JW Elder's Meeting: Please Reinstate Me! (Revised)

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  • čas přidán 4. 09. 2024
  • Jehovah's Witness elders meet with a young female that knows TTATT (the Truth About The Truth) and is trying to get back into the JWs for family reasons. This secretly recorded reinstatement hearing with three JW Elders also includes them disagreeing and deliberating after she is dismissed from the backroom and then when they call her back in.
    A full transcript can be found at my blog here:
    www.jwstruggle....
    The Four people in the room:
    1. Elder 1 has a non-American accent, and is the oldest of the three.
    2. Elder 2 with deep voice. He is apparently the chairman since he opens the meeting and is the primary person speaking to the sister.
    3. Elder 3 has a slight southern accent and says very little during the meeting with the sister.
    4. The JW seeking reinstatement back into the Watchtower Organization is a young lady who has been disfellowshipped twice. She has learned The Truth About The Truth and is recently free of the mind control. She wants to have a relationship with family members that now are required to shun her. She is coming back primarily for them.
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    Additional Thoughts:
    This is the only recording of JW elders deliberating a reinstatement that I know of on the internet. It is quite telling in a number of ways (to me) but I will leave that for you the viewer to decide for yourself. I personally sat in on at least a dozen of these hearings during the time I was an elder and I can attest to the fact that this is a pretty typical representation of how these meetings unfold.
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Komentáře • 166

  • @jinaforjesus
    @jinaforjesus Před 10 lety +10

    The most enlightening thing to me was the ***absence of a prayer***. I never once heard them address their 'high priest' or their god, as one of them had suggested that they do. Thanks so much for sharing this Eric!

    • @JWStruggle
      @JWStruggle  Před 10 lety +5

      You're welcome Jina! This video was a labor of love and the product of months of work believe it or not. But the more we peer behind the curtain of the secretive Watchtower and the elders that do their bidding the more we see that they are not guided by anything but their own self-interest.

  • @ElearElda
    @ElearElda Před 10 lety +8

    Interestingly they used her name only when they talk to her not in their private conversation. They addressed her as "she", impersonally, without love or warm emotion. When I was elder I intermingled expressions "brother" and "accused" when I wrote a report to Branch Office.
    The time is a factor. Many older elders speak it openly even with indignation "It's to early to reinstate!!"

  • @stevenwestern8199
    @stevenwestern8199 Před 10 lety +9

    I had tears streaming down my cheeks and feeling heartbroken for this poor sister who was being abused and hit from all sides. There was NO EMPATHY, no understanding, no humanity, just judgementalism. No matter what she did it wasn't good enough, there were spies catching and twisting the words they heard. Who can live like this? You have your church family in many places you go hoping to have something to report to the elders to shame you.

    • @hiway280z
      @hiway280z Před 9 lety +3

      Steven Western Math ch 18: 21 How many times should we forgive those.... They complained she had done what ever before...... punish her, make her pay....Not so in the Bible.

    • @jneag3159
      @jneag3159 Před 7 lety

      Its not aBout the Elders. its aBout her attitude! and. WHY she taping a Reinstated or Not Meeting? that Speaks to what her motive(Attitude really is JEHOVAH can read hearts...REMEMBER the whole Nation of Israel that KORAH was righteous and MOSES was in the wrong but JEHOVAH KNOWS THE HEART! Prov 21:2

    • @jneag3159
      @jneag3159 Před 7 lety

      +hiway280z In order to be forgiven You need to Genuine in your motives YOU CAN'T FOOL JEHOVAH! Gal 6:7

    • @chrisdurant4627
      @chrisdurant4627 Před 2 lety

      Please do read, galations, cha,2-v 4'spies operating, also, 3rd letter to john, and studie, psalm.64, 140''' and psalm 109 a letter went missing in 3rd letter to john,,, why, interesting once.you work.it.out,,, cute thst.devil.is, very,,, prov, cha,30,v14 very,,,,very,,,, interesting,, honestly,,,, when judus was entered by satan,, satan,,, he.did not know he. Had been entered, by him ,,, well no , peter, said to jesus. This will not happen to you lord,,, jesus,.said,.get.behind.me, satan,,,, you speak thoughts of men,,, trust in jehovah ,,, humans are killers,, elders included,,, yes honestly,,,, pro, cha 30 v 14,'now becomes real, yes,

    • @ericbulman1752
      @ericbulman1752 Před rokem

      Where in the Bible does it ever speak about a judicial committee of 3 elders are to judge their brothers or sisters in a secrete meeting and that it's for them to decide . Why not leave it for Jesus to judge in His due time ?

