A Ramble On Grief, Mental Health and Sh Muhammad Alshareef - Abu Eesa Niamatullah
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- čas přidán 26. 07. 2022
- From Shaykh Abu Eesa:
"I will write my reflections on everything Sh MAS soon when I get things together iA. Bear with me.
Until then, many are grieving. For different reasons. In different ways. And these mental health implications are something I think we really need to look at and have a conversation about, especially men and how they process emotion etc.
I know this is highly specific and personal with my own life-story dominating, but I don't think it could have been done any different if I really want it to reach the specific people it needs to help. I'm happy to take one for the team (yes I'll be made to regret this video one day but khayr!), and yes it's too much. But if my close friends and students will protect their mental health as a result, and connect to loved ones, well, it'll have been worth it."
As much as I laughed in this video, I grieve with you sheikh. I didn’t think it was possible to smile and grief in one video. We miss our beloved sheikh Mohammed. My Allah give him the highest level of Janah. I have never listened to a single lecture of yours and this intro to you, yourself is a blessing for me. In all the lectures I listened to, I have never heard anyone bring attention to our own mortality. I lost both of my parents. I have a best friend who’s suicidal. This lecture is so close to home. I have heard every single word you said. I thank you for what you did for me today. May Allah bless you and your family.
We LOVE Mohammed al shareef and Abu Esa & others for the sake of Allah
I am a psychiatrist. He is 100% correct on men talking about mental health problems. Massive stigma in Muslim communities. So Muslim men with severe mental illnesses are discouraged from talking about this. Mental illness is simply not taken seriously, and dismissed as weakness of Iman, due to Jinn or both. We need education, education, education.
This sheikh is really grieving May Allah give him patience……
Purification of the soul is the essence of Islam.
The character building is the goal.
اللهم اغفر للمؤمنين والمؤمنات الأحياء منهم والأموات . أمين
Ego,death, reality may Allah guide our hearts and may we love our ummah and be of those who forgive one another. Remember our own mortality and may we be of those who have humility in our hearts. Learn to give to others less fortunate than us and may our hearts soften. Forgive those who have wronged us for it will bring tranquility in our hearts. Ameen.
Oh my brother what a beautiful heart-felt truth of our illusion of life, I have been mindful of my ego for many years. I understanding the reality of our mortality. I Have been blessed to be with others who most people reject or avoid. Thank you so my much for sharing your cathartic process and I want to give you a big hug. The power of emotional intelligence and releasing the psychological and emotional pain is all part of our lives.
Inna lilahi wa inna ilairajioun may Allah azza wa jall grant him Jannatul Firdous and grant his family sabr jameel to bear the loss aameen
Jazakallahu Khair sheikh for been sincere I laughed and cried listening to your tribute of our beloved sheik Muhammad Alshareef, thank you for addressing the mental health issue.
I needed to hear this for the sake of my own sanity. Jzkallah khyra katheera And May Allah elevate the status of dear shk. MAS n grant him from the highest in janna
Absolutely love this. My husband attempted twice to end his life. I cannot thank you enough to publicise. Please continue publicising mens mental health. Mens struggles and how men do not talk to anyone. Please make dua for my husband he gets better
Subhan Allah beautifully put in perspective tabarak Allah
This was so sincere and heartfelt. Thank you for rambling… it was much needed.
Jazakallahukhair for this ♥️
Thank u shaykh for open up. I needed this. JazakAllah khair
Jazaakallahu Khairan for sharing your thoughts.
Its so nice to see this soft and raw side of sheikh AE. May Allah continue to guide him and make us all better inshallah. Only 15 mins and learning alot.
Alhamdulillah! Shu'kran for being real and sincere with us about your relationship with Shaykh Muhammad AlShareef and what you're going through now! I'm pretty sure everyone appreciate your honesty! What you said in your last part of this talk is so true about husbands! Jazakallahu Khairan! May Allah Help us all! Ameen 💙 🤍
Assalamu alaikum, jzk for the ramble....i needed to hear that so much...you're so right...we need to talk to each other and reflect on our own end...and for sure we need to kill that ego...once again jzk may Allah bless you.
