7 THINGS A QUEEN CONSCIOUS WOMAN NEVER DOES WITH A MAN
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The video discusses seven things that a queen-conscious woman should never do in a relationship.
Number one, she should never ignore a man's proven character.
Number two, she should never drive the momentum of the relationship.
Number three, she should never trust without verifying.
Number four, she should never commit to potential alone.
Number five, she should never finance a man.
Number six, she should never cater to a man that has not dedicated himself to her.
And number seven, she should never tolerate disrespect.
The speaker emphasizes the importance of queens recognizing their worth and not settling for less in relationships. He also highlights the significance of verifying and observing a man's character and actions before trusting him. The speaker emphasizes that queens should not finance men or cater to them without commitment. Finally, he stresses that queens should demand honor and never tolerate disrespect. The audience is encouraged to attend the Queenology Tour for further insights into queen consciousness.
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I once heard a person say "if a man ask you what you bring to the table...ask him where's the table?"
I had to screenshot this
Good one!!
This is exactly what I needed hear!! Thank you girl!
That part!!!
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This man has changed my life 😢 he is the dad I never had
Kalonne Palma 🙏🙏🙏
Yes he's
Yes
My goodness! He changed mine too
💯♥️❣️❣️ 💁♀️I said that yesterday listening to the video on the Narssassist.. as he was talking and looking into the camera, the eye to eye contact, made me feel the same way, like "Dad' was giving his daughter a heart to heart talk. Great great Man 👌👏👏👏👍♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✨🧘♀️✨😚
- Never drives the momentum of a relationship
- Never trusts without verification
- Never look pass a man's character
- Never allow a man to rush you
- Give a relationship time
- Never commit to potential alone
- Never finance a man. Finance a king when he is down.
-Never cater to a man not dedicated to you
I have to say lm very impressed as this lessons lve heard in Russian psychologist and teachers. And now you. Touche. Not many people teach exact knowledge 🙏🍀💚
So true
A queen demands honour
1. Never ignore a man's poor character.
- Queens do not tolerate DISRESPECT
I literally cried in the 1st few mins of your video, no one taught me these things... I wasted 4yrs, got pregnant and have been taking care of my child with no help from him. please ladies, listen!!! especially if you still young. this will save you a lot of trouble. its sad... but I'm happy now I know, 🙏🙏 be blessed. and Praise Jesus
Me too. I was so teary eyed. I realize July 2021 I wasted shy of 11 years on someone. I lost myself and realize I don't know my self worth. It's time to let go and change
God bless your child.
❤️
I’m 29, single, and no kids..I really appreciate your story and I hear the strong heeding of your words! The “no one taught me these things” and “please ladies, listen!!!” really got me 💘and I will make you proud my sister✊🏽!! I’m so grateful to be on this path of learning my worth from his videos!! God bless!!🙏🏽
I have two kids and he was definitely not worth of 10 years of my life
You don’t even know a man until you’ve seen how he handles anger, stress, and/or loss.
Julie Cousin when his ego is threatened !😳
TRUUUUUUEEEEEE
Very true because a mans anger can scare u away.
I've been placed in situations where I've dated church men and there is no clear distinction..im just learning to love myself and following Matthew 6:33.
Julie Cousin facts
Never lay your body down for a man who has not laid down his life for you.
This is so true ,thanks
Now this is a good comment. The flip side is that women start things seeing things in me I never said I have.
NEVER till married!
I never knew him until the 12th year of our marriage, I got very scared to realize he is a covert nascist. I'm devastated.
Never will I do that til I'm 💍 It's just never fair, sex is just like food to men while it bears morr complications to us women
Where was this man 20 years ago.. this is spot on. It took me decades to learn all of this. I have an amazing husband now but I had to go through so much trash before I got here. Ladles listen.. he is speaking 100% truth.
He had to go , through his trials in order to teach others.I have to gone through it before can teach an touch hearts of others.
