Married Couple Plays Agree to Disagree!
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- čas přidán 25. 11. 2023
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My husband also said that he would probably stay with me even if i cheated on him. I asked him not to be so stupid. He deserves much better than to be with someone who betrayed him. Cheating is a really disgusting thing. Try to solve the problems, or if it doesn't work, get a divorce, but don't humiliate the other person!
Amen. Cheating should never be a thing not only it ruins the relationship it runs trust forever even after the relationship fails and the kids
I have zero tolerance for cheating, it’s a dis-ease with self that truly affects everyone, not only the person doing the cheating. 🙏🏼🫂🙏🏼🫂💝
Cheating isn't black and white it really depends on the situation and people. There are a lot of reasons people cheat. Some can be fixed, and some can't. Some situations involve emotions, others are purely physical. Some involve children, and some do not. It's not just about humiliating someone else. For a lot of people, it is a deal breaker. But it shouldn't have to be the only option either.
@@danaschreiner3334 I don't agree, but I accept your opinion 😊
@@noncsy_ thank you. I think every person is different and as long ad your partner/spouse knows where you stand that's what's important
They are possibly the most honest and practical couple i have observed on the internet. They show us the real picture of a relationship instead of painting an illusion in our minds. Thanks for keeping it real Matt and Abby. Kudos to you guys. ❤❤❤
Yeah I agree they are very real ❤
AGREED
Yess! I hope they never change . They are refreshing
I've come across plenty of internet couples that give the "real" picture. Don't know who y'all are watching but you might wanna change the channel.
@@joycedominguez8997There’s plenty of people on the internet though who are not so they are saying they appreciate the fact they are like that.
Trust me.. if one of u cheated .. you wouldn't be able to stay together without serious serious counseling and still might end up breaking up.. trust me.. love isnt enough to stay together sometimes..
Matt talking about not wishing things were better, but waking up everyday and being grateful for what you have… I needed that reminder today. Thank you 🩷
I feel like im third wheeling them lmao
also i love how they show the reality of marriage it makes me so happy and i cant wait to have that too
Yes! They are so real that I feel like I’m sitting next to them!
Heard some advice said before and wished I knew about it in the early years of my marriage. Do not discuss hard things after 8 PM and before 8 AM. People are usually tired after and before those times. Things can escalate quickly and people may not always be in the right frame of mind when tired. Words may get said that are not meant. Been following this rule with my husband for awhile now and it has helped so much!
We have this rule too but we have little kids sooooo for us it's 10 or 11 p.m. because otherwise we would literally never be able to talk about anything serious ever except on weekends. 🤣🤣
THIS THOUGH! So life saving! Also, my husband and I add not to talk if one of us hasn’t eaten. I find myself the bitchiest when I’m hangry lol and him to.
I disagree with the soulmates' questions. It's not about compatability but about loving someone so deeply that it touches both of your souls. I've unfortunately lost mine, and I can tell you it is real. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of her. That love is definitely different. I could be wrong but I doubt it. I love your videos. You guys are so relatable. God bless your growing family. ❤
Where did she go 😢 x
@olivewright7461 She died of an overdose in 2018. It has been a hard 6 yrs. All I can do is mourn and hopefully move on in the future. God bless you
Exactly what I was thinking real
Love does exist
Exactly thats the point they are trying to say, you've lost her that's why you're saying this. Im not saying that you don't love her its just at some point we think we deserved better or we compare our partner , maybe just in the heat of the moment but that's exactly not what soulmate. So soulmate aren't real.
Soulmates aren’t a thing sorry to break the bad news, but I am sorry for your loss
The music was overpowering their voices and it was a little distrating. Maybe having the music more faint would be better.
Besides that, i love you guys. Always look forward to your videos.
True
I didn’t even notice the music 🤔
It was really annoying & distracting to me. No need for music.
AGREEE
I agree. The music is distracting.
It’s so obvious that this is exactly how they’d talk about it without a camera and I love that❤
Honesty is rly so refreshing ..actually displays a high level of maturity to answer difficult, private questions like these. And here’s the thing, it’s not just for entertainment purposes the way I see it- it’s genuinely helpful for other couples/ ppl to feel less alone. I don’t like the term ‘influencer’ but in the sense that they’re able to have influence over a large audience through their platform, I think it is wise and rly wonderful to discuss more difficult / awkward / vulnerable topics like these!! Thanks to you Matt and Abby! I’m in a longterm relationship and struggle with clinical anxiety issues and you honestly rly made me just feel better about some of the things I’ve discussed with my partner or thought about myself such as soulmates and other subjects. I liked hearing both of your perspectives on these things! It was beyond valuable to me and put my mind more at ease :) 👍
That soulmates conversation was so good, especially about the perspective of gratitude - so good! ❤
00:45 - White lies are okay in a relationship?
