Very vital lessons...singles, you see that marry well advice, take it very seriously. I wish I had seen a video like this 7 years ago. Living with a person who never sees nor owns up to their own faults but would rather blame you for what they're responsible for and start acting like they're the victims, is extremely difficult. Now imagine a "lifetime" with such an individual...biko, single brothers/sisters, marry well o with God's guidance and eyes that are open 😊. Thanks PL for sharing such invaluable lessons.
WARNING: This isn’t a video you watch on the go. You’d have to sit with your notepad ‘cause of the multiple nuggets in here. Thank you so much, ma’am Married for 2 years and I thank God I married well. The sacrifices, selflessness, and intentionality involved to make marriage work confirm that it isn’t for the immature 😅😅 It’s a blessing to have you back here on CZcams, Pst Laju. I’ve also missed experiencing your great sense of humor🤩 ❤❤
PL is such a bundle of Joy🥰 Thank you so much for these great lessons ma Three things really stood out for me and they're; - Where you're going is more larger than where you're coming from, so don't allow your past into your now - Don't allow “that's how I am" delay you from becoming what God wants you to be - By putting God first in your marriage, he will teach you how to put your spouse next I will marry well🙌 Much love from here PL, you look so beautiful.❤
Your sense of humor is so authentic Ma Lovely Nine lessons... It's remaining to add nine carols 😂.... God bless your home. .Amen to your prayers for us to marry well.
Thank you so much PL, even as a single I learnt a lot I will listen to see a video on how you were able to make most of your single years as a Christian lady; what were most of your time invested in and many other things Thank you!😍
This is wholesome, every bit of it. And the beautiful part is we share exact same anniversary. Same year, same day so its my 9th year too 🎉💃💃. I am glad we have that in common. For me this ninth year, I have learnt to be patient with my husband. Sometimes I don't understand what he is up to and in the past I have messed things up reacting too fast. So I have learnt to be patient even when I don't understand whats up, just look closely and try to understand. God bless you Pst. Laju Iren
God is the one who builds marriage is very key. Sometimes only God can really get into my heart and even give me instructions against my own desires just to keep things afloat. For real, when the emotion fails, God can speak because He is everywhere in between. Marry right, be teachable, learn to apologize and most importantly, put God first. Thank you Pastor Laju. This came timely...
Thank you for these lessons, they were really timely for me and my husband. I was just playing this video and my husband asked when the video was released, I told him today and then he was like 'why is it so timely?' because it's indeed timely for us😊 Thank you ma and God bless 🙏
Applying some of these lessons has greatly improved my relationship. I'll work on incorporating them into my habit as much as possible and I believe that God would help my spouse and I when we get married.
Thank you for speaking about us thanking our partners when they do the basic things. I was already beginning to believe the “isn’t it both our duties, why do I have to think they’re helping me” line of thought. I would have entered marriage with that mindset but for your timely explanation❤
I love it! Thank you for sharing. Recently married and will be 1 year later this year in November. Taking these lessons and yes, keeping Lord will teach you how to put your spouse next. Asante!
I thoroughly enjoyed this video, PL. Thanks for sharing. This September will make my marriage three years and one thing I have learnt is knowing to pick my battles. Some issues are not worth addressing if they can be managed and everyone stays happy. Second, if your spouse opens up to you in confidence about how they feel someone has wronged them, even if the erring party is your family members, listen to your spouse first before trying to be objective about the issue.
Thank you so much PL for being a gift who keeps giving!🙌 PL, please speak on how intending or married couples can navigate different assignments. Do they have to combine these assignments and work together or just support one another through them. I find myself leaning towards combining the assignments because I feel it will bring about more synergy & be more fun, but I'm concerned that I'm just being extra 🙈
Aww, this was so beautifully curated, and you have such a joyful soul ma😊 Thanks for all you shared PL🙏🏼, i'll keep these lessons in mind for the near future.
Laju!!! I didn’t expect you to be so soft spoken. You should start a podcast, I would listen, even if it’s bad advice you’re giving, with that voice, I’d listen.
Please leave a comment and like this video! Thanks for watching!
You are so soft spoken, I absolutely love the way you speak❤
Same here
Was just thinking about this today. Her voice is really soothing
"When you put God first, God will teach you how to put your spouse next"
Thank you for always, PL.
