Retiring in Sayulita, MX | What I learned and 5 ways it changed me

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  • čas přidán 26. 08. 2024

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  • @choosing_love
    @choosing_love Před měsícem +9

    Just found your channel (from Katie's comment section :) - I got sucked in by your great storytelling and visuals! I love that about becoming more intentional and that your mindset was turned off of auto-pilot, that is so huge. Subbed and look forward to more videos! keep it up.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před měsícem +2

      Wow! Thank you so much. You absolutely made my day. I'm looking forward to digging into your channel as well. Katie's community is amazing.

    • @choosing_love
      @choosing_love Před měsícem

      @@RobinsonKris Thanks! Yeah the community is awesome, and I always get nuggets from her videos.

  • @myretiredlife13
    @myretiredlife13 Před měsícem +18

    What a great life story, from cancer to retirement to living life to the fullest, they way YOU want! Congrats on beating cancer and your retirement.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you! And thanks for stopping by. I've been very much enjoying your channel!

  • @redcdiver1
    @redcdiver1 Před 16 dny +15

    I cannot wait to move to Mexico, I’m Mexican by birth, my mother gave me my US citizenship, but I yearn to go back to my roots. After living in the US for most of my life, I want to go back and feel Mexico’s earth beneath my feet. I cried while I was watching this because it shows how the simple life can be so rewarding .

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 16 dny +3

      I REALLY hope you get to live there. It has a lot of challenges, but so much beauty, especially in the people. I absolutely fell in love with the culture. I know we were in a relatively touristy place, but it was a lot more "local" than the bigger cities (Puerto Vallarta, Cancun) and it changed me in profound ways. Good luck on your journey and thanks for stopping by!

    • @tacorevenge87
      @tacorevenge87 Před 6 dny +1

      Same here. Can’t wait to move to move back to Mexico from Australia

  • @raoulbasurto
    @raoulbasurto Před 12 dny +8

    What a beautiful story. Life has mysterious ways to teach us lessons and come wrapped in the box we least expect. Mexico heals you. Mexico is the best medicine for mind, body and soul. Even in Mexico City where I live and have been raised, Mexico teaches you to just go with the flow and to turn off autopilot as you say. We tend to live lighter than you guys, with less baggage and less great expectations… and the fewer expectations you have, the more magical life becomes. I don’t know you, but I’m glad you’ve overcome illness and found happiness in our beautiful country. Thanks for sharing. ❤

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 11 dny +3

      Thanks for stopping by! I love everything you said about Mexico. I'm hopeful that life's plot twists will bring us back to living there again at some point. Mexico City, Oaxaca and so many other parts of this amazing country call my name. I am a better person for having lived there.

  • @karlapatterson3693
    @karlapatterson3693 Před 27 dny +6

    Living my dream!! Good for you!!❤ Sayulita is great!

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 26 dny

      Always nice to run into a fellow Sayulita fan. It's a special place. Thanks for stopping by.

  • @lynettepersonett1197
    @lynettepersonett1197 Před 2 dny +3

    Wow! Love your beautiful outlook the challenges and changes life has put in your path. You have the most genuine and soothing voice. I was captivated. I just spent a month in a small town in Costa Rica. And experienced everything you mentioned. What got me to laugh was the sidewalks. Thank you.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před dnem

      Thanks for stopping by! Costa Rica is high on my list of places to spend time. I'm hoping the next few years will help make that happen.
      You know, it's funny...I've never had anyone comment on my voice before starting a CZcams channel and now you are like the 10th person to say just that. Maybe I should start a podcast! Life is funny.

  • @sarabartholoma7120
    @sarabartholoma7120 Před 17 dny +6

    Thank you for sharing, so inspiring. So beautiful!!🎉❤Many blessings, so much love

  • @bfiesta2
    @bfiesta2 Před 4 dny +2

    Fabulous video! Thank you.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před dnem

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for stopping by.

  • @soniaperez2417
    @soniaperez2417 Před měsícem +7

    What a great video! Decision fatigue is so real! I am still working at 65, and wanting so much to shed all the external obligations. Fear os holding me back but everyday I am "inching" my way closer to the decision. You and your husbando took a big step that turned into a wonderful decision. Perhaps I gain courage from you. I too have had cancer, twice, (2020, 2022). Yet, ss a single woman without children, I am tethered to my work identity. I guess I derive meaning from it. Any suggestions or words of wisdom will be appreciated. Keep up your great content. It speaks to me. (I subscribed!)

