HOW TO BUILD YOUR FEMININE ENERGY by RC Blakes
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HOW TO BUILD YOUR FEMININE ENERGY by RC Blakes
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I'm in my healing season. No dating, no social media. Just journaling, spending time with family and self. I'm working on healing my childhood trauma so I can become the best version of myself.
Love and light to you on your journey. I’m praying for you and rooting for you. Proud of you for doing the work to become a better you. 🥰
Awesome!!!
Same
Ohhhh I am in a healing season but never thought of no social media…thanks for that!!!!
SAME SIS KEEP GOING IM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU💕💕💕💕
-begin to work on you
-learn how to be a wife before you meet the man
-heal from the traumas that separates you from your femininity (therapy, prayer, self focus)
-intentionnaly develop feminine habits
-speak with gentle voice
-train yourself to relax and calm down
-manage your sexuality with honor (your body, your dress code, you on your social media
-communicate your worth through your non negotiable standards.
Love you
I just love this ❣️
Being a feminine woman is very precious and highly valued ❣️🤩
💯💯💯💯💯💣💣💣💣💣💥💥💥🙌🏿👐🏿🙌🏿👐🏿Amen and Amen!!!!
Been working on my homework as a single queen🥰😇
I am aspiring to be a PROVERBS 31 WOMAN🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿Halleujah!!! Thanks Bishop RC Blakes for my orders from God!! God bless you and family🤗💯💯💯
Thank you for taking the time to jolt down all the key points grateful 🙏🏾
''Never lay your body down for a man who has not laid down his life for you''~~RC Blakes Jr
Wow, wow..... if only ladies believed in their self worth & self respect & serious care needing only qualified men who prove themselves to her that way.
If most women believed if one man isn't the one God had the right one coming, so no need to be thirsty, impatient or wrongly settle for a user of her & will disappoint her & harm the marriage cause she held no correct real standards he knew he had to respect to keep her from the start.
Period period PERIOD
One more time PERIOD
And in this day and age how can a man lay down his life for a woman?
and that's on Titanic
I Didn't Lose My Feminity To A Man. I Grew Up In A Household With A Masculine Single Mom. Having Feelings In General Was Like A Crime. No Hugs, No I Love Yous, No "It's Gonna Be Okay", No "Mistakes Happen", No Emotional Support, No Interest In What Made Me Happy. Basic Needs Went Unmet And I Had To Learn To Be A Woman On My Own , At A Very Young Age. By Adulthood, All I Knew Was Strength. When Masculinity Is All You Know, Becoming Feminine Seems So Out Of Reach. It's Very Hard Emotionally, But I WILL Get In Touch With My Divine Feminine.
Yes.You.Will Just don't give up! 🙂
My story is very similar, but I'm working on it daily.
@@whewchile9818 I've Come To Realize That It Kinda Happens Naturally When You Meet A Strong Man.
@@sauceupwithsammie477 well, in my case, thats been an issue. Moral less, soft, unsure men. I wanna be comfortable being soft. I wanna retire this superwoman cape so badly.
I can relate. However, being soft can be learned indeed. Keep practicing it.
I have always enjoyed being a woman, and being a feminine woman. What I notice a lot through my life experience is that women having to be out of the home out there struggling to make ends meet it drains the feminine energy. It just does. I’ve been both a SAH woman and a career woman. I feel like this is hardly talked about.
I agree.
So agree with you.
That's true.
True💯💯
So true & you are very right about this subject.
It's not talked about enough & how working out side the home & then more so when a woman gets home is what saps & takes much energy from the woman & it is a extra stress builder & more tiresome to her body & mind!!@
In ways women do more actions than the man including pregnancy & men sweep it under the rug & don't do all this them selves in most cases!!!!! FACTS
Marriage should not be the end of me. It should be the birth of we! Powerful!!
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Amazing!
This! How we often get lost in a marriage. May God help us to maintain our identity as the powerful beings we are.
Fenomenality…if you know you are trouble -woman,if You look for trouble -man 🇵🇪🇦🇹
“Masculine fights, feminine walks away. Feminine says ‘Not today.’” Thank you for this reminder you’re always just in time with them
I loved that statement …I’m learning this at 30 ..I have been pulling up all my life and I’m just tired of that people get on my nerves and Im learning to just block and walk away
Yesssssssssssss!!!!
I tried this the other day and he followed me around the house still talking bad about me 😢
"When you make yourself what you're trying to attract God will raise up somebody that's suitable for you" RC.B
“Most men need a man cave. I don’t need one, my wife makes my whole house a cave” - RC Blakes……. I KNOW THATS RIGHTTTT🗣🗣🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯
Love it
So cute ☺️
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👑
A word!!❤️
Thats what I’m talking about!!🎯
My tone never changes at home or work. I’m an administrator and I speak with calmness and nurturing is my leadership style. It works very well. My male staff caters to me and have no problem with me being their leader. I had to learn to do this. I was once very masculine and didn’t know it.
