5th Wedding Anniversary: FIVE MISTAKES I FINALLY STOPPED MAKING THAT BROUGHTTHE MARRIAGE OF MY DREAM

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  • čas přidán 29. 10. 2019
  • People say you enjoy your marriage after the FIFTH year. I've enjoyed every single year as a wife, but this FIFTH year has been exceptional. Love is such a beautiful thing. And like I always say, Courtship is the time to Love Intelligently, marriage is the time to Love blindly. But the work isn't done when you date intelligently; The same way you enrol into good school and still need to study to do well, even when you choose right, you still need to put in the work to have a good marriage. In this video, I talk about the changes my husband made as well, but the focus is on me. Because if you really want to have the marriage of your dreams, change must begin with you. I put together a very long blog post of the same title on my blog, lajuiren.com. It's nine pages long, but worth every single word. Lots of love, Laju Iren

Komentáře • 57

  • @oliveschristiancentreusa2277
    @oliveschristiancentreusa2277 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The part of Amala, you know daddy doesn’t know how to cook like you told us in one of your videos, but the fact is both of you are amazing…

  • @eneonoda
    @eneonoda Před 2 lety +4

    This isn't too late for me watching a year later. These are beautiful and important points you've mentioned. I pray these reminders are prompt when I need them in future.

  • @oresokeye
    @oresokeye Před 4 lety

    I love this video. Have a great anniversary week ma!!!

  • @chizoromdaniellaukwa1401
    @chizoromdaniellaukwa1401 Před 4 lety +1

    Oh my PL! We are so blessed to have you! Thank you so much for sharing. Happy Anniversary to you two!

  • @ukemeumana6010
    @ukemeumana6010 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you PL, I enjoyed it. Happy Anniversary!!!!

  • @nengisiminialayi2153
    @nengisiminialayi2153 Před 2 lety +1

    PL you're such a gift! Thank you so much for sharing these with us

  • @mao_space
    @mao_space Před rokem

    Just coming across this today and it's really came at a time I needed it. Thank you, PL. ❤️

  • @rehviie
    @rehviie Před 4 lety

    Loved this so much. Thank you PL!

  • @aidylkitchen8316
    @aidylkitchen8316 Před 4 lety

    Yaaaaay! Been waiting for this

  • @ZobsK
    @ZobsK Před 4 lety +2

    I've been learning, unlearning and relearning in Marriage. Thanks for sharing, was blessed 🔥.

  • @TheTaiwoQueen
    @TheTaiwoQueen Před 4 lety

    Thank youuuuuuuuu sooooooo much PL! And happy anniversary

  • @AdaAda_
    @AdaAda_ Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wow. Thank you. This is helpful🙏🏽.

  • @dadaanu9645
    @dadaanu9645 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you Laju, i never stop appreciating you since school. I needed to watch this...marriage is serious work eeehhhnnn...but this will help me smoothen my edges a bit more...wish we can chat more often on marriage on a personal level. 2yrs n counting but still have a mighty truck load to talk about. Thanks for this anyways. Regards to big bros and the angels

  • @Dupesvlog
    @Dupesvlog Před 3 lety

    Wow. This is so so so enlightening!
    Love you ma ❤

  • @seyibunmi3929
    @seyibunmi3929 Před 4 lety +1

    I have been awesomely blessed by this video.
    Thank you so much ma'am.

  • @seyibunmi3929
    @seyibunmi3929 Před 4 lety +1

    & Happy Wedding Anniversary.

  • @aidylkitchen8316
    @aidylkitchen8316 Před 4 lety

    Happy Anniversary!

  • @MediaApostolos
    @MediaApostolos Před 2 lety

    Amazing message, thank you PL🙌🏼❤

  • @ToodlesEOONAK
    @ToodlesEOONAK Před 2 lety

    I’m not late for this message 🔥❤️Thanks PLI ❤️

  • @adeoyeabiola7052
    @adeoyeabiola7052 Před 2 lety

    Just following your CZcams channel ma and I believe I am going to learn lots of thing ..
    I am so excited 😁😊

  • @nkchee_
    @nkchee_ Před 4 lety

    always good hearing from you pastor Laju... thanks for all you do

  • @Oreoluwaabdullai
    @Oreoluwaabdullai Před 2 lety +1

    Pastor Laju is tooo wise 🥺🥰🥰. Thank you so much Ma for this!

