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I could see why she didn't want to talk to her bf about it if she was telling the truth. But why would u talk to the ex why not your best friend or parents 🤔
I mean... you out here sharing your life with your ex without your boyfriend knowing. Then you get mad at him when he believes youre cheating and despite not telling your partner the whole story, not sleeping with him for a whole year & acting weird... & YOU HAVE ZERO UNDERSTANDING FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND FEELING BETRAYED? SOUNDS SUS DONT IT?
But we gotta believe her.
Hella sus
she has more redflags than China
The woman is hella sus.
@@AbaNPreach Believe women, duh.
"Everyone is a hero in their stories"
- Bill Burr
Nawh if I'm fucking up I'll tell you. Your hear from the horses mouth. I love taking accountability cause people don't know what to say after they can't talk shit. Lol
Love that guy 😂
Her movie is titled "A Series of Emotional Decisions."
Not in mine. I used to be quite bad. 💀
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That was a whole lotta words to just end up saying “put a finger down if you’ve cheated on your boyfriend, multiple times”
Basically
RIGHT! A whole ass speech about how she cheated, possibly twice.
Hahaha I didn't even get the "put a finger down" part. Like I know what the game is, but she pretended to play this game just to rant. Like when someone asks you a question just so they can answer it themselves.
put a fniger down if you are bat sht crazy
You left out the part, "and got mad when your friend picked up what you threw away"
Kudos to her for keeping her hand up the whole time.
underrated comment 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♂️
Lol! Nice attention to detail.
She closed it after 8min 💀
Honestly I'm just pleasantly surprised her friends looked out for dude and told him
nah they out for that d1 baseball player 🥩
Well one of them might have tried to grab him for herself afterward so there is that ^^
@@isimsoyad4474 Ahahahahahaha
its not that rare tbh. They "gay I think hes Bi xD" best friend of my ex actually stopped being friends with her after the way she treated me.
@@isimsoyad4474 FACTS!!!
Never underestimate the attraction of a quiet life.
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world's too messy to be all over it now. some introverted family and friends, my dog, and some of my neighbors, growing my food and maintaining my home, and I'm good. and of course, YT for some entertainment.
😂 😆
my life story. work, school, and youtube
agreed
That woman gave a whole story just to say "I don't take accountability for my actions" Period that's all it is.
i think i need to pop to the loo.
Like just call 911 its not a science
Liars tend to give way too much info and she is looking for validation online to ease her conscience…. Horrid person
@@maunabot5292 remember, she said (conveniently) her phone went missing... in other words, she couldn't reach her back pocket while choking down some other guy's dick.
I like comments that just repeat what they already said in the video.
Crazy how each time the bf went on holiday she went to a party and something "out" of her control happened
I really liked how Aba asked: has she taken any accountability at any point in her story? It really opened my eyes bc he's right, I never realized it and it's something I will keep in mind whenever I hear someone's story or on my own experiences.
I agree with Aba a lot here. The fact that throughout the entire story she took zero accountability is extremely telling, and she probably was caught cheating.
I wouldn't be surprised if the boyfriend knew about the thing with the childhood friend. She calls it "borderline assault" but it sounded to me like he was begging for sex, and she gave it to him.
Yup. She cheated & making excuses for it. Then goes & starts hanging out with her ex. Knowing people would get mad. Cause we'll after she broke up with her bf she was mad he was hanging out with her friend.
@@travisspaulding2222 yea the guy wasn't even in the front seat or driving. She could drove to the party or called 911 on speaker or called her bf or any1 on speaker. & kept driving till u got to place where people u know r.
She wanted to sleep with him. She just trying to get sympathy saying I was pressured into.
@@divingfalconfpv4602 my exact thought. No reason to stop driving until she got back to the party, especially with dude being allegedly pushy. Scared? Don't pull over. Unless this dude had a gun or other weapon. I had an ex-friend do something similar. Let's just say she must've forgotten our conversations weeks leading up to her cheating, and directly after. Because later when she claimed rape, it didn't exactly fit my understanding of what happened from our conversations.
He is completely right about the lack of accountability piece. I have dated or known women who have cheated, then all the sudden when information comes out, they are suddenly assaulted and in no way it's their fault; in a lot of those cases there were witnesses who can confirm the story was bs, or who saw other suspicious behavior that wasn't consistent with the behavior of someone who was actually afraid or felt threatened.
Even just how frantic and crazy and animated this woman was while telling the story was weird and screamed mental illness.
She definitely added some spin to that story to make herself seem like the total victim having no control over her own actions. Make good choices, y’all.
Don't they always..?
She started it that way 😂
Wouldn't it be funny if her ex gave her monkey pox and now she's complaining about that?
Some spin?
That girl is using so much English she's playing billiards.
@@akoilngas1215 haha that’s a good one!
So basically… she slept with her boyfriend’s best friend while he was out of town and then made up some nonsense because she didn’t want to get caught, but then started talking to her ex and got caught for that instead…
Listening to her gave me a headache
she basically saying she complied cause she got scared so basically she was rapped. these are rape allegations. she should've just told her boyfriend from the start. her boyfriend is also immature for not asking his best friend questions.
It's kind of incredible just how fast she glosses over the fact that she cheated while sober.
Well I mean she FINALLY gave in after 30 whole minutes. Doesn't that like prove she's not easy and untrustworthy. 30min is totally a lot a time to get someone to cheat with their bfs best friend bro fr fr.
