“I don’t like my spouses family” Matt: “I’m gonna disagree with that…immmm gonna strongly disagree with that” 😂😂😂 also Matt *sitting like a beautiful mermaid*
I forget who it was or if it is just a saying, but someone asked a wife "Have you ever considered divorce?" The wife replied *jokingly* with "Divorce? No. Murder? Often."
When Matt said that they married too late and dated for three years and thought that after/at three years that they know if marriage is right or not I laughed out loud because my parents dated for 12 YEARS!!! lol
Me and my boyfriend have been dating 10 years we just want to have our life together before we do a wedding turns out getting your shit together isn’t easy
Marriage is definitely hard and everyone hates it at some points, yet it's so worth it. I agree it needs to be normalized, that hard times in marriage are normal. But you work through them together.
This is funny because my husband and I got married alone. Threw a wedding 3 years later and it was a blast. We told everyone and they just thought it was sweet. We did it so we could enjoy our marriage without all the judgments. It was awesome ❤
I absolutely love that you’re thinking about putting money towards a college fund so early. My grandparents starting saving for me before I was even born, and it’s saved me from student loans! I still have enough to go to grad school. Sucks that it has to be this way, but I’m glad that my family did that for me
Finally someone thinks the same way about the weddings. Celebrate like 100% but I don’t want a big thing. I just wanna be married to my best friend without the hassles of a huge wedding deal ❤
The balance of your social media is amazing, it’s why I love y’all’s videos so much. Abby is not “whiny” she was going through an incredibly rough time and mostly complained about how she couldn’t hold Griffin or help Matt with random things. You both seem like positive people in real life, but also human, you have hardships and you fall sometimes. But you show how you get back up and that’s what’s amazing about the both of you❤️
The amount that Matt reminds me of his dad is crazy!! And love the way ya’ll just look at each other a straight up laugh, that’s when you know a marriage is strong.❤😂
I really appreciated watching this, I’m a little older than you guys but at the same stage in life, and I feel like this really helped me see you two for who you really are. You guys seem super cool and genuine
I used to feel a lot like this But with time it put strain on our rshp unknowingly So in therapy I learned to look at the good qualities. Compliment him every day on atleast one good quality everyday Learning how to accept him the way he is
i think you guys do a good jobof showing the good and the bad, not that i know all the “bad” that goes on in your marriage but i just wanted to say thanks for not giving a false idea about marriage you guys seem so genuine
I love that you guys keep it real and are so fun through it! I’ve been struggling in my relationship and have watched you guys a lot to give me some perspective about my own relationship! So mature! I’m older than both of you and still learn a lot just by watching your family grow! Thank you guys! ♥️💐
This was fun to watch! I am defiantly going to do this with my spouse....I think it is a great way to get in some needed communication and talk about issues going on but also make it fun at the same time!
The "D" word 😅 Thank you guys for being so vulnerable here. Sometimes I think we might believe that we are terminally different from other couple but it is actually very common and it doesn't mean your marriage is falling apart. I can see that you guys do a lot of Talking which is SO IMPORTANT.
9:00 when Matt said, " I feel like you don't buy as much stuff as me." I was like did you forget when Abby bought $250 worth of home decor AND Stanley's😂😂 Edit: thanks SO much for 140 likes, this is the most I've ever gotten💖🤯🥳
Omg. Ok... so my hubby and I are wayyy older than y'all (40 & 38, respectively). Buuuuut when y'all answered the question of marriage being hard, it felt SO GOOD to see y'all agreeing that it's hard AF while laughing. I related so hard. We do the same thing. We have had so many fights in the last decade...but then also the facepalms about our actions once making up. Then the beautiful growth that comes from it...and the laughter at our stupidity during those times. ... It's so hard to explain to people who haven't legally promised themselves to each other. 🤣 It's SO hard sometimes. F'RILLZ
i wonder which couple tried to join in on the drama. it’s honestly sad that this is the reality. people will use you as a stepping stool to one-up you. great video, thanks for being real
You guys are literally my fav youtubers, I love how kind and caring you are! Matt is always so unabashedly himself, and Abby is always so carefree! XOXO
So adorable 🥰 its so refreshing to see young people my age have the same values as myself. Theres so many young people that lack values now a days. Seeing this is just awesome love your videos. You two are awesome
I loved this video, I laughed so hard! It’s a very healthy game when you think about it.. unless of course you have a spouse that might be triggered by such “honesty” questions and answers. Then I guess it’s not the game itself that needs to be worried about. You both have a very loving relationship and it shows. 😊♥️
I rarely like and comment on videos.. more of a bad habit than intentional. But I LOVED this! I felt like this gave us a window of how much you two love one another and are authentic.
