How To Hide A Larger Stomach - Do's & Don'ts. Apple Shape. With Personal Stylist Melissa Murrell

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  • How to disguise a larger Stomach. Do’s and Don’t’s of dressing an apple body shape / menopausal stomach / extra stomach weight with Personal Stylist Melissa Murrell. Click the ‘READ MORE’ link below for all the items mentioned in the video.
    For reference I’m:
    A UK Size 8-10 (USA: 4-6, EU: 36-38)
    5ft 3.5 (ish) = 161cm
    Contact Details:
    Instagram: melissamurrellpersonalstyling
    Website: www.mmpersonalstyling.co.uk
    MY OUTFIT (UK Links)
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    Reiss Navy and Camel Jumper, Size Small, rstyle.me/+Jr3ZjG3-h-nYTQwsN0...
    MY OUTIFT (USA Links)
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    Reiss Navy and Camel Jumper rstyle.me/+Jr3ZjG3-h-nYTQwsN0...
    OUTFITS - UK LINKS:
    Whistles Alba Shift Dress (UK link) - rstyle.me/+gnACtBp2O8jNM-q0I8...
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    Neutral Fitted Blazer (less expensive version) rstyle.me/+jxnc-QcUAP5DdMoPK5...
    Linen blend thin duster cardigans (2 colours) bit.ly/3i0Efic
    Zara Pink Tighter Trousers - go.zara/3vPvOOu
    Zara Nude Heels - go.zara/3Ce8qvC
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    Zara basic natural jumper go.zara/36bxLdk
    Zara silk/satin wide leg trousers (blue not pink) go.zara/3IbC9Xq
    Mint Velvet Tunic Blouse - rstyle.me/+UpMlMET34J8mqVbaM1...
    Jigsaw small floral print dress - rstyle.me/+9_wmNdMRfpCrwzvFWu...
    OUTFITS - AMERICAN LINKS:
    Fitted Blazer (similar to Zara one shown) rstyle.me/+a3nsoCfzrX-Q92SHfI...
    Whistles Alba shift Dress rstyle.me/+kP_PcCX7Rnl2p1B1Fu...
    Linen blend thin duster cardigans (2 colours) rstyle.me/+TNYoNOl6Abf3vzOF6C...
    Neutral Blazer (Similar) rstyle.me/+bVY1oisBWc8Riy9dSh...
    Neutral more fitted blazer (similar) rstyle.me/+6IlI06JWLXKKFEaJQ8...
    Reiss Navy Linen Dress - rstyle.me/+uFSAecdXNOSSd5JWVj...
    Reiss silk vest top (similar) rstyle.me/+GICp4sLcTI6hkhQ9lS...
    Faux Leather Cropped Trousers rstyle.me/+I4zvIqt4vvvkFXvjZt...
    Camel Blazer (similar) rstyle.me/+dXZb-YqSnXTcFtlw63...
    Shoulder Pads amzn.to/3i0K3YT
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    Striped top rstyle.me/+5Hubi-CAb_Eov1YiCE...
    Zara basic natural jumper: www.zara.com/us/en/basic-knit...
    Zara silk/satin wide leg trousers go.zara/3hYnhAX
    Mint Velvet Tunic Blouse rstyle.me/+UpMlMET34J8mqVbaM1...
    Lady who helped me get into shape!
    Ashley Palmer
    Psychotherapist MBACP
    Metabolic Mindset Coach, Trainer.
    www.theflclinic.com
    ashley@theflclinic.com
    07770751300
    ADVERTISING: THIS POST CONTAINS AFFILIATE LINKS WHICH CAN SOMETIMES EARN ME A SMALL PERCENTAGE OF EARNINGS WHEN YOU MAKE A PURCHASE
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  • @dominiquecandelaria5436
    @dominiquecandelaria5436 Před 2 lety +875

    As a bigger woman, you using the belly to show how things might actually look was done in the most respectful way possible. You didn't put it on and make jokes or giggle. You were completely professional. You came up as a recommended suggestion and this video has given you an instant follow from me! Excited to see what else you come out with xx ❤️

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +36

      Thank you so much, I appreciate that. I have 3 new body shape master class videos coming up and each of the ladies have larger stomachs and bigger busts for me to dress so you may find that useful x

    • @ellenbassett3598
      @ellenbassett3598 Před rokem +5

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @janewhitzend688
      @janewhitzend688 Před rokem +11

      I found it really helpful to use the belly add on. It illustrated how to over come the issues I am having perfectly.

    • @chrissied575
      @chrissied575 Před rokem +3

      I agree!!!

    • @kaylynnhuddleston5533
      @kaylynnhuddleston5533 Před rokem +3

      @@janewhitzend688 OMG NO NO

  • @laelakarimi
    @laelakarimi Před 2 lety +1034

    The extra mile that you did to help your bigger tummy audience is amazing. I feel so seen and heard. Big tummy issues aren't highlighted well in the fashion and styling categories. Thank you!! 🤗🤗💚

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +49

      That’s really nice that you feel heard - I’m really glad, that’s made my day! 😘

    • @dr.dshomedecorandmore5824
      @dr.dshomedecorandmore5824 Před 2 lety +46

      Yes, absolutely. Nobody helps us who have big bellies.

    • @Yorkie2
      @Yorkie2 Před 2 lety +27

      Laela Karmiri... I agree with you , fashion catalogues are designed to make us chubbies feel ashamed .

