IT'S BAD WHEN A MAN DOESN'T THINK YOU WILL LEAVE HIM! MY THOUGHTS ON LIGHTSKIN KEISHA & HER FIANCE
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- čas přidán 11. 07. 2023
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I talk about Lightskin Keisha going viral for a podcast episode with her fiance.
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What's crazy is when lightskinkeisha was on Love & Hip Hop, her and Bambi had got into it. Bambi didn't like her or coca because she said that her homegirl was with coca, and from my understanding, he cheated on her and got with another woman, I can't remember if the other woman with Keisha, or someone else. Keisha had defended coca and said that's not what happened, but in this podcast, he's revealing that he was a serial cheater just up until he got with Keisha. So this makes me believe there was some truth to what Bambi said, and Keisha knew.
I believe it lol girl he a rapper you already know what the deal is with these rappers they cheat non stop
😮
I can't give y'all the game. Y'all gotta tip me.
@@user-ht5nj7lf9dshe absolutely knew he had a girl these bitches never learn it can happen to the best of them men cheat unless they are done feeding their flesh 🤷🏾♀️
I can't believe the culture is promoting yet another D list reality person and colorism. Slavery is thriving in the industry.
He's already cheating.
He's ALWAYS cheated, so much so that it means nothing to him.
Exactly. He almost said it.
Yep. He said this because he thinks she already knows he cheats, but still accepted his engagement ring...
Her response gave him confidence that she is unaware.
🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
@@phenitagomes1292. Girl he did say it. Listen 👂🏽 to his nonverbal communication.🤨
@@phenitagomes1292. Not only he said it with his nonverbal communication. He also said he's gonna keep getting his 🍆wet 💦 regardless, and she still gonna be a kept woman 👩🏽. 😢
Anyone can see from a mile away that he's no good. I wish Black women would chose better for themselves and choose themselves over just having a man
Clearly 👀
Be careful! Some of these girlies will hunt you down for putting any kind of accountability on them. Its sad but that's where we are now
I was thinking the same thing. Why would a woman put up with somebody like him?
Amen sista cause these men can not come before self
She said her first impression of him was he’s a &itch! She knew it right away but still decided to date him….
My husband didn’t think I would leave him. So, he kept making comments that “I’m free to leave at any time” over petty arguments. So, I took notes.. Of course he did a lot of other things. He was king of the narcissist. He made me feel like a guest in our own house. I finally had enough and couldn’t stand the sight of him. So, when he went to work, I got a U-Haul and moved out. He texted me saying “I was going to get my karma for leaving him cause he’s diabetic”. He thought since I work in healthcare that he was going to use me to be his nurse. Boy, bye!! ✌️
🙏💃yes miss!!! On to better things!✨
What a damn fool smh I’m glad you left you’re a smart woman ❤
LMFAOOO how is that YOUR karma?
You the real mvp. I know it was hard but you did it. Congrats to your peace and harmony. You remind me of a woman came home, saw her man cheating. Didn’t confront him, while he was having sex she moved what she could and bounced. She changed her address, disconnected her phone number anything else to make sure she never saw him again. However, you’re better because you got all your stuff too.
@@MsElegance23 I know that story ! Mad respect her.
She is SO GOOFY! She really fell for him saying her "ish that fire" after disrespecting her, demeaning her and she GASSED up from that. She real goofy, this is crazy.
FR he literally just told her he don’t care if she have s** w someone else cuz he would just go do the same and come back to her 😂 basically saying he don’t care if she cheat cuz he ALREADY cheating but it went over her head smh
@@camiojada2798 exactly 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ but she want the “ladies” to hear “her ish fire” and instead of her hearing what her “man” been telling her the whole podcast.
💯💯💯💯
She’s delusional and unfortunately all p is the same to these men especially if they do not love with their actions
I caught that too
Keisha is always preaching to women about doing wifely things for her man and this is what he thinks of her ....
That’s what a pickme ah get
And she shouldn’t have been doing all of those things for a man that isn’t her husband. Now look. 🤦🏾♀️
Especially when he proposed 😂
That's why she's getting this treatment 😂😂😂😂
@@simplyameeraj oh they not married?? Just engaged??
“WOMEN AREN’T USING THEIR POWER LIKE THEY’RE SUPPOSED TO” he’s absolutely RIGHT! Sad ALOT of us haven’t been
And when we do the dusties complain.
That’s narcissistic!!!
@@Theblessedlifewithlalawho said you had to be with a dusty though lol yall gotta start being accountable for the men you choose
@@Theblessedlifewithlalathey are gonna complain regardless. Black women can't do nothing right in their eyes. The whole time, they're the problem.
@@Theblessedlifewithlala agreed! It’s as if we don’t deserve to learn our lesson. Or even better ourselves so that we do better.
I can’t believe he so easily let the world know he took her virginity! I know there are bigger issues at hand within the convo, but that was so disrespectful - how embarrassing for her!
Good point.
I cringed when he said that 🫣I mean I cringed at everything he said honestly lmaoo but that one was just like yikes….
