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Every one should watch this video tbh
Believe all women! #Metoo lol
Saw it and appreciate this content
What's the outro song name?
Preach are you doing okay ? I really feel like you guys need a hug. You’ve been looking at some difficult topics lately, don’t forget to take care of yourselves ! I always appreciate your perspectives!!
"Sometimes a toxic mother is worse than an absent father."
Holy shit Preach, well said
After a few minutes of processing I realize how shit that it was pretty shitty for the daughters too. I imagine if that became a rumor at school they would have had a real rough go.
@@charleshammel8541 like it wasnt bro :(
Maaaaannnn i felt this shit alot
My late dad was a truck driver so he wasn’t home a lot. When he was away, my mom would call him a monster and try to convince me of a bad person he was...at the same time spending all of his money. My dad could be an asshole but he was at least a truthful asshole. My mom lied so much about him and put him through absolute hell.
Every time, all the time but, sometimes? Just another suckerass statement... We are trained to not hold women responsible or accountable...
False rape accusations should result in legal consequences.
Edit: Let me clarify. People who intentionally falsely accuse others of rape should get the same sentence the "rapist" would have gotten.
well there's defamation but there should be grades to it like murder has. False rape accusations even when found false and proven false will hold lifetime consecuenses for the accused that at times are irreparable. That mother will still excuse herself till the day she dies, with no children at her bedside and nothing but a fractioned family full of bitterness or a family that healed and repaired their relationships by crossing her out.
Yes.!!
And, I would argue, anyone whom falsely accuses another of such an abominable act as rape ought to face the same punishment as the "rapist" would have incurred. Added to that, any financial costs associated with this false allegation ought to be paid by the liar, any time lost at work, any court costs and lawyers fees, any psychological treatment to be covered and the "pain and suffering" compensation for all the heartache.
This subject sits pretty close to my heart after a false allegation was levied against my son. Thankfully, the truth came out and we did not have to endure a trial. Even so, there is a stigma attached to those whom have been falsely accused, one that sticks with them for a LOOOOOOONG, long time.
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If it's proven to be factually false the accuser gets the original punishment the accused would have gotten. +5 years and financial compensation. Nothing short of that will be justice in my eyes or mind.
couldnt agree more and it should be extremely harsh to show exactly what happens to u if u do some fucked up shit like this
“Sometimes a toxic mother is worse than an absent father”
That hit home for me and I appreciate those words dearly.
Thank you Preach
They are just anti-women these two.. They obviously hate women.
A woman is always right... never trust men
I definitely agree. Somehow I'm amazed I turned out pretty well since the woman in my family are extremely toxic.
i understand what preach saying , but this father was not absent on purpose. he couldn't be around his little daughters because of what the mother accused him of.
Most def as someone that had my mom as an alcoholic for half my my life, shit can get draining and depressing.
Yea fs
After her affair failed, my ex-wife told my kids that I poisoned her. She told everyone on the island we live on. I was called in for questioning by police. She was trying to get me arrested and simultaneously trying to take my pension.
Fortunately for me the lie failed, and she got nothing in the divorce. But the immediate aftermath was I didn't speak to my adult children for 8 months until they started realizing that their mother was lying.
To say it hurt me to my core is an understatement.
i hope she got the same punishment you wouldve gotten if it were true
I’m happy you left and that situation was resolved within your favor. Blessings to you.
You’ll be fine my brother walk in the path of Jesus Christ and you shall rest peacefully at night. Don’t let the devil in your ex-wife posses you and steal you god love. Have a bless day and never stop loving your enemies. If harm shall come there way let it be by their own hands just as Judas after he betrayed Jesus. God is great, Gd night
I hope you doing better
Makes you wonder why throughout history a females testimony meant less than a man's dontit
oh well, enjoy the decline 💊
"The apology needs to be as loud as the disrespect "
Amen to that
Amen.
I had to screen shot that one.. when he said it like.. 🤯🤯🤯
This is beyond disrespectful this estranged him from his kids. She is create a lie from the pit of hell. This is what men go through all the time.She create a hole in everyone of those people. Women that do this destroy the family.
There is nothing she can do the apologize for that disrespect. She destroyed years of his life. How are you supposed to apologize for that. You can’t get this shit back
the apology does not matter. she needs life in prison.
“Sometimes a toxic mother is worse than an absent father” I felt this in my soul.
You just described the Black Community.
Both you and the first commenter have summed up my life.
PRRREEEEEEEAAAAACCCCCHHHH! I can testify to that!
From experience, this is true. Sad but true..
Truth truth TRUTH! I’d rather be abandoned than abused. It was trendy to stigmatize all black men for leaving. Finally we get back to balance: some relationships are worse together than apart. Plain and simple.
Honestly, “hurt people hurt people” is not a valid excuse for me. It’s a vengeful and shallow reaction to being hurt. Break the cycle don’t perpetuate it.
💯 that saying is damn tired at this point. Zero accountability for liars who ruin lives
Facts. Too many weak-minded individuals out there.
I always feel bad for others who got hurt, because I've been through that. I was broken and made whole again. I survived without perpetuating the pain I've endured. So I give no sympathy when they're hurt and go on to hurt others. Zero sympathy. None at all. Because the minute they pass on the pain: they become the problem. Not the past, not the pain, but them.
It's protecting the criminals, we need to not victim blame when there is nothing to blame them for. only evil people say “hurt people hurt people”
that's true that hurt people hurt people. but hurt people can be kind to people because they don't want others to be hurt. and non hurt people can hurt people because they are psychopaths.
Man…scrolling through the comments and seeing all of the stories about people’s bad experiences with their own mother really makes be grateful of the mother and father I have. I am truly sorry for everyone who has been through anything remotely close to this. God bless.
How lucky you are... Please cherish them well❤
Thank you. Thank you for not saying this like “we should forgive our parents” or stuff like that. Thank you for understanding the different experiences and not dismissing them.
Best wishes for you and your family. ❤
I can’t believe she still tried to make him the bad guy by saying he should have fought harder. What a disgusting excuse of a mother. 🤮🤮🤮
Sad....✌️
Zero accountability.
That's just women being women
disgusting excuse of a human being, not only of a mother
@@decim161 real women do not do that.
sometimes a toxic mother is worse than an absent father.
jesus i needed to hear this
I know right. All the times my mother defended her abuse with "At least I was here!"