@@wtflawlbagslol 😂
Her story is simultaneously too detailed and not detailed enough.
I think the non-BS version of her story is this:
She had too much to drink at the first party and let her boyfriend's childhood friend smash her. She felt guilty about it and became emotionally distant from her boyfriend. This put strain on the relationship. She bumped into her ex-boyfriend, cried on his shoulder, then cheated with him. She got caught by her friends, put on blast, and her boyfriend dumped her. Now she's playing the victim because she's facing the consequences of her actions.
Just my take.
Yeah this is the jist of what I was seeing
I think you may be right 💯
BINGO!
I think this is it!
Yo how the fuck was this 3 days ago when these niggas just uplaoded this shit 4 min thes ago?
The way she dodges accountability and enters the victimhood is ASTONISHING.
Well she is a teen, biologically. Either way, SA victims need to break up with romantic partners so they can focus on healing. Her boyfriend was clearly not mature enough to ask questions and she didn't broke up with him after being SA'd and you are literally starving to find someone who can understand you. It was the best for her, her ex is far from perfect if she doesn't even feel safe enough to tell him about being SA'd. The victimhood mentality is normal when you get SA'd because you just can't understand why people don't believe you and your mind is not ok. You can ask SA victims how they were unable to heal until their partner broke up with them.
@@Mariet31 she wasn't sa lmaoooo you can tell her story is bs and wants to be the victim when she clearly cheated on him and doesnt wanna take responsibility 🤣🤣🤣
@@Mariet31 she's no fucking victim stfu she's not mature enough to stop someone's advances
@@Mariet31 Obviously, it‘s the boyfriend‘s fault. The bastard should‘ve read her mind to figure out what was happening, then go back in time to smooth things out.
Can‘t you figure out that by your logic, no matter what he did, he would always be in the wrong. And this is assuming, without any evidence, that she is telling the truth.
@@Mariet31 she's clearly making false SA accusations. That's the worst part of this whole thing.
8:33 first, we’re not putting our finger down
LMAO PREACH IS HILARIOUS
In all this, she just makes one bad decision after another that all could have been avoided if she communicated clearly. I have a friend like this. she gets into all kinds of drama because she never says no and never tells people the full story and then says people "made her" do stuff and get in drama. She never takes initiative and is passive in her own story. THAT gets you into trouble.
signs a woman is lying
-She's obsessed with painting herself as a good and noble person("I care more about my boyfriend more than I care about myself" and "I didn't want him to drive drunk because I'm a good person")
-She gives too many details that are irrelevant to the story (she was driving an Acura. Who TF cares or even remembers anything about their car)
-She did absolutely nothing wrong in her version of the story
FAAAAACTS. even my mother be doing this.
That's woman bro
Correct.
I met a baddie once, everything body wise was my type. 2 mins into meeting, she starts about her ex in mexico who was such a horrible human being. That was the end. Never talked to her again.
@@RobinXlone yeah you guys ate using incel taling lijts and logic you all need Thepary and a trained Psychologist
She lost me when she gave this terrible story about the results of going to a house party... And then she decides to go to another one and discuss everything with her ex.
Every single time I've seen a girl talk with her ex like that, she either was cheating or ended up cheating.
She lost me the second she try to act like she got assaulted and made a tik tok and never actually reported or called the police 😑
the fact she went to ANOTHER PARTY and got drunk...... BUT was REFUSING to be sexual with her BOYFRIEND, after fukin his best friend.
Yo.... you cant make this up
@@ronin4303 exactly makes me think she's just trying to concoct a story to paint herself as a victim rather than admit and take responsibility for cheating.
She lost me when she tried to speed run thru the story so nobody wouldn’t ask questions 😂
Yeah, she has all of the traits of a narcissist. Gaslighting, no accountability, no boundaries… I’ve been with a girl like this before, no cheating that I know of but she kept in contact with her exes and used other men for attention too. It’s a good life lesson for him.
However, him going for her best friend when he could be dating any girl seems like something a narcissist would do as well to get back at her. Narcissists tend to attract each other.
There is definitely, 100% without question, some shit she isn't saying because it makes her look bad.
She's literally doing gymnastics to try and dodge the accountability.
I was totally on board at first. I've known 'that guy' that tries to convince you to do some shifty shit behind his friend's back, and I've been in a situation where a course of action directly opposed to my loyalties and moral code felt like the only way ensure my own safety. I even understand not telling your fella' right away because you don't want him to flip out and make the situation worse.
The part where I fall off the wagon, is telling the ex-boyfriend and not the current. I get not telling him immediately, needing time, etc, but the choice to confide in the ex is not the act of someone that puts their partner first. She knew how that would make the current boyfriend feel. She chose to do it anyway.
Which honestly, is fine, whatever. Talk to whoever you want - but that suggests that the current relationship isn't worth either of their time anyway. There's clearly no trust on either side, take your half of the accountability for that broken dynamic, and quit while you're behind. This internet martyr bit is a waste of everyone's time, including hers.
Fully agree with you
But convincikg still means she agreed IT right ? Like she could have acted different
The fact she felt comfortable telling her ex first says a lot smh
That was just her way of telling her ex she's available.
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Says what it was her boyfriend's best friend that would be hard the best friend would just lie and people tend to believe best friends over someone they been dating a year.
The best case scenario is that she just has SUPER Terrible problem solving skills - especially under pressure. That still makes her a giant liability as a future spouse.
