#1 Source of Power with Women | 5 Traits That Make You Insanely Attractive
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Her: "You look better without a beard."
Me: "Thanks, you too."
😂I love that! And that’s exactly the kind of response that should be given.😃👍🏼
Lol seriously? 😆
That's like saying that she has a beard 🤣
Kikikikikiki
😅😅😅
This works best when a girl is also losing attraction and/or respect, by not chasing her and being outcome independent, even if it hurts on the inside sometimes.
shit’s tough af but not only is it worth trying but it also tests your manhood
Went through it myself George. Yea it hurts but thats how we progress as men. Pain. We grow from it inside & out
.. even if it hurts on the inside every fu**** day.
Having exactly this problem right now.
Perhaps the most amazing connection I’ve ever felt after having met sb just once, but we’re not talking at all since weeks.
@@BJ-hj2sm well said BJ , pain is a building block , the more times I get hurt once I shake it off sometimes it’s not easy but then it clicks and I get another level up
@@gregthompson9434 Thats how we grow brother! Leveling up!
This is my "Go-To" video when I get that feeling of slipping , re-charging my energy and totally grounding me in my focus. Can't thank you enough.
The is crazy how meditation has helped me with the whole thing you just mentioned. It is really an inner game. "Attach to nothing , connect to everything" Thanks alot once again!
1.Be Non reactive
2.Fear of loss
3.Do not deviate
3.Comfortable at the Grey Area
4.Have an Abundance Mindset
It's to late for me I am honestly just giving up on love the only thing I got for the 13 years I walked this earth was regected and lied to I just want a gf that I want and not because it's the only option I have
@@shadowshang2358 you’re only 13? If so man you’re good. It’s good that you’re learning these concepts early instead of later on in life not knowing female nature
I have the power and exercised it today. A woman lied to me and said some nasty things. Did not react. Walked away from her - she is not happy and I have gone straight into No Contact and went to shopping mall and got so much interest even a married woman flirting, women staring, deliberately rubbing against me. On No Fap and believe that I have options - and the world gives that straight back to me. Be strong guys - Back on the market and sent that intent out
1. Try semen retention (Don't ejaculate) .
2. Non Reactive.
3. Be assertive.
4. Set boundaries ( Eg. Ask her why a guy is calling her late at night)
5. Read more and be updated.
6. Have the abundance mindset ( Talk to more girls and take their numbers).
7. Turn her down sometimes (cancel dates)
hi Raz I need advice if can help me out.
After 67 days NO Contact ,
she reached out with one sentence message
But without pet name…”Honey”
“Are you going to church regularly? "
I didnt reply for the whole day I guess she got upset and deleted her message
Seeing that I panic and gave her an answer "Yes I got something to tell you."
After 5 days she finally reach out again this time Colder than any Iceberg…
She text : what you want to tell me ?
I replied
“Ok , I want to see you laugh at my joke hahaha
Dinner Monday or Thursday “
I think I totally Beta …putting her on Pedestal again I am just her Backup Plan ?
@@fj4731 Why did you go 67 days without contact? its better to talk to eachother often , even if its just a few minutes. You guys should have a meeting face to face and sort out any lingering issues
@@razrsliq7623 Hi
Because she refuses to see me saying she is Mentally stress and she had a panic attack 2 months ago which result her feeling Very depressed and avoid any fight with me...I went into no contact
My gf i guess was building up Resentment when 4 months ago she insisted i put a picture of me in my Profile i did what she said....but after a month later we had a fight I removed my Profile picture ..she was not happy ...I replaced my picture with my dog which I think she begin to feel I am not happy ... but she said Nice picture... after which I totally remove all pictures...I think she feel I dont love her anymore by doing the opposite ...
Did I feel wrongly that she is Controlling me by insisting I do what she said ? By letting her do what she wanted in the gym talking to guys...I was thinking she having the power which I stop her by doing opposite
How could I have handle regarding my profile picture which she like me to have but now is empty
I want to know should I show her love by doing what she want ? And when we have a fight I stop doing it..and want to gain power by forcing her do what I want instead of me doing what she want...
I lost my direction How to love her because I am afraid to show Too much love ...I am confuse should I listen to her or say NO
Any positive action beside walking away , removing attention ...
it has been Day 6 No contact..is letting her go and do what she wants is Love or should I fight for her to give her love story...?