    • @amyjohnson7527
      @amyjohnson7527 Před 2 lety +5

      Yes! Thank you!

    • @fentonsmith3509
      @fentonsmith3509 Před 2 lety +1

      Mia

  • @sarahwood3888
    @sarahwood3888 Před rokem +138

    Just because I am 79 years old doesn’t mean I don’t want to look stylish and put together! I just found your videos, and have been binge watching. I’ve learned so much, and even though it means purging my closet of all the wrong things, like wrong length, wrong waistline, wrong leg width, etc. now I will go shopping with the right tools in my arsenal!! I was completely misunderstanding the concept of tucking!! Thank you for what you do, and sharing it with all of us. I’m going to check on your personal styling. Never to old to learn!!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem +3

      Absolutely never too old! I’m really pleased to hear you’re enjoying them and learning from them. X

  • @kimslate5715
    @kimslate5715 Před 8 měsíci +36

    Just found this today. I'm 52. My mother never taught me anything about clothing or makeup. I have secluded myself over the years and found more and more ways to avoid needing those skills. I've always secretly desired to be a casually elegant woman. This video answers so many questions. Thank you!!!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 8 měsíci +5

      You got this! There’s loads more videos on here where I dress women of all different shapes and sizes live on the channel so hopefully a few more tips and you’ll be feeling confident like you deserve x

    • @akekifs
      @akekifs Před měsícem +3

      Same. Except that I'm just about 30 😔

  • @jaquelinewright1656
    @jaquelinewright1656 Před 2 lety +492

    Please consider doing a part 2 on this subject! I'd love more outfit ideas and more details on what to look for when shopping. Thank you! Love your channel.

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +103

      I plan on re-visiting this using summer day outfits - i'm just waiting for the summer pieces to arrive in stock in the UK!

    • @jaquelinewright1656
      @jaquelinewright1656 Před 2 lety +15

      @@mmpersonalstyling this is wonderful news!! Thank you!

    • @jeannekuiper1796
      @jeannekuiper1796 Před 2 lety +18

      Thank you so much for your very helpful video! As a type 2 diabetic, insulin injections are the main culprit of my barrel belly. My belly sits above my belly button. I have broad shoulders (no shoulder pads needed), heavy upper arms, small bust, long torso with no hips, butt, or thighs. High/low shirts seem to exaggerate my flat rear end. My belly pulls the shirt up even higher in the front & leaves my rear end non existent. Sadly, there is very little info on how to style this body shape. I am looking forward to your summer video. Thanks again!

    • @robertamartinson144
      @robertamartinson144 Před 2 lety +5

      @@mmpersonalstyling that is great to hear as I will be planning a vacation and would love to have to help with my big tummy. lol

    • @reneeca5696
      @reneeca5696 Před 2 lety +3

      @@mmpersonalstyling that’s wonderful!! We’re already starting to see summer weather here in California. ☀️

  • @inhalemusicexhaleartjj
    @inhalemusicexhaleartjj Před 2 lety +374

    This is ACTUALLY life changing for me because I've been sitting here feeling so gross and just gave up on fashion because of my tummy and large bust. This gives me hope, I'm definitely going to try this and hope that I can feel better about how I look! 💗 Thank you for making this video for us mid size to bigger girls 💞 I hope maybe in the future you might consider making a video similar to this but for busty girls like myself who carry sizes DDD+

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +17

      I'm glad it helped. Have you seen the one where I dressed a woman with a barrel tummy and large boobs live on youtube? if not here's the link to it. czcams.com/video/Uak_fyXUpd8/video.html

    • @inhalemusicexhaleartjj
      @inhalemusicexhaleartjj Před rokem +2

      @@mmpersonalstyling I just watched this! Been exploring your channel, thank you for what you do!!! 💐🥰

    • @melissafedeli2022
      @melissafedeli2022 Před rokem +2

      I 1,000% agree this is mind blowing. At first I was like oh cool another skinny person talking about how to dress for a bigger size - but this so good! Thank you!

    • @AmonarayIsalay
      @AmonarayIsalay Před rokem

      I felt this myself

    • @soph5669
      @soph5669 Před rokem

      Wonderful! New sub ❤thanks so much!

  • @vanessamackey3857
    @vanessamackey3857 Před rokem +123

    I was one of those that resisted tucking in my shirt because I felt it exposed my tummy too much but you have convinced me! It looks so much better with just that simple front tuck. I will always do this from now on!

  • @heatherstevens8798
    @heatherstevens8798 Před 11 měsíci +28

    Dear Melissa. I know it's more than a year after you posted this video but I just came across it today. Two words - GAME CHANGER! Finally someone understands and I can't thank you enough. Having you wear the "tummy" that comes all the way up to the bust is key! That is a true apple shape in my opinion. I, for one, am always trying to hide my barrel and never tuck in my shirts. But after watching this I am going to try it! Thank you for bringing humour and respect and talking about real life bodies. From my little corner in Canada - THANK YOU!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 11 měsíci +3

      You’re very welcome, thank you so much for watching. There’s now 16 other body shape masterclasses on here, where I dress women of all different shapes and sizes live on the channel, including many who have apple shaped barrel stomachs. To watch any of these simply click on my logo then the ‘videos’ tab and it will list all of my videos in date order. X

  • @skdaniels3730
    @skdaniels3730 Před 2 lety +233

    You are really, really good at illustrating how to “do” the styling in a way that works along side a way that doesn’t. For those of us who need a 1-2-3 process, we can see 25 ways to tuck, and the first 10 look terrible. I enjoy your teaching so much!

