Transphobic Heckler Ruins His Own Life - Steve Hofstetter
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Transphobic Heckler Ruins His Own Life - Steve Hofstetter
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EDIT:
I wanted to post an update of something I got wrong. The tatted up guy at the end of the video had a VERY different story than the one that was told to me.
Turns out he was not only at the show, he was a fan AND the guy that first got the attention of the police. He was so heated because he is part of the LGBTQ community and had been assaulted previously - so when he saw it potentially happening to a few trans women, he grabbed a cop who was stopped at a light, ran back to the theatre, and got in between the transphobe and the women. He wasn't trying to escalate as much as he was trying to be the one to take the seemingly inevitable punch. And he left when the cops got there because he was the one who called them over in the first place.
I was told he was a bystander who just hopped in the fray, and I understand why the folks who didn't know him thought that. In their eyes, he showed up out of nowhere and ran in - but really he was running back to protect folks from sharing the same fate he'd already experienced.
Anyway, my apologies go out to him. And know that if I ever get something wrong in a video, I am happy to correct it.
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you are doing it wrong lol Trans rights are the same as pedophile rights, or flat earther rights, as in they dont have any LMAO trans people are less than 1% of all people and what you think is trans people really are just liars hoping on a bandwagon. Being trans is the new ADHD LMAO
oh this is gonna be viral i bet
Roasted him.... I love it!💯🔥🔥🔥👏
Missed the Richmond show due to COVID, I'll catch you when you pass though again.
Great set! Glad you put him in his place, the gutter!
I wanted to post an update of something I got wrong. The tatted up guy at the end of the video had a VERY different story than the one that was told to me.
Turns out he was not only at the show, he was a fan AND the guy that first got the attention of the police. He was so heated because he is part of the LGBTQ community and had been assaulted previously - so when he saw it potentially happening to a few trans women, he grabbed a cop who was stopped at a light, ran back to the theatre, and got in between the transphobe and the women. He wasn't trying to escalate as much as he was trying to be the one to take the seemingly inevitable punch. And he left when the cops got there because he was the one who called them over in the first place.
I was told he was a bystander who just hopped in the fray, and I understand why the folks who didn't know him thought that. In their eyes, he showed up out of nowhere and ran in - but really he was running back to protect folks from sharing the same fate he'd already experienced.
Anyway, my apologies go out to him. And know that if I ever get something wrong in a video, I am happy to correct it.
I'm glad that he wasn't just trying to escalate, and he was the guy who, in the end, helped get the moron in jail.
Pin this
Thank you for the update.
Nah I'll believe he diddled a kid. He self snitched with his prohection
@@Umbrage0Agreed. Needs to be pinned.
"Give it a minute" guy seriously stole the show, that was perfection!
Thank you kindly!
That was absolute comic gold.
It was the funniest part of the entire show really.
@@southpineshooligan I wouldn't go that far! Steve had way better material than my wisecracking ass.
10:28 dude is coked out of his mind as well🙄💯🤬🤬
I'm a single father of 3 girls. When they were young and on my own, I had to help them use the restroom when out in public. I'm not going into the women's bathroom nor am I going to ask a complete stranger to watch them while they went in by themselves. I had only one option, take them into the men's room with me and absolutely nothing ever has happened because everyone in there wants to use the restroom and leave.
exactly. no one wants to do nature's call out in open public; it's not only unsanitary in a developed, civilized city, it's downright weird. we already have to put up with that from the doggos and the horsies since they don't know any better compared to houseapes, but we are willing to clean up after our animal companions.
Yeah this is normal parenting a lot of these people cannot seem to understand.
Was recently at a local zoo in the men's room with my son-in-law and his twin 3-year old girls. They are still learning to use the toilet. That sort of thing happens many times everyday.
My daughter is trans, she's trying SO hard just to get through life, she's a fantastic student at a top college in Washington D.C., she doesn't want to "groom" anyone, she wishes she was like everyone else, she doesn't wish her issue on anyone else, it's crazy. NOBODY wants to be trans but it happens. Nobody wants to be a diabetic or have a physical or mental illness but it's part of life and you try to live with your "affliction" as best you can.
The trans people I know are just keeping their heads down and trying to get through life, it's very challenging for all of us.
Father of three adult daughters and now grandpa of two granddaughters (almost 3 and 5 months) here ... I know this story with first-hand experience. So far, so good in not having to deal with some overzealous lunatic in a public bathroom when i find myself with no choice. But I am well aware it is inevitable at some point.
This was a BIG RED FLAG that his bumble date luckily avoided.
Well, she didnt avoid it as she went out with him, but she did leave when she realized she needed to nope out of there.
That’s why Fani Willis dad taught her to always carry cash 😉
I hope his one phone call, was to her, and she had blocked him, before said phone call.
I agreed with the guy
Given all that's going down with bumble in the last week or so, I laughed way too hard at a 3 months old comment! 🤣
Best outcome for his bumble date, indeed.
I love that the woman with him IMMEDIATELY left once he started.
"I've made a terrible mistake!"
Makes me think there were other red flags
@@J43RH absolutely.
8 beers is a red-flag - his behavior is the hazard the red flags are warning you about.
She's a smart gal
Canadian cops asking him to please leave multiple times before finally arresting him is the most Canadian thing ever. He was given every opportunity to not be terrible and he refused every time.
All the while knowing he had cocaine on him.
They reminded me a lot of cops here in the Nordic. Patient, tries to talk to people first and gives an easy way out if there is one.
I wouldn't be surprised if they were apologizing while they were putting handcuffs on him
@@bryanrhodes369funny!!!
It's a lot more widespread than Canada. In democracies, the aggressiveness of US police is the exception, not the norm.
I did like how the girlfriend 'noped' out of the whole thing early on. "You have chosen poorly." must have popped into her head.
I was thinking that it looked more like either the Jontron "Nope nope nope!" gif or the "Fuck this shit i'm out" audio with how her hands were up and she was scampering away with leftovers.
Like a 'grab the breadsticks and run from this axe murderer' scamper
want the survival suppleness of the bumble date, that's some super power right there. She said not today satan.
i've heard of Bumble being a rather sh1tty app, but didn't expect this to be a thing as well...
In fairness, it was a first date. She heard that nonsense begin and was smart enough to head for the exit immediately. Pretty sure there won’t be a second date!
"She choose...POORLY."
That's what she gets for going out with Indiana Douche.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wait wait wait. He’s claiming that more child abuse is committed by women….but he has an issue with MEN in “little girls’ bathrooms”??
I mean, what?
It's almost like reactionaries have almost 0 consistency beyond their consistent ignorance.
