How To Attract A Girl AFTER You Messed Up By Being "Needy"

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  • @TrippAdvice
    @TrippAdvice  Před 4 lety +119

    To eliminate neediness and desperation permanently and become the type of guy that women are naturally attracted to, check out my program Hooked ► getherhooked.com/.

    • @dontreadmyname4396
      @dontreadmyname4396 Před 4 lety +4

      a girl i like a lot once said she likes me fisically (both face and body, i love bodybuilding), and that she cared about me, then i became needy and sad because no girl ever complimented me like she did or showed so much interest and she stopped complimenting me and became distant

    • @josephdepina6191
      @josephdepina6191 Před 3 lety +1

      Ok ok so what the fuck did i do wrong, went out to a bar with friends, was having a blast, when I met 2 people a guy and a girl, both were cool and friendly we chilled with my friends until bar was closing , I got the sense the girl was into me, I invited both to my place to chill further, they were down.. we get to my place we chill drinks and smoke, all the while myself and the girl are getting close feeling alot of she's into me vibes, one thing led to another it got late and she wanted to go to the beach and see it for first time at night, I suggested I could take her and also take her home, her guy friend was cool with it and so was she, so we went, we get to beach the whole time we are having such good convo, and really connecting .. we are on beach its 445am and its amazing, she's in my arms and moaning with pleasure not in a sexual way just a happy and content way.. she mentions multiple times she is so glad we met Yada Yada Yada, she finally asks to go home so I drive her home, I drop her off she again says she is so happy we met, she kisses me on forehead couple times huge hugs and says when I get home to call her, I say ok I will she insists u promise pinky promise, I say yeah ok I will

    • @josephdepina6191
      @josephdepina6191 Před 3 lety +1

      So I call her, she never answers , im like ok so I text her just to say I called and glad we met and that I had fun... I figured. Maybe she's drunk tired whatever.. next day I guess I was needy who cares I text her on fb. She responds one time, and never again since.. its been 3 days.. I don't care, just what the hell did indo wrong if anything

    • @josephdepina6191
      @josephdepina6191 Před 3 lety

      @Nithin Babu yeah thanks brother, I know I'm good and didn't do anything wrong, just weird ya know, why show so much Interest and then nothing

    • @donwezlycomedy4698
      @donwezlycomedy4698 Před 3 lety

      This help me alot

  • @MrNYCman530
    @MrNYCman530 Před 6 lety +3342

    Many women are like shadows. Pursue her and she backs off, and if you ignore her, she chases after you.

    • @budsworld1104
      @budsworld1104 Před 5 lety +34

      Blue Skies Media lol well said mate

    • @Otterjock808
      @Otterjock808 Před 5 lety +120

      That sounds like drama. No one likes to play mind games. Life is too short for that brother lol

    • @Adam-fl9uc
      @Adam-fl9uc Před 5 lety +79

      No they don't. 99 percent women never come back, unless you never ever let them close to you which excludes the possibility of getting her back this way after you were too needy. You wl always have to reaproach but you need to master the art of not making it a big deal and focusing on being yourself

    • @modato97
      @modato97 Před 5 lety +37

      I do agree, I used to say hi after the breakup and she thought I'm still pursuing but when I ignored her, she approached me but I lost the interest then

    • @ch1bob
      @ch1bob Před 5 lety +6

      @@Adam-fl9uc I still wonder why she unblocked me 5 days befor her bday after 40 days no contact.. What is her deal in ur opinion? Should i have wished her happy bday? Did i miss a big opportunity to reach out then? Did she want to see if i still cared or just ego stroke? Do i still have a chance?
      Now im 2 months into NC but i feel like im so done since i didnt contact her on her bday and now she probably discarded me even more. Now im depressed and wonder if i missed my only opportunity and if maybe i should wait till new years to contact her.. but its probably too late..since exes wishing new years is a meme

  • @Tarantula_Fangs
    @Tarantula_Fangs Před 5 lety +1928

    " A girl is not someone to complete who you are, it's a complement. "💯💯💯💯

  • @clock9332
    @clock9332 Před 4 lety +1732

    Let me sum it up for you.
    Let go, don't care, focus on yourself and improve
    Let girls come to you, IF they don't
    don't worry they don't have to.

    • @aerohk
      @aerohk Před 4 lety +68

      Get girl come to you is a formula for forever alone for most guys

    • @hdihiiehei
      @hdihiiehei Před 4 lety +28

      Aerohk you need to be hndsome for this too work trust me

    • @himalkhatri8931
      @himalkhatri8931 Před 4 lety +23

      Sense of humor is way better than looks cause girls fall for whats inside you rather than outside. Maybe some girls fall for face but trust me that relation will not last even for a year

    • @marth_6126
      @marth_6126 Před 4 lety +23

      @@himalkhatri8931 Nah, that Marilyn Monroe line about "If you can make a girl laugh, she's yours" is bull. I've made lots of girls laugh who won't even send a text back.