  • @October31st1517
    @October31st1517 Před 10 lety +18

    The Organization itself should be brought up on violating human and civil rights.

  • @marierosie7600
    @marierosie7600 Před 8 lety +14

    this has gone beyond , keeping the congregation clean, she's depressed and feeling the abandonment. elder no. 1 wants her to prove herself more? that can break the camels back next the elder is blood guilty for taking things to far. that is abuse of power. elder no 3 is more fair. so three elders can't come to an agreement. where's the holy spirit? that elder is lacking, love, warmth, empathy, nothing Christlike at all. she may end up suicidal out there she's depressed already. so much for welcoming the prodigal son back. with open arms. didn't Jesus say forgive your brother 77 times. what more time? can't take life for granted .

    • @jwsuicides8095
      @jwsuicides8095 Před 8 lety +1

      Well said!

    • @jneag3159
      @jneag3159 Před 7 lety

      Jehovah s Name is important! that is why Its such a ordeal!

    • @kristinebenardos9373
      @kristinebenardos9373 Před 6 lety +1

      J Nea G Jehovah’s name was made up by a Catholic Monk.

    • @AshJae
      @AshJae Před 6 lety +1

      J Nea G -your own governing body of imperfect men said the reason you use the name Jahovah is NOT because it is the most accurate translation or pronunciation but because it is the most widely recognized by the English language!!! So not only do you blindly follow imperfect men but the name of your god is determined by imperfect, sinful people who belong to the world.
      Shame on you
      Here's the video of your own wicked spirit led man saying exactly why they use the name Jahovah from his own wicked mouth:
      czcams.com/video/0sojgyM_qiw/video.html

    • @AshJae
      @AshJae Před 6 lety +1

      J Nea G --So you go around knocking on people's doors and claim their Bible is inaccurate because the name of God was replaced with Lord when you go ahead and replace the whole Word of God AND use an entirely DIFFERENT NAME. Wake up and notice how you are being led by deception and blind leaders of the BLIND......that's from scripture that you can look up yourself without a watchtower magazine.

  • @simonrgalesg
    @simonrgalesg Před 5 lety +2

    Elder 3 is loving and kind trying to put jesus qualities into practice. May Jehovah bless him.

  • @bobbypaluga4346
    @bobbypaluga4346 Před 8 lety +3

    No mercy, compassion found here. They are so suspect of this sister, it's truly sad to regard another human being with the high degree of suspicion and a complete lack of trust or warmth.

  • @unconditionalloveberni4295

    Jesus would never banish His children, for His Love Endureth forever!

  • @Prittyladylex
    @Prittyladylex Před 10 lety +17

    Yet they claim Jehovah gives them the guidance to make a decision. . If that's the case why are they giving personal opinions and why does everyone have different opinions if Jehovah works through them! This is a religion of control and bondage!

  • @pghdjmarty
    @pghdjmarty Před 10 lety +8

    They're not talking about applying biblical principles. They're making decisions based on what they feel. As a disfellowshipped person, I KNOW I will never grovel to be accepted back as a JW. If I even remotely thought it was a fair process, I ma have never left. Nothing is fair in the JWs. Two people...same congregation...same "sin"... one person gets disfellowshipped, one person does not. That's part of the truth about the "Truth".

    • @deborahmattern5660
      @deborahmattern5660 Před 10 lety +2

      I was disfellowshipped because I would not be in total subjection to my non-believing husband...I had to work and go to school, to make sure we had enough money coming in to support our home and family of 8 children while my husand did work he was also having affairs, which the elder was dismissing.I soon there after decided to divorce my husband, which is in opposition to what they teach.He was physically violent and verbally abusive..things these elders did not see.Nobody ever came to my house and would encourage us as a married coupe nor did they ever come to my home to witness to my husband in an effort to bring him into the flock...They failed to do what they preach they are to do...I was NOTHING to them...My children were nothing to them..I believe and have all my faith in Jesus and Jehovah and nobody will ever take that away from me.I am grateful for what I have learned through the HOLY SCRIPTURES and that's because I truly believe Jehovah God and Jesus truly want people to be faithful and true to oneGOD JEHOVAH and Jesus his son who will be KING over humankind...He is lord and savior...Not any man on earth...NONE can compare ...they shouldn't even try

    • @JahzielYT
      @JahzielYT Před 7 lety

      Deborah Mattern

    • @deborahmattern5660
      @deborahmattern5660 Před 7 lety

      pghdjmarty....THANK YOU...