My mother was worse than this one towards my father
The toxic woman is sometimes the REASON for the absent father
Had both...can definitely say that this is the absolute truth. My dad got clean and took me back, so damn proud of him
Sometimes? How? The worst an absent father can do not be there. That's it.
this video made me cry remembering what my mother would say to me about my dad. i missed SOOOO many years with my dad because of her bs & lying to me as a child. i’ll always feel guilty for believing her & allowing her to keep me away from him. RIP dad, i’m sorry! 💔
i hear and feel you, i can personally relate. my mother said horrible things when we were too young to understand. later she intercepted mail from us to him and him to us. when i was 15 and snooping in her things i found the letters. she only kept the ones he sent (i think she liked to read his pain, it's the only thing that makes sense). they all said the same thing we felt. "why don't you write to me? do you not love me anymore?" things like that. it fvcking broke my heart. that was HARD to get past. and he died 4 years later. all those years she robbed from us. God almighty! still breaks my heart. please forgive yourself and put the blame where it belongs. i hope you find your hearts ease.
Seeing my daughter grow up is a huge blessing. The fact that was taken away from him, is absolutely heartbreaking.
The fact that he was still only concerned about his kids after he rejected the apology shows how real this man is. BIG TIME respect.
facts
That's the father's role. It ain't about you or yall. It's about them. The wife can have the family unit and the ideals and such that the man supports, but his job is to take care of the kids. She is grown and capable especially in today's society. It's on him to support and the worst way a woman can hurt a man is to force him to work and support a child without him having any influence on the development. This was just evil and she cool with it. It's easier to just not get there with the wrong one...well easier said for most of us.
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He should have a DNA test done. Don't underestimate that sickness.
It shows his character. And I was instantly in like.
So she basically ruined her children's relationship with their father for revenge. Hope her children never trust a word she ever says again.
And she would deserve it !!!
This hurt to watch. He seems like a good man, the girls suffered bc of their mother’s bullshit. This is why it’s important to have integrity in coparenting.. the children pick up the tab for your bad behavior toward their other parent. She hurt everyone around her with this lie.. they didn’t deserve this
With three kids there usually is at least one that still stands by the mother. You're not going to erase 25+ years of being raised by the mother - and thus her imprinting her own twisted way of thinking on the children - with a single lie detector test. FFS people are in jail for rape or murder and their partner still loves them.
Imagine living his life with a registered sex offender label stamped on his back. The children lost their father while he lost his entire existence. I can't even imagine how he coped with that.
They should put her in jail for the same amount of time
There needs to be some form of punishment for lies that destroy/ruin people's lives.
Absolutely
Forgiveness is misunderstood. How my father explained it to me was this:
"Forgiveness of your enemies is putting them on notice for the Lord's judgment. You've pressed charges. Let the Law deal with the rest."
Forgiveness is letting you remove yourself and out of the way of Cosmic Law enforcement. Holding that anger takes years to dissipate. God understands that. But you can't be a spiritual vigilante and take Cosmic Law into your own hands. Leave it to the Courts. Understanding this helped me forgive my enemies a lot easier, and really, their sin committed against me is not my weight...it's THEIRS.
Facts. Forgiveness is hard, but like the old story in the Bible goes. God forgives me for my sins and mistakes so I should do the same for others. I heavily agree with what you said. Just like God says, "Justices is yours; Vengeance is mine."
She does feel bad. She feels bad that she was caught...
And That's! Not even True.. look in her eyes ...
999 like juss made it 1k your welcome
Just like a narcissist
Exactly what I said
I agree but also I have seen this comment 999999999999999999999999999 fucking times.
As a single father, I need y'all to know that the efforts of a bitter baby mom are limitless. Never stop fighting for your kids. 😢
This is going to cause a problem soon. Men are going to give up if they have no power but all the responsibilities. I believe that is slavery.
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The fucked up part is this type of stuff BEEN goin on, for at least 60 years.
Weaponizing children and keeping them from their fathers is the most evil thing that a woman can possibly do.
A lot of mothers ain't shit.
Probably most of them.
Fighting a bitter baby mama over the kid/s will only make you lose mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually & financially.
Just call it a loss & move on.
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When I say "fight", I mean never stop making an effort to be there for your children, in every way that you can, as much and as often as humanly possible.
My apologies for any confusion that I might have caused.
I hope that you never have to face a life of painful fatherhood, like a lot of us have to endure. 😰
Been a single father to twin daughters for 4 years now. This shut right here is true af.
My bm was literally a fucking danger to myself and our daughters. And I still had to toe the line to avoid getting tossed in jail. And still have shit thrown on my name because of trash that came out of her mouth.
"The apology needs to be as loud as the disrespect."
I'll be using this when my step-sister owns up to her misdeeds, because THAT cannot be more true.
if i was her daughter i would simply never speak to her again that is an INCREDIBLE character flaw and this cannot be the only time shes abused her daughters like this, this would've been the straw that broke the camel's back
My mother used me for welfare benefits, didn't allow me around my biological father and kept making stories up while she would leave me with random people growing up then abandoned me 15, I looked for my father and found out he died that year and then when she reentered my life she slapped me infront of my friends and we fought the same day she came back... she turned my whole family against me and said, "She was abusing her and sleeping around with boys when she was on drugs, and I was a Virgin. It took a lot of forgiveness but still angry my reputation is ruined by her still to this day she successfully isolated me to where I'm a ruined adult at 33.
You aren't a ruined adult. You got a taste of the ugliness of the world much sooner than most, but you can still move forward, step by step. And part of being an adult is realizing you can't hide from the nasty shit people say and do to you and about you. So, the fact that you are fighting to move forward and not stay trapped in the hole she dug for you shows that you are adjusting well. Just keep going and building yourself back up and don't stress about it too much in the meantime. Anyone who believed her lies was either naive or not worth your time.
This happened to me and my sisters. My mom tried so hard to keep us from our Dad. When he bought us stuff she would either return it to the store, hide it from us, find any excuse to ground us from it. And once she grounded us from it, we never saw it again. It didn’t matter what it was. The only thing she would take from him or his family, is money.
The few times we did see him, she and her mom would interrogate us and make us feel so bad, like we betrayed them if we had fun. If his girlfriend braided or styled our hair, she would take them down as soon as we got home. I remember trying really hard to hate his girlfriend trying to be loyal to my mom, but I couldn’t because she was so nice to me, my sisters and my dad.