  • @jaquelinewright1656
    @jaquelinewright1656 Před 2 lety +48

    Thank you for going the extra mile for us in this video! The tummy you added was extremely helpful to see a visual difference. Very well done with all the side by side shots.

  • @lorraineklimek1677
    @lorraineklimek1677 Před 2 lety +23

    I am 73 years old and gravity has taken a toll. I also have a hernia, right in the middle of my belly, that is not suitable for surgery. Finding clothes that hide my belly has been a super challenge. Your video is absolutely terrific. Thank you!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +3

      Sorry to hear about the hernia but if it makes you feel any better about the gravity bit, I'm only 46 and gravity has already taken a toll on me too 😂 I hide it with a good fitting bra but my husband says that padded bras are like false marketing or fake news!!!! I tell him it's his fault for getting me pregnant!!!!

  • @VickyLashenko
    @VickyLashenko Před 2 lety +46

    This is literally the best video I’ve ever seen on how to hide the tummy. Wow! I’ve gained a lot of weight with baby and still have quite a large tummy one year postpartum - this was SO HELPFUL! I’m literally making all the mistakes 🤦🏽‍♀️ thank you very much for going the extra mile and putting on a tummy! That makes it so much more relatable!!! I hope this video goes viral! I’ve also shared! Thank you!!!!!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety

      You're so welcome and thank you for sharing. Have you seen this one where I dress a lady with a larger stomach and bust live on camera? czcams.com/video/Uak_fyXUpd8/video.html

  • @foiblesanonymous
    @foiblesanonymous Před 2 lety +119

    And you win the award for the most helpful video in this category. So many talk about what to do but you really helped explain and visualise why I must tuck my tops in over my menopausal paunch and how a couple of quid on a pair of shoulder pads makes it possible for even an hourglass to style smock tops, a question I had been dying to ask anyone who might have an answer. All those pretty tops languishing in drawers because we know they are pretty but they make us look pretty awful if we don't utilise these game changing tips. I hope this video flies for you. One of my top ten fashion youtubes of all time now. xx

  • @Bid361
    @Bid361 Před 2 lety +17

    The tucking in tip is simply brilliant! What a difference it makes. Am going to rethink and revisit shirts and blouses I had given up on as they made me feel and look bigger.

  • @siby6117
    @siby6117 Před 2 lety +10

    This is far and away the best take on how to dress for an apple shaped body that I have ever come across!! Great understanding, explanation and advice for those who with a barrelled torso, as well as those with a pooch or apron. But the best thing is that the focus is not just on disguising the tummy area, but also on balancing it with shoulders, bust and legs. Thank you so much! I am now going to lay out my wardrobe and get rid of anything that does me no favours, replacing with options you mention as I can afford to🙏😊

  • @marycole434
    @marycole434 Před rokem +35

    I’m back, with another thank you. I had to try few times before I was comfortable, but I am so glad you talk about the half tuck because I LOVE it. This has absolutely changed how I feel about how I look in clothes, finally! I’ve gained 5-10 pounds as I approach 50. You’ve saved me from frustration, expensive wardrobe replacements, and insecurity, if I’m being honest. I’m so grateful you share your expertise with us.

  • @kristinahansink2494
    @kristinahansink2494 Před 2 lety +96

    I've literally been searching Google, youtube, everything... for this exact content. Thank you! This is exactly what I've been looking for. Please, do more just like this. Maybe swimsuits/shorts/summer ideas. ☀️

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +9

      Summer looks are coming - I’m just waiting for the items to come into our shops as it’s still very much winter and spring clothes x

  • @nancyjames7925
    @nancyjames7925 Před 2 lety +15

    Oh! Thank you so much for taking on that shape for a bit to show us ladies how we CAN still have style! I've had this barrel shape all my life at all weights and I love how you have shown to style myself!

  • @reddenver
    @reddenver Před rokem +2

    This is the best apple video I’ve ever seen. So thorough and respectful

  • @thefadingmoonlight
    @thefadingmoonlight Před 6 měsíci +6

    I love that she provided ways to adjust the clothing you already own

  • @paulamiller3878
    @paulamiller3878 Před 2 lety +16

    This is the best styling video ever! using the fake belly really helped visualize that the styling tips and tricks do work. This is a game changer for me. Thank you so much.

  • @AyeshaRameez
    @AyeshaRameez Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you sooo much! This was the most relatable video I've seen. When you showed a larger tummy, it looked realistic rather than looking pregnant like other women try to show when making videos like this. I've learnt so much and I'm so grateful

  • @domystique
    @domystique Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for showing this with the "tummy" added in! So much easier to see the difference in the fit of the clothing. Very helpful!

  • @kellylindsey1492
    @kellylindsey1492 Před měsícem +1

    This is absolutely the best styling advice I have heard in a while. Thank you for the informative video.

  • @margaretames6522
    @margaretames6522 Před 2 lety +29

    Thank you for demonstrating each of the looks with and without touches that hide extra tummy. It makes it so much clearer how these adjustments work. I don’t know what shape I am anymore - I’m just out of shape! I’ll work on that but in the meantime, I’ll be able to look my best in my current body.