    • @jneag3159
      @jneag3159 Před 7 lety

      Its about your Attitude! Don't let your pride keep you from GOD S forgiveness. Gen 4:5-7. I too am in the same situation Remember "Disfellowshipping" is discipline from GOD because He loves Us. (WE DID COMMIT THE WRONG) Hebrews 12:11-13 Or do you believe JEHOVAH S DAY isnt coming after all???

    • @jneag3159
      @jneag3159 Před 7 lety

      +Deborah Mattern. REMEMBER HANNAH too was in a bad spot of a marriage BUT women of today Choose their heads! So maybe give thought to Proverb 27:11. COME BACK IF YOU LOVE JEHOVAH!

  • @daydream1900
    @daydream1900 Před 10 lety +6

    To all JWs do not relay on imperfect humans to forgive you of wrong, if repentant of your sin confess all the christ the only one qualified to forgive and wash you clean.

  • @tonyvr30
    @tonyvr30 Před 10 lety +4

    we are not brothers and sisters because a organization says so,we are brothers and sisters through Jesus Christ!

    • @chrisdurant4627
      @chrisdurant4627 Před 2 lety

      Were only here for Gods rightouseness, and forbearance,,, bless is love,,, wowwwwwww, good that,.

  • @karenvilla384
    @karenvilla384 Před 9 lety +3

    I reapelled my case when I get disfellowship

  • @shannonwrighttreesandbutte390

    It sounds like that one Elder is awake and stuck in this cult...he has empathy for this sister! Thanks for posting this!

  • @suggesttwo
    @suggesttwo Před 10 lety +5

    Separating families is a detestable act. JW's give GOD a bad name. Luke 15:1-7, 8-10, 11-31

  • @stevenwestern8199
    @stevenwestern8199 Před 10 lety +1

    This video got me, I had tearing streaming down my cheeks feeling so heartbroken for this sweet

  • @jah50
    @jah50 Před 7 lety +2

    Wow, until now I was not aware that when elders become appointed, they are gifted the ability to read and know what's in a person's heart. Thank goodness for these blessed Shepards of the flock! Jesus would have been wise to take these brothers fine example and not rush to the conclusion that a person is truly repentant before granting them forgiveness.. Jesus should have been prudent and given the sinners minimum 3-6 months to see what truly is in their heart

    • @heathertaylor9245
      @heathertaylor9245 Před rokem

      I’m just trying to make sure I’m understanding exactly what u are saying. Do u mean that Jesus should have done things differently? And waited instead of the times He looked within their hearts (bc He was about to, whereas the one of the elders even acknowledged that they can’t read hearts ). Do u mind explaining that farther to me please ?

  • @jwsuicides8095
    @jwsuicides8095 Před 8 lety +3

    Shocking. Elder 1 REALLY hard hearted. To be that suspicious of people he must have a lot of blackness in his own heart. I was really concerned about her depression...depression can really interfere with relationships - and that includes a spiritual relationship. It's exactly in circumstances like this that people commit suicide. Terrible. x

    • @marierosie7600
      @marierosie7600 Před 8 lety +2

      yes good point. elder no. 1 has a lot if blackness he has got serious ISSUES that he fails to look at because he's to busy picking on n bulling the more ' vunerable' putting his own insecurities and suspicions on the woman repenting.
      severe abuse of power. bullying the victim to the point where she is spiritually diminished. the amount of conflicting views amongst these elders is shockingly appalling. no holy spirit is evident. no Christlike actions given.
      they interrogate and disrespect. how dare they act judge and jury. god and Christ are clearly out the window. and yes elder one is punishingly hard so much for being. lowly at heart, mind, clothed with love, not judgental, kind, forgiving, up building, etc the way the scripture's say these men must be...
      Jesus will ask for the blood back from each of these victims that suffer at their lack of mercy. if they think they are right to judge so mercilessly than the bible shows god will do the same judgement back!!!
      I just hope that lovely lady has contact with all the ex jw supporting websites, Facebook and CZcams channels for encouragement, support and some social involvement in the groups.

  • @anayhiasmimi1409
    @anayhiasmimi1409 Před 4 lety +2

    Alot of elders have a god complex and are power hungry!!

