Why male managers are uncomfortable being alone with women
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- čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
- Apparently Gayle King and Sheryl Sandberg cant imagine why men are afraid to be alone with women. Watch them gaslight this entire interview.
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22 years ago I came home from work. My neighbors girlfriend had gotten drunk in the afternoon, and came into my house when she locked herself out of his.
When I came home I went in the bathroom to take a piss, and she was passed out in my bathtub. I called him and told him that his old lady was drunk and in my bathroom, and that he should probably come home. He asked me to check and make sure she was alive. I went to check her pulse. She sprang out of the shower and started screaming at me "what are you doing in here, you don't belong here. HELP RUDY! HELP!!!" I tell her "calm down Anette, you're in my bathroom, and I just came home from work. Everything is ok, get some clothes on. I already called rudy, he's on his way."
So Rudy gets there and she tells him some story about how I tried to rape her. He is telling me he's gonna murder me. I have the cops come out because he's broken one of my windows. The neighbor had to explain to him that I hadn't been home all day like she claimed. Luckily he was mowing his lawn when I came home and I talked to him at the mailbox. Well the neighbor also saw her come home about 20 minutes earlier with some guy. She'd been cheating, and didn't want to get caught. Rudy, believing her. Told people everywhere that I tried to rape his girlfriend. It's been proven I never did anything to her. She kept spreading the rumor at work "a bar" and it got her fired from her job. I took her to court to get a judgement against her. Which she's never paid. I have been vindicated "legally". I still have people tell me they heard that I tried to rape a woman though. 22 fuckin years later. It's still heard around town, after one weekend of it being spread through some bars! Hard to own a business when 22 years after a false accusation people come in to harass you about it in front of customers. They're just starting to use these tactics on social media now, but this is nothing new. The false accusations have been destroying men for longer than any of us have been alive.
Hang in there man that’s an unfortunate circumstance that all men fear happening to them god bless
What a story!!!!...so glad u are off the hook...this is why u can't help people more so WOMEN....dude its MUCH easier NOT dealing with women...
Jack the ripper
Voice of Reason 4u There’s still a lot of woman who are compatible with men if you’re gay just say that then 🤣 or just say you celibate because mgtow does not mean not interacting with woman more so like a guaranteed interaction where you are Scott free an hour later 🤔😏
@@thatagain0754 he is free to live how he wants he does not have to be gay wtf, the only advise i will give him is don't pujt himself in a position where his wealth is tied to any woman, don't move them in and if he wants a children find a surrogate
Woman: “You took everything from me!”
Mailman: “I don’t even know who you are.”
Are you quoting Thanos?
yeah thats a thanos qoute
She says that until she's waiting on that w2 and the mailman doesn't come 😂
➏➏➏ lol.
Leftist : Believe all women
I wish women who gave false witness would go to jail... PERIOD...
For life
Marques Hardison not enough. A woman who lies about being raped should be doing time at a brothel for trying to ruin a man’s life.
I agree but it'll never happen.. For those females that pull ish like that, I wish the worse possible fate on them.
I completely agree because these heifers around here ruining lives for no damn reason
robinlue2008 well damn...
After my ex girlfriend and i broke up because she fully came out as lesbian, we both agreed to stay friends. But after she started sleeping with my good friend (who’s a guy), it was too much weirdness for me so i ended my friendship with both of them. She was so offended that I didn’t want to be friends with her, she told her family and friends that i molested her.
I was arrested at my house, my parents kicked me out, i lost most of my friends, and now i’m in a legal battle with her.
DON’T IGNORE RED FLAGS
UPDATE PLEASE!!!!!
Please still be alive 🙏
Good luck dude
How's things?
I WOULD REALLY REALLY Like to know how this turned out... please give an update....
A friend of mine's brother, had a girl that he was involved with. He decided that he wanted to break-up with her so he did so. She spazzed out of course, they got into an argument, and he left her apartment. The next day, he started getting calls from people threatening to beat him up and kill him because she accused him of raping her and beating her up. Things got so out of hand that the police/law even ended up getting involved. He lost his job, he lost friends. It was all bad. He eventually got so exhausted from trying to clear his name that he committed suicide. Poor man was only 19 at the time. Just beginning his journey into adulthood. After the fact, she confessed that she lied about it to one of her friends and laughed. She even had the audacity to say that she taught him a lesson. This girl literally smashed her own face and cut herself up just because she was mad he didn't want to be with her anymore. The friend told on her and of course she denied ever saying it. People started turning against her (others still believed her story). She ended up having to go off the grid because of the amount of hate she was getting. It was a crazy time. So I understand how men would feel nervous about that. There are really some crazy ones out here that are just so evil in spirit that they would literally stop at nothing to destroy these men. It's truly disturbing.
Off topic, but while you were in high school… how was it? With that last name..
@@UnknownNev like any other high school experience in the 2000s. It's just a name. Simple.
@@UnknownNev what's wrong with it
@@UnknownNev grow the fuck up
@@mrmoosetachio miss me with the anger. You know how children can be.
"If you're innocent you've got nothing to fear" is one of the weakest arguments one can make for anything
@That One yep the black woman said that
Tell every innocent black man on death row the exact same thing...
ikr, It's almost like no one has ever heard of people being set up.
Look at what Amber Heard did to Johnny Depp. He was crucified by the media, even though we all know now from the audio tapes that Heard was the abuser.
say to whoever tells you that to give you all their passwords to social media and give them the same reasoning, see how they react
So the mailman was stalking her because he was showing up at her place everyday.... delivering her mail🤦♀️.
Tania I’ve never seen that video before 😂😂 most guilty men show their guilt when they’ve been caught in the act. But he genuinely turned around like “wtf”.
Facts he looked like wdf
That crazy bitch is obviously hearing and seeing things in her imagination like she's schizophrenic or something.
That was priceless.
She sound like a damn fool.
That woman who was harrasssing that mailman was the reason why people in the victorian era thought female hysteria was a thing
it was why women werent allowed to vote or have power for thousands of years. There's a reason women can't give witness unless corroborated by multiple men in Islam
They may have had a point
Pretty sure its proof that it is a thing
@@TheMidnightKarneval Dude I understand this stuff is bad but don't just justify women not being allowed to vote and stuff. These are bad apples, which exist in both men and women. And especially don't justify Islam's treatment of women.
@@koustavchatterjee9974 and yet women will use examples of men acting poorly to restrict the whole gender. I'm merely playing by the rules they set. So stop simping. Did your wife's boyfriend give you permission to browse this video?
I worked for a guy who had two women make EEOC complaints against him, claiming sexual harassment and discrimination of promotion due to their sex (when they wouldn't put out, raises were withheld). He was let go, and they hired a woman from a competitor to take his place. Later the two women were at a conference with several other people on our staff and over drinks bragged about lying to oust him because he wasn't giving them raises. He literally had no say in their pay structure, and was a married man with children. Sickening doesn't begin to describe it. That is toxic femininity. I left that place, and to my knowledge both still work there. Privilege.
These modern women are like scorpions, and any man who helps them is a frog taking the scorpion on his back in order to help her cross the river
Mistake number one: They got an all female cast talking on issues of men.
Mistake number 2: They are not taking responsibility for their hand in all this.
There were a couple guys
How are they not taking responsibility they took all the power they could logically to help the female out
Josiah Connell Beta males, only one said something and then he let her wave his question aside.
There probably are a few girls who see this getting as worse as it is, but I start to feel that most are extint for the next year... it starts to feel unjust even for me, I've never commited or tried to or had it in my mind, but if the logic used is that because I like games and women, I am guilty of existing and should be brought into justice... Is there even a reason to pretend this doesn't happen? I mean... if I deserve punishment for something I haven't done then I guess I'll take the blame and live with it because I have to man up and don't want someone to drink my tears
@@honestfriend767 If he played devil's advocate any further CBS would have probably replaced his ass. Just like the 60% of men they were talking about, not betas, just dudes wanting to ensure their damn livelihoods
"If a man is not doing anything wrong he has nothing to worry about. " Two words >Johnny Depp.
Poor guy his wife/ girlfriend cut his finger off
@@coltonchristy7722 whaaaaat
And in that case the poor guy has hard ass evidence that she was beating him! It is so sad men are so badly treated these days.
If one of the richest and most famous guys in the world with mountains of evidence stands no chance you best bet no normal man is going to be alone with a woman at work.
Exactly, and these are precisely the same people who would have jumped on the JD hate train as soon as the allegations first broke. And the *only* thing that will (hopefully) save him are the voice recordings. He would be beyond fucked if he didn't have those.
"Emmett Louis Till (July 25, 1941 - August 28, 1955) was a 14-year-old African American who was lynched in Mississippi in 1955, after being accused of offending a white woman in her family's grocery store."
The woman on her death bed admitted she lied.
A sad but important event that defined the Afro American civil rights movement. I've seen the images on Jet magazine and it was the most gruesome thing I've ever seen. Heard about it the first time on a Dave Chappelle stand up routine and i read up about it. That woman was the absolute worst, destroying the life of that kid and his entire family like that.
