The Value of Therapy and Dealing With Your Problems
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“I’ll protect you at the cost of your ability to protect yourself” is a perfect wording.
I"m incredibly grateful to have the ability to see Dr. Peterson's talks online, such as this, as well as my decision to take the leap with his self-authoring program a few years ago. He's one of the main catalysts for my transformation from being in a pretty bad place about 4 years ago, to someone who now has a successful and fulfilling career as well as a happy long-term relationship with my significant other. I'm not saying anyone must take everything he says as gospel, but it's genuinely worth contemplating what he's communicating. This video is just another example of his brilliance and genuine caring nature of others. I wish I was exposed to someone like him when I was younger.
There hasn’t ever been a great thinker that got everything right, not even Buddha. But JP speaks at least 99% truth, and deep truth at that. So much respect.
@@peripheralparadox4218 brother try to know more about budhha and Peterson then compare
It would be better for other viewer.
@@santoshpal8612 I was using Buddha as an example of a great thinker who didn’t get everything right, my purpose wasn’t to compare the two in great depth.
“Stop relying on your conceptual schemes. Instead, actively generate your own ability to produce conceptual schemes in the face of chaos and malevolence.”
I am writing from Costa Rica, and while having learned English by myself is one of the things I am most thankful for, I surely appreciate the fact that it allowed me to stumble across the work of this incredible man... What I mean is, I'm not even sure if everybody has the capacity to really understand and take the things he says in the deepest possible sense at least from my own level of analysis... #DrJordanPeterson
If you learn English from Jordan Peterson videos, my God, you will have a million dollar vocabulary soon.
I'm a native English speaker and some of what he says is lost on me.
@@UmamiPapi I can absolutely relate, I guess is just the nature of the complexity of the things he tries to explain away, which is, often times hard to put into words due to their deep level of abstraction... That is on the other hand, the reason why I believe he does such a wonderful job with the exemplification of things utilizing archetypes... It's just unbelievably amazing, I am grateful for the mere fact that most of the things he says certainly click in my head, this is not to say, that I am a psychologist or that I even understand the basics of it, but without a doubt, listening to his lectures is eye opening and revealing especially if you look at it through the spectrum of mythological belief across the globe...
Every single upload as of late has spoken to me in some spiritual sort of way. I spent my entire life bitter and vindictive towards god and religion, for very valid reasons, but after miraculously waking up in a hospital bed for the second time, I had what you might call a spiritual awakening. I’m doing my best to be a good person, and it seems to be working.
I hope Jordan knows how valuable his work is.
I don't know what made you vindictive against God, but my guess is that He was misrepresented to you. I've had a sort or realignment myself recently, and I found that a lot of my problems are a misconception about how good God is, and how hard it is to believe that someone could love me so much. Then my wife came into my life, and if she can love me so well, then how could God love me any less?
As for religious systems, stick close to God's Word. It's the only reliable, objective representation of God we have.
@@jeffmuller1489 you’re exactly right, he was misrepresented to me. Maybe that was the plan all along, because at the moment, I feel stronger than I’ve ever felt.
You’ve each found a great truth.. now do you each believe in it enough to share it radically?
It’s nice of you to recognise that each individual has talents and qualities that are valuable to the collective harmony.
I needed this. Thank you Mr. Peterson.
One of the best 10 min clips of you I've seen. The most thorough explication of your position, but in a one dose sitting. Even consistent with Marx's homo faber. Brilliant
I can’t thank you enough for the work that you’re doing. It’s one of the most valuable things of our times. Thanks for being so courageous to face all the difficulties that come along with it.
best peterson clip
protective structures ...the word protective alone sends shivers down spine . . .never underestimate the over protection by others ... The alarm bells ...ask why......
Te amo! Thanks so much for your help, Pescador de Hombres. The psychologists that I have attended are all Left-leaning, and have even almost suggested divorce. A Catholic priest is no help either for me. I want someone I can speak too, who will not judge me, and will not put their beliefs on me either. Psychologists have helped me before, but now, I think I need a Shaman! I don't even know what that is, but I am capabale of helping myself. My parents and husband love me dearly, as my only sister. I know that I have them, but I don't want to burden them either. Prayer, and my own self, are going to take me out of the Abyss. I still have my Faith, and you're alive too. All is not lost. Gracias! The Gates of Hades shall not prevail.
Makes you wonder, would we need a savior, if we were just a little bit more Christ-like ourselves?