  • @cristyb.7755
    @cristyb.7755 Před 2 lety +171

    Thank you so much for this video. After you put the fake belly on, I felt like I was looking at myself in the mirror. I am very similar to you in frame, slim pretty much all over but due to gastrointestinal issues and allergies/intolerances I’ve been suffering from for years, I’ve got a constant bloated belly, people often think I’m pregnant and it makes it so hard to find the right clothes, that’ll still flatter but hide the belly. Thank you for all your tips. I really love watching your videos

    • @nickytreagus8548
      @nickytreagus8548 Před 2 lety +21

      I am apple shaped with gastro issues so I completely get where you are coming from. It's so nice isn't it to get helpful non judgemental tips.

    • @abcabc2211
      @abcabc2211 Před 2 lety +6

      Maybe omnibiotic is of help? Please google it. (I am not doing advertisment, just want to help)
      I do have similar problems and this helps me a lot.

    • @laelakarimi
      @laelakarimi Před 2 lety +14

      Omg, are you me? I'm the exact same. People definitely think I'm pregnant.

    • @fionaH101
      @fionaH101 Před 2 lety +27

      Same here, such a pain isn't it? I find it so hard to find jeans because if they fit my bloated stomach they are crazy baggy on crotch, bum and thighs 😭

    • @cristyb.7755
      @cristyb.7755 Před 2 lety +18

      @@fionaH101 …..and if they fit our thighs, butt and crotch, then they can’t even close the front, zipper on both sides won’t even meet! Exactly, same here! 😅😓

  • @nonna1207
    @nonna1207 Před 2 lety +4

    What a great video! I have most definitely worn the no-no outfits the last five years because of tummy bulging thinking I’m hiding stomach. For 60 years I had no stomach but age has finally crept into my shape. So I will consciously use your advice about wardrobe adjustments and maybe I can feel a bit more confident about my style. Thank you for sharing such wonderful and helpful ideas about styling for us tummy gals. Your video is a gem.

  • @jenniferlynn1037
    @jenniferlynn1037 Před rokem +6

    Adding and the belly and the side by side are amazing. I can actually see what you’re talking about!! So much easier than trying to see it in the mirror (which is already terribly difficult for me). Thank you!!!

  • @marymiller8370
    @marymiller8370 Před 2 lety +6

    Much appreciation for all the effort you put into this video. From the similar colored clothes with side by side images to the incredible editing. Thank you!

  • @Mrsdeanroad
    @Mrsdeanroad Před 2 lety +173

    Thank you! You really go the extra mile to help us understand body shape. The side by side views of what to do and what to avoid is super helpful too. Perfect 🤩

  • @JodiYeager
    @JodiYeager Před rokem +3

    I truly appreciate your showing, not just telling us how to disguise our tummy pooches. I learned a lot. Thank you.

  • @protopiannelson5
    @protopiannelson5 Před 2 lety +22

    Thank you so much for this! I just hit menopause and dressing my belly was almost depressing. Now I'm armed with your tips and feel like I can be fashionable again ! ☺

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +2

      Oh great. Hopefully you've seen the new one i've just put on showing how to dress a larger stomach and larger bust on the lovely 'Denise'.

    • @juliehayne4636
      @juliehayne4636 Před 4 měsíci

      Same. Menopause is rough....

  • @nazeeniranfar2616
    @nazeeniranfar2616 Před 2 lety +13

    Great video 🥰 thank you very much for demonstrating the do’s and don’t with the aid of the padding 😍 I also agree that the side by side views are very useful 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @sun_up
    @sun_up Před 2 lety +90

    Hands down the best advice and demo I've ever seen/read on this topic. (And I've seen my share.) Explaining about the 2 different types of belly/paunch and going to the length of using a (fake) belly to demonstrate. Love it! Thank you!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +3

      Wow, thank you for search lovely compliments, i really appreciate you taking the time to comment xx

    • @kaytamaki3869
      @kaytamaki3869 Před 2 lety

      Just a wee bit to long explaining

  • @kelleyrn27
    @kelleyrn27 Před rokem

    So, so helpful! Thank you! I loved that you added the tummy to show the difference that styling makes!

  • @brittneygearheard5485
    @brittneygearheard5485 Před rokem +12

    Thank you so much for this. I have struggled with a tummy even when I was 127lbs and had a 26 inch waist! It's just my shape unfortunately. This was really encouraging!

  • @sharronwood3639
    @sharronwood3639 Před 2 lety +4

    So much content Melissa - thank you for the split screen demos …. Excellent ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @trudiroach
    @trudiroach Před 2 lety +6

    Wow, this was so amazing. Thanks for the insights. This is literally wardrobe-changing!!!

  • @linda7452
    @linda7452 Před rokem

    Perfect suggestions for me - they really do work and I've tried it with various outfits I own. Can't believe all this time I have been letting all my tops, oversized, just hang down and over to cover the lower belly pouch!! Thank you so much for your lovely demos!

  • @joyg3189
    @joyg3189 Před rokem +5

    Thank you! I've heard "tuck in" over and over again but now I understand what that actually does to give you shape and hide a tummy. The Santa tummy visual was brilliant!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem

      I’m glad. Have you watched the follow up video where I show all these tricks on a lady live on you tube? She has issues with her stomach and we managed to get all of the tricks working on her. Here’s the link for you czcams.com/video/yBx40E7URcY/video.html

  • @SK-lw9ku
    @SK-lw9ku Před 2 lety +101

    Omg that was the best styling video ever!! I’m an inverted triangle with broad shoulders and a belly but skinny legs. So the tucking in tops examples were so helpful! I loved how you showed the split screen with the 2 versions of untucked and tucked in. My style is the last one with skinny jeans and a blazer. Also no shoulders pads needed for me and they’re broad enough! x

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +5

      Glad you found it useful. It might be worth you watching episode 2 of the Body Shape Master Class and that lady had a similar shape to yourself so you might pick up some more tips x

    • @BellyJae
      @BellyJae Před 2 lety +9

      Me too! I have very broad shoulders, round belly that sits high and very skinny legs, no bum! Thanks mum and dad! 🤣🤣 I’m going to have to rethink my entire wardrobe now!