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Best case scenario!!!
Future spouse, friend, employee, just about everything. 🤷🏾♀️
@@ItzMalick hey dude, stop the spam. Seen you all over the place, doesn't make it right.
Whoa. Dude.
Put a finger down if you ever hear the tragedy of Darth Plagueis The Wise? I thought not. It’s not a story the Jedi would tell you. It’s a Sith legend. Darth Plagueis was a Dark Lord of the Sith, so powerful and so wise he could use the Force to influence the midichlorians to create life… He had such a knowledge of the dark side that he could even keep the ones he cared about from dying. The dark side of the Force is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural. He became so powerful… the only thing he was afraid of was losing his power, which eventually, of course, he did. Unfortunately, he taught his apprentice everything he knew, then his apprentice killed him in his sleep. Ironic. He could save others from death, but not himself
bro :(
☝️->✊
I wasn't expecting to read Star Wars lore but I'll take it, its from a good scene
lmao
I am ashamed at how much I laughed at this
Things are never as good as they seem or as bad as they feel. Always tell myself this
Great quote by you
The craziest part to me is she went to ANOTHER party even though she was so “traumatized”
A college person not going to a party?!?! What!???
@Conquest it’s not a modern day woman thing lol. That’s just how sexual trauma tends to work. I would encourage you to do a little research on the topic 👍🏾
@@leilahdeb I’m so sexually traumatized!! LET ME GO BACK TO THE SAME PLACE AGAIN!! 💀
@@leilahdeb I get what you're trying, cause you are in a lot of comments defending others who may have the very behaviors you're mentioning but you're coming across defending a person who is clearly lying and only really inviting troll responses. Even if it is a shame kink thing she doesn't "know" about it's still dodging responsibility. I have mental issues that has a high risk of abusing drugs, high risk sex and etc but I wouldn't go to my fiance and said I cheated on you cause I'm traumatized. No I did it on my own accord, period. With that being said preach does have a point as a man I'm not in that situation nor can I say what I would've done but hey I didn't fuck the girl that rode me without my permission and made me nut in her again. The bitch became my ex that night. Trauma hits everyone different, truth. However this one be lying.
She was looking to get “traumatized” again
This is a story all about how I totally didn't cheat on my boyfriend with his best friend, felt guilty, then gave him the cold shoulder and refused to sleep with him. Then in my guilt confided about it only with my ex who I totally didn't behave inappropriately with while drunk at another party to the point where my friends felt the need to tell my boyfriend and then for some reason I can't understand he dumped my ass.
This is a story about how my life got flipped turned upside down. And I’d like to take a minute just sit right there...
I thought thats where your comment was going at first
@@Keyser___Soze Oh it totally was.
Tried reading the whole comment to the tune of fresh prince
She admitted to cheating though with the childhood friend
I definitely tried reading it to the tune of "Fresh Prince".
Just the fact that she felt like she could confide in a random EX but not her current BF is grounds enough for him to dump her, if I was him I’d be hurt too
It’s so weird to me too how she starts off this story with a detail so mundane as “I was excited to go to the same college as him” and the amount of added irrelevant details makes her story sound so “please believe me!” when the truth normally speaks for itself
Notice how she put herself in a high moral ground " he was gonna drive kids home drunk, so I stepped in to save the day" oh yea slurped on my buddy to save the kids
"I was doing the right thing stopping him and driving the kids home but he came with me despite me driving him back to the party in the end anyway"
Slurped my buddy to save the kids is crazy I’m dying 😂
Also I just realized she says a bunch of “kids” I literally thought kids… she’s talking about other people her age 😂
Saving kids in her mouth lmao.
@@genesisansbro4936 A lot of high schoolers call younger students “kids” even when they’re only a year apart. Seniors love calling juniors or younger students “kids” lol
The story loses ALL credibility when she started to confide in her ex rather than the boyfriend IMO
It lost all credibility when she screwed her bf best friend. She wasn't taken advantage of, she agreed to do it and kept it a secret.
@@earloflemongrab1290 Exactly. Heck, the best friend will be in jail without parole if that history was true.
@@earloflemongrab1290 exactly 🤣🤣🤣... that early!
agreed 👍🏽💯
She said he “borderline assaulted her” because she couldn’t bring herself to admit it was consensual but also knew she couldn’t say it was r@93 because she’ll get sued for libel.
I've been in a situation where I was pressured similarly...there's no gun to your head, but you don't want the situation to escalate any further and no one else is around.
I am actually interested about this, so you slept with the person, because you were pressured?
zengara11
Pretty much. We were alone and after we kissed, I was like ..."welp, time for me to go"...he just refused and said "no you're not, you have to stay blah blah". I refused many more times...at that point I didn't want to scream or yell so I gave in.
@@LoveDayandAge same i feel you LITERALLY but this girl is lying ….
@@LoveDayandAge I am sorry, never been in your situation. But was it a full blown rape, he knew you did not want to have sex, and you never said yes. Or did he think you wanted to have sex as well?
Because if the first, you should report it, and it is not the same as this girl
Yeah is like soft rape, or plainly just rape.
Depends how the girl takes it mentally afterwards.
Some are traumatised and it affects them a lot.
Others are able to move on…
Pretty much though if the girls are strong enough, could very well charge the man for rape easy peez.
The boyfriends is not obligated to stay in a relationship where he doesnt get intimacy
This feels like one of those movies where the plot could be resolved in 15mins if everyone just talked to each other
Right?
