10 Interesting Facts About Introverts
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- Roughly one third to half of the world’s population is made up of introverts. Introversion is commonly misunderstood today with many stereotypes and myths surrounding it. Luckily, however, with the help of the ever-evolving fields of science and technology, there has been a lot of research done that justifies introverts’ tendencies, habits, and needs. Psych2Go shares with you 10 interesting facts about introversion:
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What I do during small talk
Talk: 0.5%
Plotting my escape: 99.5%
Soo true xD
I love it 😂
Fact😂
Haha! Totally agree.
Small talk is the fucking WORST.
There are four types of introverts, which one are you?
Me: *yes*
Yeah! I feel like I'm all in one. Haha.
I am all of them
I feel like all of that are connected to me
@@madisonnewhall6945 you just described my life somehow...
@@socialabundancestrategies4979 I said the same exact thing. 😂
“Why are u such a hermit crab”
“Why are u in ur room all the time”
“Stop being so antisocial”
“You’re so boring”
“Just get over it it’s not that serious”
“Stop being so shy”
“Why are u so quiet”
“You should talk more”
“How come you’re not socializing”
I hear this too many times
Sad but yes
Lol, but i say these things to myself too
Puffs YT
“Why are you such a hermit crab?”
- the hermit crab’s shell is an essential part of its life. the shell protects and grants shelter to the hermit crab, for it is both its home and its shield. without that shell, the hermit crab would simply die. you forget that a hermit crab must also be strong enough the carry that shell on its own, with no help from others. it is a indeed a hefty burden, but one that the hermit crab bears without complaint.
“Why are you in your room all the time?”
- my room is familiar to me. it is my personal space in which i feel most peaceful and free, like a babe in its mothers womb
“Stop being so antisocial.” “Stop being so shy.”
- not everything can be so simply boiled down as “stop doing this.” things take time for change to be enacted, but the human mind is often as rigid as it is free-thinking
“You’re so boring.”
- i simply don’t allow impulse to control my life. i don’t do anything unnecessary, and i don’t like carrying regrets that will forever be at the forefront of my mind.
“Just get over it, it’s not that serious.”
- merely because you believe something to be not serious, it does not mean everyone shares an identical mindset to yours.
Why are you so quiet?” “You should talk more.” “How come you’re not socializing?”
- i prefer to speak when my words will be of value. my opinions are my own, but just because i have opinions does not mean I am required to voice them.
These I have found to be answers that make people think. And if they don’t think about those answers, and instead return immediately with a response that only reinforces their original question, it’s likely they won’t see things from your viewpoint.
Oh, I too. I can understand you completely, except that I just made myself popular and now never have a smile on my face. I made me popular, so I have a better grade in Social :)
''Are you okay?,, the thing what they use to ask me all the time,like yeah i am okay i am just not that type of a person who talk's much
I hate how modern society is so obviously designed by and for extroverts
I couldn't agree more. I'm an introvert who is going to high school (in my last year) and all my grades are being dragged down because I don't raise my hand when teachers ask questions. It isn't my fault that most of the other students are extroverts who like talking to teachers about stuff nor is it my fault that I need time to think about what I'm saying because I'm afraid of/anxious about being judged. Some teachers tell me that nobody will judge me but I know that they are wrong because I've always been an outcast and I've been judged by so many of my classmates before. It just hurts to know that the world won't change to something better any time soon.
I'm sorry about rambling and I know probably no-one will ever read this but I needed to get that off my chest
@@racoonsisters3471 I read your comment, and don't be sorry
@@ha-u-rupaiaymbon5549 thank you for taking the time
@@racoonsisters3471 And that's exactly why I hate going into a place, which is too euphemistic to be called a school (and that's actually jail for us and every other types of introverts) 💀🤷♂️
yup.
Lol these are not different versions..these are different days for an introvert
Fishplants lol i was thinking the same thing
Queen Of Memes me too lol
Exactly hahahahaha
true
Fishplants true .. & it was raining outside & it was making me feel more peaceful...
Learns about types of introverts..
_Oh god I am all of them_
Same XD
Same
Same!! 😂
Same ❤
I KNOW RIGHT?LIKE MY GOD IT’S PURE HORROR 😂
11. Introverts dont like family gatherings and eats after the guests left
12. We have the most twisted minds
I think this #11 here gets better as you get older. I used to feel awkward at family gatherings but now as an adult I really like seeing everyone. Helps that we only have a couple a year.
Same!!
True. When there are family gatherings they always want to go out to eat and when I ask them to bring me an order of fries to go...that is considered rude. So I stopped meeting up with them altogether.
@@Your_nans_old_sock Not necessarily. Introverts actually tend to be some of the most rational and down to earth people you'll meet.
“Introverts like the rain”
*I actually thought I was the only one*
I do too
Sparriax OMG I was surprised when this fact came up!! absolutely obsessed with the rain
Omg, same here! You guys rock!
