ending a 3 year relationship, changing my name and moving across the country

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  • čas přidán 14. 10. 2023
  • I've missed you all. Can't promise I'll be regular with uploads but can promise more is coming 🤍
    visit my website here zofiamgoral.thinkific.com
    my business email: zofiamgoral03@gmail.com

Komentáře • 46

  • @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh
    @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh Před 8 měsíci +31

    It is very sad how little this account is - and how heard this young woman needs to be - if we all could take a lesson from her in life, we might all be as free, happy and healthy as this wonderful young woman. May God Bless your soul and all your Journeys new in life. I’ll be praying for your recovery, healing, and prosperity 🫶🙏

  • @AlexandraDonis
    @AlexandraDonis Před 8 měsíci +16

    In case you read this. Zosia… What a beautiful decision you made, reclaiming your name. Heart-breaks and self-realization are a funny thing, aren’t they? Turns out the things that can be the most painful (truly the most challenging to say the least) are the ones that bring the biggest lessons, and as you heal, you become almost grateful for those situations, like realizing what you're capable of overcoming and who you can be. Growth and learning are a super power. I hope you find everything that you’re looking for, Zosia and that you enjoy every last bit of your overall journey, and self-discovery; the lows and the highs. As well as enjoying university and being around people. As opposed to you, I myself am quite an introvert lol but I’ve watched a few of your videos along the way and I’m always happy to listen to what you share. I’ve never posted a comment like this on CZcams, but if you ever wanna chat further and just share life stories and life lessons, I’ll be happy to! Cheers to more beautiful days

  • @alexkoberda7570
    @alexkoberda7570 Před 8 měsíci +7

    I notice whenever I talk to anyone who is Polish American like me there is an instant connection. I rarely meet any Poles unfortunately. Started watching when you posted your viral video, hope your channel grows so you can eventually get monetized. It's cool to see someone's life take an upturn, it gives a little hope, especially when I have my own hard times.

  • @PatrickVDV
    @PatrickVDV Před 8 měsíci +5

    By the title I thought you were running away from your past. I'm grateful to hear and see that it's the complete opposite.
    Bless you and keep doing the difficult (but not really) thing of facing your past and changing for the better🙏

  • @ZaphodsPlanet
    @ZaphodsPlanet Před 8 měsíci +12

    I totally love your real name, Zofia... Don't think of it as "changing" your name..... You're RESTORING it :)

  • @BR-cy8rp
    @BR-cy8rp Před 8 měsíci +6

    Zosia ❤ congratulations for retuning home to yourself! You are glowing, your light is bright! Keep shining the world needs to hear your voice!

  • @karambolhs7698
    @karambolhs7698 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Cześć Zofia. Obserwuje Twój kanał od jakiegoś czasu. Cieszę się, że powoli, stopniowo prostujesz ścieżki swojego życia. Niechaj Bóg Ci sprzyja.

  • @ericgee198
    @ericgee198 Před 8 měsíci +5

    your God given name is beautiful as is the growth and wisdom. Congratulations on all of your progress and triumphs and keep up the good fight.

  • @zoe_24
    @zoe_24 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Wow, the meaning of your names really shows your journey, i love how you're connecting with your heritage and true self, thank you for sharing this- i really appreciate your wisdom and am glad you're in a better placs

  • @crispena8897
    @crispena8897 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you. You always bring me peace of mind and you make me feel like I am absolutely bonkers for what I think

  • @nervid1452
    @nervid1452 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Przepiękne imię, pasuje Ci! Pomodlę się za Ciebie. Jestem pewna, że wszystko się ułoży ❤️

  • @boomslick2436
    @boomslick2436 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Praying for ya, I know you said it's been a month but that's still not easy, also happy to hear you're restoring your name

  • @P.Whitestrake
    @P.Whitestrake Před 8 měsíci +1

    Good to see you striving to be better, accepting your real name, & learning more.

  • @melona1001
    @melona1001 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you for this video. It is really relaxing hearing you talk and inspiring at the same time ☺️

  • @gratius1394
    @gratius1394 Před 8 měsíci +4

    I know that such emotional turmoil you're currently going through is something quite painful but believe me, you'll feel better in few weeks. The first time is always the worst because one doesn't really know how to cope with it. Moreover, don't take your ex's behaviour too personally - different people deal with breakups in different way, a lot of them will try to literally party their troubles away.
    I'm also very glad to hear that you've decided to reconnect with your heritage a bit more, including your decision to use your original name again. It seems like you're on good path, I hope you'll do your best to stay on it and we will all witness how much you have grown as a person during your journey.
    Wygląda na to, że będzie jeszcze z Ciebie naprawdę fajna Polka, Zosiu. 😉
    Greetings from Fatherland.👋

  • @paraspective
    @paraspective Před 8 měsíci +9

    Bless you Zosia!
    When my ex told me I was too good for her, I got angry inside, but I tried to hide it. I tried to stay calm and rational and show her what I saw in her, but she didn't see the same. I kept asking, why would anyone say such a thing about themselves? Well, because she was right. She knew she was going to hurt me from the start. I should have listened.

    • @sarenka11
      @sarenka11  Před 8 měsíci +8

      You hit the nail on the head - sometimes when we’re in a relationship with someone who has low self esteem, we try to prove them wrong, but too often at our own expense

  • @lucianajera8214
    @lucianajera8214 Před 8 měsíci

    I feel so deeply identified with everything you say, I honestly wish I could meet you in person because I find you such a deep and interesting woman.