@@PeeGee85 We are not Christ, ourselves, but we are CONNECTED, to the TRUE VINE. We are branches. Are branches, the tree, itself? Hmmm, what an interesting question you present. We are not Christ ourselveves. But we are a PART of HIM. We are family, through Christ. If we say we are God ourselves, in my opinion, we'd be Satanists. God lives within us, and connects us. God is Love. Satan, is jealous of God, and wants to be God.
You can find shamans on an Indian reservation near you
@@elinope4745 There are no Indian Reservations in Puerto Rico, that I am aware of. But I can, indeed, find a Shaman. I can even do Ayahuasca, for I do know a "Shaman". I can put many things in my body, that I can have access to. But I don't think it will help. Only I can help myself, but I am not enough. I need you people. Thanks for helping me.
Maria all I advice you to do is to carry the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ and walk towards him... and he shall take away all your heavy burdens...
There is No one or nothing that will heal us with out Jesus God only....
Christianity is the True Religion and Life and Path to the True God...
God bless you
You are doing great work keep doing what your heart is telling you to do if it’s coming from a good intention.. and the voice of God..
May the Lord Protect you from Evil thoughts and deeds and always bless you with his wisdom and the fear of God and his Endless Love and kindness 🕊🕊🕊🙏😊✝️❤️
This man is in the league of Carl Jung and Buddha. Much respect and gratitude.
My mother put me in a bubble, but I always believed she did it because she did not a better way to do it. My growth was harder (I think) but I think, most of the time, parents do the best they can.
A belief system doesn't have to be an all or nothing thing. For example, I was a Christian with a very narrow view of divorce until I was challenged to think about it differently. I didn't ditch Jesus or God (although it felt like that at first), I allowed new facts to enter the equation and adapted or evolved my understanding of the nature of marriage, relationships and people in general. I lived in a bubble that was safe until it wasn't.
I still believe divorce is to be avoided if possible, but I now understand that there are more plausible reasons to end a marriage that are not sin and are consistent with the Bible and the nature of God.
Deleted every influencer , except JP , this is a very important lesson to learn and couldn't come at a better time...I said something similar in argument with my niece recently, your participating, I'm observing...although I wasn't really at that time.
I'm working on a personal solution to this as it has nearly destroyed me but feel its necessary.
I've done exactly what you have described and im sorry.
you might just doubt the utility of protective structures themselves. Now, that's another level of analysis I would have never articulated in that manner. 🤯
If you do make it though chaos through nihilism and still get away from protective structures your world view, social views, and over understanding of structures/concepts etc allow for tremendous growth. I think this video could have ended at 1:02 to encourage that struggle away from protective structures and find agency even if it is the harder thing to do.
I'm interested in how the ppl within our hierarchies might revise the ideals they act upon to unlock the potential of a thoughtful general public, so humanity might emerge as something greater than if the status quo goes on unchallenged and we only continue to orient ourselves around image and popularity.
I'd hate to see a privileged society get a rude awakening when the education we all need is available within each other, but individually, we'd rather appear as being right at all costs, instead of actually learning anything.
Dumb but I regret when I was at a cicis when a little kid came by and had trouble getting the coin machine to take his dollar. I noticed him while I was eating nearby and decided to help show him how its done. I was intending to just show him how to unwrinkle the bill and demonstrate putting it in the slot again.. but then accidently actually put it in the slot haha. No joke I thought to jordan's words and felt sad inside stealing the fun of the machine from the boy. He didnt care one bit of course, but darnit it bothers me! Ill be a true hero next time haha.
Even though many crave safety . . . life has a way of finding us and offending us . . . no matter how much safety we think we have. Please mention that fact also Dr. Peterson. See Matthew 18:7. Some translations say OFFENSES instead of TEMPTATIONS.
It seems like basic psych classes should be required in general education starting in junior high or even grade school.
Can someone explain how his critique of european regressive nationalism as a response to chaos factor in a kind of voluntary civic service that was proposed recently. I guess one is am "invitation" but seems very much like a soft nationalism.
“Right Wingers” Are ardent advocates for smaller & less government leaning more towards no government if it all possible.
Right wingers “safe place” is self-sufficiency and certainly not “the state”.
Clearly as much as I love Jordan L Peterson? He does err quite horribly on his estimation and assessment of “right wingers”.
And I say this as a 60+ year old classical liberal JFK Jr. [D].
My thoughts exactly.
You know what the best part of therapy is? Doing it over the phone / online with BetterHelp so Google and anybody else listening get to listen to and record everything you say.
encrypt your communications
@@whambalamb using what? Telegram? Signal? Doubt that will work on many levels. Google is listening straight through your microphone. Lord knows who else can too. The government has backdoors into everything. Everything is being recorded. Logged into a file for every one of us. With no oversight or accountability. And we never agreed to any of this. And they will deny it in front of Congress if asked. But everyone knows it's true.
