No hate because I do see what you mean Dallin, BUT just know that if/when she is postpartum and isn't comfortable in her body because it's different, she will remember that you said you aren't as attracted to her body as when she's running 5 miles a day.
True, granted he was speaking honestly which we love but not if but when that time comes just keep reassuring her. Because it can get hard but as long as you continue to show her that you love her in any and every form that shes in she wont have a doubt in her mind
I see what you mean but I’m my experience as a mum of two, my husband was wayyyy more attracted to me postpartum than when I was working out 5 times a day before I got pregnant. The attraction only got more and more. There is different seasons and times to be attracted more.
I cannot even BELIEVE someone would ask if you faked infertility for views. That is maddening because it is heartbreaking what you guys are going through and you both are so genuine and kind. I’m blown away this would be asked. I hope 2023 is your year full of love, adventure and laughter
I believe he meant like how he is attracted her self and body confidence is better when she workout/care about her health. We all feel pretty darn good when we are in shape or having a great workout. It’s the truth cause I’m sure he hears like my partner does when I was negative talking about myself and my body. Since I workout and eat healthy I am a lot happier now.
Ouch. I feel like there was a better way to tell Bella about how you’re attracted to her current body without making it seem like you’ll only be wildly attracted to her when she’s running 5 miles a day, in the gym for hours, etc. That definitely planted some seeds of doubt you may want to address.
This is in the top 3 best videos you guys have ever made. So deep, real and open. I feel like I'm sitting in the room with you and talking as friends 💗 love you two xox
On the note of "communication is key," people RARELY explain that. It's not just "talking a lot," but it's learning how to say things, which battles to choose, knowing who might need to process internally before discussing stuff, and more.
I was adopted and it was the best thing that ever happened to me! It saved me and made me finally feel true unconditional love rather that been abused and neglected like I was just an object. Also me and my mum have the closest relationship because she saved me and gave me start to love myself. If you go the Foster system you will experience love and loyalty like no other just for showing compassion. Love you both and stay positive 💛 its infections 😊
I love hearing these stories! I have wanted to foster and adopt my entire life (since I was really young and thinking of future) and in a few years we’ll be going that route and I cannot wait for that!
I adopted my daughter first and now starting the IVF process and she is 3 years old. Best decision I ever made ❤ She means everything to me and makes the IVF process feel less scary because I know in my heart, I am already someone’s Mama so the pressure isn’t so heavy because I’ve already found my purpose. Praying for you a guys ❤
I can't wait to see what 2023 has in store for you guys! You guys are the sweetest, most authentic couple and I love that we get to be on this journey with you! ❤
I still remember the first time Bella introduced us to Dallin at convention. All of us owlettes were like "ooohhhh who is that guy that is here with Bella??" 🤣 I feel so honored to have been here since the very beginning and watch you two grow together!
Agree that parenting is such a blessing but also is the majority of the stress in our marriage. In the early years, it was easy to be on the same page but as the kids get into middle and high school, it can be a bit of a stressor and a challenge on the relationship. Communication is the key!
My cousin has gone through infertility for years & ended up adopting the cutest girl & that girl is now going to be a big sister in 3 months. Rainbow baby 🌈 Don’t give up! Miracles DO happen! Praying for you two always❤️
Ok I 100% agree with you comment about missing kids even though you don’t have them yet. Feel the same way. I have PCOS and have been trying for over a year to get pregnant and it just hasn’t happened yet so I totally get missing them and not even having them yet. Thanks for all you guys share!
I've been trying since my miscarriage 18.08.2020👼 Still no luck, trying to stay hopeful, I pray one day someone will call me mummy🙏 hoping you have good news this year💗
We suffered infertility, well multiple miscarriages! Hardest years of our life. After our 4th, we both looked at each other and said how about we foster. Our story is a little different because we took on a sibling set, youngest being two days old. The week we brought her home, found out I was pregnant. Long story short adopted three and had two biological kids. It’s been a crazy ride, but never a dull moment!