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před měsícem +2

      Hello, fellow cancer warrior! Twice, ugh. I hope you are on a healing journey. I walk beside you in that. I think it is really helpful if you can envision or even start to create what life looks like after you retire. Being able to see what the future could look like helps you find the courage to let go of the present. It was helpful for me to start with what a perfect day or week looked like, post career. I didn't realize how much of my identity was tied up in my work. It took a lot of introspection for me to identify the pieces of it that I could address. The want and need to feel valuable, capable, and needed surfaced for me and as soon as I realized that I could find new ways to accomplish those things. Starting this CZcams channel is a part of it. Also, maybe see if you can ease into it. Go part-time, or consulting? I consulted for a couple of years for about 10 hours a week on and off and it really helped.
      Thanks for stopping by and I look forward to getting to know you here!

    • @soniaperez2417
      @soniaperez2417 Před měsícem +1

      @@RobinsonKris Thank you for your reply. Imagining how I want my retirement to look like is where I struggle. I live on my own and the idea of spending more time alone (solitude time I cherish) is what worries me. And, there is the financial side. I need to sit snd jpurnal about all of it. I am sure I will figure it out. I always do...🤗👍

    • @davidsebastianelli1326
      @davidsebastianelli1326 Před 13 dny

      @@soniaperez2417 Hola Sonia! Believe me, you will find other things to help give you meaning and remember that only boring people get bored. Years ago while sailing and surfing through the Caribbean I ran across an elderly woman living by herself in a tiny but colorfully painted cabin on a desolate beach on a small island. She saw us surfing and invited us up for tea on her front porch mere yards from the oceans edge. Just one of the many memories that I took with me from that day was a small hand painted sign on her deck that said "How nice to do nothing all day and afterwards to rest" You can easily live like a Reina (Queen) in Mexico on much less than $1400us per month. I find it hard to spend more than $1200 living like a Rey (King) near the beach and within walking distance to all sorts of markets, food stands and quaint mom and pop restaurants. Every now and then I'll cruise over to to the nearby harbor malecon for some entertainment, the free weekend concerts and colorful water show where fountains dance to the music. Whole families with kids and Grandparents in tow stay late into the evenings socializing, eating fresh food from vendors and dancing. Like Kris mentioned, there is very little that a really good taco can't fix. Don't wait or keep putting it off or the time will never seem to be "just right". Mucha suerte desde la hermosa Ensenada!

    • @camiller4916
      @camiller4916 Před 5 dny +1

      Hello there, good for you for surviving cancer twice! There’s a lady on house hunters international in Paris (she had a you tube channel) and she says in Paris and Nice, which is probably true in other places outside the US, that you will make many friends because they are like-minded. So, doing your retirement outside the US could lead to more community and ultimately be more fulfilling.

  • @recettesnaturedegina3863
    @recettesnaturedegina3863 Před 12 dny +2

    Si beautiful video , thank you very much 🌴😀🙏🦋

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 11 dny

      Thanks for stopping by. I'm glad you enjoyed it.

  • @beautifullifesageg.3951
    @beautifullifesageg.3951 Před měsícem +4

    Oh Wow, Kris! This was beautifully written and narrated. ❤. So many important messages regarding how living life to the fullest requires more simplicity than we think. I enjoyed this video diary immensely! 😊

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před měsícem

      Thank you, Jen! That means a lot to me.

  • @jamierandall3822
    @jamierandall3822 Před 18 dny +3

    I LOVE ALL OF THIS!!!

  • @drobinson99
    @drobinson99 Před měsícem +3

    I sure do miss Mexico...but you captures our transition very well. It is amazing how slowing down and changing your latitude can show you what is really important. I strongly suggest anyone with the means...and it doesn't take that much...to experience getting out of their comfort zone and significantly slowing down for a year plus. I guarantee you, it will change your life for the better.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před měsícem

      Awww thanks, honey! I'm so glad we did this together.

