Sad truth is sometimes they come back and sometimes they don't. No contact isn't the solution it's just the best means for you to regain control of yourself, your emotions and perspective. Of all my ex-gfs maybe only half have made contact after a breakup, sometimes years after and only one did I actually try again with which didn't work out. As painful as it feels, whether you were needy or not, if someone rejects you then walk away immediately and not look back and never take them back unless your needs (and theirs) are going to be met.
Don’t agree with all of a sudden posting stuff all over social media… that just looks bait and anyone with any common sense will clock that your doing that for the benefit of your ex… you need to disappear and don’t show any signs of chasing or validation seeking
make her regret by winning in life physically, financial, mentally its the only way to make her cry over you these bitches are very hypergmous, they have alot of options in their phones. don't sit there and wait for her just wakeup and build your life get your shit together and work hard to success.
Thank you so much. I never knew I could do this but I did, and it feels very comforting. I am no longer distraught and I am going out there and meeting a few good people. Not ready to date yet, but I'm meeting people
My girl left me it been 5 months now I'm still blocked in all platforms, I was needy and and obsessed after a break up, I blame myself cos I said some hurtful things when she was breaking up with me, i still feel the pain but I'm trying to get over everything it hard.
Don' t get your x back. Fuck no contact fuck all the 7 tips to get an x back. Shes an x for a reason. Hope is the most fucked up thing you can have rigjt now. Go to the gym , go out , do new shitt DONT let that bitch come back if she sees she can come back you will be out again in a few years or even worse when you are married. Deffinition of madness is trying the same thing and hoping you will get a different result.
If no contact is working for you, I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with one of our coaches so they can help you navigate your situation. You can book a call using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -LATV Team
Thank u Alex, another great video and great advice. I think my ex is doing the no contact and wow it's making me miss him. So is it still good to do the no contact. Thank u again. We use to connect but he cut me off. Wow Just saying that word CUT hurts.
[QUESTION] Hello, Coach Alex! I have a question. I hope you will notice this. I haven't been in contact with my ex for 3 weeks now since I followed the "no contact" rule. His exams will be this month, 18 and 27. I would just like to know if should I at least leave a message like "good luck" before the exam and "congrats" after the exams? Or no? Please tell me what you think. 😓 Thank you so much!
Don't.... Usually men don't like this nature.. As per expertise saying. Plus u think urself, do u want to do or not.. Only u know the gravity of ur problem. Think not only emotionally, but wisely.
I was with my ex for 4 months, very close relationship with good chemistry, passion, connection and fun, she told me she loved me and 8 Days Later broke up with me, is it possible to get somebody back even if it's been 4 months?
The problem is im in ldr for 2 years and we meet online.. We should meet nxt 2 months, but we breakup coz many arguments, that my ex gf ex bf made them between us..he force her and threat her with her child . I did no contact with her before and he did work.. Now I'm doing it again.. First few weeks she look so happy.. Then she start doing all things that i hate and things can make me jelaous, but i didn't react.. Now she calm down she look upset in the picture she stop posting tomuch.. Ps:she blok me first breakup day, but from that day she stalking me on fb from another account.. And thank God im doing well... Another problem im already fitness athlete.. And i dress very well.. So how i will chnage myself to better when she already know that im fit.. So i start working on myself 110% more.. I hope she reach out coz i miss her so much..
I did no contact for 1 month and i reached out to her but she acted like she is just my friend Should I do no contact again? Cuz I don't wanna be friends with her
Its hard to see whether it would work. Always giving in after a few days/couple weeks. Always acting needy. Here I am again beginning no contact. He wants nothing to do with me 😔
Trust me... Concentrate on ur works. U get back u. Be patient. It can't achieve with in a day. Every day keep do something intresting , u finally will love ur work dear. U definitely get back u. Then u can live without him. Trust me.
Hi coach Alex, I was needy during my relationship, I got myself blocked after the breakup for 3 months, she is happy to talk to me but only over text, I am trying to keep the conversation casual and light. She replies every 4 hours or so but not with too much. How would I be able to get a phone call with her, I want to let her know about all the work I have done.
U simply don't text her, 🤷🏻♀️ and if she texts you, you text her without emotions.. U text like her.. Mirror her.. Now she is very sure about your feelings..
Yes... But beware next time when person reach u out, either they miss u Or they just granted u. So identify that and face it. Means don't be so happy.. Just control ur emotions
May I ask about what I can do with my recent break up? My ex and I have an age gap and we are 7 yrs together. He cheated so I broke up with him. We are officemates. We will report to work soon because we have been working at home due to Covid 19. How can I handle the fact I will see him at work?
Demote him back to a coworker. Remember he broke YOUR trust it's ok to be numb to him until HE works to gain it back. In terms of getting an ex back it's always on THIER terms.