My mum was adopted and her family is amazing. It's truly a blessing giving a child a home, be it your blood or not. Bella you've really helped me over the past couple of years, I had a miscarriage 18.08.2020👼 and haven't been able to conceive since will be 3 years this August, you help me keep hope. I pray yoy get your baby🙏💗
6 years wow! I remember working in the Origami Owl warehouse and the day before your wedding they let us go out and ride the carnival rides you had for the wedding
And the fact that out of this whole video that's what you took out not people thinking she's lying about infertility and doesn't want to be pregnat to travel. Yeah you really put your finger on what's important!(sarcasm)
I agree. That would hurt so bad then if she gains a bit or a lot, which is totally fine, she will remember what he said and be hurt. It’s tough hearing that no matter what stage you’re at, even though he’s so proud of what she did, it still hurts
My mom struggled with infertility for 10 years and failed IVF as well and adopted both of my sisters and then a few years later I was conceived biologically by a complete miracle when they weren’t even trying. I loved my experience growing up and I believe it helped my sisters a lot with the identity crisis that adoption can cause at times because I was born after them.
The audacity some people have to even ASK some of those questions as if its any of their business. Good for you guys tho being the bigger person and answering them. I love you guys!!! Prayers your family grows soon ❤❤❤❤
Oh my gosh im a infertiliy before & after our 2 daughter & they are adults now i am going threw empty nest & grieving (working to the acceptance point) the family we couldnt have & im physically sick someone even asked this oh my gosh! 😮😮😮 no it sucks! I think you both have done sharing your journey with class & respect to the community. Not all infertility couples can go to ivf or iui & i applaud you both for sharing both sides! I mean holy wow! That is just no you dont want to see people go threw infertility! When i was in it you did not talk about it, or even talk about babies miscarried so yes 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 thank you for allowing people in for the conversation & being do real about it! @dellavlogs🧡🌺🙏🏼🦋🧡
“I miss my children even though I’ve never met them” Hit me so hard because I’ve also have been praying to get pregnant for 3 years now and still going with faith.
I absolutely love you guys! You’re the sweetest couple. The friends that you’re no longer friends with are honestly don’t deserve friendship with you. They are fake anyway. Continue to love each other endlessly & have many more adventures together. Love y’all’s videos I’m SO glad y’all came back.
Can we just appreciate that Bella and Dallin are going to be the best parents. Y’all are already amazing parents and I can’t wait to see the future for y’all ❤❤❤❤❤
As someone who also struggled with infertility (& now secondary infertility) and knowing the pain that comes with it, the question about “did you fake infertility for views” made me so mad for y’all.
i been watching ur vlogs for a long time you guys helped me to belive in me not to give up,how to treat a women, what is love waiting for little della 👶👶 lots of love and support from INDIA
Marriage is hard but so worth it! I agree there me and my husband are complete polar opposites lol it’s harder for me because I’m so neat and he’s messy and I hate it lol it’s the biggest point of contention for us!
I find you guys to be very genuine. Sometimes, I wish people would be more fake on social media. Like I wish HRH collection could pretend to be human, and trolls could pretend to be nice people
After struggling with infertility myself I am so thankful to of found your social media platforms, you are so inspiring and please never give up! Thank you so much for sharing your story and being open helping us out here who are struggling, we're not in this alone! ❤😊
Ugh! Not eating your own wedding food stinks! Why??!! I remember just chowing down on my wedding dinner… to the point where my uncle (sitting at the table right in front of us) actually commented about me eating like I was starving. I replied, “We paid good money for this food! There’s no way I’m not going to enjoy every bite!” Funny thing is, his own daughter struggled with food issues (and her weight) for her entire life, and I imagine his attitude didn’t help!