😮💨😮💨😮💨 yeah that’s something us women speak about in private amongst each other. Not for our man to blurt out on a public podcast in the midst of a conversation about cheating and him being confident that I wouldn’t leave. 🤦🏽♀️ this is tew muchhhh 😂
He gives me 🌈 best friend vibes. He's really in competition with her, he clearly arches his back. He's not masculine at all!
I agree!!
This is embarrassing.. He's telling her exactly who he is and she want to debate smh
😂
She think because she's his best friend that makes her safe no ma'am
@@shaylawatson1244she’s not a true best friend, she’s his homeboy
Women think they can talk a man into being different, and being in love with her. You can't.
Right. Weird. Like embarrassing themselves.
The most dangerous position to be in as a woman is when a man is so comfortable that he thinks you’ll never leave no matter what he does. Sidenote: the way he embarrassed her publicly on this podcast is sick! 🙄😵💫
Low self esteem, not knowing her worth. It's sad....
My x told me to my face: "You'll never leave me, I'm all you know" after the woman he cheated with called me and spilled the tea on their affair and her pregnancy. I packed what I could fit in my car and never went back. 90 days to finalize the divorce and I gave the side chick a ride to family court so she could get a DNA test & child support. He threatened me, called the cops on me, then tried to play Kendu & filed to sue me for spousal support. Judge King a real one. He dismissed the case and allowed me to countersue.
@@bhalette4153It's the drive the side chick to family court so she can file for child support FOR ME. 😂😂😂😂😂 IT'S THE JUDGE DISMISSED AND GAVE YOU THE CHANCE TO COUNTER SUE FOR ME.
What's your zodiac and do you have a storytime on CZcams? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@bhalette4153 Period.
@deej5608 That's something I would do...unbothered. I'm a Taurus; wonder what her sign is 😆 🤣 😂.
This was soooo embarrassing! He thinks too highly of himself! And she is not listening. This is also dangerous because he is sleeping with multiple and could be putting women life in danger with STIs. We all know he isn’t using protection. Keisha needs to gone leave expeditiously.
But she’s not and that’s why it’s hard to watch , we know the outcome
@@livinlifewithla7142 I was sad when I read she was pregnant by him. Type of person he is, he probably did it on purpose
🚩I’m training to be a psychologist and this is very telling. He looked at her and paused to see if she was smart enough to pick it up. Once he realized she didn’t he smiled and gave her the answers she desired. After the lie she easily took it instead of calling him out.
And to say you would stay in my face like that 😩 girl i would have whipped his whole ass on camera!!
Id take that charge. Easy!
😆👏👏👏👏👏right hands and feet would be put on him.
I wish I could multiply how many times I hit this thumbs up cuz sho you right! I'd a Harlem Nights shot his ass in the toe before the ass whoopin so every time he took a step thereafter that he remembered not to f/w me. 😂
And congrats ma'am! 👏🏾 We need more black psychologists!
@@antiawallace 🥰🥰 thanks boo.
That pause was very telling. He was thinking if he should tell the truth or not. Don’t know how she didn’t catch it. Cameras would’ve been cut off.
Congratulations 🎊 I have a PhD from Penn in Psychiatry with a concentration in Behavioral Health. I wish you the best 🥰🥰
He was trying to humble her this whole entire interview. It’s sickening .
He was deadass dry snitching on himself and she didn’t catch none of it. 🤦🏽♀️
He has to!!! He is insecure and knows he doesn't deserve her. Also looking for male approval (dad was probably not in the picture or was very inconsistent).
All that’s been said is a word. There are some sick individuals living “normal” among us.
@chinaking918 exactly..he was str8 talking about his self and it went right over her head. Then when she does actually find out he cheating she gonna be ready to pull a Left eye 🤣
that's exactly what I got from this. Then she said she was there when he cheated chile....
I LEGIT CHECKED MY PHONE DURING THAT LOUD ASS PAUSE CAUSE I THOUGHT MY BLUETOOTH DISCONNECTED 😂
😂😂😂 me too
When I was doing my research for this video I thought my Wi-Fi had messed up! 😂 SCREAMING!
Thank you for the comment about sheltered girls getting played!!! They never talk about that but we get played not having experience!
@@aishadelva1623you're welcome 😩this is why I have a hard time telling girls that are virgins that they need to get out here and get experience because I’m not trying to encourage them to lose their virginity but it’s like what do you tell them 😭
Lmfaoooooooo
All that foolishness he spewed out and she’s gloating about the fact that he said he’ll be dipping back in her “box” after he cheats because its “fire”🙄
Disgusting 🤮 that’s why I’m SINGLE 🤷🏽♀️
I was shelterred and never dated but I thank God everyday that I found channels like yours that are straight forward and honest. You've literally saved me so much heart break. 😭💕💕
Let them get past God to get to you. Then they are right.
@@hotties3v3nyea but men use religion all the time it’s best to have discernment and learn men’s nature because men are a trip
Please put your little friends on. It will help our community decrease the unwanted children we are having suffer. Theres enough deadbeats in our communities.
That man has already cheated.
And still is
Right on love and hip hop, I thought she was arguing with a girl claiming that that was her man
@@vibrantnubian27and he’s not going to stop. He was too confident in knowing she not leaving. 😩
And IS!!!