I do like the rain😊
I hate when power is gone
I'm glad I'm not the only one who is relieved to see and hear the rain
Not only enjoy the rain but truly am comfortable with Thunderstorms
i wanna be able to like this comment more than once
Rain and Thunderstorms are an absolute delight. The more extreme the weather, the more in touch I am with Nature.... who has never once asked me "Why don't you smile more?"
I was born in the rain.
@Marquis Dane Tagaduar Taking showers during a thunderstorm (ignore the rain) might be dangerous in some circumstances.
I have now learned I am all 4 types of introverts
Well then who knows, maybe you're the rare true introvert :O
am *woke*
@@Spook_Boi you shall not be allone
I have 3
Lmao same
I love how this channel show that we introverts aren't "broken" or "sick"
I can’t even describe how accurate the fact about the rain was
well depends on what level you have of introversion and tipe i dont like rain that much
@@marmolejomartinezjoseemili9043 it also depends on the type of monsoon
If you’re in India (depending on state) , then you think that rain is very calming
If you’re in Florida , you probably hate the rain and the god of it all (cyclones amirite)
@@t-dude352 yeah defenetly i live in mexico in a cold area so i dont like rain
I just the sound Of rain when I’m inside
@@t-dude352 well I’ve been to Florida and I can say the stereotype is true
Yup. Setting up cameras outside my house now. You know too much about me.
Lol same !
same ;_;
omg..it funny
I'm Not Mexican Are you not mexican?
me
When someone asks me to hang out, I have this weird mixture of feelings. I'm really happy that they are interested in me and want to spend time with me, but I also feel like I just wanna stay home. Like, I really like this person and I wanna be friends with them, but I am too lazy to make the effort to actually make them like me. Like, it's too troublesome. Then I end up agreeing but acting totally unlike me that it feels freaky and I feel like a weird person and I just feel like going home and forgetting all about the whole thing 😅 So in the end, it just feels like social interaction is just tiring.
I can relate 🙋🏾♀️
same to me 🙁
it could be an option next time to propose a stay at home "party" :p just doing lazy stuff with extrovert people is good for bolth : you can be confortable at home with not to much stimulus around and youre friend has there social interaction to reloud. i's not becoulse someone's an introvert you cant have fun with friends or keep up youre social group ;)
I feel comfortable with two types of people: close people and people I want to be close to
Lol same
After reading the comment section I realize we truly live in a society
There is no "we". Many societies exist but generally not blended. Each person can belong to zero or more societies.
Exactly!!!! Yes!
There is always a we in Soviet Russia
That's completely true. I always read the comments. But this is first time happening that I am writing comments more than one and not having fear of getting bullied or anything else.
comedy
When I'm in school and try to be like everyone else (who are extroverted) I don't feel good. But, when I'm alone or with a few friends, then I can be myself!
Me too!
Me too
I love seeing these videos becausse I feel like finally someone understands mme because no one does in real life...
Oumimin what you say is so relatable
Same...
Happy to hear!
So true
Oumimin same here bro, no one seems to understand us in real life and it's hard to come across one who is like us.
Omg, I never knew the attraction to rain was actually scientific! That's so cool, It's always been a calming thing for me :)
Pusheen the cat qnother pluviophile YAAAYYY
Same.
Pusheen the cat sameee !
:)
Pusheen the cat Same! Everyone loves sunny days. I hate the sun and I love the rain so much
I'm more comfortable speaking about my private life online than sharing it with people I have to interact with regularly
Me too , that's ridiculous , and also when I'm messaging with friends I do whatever without even thinking but in public I can't even face those same people I messaged!
Did you just..... Read my mind?
me too
Also if you wanted to talk ppl just interrupt or not interested. So why bother 🤷🏻♀️
Yes, this happens to me all the time. I think that's why my best friends are online
That Rain Loving Was A Shock, Bc As An Introvert I Never Knew Why I Love Rain So Much
I just love the rain. It's wonderful but where I live, there isn't much rain 😪😔
If there is, I really enjoy and appreciate it
for me i dont love it but still like it cause i think it depends on the person even if they are introverted
@@tian8731 Yes, it sucks. Desert life.....
Same here
Spent my entire life being told that I'm just shy and that I "will get over it one day" and now I find out I'm just an introvert...I hate soceity... :/
Seriously, people need to get their facts straight about the difference between a shy and an introverted person! It's not the same thing!
U can be the one to tell them, u can be an introvert and still have social skills, at the end of the day the true introvert definition is someone you recharges by themselves and feels drained being around people too long. The 4 types that the vid showed is results of never confronting the fear and just accepting it, instead we should try to better ourselves, social , people won't know how dope u are unless u show them🌀
It is th
GM H No one said that "to be an introvert you need to hate society". That's just her view/opinion.
GM H Your statement doesn't make sense.
Ye
I hate it when people force me to act like an extrovert. That forcing usually ends with some sort of panic attack.
No matter how often I explain it, my personality and preferences always get disrespected. That's sad...
Ahri Akino and the forcing then causes you to retrieve to your solitude for a longer period to recharge your battery.
and behaving like extrovert depress me even more
It's better to hang out with other people who respects your preferences. Disrespecting other people's personalities is just dumb.