Oh Bella, you are going to be the best mom. I’ve heard stories of couples who have adopted and then catching pregnant naturally. I think it’s something to do with relaxing and being at peace. I definitely believe you reeeeaaallllyyy deserve it. Xxjojoxx
I think there’s little hints towards adoption, one thing that seems like a little hint is the baby monitor box(looks like that’s what it is) beside Bella ❤ no matter which way life takes you guys it’ll be amazing ❤
I do love you guys one reason is how you put God first and try to always put out positive concepts and y’all let your viewers in you life Dallin and Bella is very inspiring💯🫶🏽
Everyone should *think* about divorce- to form your own opinion on whether or not it’s an option for yourself/your relationship or what your life would look like. I think the question should have said “have you *considered* divorce?” is a whole nother question
Omg. I just watch on of Dellas first ever videos on this Chanel. Compare Dallins arms and Bellas cute little face. And Bella was like: I'am here with my boyfriend.😂 So cute!
Bella, you're such a strong, beautiful, inspirational woman! God has a special plan for you and your family. You Guys are the absolute best. Remember, God gives the hardest battles to HIS strongest soldiers. You all are awesome. Never give up. Love yall💙💜
Same!! Didn’t eat any of the food at our reception or food before. We were so hungry by the time we got to the hotel. I’ve made sure all of my siblings (I’m the oldest and got married first) get to eat on their wedding days.
Even if your watching the realest people on social media, it’s still a small snapshot of life, not every slow, boring, or difficult part of life. Appreciate those who try to show as much real as possible though!
No hate because I do see what you mean Dallin, BUT just know that if/when she is postpartum and isn't comfortable in her body because it's different, she will remember that you said you aren't as attracted to her body as when she's running 5 miles a day.
True, granted he was speaking honestly which we love but not if but when that time comes just keep reassuring her. Because it can get hard but as long as you continue to show her that you love her in any and every form that shes in she wont have a doubt in her mind
Yeah that was wild lol
I see what you mean but I’m my experience as a mum of two, my husband was wayyyy more attracted to me postpartum than when I was working out 5 times a day before I got pregnant. The attraction only got more and more. There is different seasons and times to be attracted more.
@@maccoward factual yes!!!
I cannot even BELIEVE someone would ask if you faked infertility for views. That is maddening because it is heartbreaking what you guys are going through and you both are so genuine and kind. I’m blown away this would be asked. I hope 2023 is your year full of love, adventure and laughter
its not maddening at all
@@rcg224 BUT THEY DID NOT!!!
@@rcg224 ok fine ( in a funny way)
She’s going to take that body question to heart for life, now she’s going to be scared to gain a pound thinking he won’t find her as attractive 😢
thats not what he said
I thought that too to be honest. Even though I’m sure he meant well ❤
I believe he meant like how he is attracted her self and body confidence is better when she workout/care about her health. We all feel pretty darn good when we are in shape or having a great workout. It’s the truth cause I’m sure he hears like my partner does when I was negative talking about myself and my body. Since I workout and eat healthy I am a lot happier now.
Ouch. I feel like there was a better way to tell Bella about how you’re attracted to her current body without making it seem like you’ll only be wildly attracted to her when she’s running 5 miles a day, in the gym for hours, etc. That definitely planted some seeds of doubt you may want to address.
This is in the top 3 best videos you guys have ever made. So deep, real and open. I feel like I'm sitting in the room with you and talking as friends 💗 love you two xox
On the note of "communication is key," people RARELY explain that. It's not just "talking a lot," but it's learning how to say things, which battles to choose, knowing who might need to process internally before discussing stuff, and more.
Facts
Absolutely. And it's, in my opinion, learning about the other person's communication style and finding a healthy way for both of you to use.
You two are truly going to be the BEST parents ever. I can’t wait to see you become parents and believe that it will be soon! ❤
I was adopted and it was the best thing that ever happened to me! It saved me and made me finally feel true unconditional love rather that been abused and neglected like I was just an object. Also me and my mum have the closest relationship because she saved me and gave me start to love myself. If you go the Foster system you will experience love and loyalty like no other just for showing compassion. Love you both and stay positive 💛 its infections 😊
i was adopted too and totally agree with you!
Same adopted
I love hearing these stories! I have wanted to foster and adopt my entire life (since I was really young and thinking of future) and in a few years we’ll be going that route and I cannot wait for that!