When I was in high school, I was accused of rape. I’ve never raped anyone in my life, and never would. I’ve stopped a rapist before. But anyway, I’m a tall guy - closer to 7 feet than 6 feet. I was walking down the stairs after class, walking to my next one, and my knee bumped into the backpack of the girl in front of me on the stairs. I said sorry, and kept moving.
By the middle of the next period, I had the deans office calling me down, had to talk to all kinds of administrators, and I saw that girl in the office bawling fake tears about how I threw her to the floor and tried to rape her.
IT NEVER HAPPENED. She made the entire thing up. Word spread at school. I became known for being a suspicious possible rapist. It took years to clear my name and I bet there are still people who believe I’m guilty to this day.
She never faced any consequences for lying about me and ruining my reputation.
Bruh that is so fucked
Thats fucked up. She should have gotten in trouble.
Da faaawwk??😳😳😖
Take her to court mate
In India we don't have separate schools, just one school from 1st to 12th std.
So I transferred to this new school in 9th std and was in 10 th std at that time, I knew a kid in 6th std who lived in the adjacent colony so we knew each other well.
One day during Annual function prep week during which most teachers and participating students were busy in dramas etc.
I with some of my friends were in ground during free time so the Kid saw me and asked me to join his class (during prep week most teachers were busy so a lot of classes used to be free and sometimes if any class makes trouble usually some senior was send to control it) so I asked if anyone is assigned to your class ? He said no , so I thought why not , I haven't met him for several months.
So I went to the class , he introduced me to his friends and then I sat with them at last bench , taught them few maths tricks and astronomy , geography , history interesting facts etc
and then we started playing pen fighter, cards
and then suddenly a female teacher entered the class and we started hiding games and stuff! lol!
And then a girl stood up.
and I thought fck she is going to snitch on us! What was I thinking!
Did I forgot how girls use to be 3-4 yrs ago?
And then the girl said - " This guy touched me down there !"
And I got blanked! Standing there on my feet just staring at the teacher , I hear nothing after that the only thing I saw was that teacher's face!
Words couldn't come out of my mouth, I hear my heart beating one by one.
I got super shocked and stiff!
fortunately before I could collect myself up , another girl stood up and told - "that she is outright lying and nothing of that sorts happened and that she is sitting one bench apart and he is sitting surrounded by 6 boys and the moment he came in he hasn't moved from his bench!"
And then the whole class stared nodding and chatting.
And I realised that I got 99 in Math and I didn't thought of this! And I was the one who was teaching them tricks! I just got killed and saved in a Minute!
When I walked out of that class I just looked at the bright sunlight on the ground like walking from darkness to light.
That 1 min had that effect on me that even after a decade the scariest movie for me is - Atonement.
I never managed to get pass that scene till now!
I sneezed in front of a woman. My trial begins on Saturday.
EDIT: Hmm... well shit
XD😂😂😂😂
Black Santa 😂😂😂
😭😭😭😭😭
You harassed her with your germs, how appalling!
ho lly
A friend of mine was killed by his Mother joe not getting off his video game. There are women who burn their exes houses down for cheating. There are women who falsely accuse men of rape because they wouldn’t be with them. There are women who sabotage cosmos so they can trap men in a relationship. There was one case I ready where a woman raped her friend because he didn’t want to be with her and forced him to get her pregnant.
Hmmm
You know another weird thing I went thru as a man. I raised my daughter on my own...almost all the women I met thought it was weird a father raising his daughter by his self. School teachers, when I went to parent teachers meeting they asking me what's my relationship to my daughter, and where's the mother... like it's impossible I'm raising a Lil girl...a man can't step up and raise his daughter cause it's weird to society, and not accepted. Women I dated thought it was weird my daughter and I were close...I was the only person she had and she's blood...how can we not be close? smmfh. they complain about men being deadbeats but when he is responsible...it's weird. As a result I have no interest in meeting new people or dating. At my job I don't talk to anyone. It's always just been my daughter and I...when I see videos like this I just get frustrated cause it's not getting better...it's gotten much worst to the point it's barely talked about. I can't wait until this world ends.
You mean until the USA ends because they are the biggest contributor to the fucked up state of the world with rampant capitalism and plastering their shit ideals all over. Social media like Facebook and Instagram have created spaces for poisonous people to congregate and fester bullshit and misinformation. Many things were better before social media took off.
@@hainleysimpson1507 I totally agree with that...you hit the nail on the head.
Yeah but a drug abuser mom is told she's mom of the year everyday LMAOOO THE INSANITY
and I guarantee you, your daughter is going to be one of the most level headed people anyone can ever meet because she was raised by a male. there I said it.
i genuinely appreciate you
Man, I patted a girl on the back to get her off her phone, and get back to the job. Because I couldn't get it done on my own. She came in the next day bruised all over. Said I assaulted her. I get fired, 2 days later her boyfriend is arrested for battery. I will never work with a girl again.
Wow....
Ain't that some bull....
Women voted against Equal Rights Amendment in 1923.
Men being seen as creeps around kids always breaks my heart. I first learned this when I was 16 visiting a national park. I found a little kid crying unattended. When I asked what's wrong, she said she couldn't find her parents so I escorted her to the nearest park staff. The kid's parents intercepted me, grabbed their daughter and the Dad threatened me with violence for kidnapping their kid. They even called the cops. THANKFULLY security cam footage exonerated me. I'd hate to think what'd happen otherwise. Honestly if I see another lost kid, I'm minding my own dam business.
That’s so sad I’m so sorry that happened to you.
That's an instant worry I'd have if I was in a similar situation. Feel kinda bad to say, but I would leave a child right where they're at and at the most would try to get someone else involved (preferably a woman) so I wouldn't look like a creep trying to take the opportunity of kidnapping a child.
@@justinpearson9170 I've had similar issues trying to admin CPR to incapacitated women. White knights thinking they're defending a damsel by stopping me from helping her breathe then tell the cops that I was assaulting her.
To bad you did not fil for parent neglect
@@temujinkhan6326 You don't have kids. It shows. It takes a village for a reason.
"Don't stalk me ever again."
*one week later*
"So I've been waiting for a package and it still hasn't arrived"
The way he turned around had me weak, its funny cuz he was stunned when he realized she was referring to him
Lmfao spot on
....package... ?? 🤯🤯🤯😂
@@nydeviantgaming6872 He was shook to his core at the audacity.
lmao straight up, poor dude was just looking for packages when she pulled up on him
“Privilege is invisible to those who have it.”
This quote perfectly sums up the whole false accusation situation between men and women, I truly believe women don’t know and cannot fathom what it is like to be on the receiving end of a false rape and or assault accusation, it is the most gut wrenching and most anxiety inducing thing I have EVER had to unfortunately experience, it comes down to this, plain and simple, women need to stop this false accusation shit, especially since it’s just so unnecessary, evil, and damaging.
Aba I’m sorry that happened to you man. Same thing happened to me. It’s ironic because I was literally mentoring a woman I wanted to see succeed. I was always extremely professional at all times and always had people around when I spoke to her. One day I was strategizing her performance review with a couple of new managers and she momentarily overheard me giving her criticism however she didn’t hear me going over the ways we could change our approach to enable her to be more successful. An hour later I was sent to HR because a sexual harassment complaint had been made against me. I was later passed over for a promotion even though I had a performance review that said promote immediately above peers. I’m actually not mad about the promotion because who knows maybe it was unrelated, however I become furious inside every time I even think about her false accusation.
You mentor some women and they start to think your job is easy and if they make a false accusation, you will be removed and they can have your job.
It's unfortunate that it's "weird" for a man to teach a kindergarten. The best teachers I had were mostly men.
Bruh!!! This is the truth!!! As a young man having male teachers that were good at their jobs but also gave you important life lessons were key. I will always have mad love and respect for those dudes.
Big fax
Urbansledder 7 Me too. My favorite high school teachers are men.
It sucks. Children's curiosity and I love teaching them things and explaining things to them but a grown man being around a bunch of kids that are not his is frowned upon
Yeah, it's the opposite on my part ( all my favourite teachers we're female) but it might also be the fact that we were of the same gender so I was feeling a lot closer to them and I kinda developed a sense of relaitability with them. It is important especially for young kids to find someone they can relate to, someone bright with good ethics. Both genders are highly important for an effective educational system
That mailman looked so confused 😂😂😂... some women are really crazy 🤦🏾♂️
From what I remember that woman has mental issues I think she has a whole CZcams with videos similar to this.
@@no_player_commentary where did you get that from? They said 'that women' not 'most'
@@Ironkhight r/whoosh
@@kevinpereira6417 eh, idk bud. I can't really hear the sarcasm. Must be next level.