Couldn't have putting it better. Be aware of our mortality.
Wow. This talk by you has really made me appreciate your genius sheikh. Little pieces of analysis you gave which you may not even think much of. Mash'Allah
Jazakallah Khairan Sheikh for being yourself and vulnerable. All you do is so important. Such a wonderful tribute to Sheikh Muhammad Al Shareef and to others.
Jazakumullah khairan. Much needed reminders. May Allah swt reward all those working in His path, and give them the highest stature in the akhirah. Aameen.
We are all humans and our Shaykhs and teachers even though are strong in Faith but they do have raw, genuinely soft side to present themselves in an utmost humility. May Allah sbt preserve their hearts, soul and knowledge.
Assalamu alaykom wa rahma'tullah wa barakatuh, subhan Allah, thank you for sharing, it really really helps and makes an incredible change around in my mind, of how I think and see things. Jazaka Allahu khayran wa barak Allahu feeke. I'm very sorry, once again for really putting a burden upon you, we all have Allah don't we? He never stops listening. Subhan Allah, I have also had the pain and compassion need to be smiles and gentle with children who were orphaned, Alhamdulillah, and for the widow too. Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. And getting back to Muhammad Alshareef [rahimatullah, the grief is real, no doubt, that is from Allah isn't it? For his service to Islam, who enabled the miskeen llike me to learn, and you have facilitated an awful lot of that for me, which means when I have gone through incredible trials, I have by the mercy of Allah, and the ilm I have been blessed with, been able to not take it as deeply as I did before islam. Jazaka Allahu khayran wa barak Allahu feeke, jazakum Allahu khayran wa barak Allahu feeke. Fi amanillah.
I am laughing n crying at the same time. Ya Sheik, you got yourself a new follower…not that you need any more. JazakAllahu khayr for your honesty. May Allah bless the inspiration of all my teachers, Muhammad AlShareef, aamiin
Thank you. Please discuss more on men and mental health.
JazakAllahu Sheikh AE for actually expressing what us men feel at times and reminding us that its ok to be not ok sometimes and expressing ones vulnerability is not weakness. May Allah have mercy on Ustadh MAS.
Jazallah Khayr Shaykh for sharing this with us and for showing us that it is okay to be vulnerable, May Allah have mercy on Shaykh Muhammad Alshareef
May Allah grant him Janatul Firdaus.
الله يصبرك و يصبِّر أهل المرحوم.
Innalillahi wa inna ilayhi rajiun. I felt your pain and your grief Shaikh. It was there beneath the bravado and the words. It was deep and raw. May Allah comfort you and the entire Ummah especially the family of Shaikh Muhammad Al Sharif. You did a good job here and I hope you're all talked out and it was cathartic for your soul.
Ameen Jzk Sheikh
سلام عليكم..و جزاك الله خيرا..
الحمدالله..
This is so Beautiful..
Inspiring..
Thanks 😊
سبحان الله العظيم..
We are All Ummah Traumatised and need Talks like this..
To Be Healing Together ❤️ ✨️
To Know ourselves need courage..
Jzk for this . I think it's brave, real and its couragous to say your thoughts, experience out aloud , especially in regards to our egos, its in our human nature.im really glad to hear you promoting MH and talking about suicide., it's needed. May Allah swt accept this from you and grant you ease. May Allah swt grant Muhammad Al shareef, Jannat ul Firdaws, Forgive his sins and grant his family, children ease and sabar. Ameen Ya Rab. Its beautiful hearing about his stories.
Thank you
#KeepItReal
Ameen.
I think its very hard to balance complaining to others & then solely complaining to Allah. Its also our nature to only appreciate until its gone. Allah wake us up Inshaa'Allah
I totally agree with you Robert.
Just figured out I have so much ego, did not really identify until reflecting what Abu Isa said.
Salam Shaykh I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. Maybe in another lecture you can speak about the difference between ego and arrogance. What did you mean? I have studied a lot about Tasawuf but it’s nice to hear your perspective.
