Conquer Your Fear of Women (3 Techniques to Approach Fearlessly)
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- čas přidán 23. 10. 2023
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"let me tell you a story"
how to be boring 101
Do the story, especially when me tell you
He has good advice
Thats called Hook. Art of marketing
Legendary words
I did it bro! I feel 10x better after just saying “Hello” to a pretty girl today.
Forming this habit of saying just “Hello” or “How are you?” to random people on the street is so good man.
why didn't u get pinned
@@bkomidwinter5986because he plays football
Hamza should really pin this man
I can’t believe this ineffective misinformation is still spreading. If you lived in Vancouver you’d be so screwed for so much as looking at a woman for more than two seconds. When is the cold approach narrative going to DIE
But after you said "hello", she must've replied with the same. Walking away after that 2 word conversation, isn't it awkward?? I just wanna know what exactly happened so that I too can cold approach a girl.
When we realise, last 11 videos hamza recorded in same outfit and same room, in 1 morning. Probably there are few mire videos recorded same day waiting to be published. We need to respect this work♥️
Or he is like Alex Hormozi and doesn't change clothes lol
Let's hope it is not an Ai
Did my first-ever cold approach of my life this week and it went almost perfectly. I saw her at my gym, she was new, so I just turned my brain off, walked towards her and just talked. The conversation flowed beautifully. She ended up being 6 years older than me, so I didn't ask for her number but the experience was fucking awesome.
King
I did same but conversation died through text but we go again
I'm proud of you bro
but I think we need content to speak to a woman and not just approach her with nothing important to tell/talk otherwise she might think I am just trying on her, secondly i should have something to interest her too. what do you do to full fill these things? there nothing someone have to talk about with a stranger, what did you do?
@@abdulmoeez4294 That's what no one ever answers. 🤷♂
There's no better way to put an end to your fears than to face them.
Today, I had eye contact with a random girl in my class. I find her cute. After the lesson I passed by her when she was sitting on her table. We had eye contact one more time and then smiled. I had something to say but I thought it wouldn't be a good idea to start talking. After watching this video I understand I had to do it. So, by 24h from today I'll have edited this comment and wrote what happened in the approach. I'm excited to do it...
Edit:
Mission succeeded
Update bro
@@Snoitatidem done
@@romany177 well done.
@@Snoitatidem ty
what did you say?
I’ve cold approached 3 women in my entire life, the last time just a few weeks ago. All 3 times rejected saying they have a boyfriend. It gave me experience. Sure it sucks to get rejected and it stings but it also gives you confidence that you have overcome your fear.
Don’t just approach randomly, actually try to improve over time
@@billusher2265 that’s right and glad you pointed that out. My plan is to only approach women now that are giving signals (hovering nearby, smiling at you and walking your way etc). I’m still massively proud of myself for at least facing my fear
@@DiggingDeepVlog bad idea, signals are rare and hard to spot
@@billusher2265thats cope female signals are usually pretty clear
@@billusher2265there really not, if a girl truly likes you it’s very obvious
Hamza's son: "dad, why do you force me to meditate 1 hour every day?"
Hamza: "Son... Let me tell you a story"
Alright this is nuts....I HAVE NEVER commented on a yt vid...first of all, I'm shy as fuck, I've had few girlfriends but they all approached me, I would never approach and certainly not someone I don't know.....tried the first time at the gym, had a great convo with this gorgeous woman and it was quite genuine, she said no to the insta but was so nice regardless....2nd I tried later with this blonde girl and complimented her hair cause it was just good as and that was a short, ear phone back in type convo but felt so relieved.....left the gym and went to the chemist and I'm literally just getting toothpaste being served by this girl, she gives me this nice smile, very pretty with her glasses so I said she was pretty and walked off.....I was about to leave but thought I'd regret it so much so I went BACK in and asked for her number and she DID IT....I actually screwed up and it still worked, fuck HAMZA thank you!! Mind you I was deep breathing like a maniac who just sprinted a marathon, ALL DAY...I couldn't let this pass, people it works, please have no doubt about it, it WORKS
I talked to 3 girls at the mall today. Didn't get their numbers but I was glad I did it.
Let *me* tell you a story :)
I remember this one time in highschool I saw this pretty girl who was given a task to decorate the school hallways with large paintings.
She was quite beautiful and so were her paintings, I was impressed and made the decision to approach. I approached her politely and said: "Hey, that's a very cool drawing".
To my surprise she completely, absolutely, entirely and wholly ignored me...