Grt one 🙏🙏
What teachings did you undertake sis?
Ditto!
Heal from past trauma from men, sons and friends!!!! 📌How many women are in their masculine because we’re out here fighting to survive 💡
This!!
Right
Yes, The very essence of my feminine has been fractured and i never knew until I turn 40. Not married no kids. I suffer from trauma. My father operated from feminine profile. I grew up with him abusing my mom never giving her money, he never gave me anything and he hated me since a Lil girl. which made me masculine. It took for me to be celibate now 2 years to heal from everything. Im still healing. This discussion is triggering me because its true and I wish I knew this in my 20's. I feel like I need so much work I will be single forever. I really thank God for Bishop Blakes he really help me during these times.
@@LisaCPerry ❤
@@LisaCPerry Your comment made me sad! I couldn't imagine thinking a parent could HATE me! 😪
"Sometimes the most feminine thing a woman can do is to walk away from a dishonorable man." Whew! It took me a while to understand this. I'm still learning that I am a woman worth being cherished by a good, godly man. A woman knowing her worth and trusting God to bring a man into her life that will cherish her is worth it. Witnessing a woman being able to lean back and allow a good man to pursue, seems to be rare nowadays, but it's such beautiful thing. I believe that God is able to do exceeding, abundantly above all we could ask or think! I trust Him to allow that kind of man to find me!
Yes! I did this. Still healing but proud of myself. I desire to be cherished and valued the way God and I do.
You will have a gentle
Well said. Amen 🙏🏽😇
Amen. Me2
Yes yes yes yes
“Honor is the seed, submission is the fruit 🍌 🍎 🍉 if a man does not sow a seed of honor he should never expect the fruit of submission. The natural reaction to masculine honor is feminine submission” ✍🏽
WE'LL Paster R.C. Blakes, "WE," FEMININE WOMEN 👂 👂 THAT !" PEACE & L O V E! 😂😍🌞
I want to thank you for that, comment. I am really getting Great seeds of sound doctrine to plant in the place of the toxic, corrupt seeds that was once there in my Heart. The word says once you have cleaned the house you must then Fill the house with something else better than what you just got rid of or those same foul spirits will come back and bring other foul spirits with them and over take the house. I just want you to know it is good that l find myself in this place, of needing to grow and mature. Than You so much.
Honor is the seed,honor is the fruit
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Well said
“A broken heart is usually attracted to the same thing that broke it.”
I pray to not attract what has broken me.
Yes, that's why I had two very broken marriages and now it's my time 💕 to move forward.
"If a man has no vision, it means the woman has no purpose in that man's life!" That hits deep and everything you've said is absolute Truth, from feminity to masculinity, flipped roles to being an complete person. Somehow I knew all these things years ago in my heart/soul before deciding to finally end my marriage that wasn't a marriage God ordained from the start, it lacked the proper foundation, but had an unhealthy attachment. I've learnt to heed the voice of God and move accordingly going forward and now everything in my life is aligning with the Master's plan and purpose😉
Convince me this guy's convince me this guy's for real
GOOD 4 YOU, Angela! GOD KNOWS EACH OF OUR 💝💝💝& GIVES WHAT EACH OF US NEED! PEACE & 💘! 💝😍🌞
Thank you for your truth, I need this reply. 🙏🏽❤️
Same here . Walking through it now. I asked 2 years in a row what is the vision and there is none.
I’m with you.
Ladies, this is so true. Don't settle for a man that won't take the lead, it does force you into masculine energy. I hated it, but decisions had to be made and someone had to step up Or it felt like we would crash and burn. I actually told him several times, "I'm The Girl!!!" and "I don't want to lead." It's the most uncomfortable, miserable feeling. Like being a square peg forced into a round hole. Be in your feminine and Wait on a masculine man, they are so worth the wait. ❤❤❤
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"Non-negotiable standards" 💯 You must stand by them. Every time you don't, they'll lose respect for you.
Amen!
I enjoy living in my feminine energy. Classy wins all the time, some women dislike me for being classy. I know my worth and will never settle for less. Thanks pastor for this video x
And dont beautiful God sees you.
Amen
Virtual hi five classy/ sophisticated women will always be on top
Why would you dislike them for that.
I agree with everything you are saying 💯
Dear pastor RC Blakes I'm a 60yrs Hispanic lady in Tucson Ariz. I've been alone and abstinent since 2015, I feel to old at my age because men love youth. If only I could have known about such teachings at a younger age, I feel so broken inside. Please pray for me for deliverance of addiction and Pain in my body and mind. Trauma has been my life because of cruel men who I allowed to abuse me. Thinking I deserved it, my heart is sinking and I'm all alone in this world. All my friends are dead and all my brothers to, No parents either since I was very young when they died. God bless you all
Don't despair @Isabel. You are not alone. The God in the day time is still looking God in the night time (Linda Randall, "The God on the Mountain is still God in the Valley". Look it up here on CZcams. It will bless you ) I will pray for you.🙏
🌵 praying for you!