Lord, that’s incredibly abusive.
@@prouddegenerates9056 It was. But my Dad was very abusive and violent towards my mom. He cheated on her with many women after they got marries and also gave her an STD. At one point told one of his girlfriends where we lived and she came over banging on our windows and front door screaming and yelling for my Dad to come out. And when she took off her tires skirted. I’ll never forget that. That was scary as shit. My dad also got hooked on cocaine and years later rock cocaine and drank a lot. So my mom did have good reason to do what she did but it’s a tough situation because me and my sisters were affected by all of it. So he started it, and she had all the smoke for him 😂 but 🤷🏾♀️.
They both passed away a year apart from each other. My mom passed on New Year’s Day 2012 and my Dad passed away on Mother’s Day 2013.
@@EbonyWhitee I was was beat, because my father was terrified I’d be weak. He endured more then I could describe in his childhood, but to greatly simplify, he was viciously violated, burned, raped, starved and more. His sister was sexually abused too, but she ultimately starved to death. He blamed himself, because he was thrashed like a pathetic dog as a little boy, who only wanted to protect his sister. He would be locked in a room for days without food, where he’d hear her cry and scream. My sister was cherished, protected like sacred treasure, terrified anything could happen to her, paranoid she’d end up like his sister. My father would die without hesitation for her, but was far harsher with me.
@@prouddegenerates9056 It seems like he also projected his inability to protect his own sister onto you! His I’m so so sorry to hear about all of that. 😧
@@EbonyWhitee Dad loved me in his own way.
"Sometimes a toxic mother is worse than an absentee father." Well said, Preach, I wholeheartedly agree.
I think that quote resonated so much with me, too. It also highlights why my father took full custody of me in 1983... a black man, who literally searched the laws to figure out how to actually win, during a time when most Black folks of all genders, were being inundated with a heroin and crack epidemic. This is also why I've always empathized with male-identifying parents. Truth is, and unfortunately, women can be so callous. Sad. We can all do better, for sure.
@@TeraGreene1 Wow, that's an amazing "testimony". I'm glad you at least had one parent who cared about your well-being. For me, my mother was very abusive, both physically and psychologically and my dad was never in my life at all. I reconnected with him some years ago, but it was evident that he didn't care about me either. However, with all that being said, I still have more trauma to work through that my mom caused than what my dad caused.
Just "Toxic"?
@@TeraGreene1 wow.. ❤
Sometimes? ALWAYS !!!
"Why didn't you fight for them harder if you knew you didn't do it" I wouldn't blame him for knocking her teeth out.
I wanted to kick her in her chin 😖
@Galva Tron this is not a gender thing. It's a toxic human being thing
She said it to get a rise out of him best defense is a good offence
@common sense detector you are not really living up to your name as the "common sense dectector" with this argument.
There are 8 billion people on this planet. This excat same scenario with the roles reversed could have happened, it may not of happened. My guess is it probably has happened just because of sheer probability.
But since neither of us know 8 billion peoples life story there is no way of proving or disproving it.
And it is not a gender thing. You have toxic men and women because human beings are just capable of huge levels of toxicity.
So please live up to your name and stop being a childish idiot.
Equal rights equal fights!
This was extremely hard to watch. My ex wife has made my life absolute hell. She has separated me from my kids with lies and violence. I feel helpless to do anything about it. I guess I'm grateful the lies aren't as evil as this woman's, but her attitude reminds me of my ex so much. No matter what she does it's still somehow always my fault. I have no idea what I did to deserve such hateful behaviour and live every day with a hole in my heart that can never be mended. I love you Jade, Seth and Jye and hope some day soon we are back together.
❤️ Beautiful Blessings
All the best wishes Brother❤️
Your ex wife is gonna get hit hard by the karma express.
this makes me furious
Live a good life and connect with them when you can.
Sorry Bro. What amazes me is if you read the comments, you hear all this horrific stories about women doing toxic things. But society never focuses on the trauma us men goes through. We are victims in these situations, but once our name is cleared, the women can still go on with their lives, like nothing even happened. It’s infuriating. I hope everything works out for you, talk to other men that been through it. Don’t talk to women, they will give you bad advice.
My ex-wife pulled this on me. Same story. I couldn’t see them for 2 (almost 3 years). Has to get a lawyer to finally see my kids again when I was able to afford a good one. A lot of these women out here are truly “ain’t shit individuals”.
Fight harder.... That line hurts me.
If I don't fight, I'm weak.
If I fight, it's not enough.
If I fight harder, I'm possessive and abusive.
Any sign of danger/instability from anyone. Walk away slowly.
Right bro right! It's so crazy
@JoshNificent and then some dumbass call them the fairer sex
True that!
Thing is in life 99.9% of the time you don't know, till you know it's game over.
@JoshNificent and they dint get nearly as much shit as we do
The craziest part is she has zero remorse. "Why didn't you fight for your kids harder", she's delusional.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
Hell has a special place for her. Not women like her, her specifically.
She's the worst.
My grandson is going through this now. The ex wife, is doing things and saying things to those babies to make them hate him, and Brad is the finest sweetest young man. Works hard, she says now she want to have 50/50 custody so she can date freely now. but wants him to pay child support for the whole year.....it just keeps getting worse everyday. And we just tell him be the best dad you can be, love them, don't say bad things about her. Keep a bloody journal! Of everything..... It makes me so sad...
@@terryhogan327 it really baffles my mind how people like that woman can walk freely while being a leech to society. I hope grandson goes through this well and on top of this situation.
When I divorced my husband. I made sure our son's called and went to see him regularly. It's important for kids to have a relationship with their father. So sad, MIRACLES PEACE FAITH AND BLESSINGS 🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾
I see this all the time: mother divorces father. But mother wants kids to have a relationship with father so mother makes the child call the father. They don't know each other. They live in different places. Just talking on the phone, usually while the mother is within hearing, is just awkward and weird for kids even when they know their fathers but these kids never spend time with their father because he is living in a car somewhere with a bunch of his paycheck going to child support while the kid is living in a big house talking about how school is a drag. So their relationship dissolves and the phone calls become another formality imposed by the mother on both against their wills, and then the mother still blames the father she divorced for not being more present in the family she excludes him from.