Aww I loved reading this comment! It makes me realize how many kids don’t have a home and aren’t loved 💔
This is beautiful❤️
I adopted my daughter first and now starting the IVF process and she is 3 years old. Best decision I ever made ❤ She means everything to me and makes the IVF process feel less scary because I know in my heart, I am already someone’s Mama so the pressure isn’t so heavy because I’ve already found my purpose. Praying for you a guys ❤
I can't wait to see what 2023 has in store for you guys! You guys are the sweetest, most authentic couple and I love that we get to be on this journey with you! ❤
They are definitely adopting so many hints here ❤
Love watching your journey! Praying & believing for your miracle!
I hope you're adopting!!! You guys are going to be the best parents. You both have such amazing hearts!
Something nice about you guys: You seem like so much fun to be around, and you make great videos! I love how real they are, and I love you both!
You are both such amazing people. When the time comes and it will you will both be amazing parents. Sending prayers for your miracle baby ❤
I still remember the first time Bella introduced us to Dallin at convention. All of us owlettes were like "ooohhhh who is that guy that is here with Bella??" 🤣 I feel so honored to have been here since the very beginning and watch you two grow together!
Agree that parenting is such a blessing but also is the majority of the stress in our marriage. In the early years, it was easy to be on the same page but as the kids get into middle and high school, it can be a bit of a stressor and a challenge on the relationship. Communication is the key!
My cousin has gone through infertility for years & ended up adopting the cutest girl & that girl is now going to be a big sister in 3 months. Rainbow baby 🌈 Don’t give up! Miracles DO happen! Praying for you two always❤️
Ok I 100% agree with you comment about missing kids even though you don’t have them yet. Feel the same way. I have PCOS and have been trying for over a year to get pregnant and it just hasn’t happened yet so I totally get missing them and not even having them yet. Thanks for all you guys share!
I've been trying since my miscarriage 18.08.2020👼 Still no luck, trying to stay hopeful, I pray one day someone will call me mummy🙏 hoping you have good news this year💗
So proud of you guys! Continue being y’all! Praying y’all get your miracle! We love you so so much!
I love how they always say "WHEN WE HAVE KIDS" instead of "IF".... Keep the faith ❤
I miss seeing you guys post!!! Can’t wait for your family to grow ❤ prayers for you guys always !!
We suffered infertility, well multiple miscarriages! Hardest years of our life. After our 4th, we both looked at each other and said how about we foster. Our story is a little different because we took on a sibling set, youngest being two days old. The week we brought her home, found out I was pregnant. Long story short adopted three and had two biological kids. It’s been a crazy ride, but never a dull moment!
You guys are absolutely precious and I hope that you get to be a mommy and daddy soon any child would be blessed to have you ❤
Parenting is hard. You can be as prepared as possible but you learn something new each day! Wish you all the best!
My mum was adopted and her family is amazing. It's truly a blessing giving a child a home, be it your blood or not. Bella you've really helped me over the past couple of years, I had a miscarriage 18.08.2020👼 and haven't been able to conceive since will be 3 years this August, you help me keep hope. I pray yoy get your baby🙏💗
Bella, I love watching your channel because you are so genuine and kind! I hope you will hear good fertility news soon. Praying for you!😚
IMPORTANT!!! At the reception you always designate someone to make a Togo box for the bride and groom. A must!!!
Looking forward to hearing your music and we love the both of you!! ❣️❣️ Sending good vibes only
I have 4 children and have been married for almost 9 years!! Parenting is so much harder than marriage itself
6 years wow! I remember working in the Origami Owl warehouse and the day before your wedding they let us go out and ride the carnival rides you had for the wedding
Bella’s laugh is so contagious! I love it!!!
I totally feel like you guys have adoption in the works!!!!🍼 Love you guys by the way!!!!
It’s not nice what dallin said about her body. Her body WILL change when she gets pregnant and bodies are always changing…
Right! Seems really superficial
And the fact that out of this whole video that's what you took out not people thinking she's lying about infertility and doesn't want to be pregnat to travel. Yeah you really put your finger on what's important!(sarcasm)
But he not lying tho your body will always change when your pregnant I don’t think he was being mean he just being honest
from now on she will forever think about his words if she ever doesn’t look like what she does right now..