1:39 - I've considered adoption?
2:25 - My partner is the jealous one in the relationship?
3:36 it's okay to be friends with your ex?
4:25 - It's okay to take trips alone even though we're married
5:10 - If today we met, would you ask each other out?
6:18 - You would still be with me if I cheated?
7:35 - If we got pregnant right now, I would be excited
8:37 - I think going through your partners phone without asking is okay
9:05 - Breaks in a relationship are a good idea
10:05 - Spending your whole life with someone is overwhelming
11:18 - Abbie wears the pants?
12:05 - Soulmates are real
13:06 - Marriage is hard
13:48 - Friendship breakups are harder than relationship ones?
19:10 - I have considered cheating?
Thank you for the breakdown that is really cool and a bit of work 🎉
Tysm!
*Abby, no hate
You missed like 3
Thank you so much! I really appreciate it
I absolutely love the soul mate question and their answer for that. They look at things in such a mature nature. It’s amazing. No one is going to like someone all the time but knowing you have a partner that’s willing to stick by the decision you both made and looking at it from a positive sense instead of thinking what you could have be thankful for what you already have. Amazing answer!!!❤❤❤
Compatibility is fluid. You may be incredibly compatible with a person in one moment, but life circumstances will mold both of you into different shapes. It takes work to retain the compatibility through all the changes. Your soulmates are the people with whom you mold together.
“I like right now” is my favorite song. I nanny three little boys for 9-10 hours a day andddd I always tell Alexa to play this song when I’m cooking lunch or just need some calm happiness after dealing with tantrums and fighting 😂
That makes me so happy!!
@@MattandAbbyI second this! I’ve added that song to multiple of my Spotify playlists and can’t help but sing to it every time it comes on. It’s so catchy and beautiful! Keep making such great music Matt🤩😄 we love it!
How could you ever stay with someone that cheated on you?!! No way!!
If they have already thought about it- this marriage won't last. They are just in the very beginning. This is actually sad.
Matt have you ever thought Abby isn’t her old self because she can’t be. Just imagine maybe she’s longing for the days when it was just the two of you with baby she’s missing that. It’s made Abby look as though she can’t cope with motherhood without having her parents living with you, but in actual fact, she only needs her parents solely because of your actions wanting to go off every month ‘’writing songs’’ You have two very young babies
Anybody else think Abby has become more beautiful through the years? You guys are paired so well.❤
100% she just gets prettier and prettier
Love her new hair
Abby does look prettier, but she’s lost something… her softness. She seems hard or hardened in this video. It’s especially noticeable when they talked about adoption and Matt’s music career.
@@pimmspimms5462I think she looks even better now than before.
@pimmspimms5462 Probably just tired from dealing with two babies. They seem like they got it rough in videos of them taking care of the babies
This is very interesting! Like this definitely shows how you guys are open minded when it comes to discussing about couple-related topics. Great video! ❤❤❤
The way Matt laughs after whispering to Abbey what she lied about 😅
Loved this video. Love the way you guys are connected and so genuine with each other and are able to joke about things because you know you’re safe with your person
liked the video but the music was a bit loud and distracting. made the audio sound weird. like if you agree so they can see the edit suggestion.
With the cheating thing, it changes the trust and when the trust changes, nothing will ever be the same again and your relationship will be ruined. Trust is everything in my eyes so if it’s broken, it’s broken and the relationship at that point in my eyes is in the “fake it till u make it” phase that will last the rest of the time you are “together”.
Key point : in your eyes.
This is your opinion and yoir experience.
Many couples have come out of it stronger. So dont think your way is the only right way.
If he is sure that you will stay if he cheats, that’s a 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
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I didn't like that part at all. I worry about how mature he is honestly to say something like that.
well in his defense she has told him that she would stay lol so thats why he’s sure of it
@@gabby8104 yea but she would feel obligated to stay. I think she's starting to not like him as much so I'm sure if he cheated she'd leave.
@@gabby8104 homegirl was dumb for that. I don’t even l know how I would react if I got the greatest news ever, imagine being cheated on.
Hot take- being soulmates isn’t about compatibility & doesn’t necessarily have to be a partner. Could be a friend, parent, sibling, even animals. You feel a soul bond, an unmatched unconditional love. I also believe that you can have more than one soulmate.
Totally agree with that take✨
Thank you for displaying the reality of relationships.
They are just putting the reality of a marriage out there.And that's the best thing about matt and Abby!!
It doesnt seem like they know what soulmates are.
Love how honest you guys are!
You guys are the best conversation and honesty. That’s awesome
I watch this because I was crying and this really helped me thank you Matt and Abby I love you guys
The bond you two have is everything ❤
i love how they are both such honest people, it makes this world seem so much more real :)
i know people say don’t set others relationships as something to aspire to have but i value the relationship you guys have so much i want this transparency and communication in mine.