The moral of the story is not to discourage others who read this comment, but rather to show the contrast between the two ways I could've handled it:
First way would be to just not mind it, walk away and continue on with your day fully confident in your abilities and trying approaching again some other day with a different girl.
The second way, which is unfortunately the way I chose, is to take it to heart, walk away and give up any hope of approaching for a very *very* long time.
The decisions you make are up to you and only *you* can either force yourself to get better or force yourself to give up, that's the moral of the story.
This. The greatest thing I want when it comes to dealing with women is to be internally 100% certain of my ability. To not be swayed by a negative reaction, because it is not a reflection of my character. I know who I am and my worth is wholly independent of any girls' reactions to me, because I know I'm attractive.
"Let me tell you a story" in the beginning and "do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it" - beautiful composition of the videos
As someone who is considered awkrward around women, despite being a "Chad" having a good body and working hard in life, I still feel nervous when it comes to talking to women, I will try your tips tomorrow and am pretty sure I will find results. Thank you Hamza for this video
same fr
Im in the same situation here, I actually talked to a girl I like today and I felt nervous but right after doing so it felt satisfying but even though she didn’t seem interested it still felt good doing do
I don't want to sound like an arrogant cunt but pretty much in the same boat. Not some big masculine looking guy. Fairly lean and only standing in at around 5'8. But overall I'm a fairly decent looking guy. I know girls find me attractive but I never use to be this way so I never had that experience as a young kid so as I approach my 18th birthday as of next week I still have never spoken to a girl even in the talking stage. Which is alright it's probably saved me a lot of cringe and awkward moments.
But at the same time I have never really had a crush on a girl through the first 17 years of my life. Sure there were hundreds if not thousands of girls I found attractive but only on a surface level, never to the point I would call them a crush. Well that was the case up until about 11 months ago when I met the kindest, little angel of a girl. The moment my eyes laid upon hers I knew something was different. And the day I found out she has a type of blood cancer my love only grew knowing that such a sweet girl could be cursed with something like that.
For context she works at the same store at me for work. I haven't seen her in about a month because she went to Europe with her close family and I'm currently on a trip as we speak but whence I return I will see her again Saturday. This is my chance I know it
Do It bro
how did it go?
2:19 Technique #1 breathe Fully
7:11 Technique #2 Command your legs to walk towards her
9:14 Technique #3 Just taking to her is progress
You will do this for every new video of hamza form now on. Gg man u are time saver.
Time Saver 🎉🎉🎉
cheers bro
Common Francisco W
Ya’ll are a bunch of pick up artist degenerates. Enjoy driving yourselves crazy I guess.
Brooo that’s so true on what hamza said. I was in school walking down the hall and around the corner turns this pair of girls and straight away I decided I wanted to hold eye contact with one of them and so did she and since I was walking towards her direction i could tell she was so nervous because about 3 secs of eye contact and a slight smile from my part she smiled and started to look down all the way until we passed each other. That was a level of attraction that was built right there just from eye contact and a smile.
That's what I needed the right time . Hats off to you Hamza
I still remember my very first cold approach. I was 14 years and it was at our middle school volleyball game. This was before the days of cell phones (Im 45 now ) so me and my two best friends had already written our name and home phone numbers on pieces of paper. I chose the prettiest girl from the visiting girls team and just walked up to her as they were loading into the bus, said something like "here you go" and handed her the paper with my number on it. She never even called me, but the fact that I had approached such a pretty girl made me feel such a rush, and because other guys saw me do it I got props from them for like a month as the guy was not afraid to talk to girls.
Hey Hamza, I’m 3 years old right now. I wanna say thank you for changing my life. There are rare number of people who actually talk about the real shit. If I had never found your channel, I would have always been 1.5 years old. Thanks, man!
3 yrs old 🤭are you chicken?
💀😂
Fools.. he meant that his self improvement journey started at 3 years ago...His self actualization...
@@Masculinitygrowth463good dumbhead🥸
I was 13 when i first watched hamza videos and I was kinda depressed about my life, and now two years are passed and i have a dream fisic and a good life. Ty so much hamza.
its crazy how positive their reaction would be when you approach n compliment them.. it makes them feel good abt themselves n in awe of your bravery
you know that you are essentially saving lives with these types of messages? thank you so much
actually like this style of uploads hamza has been doing, watch every video of his like its a full time job lol, keep it up.
Hamza, you are ,in my opinion, the only youtuber that actually tries to help. You are the only one that actually helped me. Thank you very much man.
Thank you Hamza! This fear is plaguing me right now.
I wanted this so badly!
Thank you so much Hamza!!!