Not accusing you obviously.
Not to mention the amount of fathers who've committed suicide because of these situations...
RIP Nick Rain 1994-2019
Miss you buddy ✌
4 out of 5 suicides agree, men kill themselves more than women
Christopher Cant LOL you are FUCking so far gone . RED PILL???
That’s real...
It's sad that something can be so devastating to a person they actually take there own life sorry to the ppl who had and are having to go through a loss in this way.
“The apology needs to be as loud as the disrespect” should be taught to people everywhere. I felt that my dude.
I need that on a shirt.
Man that hit me deep in my soul.
I fuckin paused the video typed that shit on notes no lie.
The only apology that speaks as loudly as the disrespect of turning a mans kids against him with such a heinous lie is Seppuku.
Never from a female
I think the false accusation should hold the same consequences on the accuser as whatever they accuse the person falsely of
"The apology needs to be as loud as the disrespect" 👏👏👏
"Be careful who you impregnate, because thats long term stressing" - Nas
Words from the wise Nastradamus
Yet he went and impregnated Kellis, who is still giving him hell financially.
HEY ITZJANE homie wanted ppl to learn from his mistakes 🤷♀️
HEY ITZJANE he was speaking from experience smarty skirt!
Oh I bet he knows
She's pathologically narcissistic, I appreciate this segment for forcing her into a situation where she doesn't have the power
She Couldn’t Escape.
Nailed it bro
Big words
She is not a narcissist, but a sociopath.
No she's not a narcissist, she's a psychopath.
I agree!!!!! A toxic mother is WORST than an absent father!! The damage is beyond repair. Where’s the nurturing that’s supposed to come from this?!?! No accountability!!!
I'm so blessed to have a awesome relationship with my son's mother. Her and my fiancee are cool, theres no drama. This is sick, I've heard horror stories but nothing like this. "Why didn't you fight harder for them if you knew it wasn't true..." 😳 She should be charged and prosecuted for real!
There are no repercussions for abuse like this from women. Society needs to hold them accountable but, we don't.
MEN don't
Some men do some messed up shit but women......they can destroy a man's life with a few sentences....A FEW GODDAMM SENTENCES...a few lies....and have NO repercussions AT ALL.....society is far more than disappointing my friend
U can spread the word of Kristy rene Anderson aka Kristy rene goodloe and her lies in Idaho make the police hold her accountable make them hold police accountable for allowing this behavior by women
@Ayanokoji SOCIETY doesn't. It's us you idiots, it's us who believe women over men. It's us who privilege them over the testimony of another human being. It is our innate desire to protect women and because of that we give them the greater benefit of the doubt over another man. It's us ... it's not simps and it's not men in general, it's all of us. Women AND men.
The law doesn't hold women accountable.
Not that he didn't fight for them, family court doesn't give a damn about fathers. Dead beat or not
mhm
@@isabellathecutekitty4340 it's true fathers get screwed in court. Court gives women custody 91% of the time only way he would have gotten them kids is if the mother is a crackhead
What can you even say in such a situation. I could not even fucking imagine.
@@armandohenriquez2103 sometimes even if they are a crackhead and have mental problems they will still get custody. jonathan vanderhagen lost full custody of his 2 year old child despite the fact the mother wasn't fit for having full custody. you know what the judge said when jonathan said she wasnt fit? he said its all in the past. later on the 2 year old child died and when jonathan spoke out against the court they jailed him for 2 months.
Anyone know the name of the full video?
9:32 , I felt and lived those words. My father wasn't there for the beginning of my life. From basically birth to 18 but my mother was the most toxic, manipulative, evil, abusive sack of sh!t that has scarred me even 10 years later to this day. My father took me in at 18 and help me through it all and was the best parent I could have hoped for. She and her husband has been actively keeping my sibling and myself away from my father and lying about him no wanting to see us. I'll never forgive the things she's done and I still get panic attacks to this day when I get flashes of memories of the past living with that psychopath.
This truly was heartbreaking!!!! As a single mother, I still respect the father of my child for being my daughter’s father. I don’t have to get along with him… but I HAVE to respect him. Women like this are just AWFUL!! This one was a tear jerker for real… she hurt these children beyond repair. 🥺🥺
What she really meant was, “why didn’t you fight for ME harder?” Bitter, bitter woman.
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@@thecalmoshow371 Ohhh I miss archery ;(
Like my mom, she's a woman before she's a mother. A bitter one at that.
Wow! Excellent insight!
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She should be jailed... I would sue her for defamation of character if I was him. This lady is insane🤦♀️
In my country you can't just sue even if you have proof. This story is si similar to mine its chilling. But as a man you get unfairly treated when kids are involved. I bet he got no help from the social services even if they knew the allegations are false
@@alexpurchas1538 what country you from? In the uk some witch tried weaponising the kids against my brother. After months of his health deteriorating, he found himself walking happily outta the courtroom with full custody and her in tears. Uk is know for being biased but there was hope not sure if that helps but hopefully it does 🤞🏾.
After 25 years, a decent person won't have the energy to do anything against them. Because any action would be less for her, but sufficient for him to be in prison.
@budsmoke bunny Justice and a message letting others know that what she did is wrong, and there are consequences for such actions.
Sue her and then sue her again in the next life if there is one and again after that.
Now think about how many times this has happened without the father ever being vindicated.
Not only did she ruin that mans name she traumatized her kids s*xually. What a horrible person.
Toxic mothers are ALWAYS worse than an absent father.
"Id rather have no food than poisonous food"
Chad Powell that’s a great analogy
@@kexusthomas5696 Thanks , I made it myself , just had to wait until my 3 AM mind kicked in lol
I agree. Most times toxic anyone is worst then absent, I wished my dad was absent for a long time but people dont get that cause they'll tell you "at least you have a dad/mom".
Of course they are. Absent father's aren't there. Which is bad, but they're not actively harming the child through their actions. Their inaction has ramifications, yes, but it's not then purposefully harming their child. Toxic mother's at there, spitting poison and bile into the minds of their children, knowingly damaging their relationship with their father and likely men in general, and can in turn even lead to absent father's, as seen from this video.
I’m the oldest of three daughters and my mother did this. Luckily I was old enough to know better but both my sisters have been brainwashed by the abuse. My fathers life has been ruined. My relationships with everyone on my mothers side and my sisters no longer exist. My mother has no remorse.