I hate being forced to go out somewhere cause I'm too afraid
But as always I end up going and I freak out and cry
I agree. I get tired easily while acting as extrovert and it requires me to be alone longer to charge my energy
4:10
I like rain cuz the sound of water hitting the floor makes me feel calm. I also like it cuz it makes the air smell fresh
I've spent so much time in my life thinking there was something wrong with me, and I've wasted so much energy trying to be "normal" (extroverted)...
I understand, they always tell introverts to be more talkative and “human” , some people don’t have the energy to do that or just don’t want to
I totally understand same here
People always criticize me for not being jolly and talkative. I've been always told to change my personality 'coz it's a sign of immaturity, but they didn't even try to know me. It's really funny how people see extroverts as more charming and successful people, while introverts are immature and only liabilities. Lol. This stereotype really needs to be stopped.
I had told one person to 'get fucked' when he told me the exact same thing about changing my personality, all because I wasn't comfy attending a party of his that had over 250 people going (I couldn't either, I had work all throughout that weekend).
If someone tells you to change yourself for them, give them the middle finger tell them to fuck off. They aren't mates of yours.
I know im answering a 6 month comment. Just wanna say that for my entire life i believed i was wrong. Im trieing to be extrovert since i was 10 years old, and now that im 23 almost, people are destroing me because im really strange sometimes.. and i dont blame them cos is true.
@@iwenttobunnings7868 getting an insult from an introvert you barely know is worse because then you know you screwed up
@@petarmitkov1056 Huh? I never got insulted by an introvert. What are you on about?
@@iwenttobunnings7868 the person you insulted
Happy Sunday everyone! How have you all been?
Psych2Go t i r e d
Psych2Go
Pretty good. How about u?
Mad, anxious, had an anxiety attack almost 1 hour ago.
I need to watch some videos
I cried myself to sleep last night, so my life is going pretty good.
Your name tells everything
I like being alone, but after having nobody around me for almost 2 Months, I just feel sad, empty and extremly lonely.
The_Wolf Cerberus if you enjoy role playing games, then maybe try DnD. Just join a game that meets/goes on call every week or every other, and let yourself cut loose for a few hours. I know DnD is a stereotypical sort of thing for introverts, but it’s really helped me personally with that sensation of loneliness.
Most of the people I’ve met throughout my time playing DnD are also introverts, and have that exact same problem with loneliness and boredom despite liking the tranquility that being alone brings. Even introverts need social interaction, as it’s what all humans need. It’s also nice to just be someone else for a change. I frequently play female characters despite being a biological male because it’s simply fun. My voice acting needs a lot of work though lol
As long as I have my cat around me, it's all good. My cat actually understands me when I talk 😂 and I understand her, but idk
You can talk to me if you want to, I'm an awkward anxious introvert too, but I won't mind talk to a person that feels the same way:)
And that’s why I became a furry (slowly wondering what life is)
As long as l have my phone, free wifi and my favorite foods l can stay alone for a long time
It’s even worse when you’re not just an introvert but also happen to have social anxiety!
Alcohol.
James Bond that’s not the answer though
Ikr, it just go to 0 to 100 quickly if someone started talking to you😅
Yup! I hate big crowds
Hahahaha!!!
Relatable. 😔
You forgot about how Society Outcast's Introverts. I feel outcasted every day when I go to school. I work best by myself than with other people, I sit by myself at lunch, I only talk when I'm in need of help from the teacher. I don't have any friends really. One kid asked me for my PSN (PlayStation Network) and I did.
I TRIED to be friends with him but he called me a weirdo by things I said to him.
NightMare 541 I hate when my teachers force me to work with others. I work best by myself. I spend my lunch time walking around by myself and listening to music. I do have one friend, she’s my best friend and shes more of an ambivert so she doesn’t force me to be social
London James Same thing here man. I hate teachers who force me work with others. You wont even hear me talk and have Eye contact with people. Sigh... I wish that teachers and people were more understandable about a Introverts life...
NightMare 541 I can relate to that so much. In every break in school I look at my phone just to avoid conversations and group projects are just the worst.
The single worst thing about school and uni is presentations though! Like, in what way does my public speaking determine my intelligence, knowledge, aptitude for the subject?? For my minor, I'll have to do an Oral Conversation course which consists of giving spontaneous speeches, doing different kinds of presentations, and at the end the term, leading a 90-minute class - creatively and sans script! Like, wtf?
NightMare 541 Dude i can really put myself in your position. Altough I have friends I usally don't meet them that ofteb Because my brain needs silence. Btw I don't eat in school, you should ask your teacher for permission to eat somewhere else if you feel shamed of sitting alone. Feel bad for you 😢
Can I be the four types of introverts at the same time?
dromerTV ya that what I was thinking I am like all 4 of them...
Yes
I am so..yes.
Yes
Most introverts are
Me with small talk
5%: smile and nod
95%plan my escape
Just smile and nod
Just smile and nod
That would already be too much. I fear that if I subjected myself to small talk, I'd just dumb down.