"So, how did the date go?"
"Oh you know, we went to a comedy show, he didn't like the jokes, one thing led to another and now he's in jail for drug possession and assault"
-The woman, probably.
🤣😂😅😆😄😅🤣
Comedy show hmmm
I thought it was funny 🤣
Yup. No biggie to her. Girl's gotta get laid and I can relate. But that guy? WHY?!?🤭
Lool I know them, she share his opinions and she liked him more after that... I thought the same at first 😂
When the guy said ' give it a minute' I genuinely spat out my beer, that was awesome.
Fr started to cry laugh
Definitely the funniest part.
That audience member is my hero LOL
I'm sorry I caused you to waste beer 😂.
@PhilB61 dude that was inspired !
Why does that guy think bathrooms are solely populated by unaccompanied little girls?
Bathrooms should just be labeled “toilet” with a picture of a toilet. Then, you go in and there’s a toilet.
Thank you! All this bathroom nonsense could disappear if we used common sense. It's the "cattle mentality" in the USA no one will let go of!
With stall doors that dont have any gaps
@@DeepFleeceheart LOL, you've had peepers have you? Before any of this nonsense, I worked hard to avoid public restrooms all together, had nothing to do with the Trans community, trust and believe! 😲
Couldn’t agree more. I’ve seen that many places and it’s so basic and clear. This is a closet where a toilet is placed. Done.
I don't know...seems a bit complicated. We'd have to have an informational campaign to help people learn the system. Perhaps, given enuf time...🤨🤷🤔
I know this was a horrible incident, but it made my night. Why? Because I cracked Steve up! I was the "Give it a minute" guy!
That line was actually hilarious - and perfectly timed, too.
@@JescoLincke thanks! I was tired of it, and some people near us were also saying stupid stuff. So I thought I'd at least crack a joke.
Until that guy came back in who had talked to him, we had no idea he was still outside waiting. He was still there when the show let out. I stuck around in case he got extra stupid, but then someone said the cops were on their way. And I decided that I didn't want to be hanging out when they got here.
Oh, shit, I didn't know he had taken a swing at someone. That must have happened before we got out. When I got out, the ladies were being loud with him and I was worried for them. Then I heard the cops were on their way, and I did like "the tatted guy" (I'm a different "tatted guy"!) and left a cloud of dust behind me!
Timing was excellent. He was SO confused by the question.
@@stevehofstetter that's high praise from you, Steve. Maybe one day I'll say that was my beginning in comedy!
Correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t the dude basically admitting he can’t trust himself around little girls in public bathrooms?
To be fair the way the question was phrased left no room for a non weird answer
@@adriansparrow4554🍿 is out for the retort
Yes. He is a freak.
I surely wouldn't trust my kid with someone so lacking in judgement and decision making skills.
@@adriansparrow4554 True, but the guy's own statements prior had set him up for the question, I think.
the audience member getting so annoyed and yelling "yes he did" at the heckler took me out
what got me was one guy yelling "Thank you, God! Thank you!" i'm atheist, but even i would praise god for that XD
7:38 "give it a minute" was some of the best comedic punchline ive ever seen.
That man deserves a statue outside that comedy club, "Best comedic timing"
He’s actually left a comment a bit further up. Absolutely agree with you on that timing - pure gold.
Thank you kindly!
As a father of a little girl... I can confirm that when I had to take her to the bathroom I took her into the men's room with me. Hell, he doesn't think men abuse children? Somebody show him the news about the archdiocese in Baltimore, MD.
I can't help but think he denies men being capable of abusing children (or adults, apparently) because he thinks it will keep folks off his trail. That dude reeked of dudebro who date rapes girls dumb enough to go out with him.
Do you take your little girl to the women's bathroom? If not, why don't you do it next time.
"I don't want to kick his ass. I think mother nature already did that."
Brilliant line.
I live in North Carolina and I remember the passage of and uproar over HB-2. The bathroom provision in the "bathroom bill" was repealed less than a year later and the entire bill sunsetted in 2020, the bill defined no enforcement provisions, and a sizable chunk of the LEC said they wouldn't devote police resources to monitor bathrooms, but it saddens me that my neighbors vote for and reelect people who would even consider such a bill.
I live in NC and I'm trans... I use the bathroom I feel like using... To hell with that law
@@ozzy7109pervert.
There is a bill being proposed here in New Zealand by a right wing party that is pretty much the same as the bathroom bills from the states. It's so disappointing and scary.
Child predators love easy access.
@@rickyrobbie You must be the heckler from the video.
“if you went to a 90s r&b show would you be mad that they aren’t playing country music”
[SILENCE]
"Give it a minute"
The way I see it, if you're absolutely convonced that a man anywhere near a small girl would immediately lead to abuse then it says a lot more about you than a trans woman. It really made my day to see so much support in the audience and just in general in the street, and here in the comments.
That's exactly what pedos say.
And as a trans woman who came out as a teen be sure they don't care about sexually harassing us, not matter the age
Congrats on using groomers' favorite gaslighting technique, trying to shame people into not enforcing appropriate boundaries between their children and unvetted adults.
Now if I believed in guilt-by-association the way you do, I would say that that means you're a groomer yourself, because you happen to be making the same argument and taking the same position as a groomer. See how that works?
@@danavidal8774sorry about your mental illness. I hope you deal with it better than most of the internet.
@@berenonehandAnd the winner of the word salad competition goes to...
That was the longest, angriest, most head underwater self report I have seen in a long time. Keep little girls away from HIM, god damn. Ty Steve
Little kids won't be near him now lol. He'll be in prison for a while😂
@@Elmo18782 dude was like OVERLY concerned with little kids man, it was kinda sus how the conversation tried to change but he brought it back to little girls and old men, and whats even more sus, you sound like youre on his side with the phrasing of that message, so what is it? defending the transphobe or just bad at wording?
there's a point where the feigned concern for children is just pushed a teeny bit too far and now you gotta worry about them. drunk dude was miles past that point projecting at trumpesque levels.
LMAOOOO THE GUY I REPLIED TO DELETED THEIR COMMENT LMFAOOO get fucked bozo
@@JH22533 - It is truly stunning how his anger over rode his reason and how deeply that got him into trouble.
tatted up dude was definitely a punk rock kid. they're always ready to fight a nazi.
So did he went to Ukraine?
@@Exercise-01 Maybe if you didn't waste your time and effort talking shit on America's social media, you could create your own social media platform, stop relying on the resources of your enemies, and stop losing the war you started in Ukraine? You lost over 300,000 of your Russian troops in 2 years. Hurry up and finish losing so I can have a reason to visit your home, when your invasion backfires and it becomes "New Ukraine".