That website/service needs to conform voluntarily to HIPAA laws or they are at risk of a major class action lawsuit eventually.
Just using the service at all probably tells marketers how to exploit you with substance use ads and other targetted ads.
This is one moment in time where I will say: "Pay out of pocket for psychology services, use your insurance or get government medicare. Fuck those apps. They are predatory imo."
For people who just need normal stress reduction therapy of "my boss yelled at me today, what did I do wrong?". Ok fine. You can buy a sounding board. You can hire a prostitute for the same service (emotional support).
These websites are not going to actually solve problems with seriously mentally ill people though. They are using them.
Even one of their commercials made me depressed.
Create the problem and sell the "cure"? I already have a ATF regulated industry to do that for me...
Yeah, but you're the ONLY psychologist that I would trust tinkering around with my psyche. Every other one I've ever been exposed to has been a sanctimonious hack. As a matter of fact the entire profession looks to me like a bunch of people standing around congratulating one another and handing out awards and celebrating their humanity and not really getting much done other than destroying traditional families.
You could attempt to seek out a counselor, therapist, psychologist or psychiatrist who has worked for the Veterans Administration?
Maybe some of the integrity of many of their patients ended up becoming a part of their private practice endeavor?
I don't know tbh. I don't really trust people easily either. And the psychology field is absolutely failing in many ways. You could even say JBP is part of that problem in a few forms, because he is basically not a psychologist anymore. He is a political entity.
@@vicecityblue JimiHendrix died from Heroin.
He is better at the guitar than you will ever be.
I am not comparing Peterson to Hendrix. I am explaining a point with an example.
Be careful how you denigrate or judge others. Rhetoric is easy, manipulative and often hurts you more than effects others (unless all you do is manipulate people for politics or money. Then yeah.)
Either way, get better at using rhetorical slander or just don't use rhetorical slander.
@@vicecityblue I could be incorrect, yet I think most of Peterson's substance abuse issues began after he was rarely practicing clinical work and had mostly been participating in personality research and writing.
Benzos are a very dangerous classification of drugs. The problem is, people are also sometimes broken. Should broken people be entirely discarded, because they indulge in substances or attempt to be properly medicated by substances?
Throwaway culture is abhorrent. People are not trash that should be entirely discarded because they have problems.
Sir Isaac Newton was mentally ill af. He also was one of the most brilliant mathematicians of all time.
One of the dudes who solved a millenium prize in mathematics, was a hermit and possible schizophrenic who denied a free million dollars prize. And all he wanted was to be left alone.
This world is crazy. Sometimes people are crazy. That does not devalue their entire existence and body of work.
Attacking the person instead of the argument is an explicit Ad Hominem. That returns false.
@@vicecityblue You should talk to your doctor about Ativan. It would help to soften the edges around your social media experience.
@@vicecityblue says alot that the only psychologist that i would trust is a former speed freak. to me...what do you make of it?
Let me say the problem with it. This is from a talk from jiddu in 1970. You know, sirs - don't go to sleep over this. Because as we said, we are communicating with each other, which means we are sharing together, we are journeying together, you are not left behind for someone else to go ahead, either we are going together or not at all, which means you must have worked during this week, very hard, to find out your own activities of the mind, how it functions, your self-centred activities, the 'me' and the 'not me', you must have been quite familiar with yourself and all the tricks that the mind plays upon itself, the illusions and the delusions, the image, and the imagination that one has. And the romantic ideas, with a mind that is capable of sentimentality is incapable of love, because sentiment breeds cruelty, brutality, violence, not love.
So if you have, and I hope for your own sake, not because of me, of the speaker, you have more or less deeply established this in yourself. Which is quite an arduous, demanding, tremendous inward discipline, discipline being learning, not learning from another, but learning by observing what is going on in yourself. And that observation is not possible if there is any form of prejudice, conclusion, a formula according to which you are observing. If you are observing according to some psychologist, you really are not observing yourself, you are observing what the psychologist has said to you, and through that you are observing. Therefore there is no self-knowing.
And this implies an awareness. You know, there are many schools in Asia and I believe they are creeping into this country too, where you are being taught how to be aware, or how to be attentive. The first thing is, if I may point out, don't join anything, don't join any group, any organisation - I hope there is nobody here who is the head of organisations, or group leaders. Don't, because you need a mind that is capable of standing completely alone, not be burdened by the propaganda of others or the experiences of others. Enlightenment doesn't come through a leader, through a teacher, it comes through understanding of 'what is', which is in yourself, not running away from yourself. So don't, if I may most respectfully suggest, don't join anything, especially the religious kind where they promise you Nirvana or God for five dollars, or give you some kind of talisman in the shape of words - we'll go into that presently; because the mind has to understand actually what is going on in the psychological field, in its own field, and therefore it must be aware of what is going on, aware without any distortion, without any choice, without any resentment, bitterness, explanation or justification, just to observe.