    • @vgwils3604
      @vgwils3604 Před 2 lety

      @@mmpersonalstyling Love it. I'd love to see you use models with smaller Boobs, large belly 43" plus with flat bottom 43" plus.
      I've always said Boobs should be bigger than belly but at 65 my belly has outgrown my boobs.
      I love your ideas because I used them too when I was smaller. Now I'm trying to find ways to dress stylish and comfortable without looking frumpy.
      Thank you for suggesting Shoulder Pads! Added height can help disguise wide shoulders in certain clothes.

    • @blacksorrento4719
      @blacksorrento4719 Před 2 lety +3

      Me too. I own nearly of those tops and I can see where I am going wrong.
      I got my fathers broad square shoulders, whilst my brother got the coat hanger ones of our mother. Life isn’t fair sometimes is it 🥴 all boobs and tummy, no bum, half decent legs.

    • @hauenluu
      @hauenluu Před rokem

      We're just the same shape! The struggle can be too real sometimes.

  • @pambukhari1282
    @pambukhari1282 Před 2 lety +7

    Thoroughly enjoyed this video! Really an eye opener, can’t wait for the next one… thank you xxx

  • @_firelocks_
    @_firelocks_ Před rokem +12

    Thank you so much for this. Seeing the do’s and dont’s is so important. I finally decided to buy clothes for the body I live in instead of living in two pairs of pants and three shirts until I lose weight. You made it clear to me that I can still look pretty and wear flattering things and not hate what I see in the mirror. Thank you again.

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem +1

      I’m so glad to hear that. Life is too short so embrace the here and now x

  • @vivienmakovik8054
    @vivienmakovik8054 Před rokem +1

    It’s actually like a magic trick! The tummy miraculously disappears with the correct styling. Amazing advice, thanks so much. I’m going to binge watch your videos now. ❤️💐

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem

      You're so welcome! Have a look at the body shape master class series where I dress women live on youtube, episodes 7 and 8 are both with apple shaped ladies who needed help for their torso area so you may find those useful. x

  • @cel6111
    @cel6111 Před 2 lety +9

    Another great video Melissa, I appreciate your work and the fact that you talk about very practical, real life things

  • @martinjewiss1059
    @martinjewiss1059 Před 2 lety +3

    Excellent video Melissa, great visuals for disguising the tummy area. really enjoyed this. Thank you. Laura x

  • @laurinda9009
    @laurinda9009 Před rokem

    Just seeing this now.. this is fantastic with the added tummy to show the ideas in a realistic way. Love it!! Well done!!

  • @haustittus
    @haustittus Před 2 lety

    This is amazing! The way you show the difference between how to wear clothes and how not to really illustrates your point. I’m so glad I found your channel. Thank you for the work you put into it!!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety

      You’re very welcome, thank you for taking the time to watch x

  • @brendashaw6747
    @brendashaw6747 Před 2 lety +3

    Brilliant ... more fabulous advice. Really helpful. Thank you Melissa

  • @christinekelly-rose303
    @christinekelly-rose303 Před 2 lety +3

    I avoided button down shirts for the exact reason you shown. Thanks for the excellent styling tip...now I don't have to avoid the wardrobe basic button down shirt. You have the best tips on CZcams!!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +1

      Goodness me, thank you very much, all of your comments are so lovely and encouraging xx

  • @kimfinnagan5809
    @kimfinnagan5809 Před rokem +2

    I just found your videos and this one could not be better for me. I have always tried to cover up my belly. It is a family trait that all the women in the family have. THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH! I cannot wait to try out your tips.

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem

      You’re welcome. Have you watched any of the body shape master class series where I dress women of all different shapes and sizes live on CZcams? Check out episodes 7,8 and 9 if you’re looking for help with the stomach area. X

  • @pageremick5504
    @pageremick5504 Před 2 lety

    BRILLIANT! I'm going to copy and paste this link into a file so I can refer to it several more times. What a difference it makes...and I'm so glad you shared just how to take the emphasis away from our middle. Thanks!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety

      Thank you for watching. Hopefully you've seen the new one i've just put on showing how to dress a larger stomach and larger bust on the lovely 'Denise'.

  • @nancylorenz5082
    @nancylorenz5082 Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you for this wonderful video! Putting the fake belly on was a wonderful idea to show the reality of having a belly. No one should ever be offended by you adding extra padding to illustrate how to properly style clothes on our not so perfect bodies. Love your videos!! Watching from Orlando, Florida USA

  • @marshadwrye9950
    @marshadwrye9950 Před 2 lety +8

    Life affirming! Its nice to sea video that confirms what I've been doing to be correct as my body changes. The examples are terrific. Clear visual demonstrations and your practical experience. This video is well executed informative and speaks to women like you'd want a good and trusted friend to say. I've seen your videos in my feed from time to time, but today, I'm subscribing. Well done!