This shit hit so hard. Thank you for covering such a sensitive topic.
Me too
....damn
Same, I was 16 when my parents divorced and my mom filled my head with lies and made my dad the villain because he cheated, it costed me years of having a good relationship with my dad who as an adult now I realize is emotionally repressed and can't express himself properly, and that played out in the wrong way for him.
He did some bad things too, like being verbally abusive to my sister which led me to want to break his jaw.
I feel like ass everytime I remember those days, they did us dirty, we were a kid and a teenager, I wish my parents would have acted like adults.
There is a special place in hell for people like that who are that spiteful and vindictive to innocent third parties like that. There are some lines you just do not cross. That shit must have been traumatising. I send you all the virtual hugs in the world and I hope you're doing well these days
I'm sorry to hear about that and that you had to go through that
Asking for forgiveness after saying he should have fought harder after she lied and said he sexually assaulted his children? My god, the audacity is unbelievable.
I grew up with a toxic mother and an absent father. My mother absolutely did way more damage than my father. Going to my dad's was a reprieve from the crazy. I wish I'd understood that more when I was a kid and spent more time with my dad
”Why didnt you fight harder for them?” How is he not stranguling her? How is this legal?.
Because of the #MEETOO movement-believe her without evidence- is how we got here.
@@kenudice9841 You hit the nail right on the head. I remember in middle school we had to read a book called, "To Kill a Mockingbird". The book was fiction and it covered several themes but the author did say that the actions depicted in the book described what happened around her in real life during the 1930's. Namely, (white) women pointing their fingers at a (black) man and saying "He rap**d me". Well you can guess what happened then after a statement like that is said out loud. The men in the town listened and believed, and suddenly the next you see, everyone is standing around grinning ear to ear next to a black man hanging from a tree. You can still find the pictures if you want. Was justice served?
Which political party advocated, "Believe all women" then and which political party still espouses the same attitude? Be mindful, when you hear the phrase, "It's my truth". Women didn't care about their sons then and they don't care now. Where are the marches from the so called "mothers" to protect their sons?
Listen and believe all women? I think we've had all enough of that. But it doesn't matter what I think because women make up the majority of voters and they don't care enough about their own sons to want to protect them by having laws enacted to prosecute vindictive women.
@@gmoney5709 That is an EXCELLENT point!
@@kenudice9841 the #Metoo movement is to bring light to actual victims of sexual assault. In any positive movement there will be toxic and dangerous people using it to push sick agendas. Women like this "mother" spits in the face of every genuine victim of abuse and lessens the credibility of their assaults. This shit has been happening to men for a long time. This hidden and unpunished emotional and psychological trauma is an outrage. And men who have experienced this crime on them should also have their stories told. #Metoo for them as well. Women who report false crimes directly hurt women reporting actual crimes and ruin innocent men's lives. I'm so sick of generalizations of generations, genders, movements, races etc.
@@cniknik9863, as you stated, "In any positive movement there will be toxic and dangerous people using it to push sick agendas."I see that you conveniently forgot to mention anywhere in your writing, any consequences for those individuals who lie about being sexually assaulted. The ends justify the means, right? Who cares if innocent people accuse of sexual assault and their families are destroyed. What's important is "Her truth" needs to be shouted to the heavens. If you cared about justice, you would demand what you stated earlier, but more importantly, that all liars be mandatorily given 20 yrs to life for lying about sexual assaults. You strike me as one who would be more than satisfied that the liars be given a dismissed misdemeanor charge. Maybe life should find a way for someone to accuse you of r*pe and you find yourself without the money to defend your good name. After you have been passed around with every HIV/Herpes infected prisoner, you'll eventually get out of prison. At that point, you can tell us how much more important it is for the MeToo cowards to espouse "their truth" than it is for innocent people to have a law that forces the justice system to throw the book at all liars.
"The apology needs to be as loud as the disrespect." - Preach ✊🏾
No pun intended on Preach
@@Ptah1130 🙂✊🏾
The fact that this man can sit in front of her and not end her and send her to hell is a testement to his patience, restraint and character.
I am actually going through this right now. My kids' mother tells them lies like "I never wanted them in the first place" or "the reason their mother and I got divorced was due to me cheating on her" and more. Luckily my daughters trust me to confide in me by telling me the things that she says. Then begs me not to confront their mother about it due to fear of repercussions from their mother. I can only handle this crap through explaining to my kids that those were not true and legal actions.
it's rough as a single father that is attempting to co-parent to have to dry the tears of the stuff that they hear and might eventually believe. I have made it point from day one to tell my kids how much I love them, miss them, and that they are my world. I do everything that I can for them.
This girl my brother rejected accused him of rape, and she would always say “I can’t take it back if you date me, it’s that simple”. She was so bitter he didn’t like her that she took this lie all the way to court, dragging my brother through the mud and putting his life at risk. Thank God the truth came to light, but I’ll never forget the tears of anger and pure frustration that he cried every night, then those tears of relief and thankfulness when it was over. Naturally she faced no legal repercussions, she wasn’t even expelled. I’m just grateful some of the girls in her dorm caught her lacking.
God as a man this sounds like the epitome of frustration.
I am sure women too who were actually raped and deserve justice will be hurt as these fucking liers are also indirectly hurting their credibility too.
Something needs to be done. The law needs to be changed in a way that makes liers pay without scaring away actual rape victims.
(I am using male and female in the stereotypical roles because I am most familiar with that. not saying women can't rape and men can't be raped. but that is another can of worms imagine being a man trying to convince a court you were raped by a woman...)
Those girls are based
@James Cooper yea his mental health took a huge blow. He was already dealing with a lot so this was just the icing on the cake. He was diagnosed with depression, we couldn’t leave him alone, and till this day it’s messed up how he sees women. Girls are threatening rather than nurturing to him. I’m so sorry you had a similar experience. It’s not fair and it’s not right. I’m literally crying for him and you and others that have been tormented like this. I’m so sorry my love
She should have gone to jail, or at least done restorative justice.
Rae please tell me you were one of the girls that caught her lacking lmao. You should of beat her tf up
Yo, Preach, one of the hardest lines I’ve heard in a while: “The apology needs to be as loud as the disrespect”. #barz
But how can she even begin... she messed her girls up for years by maintaining this lie. I hate my kids father, but I’m kind to him, I don’t talk poorly of him (around my children and usually not any other time unless I need to vent to an adult friend) and I make sure to nurture the relationship between my girls and their dad. They won’t know we aren’t together because he tried to kill us when they were just babies. That’s how it’s got to be for healthy children.
