biblical plague - Jesus
She is pretty. Her voice and the words is so amazing that speak the true of what children are facing now in this arena. I am looking forward more speaker that speaks to help children in need.
Feel so blessed of having a loving father and a very super and wonderful carrying mother.
What a talk Ranbir!!!!! This message should go beyond generations.
Thank you so much. Those words moved me. We all can related. I want to be better for myself and my 2 year old daughter. I want to teach her to put herself first and treat herself with love and compassion. I didn't do it all my life, but I can still do my best to show her one example of a happy mother.
Ranbir is a kid in my classes mom she as came and did this with us, she has maid her kids great her boy ..... always is happy and always makes you feel better, she is a lady that is a life changer.
I love TED conferences, they are very educating
single mothers are a biblical plague - Jesus
How does this not have more views?! Definitely in the top 5 Ted talks that are the most profound impact.
Wendi, I appreciate your kind words.
That's true. Couldnt agree more. She'd just made me realize we spend most of the times working with so many aspects of self help, but forgotting the most important root of cause, which is our self image
The Ted talks and the people that are standing out for themselves and don't care what other people say about them. I agree that we all have our own ways being ourselves and becoming something we should understand in the future.
I love this ❤️ Type of mentors I’d love my future kids to have
Ranbir, you are a strong child in your family. Thank you for saving more children to come. God Bless You.
Joanne 宣 Haitian
single mothers are a biblical plague - Jesus
We need more people like you!!!
Yes
The actual talk and advices part starts at 12:04
Thank you
Motasm Abu Mughli thank you!
Loved the last few lines especially ' I am bigger than this (the problem)'...an inspiring talk about building up a colorful self-image👍👏👏👏
One of the most powerful talks I've seen yet.
Boomer Ann yes! 👏👏🎉👍😀😮
Thank you!
Thank you so much for your insight
As more and more people wake up and realize that most of us are far more than we were ever led to believe, and come to know that we are all parts of God, we will far more easily build strong children. Good talk, Ranbir. Love your passionate delivery!
Thank you Funandconsciousness...your words got to the root of our message so very well. I appreciate your support!
thank you for the great message
How wonderful it is!! I really enjoyed it!
Great personal !
It is a wonderful method to educate ourself
Awesome thanks
marvelous
Great speech, great message. Thank you
Victoria Dimitrakopoulos ii
Great ideas, hope we see them in action soon
Wow! Really impressive and useful. Thank you dear Ma'am
Great talk. I enjoyed hearing your story...Speaking from a youths point of view...
Thank you
One amazing video!
She really needs to narrate audio book her voice is so soothing😂
thank you so much for your kind words! I haven’t narrated any books yet but I do have a Podcast called “Living Light Radio”.
I think she sounds out of breath haha it's bugging me
Wow! You are amazing
Awesome teaching ❤
Great video as always.
Wow..... I can relate and it shows why we are in the psychology field ourselves!!!!
Thank you, and keep up the good work. Every person that gets a little help from the collective mission we all have helps in the long run!
Wish there were some strategies taught on how to help kids improve their self image
marijo1013 there is no school of strategy of how to bring up children 👶 but majority of the parents aren’t bad parents unless the parents had mental issue or extreme use of drug substances
very touching.
Very good one
Thank u for the video..
Style class and big hearth in one person !
Just wonderful really liked it!
Thank you for your courage and for following your passion to help lift others
Thank you Louise.
Yay Nanaimo!
Yes :) Love my hometown.
I agree that having a positive self image is paramount, but she missed the key point! An active, engaged dad is the most important contributor to a positive self image.
Look at the numbers kids without active dads fair horribly, especially boys.
We have to empower dads to be there for their kids.
Actidad NOT TRUE....not only boys!
Important for sure but not the key point. But important no doubt
Self image can be made on one's own. Active dads cannot.
Active dads are NOT the key problem.
Loved it!!...thank you!!...
I was one of many people that did not grow up in a way it should have been. It is not easy when you have a life scar, but there are couple things you could do. Forgive, get professional help, and move on.
Her talk was great. But forgot to put in the lesson on how to build stronger children. I could really use this for my 2 daughters right. We are at a critical point and I don't know what to do.😣
Positive self image
I am bigger than this
Life is about connections , your ability to give and receive love
Emmotinal nourishment
0:15 when I was 7 yo
Omg I think this gonna be emotional ....
This was so beautiful, it made me cry.
Same here. ☝️
Thank you Angie and thank you Queen Anne
🤯😭😢
Rengfew collingwood, may I know how to go about receiving training the way you help the children? I am a counselor volunteering at Focus on the family Malaysia. Thank you.
I can be reached at xinxin@family.org.my
I said "i wanna die" at the age of 9, i stop acting like a kid at 12 and im only 14 covered in scars cuz of my family. I had to move schools so my safe place was gone since my family has just gotta worse. Especially my mom since she thinks I'm confused since I say i wanna be a guy and im girl.
I’m praying that God’s peace will envelope you ❤️
I am 33 and have zero self esteem and negative self image.
Fay Taheri thank you for sharing. It’s quite a statement about yourself. I am wondering.. in which behavior does this result? How does this show in your day to day behavior?
What is the root cause of the worsening mental health in children today? Just bad parents who are damaging their children ‘s self image? Are we just becoming worse parents? And what’s the root cause of that?
Is there any Ted talks on children that’s been left behind, My nephew is 19, Both his parents are incarcerated. Yet I have not found any help with helping this child. It frightens me
This must be hard on you. God be with both of you
Please find him professional help / therapy.
So what are the actual advises besides the trampoline analogy?
100% enough cotton wool and masks 🎭 We need to completely overhaul the way we look at caring for ourselves and for our children.
Take this opportunity to learn - grow and pivot.
We need les bullys and really mean people so thing like thing and other thing like sad and dead child.
Haitian
So she remembers her parents wailing when she was born .........
I’m sure this is something she’s been told since day 1
but you are talking about the problem. not the solution.
She does talk about the solution: strengthening children and preventing emotional hurt for them so there are less problems later in life.
Arabic translation please
We'll try to find a way to get the translation. Sorry about that.
Message me if still needed
in the beggining she sounds like a on-call operator lol
Bad speech.. attempt to drive emotions to a different state instead deliver intended content. The emotion manipulator in speech is a weak sign.
it always infuriates me to see people under 21 who are parents... like if you're still a kid you should not rase kids
are you f**** kidding me? so its better to have kids when your 50 and cant take them play in the park cause you get tired on the 5th minute?
tell that to the 23- year old parent of 2 klids who get yelled by them in the super market
oh shut up just because some people suck at it it doesnt mean everyone should wait till their 30/...
why dont you go and get knocked up then? #youjusttalk
douche