  • @MsSouthern2U
    @MsSouthern2U Před 10 lety +5

    Elder 1 said to the sister: Time is not an issue…your relationship with Jehovah is what matters. Isn't her relationship with him a personal one. Not every witness has a strong relationship and if so it can also weaken. I am happy that she got what she wanted.

  • @victorlegret9036
    @victorlegret9036 Před 10 měsíci

    I experienced the same. Even I begged the elders every month for any help, any spiritual support, they refused to have any discussion with a DF person. Total ignoration of Jacob 5:14,15. No matter how they proclaim in WT and to the rank&file how laving shepherd they are, in reality they are true pharasees.
    Besides there is not any biblical support that Jesus would give elders an authority to judge if any is honest or dishonest. They are simply they to confirm if the person stopped with the sin and express regret and does not want to continue in the sin. They should take such sinner back immediately. there are abundance of verses supporting that. Prodigal son etc.. forgive 77x time etc... she done in 2nd time? so what? what would they do if she would have done in 70th time? IS it it even possible to sin so many time in JWorg? surely not. What a cult. Happy to awaken from it.

  • @aussiecopy
    @aussiecopy Před 5 lety +1

    This is so illuminating. How was it recorded?

  • @imgonnawinitall27
    @imgonnawinitall27 Před 9 lety +1

    I'm a transcriber and I can help you with better quality transcripts to support the struggle!

  • @Almenatraining
    @Almenatraining Před 9 lety +1

    You can't disfellowship me, I am Christ's anointed brother.

  • @K777angel
    @K777angel Před 9 lety +2

    Wow very sincere yet how futile our thinking is when we as mere men are trying to be God.

  • @bluefidle
    @bluefidle Před 5 lety +1

    They do not take anywhere this amount of time to determine if one is "ready" to get baptized.

    • @mikespilligan1490
      @mikespilligan1490 Před 5 lety

      Sharon amazing point, they are leaning on children all the time to commit.

  • @karenvilla384
    @karenvilla384 Před 9 lety +1

    I'm 20 and I get disfellowship 4 months ago my metting with them to get back was really back , as soon as I sat down they told me they didt see a reason to call the 3rd eldest because I wast going to be reinstated, when I ask why they said me spelling my case had already made them meet twice for me so they weren't going to do it again and that maybe it could be a year before they even though about it , I didt get hear , I didt get bible texts nothing it was jus2 elders trying to defend themselves

  • @GEC416
    @GEC416 Před 9 lety +3

    ALSO THERE IS A SCRIPTURE ON TREATING DF'D PEOPLE AND PART OF IT SAYS KEEP ON "ADMONISHING THESE BROTHERS" - WELL HOW CAN BROTHERS IN GOOD STANDING ADMONISH THE DF'D ONES IF THEY ARE TOLD TO SHUN THEM.

    • @gregmason975
      @gregmason975 Před 9 lety +1

      gail conroy GOOD POINT! DON'T WORRY THESE ELDERS WILL NOT GO UNPUNISHED.......STUMBLING GOD'S PEOPLE IS A MAJOR OFFENSE!....JESUS STRICTLY WARNED US OF STUMBLING HIS LITTLE ONES...

  • @bobbypaluga4346
    @bobbypaluga4346 Před 8 lety +1

    I'm curious as to what these nebulas blessings from Jehovah actually consist of. The term "blessings" is constantly used or misused as that proverbial carrot on a stick, the GB down to the Elders and even publishers throw out to motivate a person to do something or not do something. But what are they and how does a person know if he or she is actually receiving the promised blessings? Is it domestic tranquility, a raise in your paycheck, an absence of health problems etc. when compared to the worldly mobs of non-JWs? Thanks in advance for your answers. May Jehovah bless you all abundantly.

  • @Damious100
    @Damious100 Před 10 lety

    How is the Organization not been sued 1000th times? Simple law suits for emotional stress, mental problems or even physical harm could be used in sueing them. Granted they legally are able too cover there asses most of the time saying "It was there choice" "We forced nothing on them!!" But there is also a lot of things they can't cover themselves on. Tarnishing of reputation? The only reason I can think of is that the society has become too big and strong and they probably have 1000th lawyers that will gladly gather material and throw it at a judge. A Judge that probably does not realize how massive this problem is.

    • @JWStruggle
      @JWStruggle  Před 10 lety

      The WT legal team has stitched up nearly all loopholes and recourse that ones can attempt to recoup legally from their abuses of these people's human rights. One notable example is in 1985 when they altered the second baptismal question asked of those about to be baptized, in effect having them enter into a verbal contract with the WT Society..
      Is it legal for them to do this? Yes.
      Is it morally right or ethical? Most would say no.