@@Exercise-01 Then again, I don't know how long Ukraine will want to keep what used to be Russia. It will probably stink like piss shortly after it is opened for tourism.
Would love to see what his tatts looked like .
There’s an even better story about who he was in the comments, left by Steve himself. More information came to light since this was filmed, making it even more interesting. Have a look through, you’ll see it. Oh, and the “give it a minute” guy is in the comments too! That moment was gold.
I love when they say "Move on.". As if they can just choose to stop everything when they want, put the focus on them, then stop doing that whenever they want and go right back into your set. No dude. You chose this path. Now you have to walk it.
And the frustrating thing about that, as Steve says, is that Steve was doing that for the guy's own sake. He wanted to have a back-and-forth that would ultimately humanize the guy (albeit through toying with him a bit, as it was a comedy show, after all), but the guy chose to be combative and displayed zero sense of humor, and ultimately brought himself down.
"Dont say R Kelly, Dont say R Kelly."
@@Tony36271 "R&B" OH GOD IT'S R KELLY!!!
How about this, I break a bottle and storm the stage. He move on then?
@@twelvecatsinatrenchcoatWTF? Yes… Because the cops will arrest you, as with this POS who started sh!t with someone who roasts hecklers for a living & then got all snowflakey. OP was saying hecklers like this feel entitled to steal the focus of the show, then have the nerve to ask the comedian to “move on” when things get too hot, as if the comedian started it. Learn impulse control, or don’t go out in public, jeez.
I was in the audience at this show. As a trans woman, it really hit different. It was equal parts nerve wracking to hear the drunken hate in that idiot's words, and very relieving to hear that the vast majority of the crowd didn't tolerate any of the trash coming from this guy. I use the ladies room when I have to pee. I go to work and pay my taxes. I'm just living my life. Thanks for being on the right side of history, Steve (and being hilarious while doing so)
This video hit different for me too. I went to a clinic today. The nurse said the doctor wanted to know why I'm taking hormones. I said "gender transition". She asked what gender I identify as. I said "woman and thank you". Immediately the nurse said "no problem sir". The doctor called me sir. So did the person getting my blood sample, and the person scheduling a followup. I got misgendered by 100% of the clinic staff. So when I watched this video it was strange to me. I'm just glad to know that there's some people out there smart enough to think beyond a 3rd grade subject overview
@@Rising_Pho3nix_23 you really got triggered because people misgendered you when you most definitely still look like a male? I really didn't think y'all existed and that these videos of trans people getting triggered over someone mistakenly misgendering you were all staged, but you definitely proved me wrong. Holy fucking shit.
@@Rising_Pho3nix_23 Oof, I'm so sorry you had that experience with your doctors. They aren't all on the same page, that's for sure.
Yeah this video gives me the same pit in my stomach feeling I had when I was there in person. This video proves that people will speak up and out against those who are just peddling their hatred.
@@Elmo18782 Hey did they let you finish any of those beers after they kicked you out of the show? Hope you're working on your coke habit, hon.
@@Elmo18782 Would you lose sleep at night knowing that there are biological women with XY chromosomes using the *gasp* women's restroom? Actually I'm sure you do lose a lot of sleep, you seem a little slow.
When you're on a date, and your date GETS UP AND LEAVES and you STAY BEHIND, nothing good can happen.
I’ve noticed that whenever I talk to someone who thinks like this and they share their beliefs with me, I believe them. I disagree, but I believe they’re being earnest. But when I share my beliefs, they almost always accuse me of lying. “That’s not true, and you know it! You’re not telling the truth! You’re lying.” It’s almost like they think the only reason anyone could disagree with them is to taunt, troll, or enrage them. That says a lot to me. Anyone else ever notice that?
No
I’ve worked in Child Protection for 7 years and specifically in Domestic and Family Violence for going on a further 3 years. That’s a decade of talking to children who’ve been through the worst of things. Of holding space for women who were abused as children. In ten years of five days a week, 8 hours a day professional work where it is my job to seek out these stories, I have yet to encounter a single case of a trans person perpetrating this crime.
In fact from recollection, the only trans people involved in the cases I’ve worked have been the victims of this crime.
Has it ever happened? Yeah. I’m sure it has. Humans do some horrific stuff and some of them probably identify as trans. But does it happen enough to prevent an entire group of people from being treated with dignity and respect? No. It just doesn’t. We need to move past this as a society.
If it makes you uncomfortable because it’s new and you don’t have much experience with trans issues, I think many would agree that’s okay. But if it makes you uncomfortable and you think therefore it needs to be outlawed, you’re the one who concerns me.
What I don't understand is why people seem to have a problem with trans people "possibly" doing this stuff, but never even talk about Catholics, Mormons or even just regular families. I watch a lot of interrogations on CZcams and there's so many cases of cis men doing things to their daughters. Does this get talked about? No. Why? Hell if I know. The world is changing. People who grow up in violent families never learn coping mechanisms, so when things change, they become violent. They learned at an early age to use violence to get what they want, so their prefrontal cortex never has a chance to develop. They are, at a neurological level, childish. And frankly, I'd rather have someone who can think about things running things and not someone who hasn't learned self control and introspection. This video shows a symptom of a bigger problem. People are afraid of what they don't know. Which is fine. That's how we survived the Savanna and kept from getting eaten by tigers. But they make a choice to live in fear and respond with violence. They don't seek understanding or truth. Only rage, power and violence. If you don't care about truth, I really have no interest in what you have to say about anything. You tell me your name, how do I know that's the truth? Ya know? People like this guy don't get to this point overnight. It will be a long time before he grows up. I just hope some day he can look at this night as a learning experience. He will probably be in and out of prison and a judge will make him take anger management classes and get sober. He will probably piss off the wrong person and get beaten within an inch of his life. And when his aggression alienates everyone in his life and he's faced with homelessness, he will evaluate what got him to that point. He will numb his pain with drugs and spend many years in prison. It will probably take 10-30 years before he figures this stuff out and changes. I make these predictions because I've seen it happen with an old neighbor.
A part of me wants to ask you like 2 questions that would quickly give you an Idea of what I do for a living. XD
@@waunke56 I mean your call mate
There’s always some group that is being scapegoated for the troubles of the world when really every group of people had its spectrum of human morality.
Amen!
Holy fuck I lost it at "Give him a minute" lmao. A+ audience member.
Thank you kindly. I just couldn't take it anymore!
De nada
I've seen dads helping their daughters. And I've seen women helping their little boys.
That woman absolutely dodged a bullet that night.
As a trans woman i thank you for having our backs.