When I'm encountering something like that, I completely tune out.
Nah, it’s 105% plotting escape
True🤣🤣
Me:
-anxious introvert
-social anxiety
-super shy
- panic dissorder
Welcome to my world..
-all types of introvert
-social anxiety
-ocd
-hsp
-depresion
-depersonalization
-derealization
-ptsd
Let's create a new world just for us please
Add random overthinking and you have me
Hey, get out of my world it's mine not yours!!.🤣🤣💜💛💚🧡💙❤
@@nochu9753 thats not be introvert you asshole
Same....
I didn´t know what was wrong with me, i didn´t have lots of friends. I was always first person who was leaving party and was feeling so anxious about going out at night thoroug the whole day. I loved to watch movies like Forrest Gump, E.T., Jurassic Park and Harry Potter 1st. I didn´t know why i am walking in my own little flat so silently - afraid to be heard from anyone. I didn´t know why i felt so afraid to being exposed to work - stress - environment including many people. Didn´t know why i am so afraid whenever my phone rings or whenever i have to perform.
The only think i knew was that i felt much more calmer and happier once i closed the doors of my flat behind the day and turned my self into books and studying hobbies. I never found a long - time partner because i always felt verry fearfull to go dating and being judged.
I always felt good around animals. I never could understund peoples conversations right. I saw the world from different perspective. I becomed verry good in art.
I becomed verry depressed because of my life. I always felt like i can´t "fit in". I was trying but ended up reading little prince book again. So i had to start to take medications.
But now, finally in my 27 years i realised, that i am not ill, instead, i was just all that time Introvert.
And so here i am, watching to the truth. Understunding, accepting. The worst thing introvert can do, is to force him self into extroversion and pretending he is something he is not. It´s simply like fish pretending to be a lion - it doesn´t make any sense.
Thank you, all authors of this video. And lots of good luck to all introverts around the globe. Stars in the night sky. Stars that can´t be seen during the messy day.
Thank you
That started to sound cringy af in the middle until end.... But heeeeyyyyyyy I umderstand you 😂🔫
Seriously underrated comment!
Happier being home alone, uncomfortable at parties, don't want to be noticed, lonely... thinking that something's wrong with you. Sad to read that you took meds but happy to know that you discovered yourself at a young age! I wish all introverts realize that there's nothing wrong with them (us).
Is it me who's talking ?
Very illuminating comment.
Till recently (not more than a week ago)
the only thought in my head was that i'm psychologically ill or something.
All this pressure from society to be more active and talkative just made me feel that everything about me is wrong and cuz of that pushing my self to be more outgoing and faking the act of liking people with a little bit of salt and pepper of laughter and freaky behavior.
But now i'm discovering my introverted nature and trying to respect that in me.
I'm trying to heal from all past bad thoughts and judgment that others or even me made about my self.
For ALL introverted people don't be afraid of letting go and saying no to others
If u wish to stay alone, shut all the voices of other people in your head and do it
Get tour shit together about your self ❤
I have found out, that instead of a social introvert as I first thought, I’m an Anxious Introvert. I often replay events that happened awhile ago, or recently, that have gone wrong, often making them worse than it actually happened.
same
I will think about the same conversation that I had with someone all day if I think I fucked up somehow
Yes lots of beating myself up
Dumbass The Fandom Goer I only do that when I'm talking to a female and say something stupid just remembering how bad I was at talking to girls😤
by u q combo of those
I LOVE the rain! 💖 🌧
My brother says it’s stupid that I say I hate the sun,
But
I do
Its so hot in the sun q^q
I like the dark, since people have a hard time seeing you, but you can see them once your night vision comes.
I'm an introvert and I love the sun, I can't live without bathing in the sun whenever I can. I also like the night because it's peace and quite. I also enjoy socializing from time to time with smart people. So all this about introverts is just bullshit.
@@marxk4rl Introverts dont necessarily dislike socialising, they just tend to have a small tight nit group of friends.
I'm always hot anyway, and some of my meds say to avoid the sun anyway. I love fall when it is cool and breezy. Spring isn't bad, I LOVE Halloween also.
This actually explains a lot about me. I’m all the types of introverts mixed into one, and books and reading are my best friends. I overthink everything about myself at night, and quite often wonder whether I’m a mirror of someone else. The one thing that I always know for certain is that I love to read and write. I also have a great imagination. I would rather spend a day in a room alone staring into space with no one to judge me or watch me than spend my day watching CZcams videos. The silence allows me to concentrate and imagine all sorts of thing. I sometimes also laugh out loud or giggle for no visual reason, but inside I’ve created this scenario or scene which is quite funny. I used auto also fall asleep to the rain, but my cousins and sister could hardly sleep to it. This video explained why, so thanks!
Friends: Why are you always by yourself at lunch?
Me: Just soaking in on the creative juices lads.