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If’s always been here we ignored the information and did what we wanted but I Love Him
“Queens DEMAND honor, queens know what they bring to the table. When a man dishonors a queen,
she BANISHES him from her kingdom.” 💯
😂😂This part is so funny to me
it used to bother me to be dumped when I would not agree to sex..now I realize I have saved myself a lot of heartache
Deborah Phillips yes you have sweetie and frustration. Them niggas would of only given you 5mins worth of pumping and they wouldn’t of given a damn if you had your orgasm or not
Are you happy?
Deborah Phillips....sometimes they don't dump you because you won't give sex, they just harass you about it every time until they wear you down and lay guilt trip on you.....a sign of a player.
Deborah Phillips hey
deborah phillips, yes, i hold out till i see who they are. if it ends at least i did not give any. no sex is the test.
1. Queens never ignore a man's character
2. Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship
3. Queens never trust without verifying
4. Queens give the relationship time
5. Queens never commit to potential alone
6. Queens never trust a man that is not producing
7. Queens never finance a man
8. Queens never cater to a man that is not dedicated to her
9. Queens never tolerate disrespect
10. Queens DEMAND honour
10/10💕💕
Amen
Thank you :-)
Thx😘
It says seven in the title, though. And he also said (1) queens never drive the momentum of a relationship.
Amen
I’m Muslim & still find these videos SO helpful. I am very close with my dad & he gives similar advice so these videos feel so familial.
You are blessed
Same here girl.
@Princess yasssss Sis, my Dad started 👑Queenship conversations with me at age 9, repeated and added more at 13, and still fresh in my mind! Thank You Dad❤RIP
I’m a Muslim too, Pastor’s advice is mind blowing
i can relate...i have the same Dad...and sometimes in the past i forgot about my Dad^s advices...and now i know he was always right. SOOOO powerful!!!!We are all QUEENS!!!!!!
I thought I was too picky, but now that I am looking at his videos I realized that I am a real Queen 👸 and I don’t tolerate any mistake from a supposedly King 🤴
QUEENS.... "Don't Finance A Grown Man" PERIODT!!
I agree and men should under no circumstances finance women. Let em fend for themselves.
@@slardebard Like a Boeing 747 that tip went way over your head lol...
I think everyone should be independent until marriage now if the woman if short on some funds that’s different and vice versa but I ain’t paying no one rent and they ain’t paying mines
@@jksmith9161 let's see if get a tip, I'll bet your men support you one dollar at a time.
Yess! This is so good ❤
“He’s tall & Got muscles AND HE BROKE” 😂😂 so true
Those 1.2k dislikes must be men cause this man told NO lies in this video 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
If they do not dislike then it means it ain’t true so we embrace the dislikes too !
Lmbo! 😆 🤣 😂
@@roinetwork7467 right 😂😂
As a Queen that has been with her King and husband for over 23 years, I second this message FOR REAL!!
I feel like slappin myself across the room. 😑 Done broke every single rule.
I feel the same way
dont feel bad, we all have done this at one time or another.
When you know better; you do better(Maya Angelou)
Me too
Ten la nu emet me too hahahahaha
I made that mistake.. cooking and cleaning doing wifely duties for a boyfriend... 🤦🏾♀️never again!!! always trying to prove to these men that we are wife material!
God bless your heart. The Bible says, why not let yourself be cheated. Just like the old saying two wrongs don't make a right. So you just keep on being a good woman and you'll find that good man eventually. No one said you're going to find a perfect man, but maybe one day you'll find to love the imperfect man.
Keep holding on, keep praying, it's frustrating I know. when you pray be specific on the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Tell God exactly what you want. That actually happened for me because I was very specific to what I wanted. Now I'm getting married in November this year. but by all means it wasn't easy at all and it took a long time and when I met her everything didn't just fall into place. so it's up to us to show God we want it when he does put the right person in your path.
I feel you
Charise L SAME !
Me too... Been there and done that.... twice. Never a third time though. Learnt my lesson on that one x
Yes girl I think a lot of us have been there. But now that we know better, we do better for OURSELVES. Not for a man.
"Trust is not a gift given. It is an honour earned"
Yes.
Now that I'm a new, young woman under Christ, I'm looking for the biblical way to date. I'm not trying to fall again.