Hamza, could you create a FULL step-by-step guide on Visualization and Self-Image? Thanks to your videos, I've come to realize that this is a crucial aspect on a self-improvement journey, and it would be fantastic to have more practical tips on how to effectively practice visualization and affirmation. I think the whole tribe would appreciate a plan for integrating these practices into our lifestyles and daily routines, along with any self-image transformations you've personally observed or experienced. Thanks a lot, Adoniss.
P.S. I will keep commenting with this message on every video until it gets noticed :) Guys, drop a like on the comment if you too would like to see the FULL guide so Hamza can see it!
I think he mentioned it on other videos about self affirmations
have you read psycho cybernetics and think and grow rich? Those give good outlines, especially Psycho Cybernetics
@@franciscoferraz6788 what's that cybernetic thing
Hamza is the person who is trying to build the world more perfect , im happy to see hamza become the inspiration for millions hats off
I love these kind of videos man i really appreciate your hard-work thank you.
Why are your videos so frikin good damn
Thank you for your longer guides and these videos Hamza, you changed my life
Needed this video! Thx Hamza🙏🏻
lovin the new style of your videos
Following you since last few months , I have loved everything i have seen very informative and seeing a lot of changes in me i am 17 btw looking forward towards a better future and development in me Thanks a lot Hamza Big bro❤!!!
(Current me)
I’ve actually cold approach a girl today who I been seeing in class for a while and it felt satisfying because I was nervous and that has given me a confidence boost to do this more often
This is actually Gold bro
i just got my first approach , although i got rejected , i felt awesome knowing i can do it.
before 1 week i just skipp your video i addicted in gaming video and other few days before i clicked a video of you your in that video telling truth i loved it addicted to your video waiting for videoo daily i think i just improving thank you hamza
Bro at this point you're like the bigger brother I've never had thank you mahn..
Admire how you post everyday at the same time love how structured it is
Really good videos indeed
@@Afonso.Goncalvesyes I liked his old videos but it's better, he grew up. I'm proud of hamza
Yes, they're fantastic, consistent and full of value.
@@DryEtherbro he started using thumbnails and also that type of caption like 3 tips 3 secrets and all that which he said was not good for us so he changed his content but he is doing that again... Whats ur thoughts on that?
@@chirag1698it's not that big of a deal. I actually like the fact that he is putting effort in structuring the videos and growing his channel. I could care less about what this person believes because I don't follow his teachings like the bible with that said acknowledging that the other person is human. I'm just not that concencered, it's free knowledge grab a bite.
Finally someone explains this properly thank you hamza I will make great use of this knowledge
Hamza man, first off, thanks a lot for all that you have taught us. You inspired me to start going to the gym, and as a former skinny kid, im proud to say my bench pr with 12 reps is now 40. Moreover, I would like to ask for advice on how to treat girls on a date, cuz there was this one time I got a girl from my old school to go out with me, bear in mind that I had been crushing on her for a while, so I had one of our common friends at the time just ask her and see what the vibe was on her part, and it was fine. When I actually went to meet her tho, it was a whole different story, lowkey embarrassing, but I lied to my parents and had mom drop me off, then I walked over to her and noticed she'd brought 4 of her friends, 2 of whom used to be my friends, but I had cut them off cuz they were pretty degenerate. This made it very awkward, I continued to make small talk, like oh how've yall been, its been a while since we last spoke etc and by the end of it, I ended up paying for the whole meal, including her friends, and later that day when I asked her over text why there were 4 other people, she said she felt unsafe, and that destroyed my confidence completely. How do I recover from that? cuz now I just feel like a creep for no reason
Ask her why did she bring her friends on YOUR date, also paying for the whole meal was a mistake, dont do things you dont want to do. If she rejects you cut your losses and keep going. You got this homie :D
Hey brother, I feel you. Might feel heavy rn , but it really isn’t. Id say that getting that situation right with yourself is more important then asking her for some kind of validation. Just accept what happened and keep it going. Next time something like this happens you’ll be better prepared. No point in thinking it over and over . I hope this helped, stay safe
@@bigsmalltanker I tried asking her why she got friends on our date, she said she felt "uncomfortable" ; that really hurt, also, correct me if im wrong, but isnt it a chivalrous thing to pay for the meal cuz i asked her out, i asked her to come and spend time with me, so i feel like it only makes sense if i pay
I am watching Hamza for over Months and finally a Video whare i cam relate myself fully. Hope this video work for me.
Doing the hard work specially when i Don't feel like it.
Right on time.