Hi, Alex. Your videos have been very important. I did no contact and met my ex for 30 minutes conversation and it was really good. I invited him to a coffee one day and he said Yes. However, after we met he said he got sad after meeting me, so it would be better that we do not meet for a while because he would feel attached to me and could not move on. Any advice?
I think it depends on the situation and how the breakup occurred. I would recommend a 1:1 coaching session so we can plan this out. Here is the link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/#alex - Coach Alex
Hi coach alex.. i just broke up with him and my situation is very different.. he js a married man and we are muslim his wife found out about us and his wife wants to divorce him.. i feel like he is blamjng me.. he dont want to talk to me.. i am trying to talk to him but he is very agressive.. do you think the no contact technique can help me?? Please help me..😢😢😢💔💔💔💔
This man deserves a medal for his services. So clear and concise.
so true👍🏽
After everything I’ve been though, I’ll never put him or anyone up on a pedestal ever again. I’m the price.
Improve yourself, hang out with people you enjoy, learn something new, work on work/career.
Sad truth is sometimes they come back and sometimes they don't. No contact isn't the solution it's just the best means for you to regain control of yourself, your emotions and perspective. Of all my ex-gfs maybe only half have made contact after a breakup, sometimes years after and only one did I actually try again with which didn't work out. As painful as it feels, whether you were needy or not, if someone rejects you then walk away immediately and not look back and never take them back unless your needs (and theirs) are going to be met.
Exactly! I apply no contact but i don't think he will come back😢
Depends of the reason for the breakup
Don’t agree with all of a sudden posting stuff all over social media… that just looks bait and anyone with any common sense will clock that your doing that for the benefit of your ex… you need to disappear and don’t show any signs of chasing or validation seeking
haha did all of that and she went off the radar. 🤷♀🤣
I understand
"You need to clique" haha love the french accent, ur a really cool nice guy :) :)
make her regret by winning in life physically, financial, mentally its the only way to make her cry over you these bitches are very hypergmous, they have alot of options in their phones. don't sit there and wait for her just wakeup and build your life get your shit together and work hard to success.
Real talk. Thank you
Thank you so much. I never knew I could do this but I did, and it feels very comforting. I am no longer distraught and I am going out there and meeting a few good people. Not ready to date yet, but I'm meeting people
I’m going to do this I really hope this works 😖
Thank for a wonderful advice coach😊😊
Thanks sir for the advice ..I'm from India
My girl left me it been 5 months now I'm still blocked in all platforms, I was needy and and obsessed after a break up, I blame myself cos I said some hurtful things when she was breaking up with me, i still feel the pain but I'm trying to get over everything it hard.
Did you get back together?
How are things now?
I love the advice but i love his accent moreeee oh gosh ah love it hehehe
Even if they are in a rebound they aren’t proud of and are hiding from friends and family? They also left the door open for us.
I went no contact with my ex for 2 months and the only thing that happens she blocked me...
she was not intob you from beginning point.
Exactly. 💯
Thank you again my friend 💕🎃🤘 Slipped up getting back on track !
U are a life saver dear Alex
This is exactly what I needed, thank you so much for giving me some hope.
Don' t get your x back. Fuck no contact fuck all the 7 tips to get an x back. Shes an x for a reason. Hope is the most fucked up thing you can have rigjt now. Go to the gym , go out , do new shitt DONT let that bitch come back if she sees she can come back you will be out again in a few years or even worse when you are married. Deffinition of madness is trying the same thing and hoping you will get a different result.
Same here....
Your amazing & clear..👍💖🙏
Thank you so much for the support!
OK Thanks yo making me 💞
Coach my bf broke up me 2weeks ago I doubt I regret my self I'm being too needy dramatic instead of comforting him 😭😭🙏 Thank you coach
does this apply if this situation has been on and off for almost a year? there has been alot of changes within then, i made alot of mistakes.
No contact is not working ... I've tried it twice.
If no contact is working for you, I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with one of our coaches so they can help you navigate your situation. You can book a call using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
-LATV Team
It’s impossible won’t ever happen!!
It’s been 3 months after no contact :))) he’s posting sad things but no contact me :)))))))
I'm on a break, we have two kids and is hard at times..
Thank u Alex, another great video and great advice. I think my ex is doing the no contact and wow it's making me miss him. So is it still good to do the no contact. Thank u again. We use to connect but he cut me off. Wow Just saying that word CUT hurts.
You really made me feel better.
Crazy stuff
[QUESTION]
Hello, Coach Alex! I have a question. I hope you will notice this. I haven't been in contact with my ex for 3 weeks now since I followed the "no contact" rule. His exams will be this month, 18 and 27. I would just like to know if should I at least leave a message like "good luck" before the exam and "congrats" after the exams? Or no? Please tell me what you think. 😓 Thank you so much!
In my opinion don't
Don't.... Usually men don't like this nature.. As per expertise saying. Plus u think urself, do u want to do or not.. Only u know the gravity of ur problem. Think not only emotionally, but wisely.