This woman is so fucking vile and you can see this mans demeanor..he is so above this bullshit. He should never accept her apology, she ruined their children’s lives and the fathers lives with this lie. Fuck her. There should be some punishment for her. This ain’t a mistake, this is her being a terrible person. The father is obviously a good man and could have been a great influence on his daughters. What a shame
This is called parental alienation. It's a common tactic for women for those with narcissistic personality disorder. The deflection to blame the father for not fighting hard enough was another tactic by narcissists. I'm glad that you're sharing this stuff because I'm currently dispelling the myth of narcissistic women. For some reason, people ignore their existence.
Aba and Preach, I've seen a lot of your videos. I'm a big fan. I have seen countless similar videos that I can relate to. I'll tell you this: the divorce courts and a deceitful woman can ruin a life, especially an innocent man's life such as myself. I am now back on my feet. I have my kids (full, legal, and soul custody). I gained back everything I lost in my divorce and then some. That was 8 years of my life fighting for my children in court. I have them now. I won, and now the world knows I wasn't lying. My ex experienced backlash from her family's side and mine, including the judge. I became one of the 1percent of fathers who successfully won and walked away from divorce courts. I hope men who are going through this can read my story and see there's HOPE for them and that self deleting isn't an option.
This woman not only destroyed the life of her ex partner,by falsely accusing him of the most heinous thing but also harmed the very important relationship between a father and his kids,for revenge! Shouldn't that be prosecuted? I'm gonna say it again...we need to believe people based on EVIDENCE and not on GENDER.
Testify sistah
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Βαρώνη Δελητάνη Unfortunately, with real victims, the evidence is not always easily obtained. The perpetrator does these acts hidden from the view of others. And this woman took advantage of that fact. She should be punished for her lies.
@@Tangerinesorbet I totally agree. In addition,I believe that, these issues should be handled in a different way(not quite sure how)but not as an entertainment product. The only positive (if I can even say that)thing is that people watching these clips have a more wholesome perspective on what's equality today and how it affects both genders.
Trust me. That’s defamation of character
I haven’t been triggered so easily so quickly ever as soon as she said “why didn’t you fight harder ? “. My God that is the epitome of evil
Narcissism is very ugly people outside and in regardless how they look. They're dead souls with no hope of repentance. They're REBROBRATES. They're literally a vessel for satan at that point. What you seeing in the video is a demonically puppetted person.
so she could turn around and say, "if you weren't guilty you wouldn't be this upset"
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That shit triggered me so hard. How can you be such a piece if shit, that you try to put blame back on the person betrayed and wronged.
@@Kurt_Duaneits the common mindset of people now a days, no personal responsibility. It's always someone else's fault not their own. it's gotten so bad its even affecting people that were raised in a time of personal responsibility.
This touched me going through what I'm going through even after 10yrs it still breaks my heart and cuts me deep
You seem sad man.
My mom teamed up with someone and did something similar to me, for refusing an arrangement with a man her age while I was 12. They were waiting for me to start my cycle and I'd be married to him. So I hid it the first time I got it and got pregnant before they could find out I hit maturity. Gravitated towards violent men, because regardless of how they treated me, they'd take care of anyone that touched their kids. Being old school, they didn't hit women, so I was physically safe. Hid the pregnancy until I was too far along for it to be deleted. Was sent away, and pressured to sign away my baby, so I can complete the arrangement. My mom made up lie after lie so everyone would flip on me, I'd have no support system and be forced to give up custody. So I did the lesser of the evils and moved in with my child's father's family instead. I'll take gang bangers over pe****iles any day. My reputation was absolutely destroyed and I lost everything and everyone because of the rumors. Still never really recovered my lost faith in humanity. But my kid got away, at least. Now my sister died and I have to step up and care for my mom after all she did. Not sure how I can pull that off, because these women are walking demons. I wonder how people maintain a healthy relationship/boundaries with their mom after learning the truth. Who's going to take care of her after seeing what she is capable of. I wish people talked about this subject more.
On the real; even movie villains aren't this diabolical.
at least most villains have some sort of justifiable reason that they simply take too far. This was just awful
Calling someone diabolical is assuming that they are intelligent and in total control of their "master plan". This is an old lying b that's all. Dime a dozen
@@youngshaun92 lol I'm sorry...I don't consider lying to yourself and everyone around you intelligent and in control. People who get caught up in lies are not in control. The lie was in control she couldn't even convince herself to tell the truth on her own due to her disillusioned pride. Not in control of self. Not smart. Just destructive. Ps she didn't even get what she wanted in the end...so definitely not smart.
Your not the real doctor khumalo
@@violetflame2111 she should be jailed!! She has no remose for her actions.
"You should have fought harder for them" Translation from narcspeak: "I wanted to watch you struggle and suffer more"
Narcs have a wonderful way of blaming their victims for their abusive behavior and its never enough what they put you through. If you call it out thats when they double down to attack your character even more.
The man should've chosen a better mate to sleep/conceive with
@@karabokhwiane7593 you dont know how people can change up on you when things get ugly
Narcspeak?
@@sheikhu1039 narcissist/narcissistic
This hits home… I really hope videos like this help raise awareness because it happens way more than you think.
THIS is why i believe false rape or sexual assault claims should be punishable by significant jail time.
This makes me thankful for my mom. Even when I had problems with my dad she refused to say anything negative about him. She encouraged me to have a relationship with him and tried to help me understand things I couldn't as a child. This woman is not a mother, she's a vindictive witch who uses human beings as pawns.
I thought she was going to start crying and say sorry. When I heard “why didn’t you fight for them harder” I nearly punched my phone in the face.
i can relate to that. i'm happy for you didn't let that video get the best of you. so, excuse for a second.... i'll have to go browse for a new computer screen....and a new mouse ;)
Gene1 X, Narcissism. Accepting responsibility is not going to happen. I was surprised to "hear the words sorry" even though not meantful. Still it takes alot for them to utter the words. "sorry".
Yeah I almost launched my phone into orbit.
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"not the nose ! please not the nose!"
