I was a people pleaser too and how I stopped it was to heal the main reason why I wanted others approval💝 And love and respect myself more in my healing journey💗
I also have a small question if you see this: how do you "finish" things ? How do you just "get things done"? I get so close to finishing every time, or I advance, and then I stop... Maybe you have some insights to share ? 🥺
@@alliwhite3941 hey, thanks a lot for your reply, much appreciated 😍 yeah I kind of thought it could be something along these lines too, it's just hard to really understand it. but I'll look it up further as you suggest, sending you all the positivity
You are my inspiration. You really inspire me a lot. Your positivity and confidence radiates and makes me feel happy and confident and positive. Love your channel . Lots of love 💜💜💜💖♥️💓💝💗
Who is with me 24/7? SPIRIT.. that’s who and once I got that on an experiential level (not just intellectually) my life changed, I discovered why I was a people pleaser and began reprogramming my mind…yes I too am with me 24/7 and it makes no sense for me not to love myself and be my own best friend 💜
If we truly ask ourselves why we crave external validation, we will likely find the answer deep down is because we lack confidence and conviction within ourselves for that particular subject. For example, if your mother-in-law says you don't love her son enough, you'll be trying so hard to impress her because you're afraid you might not be the most liked person in the family and afraid of not being fully accepted (lack of confidence). But imagine if your mother tells you that you don't love her enough, your first instincts might be to roll your eyes and laugh because it's just plain ridiculous! Why? Cause you're bloody confident that you love your mother and will be accepted no matter what (assured confidence). This might be a very generic example but you can apply the same thought and question yourself whether it's just a lack of confidence to which I'll say, it's time to learn how to improve self-perception and watch how to increase confidence videos.
I relate but want to ask the question: 24/7 Cuz sometimes i feel like i can judge me myself and I, but not really CARE about anyone else. Its pretentious the way i put that but, am i spitting on nah?
Just recently started following you. Your positivity and realistic style radiates, and we are HERE for it!! Cheers to better days and better ways.
I was a people pleaser too and how I stopped it was to heal the main reason why I wanted others approval💝 And love and respect myself more in my healing journey💗
I also have a small question if you see this: how do you "finish" things ? How do you just "get things done"? I get so close to finishing every time, or I advance, and then I stop... Maybe you have some insights to share ? 🥺
Usually this is about inner blocks, so it's a subconscious problem. Many psychologists on youtube talk about this professionally, just look it up!
@@alliwhite3941 hey, thanks a lot for your reply, much appreciated 😍 yeah I kind of thought it could be something along these lines too, it's just hard to really understand it. but I'll look it up further as you suggest, sending you all the positivity
So true! Thank you as always!
Thank you for sharing!
You are my inspiration. You really inspire me a lot. Your positivity and confidence radiates and makes me feel happy and confident and positive. Love your channel
. Lots of love 💜💜💜💖♥️💓💝💗
Aileen, you are so fabulous! Thank you for all your hard work.
Absolutely Loved this
Hey Aileen ❤️ thank you for this lovely thought !
Who is with me 24/7? SPIRIT.. that’s who and once I got that on an experiential level (not just intellectually) my life changed, I discovered why I was a people pleaser and began reprogramming my mind…yes I too am with me 24/7 and it makes no sense for me not to love myself and be my own best friend 💜
Thank you for sharing that perspective!!
So true!! thanks 👍
God does guys,just remember that.
He never takes a break. He never will just remember that.❤
Love that looks so beautiful 🙏😃🤍💌🙏😇❄️
Thanks for the advice, just in time
Thank you ! So be your own best friend !
Love the channel & keep up the great work too
Thank you dear 💕💕
If we truly ask ourselves why we crave external validation, we will likely find the answer deep down is because we lack confidence and conviction within ourselves for that particular subject.
For example, if your mother-in-law says you don't love her son enough, you'll be trying so hard to impress her because you're afraid you might not be the most liked person in the family and afraid of not being fully accepted (lack of confidence).
But imagine if your mother tells you that you don't love her enough, your first instincts might be to roll your eyes and laugh because it's just plain ridiculous! Why? Cause you're bloody confident that you love your mother and will be accepted no matter what (assured confidence).
This might be a very generic example but you can apply the same thought and question yourself whether it's just a lack of confidence to which I'll say, it's time to learn how to improve self-perception and watch how to increase confidence videos.
Hiiii!!! Great post girl
Thankyou 💗
So true, yet I struggle to do it, if at all.
Great video 💯
Great advice. What’s the background song?
Take your power back. No one has control over you but you, so don’t give others that power
Agree
you are right
Yay new video
True
I found this out the hard way
How to do things which I feel so frightened to do ?🙂
I relate but want to ask the question: 24/7
Cuz sometimes i feel like i can judge me myself and I, but not really CARE about anyone else. Its pretentious the way i put that but, am i spitting on nah?
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What if it's my parents?
im people plesar what solution
Can you please give me any advice for my Jealousy towards others' lives.I don't want to be jealous, but I am jealous of them.😐
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How I wishh 🥲😪