*still cheating
She better believe every word he is saying. When I finally divorced my ex-husband I asked him why he cheated multiple times. He told me "I didn't think you would ever leave me." That was 13 years ago, and I have never made that mistake again. Any sign of cheating....I'm out ✌️
Amen!
Wow I gotta turn this off
My ex did the same! He had apparently been cheating for years but I grew up sheltered and he was my first relationship so I was extremely naive and didn’t know. But as soon as I found out, I left him and filed for divorce.
This was over 10 years ago and to this day, he blames ME for leaving. He said he didn’t think I would leave, even though I told him from day one that cheating was a dealbreaker.
Now 10 years later, every time I have to speak to him regarding our children… EVERY TIME… I have to hear him whine about how I left him. If I say anything about him being a terrible father, he blames ME bc I left him. It’s like he’s trying to punish me for leaving him even though HE CHEATED! Ten years later, I’m still going thru this.
@kyliCatherine1 My ex tried to blame me for leaving as well. Fortunately, we didn't have any kids together, so I eventually cut him out of my life completely. I have no regrets, and you shouldn't either.
That's horrible.
Men tell on themselves all the time. LISTEN, ladies. Listen.
No one as mentioned a vital part. SHE SAID HE DESPISES “b’s” that tells me everything I need to know. I will not be friends or in a relationship with a bum who hates women and actively shows it. He hates her too she just don’t know it yet .
What is the point of dating men like this. So let me get this straight… you can do everything right, and still get disrespected… This shit is disgusting
And he said it to he said she ( Keisha) played all of the roles right but basically saying he's still going to cheat
@@Oshun95 And honestly they be emotional asf if they wasn't emotional like us even though yes women being emotional is different but the fellas are emotional to because if they wasn't they wouldn't switch up their feelings so much and do random things like up and leave their wife or family for her sister or a side piece not all but for those that do or judge women for not being traditional loving etc but then when they do get a woman who value's herself has morals educated and actually loves them to pieces they'll complain about her loving him to much or being to available but then want ladies to act like a wife but don't intend to wife her or get bored with the good girl but if that good girl turns to a hoe she still looses men use to promote marriage and building that foundation for the family
If BW are stuck on black love you’ll always be doomed 9.5/10
Been there done it and YES THEY STULL CHEAT CAUSE THEY NOT who we supposed to been with in the. First place and REAL MEN DONT cheat they WILL break up and LEAVE you first....if they care about you anyways. But JUSt have to pray and ask God to send the person for you.
That's exactly it.
I don’t see how she can sit there and be ok with how he talks. This is why I don’t date them. This is how they are
Right!
Their whole vibe is off. "Side batch qualities" ? It is skeevy.
There is something real demonic about the way he talks, even his eyes. How is her spirit not SCREAMING at her to run. This is why I am happy I have angels.
Yup black men are nothing but hoes and they dont really like us over there OWN insecurities but its ok cuz i am officially done with them
Sitting next to that man and letting him talk about women in that way…I’d rather get 1000 bee stings
This is embarrassing and he’s a clown. You were so right about sheltered girls getting played, I’ve seen it happen but you can’t tell them nothing.
I can relate to Keshia. I’m 31. Broke up last year with my ex who was my first everything. Met him at 19, he was 6 yrs older than me. The manipulation is real when you are inexperienced. It took me so long to see that his intentions were not pure. The compliments on the sex, the praise because he’s your only body he uses that to boost your head n make u feel like wifey material. He also knows how much he means to you as your first especially when y’all have been together for years. The bond you think you have with him, isn’t as deep to men like this. A lot of women like me that were sheltered, inexperienced are afraid of starting over because of their inexperience as an adult. But please, don’t let that fear win
I think most women do know when their men are cheating. Women have that intuition. But it's what they choose to do about it and most times they don't leave.
I agree 💯
I know when I was younger, I didn't understand my intuition. A thought would pop up in my mind and I would question it. I know better now..
@@SupraSoulStar took the words right out of my mouth girl, so true
Agreed!
lol…ok 😂
They can’t help telling on themselves. Women need to listen and accept the fact that these men are predators and incapable of love.
Come on Pastor P!!!
This!!!!
@@natashabrown41💯
Right!!
Princella effect
I used my power yesterday I told a guy NO he wanted just a physical relationship and I wanted a physical & emotional relationship so he said raincheck and I said cool he thought I was gonna acquiese to his wants stop letting MEN dictate the narrative its your life,body & soul n mental.
Exactly!
She said “ he despises bitches” like it was a good thing….
Right like she isn't what he consider a bad bit$h
😂😂😂😂 she sounds slow asl for that line
Like yannie said “she think she special”
Poor lil Tink Tink...
@@mamat1213she sure is “special”
That pause babbbbby! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 everywhere. He gaslighting her with "you different" / "the box good" She thinks she's "special" and as long as he keeps her thinking she's special he can keep using that to manipulate her. He won't marry her the ring is another tactic.
Bingo. 😂 same thing I said. The ring is a place holder. Now, granted he only proposed late last year, I'll give it until the end of this year. If they ain't married come 2024, she know what it is. 😂
If this ain’t the comment that sums it all up!! Hope she gets out soon !