Velmat it’s sarcasm! He’s referring to the Jordan Peterson / Cathy Newman interview
This is so sad. I remember in high school, my younger sister wanted to have one of her friends sleepover at our house. But her friend’s mom told my mom that she won’t feel comfortable with her daughter at our house unless my brothers weren’t at home for the weekend. And my brothers were tall athletic black guys, so my mom being reasonable and not wanting any drama, she had my brothers spend the weekend at their friend’s house. At least their was a “warning” beforehand. Otherwise my brothers could have easily been accused for something they didn’t do. A crazy world we live in.
I am sure your brothers are good people and I understand that it is a shame that they would be seen as bad, but the girl’s parent had her daughter’s protection in mind when saying so. I know a case when a girl went to a bestfriend’s house for a sleepover and her friend brought her brother in the room and let him rape her. So both girls and boys can have bad things happen to them if they are in the presence of the other gender. It’s a shame but it’s an evil world we live in. I myself am really guarded around men and I also fear that my brother could get falsely accused. Both men and women can be evil. I wish everyone justice for every person that has been raped and justice for the falsely accused.
It might not have been anything against your brothers, it's just a good rule to have. Too many girls just can't be trusted in that situation..
I’ll tell you what, me and my boss started flirting, eventually... messing around. But before anything sexual happened. He asked me to sign something, saying it was consensual, and not sexual harassment, and that I wouldn’t sue. I WAS FURIOUS!!! THATS WHAT YOU THINK OF ME?!!!! And he explained, no, I don’t think you would do that. But no man ever does. And I started thinking about it, and stopped making it about myself and was 100% in agreement with him. Because even when you been with someone for 10 years, sometimes you don’t know them. So why should I expect him to trust me 100% only after a few months?- and it wasn’t even that he didn’t trust me. But he owned a chain of restaurants. He had to take precautions.
Smart man... Video recording the whole thing it's usually helpful too. That's what I do. Some of the l@dies are not happy with it... and that is fine I just let them go.
Soo... did you get the promotion?
so ....whats the progress?
I’m 21 years old, I’ve held a consistent job at a retirement home since I was 18. I never had any complaints from my residents or fellow coworkers. Background knowledge most of the people I work with are PCA’s and nurses which are more times than not women in both occupations. I recently just got let go of my job after moving to a new building and turning a girl down who wanted to date me. She told the Boss that she felt uncomfortable workin with me. I had text messages of the girl showing how she tried getting at me and making advancements at work towards me. Didn’t matter she was a 19 year old white girl . And I’m a 21 year old black man with tattoos. It hurt me me a lot I can’t front, made my heart colder.
Update: Thanks for all the support and comments whether you gave positive energy or shared one of your own experiences. It was very much appreciated. I got a couple more classes left in my last semester of college. I’m content with that, and I didn’t pursue anything legally.
Dom-Kennedy Harris get your own business brother and don’t hire liabilities if you know what I mean
You might have to go to blue collar bro or own your own business. Blue collar is male dominated so you would have less of a risk for some retarded bitch to get you fired.
I work security, 3rd shift security will also keep you safe.
Since you have evidence. Sue the company for allot if money by looking for a make rights lawyer. You can use the settlement to start your own shit. I hope you can find a way to live with this though. Seek help if you must. All the best.
Expat In UK Biker Thought about it my man. Truthfully I don’t even know how to go about getting myself a lawyer. But thank you for the support my guy, appreciate it fr.
@@dom-kennedyharris148
Lawyers tend to stick to one long street every town you go. Just do some leg work and visit all if them until someone takes your case. Tell them they should only get payment on winning. No retainer shit.
Two years ago my wife and I are out for the evening and our tags had expired so we got pulled over. I gave my information to the officer he runs me and nothing comes back. We were in the parking lot of a store so we go inside and the next thing I know the cop comes back in and puts me in handcuffs for burglary with intent to commit assault. Two class A felonies. We lived in Louisiana and the warrant was out of Texas. I went to jail and had to wait to be extradited back to Texas. I did not really know why I was in jail IO just thought it was mistaken identity someone with a Similar name there are hundreds of Robert Rogers so I just thought it would get cleared up. T this point my wife and I had been together for 4 years it was not until two week later I am sent back to Dallas that I find out that an Ex Girlfriend that I had not laid eyes on since before I met my wife had almost two years earlier got in a fight with her new boyfriend he kicked in her door and beat her up. When the cops showed up she gave them my name to keep him out of jail. The police could not find her but still pursued charges against me. It took me almost 2 years and over 10k in legal fees to get the charges dropped. So forgive me if I dont believe any woman unitl I see evidence because anyone can say anyone did anything.
Damn now that's definitely a horro story in modern times....
wow
@@endthefed1448 true,hearing all these stories,sometimes I believe giving women equal rights was a mistake. I know this is extreme thought but the problem is society. Women are instantly believed and the man charged and burden of proof is on the man entirely. Both parties should prove their points and the cases should be handled discretely without publicising them. Any witness should sign NDA's and anyone breaking it should be charged. It's because that women can use the power of social justice even before legal justice by ruining the man that they make false accusations. If publicising was stopped and accusations can't directly lead to ruining someone,fake accusations will automatically stop since there is nothing to be gained out of it.
@@nitinbhattacharyya8784 yall wildin. I'm a woman and I side with dudes often. I like to mind my business. But revoking my rights because some dizzy bitches out here are nuts yall gotta chill.
@@SomeoneOnTheInternet855 I get what you saying, but I also see their point. It's extremism for sure, but what can we do to prevent this is these days if society is ok punishing men for just being male?
Respect, I’m in this situation and I miss my son. She won’t let me see him and he wants to see me . I cry a night bc of it. I feel like an atm instead of being a father. I pay 900 a month and I have to pay 1500$ a month and I can’t afford it . I can’t afford a home and I live with my uncle . It’s been 5yrs since I saw him last time. I drop his presents off on her Porch and she gets pissed that I do that . It makes me so depressed I can’t enjoy life anymore...
I hope things get better for you, mr. Harrison
Prayers for you friend may God give you peace in your heart and mind and may you be able to make progress in visiting your child
praying for you bruv
Please don't stop trying to have a relationship with your son. I hope that someday he will come to see the reality of the situation and the two of you will be able to develop a loving, deep relationship. Trust in Christ brother and keep do what is right. God bless.
Should've never planted your seed in her. Especially outside of marriage. When will men learn baby moms only cause trouble smh
That video about the mailman is the funniest shit.
"You talking to me?"
"I don't even know who you are!"
His face too.
"I see you at my mailbox every Tuesday and thursday at 10 am, you must be stalking me!"
i once told a female friend that i am scared that if i am alone with a woman she may use that time to falsely accuse me. she of course told me that my fear was ridiculous and would likely never happen but then refused to acknowledge the fear of every man on the street being a malicious and ambitious predator is equally as ludicrous.
I’m not surprised if men start to wear bodycams just to be sure...
@@deezzzie there's men out there that won't have sex anymore without a signed letter of consent.
@@benwatson5787 Beyond sad. What has the world become, right?!
"It is not that all women would do it to you, but that any woman can." K.Straughan
That is the fear. And probably she would face no repercussions. Unlike the men assaulting woman on the street
She's probably a crazy feminist. I've heard plenty of them ask questions like "why do men give high fives after they brag about raping a girl" like wtf is this shit happening e.e.
"It's not enough to not harass us, you can't ignore us either."
The audacity of that statement after the waves of false accusations, the #metoo movement and the state of the perception of men in society, is so ridiculous I'm not even sure how to address it.
female hippocrisy is all they need for that audacity
Good start is just walkin the fuck away
ctuan13 This is why I try and end my relationships on good terms
Here's how you address it.
"Did you say something?"
And to be exact how many false accusations have happened since the me too movement? I mean crazy white women have been falsely accusing black men for centuries but now all of a sudden it's like poor us white men.
Y'all crazy.
This is 100% true.
A friend of mine is a supervisor at a retail store who is married.
A girl who liked him flirted every time she came into contact with him. He went to his manager about it. Who was woman kinda blew it off.
She didn't like it. The girl then went to the same manager told her that the guy was grabbing her and trying to kiss her.
He got warning.
Also the accuser of Mark Pearson was apparently an actress in Game of Throne
The amount of girls who literally bully a guy with projecting insecurities that have nothing to do with him and then genuinely surprised why that person isn’t talking to them anymore is one of the most fascinating and sad things to me in modern society.
They think treating men like they would their female friends is fine. I blame this on women naturally having no spine and men coddling women from how harsh reality is.
Know a guy who was accused of rape. His life was ruined for months seen him crying at work over it. A few months later the girl told the truth. There should be prison time for that girl but nothing.
They do nothing to the woman they just get to walk away with no repercussions.
Same sentence that they were going to give the guy! As a sister of 3 brothers those kind of lies pisses me off! 😠
Same here. Left the state and changed careers
I was accused of raping a women in college - apparently she had cheated on her boyfriend and when he found out she instead claimed I raped her (btw, I had nothing to do with her at all, I just lived in the next door apartment). The cops picked me up and I spent a whole night in jail until they found out that the time she alleged I raped her I was 400 miles away playing in a chess tournament. The whole allegation was disproved in less than 48 hours and for YEARS afterwards I still ran into people who heard I was a rapist.