    • @JWapologist
      @JWapologist Před 10 lety +1

      JWStruggle i hope one day disfellowshiping is illegal.
      Do you think that would ever happen?

    • @JWStruggle
      @JWStruggle  Před 10 lety +1

      David Vasquez
      I think that it is very likely and inevitable in fact. Certain countries are already trying to pass laws against the Witnesses practice of flouting the United Nations human rights freedoms, one of which is the right to worship (or not worship) as a person sees fit without coercion.

    • @divinederelicts2956
      @divinederelicts2956 Před 8 lety +1

      sexual abuse,pedophilia is rampant,,they sweep it under the rug as to not bring reproach upon the organization,aint that a HOOT?!

  • @danielrendon8555
    @danielrendon8555 Před 11 měsíci

    Why would anyone to be reinstated into a cult that teaches hate.

  • @jumper5934
    @jumper5934 Před 10 lety

    FYI: Elder 1 sounds like his mother tongue is Farcee (Persian) specifically, Iranian. Likely, from a Muslim cultural background.

  • @observerlink4124
    @observerlink4124 Před 10 lety +3

    I thought this was an excellent - a true glimpse within this clandestine, unscriptural and utterly man-made process!

  • @jamieangel3766
    @jamieangel3766 Před 7 lety +1

    If you only get DFd for unrepentance like they profess, surely showing repentance is the only way to get back in?? you cant have it both ways. Also if they did let her back in and she was being 'dishonest' or whatever they are frightened of, its not like THEY would get in trouble is it? Its no skin off their nose. Or would they get penalised in some way? No. They are following company guidelines rather than acting from the heart and showing compassion. Its disgusting. How can she do more than she is already doing? Its sickening.

  • @milanitaly4350
    @milanitaly4350 Před 10 lety +1

    Why are these men permitted to perform roles in which they have absolutely no training? Has anyone of them provided resources for this young lady or others like her to assist in the mental or emotional destruction that shunning causes. This very destruction is a result of man going ahead of God. God created us with an unbreakable bond. Even science shows that we need one another to survive. But these untrained men, have decided that their poor understanding of the scriptures is justified. I'm appalled!

  • @daniellezamora8450
    @daniellezamora8450 Před 6 lety +2

    Wow this is so unsettling.. I have my reinstatement meeting tonight! Obviously the only reason is to speak to my family again. It’s been 8 months and I “woke up” during that time period. Hopefully they let me come back so that I never have to step foot in a KH again! I think I’ll try and record it to see what that say about me. Whoever that sister is I hope she’s doing well now..

    • @mikespilligan1490
      @mikespilligan1490 Před 5 lety

      D how did you get on? Did you get reinstated?
      They came to DF me I lied through my teeth because , why the hell not. I don't respect them or care about their views. I didn't want to lose my family.

    • @chrisdurant4627
      @chrisdurant4627 Před 2 lety +1

      Did you get reinststed, sis,, hope so, if not read gal,cha,2-v4 prov ch,30,v14'dont trust no elders, only JEHOVAH, please,

  • @stevenwestern8199
    @stevenwestern8199 Před 10 lety +2

    Cont- I wanted to rush into the star chamber knock the three stooges to the ground and rescue this hurting mother. If I could have held her and reassured her how much she was loved by God I would have traveled the 6,000 miles to do so. Hopefully she can move to real Christians and find love and acceptance, with understanding and support. I pray for her and her family that they might find peace that passeth understanding. Christ has paid the price for any sin she may have committed.

  • @valeriediaz82
    @valeriediaz82 Před 3 lety

    Why are they talking about pioneering?! That has nothing to do with being disfellowshipped, you can’t go out in service, they won’t even let you have your camera on during Zoom meetings, they don’t want to see a disfellowshipped person 🤯😡

  • @bluefidle
    @bluefidle Před 5 lety

    Sounds like they are determining how long she needs to stay in purgatory.

  • @dannycasey2832
    @dannycasey2832 Před 6 lety

    The elder says "Ill go along with you brothers decision." And he makes another referance to "going along" with others decisions.
    What the Hell happened to the Holy Spirit moving them to a decision? The elder is actually showing that he voted according to the other 2 elders choice, that was against his own feeling of whats right.
    I knew elders in the 70s, the old school ones. They told me of the workings in judicial decisions.
    One told me that if the other 2 decide one way that he goes with them no matter what because "When 2 agree that shows what the Holy Spirit decides!"
    Funny thing this elder appealed when he was disfellowshipped. A strange thing is the appeal flipped the original decision and he wasnt dissed afterall!
    The Holy Spirit makes bad calls according to WBTS! Sometimes you just have to "Appeal" the Holy Spirits decision.

