HOW A WOMAN ENFORCES HER VALUE WITH MEN by RC Blakes

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    HOW A WOMAN ENFORCES HER VALUE WITH MEN by RC Blakes
    In this video, we will discuss five specific strategies that women can use to enhance their value with men. These strategies are based on the idea that women can command respect from men by demonstrating their worth through their actions, rather than simply demanding it.
    1. Lift him up: The first strategy is to lift men up whenever possible. By making men feel better about themselves, women can demonstrate their value and earn their respect. This can be achieved by being supportive, encouraging, and positive in your interactions with men.
    2. Make yourself scarce: The second strategy is to make yourself scarce when appropriate. By demonstrating that your time and attention are valuable, you can create a sense of scarcity that can increase your perceived worth. This can be achieved by being selective about when and how you engage with men.
    3. Love yourself more than you like him: The third strategy is to prioritize self-respect above all else. By rejecting men who do not align with your values and prioritizing your own needs and desires, you can demonstrate your worth and earn the respect of others.
    4. Listen carefully: The fourth strategy is to listen carefully to men. By actively listening and seeking to understand their perspectives, women can establish stronger connections and communicate more effectively.
    5. Live as an above-average woman: The fifth and final strategy is to strive to be the best version of yourself. By setting high standards for yourself and working to exceed them, women can demonstrate their value and earn the respect of those around them.
    By implementing these strategies, women can enhance their value with men and earn the respect they deserve. Whether you are seeking to enhance your personal relationships, professional connections, or social interactions, these strategies can help you achieve your goals and establish yourself as a woman of worth.
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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Před rokem +309

    GREAT DAY FAMILY😊 Thank you for all of your support ❤ PLEASE LIKE & SHARE TO Facebook and Twitter

    • @carolyncherry6470
      @carolyncherry6470 Před rokem +11

      You are right RC Blakes when you love a man and he don't love you like that let him go and move on

    • @anthonybrewer7099
      @anthonybrewer7099 Před rokem

      I would like to talk with you either on the phone or video chat you are a very inspiring person..
      I'm in a dark place and your words of wisdom could help me..

    • @carterthegamernoob6128
      @carterthegamernoob6128 Před rokem +3

      Bishop this was a very good teaching lesson. I learned something Everytime I listen to God through you. Honestly I didn’t want to come on here tonight. I feel like Lord I don’t want to be married not right now. It’s not always about anybody else but God and myself

    • @layanyabogney9997
      @layanyabogney9997 Před rokem +1

      I really appreciate you I came your CZcams channel when my mother passed away the song she a queen was right on time

    • @layanyabogney9997
      @layanyabogney9997 Před rokem +1

      Now I am also in a marriage that is going???

  • @yasmeenw6251
    @yasmeenw6251 Před rokem +1632

    I'm 33 with no children or a husband. I recently walked away from a toxic relationship. I want a family badly, but I'm not desperate for any man. I want the right man. Your videos have helped me establish boundaries and respect. As I get older sometimes I fear it might be too late for me, but I have Faith in God. I know this is my season for finding myself and understanding that being single is not a curse. My father was absent my entire life, thank you for being a father to us.

    • @Lola77971
      @Lola77971 Před rokem +134

      33 years old too. Same situation. Left a toxic relationship recently. Emotionally absent father. Badly want a family too but only willing to accept God's best for me, whoever that may be, whenever that may be. We got this hun. 💕

    • @lf3554
      @lf3554 Před rokem +84

      Congrats on walking away. Being desperate will have you up the wrong creek. Its never too late. Just make sure you really put yourself out there look nice go to meet up groups, functions, seminars, charity functions, taking yourself out to places to eat etc Its a numbers game and do a process of elimination untill you find what you looking for. Don't give up and enjoy the process in a healthy way.

    • @The_Perfect_Housewife
      @The_Perfect_Housewife Před rokem +48

      You’re gonna benefit from my book “The Total Package” sis‼️ You’re at the perfect age right now. You’re still young…don’t worry about anything‼️ Everything will happen on Gods timing‼️ Beyoncé, Porsha, Faith Jenkins, all had babies around this age. Faith is actually 45 right now. Got married and had a baby after 40! God will time everything just right‼️

    • @1Hunnie18
      @1Hunnie18 Před rokem +41

      This is literally my exact life. Wow! God is right on time! I’m 33 as well.