It's fucking horrible. What did the cops do about her false allegation? Nothing.
@@danlorett2184 that's weird the way it happened with the guy I know was pretty simular. She had sex with some guy while out drinking. Then for some reason blamed a guy who hadn't been near her for rape later that night. The police arrived at his home and took all the clothes he had been wearing he was arrested and branded a rapist til the woman told the truth due to the fact her lies were catching up on her. She should of been arrested and it should be put in the paper that she was lying as it seriously affects people.
Man: *Guilty before proven innocent
Woman: *Innocent before proven guilty
@Jay Morales In what world do you live where that's the case?
Women *innocent*
@@HandleUnclear missed the entire point. The court of social media, especially women will rail on the man accused and 100% beleive he should be castrated and thrown into a cell for life.
Jay Morales & Chi Fun ~uhhhhhhhh... Fuck You! Here;s the truth:
Man: *Claim made. Life ruined. Guilt or Innocence irrelevant.
Women: *Innocent until proven guilty. Sentence reduced or suspended. It wasn't her fault.
Just a quick correction.
Man: Guilty even before any accusation.
Woman: Only innocent, never can be guilty.
I work in an all-male company, and the work environment is simply GREAT. Period.
This made me cry because even though it actually happened to me it's scary that it can't be taken seriously because it get down played. Also, I always feel sorry for the victim (men) who been falsely accused because it sounds like you go through the same trauma as us actual victims of sexual assault which if not treated can cause PTSD. (Which I learn the hard way.) Everyone be safe
Says "stop stalking me" while literally stalking the man.
She has other videos of her talking to herself and what not.
She's a fucking nut.
@DMO Enterprises It became that way because of the first part of your comment....which answered the last part.
Now go and preach to the masses who are willfully blind and ignorant until they get hit with lawsuits and no due process
@@PrestonCormack YHGTBFKM! THAT'S CRAZY
Back in 2008, I was 19 and had started my very first job at Starbucks. About 6 months into the job there was one day I was at work and one of the male staff members had made an off handed comment in a conversation to me with the smug look on his face like he knew something. He told me "I should stay away from female staff..." I had no idea what he was talking about. So I asked him about it and he ignored me like I he had a problem with me. A few days later, I was called in to work on my day off over a false sexual harassment accusation by one of the female staff. She said I had been hitting on her and making obscene sexual comments about her regularly. Which was a lie. I asked them to launch an investigation and the managers of that store decided not to and believed her word over mine without and evidence or proof. Mind you, I'm a black dude and she was a blonde haired white girl. The funny thing about it all is that white women are not even my preference in the first place. Mind you, this Starbucks was located in a wealthy white beach town in San Diego California. I knew there is no way that me as a Black male have a chance in hell to fight off a sexual harassment claim by a white girl. I was asked to resign so it wouldn't go on my record or I can continue working there. However If she were to accuse me of something else, then I could get fired for sexual harassment and that will go on my record/work history. With that on your record, good luck finding a job in the future. Being a poor college student I didn't have the finance to fight it legally so I resigned. 2 years later I went to a wine shop were I had bumped into a guy I used to work with at that Starbucks. He told me he had quit because of the insane amount of drama that had happened after I left. He had told me that after I had resigned they had hired another guy who was fired months later for sexual harassment against the same female. He claimed it was false but they fired him anyway. Then they had hired another guy after him. He got fired for allegedly raping her and getting her pregnant. The regional manager of that store had found it suspicious that 3 new male employees were fired for sexual harassment against the same female employee in less than a year at the same store and decided to launch an investigation. They concluded that she had made a false rape allegation and not only did she get fired but so did the managers of that store. No legal action was taken against her by the way. That was my VERY first job. And because of that I do not associate with female employees unless I absolutely have to. And I refuse to be in a room alone with a female employee
Underrated comment
That's brutal. But so many of us have seen so much behavior like this. We're just never allowed to talk about it. Society does not know how to handle this except extremely poorly and callously.
Damn, all I can say is stay safe brother. Sorry to hear about losing that job but I believe you did the right move in leaving. Hope its better for you now.
all these stories make me so fucking sad. it's disgusting anybody is like that i almost wanna take the bluepill and not believe it
Truth bro, powdered serpents I tell you
I was 18 in lockdown started texting a old schoolmate from my city. She accused me of sexual assault, when in reality I had never touched her and had ever only spoken few sentences back when I was in school about just regular school stuff and she said and I quote-"I forgive u cause I don't hold grudges."As if I should be thankful to her for it even tho I did nothing.
Speaking as a male that recently resigned from working in a kindergarten/preschool education after 21 years, I experienced alot.! Loved seeing happy children grow and learn - whilst I feel alot of pride knowing I was part of that .. on reflection I have come to realise that I was out of my comfort zone EVERY DAY.
Funny thing is.my wife hates working with other women. She claims working with men gets stuff done. Working with women nothing gets done and its all about gossip and jealous power plays
She cheating on you! I'm just joking but be careful because it might be the case.
Treasure her shes precious
Heard of the tv studio that only hired women ? After hearing what the owner , whose idea it was to only hire women had to say , i am not surpirsed
She cheating she got a work husband
Drew she’s right. Working in nursing I can guarantee you that’s the case they rant and rave oh this this and this needs to be done and then nothing ever does and it’s always someone else’s problem
When I was accused in middle school of sexual harrassment, I was next to a girl in class, we argued, she then reported sexual harrassment. I was then arrested and my entire life almost ruined. By the time that the court date came by, the case was dismissed and i was found not guilty. Still haunts me to this day but I won't let a false accusation stop me, now I'm 2 months out from getiing out the the Marines honorably.
Very similar situation happened to me in high school, just not as serious. A girl claimed I followed her home in the middle of the night after one of our "dates" when I was really just walking her home. That shit bugs me; like Aba said, your kinda filled with a lot of anger and frustration even when you are innocent.. luckily it didn't tear my life apart but I can easily see how it could have.
A girl got mad at me for not giving her any attention, told me that she was gonna tell the principal I grabbed her ass in the hallway. So I cut class and went to library.
When I got called into the office, I had a time stamp of where I was vs where she claimed I was.
She got expelled.
However, that could've been bad for me. Principal called my mom to let her know that they were about to call the police to have me arrested. But the conversation she had got me a chance to at least state my case.
@@conquered.kozmos1395 damn, smart call man
@@carlossalazar972 They need to call these women out for a mental evaluation every time they falsely accuse someone or they accuse you and you know beyond a reasonable doubt your innocent.
@@conquered.kozmos1395 Smart move I would've advise tell a teacher, security guard exactly what she said right away or go to the principal's office 1st yourself and let the principle know exactly whats going on. Beat her to the punch before she beats you. Don't play play play around with these chicks, or get to friendly with them.
When the standard became "believe all women" regardless of the presence of evidence and the damage is done regardless of whether allegations turn out to be true, it becomes necessary to defend yourself. If da ladies are inconvenienced or held back in some way because of this, so be it.
this reminds me of the story I heard about how my granddad (61 now) was falsely accused by a woman he was dating of raping her daughter in the early 2000s with ZERO EVIDENCE all because she was just hurt that he wanted to break up with her and she wanted to ruin his life, he was then imprisoned for 5 years, had to register as a pedophile and a sex offender, had trouble finding a job to the point that he had to live with my aunt (r.i.p) and uncle for years, and missed the birth of his grandson (me), then last year, he ran into her at his favorite store (Zagaras, we all live in Ohio) and she asked how his life was going, he said it took all of the power within him not to slap her.
LOL, "Men Afraid of Women: Women Most Affected"
Logic can go f*** itself😂
Oh how the turn tables
just like Hillary Clinton's "Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat" quote, which apparently is an opinion that the United Nations even supports now, lmao, just goes to remind us how men have no inherent value unless they provide for others, and even then, they are always expendable
@@miscellaneousmedia3753 thats a different level of dumbness and manipulating people. Sure, women might feel sad cause they lost loved ones but isnt the guy who died should me more sad. And no credit for his death, literally there is no value for a comman man's life in this world. But some eyes are so blind to open and see the truth.
Men don't want to go to jail, or catch a charge!
Reading these comments was a trip. So I'm going to share mine too. When I was a child my mom assaulted my step dad (multiple times tbh). This time she pushed him down the stairs and attacked him. He pushed her to stop her and she went screaming to the neighbors that he was abusing her. The cops were called and thankfully before they did anything they asked me what happened and I was able to tell them she had started it. I'm pretty sure the cops just warned them not to fight around me because it was inappropriate and left. My step dad ended up leaving us one night and I honestly wasn't even mad. I really hope wherever he is that he managed to find peace and happiness. The phrase believe all women is so inappropriate. You should listen to both sides, evaluate the evidence, and trust your gut. Just because people claim something doesn't make it true. I'm so sorry for all the people out there who have been the victims of false accusations.