Thanks my friend 😊
This is probably my fav video I've ever witnessed
Couldnt have been a better timed video
Thanks for the good advice mr.hamza i will follow ur advice now❤️
Hamza is still amazing. No matter the format of the video, the information is still the most valuable ever.
You are my inspiration
Although i’m loving the new high production videos, I really want you to consider bringing back your old style once in a while just for us people who have started watching you in that bathrobe fit in your room, just raw presence to feel like the older brother giving you advice vibes again. it hits close to heart and could feel your emotion much more when it’s just you and the camera. Regardless though i’m loving the work you’re putting in and you’ve changed my life immensely.
finally, a perfect video for me
About the breathing techniques, even saw pro football players do it when they are about to shoot a penalty
I remember CR7 doing that technique before shooting an important penalty
So I agree breathing correctly is so important for success.
Breathe fully is the best advice ever
you can even take double breath, breathe fully then a little more
I’ve changed a little bit. Today, I didn’t focus saying “morning” to a beautiful women, my goal was saying morning to EVERYBODY who passed by me and the results are really good. I’ve never said good morning to someone for no reason like I did today and it strangely gave me more confidence. All of sudden, I don’t know why, but the people started saying morning first to me. I’ll keep in this way for one week and next week I’ll change my focus to women.
You know guys i am 16 and have started cold aproach in this week. For sure, it's normal. The girls i talked with were open for me and i could easly share ideas with them. The proplem i forget their names( since they are a lot it's difficult to remember all girls name). Any ways, i will continue!
Bro how do you do this, i feel so awkward at the idea of just saying Hello to a woman i have never seen before
W
@@majo4146just imagine you wanted to tell her something, forget the idea of getting her number or wanting to date her and your it should be easier to speak to her
@@majo4146just do it
@@majo4146 me too im just gonna start saying good morning to girls and good afternoon
You are more than a man for us!
He's a superior man!
Bro relax the dickeating is crazy
Thank you Hamza
The crazy thing is, I approached a girl in the gym a few hours ago after not beeing sure if I should, but I still did it. I made few mistakes and she said she has a boyfriend, but I felt so good that I did it! Otherwise I would sit at home and would think at "what if"
Very inspiring. Now, it's time to take action.
Bri i really think this ones the perfect one , i dont wanna ruin it in any way
He had a new start ,
The life saver ❤❤
Still working on my confidence
Love you Hamza
oh man! I literally got anxious when he said what was the actionable step😂
I will do this 24 hrs ❤
Do the hard work especially you don't feel like it quote hamza ahmed💪🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥💯
Super cringe la primera historia pero creo que es algo que todos los hombres experimentamos en algún momento. Gracias por compartirnos información de valor cómo siempre
Crazy how Hamza takes a whole day to record his whole day, then sends his videos to editors so he can enjoy his time, MENTAL
thanks hamza
cold approached the girl who lived near my house (wasn't hard as we both have dogs) for the first two conversation of ours , i didn't even ask her name , it felt so wholesome talking to her , the third time i asked her name and man the surprise on her face and than the rush of excitement in her voice as she told it to me . i've talked to her twice since , and it's like kind of ovbious she likes me and i like her (i do get confused sometimes whether she likes me or not) like yesterday i saw her with her dog and just went to her , first she just turned and tried to walk back and then turned again to say hello , i took a deep breath and started talking and this turning back happened like three times , until i finally felt like going and i just asked her if she will be there at this time tmr as iam free and she agreed
day 8
ok I'll do it tomorrow after work
You're really pretty am so sorry you definitely made my day with that liner😂😂😅
This came out at the perfect time, Hamza. I'm thinking of speaking to a girl that lives across from me. she's really pretty and I've seen her passing by a few times and I promised myself yesterday that the next time i see her im gonna stop coping and speak to her. it'll be my first cold approach ever. hopefully these tips will help
Forget u even like her and talk to her like ur guy best friend, the convo is so much easier
Saw girl at the gym today made eye contact with her like 5 times left at the same time as her and everything and didn’t speak to her after leaving I feel like it was more embarrassing not speaking to her than trying to speak with her. I think it’s to late for me to talk to her next time I see her but this video came at the perfect time thx 🙏🏻
The only tips you need really
Love you bro from india ♥️
as a 14 yr old, My concern isn't on woman, my concern is achieving my dreams of becoming a man full of Dignity , grace, greatness, wealth, kindness, and excellent physical health. Once i achieve my dreams I will be the happiest person in the world. I'm currently fighting and hustling to become this man who I want to be, not wast my time indulging in pleasurable activities, Imma keep my head up and go all in on my dreams.If anyone is aiming to achieve their goals, giving their all, while persevering through the obstacles they face on their way. Then my friend, your dream will become a reality.