I love how open and honest you guys are with these questions and your explanations, not being the perfect couple - but rather, an authentic, realistic, and down-to-earth couple!
You two are both honest and truly love each other. You have a family and everything anyone could ever want. So stay blessed, honest and appreciative of each other.
IUD baby here
My brother was only 6 months when my mum got pregnant with me. We are 14 months apart.
It does happen ☺️
I love u guys so much , u never play or lie for the camera .
Atleast some youtubers where i can trust in
This is so so precious
Nahhh, if you cheat, that is serious stuff and your vows have been broken. Biblically, that would be grounds for divorce.
“Did you get cold feet *TOO*?”
Strongly agreeing to Abby staying even if he cheated.
“I’m too honest, you’re offended by it”
Matt really is too immature and a bit narcissistic. Abby knows it too but she’s trying to make things better and be the mature one and waiting for this man to grow up.
Him basically saying he wants to do more solo trips together is so funny and wholesome
Today was my first day watching your vids and I am obsessed yall are so honest and Griffin and August are adorable.Thanks for being a true couple and not just painting an image in our minds. Have a great day!❤❤❤❤❤
Matt, your videos have come so far from your college days. Watching this video and hearing the music you add to different parts of the video makes it feel like I’m watching some sort of tv show. Props to all you’ve learned and how much you’ve grown in your editing! Love you guys!! 🫶🏼
They said in a poscast they hired an editor
Really??? The audio was garbage. I couldn’t even hear their answers half the time.
You guys are the best, Love this❤
When you are with the right person, marriage can be effortless. I didn’t think this was possible during the 10 years I was with my ex boyfriend, whom I also considered my best friend, but now that I’ve met my person it’s night and day- time with him feels precious.
😊 this video is exactly why I love them! Abby your stunning... embrace your beauty. You guys are so wonderful...
I like this video but the music was too loud and the voices weren't clear like in the other videos, I had a hard time concentrating 😅
I love your honesty in these videos!! Its so refreshing 🥰❤️
If you’re open to some suggestions, the music in this particular video was a bit overpowering and distracted from the amazing conversation you were having. You could’ve done this whole video without the music and have it be even more impactful.
I love the sudden stopping and playing of music
your realistic view of life and relationship is refreshing. I think you both are doing life so well. We try to live by, "Never give up, Never surrender"
this can cause so much trouble
thank you for different camera angles! its why your subscribers keep going up: your videos are always interesting to watch!
Love how realistic yall be w eachother
there's no one better for my husband than me and there's no one better for me than him. 1000%. and that's how it should be, it shouldn't feel forced
Statistically that's not true
@@stephanyjablonofsky9749 uhhh she wasn't talking about statistics. She was saying that it shouldn't feel forced.
The polyam community would disagree
I loved your video guys. Thank you so much for sharing ❤
A good marriage is a partnership which means making decisions together and choosing what’s best for the whole family
I love the honesty with each other
this is one of the most cute and iconic channels and i love how open mat and abby are with each other, it’s something i strive for
I almost started crying when they were talking about him supporting her and appreciating her post pregnancy body. It was so beautiful❤
I LOVE your videos! Thanks for keeping it genuine and real. ❤
12:17 and onwards conversation was so real, and I totally agree
For me being friends with an ex is okay, because there are several reasons that this relationship did not work out. But only when enough time went through and you do not meet them because you want the person back
It was so nice to hear the pre and post pregnancy talk from Matt supporting Abby.
Love it ❤
I love the honesty.. and I can related 100% to the pre body from pregnancy. I’ve had 4kids. I don’t necessarily miss my pre body but I miss being comfortable in my own skin and being in shape. Working on it though. Like Abby I love working out 5-6days a week.
The music in the background of this video is way too loud 😂 but love love love hearing this type of conversation!!
Holy smokes! Matt your music is so good! Just sent my husband “I like right now”. Definitely keep that up!
Them laughing together is everything 💗
My favorite part is Matt saying he would look like a pencil bald haha! Seriously tho I love your guys' honesty.
Hilarious that Matt/men think the amount of weight they can bench is attractive to women. Take that pressure off yourself, Matt. ❤
He's very young.
right... most of us do not care
It is to some women, but Abby clearly isn’t one of them
Griffin and augie are so lucky to have parents like u ❤
I watch these videos for hours and Never get bored you have the best content
period
I just loveeee how wholesome you guys are!
You guys are literally sooo adorable!!
@matt and abby, you two are one of my absolute fave couples! Love yous, and you are soo truthful abd honest and its obvious your in love with eachother ❤❤. Never change 😊
I love you guys and your channel so much! My favorite CZcamsrs by far! Keep it up you guys! You are amazing parents!