Meaning what, you're a man who thinks you might be a woman? Or the other way around?
@@ssgemactv1775lazy, be funnier
**as a man with mental illness
❤
The male back or female back.
A classmate of mine (cis woman) works at Walmart and told me a story about going to the restroom the other day. Two older women were leaving as she entered, but otherwise no one was in there. A few minutes later, her boss comes bursting in asking who's in the stall. She obviously speaks up, and the boss apologizes profusely and explains that the older women had come to the front counter claiming a man was in the women's restroom.
This is what all of this BS fear mongering is doing, making these closed-minded imbeciles so paranoid that they can't even tell a short-haired young woman from a man anymore. They want to claim it's about biology, but they literally can't see past simple gender performance, even when the person is in a uniform. It's insane.
Yep. Anti-trans laws are misogynistic too.
@jeremiell you just said "Can't see past simple gender performance". Lets enhance that last part "PERFORMANCE". Its all a joke. Its an act, a performance. Men are men and women are women. Its how you were born. You may feel a certain way differently but at the end of the day, its all about your chromosomes. Nothing, and absolutely nothing, can change that. No surgery can change it, no wishing upon a star... Literally zero possibility. If you are an adult age and you want to claim you are a Pink Tiger Striped Norwegian Hippopotamus... Got for it. But stop throwing it in our face and telling us we have to accept what you want to shove down our throat when no one can speak common sense to you. Most of us Americans dont give 2 shits about all the drama. It changes when you try to force it upon us.
So... blaming everyone else for your OWN choices ???
Typical...
Instead of forcing your self-identity on everyone, maybe you should just live your lives, as you claim you want, and stop demanding that we affirm and validate your false perceptions all the time.
We just want to live our lives too, not having to deal with your flag everywhere all the time, and not having to wonder what our kids are being indoctrined with in their schools...
Your own life choices, are none of our concerns.
Same old lame rhetoric...
"Fear mongering".
Disgusting...
When NONE of you will be attacked, lose jobs or have your social media cancelled simply for misgendering someone...
You know NOTHING about the fear of knowing that the very school we are sending our kids to, will most likely be INDOCTRINATING them into your cult...
The only fear you should be concerned about is the fear of having someone telling you "NO"...
The hypocrisy...
@@jocec3283wut? Bruh, are you ok??? Karen’s flipping out over another woman with short hair triggered you to post an incoherent rant? Re-evaluate your life
Man do you know how easy it is to just walk in the opposite sex’s bathroom. Trans or not?
I was in a Walmart once, girls bathroom was locked for cleaning so I went right in the males bathroom, took a stall, did my business, then walked right on out.
If someone wants to go in the other bathroom they can already, the fact that guy got some upset is honestly hilarious. What, you think they have bathroom bouncers?
You should be put on a list.
@@metaempiricist You should for thinking bathroom bouncers should be groping everyone's genitals that walks in. You probably think pedo's would be great for that job.
"Don't you know men in bathrooms with little kids is not ok?"
No one tell him the men's room already exists.
Do women and girls go into the men's bathroom by themselves?
I was more thinking that I didn't know age-restricted bathrooms had become a thing.
What about little boys? What bathroom should they use?
@@quirkypurple in clubs and at concerts, they do, if the line on the women's bathroom is too long. And nobody gives a damn.
@@quirkypurple assaults against trans people by cis women are actually a greater threat than the other way around corrected even for group sizes.
Trans people are least likely, in terms of gender, to be perpetrate an assault and most likely to be assaulted by predators looking for vulnerable people.
Ultimately, people like you will probably also use your own suspicions to police cis women and girls that don't pass enough for you.
It's always amazing to see public figures defending trans people. Thanks Steve
I haven't seen this guy with a bad take yet 👍
@@Elmo18782everyone should just get a gun at birth. Then everyone would have a gun. Then everyone could stop the bad guy with a gun.
#nomoproblems
@@cmhsky and what the fuck does this have to do with what I said?
@@Elmo18782 The argument that he supports the second amendment to support your loved ones, but that excessive force shouldn't be gathered because you aren't stronger than a tank?
The game is won. None of us would be able to defend from an authoritarian takeover at this point.
@@Elmo18782 angry screeds from neckbeard incels on CZcams are not 'expert debunkings'. Until the 2nd amendment is abolished, I'm pro-gun; only because marginalized groups need those guns to protect themselves from braindead bigots
As a girl that was molested at 9 by a man ( by my father), I find fault at that dude's reasoning. My father wasn't Trans. And 8 of my father's brothers , also were child molesters.
Never had a Trans person do anything to me.
Thank you for sharing your story and lending your voice to the ethical side of this debate. I’ve worked in child protection for 7 years, and domestic and family violence for going on 3 years. I’ve spoken with many children who have been sexually abused, and many women who were sexually abused as children. Not one of them has identified their abuser as a trans person.
I also was molested by my father until about the age of 12. I also know of many other women who were also molested by their own fathers. It's not trans people I'm afraid of.
I'm so sorry for those of you who were child victims, and what you went through. As a former child victim myself, its been over 30 years ago, but I've never fully healed. I've accepted that though, and it's helped me to move forward in life. I wish you all the best in health and happiness in life. Humor is medicine for the soul, and that's why I really appreciate Steve and other comedians
@@Elmo18782And the only sources stating about any "drag party" is tabloid websites, a CZcamsr who probably was looking for click-bait, and a bunch of redditers who are no doubt haters and don't list any real resources, just as you didn't list any sources and expect people to find what you want them to find and not the actual story. It's these 6 other men who probably are the reason the transgender person is dead. There's not much on this, and it'd probably be best to wait until it goes to trial before anything else will be shown of it. (and don't bother replying unless you have a reparable source, I won't respond.)
This is what I tell people who hate trans/gay people. When did a trans/gay person ever hurt you or anyone you knew besides hurting your feelings just for being trans/gay?
I'm a member of an international organization that takes a direct role in helping abused children... and I've been involved in hundreds of cases since I joined up in 2016... and NOT ONE case I've helped out with has involved a trans perp. There were only two queer perp cases, both of them family members of the abused kid. It's ALMOST ALWAYS a cishet male. Occasionally a cishet female. Rarely a cisgay male, and so far never a trans man nor a trans woman.
I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I'm just saying that in my experience, the statistics just aren't there to support the trans = pedo narrative.
If you'd like, there's a stat I found recently I love to use against them. Since roughly 1997, only 25 cases of a gender queer person invading bathrooms for SA have been reported by the most conservative and hostile sources. So in the span of over 25 years, they at best have 25 public articles of such a thing ever happening. It's embarrassing. They have no ground to stand on. I'm glad you and your org are there for people who need support.