The entire plot fabric of Umbrella Academy 😂😂😂
Basically Doctor strange 2
@@theshahman2418 eh they actually did talk to Wanda.... she just wasn't having it 🤣🤣🤣
I’d cap it out at 5, maybe 10 mins. This entire scenario is just dumb.
all the people in her life know the truth and don't support her and now she makes a tik tok to get validation from strangers that don't know the full story
Bingo.
That's so true, they're even getting cruel with her "the people at Chipotle saw him with your friend" so you mean to tell me they even got Chipotle employees on the lookout? Lol
If they are saying that then they're doing it to twist the knife because she probably Amber Heards everyone in her life and now it's revenge
EXACTLY!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯
When in trouble, call on a digital army of r3tarded teenagers and simps with a sob story, because those two groups dont have any mind to confirm anything.
Oop!
"No no no
Make some space on that island" 😂
How to twist the story to benefit yourself
1. Tell everybody how much you loved your boyfriend and that you did way more than you cared about yourself to point out that you are a good person.
2. Point out all the red flags he was giving while you don’t describe your state at that moment and that you were force to do it because he was drunk while I’m sure she wasn’t sober as well and liked the attention she might not was getting from her boyfriend after 1,5 years
3. Don’t take accountability for her actions and blames her boyfriend and friends now because she is alone with some men.. men know how men can be being alone around a woman when they have been drinking.
I’ve had experiences with this in my life I’m telling you I can sense when people are not telling the truth. Why try so hard when you know you didn’t do anything wrong?
To me if your friends took it upon themselves to alert your boyfriend that you might be messing around with your ex, they saw you doing a little more than just having a conversation. She probably was flirty, touching him, maybe hugging him, etc. Now maybe I'm wrong and her friends just like to keep up drama but like Aba said, the truth is usually somewhere in the middle.
agreed. if it was extra of them she needsbto reevaluate her friends because esp at that age. but based on the first story something says they were like bruh she at it again..
@@gmikes5184 Right, I don't necessarily think friends were in the wrong for telling the boyfriend what they thought. I would need more information. I'm assuming they are mutual friends so they may have felt obligated to say something. Honestly she messed up in the very beginning by not telling her boyfriend what his friend did and then she messed up by doing whatever she did with the ex so I don't blame him for leaving her.
I think what made me suspicious of her claims was that they jumped from her talking to her ex to she's cheating. Something tells me it wasn't them seeing talk but doing something more. Sure they probably didn't smash but she was probably touching.
Or one of them was into the boyfriend and wanted him for herself
Or they could have just said what they saw and the bf himself thought of cheating
Whenever the story is waaaay too detailed it usually seems like they're lying.
My gran always said he truth is boring & straightforward & it needs nothing to lean on. Only lies come with flowers & their mates.... meaning unnecessary information.
I am a very detailed person cuz I like context but when telling the story I wil say things like “but I’m getting off topic” or “but that’s not important”. Even I will admit fault in things and try to be straightforward in stuff.
She basically claimed she was raped , yet didn't seem one bit upset or emotional while talking about it.
@@bullshark3771 and that's why you are good and she's not.
@@bullshark3771 Yes I give too much info as well but usually if I'm defending myself I keep it simple.
"First, we're not putting a finger down " I'm DEAD 😂😂🤣🤣
Props for ada for keeping track while me watching preach watch this
All I'm hearing is the boyfriend dodged the pregnancy/marriage bullet! Good for him, keep stepping. 👍
Not every hit is a home run, keep swinging buddy
I believe she was SA'd but when that happens is not good for neither of them. SA victims can't heal properly if they are still focusing on a relationship. He is far from perfect, how on Earth he didn't ask questions about not having sex or why she acting weird? Well, one word: teenagers.
@@Mariet31 If she was sexually assaulted she would have called it that not "borderline sexually assaulted". Like what does that even mean? She cheated, felt guilty, and lied. That's it
@@mrtyrone2572 no she wouldn't have, people who were abused dodge that label like the plague. That's why people will literally describe abuse and deny abuse at the same time
@@Mariet31 if he asked question, he would've been considered "pushy" and "overbearing" and "clingy" and the all time classic, "insecure". Men don't have that luxury. It's not his job to force her to talk. If she can open her legs, she can open her mouth. 0 accountability is a red flag. She should be avoided like the plague and so should any woman supporting or making excuses for her nonsense.
This is exactly why everytime I'm getting to know a girl I'm interested in I always asked the question. "So what do you think went wrong with your last relationships"
And just like aba said. If they do nothing but put the blame everywhere else and don't even mention a single thing that she think she could have done better than I'm out.
That just shows they're a person that's incapable of truly reflecting on her part in the relationship. We ALL fuck up. The sign of a good partner is someone who actively polices themselves and takes you into consideration. These the type of females to act all wild and don't want any rules yet want to hold you to a perfect standard. I've met way too many of these women.
She had too many details available for a supposed traumatic experience.
She basically said, "Everybody else is an evil liar. I'm a perfect angel." Never trust someone who "never does anything wrong." This girl is bringing drama and a whole bunch of half truths.
Also, I just don't get people who rant and rave about their relationship problems in public. In this case, it's an ex. MOVE ON. Learn from it. Keep it to yourself.
I hope her making this public helps guys avoid dating or god forbid marrying her in the future.