And why is eatin by self such a big deal anyway 🤷🏻♀️ In my culture,women even go to loo together ( dont ask me why, heaven only knows 🙄), so to see me,a bloody 40 yr old grown woman, eatin alone,is such a big deal for my co workers.I have had enough of them durin work, why must I suffer them durin lunch too 😫😫.I prefer to listen to music as I eat or just go blank.dont need any gossip about who is sleepin with whom and who wore what.cant be bothered 🤷🏻♀️
Im a social and anxious introvert, Which causes me to only hang around close friends the only ones who understand me
sammmeee, i wish we could be friends..
Lucky for you. I don't have friends.
Frikinnerd same
Frikinnerd me too
Frikinnerd same here, algo HSP, like most of us
Me:*sees title*
Also me: let's see some interesting thing about me!
I was worried of being an introvert.
This makes me to start think otherwise.
Also, yes. *The world is used to trying to mould the introverts into extroverts* .
@Eskel the Trainspotter & Roblox True words bro. Believe me. Introverts speak up with confidence in situations where they think it's their time. I have done this myself. But if we don't wish to speak up, we either value the situation as not worthy enough or we know someone else will speak out the obvious.
@Eskel the Trainspotter & Roblox you are absolutely right. We are.
Most likely with other introverts. But not restricted.
People ask me if i want to hang out with them ,but I just prefer to stay at my home. I like to read , draw and many other things! Don't ever feel ashamed for being an introvent ❤❤ You are awesome!
This is called autism
BEPISMAN no it's not
The rain one is so true though, especially as an introvert living in the desert, I am quite the pluviophile. When it rains, I record videos of it raining, of the sounds that the rain makes when it passes through bushes, and the pitter-patters of walking around the wet concrete. In fact, I have an app on my phone called “Calm”, and I use the rain on leaves setting to help me fall asleep. So yes, as an introvert, I can confirm that we love rain.
Anon Ymous I’m an introvert too and I can say that all ten facts apply to me
That's so beautiful. I also have love for the rain provided that I'm staying at home and not going to work. I also like the weird scent of wet dirt during the first rain after a long time. I find these things soothing and really calming.
To add to that I also love lightning storms. They are so beautiful.
Yes the point on rain is spot on for me too. Just thinking about the rain falling almost sends me shivers.
I never knew why but, everytime there is a thunderstorm outside and it makes everything look dark,, I always get sleepy.
I'm so glad these videos are continued to be made and educating society. I've learned so much about myself.
I am still at school and its annoying when people ask me to come do something at weekend and when I say I dont want to they dont understand and they keep trying to get me to come, this is because I have used my social juices over the time at school and want to be somewhat alone at weekends to load myself up again, havent got them to understand it yet but oh well what do I know :D
haha i had friends growing up that would call me to come out and if i bothered answer the phone id say no then they would show up and knock at the door i used to open the door see them say in a very flat voice i said no and shut the door then ignore them till they went away on the few times they got me to come out i had been comfortable and really didn't want to leave id bring a book ....lol they hated it id try to play along with them a little but the call was to strong i had not finished that chapter and it was getting good all you want to talk about is the weather all i hear is bla bla bla pointless talk to me when it matters love you buddy ... i was a bit of a dick but i felt like no one gave a dam
I can relate
Nino Saareks ikr! I have a group project and they want to work on it today since its due Monday and I keep making excuses to not go like “Oh we have to clean the house and the yard today” but I wanna get it done but at the same time I wanna sleep cuz lets be honest.... school is tiring, but I don’t wanna tell them no cuz im tired....
Same but heeeeyyyyyyy. I got lucky the last few weeks. On a new school where only some people know me. And got into a nice group of friends where I willingly would go to a party with. But the party is at someones house with only max 15 people. And the only thing we do is chill...... Weed is nice uk? It feels like a 2nd home.
It is almost creepy how accurate this video describes me
Kiritomato true 😂
true :D
Kiritomato same
The poll shows that 98 percent relate to these facts and 1 percent don't...
What
It's because 99% of the viewers identify as introverts because they want to relate
I'm just an ambivert boi who was curious
You are amazing being able to make these videos. Good job.
I am an introvert. I have been watching this channel for a while and thank you for making several videos about us introverts. So far everything in this video is true at least for me it is. Now people can finally learn to try to understand us. I don’t have many friends. My friends are extroverts. And that’s actually good cause we balance each other out. And those few friends that I have understand me, and in hard times they stand beside me. Thank you for making these videos I really appreciate it.
OMG! I love the rain! The reasons you mentioned for people like me liking it coenside with my line of thinking a lot and explain so much!
MoonstonePearl21 I once just start running in the rain and people thought I was crazy, but because it was raining nobody was talking to me so it was the best 20 minuets of my life.
Whenever it rains, I run on the roof of our house... it’s the best being alone in the rain 🌧 💖
YES DUDE
I THOUGHT I WAS ALONE
I get weird looks when I say the rain in therapeutic. This made my day.
MoonstonePearl21 yeah that’s so weird I freaked out a bit too because I don’t mind the rain in fact I think I actually do like it LOL. Is great for playing video games indoors and doing your animation work.