Wa alaikum assalaam wr. Shaykh Hamza yusuf explanation in this matter should be sufficient. Generally, arrogance is a guarantee to hellfire and is heavily criticized in the quraan. Ego is not necessarily the same level. Allaah knows best. Don’t confuse confidence in one’s faith being correct with pride or arrogance.
Wa alaykumassalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
What video did he show on his hp I didnt catch the name at 48.51
We can often see people bite their nails when nervous. Others may bite on a finger out of regret.
However, can you imagine biting a whole hand? or even worse... both hands?!
وَيَوْمَ يَعَضُّ الظَّالِمُ عَلَىٰ يَدَيْهِ يَقُولُ يَا لَيْتَنِي اتَّخَذْتُ مَعَ الرَّسُولِ سَبِيلًا
“And on that Day the wrongdoer will bite on his hands [in regret], and say, ‘If only I had taken the same path as the Messenger.”
(Qur’an 25:27)
An indication of the severity of the overwhelming and incapacitating regret that the sinners will feel on the day of Judgement.
Obeying Allaah The Almighty in general and doing great deal of good deeds fill the face with light, brightness and joy that every obedient person to Allaah The Almighty, sees.
‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Abbaas said: “Good deeds give brightness to the face, light to the heart, abundance to provision, strength to the body, and affection in people's hearts. Bad deeds bring blackness to the face, darkness to the grave and the heart, weakness to the body, lack of provision and hatred in people’s hearts.”
What's the title of the video Sheikh played?
The Shepherds Path trailer
What video was he playing at the end?
I want to get rid of my ego. Please tell me some methods. I don’t care if it takes me 7 years or more
Mashallah, we all do sis. Lets try to follow our beautiful prophet. Pbuh
May Allah bless you for your good intentions. May Allah help us all and forgive us. I am not a teacher or scholar - just personal advice: when you are about to speak, ask yourself if it begins with "I" (for example, I think, I am, I, I, I ...") and reflect on what you're about to say before you say it. Try to put the importance on the other person.
Go and volunteer at the food bank. Clean washrooms.
Adopt an animal
Anyone with an ego should remember they came from dirt and they will end up in dirt. So how can anyone who came from dirt and will go back to dirt have an ego?
Mashaa Allah. What was the cause of death?
May Allah forgive Sh Mohammad and enter him jannah without hisaab
Ameen.
Heart attack. Prophet said, along these lines, near the day of judgment there will be a lot of sudden deaths. This was my first thought when he passed away.
@@ARmirzaful Subhaan Allah. Lots of young healthy people dying even athletes. Was the sh vaccinated? Did he ever talk about it
Did Abu Esa just give his email address out 😭
It's so difficult to show vulnerability. Sheikh AE, may Allah keep you away from all that his harmful and protect you with His protection. Ameen
As Sh Muhammad Al Shareef said, you will find the filth of the earth in the CZcams comments. He was right. Some horrid stuff below. Who cares.
Sheikh I'm just wondering how you got there in time ?
Were you there in Dubai already ? Before he passed away ?
He was in Egypt.
😄 🤣 😂
To whoever is responsible for putting up this video for public view, I say this sincerely, Allah knows. The Shaikh is grieving and still processing the trauma he experienced in the past few days, Allah bless him. Please cut out the first 31minutes of the video as there is a good chance the message the Shaikh intended may be misunderstood by the mass. Allah bless and protect.
AE clearly says who this is meant as a message for, it wasn’t released accidentally. What do to believe he said that may be misunderstood?
( Will Christians And Jews and "OTHER" non-Muslims go to Heaven? )
Quran 2:62
'' Those who believe (in the Quran) and those who follow the Jewish (scriptures) and the Christians and the Sabians->ANYAllah< Is The Protector Of Monasteries, Churches, Synagogues And The Mosques )
Quran 22:40
[They are] those who have been evicted from their homes without right - only because they say, " Our Lord is God " And were it not that God checks the people, some by means of others, there would have been demolished monasteries, churches, synagogues, and mosques in which the name of God is much mentioned. And God will surely support those who support Him. Indeed, God is Powerful and Exalted in Might.