    • @himalkhatri8931
      @himalkhatri8931 Před 4 lety +15

      Marth _ Just being able to make them laugh isn’t enough. You must be likable as well. But I suggest you focus on your self first make some money at least become a millionaire then boom there you go you’re flooded with girls. If thats what you’re looking for.

  • @taden2007
    @taden2007 Před 2 lety +205

    “Treat them like a celebrity and they will treat u like just a fan…” I heard this and it’s stuck with me ever since!

    • @taden2007
      @taden2007 Před 2 lety +1

      @Arisu Veira nah im good, dont want to downgrade myself from where im already at

    • @Minzmensch
      @Minzmensch Před 4 měsíci

      Fr fr even if they asked you to treat them like a celebrity, they will still do that hahah

  • @subscribetopewdiepie3150
    @subscribetopewdiepie3150 Před 5 lety +3378

    I hate that I need to watch these videos like fml

    • @Gare.Bear0
      @Gare.Bear0 Před 4 lety +65

      Your not alone

    • @alanop6643
      @alanop6643 Před 4 lety +24

      @@ballaking1000 damn, thank you for saying that

    • @dsilva2460
      @dsilva2460 Před 4 lety +79

      Learning game with women is important! Once youve mastered yourself to become calm and collective with women, I think you've won the game. Be patient with yourself. Its all about self. I am learning too, being a woman and loving women.

    • @wolfdomination1905
      @wolfdomination1905 Před 4 lety +8

      Shit blows ass

    • @wolfdomination1905
      @wolfdomination1905 Před 4 lety +8

      If can to learn girls have these same problems which is even more mind boggling.

  • @vitocorleone1462
    @vitocorleone1462 Před 6 lety +2242

    She got a restraining order against me, is it too late?

  • @lowkey2299
    @lowkey2299 Před 4 lety +75

    I noticed that being a bit too needy does push her away! Give her a week or two, fix yourself, love yourself and focus on yourself and come back confident and let her know you call the shots now! And she’ll be amazed and the spark lights back up! (Personal experience)

    • @runout1013
      @runout1013 Před 4 měsíci

      So you reached out to her after two weeks and she was accepting

  • @harshshekhawat9997
    @harshshekhawat9997 Před 3 lety +250

    CONCLUSION ❣️ THANK YOU SIR !
    Go workout
    Read books
    Detoxify social media
    Groom your self
    Meditate
    Work hard for your future

    • @clarahammar8815
      @clarahammar8815 Před 3 lety

      hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked for me.. whtsap me let's chat better

    • @clarahammar8815
      @clarahammar8815 Před 3 lety

      +1(831) 612 2886....

    • @imthebest7290
      @imthebest7290 Před 3 lety

      @@clarahammar8815 where r u from

    • @anonymoussoldier4006
      @anonymoussoldier4006 Před 2 lety

      Hello Harsh. Glad to see a brother from India. ATB Shekhawati Ke Sher.

  • @losknows7999
    @losknows7999 Před 6 lety +83

    Become the best version of yourself and you'll have options.

  • @theuglydeko8190
    @theuglydeko8190 Před 4 lety +405

    Lmao the last bit when he said "us as a community" cracked me up 😂😂 cause it literally shows how all men are combining their forces together to understand girls😂😂😂

  • @JWalton314
    @JWalton314 Před 4 lety +202

    Make sure you're giving her space. If she's in a bad mood, try to not hang out with her because the smallest thing can set her off.

    • @juanvivero4021
      @juanvivero4021 Před 3 lety +20

      And if she’s in a bad mood and with you, she might associate that bad mood with you

    • @alexlupo7176
      @alexlupo7176 Před 3 lety +8

      That’s what I did she was on her periode and I was trying to force love and she hasn’t texted me all day so I’m going to give her space and do what this video says

    • @midnightstorm4290
      @midnightstorm4290 Před 3 lety +3

      Sounds a bit like my mother...

    • @kotoamatsukami2582
      @kotoamatsukami2582 Před 3 lety +11

      sometimes if u give them space they just end with someone else lol

    • @JWalton314
      @JWalton314 Před 3 lety +10

      @@kotoamatsukami2582 Yeah that's the risk you gotta take. Chances are they'll break up eventually lol but yeah it still sucks.

  • @daveh9803
    @daveh9803 Před 3 lety +40

    If she says she needs space, give her the universe, and walk away. She’s NEVER yours. It’s just your turn.

    • @ihelpyouwitheverything4720
      @ihelpyouwitheverything4720 Před 2 lety +2

      Ok calm down there incel

    • @daveh9803
      @daveh9803 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 Incel? Not me. LOL! It must be your self description…

    • @shvm7489
      @shvm7489 Před 2 lety

      You were never hers, it was just HER turn.

  • @Amazin11000
    @Amazin11000 Před 6 lety +207

    I'm absolutely great in the beginning until I get emotionally attached and want more, I get weak in a certain way more emotional and then I always fuck it up. You're right and Tom Leykis is right.