All things are possible thru Christ who gives us strength. Seek and turn to God...therein lies peace, healing, wholeness, unconditional love, wisdom and alllll u need to heal yourself first. If having a Godly man is what you desire, become that first. Heal yourself first. ASK GOD to prepare you for the man you desire. God's word never fails. HE LUVS US UNCONDITIONALLY.
God bless u sis🙏💖🙏
Sending lots of love your way Ms. Isabel ❤️
Sending you lots of love!!! Jesus is the answer
Thank you for stating, “ a man who does not sew the seed of honor should not expect the fruit of submission”. This was a sticking point for me.
Soo true 👍
AMAZING
There is such strength in femininity because it's basically going against all that society tells us to be as women. We're told to think of our bodies as something other than sacred, to control men, and to lower our value in the process. Wishing the best for all of you on this journey called life!
Thank you❣all the best to you to Precious🕊🎶🌹
This! I never realized how much society tells WOMEN to be everything but FEMININE...the very essential part of what it means to be female. Yet we sit and wonder why some women can't get a man....partly because SHE has become one!
Glory to God we are waking up and remembering it is a blessing to be a woman. To love the art of femininity ❤️
Agreed!
Back at ya hun!
Wish I found u in my 20's, now 39 single mother of 2, but hey never too late to learn. My daughters will listen, they will not repeat my life
You are still there and raising your girls and that's being responsible and also good 👍😊 for them to learn. I don't know if you ever got a lawyer to have child support but you & the girls are legally entitled.
Today if women & ones of color have standards for a quality, responsible, caring , family man 👍♂️ who works - helps provide - protect you and your girls can come in with the open minded woman ♀️👠😍 who isn't just waiting on just a black 🖤 man 👞♂️.
Black 🖤❤️💐 🌹 women out number Black 🖤 men by about 2 in a half Million to 3 Million women in numbers 🔢. Professor Banks , is a Black 🖤❤️ 👞♂️ man 💪 🤓🦉 who did a STUDY & wrote a book 📚 about this fact. He also said it puts Black 🖤❤️ women at greatest horrible disadvantage with dating 💋 & 💍💒 marriage if waiting only for the low number of Black men with too many choices, as time passes by . Many Black 🖤 men 💪 😮 are not financially prepared to get married and may not 🚫 get married, but just have affairs & kids.
Millions of men around the world 💗🌍🎉😂who could date, respect love honor 🥰 marry you 💍💒 single moms.
Professor Banks said his study proved men of other CULTURES FOUND BLACK 🖤❤️ WOMEN MORE 🌺🌹 👑💖👀🤔 🙏😂 ATTRACTIVE 🌺 & DESIRABLE ,THEN
MANY OF THE BLACK 🖤 MEN DID. OTHER MEN ALSO MARRY WHO THEY DATE 📅🌹 💍 AS REGULAR LOVE 😘 CHOICE ❤️😅& COMMITMENT IN THEIR CULTURE .
🙏❤ BLESSINGS OF GOD IN ABUNDANCE 🎉🎉TO YOU AND YOUR PRECIOUS 💕 CHILDREN 🚸.
KEEP GOOD STANDARDS TO QUALIFY ANY MAN & GET GOD'S GUIDANCE APPROVAL & PRE COUNSELING WITH THE RIGHT 👍 MAN 🙏 ❤️❤️ IS WISE 🦉 AND HELPS !!!!
So amazing, so right. I was in a relationship for 3 years acting all masculine and suffering. Now in my new relationship, I’ve been cultivating my femininity and acting like a wife, and sure enough a year and a half in and we’re talking about our next steps. 🙏🏼💍
God Bless you ❤
Congrats!! 🍾🎈🎉🎊 I’m so proud of you!!!!!
@@April-tn7zz You’re so sweet! 🙏🏼😽
That wasn't the one for you. That was an imposter.Congrats on your marriage.
Congrats sis.
What I need to work on: 1. Heal from the trauma that separates you from your femininity; 2. Only entertain men who are masculine enough to accommodate all of you; 3. Intentionally develop feminine habits (wait for the man to lead, speak with gentle tones, learn to relax and calm down; 4. Manage your sexuality with honour; 5. Communicate your worth through your non negotiable standards.
6. Get your self worth from God .
7. End general curses and to bring up your family in the Lord .
Thank you
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“When you make yourself what you’re trying to attract, God will raise up somebody that will be suitable for you” 😏
I needed this message! I have neglected myself my entire life. I leave the house in t-shirts and sweatpants and then feel bad when I see someone dressed up while I'm there looking crazy. 😩 I will be intentional about giving myself the proper care and attention.