I am so sorry about your friendship breakup Matt, but I lost my friend Hannah when I was 7 or 8 and on my birthday. She moved to Minnesota and now I am 14, turning 15 next may, and I haven't talked to her since. Sorry I needed to get this off my chest, and you guys always make my day better. Love you guys so much.
Please don’t have the background music so loud! There were times I could barely hear what you were saying
No one should ever put up with someone who cheats on them... its unacceptable no matter the circumstance
The fact that they are quietly arguing like we're not even watching the video.........
Love this type of videos fr 💚
This game wasn’t a good idea folks
You guys are so good.i think most couples agree to disagree.if they where truly honest❤❤
this video made me believe in love again. also matt your song "i like right now" really surprised me - its really good.
Matt has no respect for Abby.. single ladies watching this: he is far from what you should strive for in a husband.
I’ve been saying this so long! The podcast was the worst thing they could’ve done for their relationship. It’s revealed so many things about why it’s a toxic relationship
@millieblake666- you are absolutely right it’s as though he has no boundaries concerning Abby’s feelings. He misses the old Abby🤮🤮🤮 as he obsessively pines to be a recording artist. Maybe that’s the only reason, Abby needs her parents living with them because she realised what Matt was planning to do all along. With all his trips away each month so he can ‘’write’’. Whereas if he wasn’t so selfish she would be able to cope just fine without them. He is so self absorbed.
What are you guys talking about? They are married with 2 kids going strong for 10 years together. They are close to being a perfect couple. What they displayed in the video is what most couples should shoot for. Matt is literally excited to see his girl turned 60
One of my favorite couple to watch! I admire u both, keep it strong 💪 ❤
Matt giving her a pass on cheating once is a total red flag. He seems like he wants to cheat! Im not to impressed with him at all anymore. She better stay on high alert- sad to say. And hes obsessed with her body, almost like a 14 yr old boy . Kinda wierd.
Yep. There is another CZcams short of them where Abby says that she realistically doesn't know what she would do if he cheated (which is realistically) but he came with an entire explanation on how if she did it once and went to counseling he would forgive her.
Sounded too rational and honestly like he wanted to open an excuse for himself. Because unfortunately she later agreed with that "cheating clause".
If you and your ex had children together than yes its ok to be friends because its healthy for those children to know that their parents can get along and have a healthy friendship. Those kids will need that. You cannot erase parenthood between former spouses.
Obv
Staying in contact doesn't mean the same as being friends. You can keep in youch to arrange who gets the kids during what time, kid's health concearns and stuff, but you won't go golfing with them. My mom has 4 kids, 3 seperate fathers. She's married with my stepdad and used to have contact eith the other dads. But as soon as her kids turn 18 she stops having contact with the dad. She said especially as a married woman there's no reason to still have contact with her ex after her kids are adults, and i agree with her
Abby! Could you do a tutorial on how you style your hair please? 😍
The background music was a tad distracting 🙃
I saw y’all tonight! So thank you for becoming part of my birthday
Matt said he would look like a pencil bald !! I am crying 😂😂😂😂😂 I love yall. Love from St. Louis 💙😂
She looks so fit and happy! You go girl
NEVER go to bed mad BCUZ 1 of you might not wake up . ( I'm not talking about being murdered in your sleep ) you just never know what might happen and my dad died in his sleep! So that's why I'm saying this!!
Love you guys❤️🩹 Abby is so beautiful😭💜
love u both great video but sorrrrrrryyyyy to say I bet you have lots to do buttt... just some feedback.. THE SOUND on this video was SO HARD to endure! Too much music that's way louder than your actual voices and your voices were muffled..... PLEASE please don't do that to me again thanks. lol hihi x
Great video guys. Very fun to watch
im pretty sure i won't be around when Matt and Abby become old and grey to see them if they made it to the golden years in the marriage but man i so hope they do. I want to say i am 100% confident they will make it because they truly love each other and absolutely enjoy each other's company like best buddies but also close as one flesh.
If you both think of soulmates as being just one person, that would be why you guys think this way but there are multiple soulmates for each individual and soulmates aren't just in romance either. Sorry, I'm huge into astrology and learning what terms of these words will open a lot of minds in regards to what certain things mean. So I strongly believe in multiple soulmates and remember everyone comes into our lives for a reason to either be taught something or teach something and some stay and some go. Just started watching you both and you both are such adorable people.
So true!! Soulmates doesn’t necessarily have the rigid meaning of that “one and only person that’s absolutely perfect for you”, and a soulmate can still be someone with whom you had to put work into a relationship with them as well 😊
Yes to resolving in the morning. Youre tired. Emotions can be high
The back ground music is overbearing in this video but it's still amazing I love these because we get to know y'all deeper 😊