Why is wife not talking! Why is he a better women at womenhood than him? I don't bash women not men on social media especially black ones. We have it bad as it is. Vanessa
QUEENS DO NOT TOLERATE DISRESPECT! Amen
MissRhane true that!!! I am only learning to be a queen. On the road from narcissistic abuse. X
Dee Irish I understand
And as QUEENS, we have a very low tolerance for bullshit and excuses. Agreed!
I'm from Argentina. South america. I really like this man's advice. I love it.
I love your words! Better than many I 've heard. You consider areas that nobody talks about. You bring God to your words and that's amazing. I will follow you from now on. I'm from Argentina South America. 😘thank you very very much.
When u choose to be single and work on yourself these messages sink in fr...
shadonna kinney yasss! Single, working of becoming the best version of myself and drama free!
Yes!
shadonna kinney
Yaaaas!
shadonna kinney Absolutely mysistafriend!!!
shadonna kinney Yeeees Sister/Queen! I am single and working on that better even more beautiful version of myself. 💪💪👑👑👑💕💖🙌👏🙏🙏
"Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship....if he's not man enough to drive the relationship, he ain't man enough to maintain that relationship..." 🙏 Thank you for everything you teach and share with the world. Greetings and gratitude from the UK.
“A Queen does not tolerate disrespect” I wish I have have heard this advice 25 years ago at least a yr after getting married. I would not have become suicidal 5 yrs ago. After hearing your advice, it’s the 1st time I hear this beautiful advice almost 1 yr after my ex-husband left me and my 2 children for another woman (after 26 yrs of marriage). Thankfully I have been close to God through this process, and HE gives me strength.
But today is the first time
I understand I already did everything you mentioned a queen does not do 😭. Thankfully I’m still alive, and I’m free from him. I pray God makes a way financially, so I can attend your next retreat.
You have beautiful fatherly advice that all females who don’t have this fatherly figure could use.
I pray any single/divorced female will listen to your advice (myself included) and make any necessary changes. Hopefully what I just shared will also help these women.
Don’t tolerate disrespect in any way, even if you’re married. If you don’t see change in your man, move on. Your life will be better!
More power to u girl 💪❤
It's been a year now. I've been going through my hell with a narcissist husband of 24 years and filed for divorce after our sin graduated from high school in June. How are you doing now?❤️
And because a lack of respect from my ex husband , I got divorce.
Queens never cater to a man who is not dedicated to her 💯
Tavia S What is dedication?
@@thisdudesam4332 Dedication is when the man honors, respects, and values you as the queen you are! If he hasn't laid down his life for you and treats you right, he doesnt deserve you. 💯
@@lioness8456 and what does the QuEnN do for the man? Nag him all day? Tell him to buy her clothes cos she's too lazy to get a job? Being entitled? Calling herself a queen and the house he bought her "kingdom"? You're so entitled and spoiled. Yall want the rights but you don't want no responsibilities. You're gonna end up miserable sooner or later.
@Rankled Alora I'm sure if a guy falls for type of women then he's handicapped.
Facts! Don’t give no man you not married to husband privileges!
I am 43. I had to learn this lessons by making bad moves and paying the price of it. It is ok. It means to me that my soul wasn't evolved enough to hear this wisdom before. We often have to pass through pain to evolve. I feel grateful for the pain that lead me where I am now.
Sir, beautiful channel and great wisdom. Thank you for sharing it.
Well sis you ain’t alone🙏🏾me too.
@@victoria.sandrinha 💗🌺
I’m 49 and finally learning. I wasn’t ready till I was in pain enough to transcend. It’s never too late.