    • @leeonty1
      @leeonty1 Před rokem +3

      ​@@Lola77971 d3 3rd

  • @ASerenity333
    @ASerenity333 Před rokem +536

    "A man cannot value you above the value you have for yourself "

  • @daniellelewis363
    @daniellelewis363 Před rokem +890

    1. Always lift him.
    2. Know how to leave men.
    3. Love yourself more than you love him.
    4. Listen to the man carefully (without interruptions).
    5. Live at an above average level.

    • @annetteprince9615
      @annetteprince9615 Před rokem +18

      Good morning, all very good points- especially # 3.

    • @The_Perfect_Housewife
      @The_Perfect_Housewife Před rokem +12

      Idk why, but when people do this it kind ruins the video for me. Like let me find out myself please mam 😅

    • @MelissaCo266
      @MelissaCo266 Před rokem +60

      @@The_Perfect_HousewifeThe video always has way more insight though so it’s always still worth watching !

    • @kstarrify
      @kstarrify Před rokem +4

      Thanks!!

    • @kennedyngure9075
      @kennedyngure9075 Před rokem

      ​@@annetteprince9615 bk
      Mm jnj

  • @robyntorres7117
    @robyntorres7117 Před rokem +794

    This grandmother says that it's never too late in life to listen to Pastor Blakes!

  • @JanelJohnson_PMHNP
    @JanelJohnson_PMHNP Před rokem +270

    - Always lift him. Makes him feel better about himself.
    - Your approach should be feminine and your words should compliment not compete.
    - Know how and when to leave men. Value is always restricted.
    - Loves herself more than she likes him.
    - Listen to the man carefully. Listen without interrupting. Ask questions that will test his honesty.

    • @lionempress
      @lionempress Před rokem +19

      Thanks 4 the summary RN. The only one I take a little issue with, is the last one. A woman who values both herself & others, will not be waiting to pounce on a man with questions to test his honesty. She will definitely notice inconsistencies that don't accurately reflect what he may have said in earlier conversations, but there's no need to be self-righteous or indignant about it. In fact it's often best to tuck these minor indiscretionary mismatches into your mental notebook for a time when further gathered evidence will prove more beneficial. In other words, maybe don't bring it up unless it is relevant to the conversation. Nobody likes a self-righteous conversational bully.

    • @os_filhos_da_mae
      @os_filhos_da_mae Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@lionempress even God tested Abraham.

    • @SandraStachowiczLtd
      @SandraStachowiczLtd Před 9 měsíci +3

      This was likely a typo but he didn't say to know when to LEAD men He said to know when to LEAVE a man

    • @cheriemarshall7847
      @cheriemarshall7847 Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you for recording his words...so helpful! ❤

  • @Holistretch
    @Holistretch Před rokem +328

    This advice is SPOT ON!!! I left my exbf and he won’t stop begging for me back. This is the first time I feel absolutely certain of my worth and my YES (highest pleasure) and my NO (boundaries) ! The world now feels so magical!! The highest caliber of men and women are entering my life. Feeling blessed. Grateful for your teachings!!🙏🏼💓

    • @Carmen-D-Clinton
      @Carmen-D-Clinton Před 11 měsíci

      🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

    • @masixchell
      @masixchell Před 5 měsíci

      Yesss 🫶🏽🙏🏽✨

  • @smyleigh123
    @smyleigh123 Před 11 měsíci +150

    “Overt sexual Attire is masculine because it’s predatory.” Thank you Bishop RC Blakes!

    • @chiaraedolce
      @chiaraedolce Před 11 měsíci +3

      Yes!! This was gold okay?!

    • @8thousevirgin
      @8thousevirgin Před 8 měsíci +2

      Yes, i never thought ot like this but it makes sense!

    • @m.g8269
      @m.g8269 Před 8 měsíci

      Aggressive and predatory…smoke

    • @oznuraygen7254
      @oznuraygen7254 Před 7 měsíci +5

      That is exactly my opinion cos showing too much skin is bold, and boldness is a masculine trait.

    • @Kashmir-lt4cx
      @Kashmir-lt4cx Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yep seductive!

  • @tiabanks5585
    @tiabanks5585 Před rokem +464

    My 20 year Son told me today that he really enjoys and listens to Bishop Blakes so Sir I thank you for your teachings and being able to connect to him!

    • @annpascall5370
      @annpascall5370 Před rokem +7

      Thank God amen 🙏🏾 That generation needs him, I’ve a 21yr old son & 19yr old daughter ❤

    • @BlackCulturalPreservation2023
      @BlackCulturalPreservation2023 Před rokem

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @ladonnaflournoy1
      @ladonnaflournoy1 Před rokem +2

      This is a wonderful idea for my 14 year old Son...and even my 20 year old daughter. Thank you.