Get some folks that love you to hold you accountable to do so because it's too easy to backslide on your own words since this has been a habit/lifestyle for you. Perhaps hang around women that dress up on a regular and then it may be easy for you to assimilate. It's a step in starting to better love yourself.
God bless
@@alwaysforever2540I don't have many friends so that is definitely some advice I'm that I'm going to take. Thank you!
I have the same situation and the same goal! I'm praying for you sis. This is our time to level up and take care of ourselves as well as our business ❤
@@jasminebryant4772 Yes, we got this! 💪🏽
Start with positive affirmations
You are the wisest man on any channel, your wisdom truly blows me away, thank you so much Pastor Blakes💕
Thank you. This is so kind of you to say. 🙏🏽
You’re most welcome.. this world is richly blessed to have you.. God has given us such a great man to spread his word. Truly blown away, you have added incredible value to my life. We also need your on a channel on Television so that so many more women can benefit from your wisdom. You will be the biggest success and most beloved in the history of television. You are a rich representation and tribute to your wonderful parents, bless them . God bless you, your wonderful strong beautiful wife Lisa and your beautiful children. ❤️
I agree💯💯
Yes - he's one of stable my "go tos" especially from a Biblical viewpoint. Recently speaking with a colleague about a new relationship I noticed some red flags, but she was dismissive of them. I found my self questioning her based on the principles shared here (and my other Biblical relationship channels).
I So Agree! God has given Pastor RCBLAKES A Great Biblical and Spiritual Knowledge to share and encouragement. Knowledge through the Spirit of God!!!!!
As a licensed clinical therapist I approve this message ❤😂
I love being a woman 💕
I became aware of the feminine energy concept about 6 months ago, and it has changed my outlook. I work at a military university, teaching/tutoring military officers from all over the world. I'm good at my job, but I DO NOT lead with masculine energy. I am determined to be kind, patient, understanding, and nurturing towards my students. The stakes are high for them, and they need these qualities.
Preach Pastor. I identify with that statement about trauma causing one to lose femininity. That’s profound. Had to write that one down.
Yeah because that experience makes a women think about how can she protect her self from now on & that's considered masculine actions to a degree.
How to be safe & be feminine & trust being safe in life is a serious balance needing wisdom to apply 🙏 well to a ladies life today!!!
Your right good point.
I know ladies who say they dress masculine as they do so they won't get sexually assaulted or physically hit or harmed because of looking feminine to the coward in their family or on the street. They don't want male attention as a women any more cause it harmed them & they are in affect blaming them self & their female dressing habits & its nor true, it's truama!!!!!
I just explained this to someone
This is so so true. The more I learn about connecting to my feminine side the more I realize I was already like this with the exception of my boundaries. We don’t lose it we disconnect from it. We are always complete, we have to do the work to dig deep and re love ourselves.
Yes and it's so important to know Christ as your husbandman first and foremost. Because He's the best and creates a safe place for us to grow and thrive! 👑💍
@@amarieneal7233 I remember one day I was on my way to work. I was wearing a dress with stocking and flat shoes and had natural hair so I have that Christian looks. I remember this man walking up to me and trying to hug me from in front and I don't know this man from anywhere. I start shouting if you touch me today and he immediately hurried away.
I have so many stories could share but I would have to sit an entire day. I'm always been hit on, some even when on to touch my leg in a taxi (this was deliberate) on when I reacted they get scared and all apologetic. Some of these men are just perverts how can someone touch another person without their consent? I think a person can learn to transition from feminine to masculine in situations.
I never want a man who doesn't want me!! If he doesn't seem interested just do yourself a favor and walk on!! I agreed to a divorce after 25 years when I begged my husband for his time with me! He said " the more you want me the less I want to be with you" He was shocked I happily signed the divorce papers! Lol. He said " You didn't have to sign because I thought you'd fight to keep the Marriage?" I said " No thanks I'm thrilled to end a lie"
Man this was so so good! Thank you as always! 🙏🏽 “if the man has no vision, then the women has no purpose in the man life “!
That word really spoke truth to me, we are the help mate if they have no vision how can we help?
That's so key in life.
It's like getting dressed 👗 😩 😫 to go on a journey & you both don't know where your going or how far or how much gasoline or directions they both need. That will cause a problem for both people in the marriage 💑 & frustration & failure.
Some in certain communities sell a lie that women have no real value & just cost money & are just to be used, cheated on dumped with the kids some time & with out money or support from him as a father for their kids. All cause he is the man & mad & dosnt except good standards in life!!!