I honestly believe women who lie on men should be charged with criminal charges because it costs men like your step dad, women like us, and tax dollars for the courts to see it!
J Crawford firstly, I am so sorry you had to go through that. I sincerely hope that you are doing better now and have supportive people around you to lift you up. I wish that people could hear stories like yours and mine and be less biased. It was a similar reason with her honestly, everyone thought she was great because she was nice to everyone outside our house. I honestly wish that she had even received court mandated therapy but they literally didn’t do anything. And now when people ask and I explain they ALWAYS try to pressure me to go talk to her like....? What? If I told them my father had abused me and my mom they wouldn’t bat an eye about me not talking to him. It’s such a weird double standard.
This story makes me mad and sad at the same time, just like many other stories. If women go through the same thing, their stories are heard. Godspeed to your ex-stepdad. Also, since that women is your mom, I will stop myself from saying any bad words
Long ass comment ahead sorry. You know, I love my mom and she’s not a bad person but knowing her all my life I know what she can be like. She’s always had a very strong attitude and I’ve caught her lying so many times it use to piss me off. My step dad who is still with her after 20 years has his own problems but I think they mostly stem from the fact of how just manipulative my mom can be. But to be fair he has his own problems. My step dad has always been good looking and has had women flirt with him at work all the time but he allowed that shit back before he met my mom. Luckily back then things weren’t as bad so I’m sure he would’ve gotten falsely accused of something these days. Anyways my point is one day they start seriously arguing and my dad gets tired cause he knows he won’t win an argument with my mom so he goes to the room and shuts the door to get some peace. I was about 9 years old at the time but I clearly remember everything. My mom goes in the room like 30 seconds after my dad, maybe less and I go to the door because I’m worried and I start hearing them talk and my mom crying then I hear struggling shriek coming from my dad and then I hear a big thud so I get scared and start knocking on the door, I hear my mom cry in pain and my dads terrified and is asking if she’s okay but anyways apparently my step dad pushed her off the bed and she hit her hand pretty hard on some cabinets. After this whole situation when they came out the room, my memory is a little fuzzy there but I remember my dad saying to her or me that she started choking him while he was lying down. Apparently she mounted my dad and put her hands on his throat and I remember hearing that sound that somebody would make if they were being choked. One day when I’m older they get into another argument and she starts telling me alone“ you see how your father gets” even though I’m thinking to myself how hypocritical she is but so is my dad but in most fights I’ve seen my mother acts very crazy, yelling and cussing but as soon as my dad says one bad word, oh she flips it on him and makes him feel like the bad one. One days she tells me that he pushed her off the bed and nearly broke her hand and I told her I remember that because I was outside the door when it happened but I told her I also remember hearing you choke him so it was self defense. She got so mad and started to try and make me feel like an asshole or that I don’t remember things right cause I was just a kid. I understand memory is a fickle thing but not in this case. Usually traumatic or serious events like this are very easy to remember. That didn’t work on me. She knows I love them but I’m not the type to be manipulated, I’ve learned. I’ve grown up to be very weary of women just like I’m sure women grow up very weary to how men can be. I can say some stuff about my dad but nothing as important so just thought I’d share my experience. Again, my mom for the most part is a good person especially compared to her sisters and brothers. You have no idea how many times she has helped the family or how many times she’s given gifts and money to her nephews even though her sisters never appreciated it and never did the same for me when I was a kid. Thing is I try to be non bias and look at the facts and not get my view corrupted by feelings. I know the good and the bad about my mom and step dad. I believed if she ever tried to sue him for the still injured hand she has this day, I would’ve told the truth of what I heard. These days they’re mostly happy but...you know nothings perfect. Sorry for this being so long.
@@frankjaeger1711 Hey, family stories can be complicated! of course they are long! I'm glad that even though there went through patches you can see the good in your Mom and Dad. Despite the bad stuff, you still choose to see good in them which is awesome. I think everyone has at least some bad stuff you know? I definitely don't wish my mom ill, so please don't think that! I do wish she would accept professional help, but you can't force that on someone. However, I think where I come from is a little different because as I got older, I became her main target. And it sounds like your home life was difficult, but also positive? I hope you can respect that although your parents may have good, my mom didn't have enough good for me to validate letting her stay in my life. And because of that experience I try and go into new situations knowing that all people can make stupid decisions. (sorry for the long reply!)
"It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose"
-Picard
When I was like 22, I had to travel in a car alone with a slightly older female manager at 3AM for an inventory task at a different store. It was extremely awkward and uncomfortable and if the genders were reversed, they wouldn't have allowed it to happen at all.
The difference between sexual harrassment and flirting is if she is attracted to you or not. Lol
people aint ready to hear this yet bruh but you talkin faxxxxx
Buddy of mine did this freshman year. Same girl, same line, same night, I went first though after playing pong with her just trying to converse. Gets told she has a bf. Buddy goes 20 mins later, I see him knuckles deep in her. Mind you he has gf, I later found out she just don't fuck with black guys, but she's not racist
No. Not at all.
@@ljay3025 nah people need to hear this even if they aren't ready.
I was joking with a male co worker and someone said "watch out that's sexual harassment." When I said Its only sexual harassment if someone complains, the guy looked shocked. The co worker who I was joking with busted out laughing
I work for a big federal agency, for about 14 years. The amount of false accusations I've discovered is staggering. The most shock is when I am told that we can't go after false accusers (women) because it will send the wrong message, and it will damage the victims who are afraid to come forward. One young man took his life because he was falsely accused. This shit is real, it has been for decades and men are expendable.
This is one of the key reasons men commit suicide much more then women.
There was a case in the uk where a boy was falsely accused(proven false) but he took his own life. The mother killed herself the year after, the lads older sister tells the horrible story of what they went through while nothing ever happened to the false accuser. She walks around the town without a care in the world.
This is incredibly true in history. In the Middle Ages if a man said something about his woman hitting him HE would be publicly ridiculed and would have rotten food thrown at him in the street.
D92 j that’s fucked. 😡😡😡 That poor family.
Why would a real victim be afraid to come forward if she isnt lying...and why wouldn't u punish somebody after that person who falsely accused somebody...like wtf?!?
I've been reading the stories in the comment section for about 30 minutes and everything is frightening! 🤦♂️
Not only managers. Male teachers/professors face the same issue. A short while back I didn't notice that my students left (though they were permitted to leave, end of class) and I was alone with a female student who was asking some questions about a test. She was standing next to my desk. When I realized that everyone else had already left, I politely cut the discussion short stating that I have an appointment, and we left the room. Had I realized it earlier that everyone else was out, I would have cut it short even earlier. The feeling that I was alone with a female student in a room made me very uneasy and this uneasiness still sits with me.
As a man in America we are automatically looked at as predators. People automatically assume negative intent of men even if there is none. Perception can change everything
Its not any random person. You have to be able to identify the specific demographic, theres a specific group of people. I believe that its white women and men who've been pussy whipped by them
@@citrusblast4372 Nah I've seen plenty of crazy videos of women of all colors. A large part of the problem is the power dynamics which are backed by law enforcement, courts, the govt. and the media. Women have been allowed to get away with saying and doing things to men that if any of us guys tried to say or do the same thing to another man we'd get knocked the F out. Women know that they can say and do whatever they want with the full support of the govt backing them against men. The only way this is going to change is if the sane women in society actually stand up and put the crazy bitches in their place, instead of supporting them out of some sort of misguided sisterhood, just as, with men, sure it's bro's before hoe's but if we were to witness one of our bro's doing some heinous shit to a female we'd check him real quick. Not enough women are checking these psycho females so it continues.
Yea he didn't really say anything but its how it came off
@@JunoReactor77 don't categorized yourself be ur own man and do what's right n your heart all the time no matter what and you'll be fine
“Male privilege”
Remember the lady who sued a guy for saving her life when she almost drowned.
What happened to the guy?
I remember this I watched a vid about it
Efffy Zombie I need to find more info about this
I remember, imagine getting accused for saving a life because ‘he “grabbed” me out of the water without my consent’
Bruh
I had a situation where I worked an IT contract at a very prestigue organization. I'm very professional, never flurt, swear, or stir up any non work related conversations because I'm only there to make money and leave a prolific impression.
The Story: A young asian lady comes to my desk for help and she would do this for the most obvios reason that she could resolve on her own. So this one time she comes to my desk standing very close to me, my hands is resting on my desk and I felt something brush against my hand and it was her FCKN croch this woman was literally brushing herself against me and giving me a smurk.
Me: Could you give me some space? (Because I dnt play that shit)
Her: Oh I'm sorry
I wouldve told my manager but I was a contractor and who do you think they would've giving the boot?
tldr: Don't trust a pretty face and a smile!
Male: “Oh hi Sheryl!”
Sheryl: “RAPPPPPEEEE!!!!”