But I dont know What to do If my gf is Controlling the term and felt I dont love her if I dont do what she wanted ..that same feeling goes if she dont do what I want I got upset ...I need to change this thinking I need some advice I know I should let her feel Free and it is a love story turned out to be disappointment because the way I withhold Love and resist her from power
@@fj4731 Holding back your love can be counter productive, the idea is to make her happy especially when you're together, I like to avoid arguments but you should make her do things for you, ask her to help you do some things, give her errands to run for you, be kind to her and buy what she likes. Just enjoy eachother and have sex. I dont like to give too much space because she might feel you're loosing interest in her. How old are both of you?
@@razrsliq7623 Hi
I want to understand the many mistake and damage i had done ...how I could have handled correctly when my gf is Controlling
1) She wanted me to Put Profile Picture....i did but after a fight I removed the photo
2) She wanted me to Turn ON my text Notification so that she can see me "Online" and "Read" and after the fight I also Turn off all Last Seen , she was feeling I dont love her anymore
Should I turn On my text Last Seen and also my Profile Picture so that she can see me Online ?
My gf i guess was building up Resentment when I totally remove my profile picture and
...I think she feel I dont love her anymore by doing the opposite ...and I also Turn Off my Text Last Seen... totally Not doing What she wanted....I dont want her to think she can Control me and break up with me ...
Did I feel wrongly that she is Controlling me by insisting I do what she said ? By letting her do what she wanted in the gym talking to guys...I was thinking she having the power which I stop her by doing opposite
How could I have handle regarding my profile picture which she like me to have but now is empty and she cant see if I am Online
I lost my direction How to love her because I am afraid to show Too much love ...I am confuse should I listen to her or say NO
Any positive action beside walking away , removing attention and giving her No Benefit teaching her a lesson I so regret
it has been Day 7 No contact..is letting her go and do what she wants is Love or should I fight for her to give her love story...?
We men are the prize ...
True mindset
Men should absolutely value themselves but let’s NOT PRETEND that there are 7 WOMEN LUSTING per every MAN, that is BS!
You're the prize only if YOU have $$$$$$$$ and she wants your baby. Otherwise, no.
@vickrunalza8057 Very true. Explains why so many women get attention on dating apps and most men don't.
It's important for you to have control over yourself and have standards. If you bend your rules to please her to get on her good side eventually she will lose respect for you. That's not a sign of an alpha. She can't trust you if you have no standards.
very true
I approve this message.🥸🤪
Great
She'll lose respect? You have all been trying to attract the wrong women.
Everything this dude says in the past 5 videos I watched is pure gold. It is hard to find advice like this that actually works and doesn’t just sound good for views and likes and to make the guy feel better about “just be yourself”
well said, the point is that people treat us the way we allow them to, we have to have a price, nobody treats what's free with care, sort of like that
Thanks Bobby Rio for helping educate guys on how to relate on a more healthy level. This seems to be more necessary than ever due to a lack of male mentorship by older males in our current society.
If you can't control yourself, someone else certainly will...
very true
True story
goes for everything in life not just women
This dude says the truth, he has helped me so much ! He has saved me from a bunch headache. Just hold on guys don't let emotions get to you !
Bobby it’s good seeing you doing well
Thank you for your help 🤜
So ok I over reacted and made the mistake of showing her how much I cared. She acted indifferent and has completely ignored my attempts to communicate. So I have finally moved on after I realized that the only person I was losing, was myself. She is not worth my time anymore.
Exactly 💯
Best video ever. I love how Bobby emphasizes on taking control on YOURSELF AND LIVING YOUR PURPOSEinstead on relying on manipulative psychic techniques to control others. I mean psychic techniques have their place and time but the point is becoming the best version of yourself, being abundant, and having options
Bobby I paid $80 for your program several years ago and it was the best investment I ever made. The follow up e mails from you were the icing on The cake. I harnessed your material and I literally had the pick of the litter. I used it to find the One and filter out the chaff. I ended up married to a woman never married no kids. She’s just about perfect. However if I chose to stay single? The sky was the limit. You are a genius Bobby pure and Simple. Thank you badass. You rock 🎉
The best video you have put out (and I have seen countless Rio videos.) Thanks so much!
Great content. It took me years to get to these conclusions. Now all the dots got connected.
you are a true distinguished man coach, God bless you sir
helpful and brilliant, because all important informative basic material is given in a short video. Thanks for this!
..... great video! phenomenal breakdown of these fundamentals. I'll admit, the most challenging thing is not being attached to a positive outcome with a girl you're just meeting. It takes a little bit of time & life experience. Have FUN!!!!!
"Do NOT deviate" is also an equivalent of the power and ability to say "NO," which also indicates a focus on so many other important things in life other than her. 👍
yea its all about being "autonomous"
@@BobbyRio do u offer private coaching
@@BobbyRio Hello Bobby, dear sir..