@@YourRandomBAD Thank you.
I'd like to point out that trans people have technically always existed in some capacity throughout time. They're not new by any stretch. Though the current dialogue about trans people and medical interest in helping them stems from the Weimar Republic back in the 1920s and 1930s. And still there's hardly more incidents than that since then.
I doubt you mean it this way, but I take issue with the term "invading bathrooms". Entering is more than sufficient, we don't need to imply that trans people using a bathroom are invading a space. We don't say that men entering the men's bathroom for SA are invading the bathroom, nor for women entering the women's restroom for SA.
@@BerryTheBnnuy oh you misunderstand, I should've used quotes for that because I'm specifying a very choice language they used in those reports. I was trying to highlight the absurdity myself tbh. And yes, I'm actually a German descended trans woman who is very aware and proud of that particular history and the work of Magnus Hirschfeld, who I'm sure you're partly referring to.
@@YourRandomBAD Yes, Magnus Hirschfeld and Harry Benjamin. It's an absolute travesty what happened to the institute!
@@BerryTheBnnuy It's a bigger travesty that the (American) education system brushes over it as "that time nazi's burned down some libraries and such." I try to bring the institute up in all my debates, especially ones that attempt to debunk the very long history we have thanks to them.
In private? I do not have a separate male and female bathroom in my private residence. Does he?
I literally just had a conversation the other day with someone who came to my house for yard work because my pride flags are up (I'm ace and trans). They said the whole bathroom argument and I was like... if someone is really going to do something that heinous, do you think preventing trans people from using the bathroom is going to stop them? They said they never thought about that before. I appreciate you telling people to speak up because I'm honestly tired of everyone talking about me like I'm a monster.
And its nice when people are willing to have the conversation and listen, and learn.
@@ReiperX it is. It's just good to remember that even conversations require consent. Constantly having to defend yourself is tiring
@@atomiccrouton absolutely. Which is why the whole "well everyone deserves to express their opinion" crowd annoy me.
Sorry, Nazis, bigots, they tend to not be worth actually spending time on. Ignorant people, at least they can often be helped, but like you said, not a conversation you can force because it can be so tiring for people like yourself who just want the right to exist.
These people have such bumper sticker minds. If it’s over three words long (“TRANS PEOPLE BAAAAD”) they lose their attention.
Meanwhile….Russell Brand….Matt Gaetz….Jim Jordan….Trump…literally every major religious organization in fucking existence….
Also when approached with this argument, it's important to bring up that most crimes against children are perpetrated by adults they know, so family members and close family friends. So it's just a strawman through and through.
I get very strong "every accusation is a confession" vibes from that heckler.
Yes very much so
Correct.
YUUUUUUUP!
so for your comment to be an insult to him,, you are implying that being an alphabet person is bad
@@Bulldog23636 guide us through your thought process why that would be so
"Motherf#### I had 4 babies!"
I mean, for the whole video this guy presented himself as of he cares about women and women's safety and I believe that this is just such a simple yet clear display of his misogyny. How could he respect trans women when he doesn't even respect cis women? You know?
I'm genderqueer and pansexual so for me it goes, if you don't respect homosexuality obviously you wouldn't respect my sexuality. And if you don't respect cis and trans people, obviously you wouldn't respect my gender.
Anyhow, those trans women at the end of the show are such queens 👑 and I loved that "give it a minute" guy so much I lmao 😂
Whats with the weird ass labels lmao
@@vilxxblack2472 you use them whether you want to admit it or not, psychology proves it endlessly.
It's straight people not cis.
@@vilxxblack2472 Whats with your obsession concerning strangers' genitalia?
@@vilxxblack2472 Afraid of disappointment when being a peeping tom?
This was disturbing , yet poignant! The truth is public bathrooms are uncomfortable for all genders- End of story! Who wants to pee next to other people? Every human being wants to get in and out as quick as possible? The issue is always "trans females using bathrooms"- There is ZERO cases of trans women distrupting or having any altercations at all?- The comediannes made a great point I never thought of? Men alone with thier daughters take them into womens bathrooms?
Usually the men's room and have them use the stall. It'd be more uncomfortable to be chilling in a woman's bathroom waiting for your kids awkwardly outside a stall in comparison.
Lmao I like how his date yeeted the fuck outta there before he could embarass her with his drunken tirade. That's some situational awareness if I ever seen it. 😂😂😂
What I love about this, is that the comment section here is mostly very supportive of the trans community, and doesn't hesitate to defend them against the transphobes here too.
And yes, that is the correct term to use, doesn't matter if "you aren't afraid of trans people."
They actually kinda are afraid of trans people, just not in the same way as an actual psychological phobia. It's called transphobia because people like the guy in the video get roped into all the fear mongering saying that trans people are sexual predators, degenerates, worshippers of satan, and that they want to transify your kids. All that is to paint this picture of trans people as some kind of threat to society. This scary boogieman who is somehow weak and strong at the same time.
It's the exact same thing that happened to gay people, black people, indigenous people, jews, and muslims (especially after 9/11)
People seem to forget that 'phobia' isn't explicitly fear, it's 'aversion to.' Which includes fear, yes, but also applies to revulsion, hate, disgust, etc. Any strong negative reaction.
"hydrophobic" materials aren't afraid of water- they have a strong aversion / resistance to it.
@@LadyNightscaleI think there’s also the fact that they do seem to actively fear us too, even if they don’t think they do
@@Friendlybot9000 I think they fear what we represent, which is that the cisheteronormative social structure is not 100% necessary; thus meaning traditional gender dynamics aren't either.
@@LadyNightscaleYou're spot on! Not only that, but these people make what's between their legs dictate their whole ass personality. Seeing people not base their entire existence off the genitals they were born with probably feels threatening cause what if one day they're expected to find an actual personality too?
North Carolina citizen here, our senate(mostly republicans) have now banned wearing masks in public. However interesting enough, there is a 1950’s law still on the books that allows people to ask permission if they are “part of a society”, and this permission has routinely only been given to groups such as the kkk and the proud boys.
I remember, decades ago, taking my baby niece to the mens' toilet to change her.
WHAT WAS I THINKING!!!!
For me, this guy and other folks like him, who are the loudest about these things and seem to have the ability to sexualise things which aren't sexual, are the ones who need their harddrives checking and Internet search history reviewed.
I'm happy that when he started saying shit, the crowd didn't just stay silent, there were people who immediately spoke up
Also that his date left immediately.
Maybe it was just because they didn't want the embarrassment of being next to him, but they didn't stick with him
Man in trouble for telling the truth should be the caption.