I just sued my ex for false domestic abuse accusations. The woman didn’t even lived with me. I cleared my name but it cost me a grand. At the end she started crying and saying she was not, and I’m quoting here-“in a good psychological place” and started crying. The judge who happened to be a female rolled her eyes and so everyone else in the courtroom. I was absolved of any wrong doing, a restriction ordered was placed against her. I asked the judge to ask her to pay for my attorney’s fees, but she told me that I had to do a civil suit, to which I said “screw this, I don’t want to see her anymore, EVER.” So yeah, she accused me for free and I had to pay to expose her. There you go fellas, unless the system starts making these females accountable, I’m secretly recording EVERYTHING just in case. Love you fellas and take care
@daniela lupi right go your own
Shoulda done that civil case then
With everything happen now a days, I start to understand why they have been oppressed since the beginning of times.
Woke, no joke.
Love u too
Check the laws of where you live. Some places are illegal to record without telling the other person
When I first started my job, I would introduce myself to people as I met them. 2 girls that were friends, out of 70 or so people, went and reported me together to HR, that I made them feel like I was coming on to them.
By introducing myself.
Wtf? Dang fam that’s fucked up man
How sharp is your jawline?
What happened afterward??
"Hi, I'm Steve. Pleased to meet you."
"RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAPE!!!!!!!!"
We need to bring back public hangings for these kind of ppl
I've had arguments with ppl that actually said "we can't start charging women who falsely accuse with a crime cuz then all women who've been assaulted would be too scared to come forward." It was so stupid I literally didn't know what to say at first. If after thinking about it you still can't see what's wrong with that statement I'll explain it to you...but I'm calling you a dummy as I do.
Their logic is akin to punishing a person for calling the police to report a crime, not realizing that that's the thing they want to stop happening.
People punishing false accusers doesn't ruin it for victims that want to come forward, those who make false accusations knowingly and maliciously are the ones ruining it for victims.
This was like 10 years ago in middle school, we had a project outside the school building for a science class where we were doing our egg drops and a fellow classmate didn't have his iPad (dead or forgot it) regardless he then asks our teacher if he could use his to which he agrees (since its a school provided iPad) the student used the iPad to take pictures of a another female student up her skirt, Flash forward to everyone coming back into the classroom where we present our findings on each our egg drop contraptions when he goes first and everyone sees the pictures in-between him switching tabs of (photos and notability was the app) to his project we all gasp and the girl immediately tucks her head into her shirt huge rumor goes around the school that our Teacher was a cho-mo, Flash forwards again and the teacher was forced to resign even though he was completely innocent and had a whole class of witnesses he also had to apologize to all the parents AND NOTHING HAPPEND TO EITHER KID... As far as I know he found another teacher job somewhere else, but the point being he faced the full consequences of something that wasn't his fault in the slightest while the shithead stayed in school and shocker grew up to be a bigger shithead
I'm a woman, and I have to constantly remind others that men victims are victims too. My husband was abused by his mother and people laughed at him for it. If a woman is physically, mentally or sexually assaulted that's awful but men? Yeah they deserved that. Eh...no?! So sad we have to fight for men's rights now. But we must.
I was accused of rape once.
I was out with my childhood friends (2 of them) and one of their girlfriends.
We later ended up at my friends place (who had gf) and he fell asleep, meanwhile the other friend and sleepy's gf were chilling.
In front of the other friend, sleepy's gf started to move closer and closer to me, until she sat next to me, hand on my tigh she asked if I wanted to follow to their bedroom (the same bedroom where sleepy was sleeping in!!!!!!!!!!)
I said hell no.
The other friend witnessed it all.
The day after when I went home, my friend, sleepy, calls me really angry, and asks why I tried to rape his gf.
I tell him that I haven't done it, and he should ask the other friend that was with us, he also says I didnt do anything.
BUT, my friend with gf, til this day, believe I did something.
We haven't talked since. He have children with this girl today.
Thank you so much ma'am
That kind of reaction is one of the things that irks me when trying to have conversations about male victims. Just the absolute refusal to entertain the idea. And then they do everything they claim to hate from men. Mansplaining the facts, what about female victims, and turning the topic to women. And just listening to the justifications for why it's okay to touch a man without consent. He knows he likes it. He wants it. Look at how he's dressed. It's okay, I'm just joking with him.
@@vipr1142 that fucking sucks bro
@@sebaschan-uwu It does!! Childhood friendship ends up like that.
My father was a pastor for most of my childhood through college years. He would take me on trips to visit families in the church and neighborhood, nursing homes, etc. and he always told me that the rule was that he was never going to put himself in a room or building alone with another woman without mom there with him. I always thought this was because of religious doctrine about sex before marriage and being alone with someone heightens the chance you would have sex before marriage. No, years later he told me it was simple: society trusts women and they don't trust men, it will be his word against hers and no matter what happens his reputation WILL be tarnished even if God himself comes down and says "yeah, he did nothing wrong."
Damn! What a wise man! Props to your pops!
Same with my pops. Pastoring for 34yrs never once alone with a lady or minor. He certainly had been accused a few times of sexual misconduct but every time vindicated by witnesses. The bible does teach the importance of witnesses.
Yep. Same here. Dad is a pastor. I'm a youth minister. Learned it from my dad, observe it still.
Your dads a wise man
Damn, I never really thought about that
As a married man, I have every reason to be "paranoid" about being alone with most women other than my wife. Even though my female colleague and I both know that we are behaving appropriately and professionally, what is to stop a third party from telling her husband/boyfriend, my wife, Human Resources, and/or the Police that she and I are acting improperly? This is not only applicable in the workplace, but everywhere else in particular. I have faced such accusations myself despite my most noble intentions. In order to avoid the appearance of gender discrimination, I am reluctant to meet one-on-one with anyone of any gender identity other than my wife, with a select few exceptions.
Where I come from, there is the very real possibility that a man can be arrested merely for "looking in the wrong direction" at a nightclub, let alone offer a lady a drink or inviting her to dance with him. Worse yet, the complaint need not come from from the lady herself. My survival tactic is to do my best to completely avoid the situation if at all possible.
-"women get assaulted in the workplace"
-"I'm going to avoid being alone with a woman so that I won't be falsely accused"
-"What? No men shouldnt be afraid. We should be able to speak alone"
-"Are you even listening?"
My man Keanu Reeves ain’t taking no choices brah!!!
Bro dont talk our look our speak to any female besides your girl your mom our granny bird box these bitches
Angel of Truth true ,some woman are literally paranoid about men interacting with them but it does come from some where
Parker Dolan NONE WHAT SO EVER
zoo unfortunately that's not the society we live in now my brother
@moz zo better luck next time in the next reality
The look that poor mail man had on his face when he turned around
TIMELESS!!!
I love when she says “laugh some more” so he does.
mailmen are federal employees so they can get away with shit like that toward crazy ass people. Sadly in retail, fuck you xD
Shes really crazy
@@OCV23 nope it wasn't a parody. She is really that crazy
Got falsely accused of sexual assault once. Truly a horrible feeling. I got a death threat. Fortunately there were 3 other people in the room at the time that something was supposed to have happened so it was dismissed by everyone rather quickly. I would never be alone at work with a female coworker and especially not a subordinate without video evidence. The best way to survive a knife fight is to not get in one.
I had a homie get arrested and accused of rape for walking past a lady on the way home. Dude’s life was a mess for 5 years. Had ankle monitor for 5 years. In and out of court, until the girl dropped the charges. She didn’t get anything happened to her though. False accusations…smh.
"The mailman and garbage man come to my house every week so they must be stalking men" -- female logic
They're doing their job bish
Not female logic it crazy people logic
@@lydiatjuhable tru tru
@@lydiatjuhable apparently there's more videos of her accusing others stalking her and she's homeless from what I remember.
@@jvi3461 Yea her name is Lena kochman czcams.com/video/VYl68KipxeM/video.html
I'm a 16 year old girl in highschool and i remember one of my male teachers has mentioned previously that male teachers cant speak to female students alone after class unless its outside the room where other people can see - just in case the student accuses the teacher of sexual assault for a higher grade, which is what happened to a guy he knew a while ago. its horrible
My Education teacher told me the same thing and the class was surprised when I clapped and agreed. I am not risking my teaching career because a girl wanted to falsely accuse me.
For the record, this also contributes to poorer grades on average by men. Young students especially do significantly better when taught by someone of their demographic. There are other factors as well, but this systemic issue has far reaching consequences.
@@brutusthebear9050 i guess thats why my best teacher is a gamer
my cre teacher does that
Don’t grow up to be like these women.
This just popped up in my recommendations today, which is rather weird being that this very thing just happened to me (as a woman). I am a supervisor, and I almost always take someone else with me when I go talk to someone about their job performance. There was a few times though that I was plating double supervisor and didn't have someone I could bring with me (company policy that it had to be another supervisor and not a peer). Found out that person accused me of sexual harassment (another woman). Even women do this to other women. It's fucked up
The Message it sends is don't Hire Women. They put themselves in this position.