True, blessings ❤
I like how he interacts with his wife during the teachings so she feels included. Just checkin on her. 🤗
1: Queens never ignore a man’s proven character
2: Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship
3: Queens never trust without verifying
(1 John 4:1)
• not gullible
• verify through intentional questions
• give the relationship time
4: Queens never commits to potential alone
(Mark 11:12-14)
• If he ain’t producing his potential: leave him on the elevator
5: Queens never finance a man
(2 Thessalonians 3:11)
• the only man a queen will finance is her King: TEMPORARILY, if he’s down (with provisions)
• never finance unproven men
• only finance your sons, through teaching him how to take care of a woman
6: Queens never cater to a man that’s not dedicating himself to the woman
(Ephesians 5:22)
• don’t give wifely duties to an undedicated man
7: Queens never tolerate disrespect
(1 Peter 3:7)
• Queens demand honor
#4 is legit
Always be a QUEEN ladies ✨❤ Thank you for this. I'm 17 and I'm going to start being a Queen at an early age. 👑
Nikki Consciously living your life with God/Higher power as your everything definitely makes a Queen out of one. I find that I think of and treat myself as one more and more each day and my connection to God is definitely my source in this. God is such beautiful love! Let us blend ourselves with Him and He in turn makes gods and goddesses out of us for loves glory
nonnz njau So true. God bless you
CoachingChosenOnes Amen💜 and you too❤💜
So happy for you young lady, God bless you for taking this decision.😘
Lucky you. Please don't forget to think on these teachings over and over. Life circumstances can make you forget sometimes.
MY ALL TIME FAVORITE VIDEO EVER!!! I've been celibate for 12 years because of these principles and teachings since my hubby died. My mother and father taught me these principles. I made the mistake of dating a childhood friend (after my husband died) who turned out to be a "false image of a godly man." He taught me so many lessons/things that I should not have done. Mainly, I should not have veered from my parents' and late husband's teachings and examples.
GOD BLESS YOU...😇
KEEP TEACHING THESE TRUTHS! They're not antiquated teachings... their truth!🙏🏽
After 44yrs of getting it all so wrong, I finally understand my worth. I have given of myself with love in my heart, without knowing the truth.
Thank you Father, for sharing these videos. I am ever the student willing to learn. I love myself more and more each day. I respect myself by setting boundaries. Thank You Jesus for all You did and still do for me. I am eternally Yours Lord and You are mine. I love You Lord and offer my humble gratitude for Your guidance and Protection. Sending all my beautiful family, all over this planet and those in Spirit, my unconditional love, light and blessings. 🙏✌️💖✨🤗🥰
"Most men are lying..." hahaha. The funny thing is some guys don't realize they are lying. Then they act like you are the mean one for seeing through them.
I know
Story of my life with my husband every day.
I could’ve used this advice 20 years ago. Parents sit down and let your daughters watch this. 👸
Same here
Oooh same!!!
Ditto!!!
And the sons needs to watch this too. All of these biys running around who get mad when a girl rejects. This can hopefully explain why and help them change to become better men.
I do agree with you. These young girls running around with their cheeks hanging out their pants and wonder why men don't respect them. Moms raise your girls to be ladies and dads raise your boys to be gentlemen.
15 years ago for me
Currently doing the inner work in myself and these teachings are pure gold. ❤
Absolutely! “Never cater to a man that didn’t claim you as wife” period!!! Invaluable lesson we women should listen learn and apply!
When a man dishonours a Queen she banishes him from the kingdom.
This is unfruitful and ungodly idolatrous talk.
You are not a Queen and you have no Kingdom. If you're not married to the first man you had sex with then get on your face and repent.
See how much my last sentence lacked in grace?
This is NOTHING compared to the heresy and wickedness this man is talking, and which is being embraced by the women watching, and the accompanying hubris and delusion thereof.
That Brotha Pedat .....Go ahead. Because it looks like you may be the wolf in sheep's clothing and mad that Pastor Blakes is putting the daughters up on game... and oh yeah, BE BANISHED, sir.!!👑📤
@@mb5857 LOL
amaka ike yes💯
@@brotha_pedatMost women live in a fantasy so dont pay them no mind bro. Its levels to this relationship stuff but these women are letting the wrong things get to their heads.
A lot of women say that's why single women are single-because a lot of them don't allow men to disrespect them. They also have standards about who they date.
D D I rather be alone than settle for less than what I deserve. Women know I worth. This why these men out here running rampant without respecting us. Smh!!!
Jam Onit Amen 🙏
DD uou are so right. 🙏😍
Yep.
I've been single 25 years because I wont tolerate BS, Games, Drama or disrespect From men or anyone.
•Queens don't ignore the signals & signs.
•Queens don't drive the momentum of a relationship.
•Queens trust after they verify.