@@testicletanning4453science disagrees brother
most of the fans are gay
@@testicletanning4453 your name is testicletanning
Kudos on showing his face. A stupid bigot should be exposed in public and be made to stand behind their garbage.
What did he say that was bigoted
@@fattiddies85I really hope this is bait.
@@fattiddies85
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Poor bait
nice b8 m8 look at everyone falling for it /s
@@fattiddies85oh man you got us! We're all so triggered!
The Honda bit got me thinking . Those same ppl who name their vehicles are also the ones that put truck nuts on their bumpers . Lol
8:23
As a trans girl from the Dakotas-honestly, they seem a bit more chill than you might expect! Granted, I do live in a city, so that's naturally gonna skew attitudes a bit more leftward, but I've only ever experienced in-person transphobia ONCE since I came out a year ago!
(Side note-I'll be celebrating 1 year on HRT this Friday!!)
Cheers!
@@LauraSquirrel
Thanks! 😊
Happy for you!! I'm late but congrats!
I want to start taking estrogen so badly but I'm not yet 18, and in this state as a minor I would require permission and so much paperwork from my parents whom of which are Trumpies. Cheers!!
@@Givemepeanutbutter
Thank you!! And sorry about your situation-that's gotta suck. Still, if it's any consolation, I started at 21 and I'm already SUPER beautiful! If you start at 18, it'll only work even more so! 🥰 Hope you can get away from your parents and spread your beautiful wings, girlie!!
Also, protip-go informed consent if possible. Basically, it's where if you're over 18 they tell you "Alright, buddy-you're an adult, you can make your own decisions. I'm gonna tell you the risks, and if you're fully aware of them and still want the pills, I'll give em to ya". I went informed consent via planned parenthood, and I got my prescription in one appointment!! Didn't need a psych diagnosis or anything!
@@ob2kenobi388
Thats wonderful news!! I reckon you certainly are pretty!
Informed consent huh? How do I figure that out?? Do I fill in a forum or something?¿
I love how this went from a heckler clip to a full-blown show in and of itself. With a happy ending, of course.
So, I was in the audience for this show with my girlfriend. She and I are both trans women. It was a lot!! I really wanted to come and say thank you after the show, but I'm glad to at least get the chance here. Thank you. ❤
I honestly don't know if I could have handled being in the show with him doing all that. Still working up the courage to live my life. I hope he didn't ruin it for you and you actually had a good time.
❤
I think i see you both in the video!
@@Rising_Pho3nix_23 I'm the girlfriend she mentioned. Honestly I was in such a horrible headspace during this whole ordeal, but we both finished the night out with laughter, which only speaks to how much Steve is a master of his craft.
for real, totally get the raw, jarred feeling, @@AzaleaSprouts. That shit has just made me feel all nerves, hyper vigilant... a traumatic stress response. It sucks to have happen. I live in Portland, so like Vancouver (I miss the Salish sea, I'm originally from Bellingham), it's quite progressive. So hearing the transphobia on the news or something is a slow burn, like the thousand cuts analogy. When it's violent in my face and even vicinity, it snaps me to a warped sense of reality that I'm in a little danger to some degree when I'm in public, and it sucks to feel this way in the back of my brain. hope it didn't follow y'all; also glad y'all had each other and you got to laugh some of it off. 🏳⚧💜🏳⚧
My Dad had to take me to a men’s bathroom when we were in a department store, he stood at the outside door and directed anyone that approached that”my little girl is using it right now, she’ll be out in a minute” and no one complained!
I can understand getting annoyed at a joke, maybe even letting something come out of your mouth.. but like, read the room dude.
This did actually change my mind about the bathroom thing though. I didn't think about parents bringing their kid in already being a thing. I wasn't ever like super anti that, but it seemed weird. Now, I just hope if this becomes a typical thing, stores don't decide "Huh, well we don't need 2 bathrooms anymore so let's build 1 and make sure people stand in line"
Shout out to the audience member who said "I paid for Steve, not you"
It's a comedy show, not a town meeting
And yet Steve was the one who pushed the issue, just because the guy cheered at something.
@@berenonehand Thats his job you mentally ill toad
@@berenonehand The guy started it. Steve is a comedian. His job entails dealing with hecklers. When those hecklers are absolute morons and jerks, all the more so. It is not Steve's fault that the heckler was too drunk to formulate a sentence and too bigoted to have anything of value to say anyway.
@@berenonehandSteve's the performer. He can do his set how he likes. He chose to roast the heckler. What's wrong with that?
@@StormTheSquid "The guy started it" - by cheering at something? GTFOH.
Thank goodness the heckler isn't a parent.
I mean he’d probably have trouble conceiving with his micro penis.
hopefully it'll stay that way
@@darkalystar I'm sure he'll make sure of that, lol
@@darkalystarOh, there’s no threat of a woman going near him.
That's why they want to outlaw abortion, even for rape, because he can't find a willing partner.
The fact that this happened in Canada and not Florida really makes me sad. I expect better of us.
The comedic timing of that "give it a minute" was perfect. That dude should have been up on the stage
How many times do we have to point put that it is already illegal to sexually assault someone in a bathroom before you understand that isn't the issue at hand?!
yes! this!
Its a scapegoat. Sexual assault NEVER happens in public.... unfortunately rapists are smarter than that.
@@RhomboMus just not true, maybe depends on where you're at but i have seen women get groped at bars and outside concerts a few too many times
@@RhomboMusmy mom was SA'd in a restroom, so don't say it never happens, but it was a cis guy. The women's restroom sign did not prevent him from committing the crime, and if there was a law specifically against him going in there, that wouldn't have stopped him either. He was there to commit a crime, so the law was probably the last thing on his mind. That's why the strawman used by transphobes is a crock of shit.
@@spacegrass6632 Well I mean, there are different classes, like opportunists vs. planners, but I catch your drift.
I'm sorry but the random guy saying "give it a minute" in the crowd killed me 😂
This is still one of the most insanely funny videos out there. I really hope this guy goes to therapy because fuck he needs it, and rehab. The "Wait for it" line was just perfect.
I’m wondering why this guy paid for a ticket to Steve’s show?!?!
I just find it hilarious that in his elaborate scenario, it's not even trans people who are at fault. He's talking about men pretending to be trans women, so really he's angry about men's behaviour, but can't even see that himself.
Yup. The (made-up) cis people who pretend to be trans are not actually trans. Another bit of irony is that the people who are actually making bathrooms unsafe are the people who are trying to police who goes in there so as to keep out certain individuals. All trans people want is to take a piss in peace and safety.
that Steve can put a heckler in his place, in front of a large group of people, and continue to be funny, is an amazing feat in itself.