But make sure you are comfortable talking to them, it simply makes life easier when you aren't scared of talking to 50% of the population
As a guy turning 15 this year, I wish when I turned 14 these were the first things on my mind and not my girlfriend. You're going to be very successful, good luck bro
My friend, finding happiness will take you from it. God, the Father, is with u
Same bro, i am also 15 and women/girls aren't my primary goal right now. I just wanna improve my social skills so it doesn't become a burden for me in the future.
Stay hard 🔥
Bro he is telling u to just be confident and socialise it’s not always about the women it’s about the perspective
Hey big brother.
The Adonis cap is fire. Where can we get it from??
Make a long video on home schooling! Hamza
Today is October 24 2023. Time is exactly 10:01pm. Starting 24hrs from now I will cold approach at least one girl within this time frame. I will come back once I’ve done it.
I hope that you will succeed bro
Update us broo
literally felt anxious clicking on the link 💀
I don't know if some of you guys have encountered cases like this but my best friend is like a nine, he's 23 (a year older than me), he does some calisthenics and all that, wears nice clothes, big on perfume and his social skills are really good. So the amount of women throwing themselves at him is inconceivable, he litterally doesn't have time for 7s and 8s who are texting him trying to get a date (if the girl is 27-30 yo then she just invites him to her house straight away, and the last of these was a model who had left her husband a couple of days earlier). His colleage pays for him when they go to lunch (saying that she really appreciates him as a friend and wants to do smth for him as she makes a lot of money, at least for Russian standards). Then I remember how one the guys we know invited a girl on a first date and took my friend with him not to feel uncomfortable, after the date my friend actually fd that girl at her place and he wasn't even trying, you know how it is for chads (the second guy was ok with that as he knew it was over for him)
It's always crazy to me what happens and how he doesn't even care. I'm interested if you guys have seen such examples of this chad privilege and what was the craziest story
(not using any of this as an excuse to stop improving, just know that a lof of guys don't really know how it's all completely different for chads)
Boys also like don't forget to have a vibe when you talk to her because sometimes we can get a bit stiff so smile and have fun💯
Fax man too many guys don’t even try to give her happiness or a smile
8:39 the reason i watch this guy's videos among others lmfaooooo
Thanks
I will update this message in 24 hours with my cold approach story
if no one this work, try the M16 technique
This sounds crazy but my advice to add onto yours would be to just simply get used to talking to woman. Whether it be your mother, sister, a coworker, etc. Now obviously you would NOT talk to your mother in the same way you would if you were interested in a woman, however I personally have found it easier to cold approach and talk to girls I'm interested in when I simply have conversations with them and I'm around them more. Sometimes me and my coworkers will flirt back and fourth (obviously never meaning anything by it) and that will give me the confidence to handle any conversation with a woman that I'm REALLY into.
Fax man, I also relate to your point on family as well. The girls who u don’t like can be acc op in terms of improving ur skills
Unlike others, shit! I really like this quality content.
Hamaza, I really want to start self-improvement, but I just don't have time for it. I am 13 still in school and I really want some advice. Love your videos aswell man. 👍
50 Push-ups every day for the next month
Self improvement isn’t a new hobby that you do once a day. It’s a lifestyle you adopt
Hope that helps
Still young little man focus on school and working out with bodyweight exercises for now!
I’m scared of going to new girl tommorow at the gym but I’m going to do it. That’s what it is all about- even if you are scared, just go and do it
Update?
The "old" hamza is back
I'm missing the Adonis intro , still this is good ...
Blew the house up: " LET ME TELL YOU A STORY " 🗣️
You should probably make a vid on how to start a conversation
Today I was talking about this to my bro 10 mins ago, thanks man 👍
- [00:00]🚶 The speaker shares his personal experience of overcoming the fear of approaching women through cold approaches, emphasizing the importance of taking action.
- [02:19]💨 Proper breathing is essential for overcoming fear and awkwardness when approaching women or facing nerve-wracking situations.
- [07:04]🚶♂ Commanding your legs to walk towards a woman the moment you see her can help overcome hesitation and improve your approach's effectiveness.
- [11:05🗣 Simply saying one word to a woman, like "hello," is a significant step in making progress and increasing your chances of successful interactions.
- [13:40] 📝 Take the actionable step of approaching at least one woman within 24 hours, saying at least one word to her to gain confidence and make progress in your dating life. 69
This is basically great 😃