“If men are behaving appropriately and not doing anything wrong, then you have not hit. To worry about”. Sound very familiar to “you shouldn’t be afraid of the police if you’re doing nothing wrong”
Or you shouldn't worry about your privacy if you're doing nothing wrong.
true, the only thing is cops NEED evidence to hold whatever they're accusing you of in court, the woman doesn't, they'll just believe her cuz she's a woman #BelieveHerBullshit. it's not completely the same but it is very similar. Cops are not fun to be around, I'm white and I stay the fuck away from cops unless I'm in a public place, I just don't trust them. I just know that if a cop tries to fuck with me they'll need to prove whatever they're accusing me of to a judge.
This gave me a stroke
Except when dealing with women for some reason men are seen as guilty until proven innocent (not necessarily legally but sometimes, but often an accusation is enough to get them fired). At least an innocent person has a chance with the police (assuming you don’t get shot, which is far more common than it should be but still pretty rare).
and it's so infuriatingly beyond the point
"If you behave appropriately, then you have nothing to worry about when you're alone with a woman"
No, that's exactly when I have THE MOST to worry about, because then I have no witness to prove my innocence.
In fact, the opposite is also true: If someone DOES have evil intentions, he WANTS to be alone with the woman for that specific reason, and having other people around would be bad for him.
@2:35 "If a man does the right thing, he doesn't have to worry." Unless the woman lies.
Name checks out
You misspelled "bitch"
You misspelled female waste of oxygen and space
@@alastor8091 your comment and nane made this worth it
What do you mean? Women never lie and everything they do is perfect...
lmao we became so woke that we went straight from women scared of being in a room alone with men to the complete opposite. I wish we could get to the middle ground someday...
I'm sure that one day, this will be the same case in corporate India. As more and more working women turn egoistic, vengeful, delusional, entitled, they will start accusing their male superiors or co-workers of sexual harassment under the POSH(Prevention of Sexual Harassment) Act. More and more Indian companies will decrease hiring women, and the male Indian employees will distance themselves from female employees.
When a deliberate false accusation is made, the person making the accusation should be subject to twice the maximum penalty of the crime being alleged.
amen. And it makes perfect sense
@@friedchicken1nah, people would have no incentive to then tell the truth and take back the lie
I was in a meeting last year where thia was discussed. The (female) CEO hit the nail on the head in one sentence.
"Business is 99% risk management. #metoo made young women high risk."
Holy hell that hits HARD.
Yup, the company now sees young women working with older men as a liability. They dont care about the risk to the men or their careers, its a just a simple, high risk, low reward calculation due to the impact on the company.
The calculation was easy, which is worse, the accusation that young women get less mentoring and opportunities or that the company is harbouring/protecting sexual predators.
The company ultimately decided that the loss of potential talent rising the ranks was worth it to mitigate risk.
GDKLockout So they don’t hire as much women or they don’t advance older men up the ranks
@@thisissooolegit they just leave it alone. Human resources were investigating complaints from the female staff that they werent getting the same chances due to not getting mentors or invited to socialise with upper management. The male managers who only took on young men as their mentees were within their right to chose who ever they wanted and the company couldnt force them to pick women. They were all able to justify their choices on an individual basis, but with only 1 female chosen out of 87 mentoring positions is was obvious. After the case was closed, the ties came off and whiskey came out and the CEO asked what was really going on? She and the other directors then agreed to support the managers due to risk assessment.
Just to boot, the women managers also didnt want to take female mentees, the most common reason was they felt they, although excellent at their job, were moraly weak and would not be able to lead because they didnt take enough personal responisbility.
All the managers test the high performers subversively with the "down with the ship test". They find a way to test if the person would take one for the team? So far only 1 female passed the test.
Oof
"If you are on your best behavior you have nothing to worry about" That is completely asinine. False accusations and misunderstandings don't happen?
Remember when we thought "If you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to worru about" was a shitty excuse for Big Brother control? What happened, man?
Can we also talk about the line "best behavior"?
We're not dogs or children
That statement refers to a perfectly civilized world where people actually care about each other to at least the bare minimum we could expect from other people. But we can't and it's the sad truth.
Say you were to go an a work dinner with a female employee or co-worker and you say "you look lovely this evening" before starting to talk about work just as a nice gesture, that can be turned into "OH MY GOD HE TOOK ME OUT ON A "WORK DINNER" JUST SO HE COULD TRY TO FUCK" and boom your getting looked at around the office as a creeper who is on the prowl for a woman to fuck. I was raised in a southern household, got taught old school manners like holding the door open for a woman and whenever I interact with women I call them darling or sweetheart even if I'm not trying to get them to bed. But once I go to work all those manners I was taught to use when interacting with women go out the window cause shits dangerous out here
@ilumix led what are you trying to say with this statistic?
There have been times, when I would be walking behind a woman, minding my own business, and I could sense by her body language she was scared with me behind her. If I am out at night and see a woman I conscioussly cross the road, delay crossing road, slow down to give distance or time for female to disapear. And if I am in a rush, I have spoken loudly to a female I am passing her to inform her not to be alarmed and suggest she move to the side. I go by with my hands in my pockets, head tucked down, eyes averted and I fast pace ahead to outdistance her. I don't want to ever be in a situation where I could be accused of something because I brushed passed her on a side walk, or I was stalking her. Heck, I am the same way when I am alone and I look back and there is a suspicious looking guy or several guys and I too fast pace or I may slow down to let them pass. So the scare factor is with all of us, it's just more dangerous for woman thus men need to be aware the possibility.
...I taught Management Development for US DoD for nearly 25 years. One of my prime rules was never have a private conversation with anyone alone. If it had to be handled discreetly, such as a coaching, counseling or disciplinary action, always have some other qualified person in the room. Other than that....conduct as much of your business in the employment "public square" as possible. In all my years I had one woman who was doing poorly in the class who filed a sexual harassment claim against me. Considering part of my duties included teaching EEO Law and being an EEO Counselor and Investigator... as well as sexual harassment and sexually hostile work environment educator...I was ready for this and I blistered her accusations. The issue was gone in a week.
About 6 months ago I was going to get pressed with charges because I was falsely accused of being in an unprofessional relationship with a girl in the workplace. The girls boss took it upon herself to go around all the channels and tell the head boss that i should be told to stay away.
I was married at the time currently going through a divorce and just needed some friends to go through this with. The girl and I were friends and we had many friends that were in the same friend group. Because of the false accusation I had to sign a restraining order from November to February. I couldn’t hang out with any of my friends because I would have been taken to court if I broke it.
I literally could not be seen with anyone during these months because I feared that my job was on the line if anyone had seen me with anyone at the time. My due process was bypassed because “perception is everything”. I’ve never felt so disgusted, angry or cheated on my whole life.
I was just alone in a house full of my ex-wives old stuff and cried almost every day.
Bro, I hate to say it like this but you a man! Get that shit out of your house, stop crying like a bitch, get a haircut, do some man scaping, go to a neighboring strip joint throw a few ones, try to get laid and if you can't call it a night and do it all over again! Again, quit all that fucking crying you'll be alright...
@Florian Exactly bruh, you feel what I'm saying!
Yeah no that’s enforced social isolation without arrest or imprisonment sounds pretty sus
@@majikk9123 What stupid fucking advice lol. What are you like 14? The hardships will pass OP just stay in your lane and keep grinding.
@@majikk9123 and that kind of thinking is just as toxic
I had a female co-worker who insisted that it was sexist to hold the door open for her or let her enter a door first. I started letting the door close behind me in her face to be "polite." Of course, everyone around thought I was some unmannered jerk until I explained it to them. Crazy.
When I was 12 a white lady cussed me out for holding the door open for her. It was at a basketball tournament it was the sister of my best friend on the team.
This is a silly one, however, there is difference between opening the door for a woman and letting her go in first, and holding the door so it doesn't slam in her face after you've gone through it, the same as you would for a man (hopefully). Do the latter and you should be fine. Women do that for men, too. But some women view you holding the door open for her and letting her walk in first as you implying she's incapable, or that you feel women should be treated differently. I guess be grateful she doesn't require special treatment because she's a woman. 🤷♀️
@@NunyaBiznez2010 but read his comment she doesn’t want him to hold it open for her AND he can’t even let her go in front. Something so trivial and simple as holding the door is common manners and everyone does it. So she basically puts him at a stalemate where he is wrong either way. That’s like saying it’s sexist to give up your bus seat to a lady but not doing it is “toxic masculinity” it’s just commonplace manners.
@@NunyaBiznez2010 Or... it is just a respectful gesture you do.
I hold the door open for everyone, I dont know why it matters.
I always hold door for everyone when the people behind me are too close to me so the door will close and hit their face.
It's just being respectful.