    • @tiabanks5585
      @tiabanks5585 Před rokem +2

      @@ladonnaflournoy1 Yes indeed I started out forwarding him the clips and he loved the caring spirit eluded from Bishop Blakes
      And the sound direction.

  • @atouchofvenus7980
    @atouchofvenus7980 Před 9 měsíci +71

    I usually don't listen to stuff like this. But here I am, 44 years old raising three kids, divorced and wasn't raised with my father. I feel lost. Your words have been enlightening. Thank you 🤍

  • @danielkimdude3500
    @danielkimdude3500 Před rokem +325

    I owe you so much, Bishop Blakes. I've learned so much at age 47, I feel like a new woman!

    • @xmama1891
      @xmama1891 Před rokem +12

      I’m with you sis, at the age of 43 👌🏽👊🏽

    • @nadenehall6843
      @nadenehall6843 Před rokem +4

      He is amazing

    • @RITTAAREE
      @RITTAAREE Před rokem +8

      I'm 40. And currently applying this to the men I come across and it's life changing for the men. You can tell they see you recognize your value and want to see if you keep it there.

    • @vicketam
      @vicketam Před rokem +8

      47 and he is a gift from God for all women from all walks of life! He ministers to the broken!

    • @dawnh8254
      @dawnh8254 Před 11 měsíci +3

      I’m 47 also, and I find it to be a great time in my life. Im single, I’ve grown tremendously, and I’m okay regardless of outcome. I know my standards, I’m prepared and have learned so much, Pastor RC has helped shift my mindset so much.

  • @cjay2658
    @cjay2658 Před 4 měsíci +9

    I made a mistake of loving a man more than myself and begging him back..I'm disappointed in myself, but determined to never make this mistake again with a man! Thank you for this message

  • @elizabethrandles6999
    @elizabethrandles6999 Před 11 měsíci +84

    Sixty three years later and and divorce after 28 years of marriage, I am hearing this information and other information that has been so helpful in this new chapter of my life. I just wish I knew this information years ago. Praise God for technology and individuals that have invested the work in helping us to be better as people.💕

    • @chrystalwells1816
      @chrystalwells1816 Před 10 měsíci +3

      I, too, wish Bishop Blakes had been around many years ago. His lessons are so valuable.
      Keep pushing Queen 👑

    • @liabw05
      @liabw05 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Amen 🙏🏿

    • @jacquelynsharp9354
      @jacquelynsharp9354 Před 8 měsíci +2

      54 same here,

  • @millinytslifestyle
    @millinytslifestyle Před 7 měsíci +15

    I struggled to walk away from a man who was not adding financial value in my life because I was caught in the notion of proving that I can take care of myself. I accepted his lack of effort and investment in the relationship all in the name of being an independent woman. I want a man that can show up emotionally, physically, financially etc

  • @ruthezenwa2308
    @ruthezenwa2308 Před rokem +92

    My life is 10x better since I started listening to you. God bless you sir. We love you

  • @gsssparks
    @gsssparks Před 8 měsíci +9

    I had my 1st marriage after 30. Had children when I was 33 and 38. But didn’t meet my actual soul mate until I was after 40. You make mistakes when you try to rush it. In God’s timing

  • @mandikelley7327
    @mandikelley7327 Před 11 měsíci +24

    I just walked away from a fabulous man. Because he wasnt sure where we were going. And couldnt commit 100%. Broke my heart to pieces. He was everything on my list. Hardest thing ive ever done.

    • @theversatileexperience2145
      @theversatileexperience2145 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Likewise! We had the best relationship but I want to get married eventually and he doesn’t want to remarry. And he’s still attached to his ex.

    • @teresatatum2287
      @teresatatum2287 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Hope all is going well for you my sister ❤

    • @yallen2010
      @yallen2010 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Same here, but I remind myself daily that my person will be all that person was plus all the things i wanted that person to be. He will consistently surpass my dopeness meter, provide for me physically, financially, and emotionally. He will want commitment with me. My adventure with my partner has already started, and once we meet, our adventure will continue in all the wonderful magical ways that adventures do. The journey of a lifetime 🥰💚🥰💚🥰💚

  • @deloisghosh3353
    @deloisghosh3353 Před rokem +60

    Never shoot a man down. It’s not necessary to do it. Always be uplifting to everyone. It doesn’t cost a cent. Thank you for your insight. Always on point. God bless you .🙏

  • @aq7317
    @aq7317 Před rokem +92

    I love that you quote the Bible when explaining relationship values...this is what makes what you say credible. Thank you so much for your teachings 🙏✨️💫

    • @jvonnebrown4748
      @jvonnebrown4748 Před 6 měsíci

      Yes that is what I love about him too. He can show us biblical teachings to bring the message to these days and time! Thanks you RC. I got to get my money up so I can be at the Queenology in ATL!! Pray for me 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽 Yha k God for your messages!!