    • @mrmcboomboom
      @mrmcboomboom Před 6 lety +5

      Amazin11000 this is me :/

    • @cumbriacam5742
      @cumbriacam5742 Před 3 lety +3

      Me too

    • @MimMdance
      @MimMdance Před 3 lety +35

      Unpopular opinion maybe, but we should not be ashamed of this. Like sure, try to get better at handling our own attatchments, but not feel like we did so wrong if all we did was be happy and authentic and loving within the relationship. Maybe it's women's problem. We already showed them how important the relationship was. If they leave they will probably have to deal with the opposite and miss that feeling at some point. Or maybe not, but that is life, sometimes you lose.
      Don't be ashamed of having been authentic if the feelings were good.

    • @cryptosguns
      @cryptosguns Před 3 lety +12

      100% brother. this particular behavior is what fucked up my last relationship with someone.. it sucks being a guy with strong emotions

    • @majincookie5716
      @majincookie5716 Před 2 lety +4

      Yup same have stronger emotions

  • @AJ-CR
    @AJ-CR Před 6 lety +471

    Hey guys I texted this girl NON STOP and she leaves me on read.
    I started talking to another girl and she replies and she talks with me and calls me.
    I don't really care for the first girl and I'm really happy now! Take the advice, if the girl
    Comes back it's your decision to let her in or not. 👌🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻

    • @Adam-fl9uc
      @Adam-fl9uc Před 5 lety +18

      True however 99 percent of the girls will never take action unless they were in a good relationship with you or they are kinda desperate or a virgin themselves

    • @ch1bob
      @ch1bob Před 5 lety

      @@Adam-fl9uc truee

    • @davidjuma6402
      @davidjuma6402 Před 5 lety

      So don't..

    • @lredd631
      @lredd631 Před 5 lety +6

      Bro, texting and calling your second cousin DON'T count. It has to be someone that's NOT related to you. Good try tho!✌

    • @RockAnimes
      @RockAnimes Před 5 lety +4

      Adam c not necessarily. If he demonstrated characteristics of high value and not complete neediness nature, or any other unattractive features such as insecurity or low value, it creates back the competition nature within the initial female. You need to understand that emotional investment on a females part is congruent strong as them making emotional decisions. Logically it doesnt make sense for the female you sought out for the Male after he creates social proof, but it just works that way

  • @adop274
    @adop274 Před 5 lety +619

    This video title should be changed to "how to get a life." LOL

    • @tivasthegamer9817
      @tivasthegamer9817 Před 4 lety +11

      Adonis Palacios exactly! Being needy means you don’t have one or you just put yours on hold. Needing validation means you are not doing anything worthy with your life and you know it, so you need someone else to tell you the opposite.

    • @tejasgulhane7754
      @tejasgulhane7754 Před 4 lety +1

      LOL 🤣😂

    • @yinyang9882
      @yinyang9882 Před 3 lety

      😂😂

    • @imbombero
      @imbombero Před měsícem

      Nah, you still wouldn’t, loser😂😂😂

  • @LgtTurtlez
    @LgtTurtlez Před 5 lety +53

    I feel you have helped me my friend. I express my deepest gratitude. This girl. In my life. I care too much for her. I will define myself. Through my passion. I have already reached the bottom of the barrel in this situation. It can't get any worse. I will only rise. I was insecure. It is time for me to grow.

  • @livedeliciously
    @livedeliciously Před 5 lety +160

    This hits really close to home. Looking back, I realize I made the relationship the center of my world and it made me happy. But the more I focused on making her happy and putting time into the relationship, the more this world crumbled. When it finally left me, there was this immense sense of emptiness.

    • @bravobravo673
      @bravobravo673 Před 3 lety +6

      Update?

    • @MimMdance
      @MimMdance Před 3 lety +2

      Me too.

    • @BJ-hj2sm
      @BJ-hj2sm Před 2 lety +1

      Been there brother & can DEFINITELY relate! But once you come out on the other side of it you'll be better Trust Me! Life lessons

    • @livedeliciously
      @livedeliciously Před rokem +1

      @@bravobravo673 You get over it with time. It hard as hell to do, but you really need to find that mystical inner happiness that everyone talks about. That self-love. Or at the very least, don't hate yourself. But Tripp basically explained it better: have a life of your own. Remember, she is just a compliment to your life, not the center of it.

  • @significantother5479
    @significantother5479 Před 6 lety +471

    True story: I met a girl A few months ago through Facebook. I sent her flowers, messages, etc. She was very happy when I did all those things, but after a while I noticed she started to lose interest. I made her feel like she was the center of my universe & that was my death! She stopped texting & communicating. It was hard for me, but I stopped texting her & after 2 weeks she reached out to me. I’m trying to be the one in charge now, but don’t know if is going to work out for me. I hope for a happy ending.