I’m so glad to not be that age anymore lol but then again, there’s still adults out here who still think and behave like this
accountability --- females "aaaah!!" (putting hand up to block and panic like it's kryptonite )
I zoned out because of the many details in her story. K.I.S.S
Keep it simple, stupid!
@@MikeBarbarossa It depends, many men don't like taking accountability either. I've been with my husband for 17 years and for the first 10 he had a very tough time apologizing. I apologize easily so I think I've rubbed off on him by making it not that big of a deal.
Her: Traumatized at a college party
Her again: Went back to another party along after being traumatized.
Sus
She is a Hannah baker fan
I known women like these they are trash. Never date them and never believe a word they say.
Not only did she go, but she went alone, WITHOUT her bf, who WASN'T THERE, when the bad thing happened???
@@mikotosuoh285 let me know if you find it
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Never trust someone who needs to tell all their bussiness on social media
"Mine was a Dodge...but" KILLED ME!!!! 💀
She on that Rap God by Eminem energy
Lol
More like rap devil lol
More like Stan
We all know the rap god don’t even have to say the name at the end ^_^
*Nagging god
Halfway through she describes the BF’s friend as having “borderline assaulted her.” WTF does that even mean? The fact she can’t call it an assault makes me think she played a part in the act.
It's either assault or it's not, there's no grey area. The fact she doesn't outright call it assault basically tells me that she was complicit in it. So basically she cheated, but didn't want to say she cheated.
Also, she was driving the car and he was in the backseat. Why the fuck would you willingly park the car, get in the backseat and fuck your boyfriend's best friend whom you know is drunk. This bitch is fucking stupid for getting herself into this mess and for thinking there wouldn't be any backlash.
No doubt
Because he “pressured” her into having sex … if she really didn’t want to have sex she could’ve just got out the car and called a uber or somebody else to come pick her up - she’s acting like he was going to r@pe her she probably made the whole thing up atp 🤦♀️ because of how quickly she went back to her ex
This is because you have never been a woman. When your date walks you home, comes into your appartement uninvited then starts pressuring you to have sex, and finally you give in because you think it's the only way to make him leave.... was it consensual? Was it rape? I think it's 'borderline assault'. But most men conveniently paint everything in black and white, like you just did.... and all I can do about it is try to raise my son to be more clued-in than that...
@@SunshineJoleen no, it’s about context. sure in any other case what you said might ring true but shawty’s entire story is weird and what she described it as is just icing on the cake.
I love y’all’s content. Great discussions even when I’m a disagreement and it never goes to far either. Thank y’all; your really changing peoples lives with the wisdom y’all have
Aba said it’s Castaway me and the ball as Preach is standing right next to him 😂
She can’t let the man “she loves more than herself” touch her because of trauma but she can go back to the parties where trauma occurred with her ex 😂😂😂😂😂 🤡
It’s funny how trauma works. Sexual trauma tends to lead women to make decisions that put themselves in more situations like that. It’s hard to get out of that cycle unless you become conscious about how the trauma affects you
@@leilahdeb Maybe, but that's not what the hell happened here. This story is her twisted attempt to reframe her cheating as "I was *basically* raped" so that she can self-soothe about her drunken mistakes
@@leilahdeb Yes, sexual trauma can on occasion result in people having hyper sexual behavior or act in dysfunctional/illogical ways. That's one reason why sometimes people who are abused as children grow up to be abusers themselves. That being said, this girl is CLEARLY lying. She cheated on her boyfriend repeatedly, got caught, got embarrassed, went crazy and now wants to paint herself as a victim.
Bingo. So traumatized not to have relations for 1.5 years but can still go to parties.
She is a little liar. She tried to play the role of the good virginal girlfriend with her current boyfriend but was found out that she had her little indiscretions and then tried to play the victim to explain it away instead of just owning up to the fact that she is a cheating little game player.
He did good. Never come out of your boundaries to satisfy someone else. This goes for everybody, all races and genders. Respect yourself first.
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Indeed, my G. 💯 She obviously was tryna make him come out of it to satisfy her own insecurities & control him.
Anytime a person puts themselves forward as “noble” and “good” without any accountability, for even small minor things, with weird irrelevant details that aren’t relevant to the story while smoothing over the actual event, is a lying narcissist
That hurt my ears. Like it just carried onnnnnn! 🤦🏻♀️
Just one question: Why would you think it's okay/smart to dish out all of this on the internet if it's true?
I think people in her sorrounding doesn't believe her, that's why she has to get validacy from strangers in internet (mostly people who don't know her).
Although, I think it doesn't really matter what the real story now because in the end her bf (now ex) already dumped her, and she would keep denying that her bad decisions might have big influence about why she is in her awful situation now. It's coping.
Facts it weird af to me.
Clout?
I would never understand it. Add the fact that she put his face up at the end
yikes.
Because she’s in high school and that’s how that generation communicates for some reason lol. Sounds like she’s isolated herself from some friends, and the other friends don’t want to speak to her, so she feels alone and wants people to sympathize. It’s not working, though.
Whenever I hear someone openly stating something like "I don't love myself", almost as if it were synonymous to "I am a selfless person" I instinctively roll my eyes
It's just a cop out to act dumb. Women are very sabotaging
That's a great point, being selfless =/= not loving yourself but rather you love others more than yourself or you can love as much as you love yourself.
Yeah anytime i hear that shit I immediately know it's to excuse some shitty behavior once you deal with enough women it's an easy pattern to pick up on.