"Sometimes, you need to say your mind to your counsellor; sometimes, you need to say your mind to God and the angels"
THIS! ❤
It’s PL cracking up on her own jokes for me😂😂
For real o😂
😂
Very vital lessons...singles, you see that marry well advice, take it very seriously. I wish I had seen a video like this 7 years ago. Living with a person who never sees nor owns up to their own faults but would rather blame you for what they're responsible for and start acting like they're the victims, is extremely difficult. Now imagine a "lifetime" with such an individual...biko, single brothers/sisters, marry well o with God's guidance and eyes that are open 😊. Thanks PL for sharing such invaluable lessons.
When you take advice, tailor it to suit your marriage.
This is actually the summary of all the points shared here for me.
WARNING:
This isn’t a video you watch on the go. You’d have to sit with your notepad ‘cause of the multiple nuggets in here. Thank you so much, ma’am
Married for 2 years and I thank God I married well. The sacrifices, selflessness, and intentionality involved to make marriage work confirm that it isn’t for the immature 😅😅
It’s a blessing to have you back here on CZcams, Pst Laju.
I’ve also missed experiencing your great sense of humor🤩 ❤❤
"By putting God first, He'll teach you how to put your spouse next" Thank you, PL❤
PL is such a bundle of Joy🥰
Thank you so much for these great lessons ma
Three things really stood out for me and they're;
- Where you're going is more larger than where you're coming from, so don't allow your past into your now
- Don't allow “that's how I am" delay you from becoming what God wants you to be
- By putting God first in your marriage, he will teach you how to put your spouse next
I will marry well🙌
Much love from here PL, you look so beautiful.❤
Your sense of humor is so authentic Ma
Lovely Nine lessons... It's remaining to add nine carols 😂....
God bless your home.
.Amen to your prayers for us to marry well.
Thank you so much PL, even as a single I learnt a lot
I will listen to see a video on how you were able to make most of your single years as a Christian lady; what were most of your time invested in and many other things
Thank you!😍
This is wholesome, every bit of it. And the beautiful part is we share exact same anniversary. Same year, same day so its my 9th year too 🎉💃💃. I am glad we have that in common.
For me this ninth year, I have learnt to be patient with my husband. Sometimes I don't understand what he is up to and in the past I have messed things up reacting too fast. So I have learnt to be patient even when I don't understand whats up, just look closely and try to understand. God bless you Pst. Laju Iren
God is the one who builds marriage is very key. Sometimes only God can really get into my heart and even give me instructions against my own desires just to keep things afloat. For real, when the emotion fails, God can speak because He is everywhere in between. Marry right, be teachable, learn to apologize and most importantly, put God first. Thank you Pastor Laju. This came timely...
“Hit all the buttons, so I don’t zip up.” I got it ma😹😹😹
Thank you for sharingggg❤️❤️❤️. A kind comment please, the background music seems to be quite distracting😢, could it be reduced? Thank you❤️
Not taking every advice hook, line and sinker but tailoring it to your unique marriage and circumstances 🔥
Thank you for these lessons, they were really timely for me and my husband. I was just playing this video and my husband asked when the video was released, I told him today and then he was like 'why is it so timely?' because it's indeed timely for us😊 Thank you ma and God bless 🙏
Applying some of these lessons has greatly improved my relationship. I'll work on incorporating them into my habit as much as possible and I believe that God would help my spouse and I when we get married.
The constant “always go to God, ask God for help/strength”
Thanks for sharing Ma'am. These pointers are much needed as I look forward to marrying well in Jesus'name. God forever bless you and the family 🙏
Thank you for speaking about us thanking our partners when they do the basic things. I was already beginning to believe the “isn’t it both our duties, why do I have to think they’re helping me” line of thought. I would have entered marriage with that mindset but for your timely explanation❤
Very profound lessons here ma’am…… I came back to watch the second time. God continues bless you and your marriage 🙏
I love it! Thank you for sharing. Recently married and will be 1 year later this year in November. Taking these lessons and yes, keeping Lord will teach you how to put your spouse next. Asante!
This beauty is distracting me oo😀😍😍😍❤
Lies should never be told at all. As a Christian you shouldn't even lie about anything not to talk of your spouse.
Thank you PL❤
It's not lonely at the top when you marry well 🥳🥳🥳😂😂
You are a wonderful counsellor. Thank you so much apart from being a pastor you are an example to the singles and the married. God bless you 😇😇❤️
Stop letting that is how i am keep you from what God want you to be...this is deep ❤
I thoroughly enjoyed this video, PL. Thanks for sharing.
This September will make my marriage three years and one thing I have learnt is knowing to pick my battles. Some issues are not worth addressing if they can be managed and everyone stays happy.
