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Thank you for sharing your experience. My 11 yo daughter, who has mental health struggles from trauma, has just announced she is my son, and I want to love and support her, but I also want her to see the sides of this that they don't tell you. I'll watch this video with her, and hopefully we can have some good conversations about it and navigate a way forwards that she won't regret later on in life.

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Thank you for speaking out. I was a Tomboy growing up (still am largely), and have often thought I am so grateful that there was not this level of encouragement to reject my own sexuality. I did get into drugs (70's and 80's) so I think you are very perceptive in that. Yes, growing up is difficult, and damaging our bodies does not make it easier. Much love to you!

Now, let’s address the broader issue: any ideology that imposes harmful practices on children is deeply troubling. The well-being and autonomy of young individuals should always be safeguarded. Advocating for informed consent, bodily autonomy, and respectful dialogue is essential. We must reject any doctrine that disregards these fundamental principles. If there are specific instances where gender ideology or any other belief system has been misused to harm children, it is crucial to address them through education, awareness, and legal protections. Let us stand together in promoting compassion, understanding, and the well-being of all, especially our most vulnerable members of society.

Nobody failed you. You bought into a clearly bankrupt ideology and now it isn't working out

ook u luisterde niet naar goede raad toen

I’m a man but was a very feminine child and worked over time to tone it down because at the time, it was socially unacceptable. Although I have thought at times my life would be easier if I was a woman because I might fit in better, to me the ultimate biological reality is that I’m a male, and I’m just grateful to be healthy and work with that. I feel gratitude that my body is physically unaltered and I can express my gender in loads of different ways without needing to take medication or operate on it.

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you next gen kids dont know what reality or real problems looks like, you escape to internet

In the 90’s, when we experienced what you’re experiencing- we called it “teen angst”, we bought black clothes, listened to Smashing Pumpkins, Nirvana, Radiohead etc., smoked some weed, drank and broke a few rules. It was an easier time. I wasn’t your typical male but I had many role models that helped me through it. I looked to male musicians and artists for guidance. At no point did any of us think we needed to change our sex. Though not all of us made it out alive. Quite a few teens and 20 somethings I knew wound up dead from driving drunk, falling off a cliff while on shrooms, or partying a little too hard to escape and winding up addicts and either ruining their lives or overdosing. The gay folks I grew up with are also fine. They’re now married to their gay partners and have kids and happy lives. No need to take hormones and get surgery. Being a teen is a tough transition for some. You just have to keep focused on a career goal or goals and get through it. I don’t really recommend therapy for most. Don’t wallow. Read good self help books - but don’t join a cult - and focus on a making yourself useful in society. Thats the big difference with this new generation. Forget about fitting in sexually or expressing yourself and learn some skills. Like repairing homes, or nursing or teaching or design or finance if you’re so inclined. One thing hasn’t changed: teens will look for anything that can get them out of getting a steady job. I can relate. I wanted to a famous musician. I almost got there. We all arrive at the same conclusion: life is about family and work. That’s it. Totally fine to dress weird in your teens, but leave your reproductive organs alone cuz you’re gonna need them. Fashion and expression is so important to teens but when you grow up it just doesn’t matter. Hygiene matters and looking presentable for work, but life isn’t a fashion show. Be clean, be nice, work hard. Do that and you’ll be fine. If you need more guidance than that, look up the Ikigai chart.

This strange Peter Pan issue is harming so many children. This is all related to not knowing how to grow up.

Welcome to the new world, honey. Ya'll picked Daddy Government over men. Go cry to him. Oh wait.. he doesn't care. He just wants you to work harder. Well you better man up and work harder, girl.

How strange it is to be anything at all.

I think that most people through ages have in puberty/teens some thoughts about how the life in different gender would be. But that remains as a taboo. It is part of becoming adult I think, I guess there is a lot of people who might not come up with that thought process for different reasons but I'm certain it is far more common that we think it is. Some people undoubtedly also do suffer from gender dysphoria. I have absolutely no idea about the ratio on these.

I appreciate your honesty and kindness in sharing your story.

Another victim of a social contagion.

Been a teen is a hard time already and dealing with all this things of identity and sexuality just make it worse.

How do you expect to help other people when you can't even help yourself?

So sweet and beautiful <3

I feel like your defination of feminine are from male youtubers ,and you are letting man dictate how you should behave and action .You don’t have to be musculine or femininity. Just be yourself and do what you ,need to do to survive 💯

The mere fact how many disclaimers you put up not to hurt anyone's feelings on the "community" and defend your opinion as being inoffensive is testimony of how much a problem the community poses for anyone who disagrees with their narrative.

But do you think it's possible to heal your mental health if you feel/think that you're in the wrong body/gender and believe that is why your mental health is suffering? (I hope the question is clear).

Can you please cite your sources on your statistic claims? At 12:30 you claim that a majority are equally depressed after transitioning, after that, you claim suicide percentage goes up after medical transition. I don't see sources for your claims on your website, in this video, or in the description.

There are toxic people in any community, and I could understand people being defensive about something that is very important to them. I haven't encountered this closed mindedness that you describe amongst my friends.

Your voice is so important Zosia. You could have chosen to be silent & move on with your life, and no one would have blamed you. That makes you very special for having the courage to speak about your experience. Best wishes for your future.

Not to be offensive,but you look tired and alittle sad

just curious, are you Polish?

Welcome back. Spread the word.

Beautiful

Stay brave and stay away from any hateful people who give you a bad time for finding yourself. Those people were never real friends if they can’t accept that you are glad that you saved yourself from irreparable harm. It’s a shame that videos like yours are not more plentiful. It might save a lot of people from making a hasty invasive mistake.

I remember back when I was seeing so much about transitioning and thinking these children will grown up soon to regret this change. It was a trend that many fell into. You are perfect just the way you are ♥

Relatable.

You seem pretty female to me mate

loads of men would fancy you your white blond and blue eyed who wouldnt your georgous

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Yes you are meant for more and you are worth respect now as you serve

The alphabet mafia masterminded this deception and planned it step by step long ago. How else would we explain the end of it except by looking at this one verse of scripture in Genesis ch 19: "And ALL the men of the city, young and old, surrounded Lot's house." That IS the rotten, bitter, poisonous "fruit" Their harvest. But thanks be for this young woman and her testimony. May her message not return void.

"Heal your mental health and then consider..." Such wise and true words, thank you so much for this. I also feel that social media plays a huge role in this as it makes a lot of knowledge accessible to a lot of impressionable young minds who as you said see people tying their identity to their gender identity and sexuality.

You are brave

Why do u have a polsih name yet u dont even have a polish accent

Total bullshit. No toddler has a choice and then have to suffer for decades

I wanted to be neither male nor female. And I still consider myself to be none of that. It goes against nature, surely, but sexual hormones ravage your body and above all your mind. Not everyone can stand that metamorphosis. I lived my life like a mule carries its burden, face down, shoulders down, and a permanent fog in the brain. Realizing, year after year, that my life amounted to nothing I could really fit in. And all those things you cannot say to anyone. I understand your pain. Take care. Love.

<3 I know this video is a year old, but keep speaking your truth. I applaud you and your bravery in sharing your story. I'm 61 and had I been able to transition at the age of 12-18, I would have done so. I'm so glad I didn't.

Misery love's company ....

Are you from Poland?

thank you, author

I love your channel! From Belgium

Discipline can become a prison. It is good to have habits only if you don't live only by them.

I need a girl like zosia fr