  • @MeinnameistDreck
    @MeinnameistDreck Před 10 lety +1

    A lot of how, when and if one is reinstated depends on if the elders actually like you or not. The "verdict" is based purely on their personal opinions, beliefs and preferences. Like someone else already pointed out, there was not even a prayer before they started their deliberations. I'm sure the "Governing Body" doesn't pray either. They probably just sit there and say "what are we going to have them believe this month?". Abhorrent!

  • @mikesteele500
    @mikesteele500 Před 5 lety +1

    She needs more time this is her. Second offense. Does anyone remember when Peter asked Jesus how many times was he to forgive his brother up to seven times? Jesus said not up to 7 but 77 times.
    Where does the bible say that one has to go through a procedure like this to have their sins forgiven?
    Doesn't the blood of Jesus heal all men of their sin?

  • @AshJae
    @AshJae Před 6 lety

    Matthew 23:13“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to. [14]b
    15“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You travel over land and sea to win a single convert, and when you have succeeded, you make them twice as much a child of hell as you are.
    23“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You give a tenth of your spices-mint, dill and cumin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law-justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. 24You blind guides! You strain out a gnat but swallow a camel.
    25“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. 26Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean.
    27“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of the bones of the dead and everything unclean. 28In the same way, on the outside you appear to people as righteous but on the inside you are full of hypocrisy and wickedness.
    29“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You build tombs for the prophets and decorate the graves of the righteous.30And you say, ‘If we had lived in the days of our ancestors, we would not have taken part with them in shedding the blood of the prophets.’ 31So you testify against yourselves that you are the descendants of those who murdered the prophets. 32Go ahead, then, and complete what your ancestors started!

  • @adechalus
    @adechalus Před 6 lety

    I can’t believe I hear the elder using Jesus as an example with the man on the cross. Very good. He may have hope to leave this cult one day.

  • @Rhamsody
    @Rhamsody Před 10 lety +5

    9:00 if you cannot read hearts, then it's not your job to play JUDGE!

  • @dockspa
    @dockspa Před 8 lety

    Wonder why they have not been sued by telling everyone it is the "Truth"? Talk about your Scribes and Pharasees... They always say it is Jehovah's Holy Spirit that makes the decisions... Talk about running God into the ground!!!! They will all have blood on their hands!!!!!

  • @cantmakethisup36
    @cantmakethisup36 Před 7 lety

    What's "I could call COBE"?

  • @saschawhitcombxxxvi4849

    For how many years or months did Jesus instruct the apostles not to have any dealings with Peter after his third offense of denying him? I cant seem to find that in my bible. Christ may have had a few good qualities, but he'd have made a lousy JW elder. He said he preferred mercy rather than a sacrifice? Ridiculous!
    Elders are wise to demand their pound of flesh in order to grant forgiveness to anyone that dares to break the Watchtower's rules

  • @klsawake3446
    @klsawake3446 Před 3 lety

    This is so disgusting! They claim to have God’s direction and spirit? Sounds like a power grab on the part of one elder. What a mess.

    • @chrisdurant4627
      @chrisdurant4627 Před 2 lety

      Were all going to ansaw to JEHOVAH,,,, all of us includeing the elders,,,, would I be an elder ,, no.chance,,.some.enjoy disfellow shipping,,,, power trip,, killing there bro,s prov30,v14, psalm 64, wow, read that, the elders are no.one,, undeserved.kindness why we here, anyway int it,,,

    • @superdave1263
      @superdave1263 Před 2 lety

      I was an elder sitting in judgment of others. I can honestly say that we had committee meetings at least once a day and often times more. I was appointed elder at 21 years of age and had no business with a lack of experience sitting in judgment of others. Usually the dominant elder swayed the direction of the judicial meeting and influenced the decision of the others. I saw a lack of the Holy Spirit upon committee meetings.

  • @deborahmattern5660
    @deborahmattern5660 Před 10 lety

    It wasn't recorded her for whatever reason and it is wrong that they obviously did not start out with asking JEHOVAH for HIS GUIDANCE..Secondly, They did not give just reason WHY he felt she needed more time..Did she not show through her sincerity to not want to continue through her behaviours.These men are acting like judge and jury without Jehovah's blessing.and guidance.I cannot see why she should be going to these men of the earth for their acceptance her , when its JEHOVAH AND JESUS who know whats in her heart and her suffering.