Hi, just found the channel and I'm enjoying a lot! First because I'm too visual and by your drawings the ideas come clear to mind, besides I own the same handwriting, that looks like me doing a kind of resume rs. Thanks for all researches and sharing 💖
These videos are to me like a best friend, I've no one I can connect and converse with without overthinking about boring them. And watching these videos and writing how I feel on a note pad is better than trying to talk with people who don't care.
I'm all four types of introverts ._.
Same .-.
Margaret Stewart me too (•_•)
Lol I feel you
Samez
Me too :)
The "dreading small talk" part is so true for me, and until I watched your "12 Things Introverts are Best at Doing" video, or even this one, I didn't know why. I agree. It creates a barrier between the small-talker and the one being small-talked at (yes, at). It bothers me when people strike up a conversation this way. Why should I care about the weather? You're telling me nothing about _you_ and what you think like. I like conversations I can _think_ about, long after it's over.
Well said
Same here I suck at and dislike small talk, I can’t think of something “small” to ask you constantly. I feel like with small talk I have to constantly talk about something or stay quiet like I’ll bring up really random facts because I don’t like starting a conversation with someone then start being silent, it freaks me out. So when I get a conversation that talks about how society works or mine and others religions or how people see one another or understand one another, it makes my really happy to be sharing my thoughts and opinions. I think I’d call my self a thinking introvert or possibly an ambivert because i will dwell of fantastical ideas or possibilities that pop into my head, like a video game where everything is breakable/destroys me but it’s essentially a board game rpg but there’s no board or dice or anything, just you deciding what to do, imagine dark souls kind of perspective with villages you can inhabit, build or destroy and there’s many different kinds of characters from fairies, werewolves, demons, followers of Death, angels, fallen angels, etc. I imagine having powers in real life and how that would work. But I’m not afraid to break the social static if I feel very strongly about it like if no one is dancing at a party I’d probably try together people to go dance.
So I’d consider myself an ambivert or thinking extrovert, because I relate to a lot of these things except the different types of introverts, I only related to 1 of them
Yes! And my friend (tho they say they're introverts, which i think is not true) dont wanna talk about some meaningful stuff :( and thats why i almost dont talk to anybody
I use small talk when i feel ankward and try to break the Ice
Yes im not an introvert, i'm an ambivert
AlphaAmoeba most introverts don’t like small talk because they don’t wanna just break the ice, they want to melt it and form a bridge from your side to theirs.
I’m a mix of social, thinking, anxious, and restrained introverts. Is that bad? But I love all of your videos because I feel like no one understands me at home, or in school, but these videos make me feel excepted. :)
Everything in this video is 100% true. I just want to show this to everyone who criticizes me for being quiet and "antisocial".
Also, something else. This year, my school is doing hybrid learning. They split us up into two groups, group A goes to school while group B learns from home and vice versa the next day. The thing is, I have 4 friends in the entire school, 1 of which doesn't go here anymore, 2 who arent in my group, and the only one who I'll be able to see wants to hang out with her other friend. I don't want to be alone but at the same time I just want to go and read a book by myself. I know that if I want to make a friend, I'll have to be more social but its so hard for me and on top of that, I don't even know _how_ to make a friend. I know this sounds stupid but I've just been bawling my eyes out and almost threw up thinking about this. I don't know what to do.
Ok, now it's oficial that i'm a full introvert.
No more doubts.
Loner Imortal i just realized it
I'm a mix of all four with the added complication of social anxiety. I'm expected to be social and be around people all the time which only ends up in my having a severe anxiety attack, of course my health and it's decline is ignored because no one listens nor cares so while I have to suffer in order to make others happy, sick of it.
Fed up of being forced to put my own well being to the side because of control freaks and unrealistic expectations.
Same here. Social, Thinking, restrained, and anxious introvert.
Alcohol.
Why is this 90% accurate to my life wtf. i see the internet is at a new level
Yes, the internet's new level is called IPV6 (Internet Protocol Version 6). Well some of it anyway.
@@thomasmaughan4798 Cheers mate for the info
And thank you for your videos, you always make me feel special :)
People calling me antisocial and a fun killer,forcing me to be talkative...so sad that they don't understand. ╥﹏╥
so true ;-;
Joshua Kalamu Same here. Wished that everyone had a place, talkative or not.
Joshua Kalamu my extrovert friend calls me a party-pooper when I want to do something else that isn't what she wants, when that thing is quiter and simpler...
Joshua Kalamu U can be an introvert and a talkative person, u just have to go out and break out your comfort zone, you'll never get out of being introverted cause at end of the day that's not WHERE u thrive but you'll have the social skills to know how to talk to people, be able to speak your mind/emotions and better yourself, if u feel people don't understand u it's cause your not tellin them how dope u really are.🌀
Joshua Kalamu Lol me too my friends even say that I don't talk too much when we're together.
I Think I’m between social/thinking introvert..(:
My sunshine Hoseok!