Now if this is laid happily, easily, with great joy, not compulsively but with ease, with felicity, without any hope of reaching anything, because if you have hope you are moving away from despair, therefore one has to understand despair, not search out hope - despair comes only when there is no understanding of 'what is' - out of despair you have bitterness. In the understanding of 'what is' there is neither despair nor hope.
If you want to read the whole talk, here is the link. He also has videos of his talks, and this talk you can search up. Many people I have shown have a hard time listening to him though I have heard, so that is why I gave the written link. jkrishnamurti.org/content/what-meditation
Don't steal other people's puzzles. Noted. I hate to see people suffer; I should get over that I guess. That playground analogy tho:)
antifragility
Yeaaah, no ammount of therapy's going to solve my problem.
it's not therapy that solves your problems. It's You and therapy.
Just say how it's going to be, man. It will be that way.
@@masterxyr Agree. I've been doing it for about 6 months now and that's definitely how it is for me.
@@jimmy.pProductions that's good to hear. Same here.
@@masterxyr well then no ammount of me and therapy is going to solve my problem.
The rambling of a madman.
No great mind has ever existed without a touch of madness ~ Aristotle.
@@JC-gx8zs he also thought the sun revolves around the earth, men have more teeth than women, heavier objects fall faster than lighter ones... He got a lot of stuff wrong.
I don't think its the ramblings of a madman at all. What he says makes sense
@@jakepember2369 how so?
@@SummumBonum. His points lead from one to another, and he's communicating his ideas directly. This talk comes across as clear and genuine. To me the ramblings of a madman are more like undirected random thoughts with mismatched emotion and no basis in the real world. He sounds like he's communicating to other people and paying attention when they communicate back but a madman would be talking to himself
There's a harmful stigma at therapy.
poor mr p. what a debbie downer.
Describing life exactly as it actually is can often be a downer. Dr Peterson gives hope, in the form of tools to use to life from being such a downer. But you'll never get there if you are addicted to sweetness and light. There is frightfully little of that in this world. I think he teaches people how to find that sweetness and light and cling to it, not manifest it out of thin air where it was never going to exist in the first place.
If your not strong enough to accept the reality of life you will refuse to look at the darkness that exists to make the light possible
the value of therapy is to the therapist who gets paid. if therapy actually works then why are there more mentally ill people than ever in history, more different types of therapy and more therapists? shouldn't people be getting better not sicker? could it have something to do with the ever expanding litany of mental illnesses promoted and "discovered" by .....wait for it.....therapists?
I think I see hungry ghosts at the store…I think I lost my snake, cock, and pig…and, my marbles.
What is resonant frequency, or shock therapy anyway?
Is it “gangstalking”?
He hasn't a clue on the story of Adam & Eve, but then very few do.
It's the story about infancy turning into childhood, it's why "you must be born again" to see the Garden, Heaven on Earth, right where you are in the eternal present moment, "like a child" but realised to God.
🌞💖👁️
I wonder if Jordan has ever considered taking therapy from another therapist?
“I act as if God exists, and I’m terrified he might.” ~ Jordan Peterson
Someone that goes by the pseudonym SueDenim wrote the following pertaining to Jordan Peterson … “He's gone off the deep end these days, attributing "evil" to his enemies with his moralistic absolutist rants, its painful to watch.”
What if they are? What if he has spent decades in very high level study of evil and its nature and what its presence looks like, and he knows it when he sees it?
What if he's right and you're wrong?
@@joeday4293 Do you believe that you are evil?
@@junevandermark952 Do you not? Or at least recognize your capacity for evil, which you certainly have if you're human? Because if you don't, you're even more susceptible to it.
@@joeday4293 The word evil stemmed from the religious gossip that a devil is leading spiritually weakened humans into committing evil deeds.
Ridiculous.
If someone commits a brutal act against another human, it's because that someone was plain angry and vindictive, as humans are prone to be, when we don't get our own way.
It's time to take responsibility for our own nasty actions, and stop blaming our nasty behavior on an imaginary devil.
@@junevandermark952I remember you. Why would you make this argument in opposition to Peterson, when you basically just restated his case? Do you bother to even watch these videos before you comment on them?