  • @doraray9964
    @doraray9964 Před 27 dny +4

    Aawww I love you already ❤😢😊...Im moving to Mexico soon😮I understand everything you said ❤️

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 26 dny

      Oh WOW! Congrats! How exciting. I miss it terribly and hope to return again soon for long periods of time. Best of luck to you. Thanks for stopping by.

  • @Jonny-he8hv
    @Jonny-he8hv Před 5 dny

    Kris, this popped up on my feed. Glad you are better and you and D are enjoying the second act! Cheers to retirement!
    Jon and Sonia

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 5 dny

      Oh my gosh, Jon! That's hysterical! We are indeed enjoying life. We have two grandbabies (one from each kid). Give our love to Sonia. Hope you are both well and that Tanner is also!

    • @Jonny-he8hv
      @Jonny-he8hv Před 4 dny

      @@RobinsonKris Congrats on the growing family! So awesome!!! We share in the same blessing as well. (3) from Brianna and (1) from Tanner last February. We are all spread out. Tanner in AZ, Brianna in Idaho and we are in Montana. Praying you stay healthy and strong! Say hello to Payton!

  • @neal-stewart834
    @neal-stewart834 Před 49 minutami

    excelent. nameste !

  • @georgehernandez3973
    @georgehernandez3973 Před 2 dny +2

    Living in mexico its living life not too stressed USA really totally different!!!

  • @Lifeinthewyldewest
    @Lifeinthewyldewest Před měsícem +1

    I love hearing about the people who loved you supported you the most. I’m so glad you did this! We just have this one life and you were brave and did it!!
    This video is inspiring and thank you for sharing.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před měsícem +1

      Thanks, Tracie! I've been lucky in so many ways AND I've worked hard, too.

  • @generationx9294
    @generationx9294 Před dnem +1

    I enjoyed every word and every magical view of your video and I’m so glad it popped up in my feed.
    It really spoke to me ✨🤍♥️

  • @AuthenticLivingGuidance
    @AuthenticLivingGuidance Před 28 dny +1

    This video is so inspiring. Thank you for sharing! ♥

  • @johnreimerdorratt5491
    @johnreimerdorratt5491 Před 3 dny +1

    Beautiful story music was very confusing, to concentrate on the story, it over powered yr voice at times. Next, may I suggest using the sound of waves which features in Video. love the story, Sayulito MX, has been on my todo visit list since family members began wintering in Bucias/La Cruz area.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před dnem

      Thanks for stopping by and thanks for your feedback. CZcams seems to be split 50/50 on the music in the background topic. Some say it's essential, some say it's distracting. As I learn more about editing and sound I'll pay attention to what you are saying and continue to improve. I appreciate your feedback A LOT! Thanks! And I hope you make it to Sayulita someday. It's a great little town.

  • @guillermocortes2245
    @guillermocortes2245 Před 13 dny +1

    Great Video muchas gracias for sharing so honest and clear

  • @lesleymorgan01
    @lesleymorgan01 Před 10 dny +1

    I love this. Especially the part about being thrown a problem and just having to use your own creativity and resources to find a solution. I'm in my mid-60s and SO TIRED of working, trying to survive until I'm 70 to get max Social Security. Or I could get off the couch and move to Mexico. I was contemplating the Lake Chapala area, but since I first started looking, prices have skyrocketed there and there aren't as many choices. I'm exploring alternatives.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 9 dny +3

      Many of the areas in Mexico that were once very affordable are now much more expensive. Sayulita is certainly one of those. I do hear that same of Ajijic. Oaxaca seems to be still somewhat affordable. I hope you get to do it!

  • @colleengarcia4886
    @colleengarcia4886 Před měsícem +1

    What an inspiring video. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @iReturnToFreedom
    @iReturnToFreedom Před 12 dny +2

    Omg, 😂😂😂 chair with legs cut off. It’s so funny but it’s so smart. And so Mexican, in the best way possible. I’m working on my move to Sayulita. ❤❤❤ I have lived in Playa del Carmen so I know the Mexican ways and already went through the adaptation phase. I’m back in Canada over 2 years now but not really by choice. ❤❤❤ can’t wait to move back permanently.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 9 dny

      I wish I would have taken more photos or video of some other feats of innovation I witnessed. People don't believe it until they can see it with their own eyes.