How does no contact work if there’s a child involved?
I chat my ex a thank you message, my ex seen it probably read it ,but never reply, what to do?
I was with my ex for 4 months, very close relationship with good chemistry, passion, connection and fun, she told me she loved me and 8 Days Later broke up with me, is it possible to get somebody back even if it's been 4 months?
I get it never been contacted still happy with my life
The problem is im in ldr for 2 years and we meet online.. We should meet nxt 2 months, but we breakup coz many arguments, that my ex gf ex bf made them between us..he force her and threat her with her child . I did no contact with her before and he did work.. Now I'm doing it again.. First few weeks she look so happy.. Then she start doing all things that i hate and things can make me jelaous, but i didn't react.. Now she calm down she look upset in the picture she stop posting tomuch..
Ps:she blok me first breakup day, but from that day she stalking me on fb from another account.. And thank God im doing well...
Another problem im already fitness athlete.. And i dress very well.. So how i will chnage myself to better when she already know that im fit..
So i start working on myself 110% more.. I hope she reach out coz i miss her so much..
I did no contact for 1 month and i reached out to her but she acted like she is just my friend
Should I do no contact again?
Cuz I don't wanna be friends with her
I know the feeling
how about if i ask for forgiveness, before i saw this, what shoukd i do sir
How to get your ex back?
NEVER.
They wouldn’t be exes if I still wanted them.
You have a point
Its hard to see whether it would work. Always giving in after a few days/couple weeks. Always acting needy. Here I am again beginning no contact. He wants nothing to do with me 😔
Trust me... Concentrate on ur works. U get back u. Be patient. It can't achieve with in a day. Every day keep do something intresting , u finally will love ur work dear. U definitely get back u. Then u can live without him. Trust me.
I feel u I'm in the same situation too
Hi coach Alex, I was needy during my relationship, I got myself blocked after the breakup for 3 months, she is happy to talk to me but only over text, I am trying to keep the conversation casual and light. She replies every 4 hours or so but not with too much. How would I be able to get a phone call with her, I want to let her know about all the work I have done.
But dont u think, it is something little needy..?.. Try to concentrate on u.... It's tough.. But try it.... U will succeed.
How is this possible if you have children and live together?
Hi Dan,
There is a video on this channel that talks about this. I hope you have the time to check it out!
czcams.com/video/OfJRKgxj43A/video.html
Just realised I told my ex that I needed space so won't be contacting her. Will this be detremental? If so what should i do?
Won’t happen
it will
I was in no contact for 12 days.She is replying me but in rude way. What I do? She is my class but now she is in her home
U simply don't text her, 🤷🏻♀️ and if she texts you, you text her without emotions.. U text like her.. Mirror her.. Now she is very sure about your feelings..
@@v.89G thanks sir
Hi Alex, is it a good thing if my ex stares at me every now and then and talk to my friends?
😅😅
If your Ex is long distance! The no contact rule can works?
yes ! of course
when a women not around you she's no longer your property , no never she will find another men. you should have backup options.
Yes... But beware next time when person reach u out, either they miss u Or they just granted u. So identify that and face it. Means don't be so happy.. Just control ur emotions
ok but what if hes blocked me
May I ask about what I can do with my recent break up? My ex and I have an age gap and we are 7 yrs together. He cheated so I broke up with him. We are officemates. We will report to work soon because we have been working at home due to Covid 19. How can I handle the fact I will see him at work?
Demote him back to a coworker. Remember he broke YOUR trust it's ok to be numb to him until HE works to gain it back. In terms of getting an ex back it's always on THIER terms.
Hi, Alex. Your videos have been very important. I did no contact and met my ex for 30 minutes conversation and it was really good. I invited him to a coffee one day and he said Yes. However, after we met he said he got sad after meeting me, so it would be better that we do not meet for a while because he would feel attached to me and could not move on. Any advice?
Who ended it? If it was you, he may want you back. If u ended it ask him to meet again and talk to him about fixing things
Yes dont hurt him further .its seems u r handling well.but he is not.so respect his feelings.
He ended
Should i write to her after 4 weeks or should i wait for her to write to me?
I think it depends on the situation and how the breakup occurred. I would recommend a 1:1 coaching session so we can plan this out. Here is the link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/#alex
- Coach Alex
Should I text her after no contact or should I wait on her to text me? /:
You have to wait till she contacts you dude….
Hi coach alex.. i just broke up with him and my situation is very different.. he js a married man and we are muslim his wife found out about us and his wife wants to divorce him.. i feel like he is blamjng me.. he dont want to talk to me.. i am trying to talk to him but he is very agressive.. do you think the no contact technique can help me?? Please help me..😢😢😢💔💔💔💔
Never go to back your ex. Never Repeat the same cycle, she will loose all respect for you.
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first haha 😃😀🙂😕😔😞😤😐