  • @SJ-zz1uj
    @SJ-zz1uj Před 2 lety

    Can I just say how grateful I am to you for actually giving yourself a tummy - really helps

  • @Katrinagaming-en1os
    @Katrinagaming-en1os Před 8 měsíci +1

    #1 you transformed your shape to a realistic demonstration
    #2 You did this with respect
    #3 The side by side videos sold me everything that you were talking about
    Well done and thank you 👏👏👏

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 8 měsíci

      Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching and commenting x

  • @SusieJefferson
    @SusieJefferson Před 2 lety +7

    Just found you yesterday, watched the video and immediately went out and bought 2 pairs of wide leg trousers. Those and the Tshirt tuck-in trick were a total revelation! I'm 69, just lost over 4 stones so I'm down to a size 12/14, which is OK for 5ft 8in I think - but still have that big wobbly belly. So it's been a real help. No, I didn't find the false belly offensive in the slightest. I'd have found it offensive for someone slim and petite, with no apparent figure problem, to suggest solutions for a problem she doesn't have! So seeing all your tips work 'for real' has made all the difference. Needless to say, I've just subbed. Thanks so much!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +3

      I'm so glad my tips have inspired some new purchases that make you feel wonderful - love that! Thank you so much for watching xx

  • @karokaro7902
    @karokaro7902 Před 2 lety +4

    Amazing. Was waiting for that a long time. Thank you Melissa for your effort in doing this for us.

  • @luci-ferre
    @luci-ferre Před 2 lety

    Finally a channel for the everyday woman!! Love

  • @dainacooley7903
    @dainacooley7903 Před 2 lety +1

    This is THE BEST VIDEO I've ever seen on styling clothes! I have had a barrel belly my whole life, even when I was a thin teenager. These ideas helped me so much! Please make another one for bigger bellies. A new happy subscriber!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety

      Oh wow, thank you. You might like to see the video titled 'How to style a large bust and apple stomach' as this is where I dress a lady with these characteristics live on youtube . I hope it helps x

  • @chandragray8186
    @chandragray8186 Před 2 lety +13

    Thank you so much for this, I haven't known how to dress myself for years. I was a nice hourglass in my younger days, but after two kids and weight gain of have a blend between a pear shape and a apple shape and it has been frustrating to know how to dress myself. This has been very helpful, and gives me stuff to look for and play with when shopping.

  • @mavis2444
    @mavis2444 Před 2 lety +9

    Hi Melissa. Thank you so much for your time and this video. I’ve been learning a lot from you and your videos. This video is not offensive at all, it is super useful for apple shape body type woman like myself. I really appreciate your help and time for showing me I’ve been doing wrong all these time. Xoxo🙏🙏🙏

  • @leticiareynaldo4788
    @leticiareynaldo4788 Před rokem

    Omg omg I have seen SOOOO many videos and you my dear are the only one that has styled real body s. People with tummy’s and big busted are not easy to dress. You have been the only one to do the real thing. How to dress and not be scared to show that tummy big arms. Thank you thank you 😍😍😘😘😘😘

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem +1

      Thank you! It’s incredibly easy to dress anyone with a slender, in proportion frame, a lot harder to dress anyone outside of those parameters so thank you for recognising that and thank you for watching x

  • @rubylioness727
    @rubylioness727 Před 2 lety +2

    This is great! Thank you for the tips! I appreciate you using the extra padding! I actually have been doing some of these things intuitively but I hasn’t even thought of some like the shoulder pads with the tunic style blouse! Love it!

  • @helanalurie9962
    @helanalurie9962 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you very much for sharing this. We clearly see what a difference it makes when the top is tucked in. You gave us much to think about and re-think our strategies!

  • @janetlettrich2705
    @janetlettrich2705 Před 2 lety +3

    Best tummy video I’ve ever seen!! What a great idea to use the fake tummy to demonstrate. Many thanks from this apple girl! 😘

  • @mariabuffo4258
    @mariabuffo4258 Před 2 lety +1

    I love that you used a tummy because it makes it more realistic to the struggles of having a belly. Thank you!

  • @SUNSHINE-dm3le
    @SUNSHINE-dm3le Před rokem

    Thanks for all your tips …can’t wait to try all those looks

  • @janeta3509
    @janeta3509 Před 2 lety +12

    Love these tips. I usually tuck one side in creating a diagonal line that also camouflages well and gives my 5' height a bit of lift.

  • @InspiredByCreation
    @InspiredByCreation Před 2 lety +3

    Loved this and found it very helpful! Thank you for more excellent content!

  • @queeniealexandra4867
    @queeniealexandra4867 Před 2 měsíci

    I was in tears last week about my inability to style clothing for everyday and ways to do hide the tummy weight gain. I began searching for the topic and came across your channel. Glory hallelujah ❤❤ . You are the one I needed.
    I shared your name with my spiritual sister.😊 I told all my children. I just love all the tips and examples. I would also love to enroll in classes to become a personal styler.❤ I'm HOOKED😊

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 měsíci

      That's great to hear, i'm so glad we've been able to help you. We currently have 20% off our courses with the code WOMENSDAY . It won't last too much longer - i hope that helps!