Abby , you communicate so well .. I love the comment you made about kissing being a build up and that the little ones during the day feed the passion .. you know how to explain your perspective so well! Marriage should be awesome if communication is that clear & open 🎉😅☺️ God bless both of you! Super cute .
I’ve seen many videos on everything. But you two are the most realistic couple (which is good) that I’ve seen on an social media. Business definitely gets in the way sometimes, but you two seem to be able to breathe, take a minute and realize that it’s your future but you’re each others future too. Everyone has arguments, and they hide it. But you two show it and talk about it which is good. I’ve only recently found your channel and I’ve watched many videos cause you two show the true side of being a couple. That it’s not always perfect like people assume. But being there for each other, that’s what’s important. Being real with each other is important. Most importantly is you two made a life together. Everything has ups and downs, but together, you two are unstoppable
Matt: "get in the car and feel around a little bit" Lmao!!! ❤ if I had to do it over I would have married my first "test drive". He was my best friend, but it took me too long to get my life together and I missed what was right in front of me. Glad you guys went for it and didn't let being young stop you.
Carlo & Sarah, I love your videos & can relate to them so much 🤍 Only ever been in 2 serious relationships, & both of them (including my current boyfriend) were intercultural relationships. It’s so fun learning about, appreciating, & growing with someone from another culture… it’s a very precious kind of love. Cheers to you & many more lovable Carlo & Sarah videos! ✨☀️ (ps Matt & Abby, love yalls content as well obviously) 😉
Seen a lot of your videos, but this one made me laugh out loud 🤣👌it may or may not, have something to do with the 3 glasses of red wine i had with dinner 🤔 anywhoo... thank you for the laughs 😘
“When I looked at my BUMP, it was FANTASTIC!!” I literally had to find this commercial on CZcams because the way that guy says that cracks me up so much!!!!! 😂
It’s so funny to me how he said 3 years was long and the right amount of time to see if marriage was right for them. I’m from Germany and almost no one gets married so early here. Plus She was 20 years old!!! She wasn’t even “adult” enough to drink (under American law), why on earth should she be considered old enough to decide to get married. Doesn’t make sense to me!
That’s funny, I’ve never really thought about it but I have a friend who recently married a German woman and he was treated with some suspicion by her mother for a while because she thought they were rushing into marriage too quickly, but they’re 29 and 30 and have been together about 2 years. Typical German prudence.😅 Having said that, I still think 20 is *extremely* young if you’ve only been together 3 years. I think these two ‘waited for marriage’ as it were? Could be a factor.
Been married for 32+ years (over half my life) and I feel I can learn more how to be a better husband. I am going to do this "Fun" learning game with my wife...great way to have Fun Conversations. ***Never too late to teach an Old Dog a New Way to be better"
“I don’t like my spouses family” Matt: “I’m gonna disagree with that…immmm gonna strongly disagree with that” 😂😂😂 also Matt *sitting like a beautiful mermaid*
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Be careful with that 😂😂
I’m still laughing at this bit😂
It’s giving me his dad vibes😄😄😄 “I’ll follow her”
Be careful who you watch these ones are evil
Watching Matt trying to get comfortable sitting throughout the video is one of the best parts of this video 😂
He looked so uncomfortable able crossed legged 😂😂😂
I forget who it was or if it is just a saying, but someone asked a wife "Have you ever considered divorce?" The wife replied *jokingly* with "Divorce? No. Murder? Often."
“Til death do us part “😮
Yep! 🤣
It’s possible many people have said that, but I know Billy Graham’s wife Ruth Bell Graham said that in an interview one time🤣
I tell my husband that often😋
I say this very often
When Matt said that they married too late and dated for three years and thought that after/at three years that they know if marriage is right or not I laughed out loud because my parents dated for 12 YEARS!!! lol
My husband and I dated for 8 months 😅
Oh wow lol my husband and I dated for 3months 😅 but I was 28, and we knew each other since we were kids, lol.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating 10 years we just want to have our life together before we do a wedding turns out getting your shit together isn’t easy
Same!! My man and I are engaged and we’ve been together for five years, and by the time we’re married in 2024 - it’ll be six years!!