  • @dianaalvarado1451
    @dianaalvarado1451 Před 8 měsíci +22

    "If you can't meet my standards, you're not the one". This as well as listening to the story of Vashti having to say bye to a man she thought would be the one resonated deeply with me. I've been having doubts about deciding to leave and let myself be pursued by new men, but this gave me the confirmation and peace that I made the right decision in leaving. Thank you! This video was enlightening. I also loved the part about walking away early to signal your value and restrict access instead of giving too much of myself too soon.

  • @jayminjoh142
    @jayminjoh142 Před rokem +13

    This Man is a father to many of us. I mean listen to this!!!😊. Incredible gems 💎.

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 Před rokem +63

    The CZcams dad for women who don’t talk about things like this with their dad. 💙✨ I bet the younger you would’ve never guessed that you would become this person. I’m grateful! I hear so many people speak about you now. Your worldwide. And, your wife is so pleasantly beautiful.

    • @rrnn6472
      @rrnn6472 Před rokem +2

      You're so correct.🎯 He probably may have thought pulpit. But this is a far-reaching platform!🙏👏

    • @Aneaterplace
      @Aneaterplace Před rokem +3

      I see him as a father figure, i lost my father at 22, so pastor RC Blakes helped me heal through a narcissitic breakup almost 5 years ago. Im still single but I have faith that my values will align with the right masculine in the near future

  • @undefinedl7040
    @undefinedl7040 Před 11 měsíci +34

    I love the fact that you brought up the story of Esther. I named my daughter Vashti because to me she was a woman of dignity. My family and friends criticized me and questioned why I gave her that name due to most preachers using her as an example of being disobedient but you are the first I hear placing her in a different perspective. 😊💕 I am grateful for finally hearing this from a wise man! Thank you 🙏

    • @Carmen-D-Clinton
      @Carmen-D-Clinton Před 11 měsíci

      🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @iammayoush
    @iammayoush Před rokem +50

    RC would be so proud of the woman I've become today, especially vs one year ago when I found him. I just started dating again because I finally felt ready thanks to these teachings. Dating has never been so fun! I love being feminine, complimenting men, being openly amazed and impressed, and letting them do things for me. Dating becomes such a pleasure when you finally understand your worth and exude it through your actions as a woman. I finally understand and am ready to be a wife ♡
    Also ladies I highly recommend rotationally dating men and never becoming a girlfriend, but dating until someone proposes. Learned this from The Universe Guru channel

    • @khadhrikhan1549
      @khadhrikhan1549 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Agree, I did this when I was younger without even knowing it.
      Young ladies engage as much as you can, in activities that appeal to both genders. Keep your legs closed. Focus on enjoying the activity and building meaningful friendships. By God's grace and astute discernment you will build your tribe as time goes on.
      There are good and wise men out there. One will love you, propose to you and will be willing to journey with you by his side.

  • @chereeflowers9139
    @chereeflowers9139 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I’ve been single and celibate for several years healing from deep wounds, raising my kids and building my life. I made so many mistakes in my dating life and in past relationships. So many of these things I never knew and didn’t have the wisdom from anyone around me to share these things with me. I also lacked a lot of confidence from different things in my up bringing. I’m no longer that woman though as I’ve overcome and accomplished so much, I now see my worth. I’m ready to find my husband now but I have to be careful to do it right when I begin that journey and so your videos and the knowledge and insight is helping me so much. I really can’t even tell you how insightful they are coming from an honest man so thank you!

  • @TeetheSingingBee
    @TeetheSingingBee Před 11 měsíci +30

    Understanding your worth TRULY starts in childhood. At times, I feel like I’m sooo far behind understanding mine and I’m 36…

    • @DinaStrange
      @DinaStrange Před 11 měsíci +1

      women had never been taught to value selves...thats why. my mom had always put me down, look at the jobs, women always put down or only toxic women are "valued"

    • @sxymf96
      @sxymf96 Před 9 měsíci +1

      A father suppose to teach or model a daughter's value in herself..

    • @gogoldiego
      @gogoldiego Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@DinaStrangeI was taught by following God's laws, reading the bible, and praying for discernment in the Holy spirit.