  • @linaskidmore6769
    @linaskidmore6769 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for this video! I love your visual help by using the pillow. Excellent video! ❤

  • @susieguinness5398
    @susieguinness5398 Před 2 lety +3

    Another brilliant video and advice. Learned so much. You’re a breath of fresh air and very talented 🙌 x

  • @TraceyBudgell
    @TraceyBudgell Před 2 lety +54

    Thank you so much! This video was awesome. We see so many "hide your tummy" videos from people who don't really have a tummy. It was nice seeing the added belly to make it feel relatable. I went from a curvy hourglass figure to a barrel figure that gets emphasized even more because of IBS.

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you. Have you seen episode 7 of the body shape master class videos where I dressed a large chested, apple shaped model live on youtube? You might find that useful... Thanks for watching x

    • @arunicahom-choudhury1641
      @arunicahom-choudhury1641 Před rokem

      Apple😂

    • @arunicahom-choudhury1641
      @arunicahom-choudhury1641 Před rokem +1

      I'm a combination of 3 shapes- pear, apple and hourglass, I become apple when my weight goes on my stomach but not a huge belly

    • @arunicahom-choudhury1641
      @arunicahom-choudhury1641 Před rokem +1

      when women get pregnant they look like apples

  • @deedhlamini3325
    @deedhlamini3325 Před 2 lety +2

    New Subscriber here! Thank you so much 💓 This video came up on my feed when my self esteem was taking a real clobbering! Have been relatively slim all my life...and feeling hopelessly lost in how to shop and dress for menopause and covid working from weight gain! All I can say is a huge THANK You!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety

      Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment. Really pleased to hear that it may have helped you. If you're interested I also dress real women with real lumps and bumps as part of the body shape master class series. There's 6 on here so far with more to come. Click on my logo then the videos tab to see all of my videos in one place.

  • @thinkinaboutcake8398
    @thinkinaboutcake8398 Před 2 lety +1

    After years of being told tunic over leggings, this was life changing. Thank you so much.

  • @TheSewingRoomChannel
    @TheSewingRoomChannel Před 2 lety +7

    Excellent tips. I have the apple shape. I have been doing all the wrong things. I will implement some of your suggestions. Thank you very much.😍

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety

      You’re very welcome. On Tuesday I’m filming with a larger chested apple shaped woman so that will hopefully be up at the weekend. Thanks for watching x

  • @Brigitte_Cantin
    @Brigitte_Cantin Před 2 lety +5

    THANK YOU so much for this. Because of age and medical issues, I've gained 40lbs almost all on my tummy and I just look fat no matter what I wear. (Thank goodness I rarely go out) now I'm going to use your tips with what I have in my wardrobe 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @Daydreamer-ok6jj
    @Daydreamer-ok6jj Před rokem

    Your suggestions are invaluable!!! I’ve never thought of trying ANY of these ideas but they really do make the tummy look better. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I’m almost in tears because there’s help for me when I needed it most. Your channel is amazing. 👏

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem

      Thank you so much! There’s many more videos on here where I dress real women live on camera with apple shaped bodies so they might help too xx

  • @reneel2502
    @reneel2502 Před rokem +1

    THIS IS SOOOO HELPFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just discovered this and the items I am interested in are sold out. THANK YOU!!!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem

      That's because it's an old video i'm afraid. Have a look at episodes 7, 8 and 9 of the body shape master class series they all show me dressing ladies live on youtube that struggle with their stomach areas. Click on my logo then select the 'video' tab and you'll see all of my videos in one place.

  • @ACozyCasa
    @ACozyCasa Před 6 měsíci +12

    This was very helpful. I've always had a big bust and now that I'm 52, I'm larger through the mid section - always have had a belly, so apple shaped I would say. I think the majority of the problem for those shaped like myself is the horrible way clothing is designed - just square and no sort of fit. For me, blouses are often too short and much more wider than they are long - this is a problem when you have large breasts that take up much of the front length of a blouse or dress. It's a design problem...everything is made one way - "cookie cutter" one size fits all.

  • @mallorybanting575
    @mallorybanting575 Před 2 lety +21

    Thank you so much for this video!! I found it so so helpful! I would love a 2nd with more examples and suggestions! I won't lie I am scared to try the tuck in because I feel like it just shows my tummy more. But you have inspired me to give it a try!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +1

      I have a new video going up this weekend using a lady who has an apple stomach and a FF chest - hopefully that might help you. x

  • @rojabella
    @rojabella Před rokem

    This is the first time I've ever seen someone model these alterations in such a clear and helpful manner. Thank you!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem

      You’re welcome. You can watch me apply this theory using real women of all different shapes and sizes. It’s called the body shape master class series and there’s 9 videos to watch so far x

  • @hynnow18
    @hynnow18 Před rokem

    I really appreciate how she shows, explains in detail, and doesn’t move too fast or wildly. I had seen other folks advise not to have stomach details, as that’d draw attention to the belly. But her saying that the knot (not a bow, I noticed) should cover the stomach and calling out the pleat made me realize she was the real deal and not just for views

  • @precioussword2263
    @precioussword2263 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for doing this very informative video. But I hope you could do a part 2, focusing on what design would hide that big tummy when attending formal occassions such as weddings or events that require more formal dress. Thank you.

  • @christinezwicke1002
    @christinezwicke1002 Před 2 lety +4

    Brilliant all round! Thank you for giving me my "shape" back ❤

  • @thebowstress
    @thebowstress Před 11 měsíci

    Wow, this has been singularly THE most helpful styling video I've ever watched! Instant follow.