    • @jachanedwards2279
      @jachanedwards2279 Před 5 lety +22

      What happened?

    • @wilhelmmusic241
      @wilhelmmusic241 Před 5 lety +18

      Yeah what happened Ed?

    • @christmasisawesome9348
      @christmasisawesome9348 Před 5 lety +95

      I think Ed Edmond has been consumed by her vagana already as he no longer responses to any if the reply.

    • @hsin-chiehliao6408
      @hsin-chiehliao6408 Před 5 lety +3

      heyy i think i am in the same situation now, i should try this method!

    • @axrye800
      @axrye800 Před 5 lety +97

      My man Ed is drowning in that coochie as you read this. He doesn't have time for us peasants now.

  • @salembeats1875
    @salembeats1875 Před 4 lety +139

    It’s been ten years 😎

  • @kdjimmy103
    @kdjimmy103 Před 3 lety +14

    Best way is to be with many girls at same time this eliminated the focus on one girl.
    I have passed that movement, now I think more from brain don't listen to your heart. Mind is always right

  • @mitchelldavies891
    @mitchelldavies891 Před 5 lety +113

    This video really made me realize how needy I was being towards a girl that I’m going out with right now thank you Tripp this helped a lot

  • @frederickporter8677
    @frederickporter8677 Před 7 lety +118

    Done right, possibly she will contact you back first. So be prepared, be cool, and be busy in your own thing!
    Also during the needy break period I would add you should work on your physical appearance. New haircut, workout, some new accessory, necklace or tattoo if you're into that etc. Reinvent that cool guy she met!

    • @Aten0506
      @Aten0506 Před 7 lety +5

      yeah I agree with you

    • @elenakusevska6266
      @elenakusevska6266 Před 6 lety

      frederick porter this is the neediest thing I have read/heard in a while. Both your comment and the advice in the video

    • @mertefe4345
      @mertefe4345 Před 6 lety +4

      Exactly. Ppl thinks she will fucking think about you if you don't call her for 3-4 weeks. Have you asked to the girl, if does she give a fuck about you? :D I mean this is so funny to use this strategies.

    • @mylohremora3386
      @mylohremora3386 Před 5 lety

      That’s some good advice

  • @jasonleetaiwan
    @jasonleetaiwan Před 5 lety +21

    2 to 4 weeks is not that long a period of time. You can reach out if you wish, but I think the most important thing is to take a different approach so she doesn't feel pressure. Ideally, she would reach out to you, but it won't always work like that.
    In essence, the key thing is to make her feel like you've moved on and no longer need her. Either side can reach out, but the key is to not care.
    A girl ironically won't get interested again until you're not interested in her anymore, but you seem interesting to her because you some how seem new and interesting to her again. That usually takes more than 2 to 4 weeks and some active social media posting, but yeah, you can try again later.
    Truth be told, it is usually better just to move on to a healthier option and try not to make the same mistake. Then the old option sometimes returns, but some how seems less important. Some how they know not to come back until you've really moved on.

  • @AM-pk4sg
    @AM-pk4sg Před 4 lety +18

    Helped me understand how to really pursue a relationship, thank you man, this helps more than you think! I will definitely imply your message to my lifestyle! Thanks man!

  • @scottbecker3485
    @scottbecker3485 Před 6 lety +34

    Excellent advice. Rings true in my life experience. Join a men’s group, find connection with your male lineage and the whole male community, discover your self-love, and THEN open up to a loving relationship. Otherwise it’s doomed.

  • @ihatefacebook31184
    @ihatefacebook31184 Před 6 lety +174

    + Tripp Advice trust me, man. I found out the hard way when it came to being needy with a few women I liked. Truthfully, I used to be needy because I didn't want the women I liked to think that I forgot about them. But then again, I learned that if she likes me to the point where she misses me, she'll reach out to me. Otherwise, she was never interested in the first place. But either way, I move on to my own thing. I go to the gym or interact with other women wherever I'm at or whatever I'm doing. Nothing good comes out of being needy and clingy

    • @alexfowler9785
      @alexfowler9785 Před 5 lety +13

      Exactly. If they never have the desire to contact you or put in any effort then they don't care for you as much as you do them, or they were only using you for attention. Every woman is different but this happens a lot unfortunately.

    • @ihatefacebook31184
      @ihatefacebook31184 Před 4 lety +1

      @Veronica Nana88 it is what it is...

    • @some3sharks
      @some3sharks Před 3 lety +4

      I keep saying this. There comes a time where you will have to lay back a lil and let the natural course take its place. The only way you can tell if they were really genuinely interested too is when they make a move to check up on you when you cut off all forms of contacts. 👌🏾

  • @chriiskidd7300
    @chriiskidd7300 Před 5 lety +11

    Thank you, this really helped and has gotten me thinking. Thank you so much for the advice!

  • @bigfoot2407
    @bigfoot2407 Před 2 lety +2

    I’ve been listening to your podcasts and they’ve helped me tremendously in just the past 3 days. Thank you for what you do for us!