Those very words!!! Purpose and vision go hand and hand!!💯
I just turned 20 and I love watching this guy he’s like my father online. I realized since getting closer to god after getting baptized in January. I don’t like wearing certain clothes that are revealing. When I try to put revealing clothes on I hear God telling me to “take it off” honestly it’s the cutest thing ever like god cares about me❤️😭 i have a small body at the top but my lower body ls thick so I don’t wanna attract the wrong attention from males ya know? I wanna attract a guy who will try to see my beauty from the inside. I also love the elegant look too😅
Stay on that positive track sweetheart. Continue to listen and be obedient to what you hear thats for your better good. You're worth it. Know that. Believe that. It'll take you far.
100% that is so smart keep going.
Right on time! Going through a divorce, 5 small children. Doing it alone, and I see my feminity fading to masculine. God has sent someone to be a male presence in their lives for almost a year now. I do not know how to interact with a masculine man. I don't know him at all just speak about the kids.. I am in a place I have never been before. Have to learn how to navigate and preserve and heal my feminine energy.
Loved every word! So true. Trauma makes even the most feminine women act out of their masculinity. And a healthy masculine finds a feminine woman irresistible! Its a dance of balance.
This was great. I watched it twice & didn’t want it to end. I am definitely triggered by my boyfriend of 3 years. I can blame our cultural differences or say he’s insensitive, but the large majority of the issue is me. I’m starting my healing journey in January 2022. It’s already set up.
Preach!... safety and protection are required to be "grounded" in your femininity. Childhood trauma that messes with your sense of safety is a big hurdle to resting in your femininity. I didn't realize this until I met a masculine (wounded, but still masculine) man.
Now, I know when I am with a masculine man because my creative energy flows freely. My creativity flows when I feel safe enough to express it.
The man who gets to have me won't be intimidated by my creativity and creative expression. He will cherish it as it is uniquely me.
I settled. I’ve been married 21 years to a man I believe is a clueless narcissist. He doesn’t want to talk about anything of any substance. He won’t even eat at the dining room table. I am married to a child. This teaching really hit home for me.
Married to one for 6 years. Im out ✌🏼 I won’t let it turn in 10 let alone 21! He was a fake Godly man, whole time he was the devil 👿
@Bellla Windsor yes, wasted enough time already
I have a friend of mine who has been with her husband for approximately 43 years. She has been through so much with him to the point where he makes her feel like nothing by verbally abusing her and being involved with other women He wants a divorce now. She is such a good woman and my heart goes out to her. Hopefully she will find someone who will love and honor.
Let him go, find a way to leave him in that property on his own or get rid of him. Do not continue to suffer in silence
Take him to Catholic exorcist it is the only way
I have been blessed by listening to this video. I have been guilty of exhibiting masculine energy. I have learned about what feminine energy is. I want more feminine energy. I will love myself more. I want to be the woman that God wants me to be.
Amen, same here
I noticed how easy it is to really feel good and feminine next to the right man
I am a Muslim woman who cherishes each and every word you say sir ^_^ thank you, and may Allah bless your days with hope, health, and happiness xx
Me too I am also Muslim women and appreciate his message.
same here xx
Trauma definitely is a feminine woman energy thief, this is something that I have learned in the past 3 yrs about myself, woman have to become self aware of what is going on in their lives and deal with that hurt and pain that we tend to mask and get some sort of therapy and seeking the Holy Spirit for a deeper healing!
Thank you so much Bishop Blakes for this teaching it truly touched my heart ♥️
In order to move with feminine energy one must feel safe, so true. I was told I have too much masculine energy, and initially I was unnerved about it,…now I know why I’m like I am!
I wish a Black pastor was teaching BM these lessons. BW are constantly trying to improve, but our counterparts often don't do the work. This community is so broken and unequally yoked it seems beyond repair. ...
To be honest, way too many BM prefer non-BW. Even these BM that do all this talk about relationships etc., tend to have non-BW as a spouse/partner or a racially ambiguous woman. BW, regardless of how feminine or deserving, often is treated harshly by BM for no other reason than she is Black and not mixed, racially ambiguous or not Black.
This issue is more significant than femininity. This is a spiritual war, and BW continue to be under attack due to a lack of male community protection and provisions.
When a BW speaks up, she is labeled angry and aggressive. When a non-BW speaks up, she is expressing her truth.
Facts
Yes!
Majority of Black men are married to Black women. 85% marriages. Black women should stop focusing their energy on insecure, self hating men who marry non Black. There's many men out here who don't feed into that narrative. Time is too precious to waste on those types. Healthy Black married couples continue to exist regardless.
I hear some racist undertones here. Coming from the non-BW. Or am I. Noone knows my DNA unless I share it with them verbally.
@@KingdomCarrie you think too highly of yourself. This has nothing to do with you. This is an issue in the Black community. Your attempt to make it about you is laughable. Go gaslight under another thread. 💛
I have been in my masculine energy for over 3 years now from past toxic relationships and from the dating scene experiences I've had. I met a great guy 5 1/2 mos ago and we are serious. He's planning to propose next week. I've been working on getting back into my feminine energy by healing from past trauma and he sees how I'm working through it. I practice being in my feminine energy more and apologize to him when I slip up and operate in my masculine. He and I watched some of your videos the other night and he thinks you're very wise. The videos are helping me to work on myself. Thank you
This is so tough for someone who's 15 years into a marriage where I feel like I'm operating in my masculinity. I WANT to be feminine but if I am, this thing falls apart.