Note: Why did Allah protected Churches and Synagogues if they worship false Allah ?
( Why Are There So Many Different Religions In The World ? )
Quran 5 48
''...... If God wanted He could have made all of you a single nation.( ie single religion ) But He willed otherwise in order to test you in what He has given you (ie Scriptures) therefore try to excel one another in good deeds. Ultimately you all shall return to God then He will show you the truth of those matters in which you '' >DISPUTE verb < not noun like other religions
Islam mean "submission" to God
( The above verse saying is that God will not accept a religion from the >MUSLIM< and the Non-Muslims but total "submission" to God )
Question: How Can Muslim And the Non-Muslim "submit" to the God?
Answer: Be kind to other human beings and Do not lie, Do not steal, Do not cheat, Do not hurt others, Do not be prideful and Do the charity work.
Note: If you obeyed all the ABOVE Allah-God's moral laws "YOU" submitted to God.( ie Islam mean "submission" to God )
The only people who will enter Paradise those who '' Submitted to God '' ( ie by Good Deeds )
God does NOT accept your religion of birth but only ''Your Total'' Submission to Him.
( God Allows Interfaith Marriages And Eat Food From the Christian And Jew And Vice Versa )
Quran 5:5
''This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And lawful in marriage are chaste women from among the believers (ie Muslim ) and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith - his work has become worthless and he in the Hereafter will be among the losers.''
Note: > Only < Islam allows interfaith marriages (>14 hundredsSame God< but They are >ALL Corrupt< more or less, some more than others from their original foundational teaching. The older religion are MORE corrupted than newer religion.
Question to Muslim and Christian:
Does God / Allah only answer your pray ?
And God / Allah does not answer non Muslim / non Christian pray?
Did Allah '' Canceled '' all other religions Judaism and Christianity?
Quran 5:48
'' And We have revealed to you [O Muhammad] the Book in truth, confirming that which preceded it of the Scripture ( ie New and old Testament ) and as a criterion over it. So judge between them by what Allah has revealed and do not follow their inclinations away from what has come to you of the truth. >>>TO EACH OF YOU WE PRESCRIBED A LAW AND A METHODone nation>differ qualified < for to enter Paradise )
On the day of judgement God will ''NOT'' judge humanity bases on Sunni Muslim sect VS Shia Muslim sect ''NOR'' by Muslim VS non-Muslim >but< Doer of Goods VS Doer of Evils.
'' YOUR " birth in the Muslim's family is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise.
'' YOUR " religion / sect / foot long beard is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise.
The > qualification < to enter Paradise is > Faith in God and Good Work
Oh Dear ! Still managed to make it more about himself then Mohammed Shaikh , may Allah subhana wata Ala grant him jaanatul firdous.
Allah subhana wata Ala covered this guy's sins, sadly he exposes them under whatever pretence.
This guy should speak to his friends or a psychiatrist, not buying the caveat given at the beginning of the video, as to why he is making this video.
Had to stop watching after just over half way, when realised this video would be more about Abu eesa and his undermining of traditional ulema, then about Shaikh Mohammad Rahmatullah alayhe.
I'm not sure if you heard it at the start but he does say that it's not a tribute to Shaykh MAS and then at the end around 57 mins he mentions it again.
Ameen to your Du'aa
@@phone112 Not sure if you read it, but I did mention I'm not buying the caveat given at the beginning of the video.
Take a look again.
Many thanks.
@@newprofilenamesosomethings8103 I read that, I still think it's unfair of you to say you're not buying his reasons for making the video, it doesn't make sense, unless you already have something personal against the Shaykh?
And you've also mentioned his undermining of traditional ulema, what part does he do that?
BTW I'm just genuinely curious and respect your views, I just want to understand better where you're going with this.
Good grief. Stop looking for problems when there are none.
What kind of disease of the heart does a person have to have to use an occasion like this to take potshots at AE… and you don’t even make sense, complaining that he didn’t stick to just memorializing his friend when he explicitly said he wouldn’t, then pretending like it’s he was somehow trying to fool you by warning you in advance? A very confused person indeed.