My perents dated for 15 years and they are not married yet
Thank you for being so honest about how hard marriage is! It needs to be normalised
Marriage is definitely hard and everyone hates it at some points, yet it's so worth it. I agree it needs to be normalized, that hard times in marriage are normal. But you work through them together.
Couldn't agree more❤
The maniacal laughs after they both strongly agree that marriage is hard 😂😂
This is funny because my husband and I got married alone. Threw a wedding 3 years later and it was a blast. We told everyone and they just thought it was sweet. We did it so we could enjoy our marriage without all the judgments. It was awesome ❤
I love that they showed the messy boxes in the background. I just love it when people online are ok being real like the rest of us 🥰
“Im gonna disagree with that. Im gonna strongly disagree with that.” 😂😂😂😂 that kills me
"You should be a lawyer, you always win all of our fights" 😂
I absolutely love that you’re thinking about putting money towards a college fund so early. My grandparents starting saving for me before I was even born, and it’s saved me from student loans! I still have enough to go to grad school. Sucks that it has to be this way, but I’m glad that my family did that for me
Finally someone thinks the same way about the weddings. Celebrate like 100% but I don’t want a big thing. I just wanna be married to my best friend without the hassles of a huge wedding deal ❤
The balance of your social media is amazing, it’s why I love y’all’s videos so much. Abby is not “whiny” she was going through an incredibly rough time and mostly complained about how she couldn’t hold Griffin or help Matt with random things. You both seem like positive people in real life, but also human, you have hardships and you fall sometimes. But you show how you get back up and that’s what’s amazing about the both of you❤️
You two are as real as it gets, while maintaining that boundary!!!You two are very amazing and teach!!!
The amount that Matt reminds me of his dad is crazy!! And love the way ya’ll just look at each other a straight up laugh, that’s when you know a marriage is strong.❤😂
Y’all are so genuine and honest! Y’all always make my day!💛
I really appreciated watching this, I’m a little older than you guys but at the same stage in life, and I feel like this really helped me see you two for who you really are. You guys seem super cool and genuine
The way they look at each other while they are laughing is so sweet!
Love how casual and fun this video is! It’s great to be able to just laugh with you guys!
How cute are y’all. Y’all laugh cheerfully when answering “strongly agree” to marriage is hard.
Y’all are seriously relationship goals!
I can tell that y’all were honest and real on this video. Thank you for that! You’re a great couple!
Marriage and raising little people is hard work! You all seem to be working together through it. Great video and God Bless!
Bruh i just really enjoy this couple's content theyre so real its like a breath of fresh aie
I'm so happy I came across your channel, it has made my days so much brighter.
This was so fun! I have been in a funk recently and this brought a smile to my face! It made me laugh too! Thank you and nice work!
I’m about to get married and it’s so helpful to see someone have conversations like this. Thank you guys. ❤
This makes me feel so much better that I’m not the only person who gets irritated by their partner as much as Abby does 😂😂❤️
Agreed! This made me feel good lol😂
I used to feel a lot like this
But with time it put strain on our rshp unknowingly
So in therapy I learned to look at the good qualities. Compliment him every day on atleast one good quality everyday
Learning how to accept him the way he is
@@TVal-ob2ehThank You! 🥰
No lie this was one of, if not, my favorites videos from y’all! Looove the honesty & rawness!!
Loved this! Doing it with my boyfriend now, and so what of what y’all said is so relatable with all couples. Thanks for being so honest
Love how open u guys are talking an not cutting each other off ! 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you so much for the laughs! I really needed that today!
i think you guys do a good jobof showing the good and the bad, not that i know all the “bad” that goes on in your marriage but i just wanted to say thanks for not giving a false idea about marriage you guys seem so genuine
I love your guys relationship like the communication and trying to understand each others different opinions is so admirable!
I love that you guys keep it real and are so fun through it! I’ve been struggling in my relationship and have watched you guys a lot to give me some perspective about my own relationship! So mature! I’m older than both of you and still learn a lot just by watching your family grow! Thank you guys! ♥️💐
I'm sensitive to the sound of chewing as well. My husband and I normally put the TV on or play music..the noise helps cancel out his chewing noises
This was fun to watch! I am defiantly going to do this with my spouse....I think it is a great way to get in some needed communication and talk about issues going on but also make it fun at the same time!
You guys are so refreshing! Loved watching this!
The "D" word 😅
Thank you guys for being so vulnerable here. Sometimes I think we might believe that we are terminally different from other couple but it is actually very common and it doesn't mean your marriage is falling apart.