@@cynthiavaldez7127 facts! She asking for a life of problems if she marries him. When he said “I spent too much money on you to leave” tells you he knows she can be bought and paid because it’s happened. He the type that will do dirt feel bad and come home with a gift like he being sweet and thoughtful. Embarrassing smh
@@naturallytajy973 she needs to run fast before he make her a single mother
@@a.r.9779 🎯🎯🎯
A lot of men think like this, they marry you or impregnate you and they believe that you are stuck. It's up to the ladies to show them that they aren't stuck and to leave when they have had enough. If LS Keisha gets tired enough she will leave him, but it's up to her to say when. My EX husband thought the same thing, that's why we are divorced now!
For the love of God avoid getting pregnant. You will suffer.
“You played your role right” I never want my partner to say this about me. So disrespectful. I’m embarrassed about the way she was smiling when he said this. I hope she doesn’t marry him
As a man I’ll say that pause was a clear sign of being called out unexpectedly. He’s not slick enough to lie quickly so it just made it awkward. He’s the type to have women he see’s as options all the while being an option himself to those women but thinking he’s their everything.
Keisha had the nervous laugh when the hypothetical cheating situation was talked about and I’d say it’s because she felt something was off and masked it.
I appreciate your honesty and confirming all of our thoughts. I personally don’t know that man and I do not care enough about him to keep up with their lives but we will see the outcome of this eventually!
You’re so spot on..I’ve dealt with a man like this so I know exactly what you’re speaking on.
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯
@@naturallytajy973 Why praise him for commenting, pickmesha ?
Work on yourself and quit complimenting black males for breathing air. you're part of the problem.
Sorry but yall men ain't worth s dime. I for one do not want a black son.
He’s obviously talking about himself. The fact that he’s so comfortable sharing this with her is telling… Also, the way he speaks about women is the biggest 🚩🚩🚩. Keisha is going to have to learn the hard way that he’s more than likely being unfaithful to her, too.
I hope she gets out with her life. That’s what this type of disrespect boils down to every time.
He doesn’t sound marriage minded at all
Even if he wasn't talking about himself he just laid out his moral code as clear as day. Is this who you want to be the father of your kids? Is this who you want to lead your family? Someone who quote unquote would never do it but feels like its okay to...
@@lalaland7961exactly he’s letting her know if he feel at any moment she’s annoying him and he’s tired of her he will cheat.
She said no he wouldn't be with 10 girls referring to the question about him having 10 girls if they was to break up because girls gets on his nerves and he gets annoyed easy that did it for me and I can't stand straight dudes who acts like their lady , wifey etc or just the ladies in general get on their nerves like no offense to gay folks but are they gay
He’s telling her what he’s doing and she’s not listening. He’s talking directly to her and straight disrespect her right to her face and she didn’t get it. 🤦🏾♀️ Omg that was so embarrassing. Her claiming I know you as if that matters. Wow I’m so shocked and disgusted. I hope she gets a prenup wow wow
I’m really good on relationship because ain’t no way.
It's the audacity for meeeee - sheesh that silence was LOUD AF and in my opinion was a resounding YES I got a side bihhh and counting!
One thing I mastered when I was dating was I will NEVER be the exception to someone's habitual nature. This is a character and mindset issue and this convo told you everything you need to know about this man. 🚩after 🚩 chille smh
Preach!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is every womans nightmare. You've created such a safe space for your man that he becomes too comfortable and thinks you won't leave him. She's already fucked up and now she has to leave him at this point.
Period good riddance
It’s mandatory 😂
@@MaryJaneMusic17. Girl she ain't going nowhere. 😏
@@Beautylivesinme. His nonverbal communication, said a lot ‼️. 🙄
@@capricornshanniediva23 I would have been scared for my spirit 😱 she gotta RUN this is where having a positive bw influence would help you come to certain realizations
Red flag city. All over. A lot of these men are used to getting “good women” too so that means nothing. It doesn’t matter if you’re the main or side. You’re getting the same treatment.
Everyone gets the same raw deal. Except the one who he cares about more gets it 10x worse.
True!
@@Erica-cf1xb True
BOOM. Mic drop !
This is why I stopped letting partners “insecurity shame” me. The insecurity isn’t in myself, it’s in the relationship when they’ve played in my face. And since “secure” people get cheated on all the time, in fact, they’ve helped their partner cheat by not setting necessary boundaries, I’ve learned to not leave any red flag stay flying. We bringing it down for interrogation.
Hello
"Secure ppl get cheated on all the time. In fact, they help..." GIRL!!! This is it RIGHT HERE!!!!! 🙌🏽💯
A word !
I remember my ex told me that “I’m not going no where”. Like he knew how much I was in love with him and thought it would never happen….. it did tho ✌🏾❤️
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 That pause was loud and clear. She said that she was there when he cheated. So was she one of the females he was cheating with? He's telling her exactly who he is.
Exactly
The proposal was “off” it wasn’t about how he felt about her, it was about what he “accomplished” with her. During the podcast, he exposed himself to the point the pause was no longer pregnant it gave birth to a bouncing baby bum playing in her face. He then proceeds to “check” her and tell her she wouldn’t leave if he cheats. Chiiiile, I can’t.