  • @konstandineiro
    @konstandineiro Před 7 lety +71

    Best timing for this video

  • @comfortfood4life
    @comfortfood4life Před 5 lety +28

    Man this is EXACTLY what I need to hear right now. Thanks 😭

  • @Rajeshwh
    @Rajeshwh Před 5 lety +4

    Just exactly what I’m going through. Lucky that I watched this video. Respect brother.

  • @MatthewFosterMusic
    @MatthewFosterMusic Před 5 lety +3

    Great advice and you seem like a really genuine person. Awesome video - thank you!

  • @garu24sa
    @garu24sa Před 6 lety +12

    This material is a masterpiece. Thanks for sharing it!

  • @awardwin
    @awardwin Před 7 lety +595

    If sex is one the most basic of human needs, then why does seducing women need to be a skill which men need to perfect? It's literally mastering the art of manipulation. If women don't expect too much, then why does 99% of the female population want 1% of the male population? A man has to be successful, handsome, talented and have game to attract lots of women. For a woman to attract lots of men she just has to be pretty. The double standard is staggering.

  • @abduldanish9953
    @abduldanish9953 Před 3 lety +17

    When he said 2 to 4.... my mind auto-completed it to 2 to 4 months🙂 time is so relative.

  • @xandercasias8017
    @xandercasias8017 Před 4 lety +10

    Needed to hear this honestly been finding myself to be real needy with this girl I really like. Gonna take your advice take a step back & focus on myself my life 🤘🤘

  • @CarlosFlores-xb3gx
    @CarlosFlores-xb3gx Před 7 lety +19

    Thank you Tripp from the bottom of my heart. 😊

  • @suhailmehar1491
    @suhailmehar1491 Před 7 lety +612

    Tripp, I found this video to be really eye opening, I've been going through the exact same thing. I've been texting this girl and hanging out with her, studying with her. Recently she's been aloof and distant and I now realise it's cos I was texting her too much(like 1-2 texts a day) and I was trying too hard to make her laugh, flirting a lot through texts. she still responds well to my texts and puts in the effort to continue the convo, brings up new topics to talk about, but it isn't like what it used to be. So I'm gonna take your approach on this, as your way is kinda like a win-win situation. I'm gonna take a break from her and focus on me and see where that leads me.

    • @tenaciousadagio
      @tenaciousadagio Před 7 lety +57

      I like this nice and positive

    • @ronaldowalters576
      @ronaldowalters576 Před 7 lety +13

      walkinwhales take it and act just how she acted towards you but mix it with flirting

    • @Digger-Nick
      @Digger-Nick Před 7 lety +43

      walkinwhales Wow 1-2 texts a day!? That's so much!!

    • @suhailmehar1491
      @suhailmehar1491 Před 7 lety +11

      Kurtis Jemison mate you being sarcastic or for real? Hahaha is it really tho? 1-2 texts a day. Usually me flirting with her and her reciprocating back and end up me asking her out to study with me

    • @suhailmehar1491
      @suhailmehar1491 Před 7 lety +19

      Ronaldo Walters I think I get what you mean. Stop texting her completely. Be aloof but flirt with her a bit when I see her in class?

  • @capridapri5310
    @capridapri5310 Před 4 lety

    This was good - well done. Good points, good presentation. Thank you!

  • @traian2932
    @traian2932 Před 4 lety +2

    This is the first video I watched from you and I subscribed before you finished the first tip. Keep doing great, it all makes complete sense

  • @khalidhd3248
    @khalidhd3248 Před 7 lety +290

    dude: hey
    who are u again? :dudette

  • @tenaciousadagio
    @tenaciousadagio Před 7 lety +17

    Again thanks tripp! You really are helping us. I just love your common sense bro!

  • @robertpeek3657
    @robertpeek3657 Před 5 lety +1

    Excellent ! You supported or validated my thoughts and feelings. Thank you !

  • @xSteezifyyy
    @xSteezifyyy Před 4 lety +9

    thank you. I’ve been wondering what I’ve been doing wrong and you helped me figure it out. I’m too needy and need to find some new hobbies

  • @Chris74293
    @Chris74293 Před 7 lety +127

    Tbh just what i needed to hear

    • @KVZMAH
      @KVZMAH Před 7 lety +1

      you and me both

    • @Danborghini1999
      @Danborghini1999 Před 7 lety

      Christiaan Vonk absolutely 😅

    • @wesleymaes2958
      @wesleymaes2958 Před 6 lety

      Christiaan Vonk did it work?