I can see that you guys do a lot of Talking which is SO IMPORTANT.
I appreciate how real y'all come across on your vloggs!
Love this, love the honesty love how you guys just have fun but also TELL THE TRUTH
9:00 when Matt said, " I feel like you don't buy as much stuff as me." I was like did you forget when Abby bought $250 worth of home decor AND Stanley's😂😂
Edit: thanks SO much for 140 likes, this is the most I've ever gotten💖🤯🥳
Ha! Totally what I was thinking
Maybe it was one time 😂😂
Also the water bottle collection
you guys seem really happy
This was so interesting to watch. We need a continuation/part 2
I think this may have been my favorite video from you guys. Very refreshing!
Here, two human beings that consciously have grown! I love these two 💕✨🙌
I love y’all! Y’all are the sweetest, most genuine people I have ever seen on the internet.❤️❤️
10:25 why was this so wholesome to just see them laugh together 😂
You guys are the cutest, thanks so much for sharing part of your lives with us! You both are always so relatable :)
Omg. Ok... so my hubby and I are wayyy older than y'all (40 & 38, respectively). Buuuuut when y'all answered the question of marriage being hard, it felt SO GOOD to see y'all agreeing that it's hard AF while laughing. I related so hard. We do the same thing. We have had so many fights in the last decade...but then also the facepalms about our actions once making up. Then the beautiful growth that comes from it...and the laughter at our stupidity during those times. ... It's so hard to explain to people who haven't legally promised themselves to each other. 🤣 It's SO hard sometimes. F'RILLZ
Love this video! Really enjoyed the honesty. More! 💜
What a great game for a couple. It initiates conversation.
I like to see you laughing together over inside jokes!🥰
Been together 15 years, married 11. I can honestly say I’ve never once even thought about divorce. Ever. I hope I never ever do.
i wonder which couple tried to join in on the drama. it’s honestly sad that this is the reality. people will use you as a stepping stool to one-up you. great video, thanks for being real
Love the honesty, love you three!
I can honestly say…In the 25 years I have been married…I have never once considered or even thought about divorce. 😊❤
♥️
You guys are literally my fav youtubers, I love how kind and caring you are! Matt is always so unabashedly himself, and Abby is always so carefree! XOXO
So adorable 🥰 its so refreshing to see young people my age have the same values as myself. Theres so many young people that lack values now a days.
Seeing this is just awesome love your videos. You two are awesome
What a fun video and idea! I kinda want to try that with my husband now and see where we agree and disagree! I love watching y’all!
This was such a fun video to watch. Love to see you laugh!
I love the open honest conversation you have
Loved this. So relatable on every level!
I loved this video, I laughed so hard! It’s a very healthy game when you think about it.. unless of course you have a spouse that might be triggered by such “honesty” questions and answers. Then I guess it’s not the game itself that needs to be worried about. You both have a very loving relationship and it shows. 😊♥️
This is my favorite video from y’all great video!!!! So good to see y’all so happy with each other:)
PLEASE make more videos like this! 🥰 I love this video, it makes me feel SO seen 🥺😩 I get so tired of feeling like everyone is so "perfect".
I LOVE how real they are, it gives such an honest insight to marriage!
They seem so happy together ❤️ I always wish them the best in life
I wouldn't say real.
I wasn’t having the best day today but seeing you guys laugh about the family part made me laugh so hard. Thank you for the much needed laughter🥰❤️
You two are like a breath of fresh air. And I love his devilish innocence.
Lol. Awesome! Wasn’t expecting this today. In a way this was “Unplanned”. 😂😂
Very real video! Loved it!!! I am tired of so many CZcamsrs scripting their videos. And this one seemed authentic. ❤️🥰❤️
“If I was born in Africa I never would’ve met you”😂 this one got me bc my hubby is from Africa and I met him at a Chick-fil-A in Indianapolis
Woah, that's crazy! How did you guys start the convo?
Same 🤣 My hubby was born in South Africa, moved to Australia and we met at work orientation at a ski resort in California
@@rebeckajg2862 I was a customer and made the first movie because he was cute and had an exotic accent🙈
They have such a healthy realaionship and post great content!
You two are the best couple I have ever seen, and you are just amazing and kind people! I love you❤❤❤
I rarely like and comment on videos.. more of a bad habit than intentional. But I LOVED this! I felt like this gave us a window of how much you two love one another and are authentic.