  • @sakra4178
    @sakra4178 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Durham? Awesome! Not Northumbrian, neither Brittish at all, but me love me some Saint Cuthbert.

  • @lucianajera8214
    @lucianajera8214 Před 8 měsíci +1

    You’re such a beautiful human! I have a little bit of trauma with Poland or anything related to poland in general because my ex cheated on me with a polish girl, but aside from that I absolutely adore your culture and idk I just wish I could know more about Poland without feeling judgamental because of this girl.

  • @voices_vary
    @voices_vary Před 6 měsíci

    Breakups are difficult--because you're a feeling person. Trust me, it will fade, just keep up your work, your life, your family relationships, your education (whatever form that is), and TRAVEL! Learn about the world and be curious about it. That's an outward energy that will give back to you!

  • @Nz11918
    @Nz11918 Před 8 měsíci +3

    jamie im so happy tht you are back i missed your content so much. you are glowing and look so happy im really happy that you are loving life and things are going great for you! Stay blessed

  • @SemNicolaj
    @SemNicolaj Před 8 měsíci +1

    Respect.

  • @paradoxpoke
    @paradoxpoke Před 8 měsíci

    I hope God blesses you and i saw you said you were catholic so I hope you dwell in the life that comes with Jesus. Please don't take this as personal to you as i dont know you but as general encouragement from a brother which is that if you believe in God don't underestimate Rev 3:15-20 and how complacency can trick us from experiencing how much love and truth God has to give through those who seek him. Take one step towards- he takes 2 towards you
    when u mentioned wisdom it made me think of proverbs 9:10-12 . The way you think about things seems v healthy to me i rate it. Praise to the God who gives us air to breathe

  • @carbonribs
    @carbonribs Před 8 měsíci

    This is savage ❤

  • @benhughes4493
    @benhughes4493 Před 8 měsíci +2

    missed seeing you lately hope all is well praying for you !

  • @badchinchila9799
    @badchinchila9799 Před 8 měsíci

    Zosia really missed your uploads! You're never alone when God is by your side everything will turn out alright!
    Jeremiah 29:11- " For I know the plans I have for you, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope."

  • @twelveytwelve
    @twelveytwelve Před 8 měsíci +1

    😍😍

  • @Janis_Even
    @Janis_Even Před 8 měsíci

    Hello Zofia
    Yes the first name says many things:
    Your gender, your geographical origin, your family origin, your religion, your cultural identity, your era, so many things are integrated into your birth name.
    You can never get rid of your first birth name. It's always written down somehow. Internally and also officially.

  • @AylienYu
    @AylienYu Před 8 měsíci +2

    I almost joined your discord but my facial dysmorphia got to me really bad. I also used to be trans, I'm free from dysphoria but I still struggle with self-image greatly, I simply couldn't take the selfie for your discord. Still appreciate you for creating safe space for women to work on their mentality.

    • @sarenka11
      @sarenka11  Před 8 měsíci +1

      My love you can send a photo through my private message and no one else will see, please don’t worry I am absolutely not judgemental. Don’t let this be the reason you can’t join our community, trust me, we are a welcoming and uplifting group. Sending you love and light 🤍

  • @nayanmonigogoi5492
    @nayanmonigogoi5492 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Wat s beauty u r anyone will lucky to b ur soulmate

  • @tanya.24
    @tanya.24 Před 8 měsíci +1

    What do you study at uni?

  • @mddvs
    @mddvs Před 8 měsíci

    Durham is great :)

  • @flavioy2f
    @flavioy2f Před 5 měsíci +2

    I just wanted to know if the ex was male or female, but she keeps using "they/them".

  • @Ahil982
    @Ahil982 Před 8 měsíci +1

    You showed in previous videos that you were in a relationship with a girl, thats how I saw it at least. How did your parents react to thtat?

  • @advicefrolife
    @advicefrolife Před 8 měsíci

    Why this person isn’t the biggest influencer for young women?🕵🏼‍♂️

  • @leqmaamaleekeoepepw3594
    @leqmaamaleekeoepepw3594 Před 8 měsíci

  • @salty4496
    @salty4496 Před 8 měsíci +1

    :)

  • @highflyer3353
    @highflyer3353 Před 8 měsíci

    Can we start a discord for bros and sisters I'm not good at making those

  • @dreimalnein22
    @dreimalnein22 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Why do you call you ex they?!?

  • @zofiasitarska3615
    @zofiasitarska3615 Před 8 měsíci

    I’ve commented on one of your videos in the past but it’s nice to see you’ve reclaimed your name (I’m also called Zofia and my grandma was too🤍). I relate to what you were saying about growing up in the UK being Polish. I always felt different and like I didn’t belong as much as everyone else. Different cultures, different traditions etc. I sometimes wished I was English just so I could fit in with everyone else.
    I’ve also been curious to explore Catholicism a bit more. Growing up I didn’t believe in it and quite honestly it was forced on me so I had a bad relationship with it. I thought I’d never go back to it or be religious but something is calling me towards it. I’m already quite spiritual so we’ll see.
    I wish you the best with uni and your healing🫶 it sounds wonderful and I’m glad to hear you’re enjoying it so far :) I think I’m going to have to join your discord server🤭 lots of love ❤️

  • @olavjorvik94
    @olavjorvik94 Před 8 měsíci

    Anyone know her Insta? I need this energy🤩