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 11 měsíci

      Wow, thank you! There’s loads more ‘body shape masterclasses’ on here where I dress women of all different sizes live on the channel, including many who needed help with their stomach area, including apron stomachs x

  • @svg7335
    @svg7335 Před 2 lety

    Very helpful. Thank you. The side by side comparisons were helpful.

  • @kathrynroyles468
    @kathrynroyles468 Před 2 lety +11

    I have been struggling with my weight for years now! I have a large upper stomach area and large chest area, I came across your video by chance tonight. I've never been confident in what to wear and wear well. This has really opened my eyes. I'm feeling so close to tears right now wondering why I haven't seen anything like this before. Thank you so much.

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +1

      Oh bess you, I'm glad I could help you in some way. I think this video might really help too as it shows me dressing a lady live on youtube who has a larger bust and barrel stomach. czcams.com/video/Uak_fyXUpd8/video.html

  • @chicalertng
    @chicalertng Před 2 lety +52

    Every woman that struggles with tummy weight should watch this video! This is Epic! Thank you so much. I have watched tons and tons of videos on how to disguise a big tummy and non compares to this one! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you 😊🥰

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety

      Thank you for such lovely comments, I hope it helps in some way xx

  • @cynthiahillian
    @cynthiahillian Před rokem

    Hand down.. The absolute best, most realistic video on handling the fuller tummy. The shoulder pads!!!! Thank you for that link... I am an busty, heavy armed inverted triangle this had been an absolute God send...a prayer answered.💕💕💕💕

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před rokem

      Thank you! I’ve done several body shape master classes since using ladies who have larger stomachs and I’ve filmed myself dressing them live on CZcams if that helps? Have a look at episodes 7,8 and 9. Click on my logo then the ‘video’ tab and you’ll see all the videos in one place. X

  • @FF-pn7fx
    @FF-pn7fx Před 5 dny +1

    One of the best videos ever!

  • @juliejohnston9355
    @juliejohnston9355 Před 2 lety +65

    This is so helpful for my menopausal expanding waistline!! Great tips and tricks, thank you!

  • @cccynova
    @cccynova Před 7 měsíci +4

    Thank you for making the distinction between the barrel-type apple shape with the bulge that comes up high under the bust, vs. the poochy lower abdomen!! I have never heard anyone -- ever, anywhere -- discuss the former type! In my mid-40's, I began to notice that my rectangle shape was giving way to a more barrel-like rounded belly shape, which seems to be a universal characteristic of all the women on my father's side of my family. But, I felt so alone, because nobody discussed that type of shape at all when talking about how to dress the "apple" shape lady.

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 7 měsíci

      I’m glad that distinction has helped. Since this video aired I’ve filmed many videos where I’ve dressed ladies, live on the channel with barrel stomachs, apron stomachs etc so hopefully one of those videos will also help you x

  • @Darklady7
    @Darklady7 Před 2 lety

    I am so glad to find this video. I really appreciate your demo on how to wear for the slightly larger stomached people like me. Please continue what else you do.

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety

      Thank you. Have you seen the body shape master class episode 7 where I dressed an apple shaped lady with a large chest live on youtube? You might find that useful. If you click on my logo then the 'video' button you'll see all of my videos in the one place. Thanks for watching!

  • @gracefelizardo4666
    @gracefelizardo4666 Před rokem

    Wow Melissa! Great ideas for a menopausal tummy like i have! Thank you and more power!

  • @amberpolk
    @amberpolk Před 2 lety +37

    This is very helpful. I've recently gained a lot of weight(mostly in my belly) due to thyroid issues and I cant tell you how many times I got asked how far along i am..... Thank you for the help!

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety +7

      Aren’t people rude! I’m sorry that you’ve had to deal with that and genuinely hope that some of the tips stop that from happening again to you. Take care 😘

    • @aprilwalker6033
      @aprilwalker6033 Před 2 lety +6

      I just commented above I had been able to wear about anything until about age 50 then thyroid hit me like a sledgehammer along with gastro issues now at age 54 I try dresses in summer and sweats or leggings rest of time. I just can't put together an outfit that looks good on me! Im ALL belly!! Makes me not even want to go anywhere !!

  • @PT-MX5RF
    @PT-MX5RF Před 2 lety +3

    Hello from Canada! Just found you today…2 videos later…subscribed!!
    Love how you illustrate the ‘do’ and ‘'don’t’. I haven’t tucked anything in in a very long time- I will be challenging myself. I have only opted for asymmetrical hemlines on tunic tops. Personally I found your “belly” form very useful- it clearly shows the differences and honesty was looking to see if it was still there on some completed outfits . After kids and now at 56 I have the lower ‘apron’. Recently lost 21lbs and it is still there! I’ve made lifestyle changes and the weight has come off over 4 months- hopefully I can drop a little more but it has been 7 months now and I seem to be playing with the same 3-4 lbs. (here one week gone the next). All this to say I really appreciate your videos and I think I need to play in my closet a bit. Thanks for keeping it real.

    • @mmpersonalstyling
      @mmpersonalstyling  Před 2 lety

      Hello and welcome! Thank you for subscribing. It sounds to me like you’ve lost the weight the right way, slow and steady, very well done xx

  • @M_IAWIA
    @M_IAWIA Před rokem

    This is amazing, Thank you! and those shoulderpads are genious!

  • @Cashmere4500
    @Cashmere4500 Před 11 měsíci

    Your channel is a very happy discovery!!! The best styling of apple shapes I’ve seen in years. Thank you! 👏