    • @iReturnToFreedom
      @iReturnToFreedom Před 9 dny

      @@RobinsonKris 😂 I know, right?!?… pretty amazing what you can do if money isn’t the answer to all your challenges.

  • @ListerBliss
    @ListerBliss Před 11 dny +1

    Sorry you had to go through all of that. Happily you had loved ones along with you. I am curious why you left Mexico though, especially if you found it so healing. Did you ever consider trying for temporary
    or even permanent residency status there?

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 11 dny +2

      Great question. 2 little answers...grandbabies. We had 2 in the space of less than a year and each of the little families needed some extra help. And once they got here, everything changed. We are very happy where we are AND hope to go back at some point, in some way.

  • @jnazzise
    @jnazzise Před 12 dny +1

    The streets and sidewalks are the same in Santa Fe

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 11 dny

      Thanks for stopping by. I found the same thing in parts of Europe, too. It totally depends on what you're used to. Where I spent most of my life, it was not at all like this and so it required a real adjustment. And I'm glad for it.

  • @eldahernandez9609
    @eldahernandez9609 Před 13 dny

    Loved your video!!!! Good for you!!! God bless you!!!👍

  • @elidee2914
    @elidee2914 Před 16 dny +1

  • @snowycamplodge
    @snowycamplodge Před měsícem +1

    Love this!

  • @jenniferpollard4466
    @jenniferpollard4466 Před 12 dny

    God bless you sweetie . I lost my mom at 50 years old to ovarian cancer . I wish I had been able to take her to the ocean and live, I think it might had saved her life . Blessing and Gods peace be with you and your family ♥️🙏

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 11 dny +1

      I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. Ovarian cancer is so tricky, as you know. No screenings and virtually no sign of there being something wrong until later stages. I got SO lucky to have caught it stage one. I appreciate you stopping by, and I'll hold your mom in peace.

  • @Chap17
    @Chap17 Před 17 dny +2

    Glad for your New Beginning❤

  • @rpedregon71
    @rpedregon71 Před 9 dny

    ❤❤❤❤❤ Sayulita 1 day

  • @brucedonogh3006
    @brucedonogh3006 Před měsícem

    What are you Doing now in Mexico about health insurance? I was 1 month into our 6 month winter vacation in Bucerius when I was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. The Dr' s there said get back to Canada now. Treatments here will break you. Retirement in Mexico for me now is over. Every few talk about insurance costs for people in their late 60s and up. Great video enjoyed it glad you beat cancer.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 29 dny +1

      First, I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis, especially so early into your stay in Bucerius. I think the advice you got was spot on. I would have done the same thing.
      I hope you are finding a path forward and I'm sending you all the healing vibes I have to give.
      I'm not there anymore, not for health reasons, but for family reasons.
      I was lucky that I had stage 1 cancer, so after my surgery and chemo, the only thing I have needed for follow up care is blood work and an exam every 6 months. We kept our US health coverage while in Mexico, so I timed my check ups with travel back to the states for holidays. If I had a recurrence of cancer, I would have gotten back to the US as soon as possible. We never had a rent commitment of more than a few months at a time in Mexico, so we were tied there. For other emergencies, our plan was to pay out of pocket at local hospitals. We did have "travel insurance" as well, but had we decided to stay longer (which we really wanted to do), we would have pursued temporary residency and then gotten more local insurance. The cancer diagnosis made me not want to let go of my US insurance, though. It was a safety net I didn't want to let go of at that point.

  • @cathleenweston3541
    @cathleenweston3541 Před měsícem +1

    Ah Sayulita. Last time I was there was 1991. Stopped to get a chicken for dinner. Enjoy!

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před měsícem

      It's a totally different town, I'm sure. I know people who have lived there since 2000 and even they say it's a bit unrecognizable. 1991, wow. I would LOVE to go back in time and see what it was like then. This video doesn't even begin to capture the love I feel for it and why.

  • @celsaflores7529
    @celsaflores7529 Před 3 hodinami

    Don’t kill the scorpion! Not good. Put it inside container and take it outside, please.