I didn’t used to say it all the time but I used to feel it all the. But then again I’m clinically depressed and a couple years ago my mental state was *much worse* than how it is now. Not perfect but better. And speaking from experience: no. Hating yourself and being selfless are *not* the same thing
100% synonymous
0:49 bruh, on god. People like sharing shit too much on social media. Having a journal is the best thing that I’ve ever done. 💯
I gave in but I was pressured and its not my fault ... "I gave in" tells it all
WAIT WAIT WAIT! Never mind how believable or unbelievable this story is. Look at it from from the boyfriend's perspective.
When he returned from a holiday, his girlfriend inexplicably is emotionally cold and sexually distant, and then he finds out she's talking to her ex. What conclusion is he supposed to come to besides, 'She cheated on me with her ex when I went on holiday'?
Also.. was she just going to allow her boyfriend to go hang out with his cheating friend... she was not going to tell him, and they would eventually hangout again.. that alone says a lot. She was using the boy for his money and potential career in mlb (likely not as most d1 dont go pro)
it's called a conversation
@@somebody700 she said she got “kinda assaulted” very much a sociopath and evil to those actually assaulted
@@dertythegrower ya for the fact that so many feminists wanna act like regular men know and knowingly hang out with r*pists and assaulters, it’s crazy how much some women just tolerate and keep associating w men and people who do actual stuff.
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OMG What is it with people dry snitching on or exposing themselves nowadays?? Specially when it is a story that makes you look sus.🙄
They don’t have two chickens.
That’s way beyond sus. She straight up admitted to cheating.
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Her avoidance of responsibility is over 9000 holy hell
She’s grown, she knew exactly what she was doing. People move weird and expect to walk without consequences. When you walk away from the table, be prepared to walk away from the table
“When you finally gave in” b!tch please. If my man’s best friend whipped out his dick I would RUN!!! You don’t put yourself in those kinds of situations.
She's in highschool, isn't she?
@@monicacreator3168 so's her bf. whats ur point?
@@monicacreator3168 you have no control of you behavior in highschool?
@@BOZ_11 Did I say anything on the bf? They are both in high school, obviously
The accountability point in such a long story is pure GOLD!! That's a super important point. No human being is ever blameless in a story that spans years. If you're unable to see your contribution to the problem (of something that spanned 1.5 to 2 years) then most likely your version of events is super sus and self-serving.
deep inside she definitely feels guilty which is why she wouldn't touch her boyfriend, but she is unable to look at herself as a bad person so she's gotta find a way to justify all her actions
she's overplaying the victim role. I get that she was assaulted, but... she went about everything the wrong frkn wax and refuses to be accountable for her part. It's ppl like this that make it hard for other ppl to believe victims.
@@urmamasmamasmama lol she wasn’t assaulted bruh keep up 😂😂
@@Saulgoodmane
Who knows? Let's give her the maximum benefit of the doubt. Let's say she was assaulted. The way she handled communication was absolutely terrible.
@@yingyang7448 I honestly. Can’t see how a drunk person in the backseat continuously asking you for sex a sober person driving then you pulling over in a quiet place and hoping into the backseat and having sex can be classified as assault if anything she assaulted the male he was drunk she was sober and by the woke crowds logic that’s grape
When preach put his finger down. I can not. 🤣😂😂😂😂😂 literally lol’d
06:14 wait... Now the friend just *borderline* assaulted you?
You just don't wanna be labeled a cheater.
her posture, her speed her EVERYTHING... made me not only to fall behind on listening to her, it made me not even wanting to bother playing it back or making it slower...
I think some of my braincells felt like victims... as their corpses were dripping out of my ear
Ditto man fuck that
Lol. Her mania made me doubt her immediately too.
Lmaoooo I didn't replay it but definitely tuned it out and was like "this chick needs to put up little animation to help the audience follow along with the boyfriends cousins first aunt removed twice from the best friends uncle...."
This is why you tell kids to get off your lawn, because they are annoying.
hahahaha...I just made a very long comment and at the end was thinking why did I make this comment? Why am I watching this? Am I becoming progressively dumber watching these things.
High school wasn’t that crazy for me god damn. I never went to parties, had zero romance, I never studied, I played sports, I went to prom with a friend…that’s what I remember. Zero drama. When I went college I did not keep in touch with anybody
Smart man
U still in college whats ur major
Right. This version of high school I’m glad I never had to deal with. My high school years were boring af compared to this. 😂
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Scrolling looking for another video while listening to this bit was surreal.
My best friend had a girl that was to attached so he called me to flirt with her so she would cheat on him with me, and she did, so I told my homie and he broke up with her and than she went crazy like this. She belong to the streets
You finally gave in because you were attracted to your bf’s friend and probably felt really shameful about it. The entire story screams “things happen to me and I’m not responsible for my actions”.
@Just A Donut if it's a small neighborhood it's not impossible. It's probably fake as hell but it's not impossible
Yep.. and the fact she would all three hang out eventually many times after.. she wamted the baseball guy for money and fame if he went pro, but was having side flings amd got caught... obvious
@Just A Donut also the fact its his supposedly friend.. they would all three end up hanging out again. And then she would go along and tell the guy to not tell him... she got caught in a lie right there.
@@razorflossrazor2937 No because they only have chipotle in big areas with new strip malls
Or she would rather accuse a man of something rather then be the bad girl in the story. Modern women will ruin a man's life rather then risk their image with the consequences of their own actions. Bruh💀
This is one of these stories where the more you listen, the more suspicious you get
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This is how it is to be men. We are listening and trying to make sense of a story that doesn't make sense. It is what it is.