  • @bettys8452
    @bettys8452 Před 9 lety

    no one has the right to say you're not ok for God. that's humiliating. Jesus said come. Matthew 11. I've learned God is Grace and mercy. he also said don't judge or you will be judged. if you are sorry for something and try to be better that's what matters. God knows a person's heart, not me.

  • @bretherenlee1404
    @bretherenlee1404 Před 9 lety

    disfellowshipping is biblical but the way it is handled in the watchtower is not all the way

  • @alexforpeace85
    @alexforpeace85 Před 10 lety +1

    It is JWs who mock Lord Jesus Christ by twisting His holy word.

  • @erickastewart2800
    @erickastewart2800 Před rokem

    Oh this is so triggering.. it’s never enough for you to do 100% you have to do 200% and they decide how much that is without telling you how to do it.. f them!

  • @shamanahaboolist
    @shamanahaboolist Před 10 lety

    Elder 3 seemed to have genuine love.

  • @freddyray6805
    @freddyray6805 Před 3 lety

    Masters over your faith syndrome right there. Amazing how 2 of them are making themselves Jehovah. Is it like Jehovah has gone on holiday and forgotten about his people in the congs and these men need to appease him for when he returns?

  • @marwatson7408
    @marwatson7408 Před 2 lety

    Got disfellowshipped walked out the door that night and never went back, thank goodness I never had family in this abusive nonsense lost a few friends. But I just didn’t care anymore.

  • @Pjiggy
    @Pjiggy Před 9 lety

    @AntonioVázquez only if you do what Jesus told you to do. You can't call yourself his brother or sister and be living your life separate of him not taking in his example, period.

  • @reneehoney7355
    @reneehoney7355 Před 5 lety

    Makes me wish i was born Jewish. I hate these inept ways. They dont like going to court . kangaroo court shes on 💊 we all know. They act like supreme court justices. Expose the ... This us wht the coverups these men dont ever want this done to then.

  • @bethdawson6401
    @bethdawson6401 Před 10 lety

    Will I be shunned if I'm an unbaptized publisher and I leave?

    • @JWStruggle
      @JWStruggle  Před 9 lety

      Beth Dawson Good advice from Katie. It also depends upon the particular makeup of the elders assigned to your case and how the body views the subject. Then the vibe they radiate will trickle into how the publishers treat you.

    • @HappyGotGun
      @HappyGotGun Před 9 lety

      JWStruggle i dont know if this still used,but as a un-baptized be pronounced as 'bad company' at a service meeting... probably a rule of old, dreamed up by a member of the 'humble goverment servant's alzheimer fever dream..... they cant shun you, but start slowly, find some kind of 'place' outside jw, like friends from school, work og something else beside jw. DONT quit, based on your first sexual encounter. It was important to you, probably not for her....

    • @ProfessorKA0S
      @ProfessorKA0S Před 8 lety

      probably they wont be hanging out with you long if you dont have the intention of coming back and living the JW lifestyle.

    • @simonmartinez324
      @simonmartinez324 Před 8 lety

      no you depending on the type of hall you go to people May try to reach out to you or they may do nothing or may think your doing wrong it just varies

  • @MsSouthern2U
    @MsSouthern2U Před 10 lety +1

    GOVERNING BODY….get's disfellowshipped. Are they talking about 1981? That's a long time ago.

    • @MsSouthern2U
      @MsSouthern2U Před 10 lety

      It was heart warming to see how the brother had mercy. This was the teaching Jesus had. Mercy before Law. I was glad to see that she found a way back to her family.

  • @jah50
    @jah50 Před 7 lety

    Elder #3 sounds like he is partiatially or in secret fully awake to the BS of the Wathtower

  • @1951kvk
    @1951kvk Před 9 lety

    I know a JW who left her husband & children because she was bored however that didn't warrant being disfellowshiped, but smoking did the trick. Weird values!

  • @mjp4111
    @mjp4111 Před 6 lety

    Why would they say work on her relationship with Jehovah. And may Jehovah bless you? I mean, if that’s the case why disfellowship at all. I’ve heard other elders say god doesn’t hear a df persons prayers! JWs thinking is just so skewed. So glad I’m out of this mind game Borg.