    • @ianhines2302
      @ianhines2302 Před 6 lety

      What happened

    • @bainstain2998
      @bainstain2998 Před 6 lety

      Same here. Since I've been focusing more on myself lately, I'm finding it more natural to just approach and talk to any girl I want to. Never be afraid of rejection bcuz there's plenty of fish in the sea. I used to dwell on past gfs and crushes but I understand sometimes it's not meant to be so you have to move on. It's hard to find a nice, genuine, honest girl these days. They want 9 inch cock or a fat wallet and good pussy eating

  • @jessejames2624
    @jessejames2624 Před 6 lety +222

    Video is Amazing! I got reassurance from this video, that what I've been doing after my most recent experience with a girl, is the right choice! Keep being the person that she seen walk in, but with a lot more knowledge and confidence this time around. Whoever comes next, I'll be even more prepared then yesterday. Better version of myself by far.

    • @sanderwage1730
      @sanderwage1730 Před 3 lety

      Im doing this cause i realy want a girl so much. She is so nice and kind to me i love her personality so much. She works in a store but now the people who works there said that i am kind of scaring her. I am so confused i realy want her i think we can have a great future together. So do you think i should walk in at the store some days just buying stuff and pay no attention to her at all?😢❤️

    • @Anw4rr10r
      @Anw4rr10r Před 3 lety +2

      @@sanderwage1730 It seems you've caught a serious case of the oneitis my friend. I would know, I had it, and if you're scaring her then it's already too late. Forget about her and move on. Cut your losses while you still can. Maybe once you've become the best version of yourself and you've got yourself a girl, you walk into the store, providing she still works there, and you show her what she missed out on. That might make her feel like you're feeling now. Better yet, walk into the store with your new girl.

  • @Chuck_N0rris
    @Chuck_N0rris Před 3 lety +8

    I was over needy, she ghosted me for 7 days. I didnt contact her at all. It was painful but I focused on me, met a lot of other girls and she eventually came around and it ended up being a success story.

    • @dv2218
      @dv2218 Před 11 měsíci

      How long after did she come back around?

    • @Chuck_N0rris
      @Chuck_N0rris Před 11 měsíci

      @@dv2218 Several months

    • @imbombero
      @imbombero Před měsícem

      Success, yes, she got rid of you…😂😂😂

    • @Chuck_N0rris
      @Chuck_N0rris Před měsícem

      @@dv2218 A couple months. Sometimes you have to just give up. Send the ball back to her. When she eventually reaches out again if ever, you have your power back. Its a big mistake we often make. We push way too hard and never pull.

  • @viiinicius17
    @viiinicius17 Před 5 lety +9

    I'm impressed at how relatable this is

  • @vinaykaycee
    @vinaykaycee Před 5 lety +7

    Thanks a lot, It has taken a big load off from my head.

  • @wesleymaes2958
    @wesleymaes2958 Před 6 lety +503

    Bought a sexbot.. only need batteries now.. :(

  • @justinc6861
    @justinc6861 Před 5 lety

    This is the most spot on video. Thanks Brotha

  • @justingarfield2663
    @justingarfield2663 Před 4 lety +7

    I went a bit overboard a few months ago with a girl, so I took some time away from social media and got very busy doing other things. I feel great and realized my value as a person, instead of needing to hear validation from her, I own it myself and move forward.

  • @thehalf8
    @thehalf8 Před 7 lety +7

    Awesome stuff. Wish I had known of this channel or more specifically this video a couple of years ago. Be it as it may, I've learnt this the hard way, but also learned a lot about myself through the process. Keep on making the videos.

    • @WiseFoolTrades
      @WiseFoolTrades Před 7 lety +1

      thehalf8 I learnt it the hard way as well but I think learning it the hard way when it comes to relationships is the best because when you experience it yourself, your always able to look back at that moment and in the future you can make sure that you don't make the same mistakes. Just be yourself out there, that you attract girls who could actually be compatible with you. No sense in being someone else unless your just trying to have sex and nothing more.

  • @JarisJ_
    @JarisJ_ Před 6 lety +35

    5:50 it actually is starting to happen, already meet 3 girls and vibed with all of them. I'm honestly slowly not starting to care about this other girl.

  • @mkschreder
    @mkschreder Před 4 lety +2

    2 to 4 weeks. Now that is good advice. Love it.

  • @N4turalNature
    @N4turalNature Před rokem

    up to these days. This is the best advice Tripp! Thank you so much!

  • @jaketodd9232
    @jaketodd9232 Před 7 lety +5

    I liked the video. I thought it made a lot of sense. I see a lot of men, including myself struggling this issue.

  • @scotchbeer
    @scotchbeer Před 3 lety +4

    I study this stuff daily and I have to say this is one of the best red pilled videos I’ve seen yet. Wish I would have seen this 2 years ago when I started my self improvement journey.

  • @bulldog2447
    @bulldog2447 Před 4 lety +2

    Thx for the advice I’m gonna try to work out all my problems and wait 6 months and I subbed 👍🏾

  • @renanlinard7
    @renanlinard7 Před 4 lety

    Excellent job! I needed this!

  • @TechReviewTom
    @TechReviewTom Před 5 lety +489

    This is great and all, but why the hell do I have to do all of this for some girl? They need to be putting in work too, so what if I’m needy. I’m not perfect and she’s not either / worth the effort.