Edit: She’s a clown and she chose properly for herself. She knew what he was doing to others and still thought he was a “prize” because she played roles and he “picked” her. I love this for them.
Your description got my dying 😂😂😂…hilarious lol
I like the way you articulate yourself!!! You are spot on 😂😂 love this for them lolol
😭😮💨
All she had to do was let this man TALK. Random thoughts like this just don't jump out the blue. He spoke his truth. Now she have to make her decision, but just he said, she is not going anywhere, yet.
My mouth literally dropped at the silence after she asked did he have a side b* - then he had the audacity to follow up with “at the end of the day you talking about the wrong thing” ??!! I bout threw my phone!! There’s no way .. then she asked TWICE.. I can’t believe we watching this in real time 😭😭😭
What’s crazy is that, when he cheats on her, she ain’t going nowhere lol cus a real one would have ended the relationship right then and there just to prove his ass wrong. 💯
There's this tv show (The Cutlers) where married couples get lie detector test to see if the spouse is cheating. Many say they will leave if it is found out that the partner has been unfaithful. Some say, he/she cheated in the past but want to know if he/she is cheating now. Then after it is found that their partner is cheating and they do a follow up days later, those couples are still together, trying to work it out. Men know when their wives/GF aren't going anywhere, because they know they have a weak partner.
I was just thinking that was the perfect moment to give him his ring back
@@Byebandit50the perfect moment was when she asked if he had a side chick and he paused for a good 2 minutes then told her she’s worrying about the wrong things. 😒🤦🏽♀️
@@chinaking918sooo i wasn’t tripping that pause was 2 mins. That’s crazy, I’m still annoyed thinking of that moment
I would have ended it because of his mouth honestly!! F him cheating at that point I got more of a problem with his mouth he's the type I would end up punching right in his mouth so before I hurt him or anyone disrespecting me because you shouldn't put hands on no one but gracefully walk away from him for that mouth bout to have me come through this screen on his ass and he's not even my fiance forget what he's doing and focus on what he's saying he'll probably think I'm crazy if he knew me for real and not that I want to know him but he would respect me for not taking no shit from that mouth of his probably would be the first woman ever he had to respect
1. A man that calls women b*t hes hates women. This ain’t gone end well.
2. He’s telling her she ain’t gone leave, meaning, he done already dogged her plenty of times and she ain’t left yet.
3. This man is explaining how he benches side women until they can be a franchise player aka using women.
4. This type of misogyny is what compels men to delete their female partners.
5. She’ll be blessed if she gets out with her life.
You know very well she's not going to leave that man
A man that calls women b-words casually are typically fatherless.. either that, or they’ve dealt with a lot of women and seen them operate in ways that are unflattering to the male psyche..
Ima BM. I’ve seen this my whole life
Yep, He also was saying in so many words, if you try to leave, I will put up a fight, even though it's my own fault for you trying to leave!!!
Exactly. Men who will cheat with tons of women and refers to them like they are a chair or table will most def hurt you. He will kill you. 😢
I broke up with a guy I was seeing for calling his friend's girl a bitch. And when I told him that's not right he said "but she is a bitch". To top that off he spoke ill of his baby mama. All I was thinking was "that could easily be me" and I did not like it. So I exited before it got even more serious
I feel like when men propose nowadays it’s because the woman is truly in love and he knows he can get away with cheating on her…
That’s all a main and wife is 😂😂😂😂
That pause/silence after she asked “do you got a side bih” was sooooooooooooooo telling 😅. He would be single after this.
I’m staring to think all men are just one big walking red flag 😂
They are smh
Yup that’s why I feel sorry for women taking dating and marriage seriously. It’s starting to look like a lot of B.S.
@@beautifullyoursI agree 💯
I think he cheated on her before(and still is cheating).
She’s playing clueless because she didn’t expect him to be so confident about the power he has over her . Therefore she had to defend herself and let everyone know she’s not that type of girl and she don’t tolerate that. He would not have that confidence if he never cheated.
First, he's coming across a little sassy. Second, he's sizing her up and testing her out. I think he's already doing things he shouldn't be doing while in this relationship. Also, he said with his chest more than once that he doesn't like women. He's a walking red flag chile. And she's NOT listening!!
Oh dear I remember this is the same women that said “ no matter where she is, she will leave her friends to be with her man” she made him feel to comfortable to having access to her.smh
The BM degeneracy is just too much. Ladies, it's time to let them ALL go.
Like how everyday we get embarrassed this shit is so emotionally draining
@@natashabrown41Girl I'm done it's not only draining but it makes me so sad to give up on even being interested in men anymore no I'm not gay nothing against anyone who is I literally don't want nothing and lost interest I don't want to date I don't want to turn into a hoe & wild out I don't want no male friends I don't want sex at 30 years old I literally lost interest in men 😢
@@SpiritualQueenVibes sis you aren't by yourself. I have never been more at peace not dating/in a relationship. I have 2 male friends I hangout with no attachments, no sex, no coming over each other crib, no paying for me just legit hanging out.