  • @simonrgalesg
    @simonrgalesg Před 5 lety

    3 months with her eyes downcast.... That makes him read her heart... Disgusting

  • @markgarner878
    @markgarner878 Před 7 lety

    I have not heard any Elder here use Scripture ONE!!!!!!!!

  • @lindadent1138
    @lindadent1138 Před 6 lety

    I'm saddened by this Jehovah s holy spirit has nothing to do with it.Men & their personal opinions this is so unloving on the elders part.They love having power over others.

  • @deborahmattern5660
    @deborahmattern5660 Před 10 lety

    These are but earthly men...and if they were of like mind and soirit they would not be PREJUDGING her...as the one brother said...to be in this...To be in what? THE ORGANIZATION...Our baptism is NOT TO THE ORGANIZATION...It is to JEHOVAH...through Jesus and with the blessing and force of the HOLY SPIRIT...These men are acting like KINGS ...judges and jury...allthese IF'S AND OR BUT'S...don't make any sense....They obviously have not followed her and have not been there spiritually guiding her like Jesus did with his flock...That's what it boils down to..Because if they had been ,they would know what she truly is doing

  • @ryalfrd2116
    @ryalfrd2116 Před 10 lety

    this is shocking eric, by the way thanks for the vid, i love vids like this cos it shows up the people for what they are.yea you get some brothers who stick up for people, but as usual in a power tripped egotystical mind of trumpped up elders, nothings ever good enough is it.well, i hope jesus gives them the same loving care they showed others in return.

    • @JWStruggle
      @JWStruggle  Před 10 lety +1

      Yes, it's true. A few elders will try and support and show love and be merciful but that is not the way most react to the training by WT unfortunately.

  • @kipmic1
    @kipmic1 Před 5 lety

    Spoken like a Pharisee, how sad.

  • @chloefree9556
    @chloefree9556 Před 10 lety +1

    Just so creepy and disturbing

  • @anelatea-anac2978
    @anelatea-anac2978 Před 6 lety

    Elder backwards Re D Le

  • @memememetwo1261
    @memememetwo1261 Před 8 lety

    Apparently they were right...she wasn't sincere if she tricked them into making this recording.

    • @jwsuicides8095
      @jwsuicides8095 Před 8 lety +3

      legally she had the right and their own duplicity shows it was founded. What is your point?

  • @davidbyrd8902
    @davidbyrd8902 Před 10 lety

    I'm not being judgmental but the fact is that you were being judgmental by putting these videos on the Internet. And the reason why people are leaving the watch Tower are purely personal and have nothing to do with God's organization. So apostate situations such as yours are blasphemy against the true God. There is no judgment going on here it's just the fact.

    • @JWStruggle
      @JWStruggle  Před 10 lety +5

      Are you a JW elder then? Who has authorized you to come to this channel and watch these videos that are banned by your Governing Body Slave Masters?
      Your comments on these videos is judgementalism at its best since you are likely ignorant on most of the facts and research behind my statements. Educate yourself and extract the rafter from your eye then come back here my friend.

    • @pierre0095
      @pierre0095 Před 9 lety +1

      The whole of Jehovah's Witnesses organization/religion is a crock!

    • @HappyGotGun
      @HappyGotGun Před 9 lety

      Well put drakian... David Byrd is OK, when it comes to children being teached to avoid 'the wearthy people', only have friend within the faith, don't believe teachers, science or anything else besides your loving father and mother. And when you can't cope and cant believe, well suit yourself, go on and try to make a life from scratch at 21 or 42..without friends network anything. Just in case you have non-JW, they arent capable to handle this situation, And "well" meaning parents etc answer is "But you brought it on yourself!! Cant you see it?" David Byrne, you are a wanker (oops thats impossible, No doing what is healthy and natural, of course) youre a twat..
      JW=HURT

    • @Nocturnalux
      @Nocturnalux Před 7 lety +1

      Yeah, there's no judgment...it's not as if these group of men are judging this girl and deciding against her having any form of contact with her family. No wait, that's exactly what is going on.
      Now prove to me this 'true God' even exists, then show me it is involved in your religion. Yeah. Not going to happen, is it?

    • @erichramone7812
      @erichramone7812 Před 6 lety +1

      David Byrd exposing the secret meetings is a good thing. Judging was supposed to happen in the most open forum of the temple. To allow the congregation to see. So as to allow for scrutiny and justice. That’s the exact opposite of jw judicial comittees. Just that alone is wrong