  • @Angeliz225
    @Angeliz225 Před 10 měsíci +10

    I love this, I was uplifting him in the beginning then I stopped. My bf recently broke up with me, and he gave me the greatest gift because every time I would communicate about anything it would ensue in an argument he was always defensive no matter how I approached things. I was always try to edit myself, but his trauma was too deep for me to fix. Maybe I could have done these things consistently but I still think we would have ended here because he was not pouring into me, he was not being intentional with me, it was as if I was just there but no effort like I was making.

  • @happyscissorhands7721
    @happyscissorhands7721 Před rokem +95

    With God speaking through you and using your vessel as a witness, it has been a reminder for keeping me grounded and more humbled.

  • @zelin7460
    @zelin7460 Před rokem +91

    This message was so powerful. I’ve never heard someone talk about the wife before Esther whom I always thought should be honored due to her self respect with denying the king’s request because she knew her value. I’ve never understood why this wasn’t mentioned as much as it should because of what she stood for. Bishop, Thank you so much for this heart felt message. May God bless you and your family.

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 Před rokem +8

      Exactly! If anything, Vashti's example was one of the most blatant forms of female self respect in the scripture! It bothers me that I even see some christian woman look down on her because she "disobeyed her husband".

    • @antoinitastokes4209
      @antoinitastokes4209 Před rokem +5

      The thing about the woman before is the promise wasn't in her so no matter how she responded to the king request it wouldn't have worked. Walking did prove she wasn't for him. Great topic

    • @zelin7460
      @zelin7460 Před rokem +7

      @@antoinitastokes4209 Amen, I agree it was God’s will but the message is vital. Regardless of someone’s title, the money they earn, etc., you must have standard and boundaries. As Bishop mentioned, this taught the king to respect his next wife. This was awesome ❤️

    • @zelin7460
      @zelin7460 Před rokem

      @@doll.ov.poetrii4682 Wow! That says a lot.

    • @antoinitastokes4209
      @antoinitastokes4209 Před rokem

      I have to agree to disagree on the respect part but I'm with you

  • @chrystalwells1816
    @chrystalwells1816 Před 10 měsíci +22

    Another POWERFUL message, delivered as only the incomparable Bishop R.C. Blakes can do it!
    "Where, oh, where were you Bishop when most of us needed you decades ago???!!!
    "YOU CANNOT EXPECT RESPECT FROM THE WORLD UNTIL YOU HAVE MODELED RESPECT FOR YOURSELF."
    Praying God continues to bless you, Bishop and your beautiful Queen, Lady Lisa with your God anointed ministry 🙏🏼

  • @candyberry477
    @candyberry477 Před rokem +15

    I did all this not knowing that I was requesting respect. And it works just as u said. He knows I value myself, and that he can't find another woman like me so easy if ever again. His words exactly.😊

    • @liabw05
      @liabw05 Před 10 měsíci

      Awe yes Queen!! 👑🥰

  • @SilverDiva65
    @SilverDiva65 Před rokem +8

    Thank you as a Seasoned Senior Disabled (age 65) Queen who has been divorced 20 years. You have blessed my soul with this. I want to start dating again and be pursued by a Genuine King seeking his Queen. I love me some me and want to be able to continue to show this to a man who is seeking companionship in a Godly woman of values and worth. I'm also praying about attending your Queenoly Conference. I will speak to my daughter about attending it together. I have subscribed to receive all your post on CZcams. May God continue to prosper you and your Queen that will overflow throughout your ministry. Amen❤❤

  • @casandrahornerdbamaomnp3046

    Thank you Pastor Blake’s for teaching on this topic. Rarely do (young)women hear messages on dignity. The importance of self love, being an exceptional woman, and effective listening is wisdom women of all ages need to hear and implement in their daily life.

  • @childhoodluv
    @childhoodluv Před rokem +4

    At 57 yrs old never knew to shut down the date first!
    THANK YOU😊

  • @laughingowl9294
    @laughingowl9294 Před rokem +15

    Lord protect this man. His advise is priceless. Everything i apply from him has immediate positive results. Thank you for look out for women

  • @tukessahousen4983
    @tukessahousen4983 Před rokem +16

    Teach Pastor ! 🙌
    'Love yourself more than you like him !👏👏

  • @lovedandabundant6384
    @lovedandabundant6384 Před 10 měsíci +15

    Thank you for the Father- daughter advice. I was not privileged to have this, and although I am grown, please know how much it means to those who never knew how much they needed it or craved it ♥️

    • @janellamurphy4212
      @janellamurphy4212 Před 9 měsíci

      Thank you Bishop BLAKES for sowing valuable seeds into my life❤❤!! I never grew up knowing my father which resulted not knowing about relationships with men😥! Now God is making it right for me to behave like a Queen should🤗

  • @mobe494
    @mobe494 Před rokem +17

    My God! You sho nuf preached better than they was shouting!! Believe you me, I was shouting with you Pastor Blake’s!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ckl5801
    @ckl5801 Před 9 měsíci +4

    My value is non negotiable. My self esteem is hard won, high and healthy. I can accept no less from a potential partner.