"some of y'all need dairy" *a diary.
Hahaha!
What I thought of when she said “her friends told on her” was that she must’ve been doing something really foul for them to turn on her like that. That’s not something you come back from. She was probably crossing the line and they couldn’t deal with it. Maybe it wasn’t the first time!
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She told so many lies that no one even mentioned how she glossed over the fact that THE COPS were apparently looking for her. Why? Why is the police looking for her?! What did she do?!!
No not necessarily they could be like frenemies. Girls that you keep close, but they are secretly jealous of each other. Its especially common in *high school.
@@tropistan7735 she said she was “missing” 🤨
Nah, she didn't need to do anything bad. Women are like that. When their friend has better relationship than theirs they sabotage their friend's relationship because misery loves company. It's very common.
Best case scenario (for her) is the best friend forced himself on her and then, instead of talking about it and/or getting therapy after the depression spiral, she just clams up about everything, keeping the boyfriend in the dark (potentially making *him* feel like he did something wrong because she stopped sleeping with him) and then opening up to the ex... then getting mad at the boyfriend (who doesn't know anything about anything because *she didn't talk to him*) because he broke up with her due to, what I think are reasonable suspicions of being cheated on, and continuing on to be a total nutcase about him moving on with his life.
Worst case is she just cheated and got mad that she was found out so she's lying about it...
Either way, chicky needs LOTS of therapy... probably in-patient and kept away from the internet for awhile XD
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I'm stuck on best case scenario 😳🤔
likely case scenario is the guy was asking her so much that she just gave up and gave it to him lol, he was relentless in his pursuit of P@
@@tiffanykim2773 she would be innocent
@@tiffanykim2773
I was too until I realized that she was sober the whole time and the best friend was drunk.
The whole story sounds very Wattpad in 2015.
Imagine going through something this horribly traumatic and not being sad at all while you rant about it online.
Any time your woman starts talking to her exes over you she's already mentally gone and 100% ready to leave the relationship
Thats not exactly true. She could just be a ho and cant help herself when it comes to intimacy when in the moment with other men. Theres all types.
PLOT HOLES
Her story starts to fall apart when she says " u have no idea where your phone was"
I'd have continued to believe her if she said where she left it. She obv has it by the end of the night.
I believe he may have been pressuring her, but if he is begging for 30 mins as she drives, that doesnt give off danger vibes. she probably had more control in the situation, but still "gave in".
Trauma is a serious thing. After months, she doesnt want intimate touching ok, but why does she feel ok to go to another party? Also ofcource, spending time with your ex instead of talking to her best friend or boyfriend.
The truth is she cheated, but only got some slightly forceful limp dk and now she's stacked with guilt.
Yeah. And her friend said some random ass Chipotle employees said they saw her EX and her friend? Huh?
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Also um if his “friend” was drunk driving kids home.. when you offered to drive why did the guy go with you if you brought him back to the party anyway? 🥴🥴
@@nickb6425 That's a good point...
There is something about that drive that's weird too. She drove them because he was too drunk, but he came anyway. She dropped all the kids home, and between the last kid being dropped off and arriving back at the party, it was enough time for him to beg for 30 minutes AND for her to do it anyway? How far away was this last kid's house? If it was 45 minutes drive, then she would be 15 minutes from the party and think "damn, he has been begging for 30 minutes, I can't put up with this for 15 more" and just do it. If it was an hour away, that means she was gone for at least 2 hours, maybe more than 3 after dropping everyone off. I don't think you'd get half way home and just pull the car over and jump in the back seat.... something here doesn't sound right.
I wish aba and Preaches would start adding the link to the original videos.
Saying "put a finger down if..." and then proceeding to tell an insanely detailed and unique story that has happened to nobody else but you is actually a thing I've seen plenty of people doing. They know nobody else has had this exact experience they just want to passive-aggressively tell their story and also catch our attention enough in the beginning of the video so we will stick around until things get interesting.
"I was scared and stay in bed 24 hours a day and my parents were worried that I was sick. THEN I WENT TO A HOUSE PARTY"
what a joke. the writers of she-hulk could've done it better
LMaoooo I just realised holy shit
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even more.. if you listen carefully, it seems every time she going to party, she gets into trouble. i think its bad luck. not because of her actions and decision. it is purely bad luck. yeah. definitely! :)
Yeah exactly
@@igorstasenko9183 sound like she loves r@pe
So basically she ran in to her boyfriend homie that she always thought was cute af at a party, let him smash, then regretted it
Now she paranoid thinking he was gonna snitch and now she had to make this tik tok to make it seem like he took it forcefully lol
This is insane
Then after all that, she so traumatized that she couldn't sleep with her boyfriend, but she can go to another house party with her ex and tell him everything lol
Just wow
Women
Women moment
That ending was the best. "Oh wait these are high schoolers, nvm" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Life lesson: This is how a narcissist narrates a story. I’ve been there before, I hope young men become aware early and don’t have to go through this too.
I've lived with one and the way she explains this story brings back some memories. Good riddance!
Was it your ex too? 😂🤦🏾♂️
I can agree on this. The fast talking can be done as a way to disguise any lies you are telling so you talk fast over them. The hand gestures.
Not me, I aint taking responsibility for no shit.