That cape is in ashes in the sea...
Omg here y’all go 😂 he does not represent EVERY black man just like she doesn’t represent EVERY black woman. Y’all need to learn to separate celebrities from regular people and online from real life
He is most definitely trying to humble her in this podcast 💯
Folks will play in ya face everytime if you let 'em!! Pride and ego is extremely dangerous.
I wish BM would break free of pimp mentality & culture. What he just described when talking about her was nothing to look up to or admire. She’s a product to be consumed.
Baby, that *pregnant* pause was louder than his self-snitching. Watching this gave me flashbacks of my past experiences. I hope Keisha wakes up, because babyyyy God not only gave a sign, he also made it bold, italicized, added flashing red lights, included an emergency siren, and everything 😂🤧🤧
Pregnant pause 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The to follow it up with “you worried about the wrong things” instead of just saying no. Chiiiiile😩
Edit: at this point it’s a whole billboard 😂
I love this✨🙏🥲I thank God I took heed to the signs,even though like you said he was doing ALL to show me my relationship wasn't what I ever thought it was but I still wanted to see where it was going 🕳️🚧 Nowhere.
That's the thing, theres always red flags. ALWAYS. Stay sharp ladies. They don't care for women not the old or the young. They just want to use you.
And underlined it lmao
😂 it’s so funny (not really) how you might get all this surgery and fillers for the male gaze… you might be pretty… “p*ssy good”, cook good, clean everything “right” and still get cheated on or be a place holder. THAT SHIT IS SO CRAZY TO ME.
He gave a list of everything that made him “happy”? But STILL said “I want my side piece”…. Like huh?? AND ALSO SAID he thinks women are ANNOYING. He don’t even like women…. But was or still dealing with multiple women… make it make sense. I can’t with men.
A lot of us grew up in narcissistic family system. We never took our power back at home and we repeat the cycle in romantic relationships either as the perpetrator or supply. I hope they both heal and some self respect. I don’t care what anyone says no man that’s sleeping with just any and everybody actually respects themselves.
When they got together his last girlfriend accused him of cheating with Keisha. And basically said she took him from her. I believe it now.
Reminder: disrespectful treatment and being taken advantage of doesn’t just start and end with cheating. Just a few mins in - and his mentality is all the way off, he’s an opportunist at best..
Exactly his mouth is disrespectful from the jump
@@SpiritualQueenVibes. She don't care. Remember she got a man 👨🏿 like { Eve} had one to. # Stevie j 😂
@@capricornshanniediva23 And ain't leaving him either I already know I'm just saying I'm more worried about the way a dude or anyone talks to me before I worry about him cheating talking to me crazy like he did to her in that interview will get him chin checked and left that will be the main reason I left then the 2nd reason can be for cheating but that respect comes first
Even the engagement was insane! It was exactly like he said- she fits his needs so she’s a come up and the “healthy main” That he doesn’t really want to choose now but should
@@mamat1213I was looking for someone to comment on that! His said his career wouldn’t be what it is without her and wants to know infront if everyone is she’ll marry him. I thought I heard wrong. Like how this man really didn’t even try to sound like he loved her for anything besides benefiting from her career wise.
Yeah no! Absolutely not!! If a guy that I'm married to is saying this, I'm not going to say anything, but that divorce paper is going to speak for me!! I don't play about my sanity and my peace.
TF did I jus even watch. Can’t be real
He's already cheating on her and probably has been cheating the entire time they together 😕😕😕 I actually feel bad for her and this was so embarrassing to watch ugh.....🙁🙁🙁🙁
She knows now and hopefully makes the right choice and chooses self-preservation. When men are showing their true selves, let them reveal everything and make a plan to save yourself!
The fact that he said 'she's not like the other women because she's all nice like a grandma' basically he thinks she's a good girl so he is taking advantage of that.
I remember her saying that she doesn’t care if she’s out with her girlfriends, once her man calls (NOT an emergency!!!), she’s going home to him ASAP-no questions asked! That’s when I knew she was a pickme…..
This is the comment! I remember her saying this. I side eyed her for this.
That’s why he so confident she won’t leave.
I cant stand women that do that.
This entire interview is sad 😔 This is someone she is engaged to???
Yes very much engaged. Very much blind, too.
My ex…he legit wanted to marry me years later but wanted me to be ok and stick around when I found out he cheated. I left, moved away and am living my best life. This man speaking facts, I don’t know how she is so comfortable letting him talk to her like that. Then she said she sat back and watched him dog other women 🤨 so they really deserve each other 🤷🏾♀️
Instead of him saying you won’t leave me if I cheat, he should’ve declared to her that she’d never have to worry about that, because he’s loyal and dedicated to her
But that’s a liar
This man is TELLING her with his whole heart and chest that he’s a DOG, and she’s trying to convince herself and everyone else that he doesn’t know what he’s talking about 🤦🏾♀️
If she is still with him after this interview then he's right. Why would he admit it if he might get caught.
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All I have to say is ladies take note!! A lot of guys are out here thinking and moving this way!! 🙅🏾♀🙅🏾♀ Protect your mind, body and spirit!