I can relate so much on the chewing! I have this younger sister and EVER SINGLE TIME I chew..."stop chewing so loud." Great video! 😂
I think this is way more common than people think. I hate when my partner chews, but also complete strangers too. I wonder why?
@@Anna-1937it’s called misophonia! I’ve struggled with it since I was a kid
Abby , you communicate so well .. I love the comment you made about kissing being a build up and that the little ones during the day feed the passion .. you know how to explain your perspective so well! Marriage should be awesome if communication is that clear & open 🎉😅☺️ God bless both of you! Super cute .
I absolutely love her honesty. I agree with the having passwords. Good jobs, guys.
This is the real tea 😂 For real though, there's something refreshing and real about this video - enjoyed it!
The Camera quality/editing is "Chefs kiss" I love you guys
Wow I absolutely loved this video excited to see more like this in the future!
The thumbnail immediately reminded me of Jess&Gabe and I am glad you gave credit where due. Also this video was so entertaining 🤣
When I say MY JAW DROPPED!!!! Wowza I am so excited for y’all!!
It seems to me that your personalities are perfectly matched!
The video quality increase is noticeable ! Great video as usual 👏 love the dynamism 👍
This was such a good video...I love how honest you guys were
I’ve seen many videos on everything. But you two are the most realistic couple (which is good) that I’ve seen on an social media. Business definitely gets in the way sometimes, but you two seem to be able to breathe, take a minute and realize that it’s your future but you’re each others future too. Everyone has arguments, and they hide it. But you two show it and talk about it which is good. I’ve only recently found your channel and I’ve watched many videos cause you two show the true side of being a couple. That it’s not always perfect like people assume. But being there for each other, that’s what’s important. Being real with each other is important. Most importantly is you two made a life together. Everything has ups and downs, but together, you two are unstoppable
I love how they made a way to communicate by playing a game ❤❤❤ this is perfect ❤.
Matt: "get in the car and feel around a little bit"
Lmao!!! ❤ if I had to do it over I would have married my first "test drive". He was my best friend, but it took me too long to get my life together and I missed what was right in front of me. Glad you guys went for it and didn't let being young stop you.
“If you are a couple, and never think about divorce… write a book” TRUUE
I love you guys. Funny, relatable, so real and just good people ❤
I just wanted to say I appreciate you guys being REAL about this all. love you guys!
Abby I agree with you on the chewing… there’s just something about it😂😂😂
Carlo & Sarah, I love your videos & can relate to them so much 🤍 Only ever been in 2 serious relationships, & both of them (including my current boyfriend) were intercultural relationships. It’s so fun learning about, appreciating, & growing with someone from another culture… it’s a very precious kind of love. Cheers to you & many more lovable Carlo & Sarah videos! ✨☀️
(ps Matt & Abby, love yalls content as well obviously) 😉
Seen a lot of your videos, but this one made me laugh out loud 🤣👌it may or may not, have something to do with the 3 glasses of red wine i had with dinner 🤔 anywhoo... thank you for the laughs 😘
“When I looked at my BUMP, it was FANTASTIC!!” I literally had to find this commercial on CZcams because the way that guy says that cracks me up so much!!!!! 😂
I love you two, you are my inspiration and keep doing you and dont let anyone else stop you!
Y'all are like the most real influencers I have every seen on CZcams. Y'all are so funny and so relistic and you make it so funny.
I loved this vlog. You guys are truly the real thing
It’s so funny to me how he said 3 years was long and the right amount of time to see if marriage was right for them. I’m from Germany and almost no one gets married so early here.
Plus She was 20 years old!!! She wasn’t even “adult” enough to drink (under American law), why on earth should she be considered old enough to decide to get married. Doesn’t make sense to me!
That’s funny, I’ve never really thought about it but I have a friend who recently married a German woman and he was treated with some suspicion by her mother for a while because she thought they were rushing into marriage too quickly, but they’re 29 and 30 and have been together about 2 years. Typical German prudence.😅
Having said that, I still think 20 is *extremely* young if you’ve only been together 3 years. I think these two ‘waited for marriage’ as it were? Could be a factor.
😂😂😂 I love this video. I see so much argument potential there 😂
Been married for 32+ years (over half my life) and I feel I can learn more how to be a better husband.
I am going to do this "Fun" learning game with my wife...great way to have Fun Conversations.
***Never too late to teach an Old Dog a New Way to be better"