  • @filipinaescala1811
    @filipinaescala1811 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I started to apply these tools and life is much easier,I don't get involved easily nowadays 😊.I take my time today I am loving the peace of being single. I know for sure I learned my value as a woman,I learned to cut from my soul ties .I will continue to watch your videos.Thank for being the father for many of us.

  • @vickiparsons5698
    @vickiparsons5698 Před rokem +7

    Please 🙏 thumbs 👍.. especially for the strong ladies on here

  • @carolkami.671
    @carolkami.671 Před rokem +8

    I love it!! Knowing how to enforce my value has earned me a peaceful co-parenting situation soon after I left my toxic marriage .. I'm so grateful.

  • @4cubed22
    @4cubed22 Před rokem +7

    Video starts @5.53 Thank you

  • @JJ-xx2fw
    @JJ-xx2fw Před rokem +4

    Honestly the smallest things matter I just woke up to flowers at my door after one date and many phone calls a man will show you when he cares I’m so used to men that do nothing that I really didn’t realize my worth ! So true about the value factor I’ve had men never talk to me again when I tell them my standards !

  • @carmelitebuisson5197
    @carmelitebuisson5197 Před rokem +16

    Pastor, Thank you for teaching diligently women to be better than we are currently!! God bless you and Godspeed to you and your wife.

  • @isabeltorres3347
    @isabeltorres3347 Před rokem +8

    This is the most edifying video I’ve ever heard.. I just heard it for the second time and I believe I have to hear it again and again until I memorize it.. The way this man speaks about his wife..❤❤

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 Před rokem +28

    I love the picture ❤❤

  • @Diana-cq1yp
    @Diana-cq1yp Před 4 dny

    My man broke up with me and I went straight to this video to remind myself that my reaction can affect my value and self esteem. As much as it hurts, I refuse to compromise either one! I love you RC Blake! You are my CZcams father! I

  • @DreaRJ
    @DreaRJ Před rokem +32

    I just started following you this past month; ran across one of your videos while searching for something else. You have blessed my spirit while reinforcing some teachings my father taught me & he’s a Pastor also. I needed to hear this word & other videos. It helps me to stay focused. Keep allowing GOD to use you as a DAD for so many women. My father is alive & well, but I have DEEMED you as my CZcams Dad!!

  • @jasmineestafia
    @jasmineestafia Před rokem +15

    This is probably one of my favorite productions of yours bishop! Every woman should leave this message feeling elevated & like the Queen she is! You really cut up with this one. Thank you and thank you sir! 👌🏽❤❤

  • @kathrynaddante3328
    @kathrynaddante3328 Před rokem +5

    I poured into my ex which is probably why he stayed as long as he did but he still kept abusing me and putting me down and doing everything to make me know that I was replaceable and worth nothing to him. I am very feminine but I haven’t yet learned how to leave a bad situation when it’s time to leave, which forces me into masculine energy that I resist as much as I can but it comes out when I’m not ok, and then I get sick because of it.

  • @yc5141
    @yc5141 Před 10 měsíci +6

    This is the holy grail pastor 🎉👏🏼🎉👏🏼🎉 THANK YOU . God has leveled up my life through you. What a gift 🎁

  • @mrspmclark
    @mrspmclark Před rokem +4

    Thank you so much for defending Vashti. I’ve always honored her stand and have taken flack for it. But she was honoring herself and was used to being honored and held her ground. I can say so much more. Thanks you so much!!!

  • @florencepl4343
    @florencepl4343 Před rokem +10

    Saving this one for the books! 🌟 Pure gold 🌟 this is worth re-watching on a regimen to stay grounded in truth as a woman.

  • @jasirijana6822
    @jasirijana6822 Před rokem +11

    This was sooo good! I’m so thankful that God has transformed me. I have embodied most of these as an adult but there were times I did not and those times I definitely was not valuing myself. From now until forever there’s no negotiating my value. Sharing this with my nieces and friends!

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 Před rokem +9

    Thank you, Bishop. This was awesome advice!! I just loved this! I told that last man on the first date after he spoke to me disrespectfully at dinner, goodbye and maybe he will learn to treat the next woman better. I went home and blocked his number.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Před rokem

      What did he say wrong at dinner?