She knows .. her side eyes and jerks she had in her body language, her body is telling her something isn’t right . I really need her to leave . Yanie your discernment is spot on !
Lost some respect for her because he showed his true colors. Please don’t be blind he showed both of their hands.
That's not a reason to lose respect for her. She will learn and figure it out. Give her grace.
@@Kariberri208 she gone learn trust! It’s was the way she smiling too hard with his condescending comments towards her like it was a badge of honor. She giving goofy I hope she wises up and leave him. I know if he ain’t faithful.
She is cool with him calling other girls bitches. Who is ok with a fiance that talks like this in public?
her name is "lightskin keisha" that alone told me what i needed to know
@glamglam8347 I don't really know who she is but I have heard her name here and there and I didn't understand the name. Does it mean that Keishas are only dark-skinned?
I gotta go watch the actual episode but I'm single because I refuse to let someone play with my heart my time and my life because honey no 😒
Amen and same! My ass will end up behind bars! Sanity before all else 😂
@@MsElizaRae yes ma'am 💫
This is definitely where fathers come in. Bc I was a sheltered girl but my father gave me common sense! Also, he was there to weed out guys like this.
*Good fathers. Because I was sheltered and grew up around my father and he didn’t teach me nothing. I had to learn every the hard way. Y’all be giving these men too much credit lmao
@@chocha4438 I didn’t think I had to say “good” since I stated he gave me common since & was there to weed men like this out. But I feel you. My father is a great one.
I cannot let a man do me like this 😂😂😂
The way he covered his mouth when he said he’d have 10 girls is a red flag.🚩 🚩🚩
Run Keisha 🏃🏽♀️
I don’t understand how men will publicly agree with this guy and then be upset when no woman wants to deal with them.“you’re a main but I’m not ready to be a main so I’m gonna have a side piece until I’m ready to settle, and you won’t go anywhere” wiiiillllld
Exactly they can’t make the connection and it’s sickening
Remember when K Michelle said that men just weren't good people and she was verbally attacked for it. This is what she was talking about.
And then tell women they waste their 20s no u mtfs wasting their 20s bsing them along with all these bs things u think women should be doing to get commitment and a ring just for to never give it to them other races do not do all these mtfs games
From my experience, most aren't. She told no lies.💯💯 A n!gga will cheat on you, but you do it back and they are heartbroken!! 💔😂😂😂Lol sick in the damn head!!!
@@9darshana yes , I love K, she has all the sad Ballards about this shit lolol
She was more happy he said her box is fire than him saying he wouldn’t leave her. Sad.
This is why I leave everytime! I told a dude I was once dealing with, if I left the father of my child…what make you think I wouldn’t leave you?
Of course that didn’t go well…men hate to be humbled…but you have to bring them down to earth
Yes! I leave at the FIRST sign of disrespect and NEVER come back!
He was spilling all of the secrets in this interview! She really did not want to HEAR and UNDERSTAND what he was really saying. Her responses were telling me that she ate up everything he fed to her smh Sad to see it.
Exactly
Exactly. The fact that he had the balls to tell her she not gone leave makes me feel like he’s cheating now or been caught cheating before and she let it slide. 10 years as boyfriend and girlfriend and this is how he think best believe he’s speaking from experience.
Edit: I heard wrong they just knew each other 10 yrs. If that’s the case then how long have she seen his trash behavior and didn’t care since it wasn’t her. 🤦🏽♀️ She’s going to learn the hard way.
A lot of women do that. A lot of women are in denial. Ever try to talk to someone about the guy they're with. He's doing disrespectful things that are OBVIOUS to EVERY ONE, including his girlfriend. She'll either agree with you or play down what he's doing. Women like that are in denial. They can see, but many are afraid to leave. There's nothing you can say to these women. They have to come to terms with their poor sense of self worth and their lack of strength to confront their man. These are the types of women men believe will stay with them.
I thank the most high i don't and have never pedestalized men. Got to be a sad, lonely place to be in. Seems like he only proposed because SHE wants to be married. The way he talks, if she doesn't listen, she will be sorry.
and this is EXACTLY why i’m taking myself out the race for good. I’m done with the games and i’d rather just do my own things. They are NOT loyal and will make a fool out of you every single time.
He literally told her who he is. He despises women and she's engaged to him. He sound like one of those use woman for s*x and loves his bros type. He knows her better than she knows herself. And thats a huge problem. She thinks he won't do her the same way.
Edit: I counted 58 red flags🙃. He's still doing what he's doing. But he's gonna get sloppy once he impregnates her. Which will be immediately after the wedding if she doesn't wake up.
He is already doing his True nature. PERIODT!!
He told her she has a granny, old soul and she's nice. 😅 AKA you gonna do what my granny did when grandpa dropped his outside child on the porch. Take care of it and smile. 😂
Wiiiiiiiiild😂
@@sedi2066 I come to despise niggas more and more each and every day. 😭
@@cynthiavaldez7127 CANT STAND THEM🤣
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“I couldn’t have done anything in my career without you” he proposed to her for what she can benefit him… he don’t love her he using her
That’s all men
When men tell you you’re worried about the wrong thing it’s because they want to take the focus off of them and their wrong doings they lack accountability because they are comfortable with treating you like trash😕
He doesn't have to revert. This man never changed. She's a fool if she thinks differently, but love blinds us sometimes. He told her exactly his beliefs and how he thinks. He doesn't have integrity. That's who he is. He's not denigrating men who cheat, he's making excuses for them. Trust me, he uses the same excuses for himself.