I got a short question 🙋🏻♂️
I like a girl and when i had a relationship she was liking me but when i break up and giving interest to her then she got away.
She knows that i like her much but does not give me almost any interest, what should i do?
I REALLY want her (also we work in same job and hang out with some group time to time)
PLEASE give me an advice 🙏🏻
Lastly a note that she thinks if she be with me then she betrays of her old flirt. Btw her old flirt has a relationship)
@@xdlikadam2101 move on if she only likes you when you enter into a relationship. these types of women should be avoided at all costs.
@@xdlikadam2101 shoot your shot, either you get her or you move on, rejection is an answer but regret is an eternal question you will never have the answer to.
Thanks for this video Bobby Rio. This is perfect. Will also want more videos from you on Roles of Masculinity in relationship with a woman.
I don't think i need him
Hi Mr Rio, thanks for your awesome advise, Ive been binge watching your videos for the past few days now - I totally agree about being on dating apps giving you a confidence boost - I myself wont have the guts to walk up to woman (in most cases) and spark up a conversation but with these apps , you can be talking to different woman at the same time and it really makes you feel like you are worth it and if one stops talking to you, I will find another which puts your mind at ease and boosts your confidence level
thanks for watching, and glad to hear about the apps!
Great video... And to add to point 5, even if you have no other options, you still need to have the abundance mindset. It's a mindset.
Thnx bro. Have practiced this and it's working for me seriously.
another best punch video of yours. i’ve learned a lot from you bobby. thank you we owe you a lot.
Glad you enjoyed it
I don't know how these tips work but listening to this itself give relief 😌 😅
YOU ARE REALLY GOOD. SPOT ON IN YOUR ADVICE.
This is the vid I needed to see all week
Thanks man I wish I knew this 13 years ago. I appreciate you.
We appreciate your hard work Bobby keep it up
I appreciate that
Bobby you explain it really nicely...just love your content
Glad you enjoy it!
Such great advice! Thank you
This video came exactly when I needed it most.
glad it resonated
Same here
thank you for sharing! men helping other men; definitely Saving/Watching again...never heard this growing up...
Glad you enjoyed it, and yes, saving is a good idea, because when you're "in the moment" its good to remind yourself. And yea, I never knew this growing up, learned the hard way :)
Very impressive, thanks!
Real self growth information. Excellent
Glad you liked it
_in regards to your gray area teaching, I just wanted to share my fondness of the expression "tolerating ambiguity". (This coming out of literature on hypnotic pain control.) Say, Yes, it may hurt a bit, but it doesn't need to BOTHER you, doesn't need to come to the forefront of your intelligence. You have the ability to tolerate ambiguity, you tolerate ambiguous feelings, ambiguous thoughts; you can tolerate not knowing what the future holds, etc. Yeah. It's just ambiguity. People want control. But better still, the will can override such things EASILY when it sees the value in doing so. And as your teaching proclaim._
Been watching your videos and also Chris' and Marni's for a while now. You are truly experts on this, the psychology of attraction on another level. Can I request for you to make a video as well about how to retain a relationship that is already ongoing? Like some advice on how to never get to the point where she breaks up with you? For those who are married especially and spark that sexual tension once more. Thanks!
Marin stinks..all she wants is money..absolutly no real advise From her and she's just copying bobby
@@fj47315 months later, I’m curious how did this go?
@@nnamdiazuakola5254 after 67 days No Contact she contacted me and we got back together ..but this 3rd time On and Off ...I told her if she want to be my gf then she has to do what I wanted if Not I will be the One to break up with her ...
She is Not happy i became Less available Less Caring ...and I dont reply to her I love you text and I didnt respond to her Good morning text or I miss you message ...she said I no longer love her like I used to love her and will do anything she wanted...she feel resentful I told her it was her who broke up with me and she said she cant change the past so I told her if she want to leave .....she can just leave...I dont want a gf who will break up with me...she didnt text me for 2 days as though she is single when she said she have sex with me means she love me and she is my gf ...but I told her if she is my gf then text me and be my gf ...she didnt talk to me for 2 days ...so I am in No contact now...what should i do
@@fj4731 this might sound harsh but I mean it with love and affection for you: “you have to have more respect for yourself”. Do not let anybody treat you in this manner. Do not place anyone on a pedestal and worship them. Do not lose yourself for anyone.
Forget about her. And I don’t mean forget her with the hope that she will notice and come back to you. I mean really and truly forget her with no desire of wanting her back. It’s obvious to me that you’re just an option for her.