I’ve been accused of hitting an old female friend when she was living with my family and it got spread throughout my school even though what happened was the opposite. She actually ended up hitting me.
its really scary cuz men are gonna have to start recording each interaction with a women like a date or a business meeting in fear of being falsely accused of something because The ACCUSATION ALONE can ruin a mans career and lively hood!
I'm a woman and I don't even feel comfortable with the idea of being alone with women
DamN
Why not?
E Cox Wow girl . That is some love story 😆 💯
This comment made me laugh.
Girl, preach. I’ve worked in women-dominated industries and I fucking can’t. I’m done. Toast.
I love kids but what you guys said is facts. You really can't talk to them or else you'll be called a predator.
V HAS COME TO bill burr did a bit about it he started his special with a bit about what you said « u can’t joke with a kid make a face or say hi to a kid anymore because of pedophiles »
Im pretty young and just turned 20. Honestly kids are great and i was raised around them having 3 siblings and dozens of cousins/nephews. Not until recently did i realize it was probably not the smartest idea for a 6'4 black man to interact with children or some sickos will think youre some predator pedo... sad af
@@youngcitybandit
A man sat next to a kid in an airplane.
They removed him from his seat for possibly being a predator with no cause.
@@youngcitybandit My grandfather had the cops called on him at a park. He went for a walk and sat down at a bench in a park where kids play and some woman thought he was creepy, she called the cops because he was "suspicious"... he's 85... We're not even safe when we're old :'(
I mean grown men and women shouldn't be talking to minors they don't even know, and if they asking for help or something call the police
I love the fact that the power of news gets eroded by internet influencers with common sense.
Aba, I know how you feel. I was an EMT some years back people I thought I was right with turned on me and made me lose my career without any investigation or anything and if I had done anything to offend anyone they never came to me and talked to me and we would of handled it like mature adults. I was so angry for a very long time and I still get feelings when I hear the subject come up.
So I know how you feel brother
My brother was head of a department, but his male boss started to feel threatened by him taking his job. He interviewed all the women and told them someone had reported some sexual inappropriate suggestions by him. So he asked each one of them if they had had an experience. One lady said, “Well, one day he complimented my new hair cut...” they put that down in the report, saying she felt uncomfortable. This manager built a false case against my brother and he lost his career!! It was awful! None of it was true! But everyone else felt like they would loose their jobs if they went against that manager. It was awful. My brother is very shy with women and would never do anything to make a women feel that way! A man did this too ruin my brother!
I love my family!- Did he sue for wrongful termination?
What a shitty man.
A mangina more like it
Dang, I hate this.
He shall overcome!
Gentlemen:
1. Never close your office door.
2. Check your states law with regards to recording & 2 party consent.
3. Record & document everything.
Lastly, if a woman with whom you cohabitate ever calls the police & claims you harassed, threatened, or physically or verbally abused her do the following:
1. Grab you wallet & any important documentation - including the # of a lawyer - for when you go to jail because you will.
2. Move to SE Asia & become a rice farmer so that you never have to deal with American women ever again.
The sad part is that a man shouldn't even have to be prepared for shit like this.
@@rioticgamer3663 what you don't know can hurt you. Be knowledgeable about the law & be prepared. Your freedom is more valuable than 15 minutes of fun with crazy.
I agree
That shit happens in Asia too.
I’m sincerely sorry that for every 100 men, there will be a percentage who unfortunately and undeservingly will be falsely accused of sexual assault. Bearing false witness should be a crime, and in some cases is, though I’m sure that’s no comfort when the accusations are against YOU. So please prepare yourself and your sons to be respectful of women but precautious because there are people out there who are opportunists, malicious, and just plain crazy. If this seems burdensome, please try to remember, that though a percentage of men will be the targets of false accusations, ALL women at some point in their lives will be the targets of unwanted sexual attention, but you do what you have to do in order to protect yourself.
This video. I look a certain type of way (tattoos on my neck). At my first job I was very friendly and always helpful. I began getting accused of sleeping or flirting with my coworkers (it was all platonic, and majority staff was female so trying to explain was futile.) These rumors almost ruined someone's marriage and I was labeled a homewrecker. That's when i learned how toxic some people can be and the lengths they're willing to go for no reason. I work at a different store still majority female (which is totally cool) but I still get accused often of flirting even though I'm the one being stopped at random, and cameras see it, but it'd easier to blame the iffy lookin guy "cuz girls don't shoot shots" apparently lol
16 years old I went to a house party. The party throwers mother found out the next day & she sold everyone out to the police. Obviously some not so nice things were said about here by the 60+ people who got charged with underage drinking, myself included. She decided the best way to get out of it was to say I was going to shoot her with a semi auto pistol. I was hauled out of class at gun point, locked up for two months, lost all my activities / Scholarship, kicked off varsity football. One of her friends admitted it was a lie later on. I lost so much time, friends, family, opportunities. I still have no reason why, just a whim ruined my life.
That's one of the reasons I like working construction. When I'm gutting an old house and knee deep in old dry wall and insulation, no women around.
But there are a large amount of women in construction. Big difference between construction and other industries is people have a sense of humor and oddly enough despite the stereotypes of men in construction being sexist...they arent. I've never encountered it. Usually the guys will check a creep before anything happens so there is no HR issue
@@shannamac3974 Are these women onsite actually doing construction work or in the office?
The ones I ever see are in the office doing schedules, payroll, & phones.
I envy you so much right now, I'm in the process of getting out of thw warehouse and manufacturing scene at the moment because where I live it is predominantly female which comes with an abundance of issues. I really want to get into a field with little to no women. Stay blessed.
Except the cool ones
@@shannamac3974 what construction site are you in lol, there is barely any women onnany of the sites i work.
Lmao... that mailman looked so confused 🤣
Ole Selebi Poor mailman.
That's it??
...because he was.
Ole Selebi lmao no, it’s your fault lady!
White women 'stay accusing' somebody. I'm sorry, I tell my "friends" this to there face offline but they laugh at me but damn it I am so serious😂😂😂😂😂
Dam my mailman is stalking me he drives by my house every day and puts letters in my mailbox
I never, never interact with a female staff without someone in my office. There is no private 1-1 conversation; if it is very confidential, I call HR there. Never, never talk to women 1-1 at work.
Women: He doesn't want to have a one-on-one meeting with me, like... how I'll false charge him with r*pe now?
Muda
I think you mean “will” not “I’ll”
@@spinmaster6995 i'll literally means i will
@@Cx10110100 "how I will false charge him with r*pe now" still makes no sense.
@@m_winewood "How will I" is the correct construct i believe
I'm not even a manager and I don't like socializing with women at work
@@PrestonCormack they should stay in kitchen
@@sweetjello_7057 I don't see why not lmao.
They're safer there, and the children don't gotta get put in a ghetto ass daycare school.
My work place is mostly female and can I tell you constant drama and hating on each other.
Same
yes...its like high school with them except these are older grown woman smh , and im trying my best to stay out of it
that "if he wasnt doing anything wrong then he wouldnt be accused" vibe gets a lot of innocent brothers locked up.
I often hear people say that if a black man is pulled over and they stay cool nothing will happen to him. This made some logical sense to me a while ago but it’s just simply not true. I think the best way for a white guy like my self to understand their perspective is to think about it similarly to the premise of this video. Because I assume (tell me if I am wrong) being scared that you could be accused by a women even though you did nothing wrong is how some black people feel about the cops. Really this all comes down to an issue with society and the legal system. Also I am not saying these two instances are equivalent I am just saying that they are close enough that a comparison can be made to help others understand the magnitude of the situation. Let me know your opinions on this.
I think that's a great point actually. It's very scary to know that you can be blamed for something that you didn't do.
If as a white man, you dont take steps to protect yourself from false accusations of cops then you have no sense of self preservation and that is on you.
The reality is most of the time, if anyone of any skin colour acts docile and submissive to a cop, nothing will happen. Not always the case, but most of the time.
This isn't to take away from anyone's lived experiences. It is merely to assure you that it aint a race issue, its a shitty cop issue in your analogy. Protect yourself, get a dash cam, and don't self incriminate. You may arrogantly believe that it can't happen to you because of your skin colour, but you're very wrong and theres a lot of white people out there that have found out. Take precautions and protect yourself no matter who you are, what colour your skin is, and what your gender is. Self preservation is important. It keeps you safe.
The issue I have with your belief is that if a white kid were to read it, he wouldn't think about protecting himself because you're insisting it won't happen to him. Your statement trains the self preservation out of white kids when dealing with cops. This world is dangerous no matter who you are. It doesn't give a damn about your skin.
Oh my goodness. You drank the CRT koolaid.
@@ib1fastdime Obviously no one should self incriminate and everyone should be calm as possible without making any sudden movements. But again that’s not what my comment was about I was purely pointing out the fact that a white male and a black male could do the same thing and statistically the black male has a higher percent chance of being shot. I was raised to sit very calm and keep your hands on the wheel unless instructed otherwise. Even though I am white I am still very cautious around cops but like I said that has nothing to do with my original comment.
@@elouise5593 What?