I agree. That would hurt so bad then if she gains a bit or a lot, which is totally fine, she will remember what he said and be hurt. It’s tough hearing that no matter what stage you’re at, even though he’s so proud of what she did, it still hurts
My mom struggled with infertility for 10 years and failed IVF as well and adopted both of my sisters and then a few years later I was conceived biologically by a complete miracle when they weren’t even trying. I loved my experience growing up and I believe it helped my sisters a lot with the identity crisis that adoption can cause at times because I was born after them.
Did ur parents treat you any better than they treated your sisters?
@@haleycomeau21 nope not at all! We were very much equal.
Getting married young is not always bad, I got married at 19 and I have been married comeing up this September 37 years and still happy❤️
The audacity some people have to even ASK some of those questions as if its any of their business. Good for you guys tho being the bigger person and answering them. I love you guys!!! Prayers your family grows soon ❤❤❤❤
Oh my gosh im a infertiliy before & after our 2 daughter & they are adults now i am going threw empty nest & grieving (working to the acceptance point) the family we couldnt have & im physically sick someone even asked this oh my gosh! 😮😮😮 no it sucks! I think you both have done sharing your journey with class & respect to the community. Not all infertility couples can go to ivf or iui & i applaud you both for sharing both sides! I mean holy wow! That is just no you dont want to see people go threw infertility! When i was in it you did not talk about it, or even talk about babies miscarried so yes 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 thank you for allowing people in for the conversation & being do real about it! @dellavlogs🧡🌺🙏🏼🦋🧡
Fun game! Glad you guys are back on CZcams!! ❤❤❤😊
“I miss my children even though I’ve never met them”
Hit me so hard because I’ve also have been praying to get pregnant for 3 years now and still going with faith.
I love you guys so much, I really believe you guys will have your rainbow baby one day. Please do a part 2, this was such a amazing video
I very much enjoy watching your videos. Sending prayers and positive vibes that your arms will be as full as your hearts .
Mad love for u both ❤️ cant wait to see u guys in real life one day
We love you, both!
I know in my heart, that God has a perfect plan for you!
I wish you both, much peace, and happiness.❤
I absolutely love you guys! You’re the sweetest couple. The friends that you’re no longer friends with are honestly don’t deserve friendship with you. They are fake anyway. Continue to love each other endlessly & have many more adventures together. Love y’all’s videos I’m SO glad y’all came back.
I pray you are blessed with many children! You guys are wonderful!!! ❤
Praying for you on your journey! I love you guyssssss ❤️🫶
Can we just appreciate that Bella and Dallin are going to be the best parents. Y’all are already amazing parents and I can’t wait to see the future for y’all ❤❤❤❤❤
Proud of you two. Can’t wait to see what the future holds for you. Praying for your miracle baby. Stay strong. ♥️
As someone who also struggled with infertility (& now secondary infertility) and knowing the pain that comes with it, the question about “did you fake infertility for views” made me so mad for y’all.
Dallin trying to get Bella drink the water though😂
I enjoyed this video.
Happy Friday Bella and Dallin 💖
Love you guys 💜 such a sweet, cute couple. Good things will happen for you before you know it💜🤍
i been watching ur vlogs for a long time you guys helped me to belive in me not to give up,how to treat a women, what is love
waiting for little della 👶👶
lots of love and support from INDIA
Marriage is hard but so worth it! I agree there me and my husband are complete polar opposites lol it’s harder for me because I’m so neat and he’s messy and I hate it lol it’s the biggest point of contention for us!
The divorce shock killed me 😂. I think the hint is a child (one way or another), there is a baby monitor in a box next to the computer 👀
I enjoy watching your guys' videos 😊 so fun! 😊
I find you guys to be very genuine. Sometimes, I wish people would be more fake on social media. Like I wish HRH collection could pretend to be human, and trolls could pretend to be nice people
I really hope the hint is adoption!!! It would be the greatest blessing for the child and for you two 💛🫶🏼💛
I LOVE YOU TWO!!!!! (Well, three actually bc Banks was in this video too!) ♥️♥️♥️
Really enjoyed the video.