It will sting at first but I assure you with each passing day you’d miss her less and less. As a matter of fact, when you’ve made that decision to let go and you’re resolute, you’d be amazed at how quickly you’d move on. And when you move on, you’d be amazed at how quickly something or someone better will fill that space she previously occupied.
I wish you the best in this journey called life.
Thanks man very educational its time for us as Men too lead and dominate again take our power 🙏
Excellent advice!!!!! Not many men have control over their emotions
Bobby ... U r tangible GOD , I Just Subscribed U.. ! Nobody could explaine me like this in easily.
Great content, @bobby rio it surely added value, cheers man!
Glad it was helpful!
6:50: After 4 months of pursuing the girl the agreed on a date: I offered her Thursday or Weekend she told me 2 days later she only has time on Tuesday. I could go on Tuesday but I thought about this and declined.
No contact and I don't care anymore
That's why I love you Bobby....you are the best👍👍👍
You da man Bobby! Thanks for free tips worked for me and baged her in a week
Thanks for this information.
Excellent…Thank you!
Thank you Bobby
Bro… I listen to this once a day… this is a LIFE hack SUPERPOWER
glad to hear it, yes, the lessons on controlling yourself apply to fitness/health/money ect. too
Thank you!
Very good thanks a lot!!
You're an artist.
This right here for me thank a lot 🤦🏽❤️
the key is recognizing it, being aware of what's going on, and then catching yourself in the moment, so you can regain power over yourself.
This is great information
Can't agree anymore so much truth here
Going through it now
Thanks a ton bobby. This video is a service to all men and their game
thanks, glad you found helpful
soooooooooooooo true, it so much about you.
Am definitely subscribing to your channel!...very educative! 👍
Thanks and welcome
Bobby saying it like it is
Great video by the way. Thank you.
Glad you liked it!
Spot on Bobby, like usual
glad you enjoyed!
Thanks Bobby 🫂
I always say "Oh, ok" whenever a woman does or says something that low-key pissed me off and I love how in their mind they're wondering where my reaction is.😊
@bobby why don’t you have million of subs at this point? You have been at giving it all the gems or most away for free!! Like y’all need to engage and share this!
I kinda feel personally attacked because every mistake you mention, I have recently done 😅 so thank-you for this video, it has completely changed my thinking and approach and I feel a lot stronger already without having put these techniques to use.
Really such a good video.!!
Thank you very much
You damn right.
Brilliant.
Mr Bobby I like your explanation
I watched the video on how to make her want you more and followed the steps, believe you me it's working
great to hear!
Thanks
Well said
And wise.
Great advice.
glad you found helpful
solid advices.
Haha! I have found out all my problems in one video.
On point.
Something I have heard which I find to be somewhat true is that women holds the power before sex. After sex, the power dynamic changes unless you are immature in some way. The woman will have to deal with the whole "will he commit or not problem".
I've been watching your videos for months now and I've got to say, everything you're saying is true
I watched to get my ex bk but after saying how effective what your teach is, I'm not even looking in her direction and now she's literally chancing so thank you
nice about the ex. And glad you're finding the videos helpful
@@BobbyRio Bully!! Can't wait to put this into practice when I return to London. See if 'Got Game' comes to fore in the wake of Non-reaction on Don't Deviate. Luvvin it...
Damm you got me bruh🔥✊
Great video. I gotta be better in the " Grey area " and the " Non-reactive" category. I've got a great woman. But from my past demon's I tend to get a little carried away as far as assumptions.
Great advice
glad you liked
Reminds me of a watered down version of Frank T.J. Mackey (Tom Cruise) in the movie Magnolia.
You’re smart man!
You nailed it bro...😅🤘
This guy is the best
Timely..thx.
glad to hear.
Excellent thanks excellent
Very deep
I can't believe i did all this already
You just gotta be heartless because when you nice to them they will take that for a weakness
Man i think you must change your t-shirt lol 😂 Anyways informative video as always 🙌
Very well done - and very helpful and reassuring!
Glad it was helpful!
tip top advice and it works, luckily i’ve always naturally done these things myself. and always had them (ladies) text me to ‘see’ what i’m doing etc. i can still remember the look on an ex’s face when she broke up with me and i said “yep ok, catch you around then” … hahaha she still chases me to again ‘see’ what i’m up to or who i’m with etc.
I still suck and hate dating apps though. fk em way easier being upfront with a lady in real life, show them some balls and they luv ya for it, gets easier as you do it more too.