Nadia Poulton Yeah, me too. 😅
same!! 👀
Nadia Poulton me too
Dobrusia Staszewska Armys sunshine c:
everything you said about rain is 100% accurate! everyone always says that rain makes them sad. i _never_ understood that. to me it was always the opposite.
in elementary school whenever it was a rainy day we would all get to play inside with boardgames or whatever toys the classroom had. of course i loved playing outside but we did that every day so it was a treat to be able to do nothing but be inside with less expectations of what to do. teachers always went easier on us too when it was raining. the sound is also very soothing and i like the way everything smells during and afterwards
The rain one is so accurate, sometimes on rainy days I like to sit by an open window its just so relaxing I wish i could live in London
Introvert representing the notification squad, reporting for duty! Keep up the work, you guys; your videos are phenomenal as always.
Thanks haha
Mark Walton Soldier 76 reporting for duty😎
I’m the biggest f**king thinking introvert ever
Edit: and definitely anxious 100%
Keem 10 same
Keem 10 same
Shrek eats food alone...
And he thinks about suicidf
I wish I’d think better half the time. I’m 100% anxious, and I always do thinks wrong cause I don’t think about them hard enough because I just want to get things done so I can sit in a quiet corner
Just having some kind of background noise that isn't jarring really helps relax me. When I sleep, I always have a fan on but rarely ever have it pointed towards me because the noise of it is what relaxes me ^-^
Most of the facts are relevant to me, as I started to realised that I am an introvert through this video. I also thought of one small detail which applies to nearly all introverts in this world (including me), that we all used to be extroverts. However, some kind of huge emotional shock changed us. For me, it was the fear of making the same mistake again, which would affect one's lifetime (as long as I thought, since I'm pretty anxious in things like human relationships). From that time on, I barely talked to anybody, my thinking to everything would turn deep (which changed my brain to a logical mindset), and my values would decrease to nothing (this means that things I used to consider value would become non-valued, and I wouldn't even have a value now) except reproduction which is natural, and in this present time, I'm starting to recover from the shock, and so I am feeling comfortable with the group of 5 that would try to communicate with me, (which I appreciate a lot). However, I seem to never fully recover from that shock, since nothing would make me feel the extrovert way, none for a millisecond, so I will probably stay in this state forever, which I am fine with.
Thank you for your vulnerability.
God bless you as He shapes you into who He wants you to be.
He loves you just the way you are, and so do I
I just like to stay at home and practice my drawing or learn new things, than go spend my money on unnecessary expensive activities or things.
I wonder which category I fall in.
The Mediocre Artist Fer AXAG
Let me help.
Lazy :P
Gajanan Nigade lol why
The Mediocre Artist Fer AXAG
It was just a joke. I get called lazy for similar behaviour.
Gajanan Nigade ohh.. thought it was something else cuz lack of context 😅
The Mediocre Artist Fer AXAG Can we actually hangout through the net just because how eerily similar we are. Please tell me you do, cos I want to see your art too and maybe we can learn from each other. *pleasetellmeiamnotcreepingyouout*
I think I'm all the 4 types of introverts
Anxiety can actually do that to anyone that's why the mental condition was focused more in their explination
Me too
Layeeqa Areeb me too
Layeeqa Areeb same here
This is so helpful. I'm seeing more all the time why my ex and I were not a good match. I really appreciate this information, it changes my life.
I can relate. I love this channel so much!
So I am a thinking, anxious and social introvert. Well ok sure. Though I feel like I’m losing my introversion because of school. I like my introverted self
Don’t lose yourself but don’t work against change just ask yourself this question: who am I?
sumiko mak xze xin ikr feinh overwhelmed is becoming a daily thing
I'm a confusing introvert.
I relate to many of these facts, but I also love a lot of extroverted things. I don't think I'm an ambivert, cause I don't have a median between a lot of things. The things i do are either introverted things, or extroverted things only. Mostly introvert though.
In conclusion, I am me. That is my excuse for most things anyways, so yea :)
Im like that to
Same
I feel I am the same, except more extroverted than introverted.
This is the most related thing to me I've seen so far
Same with me.
im so happy i found out about this. it explains so much
Introverts seem cool peeps. Great video as always. Also, can you guys do a video on signs and symptoms of ADHD? I feel like I have it, I listen to music when I do my homework, I can't help but fidget most of the time, and I sometimes find it difficult to pay attention in class. I find it hard to sit still. I also have trouble falling asleep. I would really appreciate it.
Be aware that those can also be signs of other disorders. If you really want to know whether you have ADHD or not you should talk to a professional. There are also a lot more symptoms to ADHD aside from restlessness. You might want to check out something like how to ADHD if you want to learn more about it.
I have ADHD and I don't fidget nor am I in any way restless. I'm also able to pay attention if I really want to. The symptoms you described can be a sign of ADHD, but they don't necessarily have to be. There's so much more to ADHD!
Eveline Pieternella Thank you for the advice.😊
PotterheadGeeK7 I'm gonna try and go a bit deeper into ADHD. I think people don't really pay much attention to ADHD.
Also, I'm a Potterhead too!