  • @pamgraham1751
    @pamgraham1751 Před rokem +11

    This is such a GREAT Topic. Looking forward to listening with attentiveness.

  • @KeepHealingSis
    @KeepHealingSis Před 11 měsíci +7

    The timing of this message coming back full circle is an "Only God could've done it" moment for me in this season. Thank you sincerely for the Fatherly advice and for standing in Proxy for a multitude of Dads to their daughters who desperately need this level of Father language in their lives. Happiest Father's Day to you and continued blessings 🙏🏾❤‍🩹🛐✝

  • @modernwomanTv
    @modernwomanTv Před rokem +5

    God bless you Sir!! I needed this. Must admit that I was a Pro at this as a single woman & I was highly sought after because of this. However, now married, I am relearning myself, while elevating these attributes for a better improved version of myself as a WIFE!!

  • @saraifascinetto5437
    @saraifascinetto5437 Před rokem +18

    Your teachings are solid gold, Bishop Blake's. Thank you. Blessings.

  • @NovakRealtyLLC
    @NovakRealtyLLC Před rokem +3

    That was amazing! We are glad we caught it when you released it. We enjoy your work. Well wishes to you and your lovely family! 😊

  • @trinawilliams3459
    @trinawilliams3459 Před rokem +9

    I NEEDED THIS I FELL 📴 MY HIGH VALUE IM 🔙 IN LINE AGAIN THANK GOD FOR PASTOR RC BLAKES TEACHING 🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @takenalemons7168
    @takenalemons7168 Před rokem +10

    I LOVED THIS MESSAGE!
    I have so much spiritual growth and in my relationship since I've been listening to his messages. I look forward to getting fed spiritually every week. Thanks and Thank God for you Pastor Blakes.

  • @user-yi6gy1tj2t
    @user-yi6gy1tj2t Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thank you for being a father to all of us lost women. May God continue to bless you in your work. I cannot put into words how much your videos have helped me

  • @MrMotherofdivinity
    @MrMotherofdivinity Před rokem +7

    This message lifted me so high I could see MySelf evolving -loving the Goddess I Be! I didn't want this message to end!

  • @Theshadythrifter
    @Theshadythrifter Před 11 měsíci +5

    You truly are a prophet of discernment. Although I was raised with a wonderful father, I find your information truly helpful in navigating how men think and also implementing boundaries in relationships. Thanks for keeping it professional and conservative.

  • @AyeshaMusingsFromtheEther

    Thank you Pastor Blakes! This video is full of golden gems. I am so grateful for all of the wisdom that you share. My father passed away a long time ago now but whenever I watch your videos, I imagine that these would be the kind of conversations that he would have with me - if he was still here ❤🙏🏾

  • @nonelikme30
    @nonelikme30 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Thank you for taking the time to teach us this. So many of us just don’t know. We were never taught. You are appreciated

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 Před rokem +8

    Preach it Pastor...thank u so so much for this Sermon

  • @ToshaWarrenTalks
    @ToshaWarrenTalks Před rokem +5

    I am so blessed by this teaching. I found Bishop and Lisa Blakes a few years back and their ministry has changed my life. Bishop is the father I never had; although he was physically there until his death, my natural father was not present where it mattered until I was altready grown. God has truly blessed me through this ministry.

  • @moniquewebb4381
    @moniquewebb4381 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I am available to receive this message! Thank you pastor for this encouraging conversation.

  • @sripriyan.chenofficial2083

    You took the words.out of my mouth and spoken them out laud and I’m a Jew hearing you from Israel, it’s just the proof all people of truth are one , United and think the same. Great work, stay blessed

  • @-.-_123
    @-.-_123 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Happy Father's Day RC Blakes. I never had a father to tell me these things, so I appreciate your videos so much.

  • @odettecummingsfernald8671

    Thank you Pastor Blakes for this very necessary teaching. Blessings to you and family ❤️🙏🏾

  • @bebejones2087
    @bebejones2087 Před rokem +1

    Always dropping great gems! You are appreciated!

  • @amimartinez4217
    @amimartinez4217 Před rokem +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥Thank you Pastor Blakes!!!! Your our spiritual father !! God bless you

  • @KatieLee0823
    @KatieLee0823 Před rokem +9

    Bishop you are truly what this generation needs. Thank you for your consistency in sharing knowledge with us so we won’t be destroyed ❤

  • @toongha
    @toongha Před rokem +5

    Hmm, I get that a woman should set boundaries and yes, she should leave 1st, but I'm wondering... why would a healthy man want to take advantage of a woman? Yes, I get that he might get "lazy" and too comfortable, but when I think of a healthy man, I picture a compassionate/empathic man who'd think of other people's feelings and needs (especially the feelings of the woman he is interested in) as much as his own and won't try to use or disrespect people for his own benefit...
    I'm genuinely asking... I don't know many healthy men in real life and I'm trying to understand a healthy christian man's mindset...
    I honestly find it exhausting to always be on guard and try to "teach" him how to be around me.
    As I said earlier, I'm all for boundaries and communication, but that man has to have a mind of his own too and know not to disrespect me

  • @user-wu6hs8sv3w
    @user-wu6hs8sv3w Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thanks! Resonated highly! Will follow!