You can practice balance
Try to balance it all
It is never too late
You got this! I’m am proud of you
I recommend the book fascinating womanhood ! Changed so much for me
Same ! Except I am leaving him
This is why we choose who we marry wisely. If he wasn’t masculine before marriage what would make you think commitment would alter that?
Courtney, LET IT. Die and be a fly on the wall and watch how fast they implement what you were doing all along. Trust Yah.
God asked me this and now He says to you,” if you were really CONFIDENT in me, how would you live? Think? Speak?
May the lord bless you and keep you today and always. Peace.
Literally the last 3 men I dated/in situationships with were gay if not bi-curious and I could never figure out why I'm attracted/attract such feminine men. It's all coming together. Thank you.
6 years of widowhood allowed me to heal and focus on myself. It is a daunting task to heal and rebuild oneself, but God's Grace has led me out of despair and back into life.
Yes therapy, prayer, and self focus is key❤. Thanks for always bringing awareness to mental health.
Sending this for my sons and daughter. This is crucial and absolutely necessary information. Met so many feminine men in my life and always therefore had to be a masculine woman. Just tired of it. God help us
LOL god help us.
It feels good to know that I am right on track with my thoughts! When I hear someone else bring up the same thoughts I've been thinking lately, I know it's God!
Indeed 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
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There is nothing Pastor RC Blakes hasn’t talked about
What a wise sound spirited man 🙏🏽
Has anyone else besides me listened to this message at least 10 times? Thank you, Bishop Blakes!⚘
I always enjoy these sessions with RC Blakes
I sit down with my notepad & pen and imagine he is talking to me personally as a father to his daughter.. Because I did not have a father to teach or tell me these things. I just want to say Thank you and for caring enough about Woman to tell us these things you have shared many precious gems and opened my eyes to things that I didn't even know.
There’s plenty of us out here ❤️🩹I thank The Most High for RC Blakes because he certainly tells it like it is💯
I do the same, sometimes even verbally respond like we are having a conversation. I love his tone and calmness. Just like a Father. So much wisdom.
I had a masculine awesome husband 22 years my senior he passed. It’s best to stay single until there’s a man such as he comes along! 15 years!!!!
So glad you're uploading it. It disappeared as I was watching earlier. Very important message.
That happened to me when I was watching it this morning. It disappeared.
@@SheliaRBrown-oq1bu I thought I was going a bit mad! X
I thought I was trippin! Ha! I looked through my history like I was tearing my room apart lol
Right!?! I knew I wasn’t crazy 😂😂😂
@@olgaleo2 Same sis!
Dress like you’re a high value man’s wife.
That’s gold.
I had to physically fight when I was younger, to the point that wearing a dress meant you were vulnerable to being attacked. Anyone else ever dealt with that growing up?
Wow. That makes me sad that you couldn’t relax as a child. God will restore.
I intentionally dress poorly to avoid unwanted attention either in the workplace or in public. Also had to be on guard at home so yeah, I feel you!
Yes. My mother didn't want girls. She gave the first one up for adoption and wanted to do the same w/me but didn't want to put her parents thru it again, so she punished me. I was born on her birthday, same day, different year, and 12hrs apart. Not a day went by without a reminder from her. My father wasn't much better. My mother always dressed me in boy clothes 🤷♀️ Thank goodness for my grandmother.
@indria drayton ... may I respectfully assume you're a Black woman? what you described is what a lot of Black women endure in the "Black community". Hell, even just smiling and being joyful can get you treated some type of way 🤦🏿♀️ We're told to be feminine, when are or attempt to be, we're penalized for it. The constant goal post moving is beyond comprehension
We moved from “the country” into “town” when I was in 3rd grade. I was jumped by some older very aggressive girls…for SMILING too much and “thinking I was cute”! Boys would push/punch me for trying to protect myself from unwanted touching. As an adult, I was out celebrating with my sorors, a guy asked we to dance and before I could finish saying “no thank you” he picked up my chair with me in it and slammed it down. So yeah, some women have had to fight/defend themselves just to exist-run an errand, walk home from school, or simply enjoy a girls’ night out. In some communities, being feminine makes you a target for violence. The black community as a whole needs healing on so many levels. I so appreciate these father daughter talks; however, if our BM are to be/become our leaders and create environments where being feminine isn’t a target for abuse but an asset, a MAN is going to have to be able to address them in a way they can receive it and grow from it.
A masculine man already recognizes my value he don’t need me to prove to him I’m of value. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Wow. Thank you for this message Pastor Blake. I had no idea I was behaving masculine; I thought I was guarding my heart.