I naturally got a guilty conscience and am a deep thinker so most times I know when i'm in the wrong.
But then again, that guilty conscience could be a double edged sword if i get caught up with a serial narcissist now that I think about it. So imma pay attention and still look for signs.
Genuine question though, Can someone have a "natural guilty conscience" is that a thing or is that just me deep thinking again?
I think I need therapy 🤔
Facts got to break it down to the science.
It’s easy: if I’m in relationship, there’s no way anybody “convinces” me to go in the back of the car with them. They might force me, but then it’s clearly r@pe and this person goes to jail. Otherwise, no damn way.
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And then you do what's best for your boyfriend and not tell him, because you don't want him to kill someone for it? Not cause he'll go to jail but lose his baseball scholarship 🤦♀️ and as a result do what's best for him and make him put up with no intimacy for MONTHS with no explanation, how'd this mf stay with her
@@ItzMalick
bruh
That’s a lot of words for, “I cheated on my bf with his best friend & ex, but I got upset because he left me and then eventually after a while got together with my best friend.”
“First we’re not putting a finger down” fr Preach had me dead🤣🤣
I'm just so appalled by the fact how we're living in times where people narrate traumatic events that happened to them on TikTok whilst playing a game with straight faces. Jesus Christ.
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Because its fake
The way she dodged accountability is like she lives in the matrix.
Almost like a ton of problems can be avoided by not going to house parties.
Here's a thought to people. Stop going to house parties or environments, that put you in those situations.
The fact y’all paid attention to the story… is crazy 😂😂 her story was all over the place
What's the @ ?
what story? it was a bunch of excuses for her getting caught cheating.
This girl is acting like everything that happened was just events successively happening to her and she played no part in the way things unfolded. You aren’t responsible for what happens to u but u are very responsible for what you do or how u react.
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When Peach said "I mean Mine's was a Dodge" I almost fell off my chair laughing. Yoooo, Thanks for that!
If it was sexual assault then she should press charges.
The loops and turns this story took is insane 😭 how we go from her pulling over and bumping uglies with his childhood best friend to mental hospital and running away from home????
SO when she said she had to pull over and give in she said she was scared and she didn't know where her phone was... that's sus... I mean people just don't drive and randomly leave their phone out in the car. It's in your pocket. She knows what she did that night she just can't admit it and that's even a bigger red flag.
A person who can gaslight themselves into believing she was coerced into cheating with a thousand excuses waiting for anyone who dares question her story is not a healthy partner to have. But I gotta hedge though, she's a typical teen these days with all the drama and poor choices. Maybe she'll grow out of it.
Yeah. Some psychologists basically say that all teenagers are narcissists, most grow out of it. She is a completely narcissist right now; gaslighting, manipulating, no accountability…
She did say his friend “borderlined assaulted her” because she couldn’t bring herself to say he deserved charges for what happened. I think that’s as close as we’ll get to get admitting she cheated consensually.
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So she was at a house party, drove people home so that a drunk guy wouldn’t drive them and didn’t know where her phone was. Also she being a teenager decided it would be a good idea to drive a drunk guys expensive car, that probably belonged to his parents, when she wouldn’t have been on the insurance. Don’t know where she lives but surely an Uber or taxi or other friend could have driven the people home. I don’t think there is much of a chance she wasn’t drinking at that party and she was probably drunk driving, sure she may have not been as drunk as the guy was but she was still drunk, who that’s sober leaves a party without their phone?
Also if he was trying to convince her for half an hour then she gave in, then unless he was getting violent she could have not given in and just drove them back. Also if he was trying to convince her for half an hour then that would be plenty time to find a residential area or back to the party rather than give in. Also if it was over half an hour to drive back to the party then that means the round trip was over an hour to take those kids home, probably closer to two, so who at the end of a house party, drunk, decides to drive 1-2 hours to take some people home? Also if she was sober then who goes on an over one hour drive very late at night or early morning without their phone in someone else’s car, she either had to be extremely irresponsible or drunk or it didn’t actually happen like she says it did.
Either she is extremely stupid or irresponsible, drunk driving for a few hours with a car full of people or that story isn’t what really happened, maybe they decided to go for a drunken drive in the guys parents nice car and then ended up in the back. Her story definitely doesn’t add up. If you are sober at a party it is usually because you are being the responsible one, driving for a few hours without your phone doesn’t seem too responsible, especially when driving someone else’s car that you won’t be insured on and could count as theft.
There are just too many things that seem wrong with the whole story, chances are she willingly did stuff with that guy in the car, and then felt guilty about it and became distant from her boyfriend, then she talks to her ex and her boyfriend is told she was cheating on him, so she has been emotionally and physically distant for months and caught talking to her ex and accused of cheating, it is perfectly plausible to think that she may have been distant because she was cheating, then she is caught talking to an ex and accused of cheating, so to a lot of people that would sound like she has been cheating.
The whole story just doesn’t completely make sense and the fact that she always makes it sound that she was in the right and doing the right thing and she was assaulted and a victim, and can’t see anything wrong with what she did is definitely a red flag and makes the story sound pretty fake. It just sounds like she is taking zero accountability.
@@conorstewart2214 Amen
She was driving around a bunch of drunk people just trusting their directions? Nuh uh, I’m getting their addresses and putting it into my phone, no way I’m getting lost cause I didn’t have maps up. And this coming from a girl who just oozes “I’m gonna do a Tik Tok dance” she really thought we’d believe she didn’t know where her phone was?