"Sometimes a toxic mother is worst than an absent father"
This needs to be acknowledged more, because its such an unpopular idea
@Galva Tron especially in a world that silences our opinions just because we've got a shlong
Idea??? Its a FACT
Thats cause it is the minority
what that women can err
Not sometimes...always
Even a year later, I still can't believe the audacity of this woman.
My BM took my daughter away from me without telling me because I moved on and upgraded my life. I used to have my daughter everyday and drive 2 hours to take her to school, eventhough you still moved from apartment to apartment, from hotel to trash ass motel. I got a house so my daughter and her older sister (not my child) can have their own bed (and room). She left and I didn’t have contact with her for 9 months. I was put on CS and didn’t know until I got pulled over and was advised by the police when I got pulled over. These women will destroy a life. I went into the biggest depression and contemplated unaliving myself numerous times. I got divorced and lost my way because of it. She had the biggest smile because of what she did to me. I’ve learned to pick myself up, but I lost a giant part of my identity due to that. Men fight for your kids!!!!
This made me cry. These girls literally grew up thinking their dad molested them. That is so sad. That mom obviously didn’t care about her girls either.
the dad? hes in the most hurt
The girls knew it was a lie. They just were afraid to speak
The one most affected by this is the father..thats it.
@@renogunzddragon1900 you've never been raped by someone that's supposed to protect you the girls were also very hurt and heartbroken
@@neneodonkor they were children. They were under the primary care of their mother. As children they probably knew the truth but we're afraid to speak!
Iyanla snapped!! “What is it HE could have said to make you not believe the lie YOU were telling?”
That’s a terrible mother.
The apology needs to be louder than the disrespect. Amen
A toxic mother is worse than an absent father because the father has no rights because the woman has law on her side
So, it's HIS fault that she LIED on him, because he "should've fought harder"? That's insane! 🤦🏾♂️
himode we can condemn actions without being raging incels. It is clearly not all women.
@@AnObviousMjolnir I dont get how incel is a bad thing can you explain
AnObviousMjolnir its never all women, but its way too many. We let women get away with shit like this and so only the best ones chose to be accountable even though they don’t need to.
A man should not have to fight for being a father a woman should not be trying to make it hard for a man to be a father
himode Facts!
"Why didnt you fight them harder if you knew you didnt do it" Never hit a woman, but as Bill Burr said, here is one more reason.
Never hit a woman? Even if she tried to kill you? then you weak.
@@Navrozs that's part of the joke in one of Bill Burr comedy special. If you haven't watched it, then it would be hard for you to understand the context of Op's comment.
Bruh 😆
TUNA CASSEROLEE AGAIN!?? _Thwaap_
Hell yeah Bill Bur said it right!
It does happen all the time, my friend was accused of doing it to his son and daughter, he killed himself, it ruined his whole life, but they were lies, after his death the mother of the kids told the truth, it was devastating, another good man taken from his children and family is devastating, women who do this should be on jail for life, he tried to hold on, he just couldn’t take it anymore
Your quote about turning the other cheek when you don’t have one was absolutely amazing.
“Why didn’t you fight for them harder” 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦 evil is evil
That's a shit test gone to the extreme.
And she is still at it!!!
Projecting is classic narcissist behavior.
“Why didn’t you fight harder” That line is, at least, top 5 toxic things you can say. People talk so much shit about men abandoning their children but never stop to think “Why does he have to FIGHT to be involved?” Women are out here telling men “You should have fought hard(er)” rather than telling their knucklehead friends “Stop fighting that man if he’s trying to be in his child’s life.”
That deserved a slap.....like i feel bad nobody did....str8 up lol
That’s why I tell chicks off rip, if we end up having a baby and u become mad toxic, I’m just gonna leave. I’m gonna abandon the situation. I’m not fighting for shit
@@joewill9967 Yeah, then watch that very toxic female start spewing lies and hatred about you to your child, which then might spread to your friends/family.
KhronosTrigger right
Joe Will that’s a fact
I hate apologies when it’s asked for. It’s never sincere. The person should always apologize of their own free will
A toxic mother is worse than an absent father.
"FIGHT HARDER"
The context in which this evil witch dropped this line sums up why more and more men don't wish to fight at all anymore.
He wouldn't need to fight at all if she just didn't lie
Beyond men not wanting to fight an almost impossible legal battle, men have to think extremely hard about even living with a woman or having unprotected sex, because once in a defacto relationship or a child is produced your at risk.
He wouldn't fight her lies back in the day. There is barely a defense against a mother lying like this today. Majority of men accused still lose their kids today. You can't fight the system and win as a man.
How do you even fight to be around your kids while people believe you want to fuck them. The harder you push the more people think you're a wrongen
You spoke truth with that statement
I love how he said " This is no game, this is these children's life". He is putting his children in front of himself even though he's probably hurting the most. What a man!
That’s A Man’s Man Right There.
Brotha Took All The Bullshit, And Still Put His Children First.
What I had learned after living on this earth for 54 years is that COURAGE, HONOR, INTEGRITY are men's attributes, not women's.
Andy L Nope. I know many women who show those attributes and many men who don’t. It just depends on the individual...
@@Tummie39 Exactly. There are women who can be like that but they are man's attributes.
@@superchargedhelium956 Not in today's society. The media, courts and online forums are ALL BIASED FOR WOMEN. The few who aren't are smeared as woman haters and belittled.
I’ve heard stories like these. Most of it was after divorce and the mother’s did this only to take the kids from their fathers.
This woman has put up walls 100 miles thick around her, and she's not letting anybody in.
"Hurt people hurt people."
Yeah, but they still hurt people.
People are strange, when you're a stranger
Most hurt people actually don't hurt people. They make better choices.
Hurt people who haven’t done the work to fix themselves up hurt people. Hurt people who have done the work make sure they don’t hurt others the way they were hurt.
Grey i get what you’re saying.. but in life, we’re all going to get hurt at some point. So no I don’t feel for those who go around abusing others because they were abused. The cycle was CREATED. Its not just some happening of chance. These are CONSCIOUS decisions and the fact that we see the abuser as a “victim” would justify there actions. Do you think ppl like this ever stop to think that they are harming somebody? No because they are too busy focusing on the fact that they were did wrong. Im speaking from experience on both sides. Ive been both the abuser and the abused. It didn’t stop until I got stop being told i was the victim. I didn’t change until I realized that regardless what I went through it was WRONG of me to put anybody else through it. Its hard to look at ourselves and say we are wrong, its a blow to the ego many can’t handle. And people who have dealt with abuse have WEAK EGOS so that one blow can crush them.