    • @nathandennis8078
      @nathandennis8078 Před 5 lety +40

      Exactly

    • @mauriciolancheros7474
      @mauriciolancheros7474 Před 5 lety +5

      @@nathandennis8078 totally...

    • @melvinmadedx1658
      @melvinmadedx1658 Před 5 lety +78

      Y'all don't get. Men always have to pursue first. Thats just the way it is. Now in some rare cases, a dominant girl thats upbeat will pursue first,but again thats rare. The men start off pursuing you have to raise her interest, than its 50/50, meaning she doing half the pursuing now and you doing only half the pursuing also. Than its just her pursuing now and you pull back.

    • @YungFlaco001
      @YungFlaco001 Před 5 lety +15

      Tom Cunnington
      You sound like a BETA male. Go watch Alpha Male Strategies

    • @RockAnimes
      @RockAnimes Před 5 lety +12

      That is a perfect logical response. However, you have to realize that a girls value in the dating life is one more higher valued than a guys. Despite you trying to make that effort and she isnt, displays that there are other guys around lacking your problems and thus making them more sought out for. If you dont have this existing problems in the first place, it shouldnt put you in this mindset that women need to work to earn you

  • @moncefbenabbes922
    @moncefbenabbes922 Před 6 lety +11

    I found this so good tripp, a MAN should know his worth and not be dumb and act silly around girls
    hit us with more thnx

  • @ahmadfuad
    @ahmadfuad Před 3 lety

    Thank you for making this video! I really need this. You are the best!

  • @hybrid_a8879
    @hybrid_a8879 Před 5 lety

    This is what i really need right now. Thanks Dude!

  • @paulobrito6697
    @paulobrito6697 Před 6 lety +3

    You were my guide when i tried picking up chicks in highschool 3 years ago. Thank you for being here after all this time to shed light on how to solve the problems in my current relationship. We really appreciate it.

  • @franciscocasas712
    @franciscocasas712 Před 6 lety +3

    Great video dude 👊🏽

  • @theblueandthegray4749
    @theblueandthegray4749 Před 3 lety +1

    Bang on! Thanks very much. That has helped me understand me.

  • @subhadiproy5232
    @subhadiproy5232 Před 4 lety

    Thanks a lot for reminding me of some basics. Thanks once again.

  • @adamsc1181
    @adamsc1181 Před 6 lety +3

    This video was very needed for me. I was just about to jump into this situation again. Now ik what went wrong in past relationships and not to go into with this new woman I like. Thanks tripp

  • @sawantrohan
    @sawantrohan Před 5 lety +17

    7:26 this was the best part of the video for me. Very well said!

  • @ric.e214
    @ric.e214 Před 4 lety

    Excellent video!!! Great advice and extremely helpful!

  • @MorgulDemonVegeta
    @MorgulDemonVegeta Před 5 lety

    Great and solid advice Mr. Tripp

  • @mohammedali-rh7cq
    @mohammedali-rh7cq Před 6 lety +136

    the problem with this method is that there is a chance she meets someone else and have a good relationship with him

    • @DatsyukOn94
      @DatsyukOn94 Před 5 lety +112

      So good for them and move on

    • @savegos
      @savegos Před 5 lety +3

      DatsyukOn94 ty

    • @bitTorrenter
      @bitTorrenter Před 5 lety +7

      Do you really want that to become a pattern?

    • @bane4490
      @bane4490 Před 5 lety +4

      And that’s fine? Because if that’s the case then it wouldn’t work out anyways.

    • @otzmdr3175
      @otzmdr3175 Před 5 lety

      For real

  • @xGrigo69
    @xGrigo69 Před 7 lety +7

    perfect time for this 👌

  • @sietecarpinchos635
    @sietecarpinchos635 Před 5 lety +2

    There’s a tiny portion of information here on the internet that is truly valuable. One needs to be really careful with the things he consumes. You are one in of the small groups of truly wise youtubers and very good in this field. Take care and keep it going

  • @Kerplunk-rn5dq
    @Kerplunk-rn5dq Před 4 lety

    Your words are perfect, exaclty what i need right now. Thank you very much. Hope i end up well after absorbing these informations. More power to your channel.

  • @eugeneasira7977
    @eugeneasira7977 Před 6 lety +5

    Damn! This really helped me!

  • @honeaj
    @honeaj Před 6 lety +3

    Hey tripp thanks for this video it really opened up my eyes about myself and the things I need to work on. Keep up with the helpful vids my man. #roadtoredemption

  • @deeko3437
    @deeko3437 Před 3 lety

    Great video! Really valuable content, love it🙏🏻

  • @rolexflex
    @rolexflex Před 4 lety

    This content really makes sense. You gotta make sure to follow this man and his advices 💯

  • @Initials_
    @Initials_ Před 7 lety +10

    I like what I see and hear in this video the advice was spot on, the one thing I want to gain more clarity on is the "emotional strength" part. I understand that as a guy it is important to make my life my priority and the girl an addition to my life. However is this the only thing you meant when you mentioned "emotional strength" or are the more aspects with emotional strength...if you could by any chance reply to this or create a video going in depth with "emotional strength" also in relationships with women, to prevent long term neediness too I would appreciate it and hopefully everyone would gain from your insight and opinions too.