  • @Celeste_G513
    @Celeste_G513 Před 4 dny

    Wow I found this video and besides some chills and tears I must say right on time for me. I loved it needed it cause I been thinking of moving to Mexico from Cali I am burnt out and my health could be better with out all the stress of lack of funds being on SSI at a early age. Now in my 60's I am burnt out on this life as we know it to be the normal? The struggle is real here and getting worse. Thank you for your time and sharing your journey with us on here. I needed to see this more than you know. Your beautiful and wishing you a blessed life ahead. Thank you , from Joshua Tree Ca.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před dnem

      You have no idea how much this means to me! Keep looking into Mexico. There are some places that aren't as cheep to live in as you'd think, but some that still are. And of course it all depends on your priorities and how you want to live. If you are willing to live a very simple life (which I highly recommend for several reasons), you can do it on a pretty tight budget. CZcams is filled with videos from people who do just that.
      Might I also suggest a book called "Why We Left: An Anthology of American Women Expats" which is a compilation of short chapters, each written by women who have moved from the US to Mexico for one reason or another. I read it before I left and it was really helped make me think about why I wanted to move and what kind of life I wanted to live there. Here is a link: amzn.to/3X3yZOGv
      I wish you well in your journey, and thanks again for stopping by!

  • @worldobserver3515
    @worldobserver3515 Před 3 dny

    Did you learn Spanish? Happy for you.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před dnem +1

      I did a little. Not as much as I wish I had, but I got to the point where I could communicate essentials. I understand a lot more than I can speak. I'm still learning! Thanks for stopping by!

  • @Michael747And
    @Michael747And Před 26 dny

    Sayulita, a village? Please.It's an extension of tourist dominated Puerto Vallarta.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 26 dny

      I'm sorry that's your experience. Have you lived there? Everything is relative, so coming from my background and life experience, it very much IS a village. I've spent time in PV and don't see the similarity at all. Lots of tourists? Yep. And also SO many local Mexican families. Once we immersed ourselves into the community and lived there year-round (not just during 'high season'), our experience was very much a village one. I know it used to be much smaller and much less touristy and people who loved it back then don't like it now. And that's also true in just about every small, wonderful little slice of paradise in the world.

  • @neal-stewart834
    @neal-stewart834 Před 52 minutami

    Fear is the virus !

  • @ClepsidraSideral
    @ClepsidraSideral Před měsícem +2

    Are you mindful about gentrification?

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před měsícem +1

      That's a GREAT question and yes. Of course, just by being there we were in danger of contributing to that. We tried to actively combat it by not eating or shopping at places that were clearly headed that direction and instead, favoring the very local mom and pop places. We contributed with time and money to local needs (schools, recycling programs, hurricane relief for families etc). I also try to dissuade people who think they want to go there, but I know are more into the all-inclusive, chain store experience. There are only a couple of chain stores in town right now, but I fear it will happen more and more.

    • @belliott4844
      @belliott4844 Před měsícem

      Thank you!

    • @restauracioncorporal5775
      @restauracioncorporal5775 Před 18 dny

      Ya se llama Gringolita 😅 y vídeos como éste les pavimentan el camino!!! Good job!!! ​@@RobinsonKris

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 18 dny

      @@restauracioncorporal5775 Gracias por tus comentarios y por mirar. Sé que los americanos no gustan mucho y entiendo por qué. Sigo pensando que es un pueblo hermoso y he aprendido mucho de los mexicanos de allí.

  • @destinationmax
    @destinationmax Před 18 dny

    I love your story, but forgive me Sayulita is not a village anymore

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 15 dny

      Thank you. I don't know what the technical cut off is for a village vs a town, but I think everything is relative so coming from an area with millions of people, a place with only about 5,000 feels very much like a village.

  • @truestory923
    @truestory923 Před 12 dny

    As much as I appreciate your fear of scorpions, I don't think that sharing the killing of any creature is truly healthy for anyone.
    You can be scared but that all creatures should be given reverence. Killing for your safety? Sure. Makes sense. Putting it online, different story.
    Killing any creature requires stopping in the moment and paying attention to what just happened. You KILLED something. Stop, think, perhaps what killing was indeed YOUR fault. Shower and drain covers? Door sweepers on the bottom? Clean floors? Lack of moisture?

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris  Před 11 dny

      We live in an open home. Literally didn't have walls in much of the living space. We also had a child staying with us at the time. Doing anything else wasn't an option. We do the best we can.