•Queens give the relationship time.
•Queens never commit to potential ALONE.
•Queens never finance an unproven man.
•Queens don't lay their body down without the man laying their life down first.
•Queen never tolerate disrespect.
BONUS
•Queens demand honor.
Queens don't cater men.
I wanted to take the time and express my gratitude for this man.
Growing up I didn’t have a father to understand these things and I am so blessed that I have come acrosss your channel as it has guided me to become closer to God and know my worth.
You are a wonderful man, and a great Spiritual Father anyone can ask for. Thank you.
Ladies, dont you just love his videos?
Live Higher Woman! Thank you. 😂😂😂 Not all of them- SOME OF THEM HATE ME. 😂😂😂
Robert Blakes the truth hurts.
I love his videos. #wisdom
Live Higher Woman! I love his videos. He gives the advice a father would give.
Live Higher Woman! First video!
I’ve got a lot to learn. From a door mat to a queen type of lady ...
“Potential is Not the same as being fruitful “ 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
“Because potential without corresponding character is equal to no potential “ . Wow . Wow. Wow. Way to sum up what has been my biggest lesson reaching age 30 in such a perfect powerful statement ! I LOVED this video, just discovered you , you have gained another subscriber.
"I think you got off on the wrong floor" PREACH and TEACH, dear brother!
The 990 dislikes are the clowns in crowns lol 😂😂
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like putos
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😂😂😂 RiiiGHT!!
My God I wish I had a man in my life that taught me these things when I was younger. It would have saved me a lot of unnecessary pain.
I’m a Hebrew Israelite woman, and even in my church they don’t teach this information. But I now know these things and I’m always speaking out as a woman and letting them know that just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean God won’t and can’t use me in his ministry. There are a lot of Israelite men who are BROKEN and they hold women down because of their brokenness, but I’m proud to say I’m not one of these women who can be held back or down.
That right there 💞
Alot
@Iashuan Jones well said is a shame we have to go through so much pain before we learn
It’s ok. Self compassion.
I wish my dad taught me this growing up! Would’ve saved me a lot of heartache!
I’ve been IGNORANT even in my 50s until now I’m 63 now. It makes so much sense now, no wonder they never committed no matter how nice I’ve become
I wish I had known this years ago, I was so ignorant and I'm almost ashamed to admit that, but I'm growing into a Queen now 👑💕
Yes ma'am.... I have had several types of circus clowns in my life but the lady I am today.... Don't even try it!!!
Don't feel bad because I was a fool and naive but thanks be to God for Pastor Blake allowing God to use him to help us!
Right me too. But we had to learn
Yep me too.
Don't stress over it. You now know better.
"POTENTIAL DON'T PAY THE LIGHT BILL'!!! This guy makes so much sense 👏👏👏
Yes the dont
This part made me LOLOL
My dad was diagnosed with cancer when I was 11 and died when I was 14. I never had spiritual leaders as men take one on one time with me or really help develop me as the God-fearing woman I was meant to be. Some of my most crucial years I was running from coping with the pain and loss of my Dad and ran to all the wrong things and people. So thankful God lead me to you! Thank you for helping women of all ages! ❤🙏
Sorry about your dad darling. I hope you cope well and I wish you happiness❤️❤️
When a man dishonors a Queen, she banishes him from the kingdom!
Yes sir!!! No time for disresepect. #LoveMyselfMoreThanThat
Man I was a Queen early but ppl said I thought to highly of myself...23 years later, I'm coming back to her. Praise God. Trust God. Trust yourself.
Shakita J ..because they thought to low of themselves
Shakita..Im very disturbed that I too..when younger..knew my worth and value -- and lost sight of that..
Life teaches us through experience comes wisedom - I don't understand how I could have moved backward through the decades..
HONEY!!!! YES!
Shakita J the enemy wants us to believe our standards are too high and we’re being too much! Don’t believe the hype. I too did some things I regret but to God be the Glory those mistakes taught me to continue to fight for what I believe I deserve. And what make it so bad it’s nothing more than wanting my husband to be the MAN in every area. Not just the bedroom.