  • @Breadytomove
    @Breadytomove Před 5 lety +6

    I should've watched this video a month ago :/ Thanks for all the new info, maybe it's even not too late to implement all that new knowledge.

  • @TheUser3105
    @TheUser3105 Před 4 lety

    Thank you so much for this excellent video bro, it's in point

  • @Miguel-eo6td
    @Miguel-eo6td Před 2 lety

    I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @alpha_y2k438
    @alpha_y2k438 Před 3 lety +3

    I asked someone out recently and got "I'll need time to think about it, and I don't want to lose you as my best friend.
    She plays the game of talking and then she finds out she let her guard down then enters the ignore or do other things world. The actions are there, she looks at me, she says I have a special place in her heart, she stares at me directly in the eyes, so her actions show she is interested in more than just friends. I did the needy thing and noticed her disinterest, ghosting, to busy to do anything etc.
    I thought I had lost her and I'm sure I was closes so this video is just in time.
    I am doing this exact thing and finding out she is slowly taking to me again, and she is stareing me in the eyes again.
    Funny how you back off interest it makes them want you more.
    This video is good medicine for me and just reaffirms that I am once again doing the right thing.

    • @rakonda
      @rakonda Před 2 lety

      I know those stares, can't be fake, also the actions, until you start a needy thing you lose, i went from that path, i feel u bro

  • @landon7192
    @landon7192 Před 4 lety +6

    My oh my I NEEDED this video. A few months ago I didn’t have a way with girls, and I thought being a nice guy would get me this one girl. Turns out I was wrong... now after months I am incredibly confident and independent and I find getting girls to be a lot easier.

  • @NYCPrivateParty
    @NYCPrivateParty Před 5 lety +2

    Yes, thank you. This was really helpful so much.

  • @adanali4331
    @adanali4331 Před 5 lety +1

    This is a great advice.Thanks bro for helping me👍

  • @BogdanV12
    @BogdanV12 Před 7 lety +12

    It is important to not give up at your "new life" if she comes back; she can say something like: "you don't give me attention/affection like you did before bla bla bla" and you may be tempted to be the old one and if you will do, she will leave you again 😀.
    So, you should put yourself some questions: she desirve me ? / can I be happy with her ? / I'm addicted to her ?

  • @sergiomendez3691
    @sergiomendez3691 Před 5 lety +3

    keep it up. thanks man. I was like that and then thought it was over. But it may be something going on. For other guys reading. Remember, is not all black or white.

  • @benbarlow494
    @benbarlow494 Před 4 lety

    thanks for the advice man!

  • @mattbachman5291
    @mattbachman5291 Před 2 lety

    Quick, clear, to the point, as gd as any on you Tube. Thnx

  • @thedolly1925
    @thedolly1925 Před 7 lety +30

    That jacket is sooo cold. It looks like a suit jacket mixed with a hoodie

  • @jakecubbyvaughn4544
    @jakecubbyvaughn4544 Před 2 lety +3

    Man this video really helped me with my girl, I was texting her 24/7 and constantly annoying her. Im hoping she will stay with me!!!

  • @naturesoundrainandthunderf9080

    Thanks man i really needed this. 🙏 appreciate it

  • @sylv12345
    @sylv12345 Před 5 lety

    This video is very interesting. Lo tomaré en cuenta ¡Gracias!

  • @PFD6225
    @PFD6225 Před 4 lety +12

    No contact is very powerful
    ............
    You need to wait 60 days or more it automatically bring back the spark to a relationship because you'll be both missing each other

    • @Daniel-bd5ur
      @Daniel-bd5ur Před 3 lety +1

      100% TRUE

    • @rhyswingard8583
      @rhyswingard8583 Před 3 lety +3

      Only if there’s enough attraction built up. But if it’s a girl you’ve just started dating. You might need a different approach.

    • @bhargavkumar5412
      @bhargavkumar5412 Před 3 lety +2

      What if she is with other guy

    • @runout1013
      @runout1013 Před 4 měsíci

      @@rhyswingard8583what would be the alternative approach

    • @freddierukundo5742
      @freddierukundo5742 Před 3 měsíci

      While you bang other guys away from each other. 60 days is too long to wait on a girl unless you want to smash and run

  • @chillaakac.c7471
    @chillaakac.c7471 Před 5 lety +15

    He's being needy by making watch more videos. This was enough. Thank you

  • @hariharanjayaraman4009

    Dude this is one of the best videos..I have seen ..
    Keep up the good work.Cheers 🙌