  • @melaningoddessevolution4167

    This is good teaching. Thank you Bishop RC Blakes.

  • @michalpastrik8321
    @michalpastrik8321 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Bishop RC Blake's thank you for the time and effort you put into your teachings to make others stronger and more knowledgeable. It's never too late to increase your value and often we don't know how. Now I do and will. My dad is a Pastor, I'll be sharing this video with him and discussing as he has been helping me with a difficult relationship and although sends a similar message, this one allows me to feel more certain about my next step and empowered as a woman.

  • @Lovingkindness108
    @Lovingkindness108 Před rokem +5

    Thank you father for another enlightenment sermon. May health will always be with you🙏🏼.

  • @topneverstop
    @topneverstop Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much for everything Uncle Blakes!! May God continue to bless your ministry!!!

  • @fatima072424
    @fatima072424 Před 9 měsíci

    I recently discovered you, the last couple of days and I've been binge watching all your videos, wish they were longer because your voice brings peace and so much security and strength. I ended a 2 year relationship yesterday after watching your video of how a queen should act and be treated. I also bought your book, queenology. Thank you for changing our minds and spirits.

  • @michelejonjock5910
    @michelejonjock5910 Před rokem +9

    Can't wait 😊. I know this is going to be a great message

  • @glorytoyahuah2935
    @glorytoyahuah2935 Před rokem +5

    HalleluYAH! Praises be to Yah for a man of God such as you! Definitely an on time Word! Blessings to you and your family.

  • @a.f.wonsley8288
    @a.f.wonsley8288 Před rokem +1

    Paster Blakes, I listen to your videos quite regularly. I didn't think you could top them. But this right here was exceptional. I learned what Im doing well in and not so much in other areas thanks to you. I appreciate you so very much 🌞

  • @jcolon4740
    @jcolon4740 Před rokem +2

    I need to have this on replay DAILY. thank you Bishop.

  • @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024

    YES, VERY WELL NEEDED ‼️‼️

  • @rhondaedwards664
    @rhondaedwards664 Před rokem +25

    That's good teaching and mentoring 💜 Thank you Bishop Blakes! We love you out here 💜 ❤️ 💜

    • @Carmen-D-Clinton
      @Carmen-D-Clinton Před 11 měsíci

      😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤

  • @lilianarios3651
    @lilianarios3651 Před rokem +1

    Ever since I began watching your video (last summer), they’ve completely changed my life. Thank you.

  • @nicharr7796
    @nicharr7796 Před rokem

    Thank you Pastor Blakes. You are much needed and greatly appreciated.

  • @LindaVanGalder-jt6yf
    @LindaVanGalder-jt6yf Před 11 měsíci +3

    That's some good preaching and I never knew I was supposed to lift men up and how much it meant to them. Thanks 🙏

  • @anabella4296
    @anabella4296 Před rokem +3

    THAT'S A MASTER CLASS RIGHT THERE‼️💯💜💛 🙏🙌 💫👏 🤗 WE NEED A PART 2

  • @thefemaleupholster
    @thefemaleupholster Před 8 měsíci +1

    I have been struggling with value, raising the standards and self appraisal after many years of bad relational choices. I thank God for this great encounter.

  • @tarabeverly3680
    @tarabeverly3680 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for this one right here! You are indeed a rich blessing -- I always come back to hear these gems 💎

  • @marciepearl9671
    @marciepearl9671 Před rokem +4

    Good Evening Everyone. Greetings from Daytona Beach

  • @Breakthrough9
    @Breakthrough9 Před rokem +3

    Man you was preaching tonight, this was too good. I learned something that I will take with me forever. Thank you Mr. Blakes, you are valuable ❤️ 💙 💖

  • @BLACKCHEROKEE23
    @BLACKCHEROKEE23 Před 11 měsíci

    I needed this so much- Thank you Mr. RC Blakes Jr.!

  • @shawnhollins3315
    @shawnhollins3315 Před rokem +1

    This teaching was so good!! I enjoyed every moment of it!