I have taken back my Queen status, and it's wonderful. I had forgotten. 👑
Sonia Dawson same here sister
You are going to reap the rewards of Queen status! 👸
Enjoy yourself, your majesty!!! Your royal highness. : )
Yes yes goddess queen
Sonia Dawson yes! Sometimes we just go through so much we forget. Nothing wrong with it because we acknowledged it. Congrats to all the Queens who took back their status!! We will reign beautifully.
My kids dad said to me 20 years ago that he was looking for someone to help him .I finally realized what he meant and our marriage is officially over and I have moved on. I also was tired of being the leader in the marriage.
Thank you so much. I am turning 50. I feel like this confirms how I am and feel. I was single almost 7 yrs cause I wont tolerant anything less than Queen level treatment. I am a business owner. I am not giving $ to no man. New guy is treating me like a queen too. Thank you .
Wish my father had set me down and had this talk with me at 16
Linda Flynn me too yet hey most parents don’t know
Same here, it would have saved a lot of heartache. ❤️
Me too. I have an amazing father but he never really told me about men and how men are.
Exactly same here. But what we can do is teach the generation to come in Jesus name!
Linda Flynn right
I never had a father figure. I appreciate you sharing your words.
God bless you Xx
Thank you for teaching me. I was on the wrong path and now I am listening and working towards being a queen.
I've grown up a lor with your teachings. Went on my first date in 3 years. I Havre the knowledge and strength to keep my crown
Update.we are getting married! He's such a great grounded man
@@oldmedicinecrow congratulations!!
@@oldmedicinecrow congrats sis! So happy for you may I be blessed well , the crown is on and never coming off 👸💜
Queens Do Not Finance Men!!Amen
Tracie Darthard So sad I can't like more than once!!
Tracie Darthard Amen, so many women doing the opposite in these days, that These men ask you out and tell you to pay for first date. Not this queen. lol
I refuse to finance a man...
*"QUEEEENS NEVER FINANCE A MAN!!!!"*
*Say it again, brotha Blake, for the chicks in the back!!!!*
It's CORNROWS, NOT french-braids! for the chicks in the back lol
ab de *Wait, WHAAAAT???!!!*
*Boy/girl, BYE!*
-u MUST be one of these soft millenial dudes -OR one of these new-age females, who doesnt know her worth
ab de
Aaand how does *"BIGOTED"* fit into this equation anyways lol????
I aint gonna roast u on this positive page, but learn yo words plz
It's CORNROWS, NOT french-braids! .....@16:06 .....I LOST IT!!! ROTFLMAO😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥
@@mb5857 😂😂😂 ikr??
He right tho!
"Clown in a Crown" 😂 So many women Need to hear this!
Can we talk about not financing an emotionally and spiritually broke clown in a crown, with his addictions and escape tactics?!
I've broken all 7 of the Queen Rules and one point and time in life just to have someone. I have new outlook and will follow all 7 Rules.
Go for it my sista. I pray that you find your king.
True
So have I but I'm more conscious now and will wait on my King!
me too sis aue praise God thats over!!! ✝️😊✊🏾
It's been years ago but I still feel sick about how I allowed myself to be treated. Lord please free my mind and help me to forgive myself.
My now struggle....feeling my worst cause I allowed this man to mistreat me as I settled for a wasted 10 years
My dad always called me a queen. I'm thankful for this great advice referring to honoring our divine nature. 💗
I watch you on CZcams and you’ve taught me so much! As a woman who is dating after a long marriage, I’m learning to be a queen. Thank you so much for your ministry.
I don't have an earthly dad; I needed this so badly. I am crying.
It's ok dear a lot of us didn't ...so now you know and pick up from here and be the true Queen you are designed to be ...help others as well ..bring them to this channel and let them drink of living waters
Queens Demand Honour !!!!!.yes sir!!!! Banished if not from The Kingdom ...Amen!!!!
Hugs
I was thinking the same thing! The advice I need to hear.
I had a lovely dad but he died when I was 15 and we never had these conversations
all these 27 years i thought i was being too crazy/high standards out here, turns out i was acting in my Queenly right, just didnt know it. HUH! Thank you so much for this, brother.
jvnic3 I said the same thing... I'm like am I too hard on myself
jvnic3 sammmmeeee here! I knew I was different.. most men swear I’m stuck up... no sweetie I just know what I want.