I'm a social and thinking introvert leaning towards being an ambivert. I can relate to all of these :D the fact about rain and needing a lot of alone time is especially true for me. I noticed, that I'm not anxious towards new people, but am rather shy towards them and I HATE large groups of people. Also, I always feel bad when I hang out with my friends, but after some hours, I just feel like I get tired of them (especially when it's all of them) (I have my soul sis, two close friends and six other hang out friends, so yeah...). So although I'm not an extreme introvert and have nothing against speaking up in a group of people or in class for example, or start a conversation first, I get burned out too easily in the company of people.
Omg! Waking up to a rainy day (on weekends) really makes me feel calm and relaxed because i dont have to make plans for the day and can just stay at home. But making long walks on sunny summer days feels inspiring and energizing 😌
This is an exceedingly informative video. Thanks again for another wonderful source of heart felt information I can trust.
John
Paper Marbler
Then that means that I'm a social, thinking and restrained introvert according to you... I'll see
Lunar Glimpse according to yourself. They only gave brief suggestions you are the one interpreting them :p
Oh, me too, I'm every class of introverts
Crassen Mlg Scopez I know, I just said that I'm these according to them 🙃
Lunar Glimpse same here
Lunar Glimpse I'm all of them except reserved
I'm an introvert :P. You know how I know? Because I'm in here watching CZcams instead of being outside with my friends :D
Actually Extroverts usually watch other kinds of content
I'm just an ambivert passing by
@@alphaamoeba damn
We're the same
@Michael friends are the ones that, after the 400th invite, still ask you to come to the party and then add that they will still see you later what ever.
@@davestorey8879 I dont like my friends.
What? You’ve got friends??
I love these it makes me feel not alone THANK YOUU
As an introvert, i love seeing how this channel and other people understand some introvert's!
Amazing video again 😊
THIS IS WAY TOO ACCURATE XD How did you even get the rain part????
So that means i'm not alone?
(○-○)
one of us one of us xD
Yes we are alone together
You are not alloooooone -even when the dark comes crashing through-
Nope
You're not alone because you have always someone to talk to, and this person : it's you
Absolutely. The rain for sure. I always feel like i am faking a persona when im in social situations. The one about happiness driving extroverts so true. Thanks for the video.
4:12 ahh... the rain :)
i love rain
I've been watching your videos from quite a while and just never subscribed for some reason, so I just relied on suggestions to see new videos. Today, I finally remembered to subscribe!
All of the facts are relevant to me lol
same
Royal Potato me too
Royal Potato OOOH POTATO PRINCESS HI HI HI HIII!!!
Same
me too
Straight to the point, informative and surprisingly spot on (in my case of course). Not in a "Search Google for my every symptom and potential defects, absorbing everything as truth" kind of way. But instead pinpointed as traits, bereft of good or bad. Airing these statements in our career driven Sweden is pointless though, or so it feels. Strayed off a bit here, the point is "Good job!" :) /Arch Introvert since 1985
This is spot on, can relate to all of this.
Throughout number 8 I couldnt stop smiling because now that I think about it, it totally makes sense. I just love the sound of rain. I can concentrate so well and calm down immediately. If I didnt have any distractions I would propably daydream til the rain stops again.
Where I live when hurricane harvey hit it was just like endless rain (no flooding in my area) so it was really calm
Sara Jeon I Don’t like the sound of rain. I live in Belgium and it rains a lot here. Really a lot (a few times a week) I hate it
Yeah number 9 is my biggest problem. Before the school year ended, I moved to a new school in a different state, a majority of the people at my new school were extroverts who didn't have many introverted friends So they pretty much just ignored any introverted people including me. After sitting by myself for a few months I got sick of not having any friends so I slowly started pretending to be extroverted. At firsr, it wasn't so bad all I had to do was plaster a fake smile on my face and interact with people more, but as time went on, it got harder and harder to even fake a small smile. I started losing sleep so depended on coffee Monsters as my main source of energy, I had a lack of an appite and the few times I did eat I ate fatting foods in large amounts in short periods time. Still now, even though school is out, I keep bouncing back into that habit even around my family members .
Makiyah Paisley same :(
U aren't alone in that
Me too feeling same
I prefer number 7, its a prime number. 9 is pretty good; you can do a lot with a 9.
For the most part, yes is very accurate and this is true but it’s not everyday. Thank you for the therapy sessions that I didn’t know I needed to hear. Thank you for making these videos
Rain is very calming and the best moment to sleep.
You should make a video about Ambiverts.
J. Tapia they have made it already
J. Tapia
they've made a few
Can check our archive :)
I can relate to just about everything mentioned, nice job
I LOVE THE RAIN TOO
WHY IS THIS SO RELATABLE DJWKNCAJODJA
I am now feeling that I need to join an introvert society. It's so soothing to see there are also lots of people who are like me "THE SHY'.
Okay, now I relate to all the people saying "you know me too well" the past view videos were pretty accurate with how I feel/am. With this one, I've been researching introverts for Psychology, and I classify as one as well. Thank you