We as a people have to stop making excuses for those who make excuses for themselves. Its simply not healthy.
@slickityslickness eyes tell you so much about a person.
Society doesn’t acknowledge toxic moms enough. They are allowed to operate as they please and harm who ever they see fit with no punishment and society will see this POS mother and then protect her like she is a diamond. Wise up people!!
SOCIETY HELPS MOTHERS BE MORE TOXIC
saddleheadson facts the system is against men/husbands/fathers
Toxic women know they can lie, they choose heinous lies too. They’re protected and assisted in these lies and it’s downright evil.
It seems Black moms haven't benefited from this privilege.
MALE LIVES MATTER ✊
I lived thru that myself, not as the father but one of the children. I was fairly logical because when I heard the bad things my mother said I just thought about how she was the one who cheated on him and left him. Ultimately both weren't very good parents and I just keep to myself as much as I can.
I grown up in this environment, it’s peak toxicity. How are you suppose to learn to love family when all you’ve grown up on is that petty inflammatory back and forth. Both parents been marrying, divorcing, etc…you eventually become numb to welcoming others in your life because all you get is hurt and hypocrisy; it leaves you completely fractured as a person; I’ve come a long way, but I’m still a long ways from picking up my pieces. If anything, breaking out of my bubble and comforts have been the best changes in my life, and acquiring some real knowledge, wisdom, and experience.
Anyone that can relate to that, I hope you find that source of love or outlet that brings you peace and wellness (in a healthy way)
“Why ain’t you fight harder for them if you know you didn’t do it?”
You know what, I’m done with this video. Goodbye. Thanks for the content.
And that's the mentally of toxic women or toxic people in general.
" I refused to take all the blame for all the action I'VE taken, so you need to take a part of the blame"
When people play that card it infuriates me.
Bruh!! That question had me like
"Huh... Wha... Wutt? HUH??? Wh....wha.. the fuck???"
@Xinny The Flu Yep and some people praise themselves for doing what they're supposed to do.
"I feed him, put a roof on his head, buy him clothes, gave him a bed to sleep"
UM... YES, YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DO THAT!
I heard my mothers voice in her voice and I almost clicked out as well
Had he “fought harder” she would have twisted it and he’d probably be dead due to her lying. Women do this a lot and they have no shame, but they want men and to be married? Fuck out of here!
"Why didn't you fight for them harder?"
I'm sure nobody in that room would've been mad if that man had reached across and slapped that Franklin the turtle looking woman out of her seat when she said that.
haha I don't even know Franklin the turtle but this had me cracking, Hilarious one
LOL I remember that dude! Yeah, if there was ever a person who deserved a B slap it is her
I was thinking the same thing.
Don't do Franklin like that, she look like Squidward from Spongebob Square Pants.😮🤣😂
@@missfleming5465 Don't do squid ward like that lol, woman looks the last time she looked good , Mullets did as well
This is heartbreaking, absolutely tragic. There’s no getting the time and life they had back, all because of selfishness and spite
My parents went through something similar to this. My dad did lie about my mom approaching the house with a car of her friends and “scoping out the place.” He got a restraining order on my mom and since she couldn’t afford housing around our schools area she had to move down to our grandparents place an hour and a half away and get her professional life back on track after being a stay at home mom. My shady grandparents had also gifted the house that belonged to my great grandparents to my father and mother when they had kids. However, they made sure only my fathers name was on it and my mom didn’t really question it since she really believed at the time she’s be with my dad for life. But when the divorce happened, that meant that by far the most expensive asset was legally not hers even as a wife. It was selfish and I recognized that something about the split wasn’t right subconsciously because my mom had no money or career, had to find cheap housing and was struggling to find income til she found a job a thousand miles away. Finally got to a point where she could work remotely and spend more time with us so the two of us three kids who hadn’t graduated high school went to family court to let ‘em know we want to be with our mom for the majority of the time even if that means moving and switching schools. Ended up being a great decision and was able to visit my dads on weekends
This hits home. My ex wife had been lying to the courts for almost 11 years. I haven't seen my kids in 11 YEARS. I only hope one day my children see through her lies and realize how much I love and miss them.
Sorry about that i tell you it is important to take note of who carried your seed.
@StoneBoiii420 Nope. She used the common misconception that I am a Combat Vet and have chronic PTSD. I caught her having an affair and that morning went to the police to have me removed. No judge will EVER side with a former special operations soldier with severe combat PTSD.
@StoneBoiii420 how do you figure?
@StoneBoiii420 Buddy, I'm a retired 19D4 with 2B, 2P, B4, and B6 ASIs. Not SF.
@StoneBoiii420You really got a problem dude!
There's absolutely no remorse in her voice and body language.
Notice the way she tried to reverse the situation on him? She still was trying to blame him for everything, just like any other female would.
She knows she can get away with it , Its sad. They can get away with 25 YEARS, of torment , and lies , and un merited hate , and so much more. Why ? Because if you are a man your problems don't exist anymore. And if you are a woman it is ALWAYS the mans fault.
@@tròbidjyacoulae13678 they are diagnosticated or u just think they are.
Shes seem to be a narssactic
dead behind the eyes like a shark
The sad thing is his reputation is still ruined, it’s not like everyone’s gonna watch the lie detector reveal, this is gonna follow him for the rest of his life
"Why didn't you fight for your kids harder?", asked the evil witch. If it wasn't for the moderators and children, she would have gaslit him again and avoided accountability.
she also fed her kids this lie, imagine the kids growing up thinking they were abused and their dad is evil. so awful
The Trauma just continues now they can't look at men in a positive light.
Or they at least know it’s something that’s a possibility of happening to them growing up by being exposed to the false accusations or put them at risk of it actually happening by someone else. It’s robbing children of their innocence
This will become a generational trauma bet.
It's so fucking awful. What an evil evil woman.
@@ClingyKiwi that’s an unfortunate perspective. Hopefully any female who endures this by their p.o.s mother can overcome it and break cycles.
@@M.j.7 Of course hopefully they can just overcome it, but reality is that something like this can be hard to just pick up and move on.