Go queen!!
"Your little broke Clown in a Crown!!!"😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️😩🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️😩😩🤣🤣
I appreciate my grandma and grandpa for giving me this knowledge…I’ve been telling my girls this and my son!!!
A man that finds a wife finds a good thing!!! Come on Jesus you are teaching!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Men are hard to read. Your man might be hiding something. But it’s not what you think. Are you overlooking his cry for help? t.co/MTPSR5qOxf
"You bringing all the fruit to the table and he bringing potential." Done 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ shame on me
I only cry if i think of my past wandering
Paule Samedi so true
😂😂😂 you're bringing all the fruit.
Wish I had been introduced to your Ministry before now. Thank you so much for willingly speaking into the lives of women and men! This is so needed.
Me and my boyfriend have decided to give each other space so he can work on himself and manifest his potential lol i need to watch this every week to remind myself to expect nothing less!!
Nothing wrong with that sis, if he is truly working on himself. I am actually going through this exact thing. There is a lot at play to keep black boys from becoming men, and it's been working for a long time now. We are at war spiritually, mentally, and physically. He will need to meditate, workout/exercise, practice abstinence, and eat healthy. That is just a start but, it will help him. As a black man we are behind on everything in life because of the minorities that run the world. We are perishing because of the lack of knowledge. Look up Dr. Ray Hagins I promise he will change your life. Also look up the conspiracy to keep black boys from becoming men. Much Love and I hope this brother get his mind right.
I told my man the same thing. Im giving him space to figure out what he needs. Im staying strong.
I’ve been single for 3 years , going to church and improving myself. It’s sooo had to find a date yet alone discern a man to qualify thru all this. Lord have mercy, God bless us.
I committed to potential in a prior relationship, like a dummy lol I once was lost, but now I’m found 😩 Was blind, but now I see 🙌🏾
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Come on now
That makes two of us. Recipe for disaster.
And I’m found found.
Same here,I'm so embarrassed about my naivety then. Thank God who opened my eyes I left him
I feel like a damn fool doing this for my ex! You are speaking to me straight up! I'm moving into this Queen Royalty right now 😌
The devil looks good on paper🔥
"CLOWN IN A CROWN"!!!
I almost hollered.😲🙊🤭
Gurrrrrllll!!!!! AMENNN! LOL
I clutched the pearls.
Yes LAWD! Preach, I bout fainted on that one!! I have seen this so many times, women happy just to have a piece of a man😂😂 and let's not forget RC: "Lee, does potential pay light bills in here?" Linda: "Naw Naw sweety." They are too cute...
😂😂😂 I did holler lol
BROKE clown in a crown! I hollered in the gym 😄😄
"Yo lil' clown in a crown" 👑 so sad but true! I know women over 40 supporting grown men financially, but I've never understood how you even respect him as the head of your household. A piece of a man is WORSE than no man, remember that QUEENS!! 👑 ❤
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I found this video shortly after I ended a relationship. It's such a relief to see you put my reasons for ending that relationship in such a clear and precise manner that I couldn't have been able to do. God bless you sir. I am reassured that I made the right decision because it would have been a culmination of disaster to live with a man as husband and be so disappointed every day in his character and inertia to manifest his potentials.
Thank u so MUCH Pastor Blake's. You are helping me SOOO much a fifty year old single/mom white woman. I THINK you are doing GODS work. WE need to spread this news to my TEEN daughters generation. A man must EARN a woman to be able to love and respect her. hope you agree. Love you and Miss Lisa
Things we must share with our daughters.
Brother you are speaking truth I love it you have encouraged me deeply
The boomer generation truly did drop the ball. We now have two generations of men and women who don’t know the basics anymore.
Asa Moore share this with our sons as well !!! They need to hear this too !
Where did women think financing a man was love? I learned at an early age that a man is suppose to provide for a woman when my stepfather married my mom with 8 kids that weren't his They had one together making it 9 kids and my stepfather worked and took care of all us including his grandkids until he died. From that learning experience I don't finance men and have a good man in my life that is a provider.