Love you Della❤️
After struggling with infertility myself I am so thankful to of found your social media platforms, you are so inspiring and please never give up! Thank you so much for sharing your story and being open helping us out here who are struggling, we're not in this alone! ❤😊
hope bella knows that if her body changes at all it will still be just as beautiful as it now at it’s “peak”. that’s a lot of pressure.
Love this Couple. ❤❤so special
Blessings to the Della family.
Ugh! Not eating your own wedding food stinks! Why??!! I remember just chowing down on my wedding dinner… to the point where my uncle (sitting at the table right in front of us) actually commented about me eating like I was starving. I replied, “We paid good money for this food! There’s no way I’m not going to enjoy every bite!” Funny thing is, his own daughter struggled with food issues (and her weight) for her entire life, and I imagine his attitude didn’t help!
U guys are so awesome i hope ur wishes come true 😍love from fiji ❤❤❤
That guitar in the back is so cute😍
I call my infertility a "living grief." I have no promise I'll be pregnant, and there are reminders of that which I've not yet experienced.
Dallins reaction to the divorce answer 😂😂
Oh Bella, you are going to be the best mom. I’ve heard stories of couples who have adopted and then catching pregnant naturally. I think it’s something to do with relaxing and being at peace. I definitely believe you reeeeaaallllyyy deserve it. Xxjojoxx
I just love her laugh! 🤍
I love the way that yall are and the fact that yall love each other the way yall are and just all the sweet things that yall do for each other❤🩹
I think there’s little hints towards adoption, one thing that seems like a little hint is the baby monitor box(looks like that’s what it is) beside Bella ❤ no matter which way life takes you guys it’ll be amazing ❤
I love you guys so much and it makes me so happy when you post❤️❤️❤️
I just found your channel and I love it. Marriage is hard. My hubby and I totally agree on that we also think it's only as hard as u make it
BELLA you are GORGEOUS and you ALWAYS have been!!!💜💜💜
I had missed you guys!!! 💛💛💛
Bella, Can you do a video about what you eat in a day, workout routine, and all that good stuff!
Dallin: say something nice about us 😂😂 I think you guys are adopting, that’s the hint! ❤
I do love you guys one reason is how you put God first and try to always put out positive concepts and y’all let your viewers in you life Dallin and Bella is very inspiring💯🫶🏽
is the box next to the computer a baby camera??? If so im so excited for you guys!
Love you two ❤.. stay strong
Everyone should *think* about divorce- to form your own opinion on whether or not it’s an option for yourself/your relationship or what your life would look like. I think the question should have said “have you *considered* divorce?” is a whole nother question
Very good video. Continue on your road on getting the diamond crystal play button
Omg. I just watch on of Dellas first ever videos on this Chanel. Compare Dallins arms and Bellas cute little face. And Bella was like: I'am here with my boyfriend.😂 So cute!
I love your paint color on the walls. Could you tell me the brand and color?
Alright, here goes, verbatim “You love us” 😂 as requested 😊
You should definitely adopt. I wasn’t able to have kids so my husband and I decided to foster and now we have 3 amazing adopted children
Bella, you're such a strong, beautiful, inspirational woman! God has a special plan for you and your family. You Guys are the absolute best. Remember, God gives the hardest battles to HIS strongest soldiers. You all are awesome. Never give up. Love yall💙💜
watching after the music video where they hinted that they are adopting!!
I love y'all so much!!!!!!
I love you Bella and Dallin! 💜😍
It’s a baby monitor on the desk! There’s some sort of little human coming!
Love when Bella sings!
Same!! Didn’t eat any of the food at our reception or food before. We were so hungry by the time we got to the hotel. I’ve made sure all of my siblings (I’m the oldest and got married first) get to eat on their wedding days.
Even if your watching the realest people on social media, it’s still a small snapshot of life, not every slow, boring, or difficult part of life. Appreciate those who try to show as much real as possible though!
Banks is so freaking adorable I can’t 😂
You guys are awesome love you guys all in God's timing
I love you guys!!!❤❤❤