Second, if your spouse opens up to you in confidence about how they feel someone has wronged them, even if the erring party is your family members, listen to your spouse first before trying to be objective about the issue.
Thank you PL. I really liked the fact that you brought up and corrected the push back against people that appreciate their husbands for doing things.
‘ I just had a baby’😍 love it for you and yours
Thank you for sharing PL.❤
I love how you speak and how you laugh.
It's funny and lovely
Great lessons learnt PL. Plus you look so pretty!!
Wise words from PL, as usual! You are glowing🤗
I love how honest and vulnerable this was! ❤
Dear PL
You are so beautiful!❤
Thank you for these solid gems you shared.
May the Lord continually keep your marriage flourshing and beautiful
Patiently waiting!!!!
Thank you PL! This is gold
Thank you PL. So profound!
Don’t let your ‘that’s how I am’ keep you from how God would have you be. Profound!
Pastor Laju Iren is so beautiful ❤
Thank you for these priceless lessons woG💞
Congrats Pl 🥳🥳 Thank you for sharing these lovely pointers 🤩
Thank you for sharing, I learnt and unlearnt!
Loadsss of wisdom!
Thanks for sharing Pastor Laju❤
Thank you so much PL for being a gift who keeps giving!🙌
PL, please speak on how intending or married couples can navigate different assignments.
Do they have to combine these assignments and work together or just support one another through them.
I find myself leaning towards combining the assignments because I feel it will bring about more synergy & be more fun, but I'm concerned that I'm just being extra 🙈
This was truly wholesome. Thanks for sharing PL
Thank you for sincerely spilling wisdom as always my PL. ❤
So profound! Thank you for sharing PL!
awwwnnn...i am super excited we are back. I have been blessed by all your videos. Thank you for all you do PL❤
This was super instructive! Thank you, PL! ❤️
Aww, this was so beautifully curated, and you have such a joyful soul ma😊
Thanks for all you shared PL🙏🏼, i'll keep these lessons in mind for the near future.
Lessons of gemstones. Thank you for this❤
Thank you PL! Very profound.
Loved this video so much. Laughed all through😂. Thanks PL, for sharing!
Enjoyed both the humours and the lesson. Thank you for sharing PL❤
This was really insightful. Thank you, PL!
Golden nuggets. Happy anniversary 🎉
This is so good! Thank you PL❤❤
Thank you Pastor Laju❤️❤️
Laju!!!
I didn’t expect you to be so soft spoken. You should start a podcast, I would listen, even if it’s bad advice you’re giving, with that voice, I’d listen.
😂😂your laughter is so cute,PL. I love it.
PL is so wise. It's really amazing to see you share your experiences. God bless you Ma🌞🙏
The sound track, the personality, the words and points shared💯💯💯💯🤩
Okkkayyyy, PL is funny!! 😂Here to learn, thank you for sharing, PL! i'll watch this over and again.
This is so much wisdom. Thank you so much ma
I loved this video and learned a whole lot.
This is sooo beautiful and insightful. Thank you so much PL❤
Thank you for sharing Ma, I really loved this ❤
I love your personality. So lively and lovely. Thank you❤
Thanks for sharing, ma'm.
It's the humour lacing your sentences, your voice too. Loved it !
I learnt a lot, too
Thank you so much for sharing Mama❤
It's so powerful. God bless you ma.
This is so relatable. Thank you for this PL ❤
Thank you so much PL!
Amongst other things, I love the calmness in your delivery. Grace on ma'am.
I love the fact that PL always have extra points to share with us.
Thank you so much, PL.
God bless you, ma.
Thank you so much, PL.
Thank you so much ma'am for sharing💖🤗
Such a beautiful and refreshing perspective on marriage. Thanks for sharing this with us. Love you PL ❤
Thank you PL God bless you🙏 ❤
Profound. Thank you for sharing, PL. GOD bless you ma.
Thank you so much PL
Thank you ma I was really blessed am a single guy planing to get married...❤
Thank you so much PL. I was blessed by this, and I enjoyed it at the same time ❤
Thank you for Sharing Pastor Laju🎉
Thank you for the Gift of you ma'am!
Very important and timely, for both singles and couples ❤
Thank you, PL!!!!❤️
It's how PL cracks herself up effortlessly for me 😊😊
Great lessons.
Thankful to God for your marriage and your experiences. Thank you for sharing . I’ve learnt a lot from this!
Thank you so much for this PL! God bless you and your marriage for us
First time watching you, you’re so soft spoken
Beautiful lessons
Soothing background music❤❤🫠
Thanks for sharing this🎉
Thank you, PL. 🥰❤