Wow! You truly experienced a REAL man, so rare these days! I have 4 babies with my husband, but God forbid he leaves I still aint worried about another King finding me! Queens are good women that never have to stress about a man. She's a prize, babies and all. 👑 Blessings to you and your family! ❤ 💪
Now that's a real man. Same thing with my grandad (my mom's stepdad) He married my grandmother when she had 4 kids by a man and a 5th child by another man. She had her 6th with him. She didn't have to work but never went without....always had whatever she needed/wanted. Took care of the kids. My mom is the oldest (61now). I've never seen my grandparents disrespect each other. She passed last year and my grandad told the grown children pick whatever casket you want, real flowers, etc The funeral was beautiful...it hurted to see the tears flowing down his face cause he loved her....That's the kind of man we deserve ladies....
I pray that never happen to my son!
I agree👍
That I feel is awesome! Looks like you found your king !
A friend of mine sent me this link and I subscribed to your channel. I love your teaching on this. Women need to hear this every single day and stop believing the lies that's blocking their eyes. This right here is such a deep message, conversation, teaching, you name it. All women of ages, sizes and skin color need to hear this. This is so real, so true, so important, so deep, so plain, so on point. Thank you for sharing, God bless you!
I'd forgotten men like you exist. You've given me hope and strength. How blessed must your daughter be to learn from such a man. Thank you uk
A queen does not finance a man!!! 🙌🙌🙌
I did it my entire 13 year marriage. In the end, he left me for a woman 15 years younger and married her. He now lives with his wife and new baby in the downstairs of his parents house. Learned my lesson for next time around. Queen conscious 👑
Honey..He was A Narcissist an opportunist...And did tht to make you jealous!! & if you have no children with him Even more of a BLESSING to you!! So y'all have no ties! You didn't have the knowledge back then, now you do. I hope you receive healing for what you've endured💕Peace, Love & Light...These are Demonic spirits trying to deter Us Children Of God from our true purpose..Sad, but True!
She doesn't have your man, she has your problem. You should be glad she took him off your hands!!!
She'll be treated the same exact way that's why he had get someone younger to train her and tear her down
Sounds like my ex husband!!
Finally. A man speaking truth about relationships that does not hurt, devalue, or underestimate women. Much respect!
Kanika W I agree ☝🏻
Praise God
Kanika W Right that's why I'm listening now..
I love this! Men have to be complete with no spoiled fruits. If they're no producing, they're not fit to marry. This isn't about being a gold digger. This is a matter of spiritual, financial, emotional life and death.
You seriously have an incredible gift of deep gift, I've been in therapy for years, and I've gotten more mental health healing in several months watching you. You give excellent God given solomon wisdom!! Praise God for you!!
-"Potential don't pay the light bill."
RC Blake's message 100/100
Lol.
"Never lay your body down to a man that has not laid his life down for you!" That is the word! You are a blessing to the women in the body of Christ Pastor Blakes. Our lives will completely change for the better once we begin to practice that admonishment.
Regina, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I agree with your interpretation as well. So grateful for Pastor Blakes. The way you worded your message is beautiful.
Really grateful to gave stumbled upon your teachings. I was always trying to drive the relationship forward to absolutely NO AVAIL!
So frustrating, draining, heartbreaking and SAD.
This video is my favorite. I listen to it every 2 to 3 weeks to keep reminding myself. Thank you so much RC Blakes ♥️🌻🙏🏽
Right on brotha! Teach the Queens. Only the ones that are equal will understand your language.
William Palmer Ameem
amen.... I agree
I'm equal in respect. However, as a female I do love my gentle side. I don't like having to push for respect. Nah.
William Palmer Thank you. Some don’t get it.
Indeed.
The Queen is also the most powerful piece on the chessboard!
Wendy O Who created the game?
Wendy O 💪💝💝🙏🏿💝
Sammy Torres It’s African
That's Right....
It originated in India
I appreciate your wisdom on this subject! I see things differently. You have given me what I missed growing up and I thank God for the points I have always implemented and the characteristics of a real love.
This man has made so much sense in half an hour, WOW!!