You are guarding your heart. I’m confused as to how that’s considered “masculine”
Same
I'm 64 and I wonder if it's too late. I hope not! I want a Godly strong man's man who will pray with me and be my other half with Jesus as the head. I love the feminine in me. Some people see it as weakness. I think my femininity is my greatest strength.
I was in an abusive marriage for 30 years but God is healing my heart.
I don't know where to go to find a good man. My age. I don't have a church home right now. Which isn't the problem because there's some really messed up men in the church!
Yes heal from the trauma. And that takes time and work. And I'm working on it. GOD is working on me PRAISE GOD! Yes my heart has been broken and I've lost trust and the ability to trust. PLEASE pray for me Pastor. I feel like I'm running out of time. Seems like once you reach a certain age women become invisible to men. When actually a woman of a certain age has become wise and knows how to handle situations that a younger woman doesn't know.
Just my opinion and thoughts. God bless you Sir!
I am 61, divorced 2000, single mother, had a few relationships, one lasted 8 years. I have been alone a long time and pray to God that a masculine man will appear. Keep positive x
This I's so true. All of it! When you said if your house intimidates a man he ain't the one. Made me smile.
I ♥️ that statement- God will raise up a man that is suitable for you.
I'm so emotional and enjoying the lesson, message and truth that you're reminded me (us) of.
Thank you unconditional 💖
These talks are incredibly eyeopening. Such precious guidance. 🙏❤️ These kind of values have almost gone from western culture... No wonder there is such a mess in relationships between men and women. I am grateful for the re-programing through these talks.
Thank you, Pastor Blakes for teaching us how valuable God made us. We value your wisdom and your prayers. 🙏🏼❤
"In a lot of cases men are not getting the relational outcomes they want b/c he's not really ready for a Queen & a lot of women are not getting the relational outcomes they want b/c they're not really ready for a King" RC.B
I love these teachings! I've been single by choice for some years now and believe that God has set me aside for his purpose, which includes being married. Its good to hear that my instincts for certain things are working and that I am doing something right.
Pastor Blake's I've been married almost 33plus years and we both came from trauma I now realize the my husband being raised by mostly women is more feminine than masculine!! All of our issues are now making sense!!
The eternal wisdom and truth that you’re teaching us daughters…and sons of God is a huge blessing. So many platforms and other sources teach on feminine energy but it’s always such a blessing hearing it from a Christian perspective and from the word of God. Your channel is helping save so many and preparing so many for Godly marriages. Thank you❤️✨🙏
If only we all had to take this as one of the courses we must do before getting a marriage license & put it in writing what each person is agreeing to do, be, accept in their marital role would make marriage work better or know not to get married because you don't match as a married couple & needs someone else you match with from God!!!!❤
@@amarieneal7233 it’s society that damages us … only if you were raised properly do you do things right the first time . If you do things the wrong way .. you spend a lifetime trying to repair the damage . Sometimes that is not possible.
Consider your ways and habits. Thanks R.C. Blakes
THIS IS SO POWERFUL! EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO HEAR THIS! 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 Right On TIME!
This message spoke to my soul, my soul has been enlightened, Thank God for your gift Pastor Blakes, your teachings has been helping me on my healing journey, again, Thank you and may God continue to use you.
Our church leaders have to deal with the fact that our religious text have erased the Divine Mother and put in a masculine deity. Woman God was a feminine energy, women were respected and venerated. Now when it became patriarchal she has to submit to a man. Sub means under, muttered means yield to the power. Your three major religions all have women submitting. The true creator did not create us to submit to anyone. We are in a new paradym now and the Divine Feminine is back on the planet.
So true. Thank you, Pastor Blakes. Listening to you helps me to heal. My father was never in my life and everything you said, I have lived through. I’m now on my own journey of self reflection, self love, self care and staying close to Jesus to guide me and heal me completely. I wish I had a father like you growing up; it would have saved me from a lot of heartache. God bless you and thank you for sharing your experience, knowledge and wisdom. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
I love these teachings because you back everything with the word of God. Your wisdom is so valuable to CZcams today. Basic biblical principals never go out of style. You're the best! All praise be to God 🙏🏽
Masculine fights feminine walks away
Thank You for all the spoken reminders you've just placed into my spirit 👏🏿
Yes , when a man is abusive … lies etc ( all respect goes out the window ) … no matter if they were manly and masculine in the beginning . Know who you are dealing with !!! Divorce court have full dockets ..
Self focus is so true. I don’t know when I’ve only focused on myself. Always distracting myself with others.
I mean I watch RC videos from 3 years ago and more recent videos and he’s actually looking younger nowadays!! Looking real good my pastor!! Love from Brazil to you, your lovely Lisa and your family! Bless you!