  • @miracleugonma
    @miracleugonma Před 2 lety

    Thanks for sharing, PL.

  • @EstherOnyimowo
    @EstherOnyimowo Před 2 lety

    Was blessed by this. Thank you

  • @afolashadeolayinka6612

    Thank you so much for sharing this🙏 I love you so much ma 💗💗💗💃

  • @clearchigwande8424
    @clearchigwande8424 Před 4 lety +2

    Happy 5th anniversary 😍😍

  • @blessingohikhobo7837
    @blessingohikhobo7837 Před 2 lety

    Amazing words ma. Thank you and God bless

  • @KehindePG
    @KehindePG Před 4 lety

    Congratulations pastor Iren and mummy Laju

  • @therealayodeji
    @therealayodeji Před 2 lety

    This is beautiful

  • @ityyyyyy
    @ityyyyyy Před 2 lety

    This sad good. God bless you ❤️🙏🏾

  • @davidolamilekanraj440

    Awwwwn see my mummy 3years ago 🤭
    I love this teaching 👍
    Thank you ma.

  • @gracechimenum6755
    @gracechimenum6755 Před 2 lety

    Amazing

  • @gbonjubolaagboola73
    @gbonjubolaagboola73 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much ma, it is the 4th point for me

  • @blessingonen735
    @blessingonen735 Před 2 lety

    Wow just seeing this now
    Thanks ma

  • @t3m185
    @t3m185 Před 4 lety

    It's all just too important to be open to the Spirit of God.
    And then have the willingness to bring every thought to the obedience of Christ.
    Whenever those bad thoughts come around, God is around to help us check them.
    But we are mostly overtaken in ourselves to listen.
    God Bless You Sister.

  • @pearlchikumbi1675
    @pearlchikumbi1675 Před 2 lety

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @ademolasamson8760
    @ademolasamson8760 Před rokem

    THANK YOU SO MUCH MAMA 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @PIPI-LOVE
    @PIPI-LOVE Před 2 měsíci

    Outdo one another in love this got me
    Help me God

  • @adelekeanuoluwapo9811
    @adelekeanuoluwapo9811 Před 2 lety

    I'm more enlightened 💖

  • @lifestylewithoj533
    @lifestylewithoj533 Před 2 lety

    Lovely

  • @josephineabokede
    @josephineabokede Před 4 lety +1

    I’ve been waiting for this post 😁😍

  • @promisenyah8175
    @promisenyah8175 Před 2 lety

    PL of my heart and destiny 🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @viquesings
    @viquesings Před 4 lety +1

    Amazing mama

  • @mercyrobert5988
    @mercyrobert5988 Před 2 lety

    Not too late when watching in 2022

  • @jordaanolawumi
    @jordaanolawumi Před 5 měsíci

  • @adelekeanuoluwapo9811
    @adelekeanuoluwapo9811 Před 2 lety

    What's the name of the second video... The first one is dating intelligently... Good morning ma

  • @lyeoofalltrades8705
    @lyeoofalltrades8705 Před 2 lety

    Nice. What's the meaning of PL

  • @ohemaafaithie
    @ohemaafaithie Před 2 lety

    Mummy L to the world 🔥❤️.

  • @ErnestOlusanya
    @ErnestOlusanya Před 4 lety +1

    First one here!!!

  • @chieduegwim8728
    @chieduegwim8728 Před 2 lety +2

    Very nice video. God bless your marriage... ."and I will make him an help meet" Gen2:18. As a spouse (wife), regardless if your husband is a pastor or not, a very intelligent question to ask yourself is, your intent, idea, motive, action been a help meet or support to your husband... Even when you strongly feel your opinion on that matter is right, you must first submit, and prayerfully ask God to revisit the matter of concern, so as to minister to your husband also. I personally believe its a woman's world anyway. However, God's way of you to win or settle a misunderstanding is completely different. Most times, as a wife you stoop to conquer... And God will give you the abundance of grace to do so. Even the most emperor-like, or most egotistic husband will always melt, as ice cream does in the mouth of its savour.

  • @ritaokolonwakaego51
    @ritaokolonwakaego51 Před 2 měsíci

    😅😅😅

  • @Semilore_Ojeniyi
    @Semilore_Ojeniyi Před 2 lety

    ❤️