That’s the sign of a good comedian right there. Comedy is hard enough when it’s scripted and rehearsed, anyone who can be funny completely off the cuff is a real one. Not to mention the stress Steve was probably feeling when the heckler started spewing actual right wing talking points, almost ruining the tone of the show.
Seriously, who the hell is stupid enough to heckle a _comedian,_ whose entire job is to take the living piss out of everyone, do they seriously not believe that they're going to get the piss taken out of them too?
In and of itself*
That guy's family tree has no branches.
The heckler is coked up. He's chewing the invisible gum
I’m a trans woman. Once at an event for the company I worked for we had a dinner at a restaurant. I went to use the ladies room located down a small hallway and right next to the men’s room. As I exited, I noticed the CFO (who also was sitting next to me at the dinner table) waiting in line to use the men’s room. A few minutes later when we were seated again he asked me a question. Not mean spirited at all, not being an a$$, but genuinely curious, and I wasn’t offended nor did I mind his question. He quietly asked me, “Don’t you feel weird coming out of the ladies room?” I replied, “not nearly as weird as you would feel if I had come out of the men’s room!” The look on his face, the open mouth, the awkward pause, and then the slight nod in agreement was priceless. I looked at him and started laughing as did he and we all enjoyed the remainder of the evening. He was a very nice gentleman.
That sounds like a perfect learning moment for him. Very nice response.
That's so impressive! Can be so hard to be charitable in a moment when someone is cluelessly doing something that can be hurtful and alienating... But thanks to you, this individual's mind has had an epiphany - a memorable and profound one. And next time someone around him repeats one of these transphobic tropes - HE will be the one to speak up! This is how minds change - one little moment at a time. We never know how many minds might be touched by that one moment you created
Good reply. Made your point without being sanctimonious unlike all these raging self victimizing narcissists you see online
@@LaVerdad65 Well, now **you're** being the asshole.
@@LaVerdad65 You got a little chip on your shoulder, mate.
Canada isn't perfect, but your ability to convey complex issues with such ease and humour is. That is why Canada loves you, Steve. You never avoid the tough topics because you're so thoughtful of what's happening in the world. Can't wait to see more of you.
As an American, I can assure you, we know. 😂😂
My issue is not with men and children in the same bathroom. it is any person of any age, gender or sexuality in any location sexually abusing any person of any gender, age or sexuality. Complex stuff.
So it would be ok for him, if a female to male Transgender living as a male - cloth, haircut, voice, beard etc. - use the womans bathroom? I am sure the ladies wouldn`t be very happy to see him in there.
Ireland was my first and only experience in a gender neutral bathroom. Stalls are little room...there a seperate urinal room for boys to use...you are standing facing the wall and away from people. The only shared space is the sinks. Super fast line and wicked awesome.
4 kids. 1 son and 3 girls. Served in USMC. Totally awesome experience. 100% zero issues with gender neutral bathrooms.
Yeah, we can’t do that here because hurr durr reasons and shit.
If you’re in a bathroom and you are aware of what kind of genitalia the person in the next stall has, you’re the creep.
Yup, out of my 43 years of existence, I've seen people's gentiles three times.
Twice when I was assigned "pecker checker" in the military for urinalysises where we were supposed to watch the stream exit the body and go into the cup (granted I didn't actually watch except for one person who would purposefully angle himself where I had to see it because he was a stickler for rules), and then at work once when a guy literally passed out at the urinal when I was in there and his pants were down.
And neither time, was it something I really wanted to see. People seem to have this super weird idea of how public bathrooms work.
Bro is operating a 14IQ💀
Its people like that heckler who make it necessary for us to still need directions on shampoo bottles
Damn dude. I’ve never seen a heckler put down so hard he goes to jail before. Respect!
"men being in bathrooms near little girls is sus"
"actually women commit more sex abuse against little kids"
How tf are you supposed to square that circle?
misogyny, transphobia, and stereotyping in one sentense
physical abuse and neglect are not the same as sexusl stuff. Nice try with that bs. Cant square twisted info. And when did people say thats the only reason? If we need a 3rd bathroom for the confused people, so be it. But leave us regular people out of it. We are fine with a girls room and a boys room. Look at your birth certificate if you need help. 👍🇺🇸
@@c7adventures376 Yeah, when the pitchforks start rising and the hive-mind is triggered, most vehement supporters don't feel any need to have truly-valid points.
One can walk in to such a group and saysomething akin to , "YEAH! Jupiter aligns with Mars and these old men with sexual issues need to be let into these restrooms!"
and the mob pat you on the back and agree... (only minor hyperbole).
When in groups, each side, the left AND the right, are so often just utterly mob-minded and won't even entertain the possibility that there even might be any part of another perspective that has validity. Any genuine analysis is interrupted by insults (from the one who has the weaker position) and things
devolve into a immature low iq insult-fest.
For instance, I imagine this guy in the audience was essentially saying that:
IF A FATHER IS ACCOMPANYING HIS YOUNG DAUGHTER IN A MEN'S ROOM, HE CAN PROTECT HER. But if we have adult men going into private rooms with LONE young females, it may have the potential to produce not-so-positive results... even if it is something as minor as lewd exposure.
But the mob superimposes some nonsensical overgeneralized narrative in an effort to illustrate a simplistic black-and-white, good-vs-bad picture for the idiots to emotionally rally behind.
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* I'm not saying I agree or disagree with anyone's perspective. But I don't like when individuals are belittled.
@@c7adventures376 i mean if youre amerisexual then thats fine, just dont bat an eye for us existing
@@c7adventures376what's REALLY fckd up is that they're NOT putting the gender on birth certificates anymore. Something about the child being too young to decide if they identify with what gender they're born. 🤦🏼♀️ I am just waiting for the day when calling a born male playing dress up "sir" gets you thrown in jail for commiting a hate crime. This country has gone to hell in a hand basket...a bedazzled hand basket. 😂
I feel the pain of his date. I’m glad she felt empowered enough, so close to his toxic masculinity, to immediately get up and ditch him.
It is like a rule -- When people obsess about sexual topics and attack others for their perceived faults, thoughts, or motivations, you can bet the house that there is some perverted shit going on in their dirty little minds. When you hear someone straining on the toilet in the stall next to you and saying, "Please, father, I'll be good. I promise," you know that guy is a vocal opponent of books that contain words like "hormone", "turgid", or "feminine hygiene product" and is probably on the school board.
As a transman, I'm not even surprised this shit happens anymore. The fact that his date got up and left should be a red fucking flag right there. He drives women away with the way he not only acts but also speaks.