Yeah. He already cheated. I hope she plans her exit quietly and safely.
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It's crazy how boys are brought up to be this way. I see it all the time. I had to get on my little brother who had just became a teenager, and talked about having a girlfriend, then hinted at having more than 1. I told him aboit the fact he didn't need a girlfriend, and ge definitely did need multiple, to respect women, and watch his language. I grew up knowing my dad cheated on my mom, and my stepmom, and after my stepmom passed away, which he put her through heavy depression. He became more true to form, seeing him in multiple relationships, without rhe women knowing.
I saw years before it happened, how male family members would influence my once innocent little brothers. It starts at the mother and father talking to them at the tender ages of 4 about "you got a little girlfriend?" in preschool and kindergarten, then the father dapping him up for taking to multiple girls as a teenager, the father and sometimes mother pushing the "boys don't cry" rhetoric (happened to me), and lots of homophia, I hate it. We are truly the company we keep, friends, schools we attend, relatives, etc. It affects us heavily.
I always love and champion healthy relationships with black men and women because it can seem rare based on social media; I champion men loving their girlfriend, fiance, or wife, and not because of the kids or the fact, she can make another him or a beautiful daughter, but that's his soulmate. Stuff like this is disgusting.
That silence WAS LOUD!! My ears are bleeding it was SOOOOOOO LOUD!!!!
I understand.
The way this situation has made me wake up to my situation. It’s not to this extent but rather having a man who jokes about having other girls on the side and cheating on me occasionally. I never really thought about it too much because I always dished it back but I’ve realised I’ve been putting up with disrespect and know I need to plan my exit!
It's wild that ni@@as rlly out here talking like that in front yall faces. I wish my husband would let Satan trick him to talk slick like that TO ME?? 🤞🏽
If you're feeling that, keep it to your self bc the minute I think you might be thinking bout creepin..I'm ✌🏽 deadas.s.
I wish you well on your journey!!! Just because leaving is hard, doesn’t mean it’s the wrong decision!! Good luck, you will be okay in a few weeks or months!!❤❤❤
@@kathyalex778thank you so much! It’s extremely hard as it’s been years and as much as he can say oh I’ll stop it’s like why was that something you thought was appropriate to say in the first place!!!!
Run forest run
You better because it only gets worse the longer you stay. On top of that your wasting your beauty and youth on a dusty. Good luck.
He literally said women have sooo much power and we’re purposely not utilizing it…Chile these men tell us we got the power! Tap into it! Yanie your live you did with Maurice was spot on about this! You said close your legs because these MEN know who hold the 🔑 and the only reason men do what they do, is to get WOMEN! Pay attention ladies…Your decentering men series is vital! 🙏🏾
Very vital
Men know what time it is which is why they bash other content creators who try to educate women on male behavior
I’m disgusted just by the way he talks, let alone how he talks to her & about her. How in the world could you be comfortable being with a man like this.. If he thinks he’s this immortal over you, you have to let it go.
Girls be going out of their way to maintain a physical exterior and mind and emotions are not intact. Please let's level up on ALL fronts ladies.
Right not just money and looks
Narcissists will slowly show you their true colors in the courting stage no matter how long or short and the mask will fall off completely once’s they locked you in…..
I feel sorry for Keisha cause this will not end well
Secondly why are these men so much more vocal lately showcasing their piss poor personality traits
Bc other bm made money off of it. So now self snitching is the thing now. These boys been lost since the 90s.
@@Shay416BM been lost wayyy before the 90’s. They was lost before slavery even started. They’re the ones that actually contributed to Africans being enslaved in the first place.
@@successmanifestation2769 that’s a biased interpretation of history 😂 so date the primary slave owner then?
@@PrinceInawRakah Then who started it then doofus? Bc Africans enslaved other Africans and I hope you do know a Black African KING decided to not only do that but sell his own people to the Europeans.
Sssh let them. Damn
They just be wantin us to accept this is something men do but then LOSE THEIR MARBLES when a woman suggests that she won’t settle down until she’s ready.
Because they expect us to be "a good woman" = there on standby while they sleep around.
You’re convoluting 2 different demographics of men..
Players and marriage minded men
@@PrinceInawRakahThe majority of men are losers. A small portion aren't. The majority think they are normal and healthy partners.
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I pray for strength everyday to not treat men like dogs bc so many of them think it’s funny. I’ve worked too hard on my character to get vengeance on these narcissistic, *itchy, weak men. In time, they all suffer.
I hope Keisha lets that one go with the quickness!! The way he misrepresents her makes me sad and the manipulation is palpable. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
My Ex and thought I wouldn’t leave him either. Lol. It’s been about 3 years and every time he communicates with our daughter, first thing he asks is about me. Always trying to get back together. The best thing a woman can do is leave and keep it moving, when a man cheats it doesn’t treat you right.