Thank you for being so gentle and calm when you have your teaching/talks....makes it so easy to listen and feel safe💛💛💛😊😊😊❤❤
His aura is everything. You can truly experience the presence of a high value man.
I was introduced to your channel by my sister because you look like our late grandfather. I think this is the best teaching Iv heard from you Pastor it got me emotional because I needed to hear this. Thank you very much. May God bless you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The music from the song and just the music without the lyrics is healing.
Yes.
No lyrics is perfect!
I just discovered the Pastor a few days ago ; absolutely the best lecturer ive ever heard !!
However , I am listening to what he has to say about “ traumatized “ women … how it destroys their personality and femininity.. more later .
Pastor RC Blakes im watching this in 2024 and let me tell you that Gods word is relevant no matter what year it is. Powerful word!
Wonderful message even for married women. We sometimes forget how to allow the men to be masculine when we take care of the home. Thank you for the reminder.
THIS message should have over a million likes. Nothing but confirmation for me.
My teen son and I will be watching this together! God bless you sir!
It’s amazing how Bishop Blakes is essentially saying the SAME things Kevin Samuels is saying, but it hits different because it’s draped in love and Christian principles. Bishop Blake’s message will probably never go viral, but it definitely should.
Kevin Samuels? When did that creature ever say anything to uplift women?
A broken heart is attracted to the same thing that broke it . What a revelation Pastor, thank you for that!!🙏💗
Thanks for adding the vital context of healing the trauma first. So many women have to will themselves into submission through resentment, simply because they don't recognise the wounds that have not healed. They open every time, their partner does something to trigger them. Then the woman feels hurt, and the man doesn't understand what he did wrong. There's no point submitting through resentment. It gets you both nowhere. Seek the healing for yourself, because he isn't going to know how to compensate, if you don't.
I've learned so much from you! I'm happily married, working on the level up within my marriage while working on healing the broken parts of me that childhood built. You are giving me the fatherly wisdom I never received! Thank you!
By the grace of God you sir have given me wings to fly and encouragement to continue being my amazingly fantabulous self. God bless you
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I have really focused on all three points of self focus on healing the proper way I speak with my therapist on a regular I pray and speak with God for clarity and I don’t see anything wrong with speaking with a psychiatrist about the pain are difficult times that I have went through I can honestly say I am in a better place today because of it🙏🏽💪🏽
Ok so he’s dropped sooooooo many gems in this video BUT I had to pause after hearing something that I know is specifically for ME!
He said when GOD created eve and placed her in the garden, everything was done. All she had to do was “BE”. Now that is what I need to learn. I’m so used to making things happen in my life whether it’s raising my son, building my career, maintaining my home, setting new goals, being a supportive friend, working in ministry, etc.
I’m always “doing” something and now that I’m in a relationship with a person I feel is the love of my life. I find myself trying to always do something to prove to him that I love and care about him and what I believe he’s always telling me and trying to show me is that he’s a man and he’s focused on his position as the man. I believe he’s wanting me to “BE” although because of my past this is a new state of mind and action for me.
Thank you for helping me. My goal today and going forward is to “BE” and let him be the man he is.
Yes!! I completely agree with you. I have had to be the one to do everything. Divorced from a narcissist, 3 teens. I do everything myself. I need to take time to learn how to BE. To be feminine.
I was able to watch earlier! I'll be rewatching. Great video!!
Me too...I saw it Saturday.
YES, THAT SAYING REGARDING NO MEN AVAILABLE IS OLDER THAN 100 YEARS AS MY GREAT GRAND MOTHER MENTIONED THIS...BEING FEMININE IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE MOST NATURAL THING FOR A WOMAN. HOW INTERESTING THAT THIS HAS TO BE RE TAUGHT. MY DAD TAUGHT ME AND MY MOM. BOTH ARE NEEDED TO GIVE THE TRAINING ON BEING A WOMAN.
GREAT NEWS SIR, THANK YOU FOR CLARIFYING THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN. VERY BASIC. GIVER/RECEIVER COUPLES ARE JUST THAT. BEING PROUD AND GLAD TO BE A WOMAN AND CARRY THE CHILDREN OF THE HUSBAND IS SUCH A MAGNIFICENT BONDING AND GIFT. IT'S SOOOOOOO AWESOME. CHILDREN WHO GROW UP WITH LOVING PARENTS IS SUCH A FERTILE ENVIRONMENT OF FAMILY CULTURE. GODSPEED.
Building never starts with construction, it starts with concept and design! Good info!
I definitely try and focus on keeping feminine energy. It is hard when most people feel as though this is a weaker mentality. It's clear that the vision is blurred. Focusing on my core is the key
Thank you so much. I really portray more muscular energy than feminine. I needed this teaching. And I am going to start practicing these teachings.
You really have a lot of wisdom and I'm so glad you have this platform to share it. Thank you for spreading truth in this fractured, hurt and dysfunctional society.