Whoever said "Give it a minute" is hilarious. I love to see it. 7:38
Your new word "transman" makes me giggle.
I'm gonna get t shirts made. 😅
@@tristarperfecta1061 It's not a new word, just shortened. But glad to know that. Transgender man is what transman means.
What gets me about all this bathroom talk is how many times I've seen a woman go into the men's room because the line was too long for the women's room and we just went on about our day. This wasn't a trans person this was just a person using the mismatched bathroom and none of us cared to do more then go that's weird and go on about our day but for some reason people think there need to be laws about it now
Same, can't count the number of conventions or sports events or bar outings where a woman walks in and says something like, "sorry, the line's a nightmare" -- can't blame 'em, I wouldn't be happy about having to wait either.
@@khill8645so that's the same as a grown fucking man going into a restroom where there are other women because he feels like a fucking woman? I'm sorry, fucking what?
@@khill8645 When ya gotta go, ya gotta go. Why be an asshole to other people who gotta go? Never made any sense to me. But as Steve said, it's not about sense, it's about fearmongering.
I have had men come into the women's toliet because they are with their little daughters. No issue. We are all here to pee. And you can't see anything anyways.
In saying that a friend was raped by a man in the women's bathroom. He didn't need to put on an act. Trans people aren't the problem. Rapists are. But it is easier to pretend it is trans people than actually stop others from raping.
Also, women’s bathrooms have individual stalls. So if you walk into a woman’s bathroom you probably aren’t seeing much. But if you walk into a men’s bathroom… well, I guess you’re still not seeing much but for whatever reason it’s still a lot less comfortable having a woman around watching you pee.
Ironically, this all comes down to him proving to the world that he's the kind of person to be fearful of, including being around children and adults alike.
Steve, i just want to say on behalf of my queer self and my lgbtqia kids, thank you for standing up for marginalized peoples. Also, if i had the funds, i would go to every single one of your shows.
I loved it so much I think I'll watch it again!🎉🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 My late life partner was trans. He died in his 40s of a heart attack and watching this, for the first time I wondered how much of society's stress caused that. I'm just grateful that my life had as many decades with him as it did.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bless you.
???? whats funny?@@StankyDanky710
@@LexiTheCute Oh, honey, it does get so difficult. Since you are living under difficult circumstances and in case you don't know, if you're in America or Canada, the n11 system, that 911 is part of, also has 211, which is for non-emergency crises. (These n11 short codes and the n11 plan itself are all documented on Wikipedia.) 211 connects to your local crisis community line where in some communities has help and others, they don't have much. It's helped me in here in the Seattle area with the electricity bill and for one of my friends with the rent and dental care.
They can even use the international phone call translators: I helped a caregiver of mine get a cancer check-up using her first language, Tagalog, which was comforting to her because she understood the process better.
When they wanted to create a three-digit code for a suicide hotline, all the n11 numbers were taken by the n11 system, so based on the most famous 911, a couple years ago they created 988.
I hope this helped. Please let people know because too few people know about these resources. But call as early as you can because of course like all good things it's underfunded! I wish you and yours well
@@sophierobinson2738 Thank you so much.
Trans rights are human rights!
they need therapy so they can stop being confused about their gender
@apexashwin the best treatment for gender dysphoria is transition and every single medical authority in the world agrees.
@@apexashwin oh, bless your heart. Do you have an adult, bucko? Because educated adults who know what they're talking about know that trans folk have to do extensive therapy before they can transition. If you don't know that simple fact, what else don't you know?
@@apexashwin It's great that you care about the mental wellbeing of others so much, but perhaps you should also look after yourself.
@@apexashwin nah, that's what you need dear.
Thank you so much as always, Steve! This is what it truly means to be an Ally. Very much including the way it was implored at the end to try to have a conversation and help someone to learn. ❤
staying that mad after an hour of being alone is crazy i respect the dedication
Dude when your date leaves you thats a sign to just apologize and shut the hell up also this guy isnt a parent so thank god he has not reproduced and may he continue to never reproduce
This is the kind of dude who you could hit in the face repeatedly with a Stop sign and he wouldn't get it.
@@geoffreyreuther5260I feel we should test your theory.
@@zachnesmith *procures a stop sign*
The "give it a minute" actually killed me.
Alcoholic, drug addict, hate speech and I'm still sure that he played the victim afterward.
It's urinals that started this problem. Every bathroom should just be all cubicles in which you have the privacy to use the toilet without worrying about who is in the cubicle next to you lol
"Okay, as they say in English, f*ck off!"
😜🤪😆😅🤣😂
Definitely a unique show. Hopefully this experience will teach him the results of spreading hate. I love how the date said "nope" so quickly. She knew what was about to happen.
She hightailed it out of there. I would have done the same.
Oh come on now, you and I both know that guy isn't learning anything, I personally don't believe he's even capable of learning. I mean, anybody that mouths off to a cop while shitfaced and with a pocket full of cocaine is the definition of a fucking mor*n.
I’m sure she’s embarrassed to be with that garbage human.
I hate that people try to frame this as being about protecting women or girls. Ladies, hands up if you’ve ever had to course correct at the bathroom door because you realize that a completely cis presenting man is about to follow you into the women’s bathroom? Men who want to do harm don’t need to go through the trouble. They’ll pretty much just walk into the women’s room.
It's so ironic. Protecting trans people is actually what serves to protect women and girls, because trans women are women, and also because creating a safe, accepting, compassionate society benefits everyone.
Those are the people I feel I need protection from, as a straight woman. I’m not even kidding.
Exactly. Do they think a person intent on raping someone is gonna be deterred by bathroom signs? Ridiculous argument.
@@cilva7ableAssault is immoral and for the small minded. It is not immoral to need to take a piss. Redirect your anger elsewhere, and you and your loved ones will benefit greatly.
@@cilva7ablemy guy, you won't even know many trans women are trans women...
The fact his manager agreed with some of his ideology, speaks volumes to the honesty of this channel.
Bravo!
Steve thank you for being a voice who stood up for trans rights in a public setting and shut down transphobia
I like how the guy thought that the allowance of one gender or another into a bathroom was going to stop the criminal behavior. Like the little stick figure sign was what was stopping them.
I have two daughters. A man helped me make them (SHOCKING!!) he should be able to take them to the bathroom when his girlfriend isn’t with them. Men are parents, too. (MAJOR SHOCKER!!!)
I love you Steve!
they really dont think men should do any parenting. I wonder if thats part of it?
Taking bets on how many little girls the drunk guy has had illegal contact with.