The REAL Reason Why Narcissists Hate Their Mother
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- čas přidán 4. 08. 2024
- In this video, we delve into the complex and often misunderstood relationship between narcissists and their mothers. Narcissists frequently harbor intense negative feelings towards their mothers, stemming from a combination of psychological factors. These individuals may have experienced neglect, criticism, or overbearing control during their formative years, leading to deep-seated resentment and a fractured sense of self. The mother, often being the primary caregiver, becomes the focal point of the narcissist's anger and frustration. Additionally, the narcissist's inherent need for admiration and lack of empathy can exacerbate conflicts, creating a cycle of animosity. Join us as we explore the intricate dynamics at play and offer insights into the underlying reasons for this strained relationship. Understanding these patterns can help in recognizing and addressing the root causes of narcissistic behavior.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:41 Mysogony
02:54 Oeidupus complex / Electra Complex
03:02 Childhood experiences
05:48 Societal influences
06:23 Personal insecurities
07:15 Why a man hates a woman
09:00 Why women love men that cannot love them back
10:20 Learnt behaviour
11:29 What to do next
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This would make sense why so many are present due to the amount of single mother households.
First 5 seconds “ have you ever wondered why certain men hate certain women ..” NOPE
I just wanted to say thank you for all of your teaching, it has guided me towards a healthier mental perspective
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Hello, I completely understand what you mean and agree with you. Development also plays a role in people who exhibit narcissistic behavior and these people could fulfill their responsibilities and work on themselves by adulthood at the latest. In the case of narcissistic personality disorder, however, and this should not be seen as an excuse, the symbiotic disconnection from the mother (who does not even have to have consciously done anything bad) did not work before the age of three and he is always looking for symbiosis with his partner, she sees as an extended arm, not as an independent person because of that, and has to repeatedly cut off the umbilical cord from his mother in order to separate himself, and in a sometimes terribly destructive way, because he is a toddler in an adult costume and not an intrinsic one of his own I developed it, so he acts out of his disorder. He is his disorder. This is not intended to excuse anything or arouse undue pity, but it may help you understand this better and learn to live with it. For a deeper understanding, if you're struggling with this, I can also recommend Julia van Rüth, Understanding Narcissism, on Instagram. Therefore, I have quoted this information, most of it presented as is. For me that's understandable, despite all the pain and the fact that I'm a mother myself. Best regards, Andrea from Germany
Please do more videos/ Counseling on this subject this was a great video by the way ..yeah a fantastic video
Red pill content is huge rn.
Hi Anoushka.
Yes, it's through agrre but not all man !!! we can't generalizing.
It doesn't have to be the mother, it can be an aunt, a grandmother, a teacher, abuse during or in sport groups, bullying in school, or even a narcistic father that a person watched abusing his mother during childhood etc. Often sexual abuse in childhood, and that can be done by anyone. It's a strange and dangerous statement that a man turns narcistic only because of his mother. This makes a mother the only one responsible for what happened with a child, completly ignoring the fact that there was also a father whoms influence is just as big, even when they ignore and abandon a child. There are thousands of reasons, why someone turns to narcistic behaviors. The yt "experts" are growing wild and seem to lack the full picture. Let's stop with blaming mothers and start looking at the complete picture, don't leave out society... because that's often where the most mental, physical and spiritual abuse starts. For exemple a child that changes after a physical street robbery. We can't blame mothers for these things.
An ex of mine blamed his mother for being forced by his father in a boarding school as from 4 years old till 18.. I don't know exactly what happened there, but it was dark and turned him into an abuser, his sister turned mean and evil as well. So who is really to blame for this?
Let's stop pretending we know everything and stop blaming women for ever abusive cold men.
Anoushka said SOME male narcissist. It was true for my situation
I agree with you that it’s pretty complicated as far as where the abuse came from or who did the abuse …and I agree that most blame is placed on the mother even when it appears Obviously otherwise .. I actually witnessed it several times ..When the mother is trying her hardest and putting her child/ family first and trying to make sense of the horrible abusive situation she finds herself in ..although to be fair..She did mention Society and how cultures affect opinions / attitudes and the normalcy of such societies being misogynistic ..and also that watching a father abuse a mother affects the child ( normalizing it) .. and yet sometimes it actually is the mother!.. childhood trauma/ abuse is the cause regardless of who was involved or to blame.. we have a very real problem in this world when it comes to attacking women sexually ,physically, and verbally .. google how many are Assaulted and murdered every year ..the number is huge
@@ericjackson-nq4hpthis video was about men who hate women and hold a deep resentment towards them and women who love them.. Misogyny ..mother issues..that was the topic…I didn’t misunderstand or confuse the subject of video.. I have studied this subject for years.. and have watched her for years …longer than you…and I found this video to explain this subject quite well.. hated towards women and women that love these men and that don’t leave .. it’s a problem all over the world.. China Russia, Australia, Japan, Germany, Romania etc…it isn’t limited to one country ..so yes very well explained thank you .. also btw many of us have meet our first narcissist on the very first day that we were born and are well aware of The vicious, cruelty of some women .. and study these women as well…Lucy Lefy 17 attempted murders 7 successful.. the laughing nanny over 8 …etc many women and deep divers into their childhoods …so one comment (vs 13 minutes) hummm .. snap shot perhaps …or projecting and triggered yourself…of course that’s if you were speaking to me .. since I couldn’t actually tell if you were addressing me..I will leave it at that
@@ericjackson-nq4hp I agree, it’s just horrific and to think that it’s also under reported, so it’s actually much worse than we know. I taught school for years and some people might be surprised to learn that how many of my student’s parents were incarcerated. Narcissists hate or dislike children according to Professor Dr Sam Valkin (probably didn’t spell his name right, he posts almost every day. I am sure that you have heard of him) and also HGTUTOR… ( ⬅️ that’s a very interesting and insightful channel you might want to visit) both are narcissists and psychopaths and claim to be abused by their Mother’s as well. My Mother was diagnosed as a malignant narcissist. HGTUTOR sort of reminds me of her ..she always spoke with that same air of superiority as he does. It’s been my pleasure to have shared this exchange..best of luck to you
You are so thoughtful @@ecace8699
An educator, haha, that makes a lot of sense to me in hindsight.
Anyway, I hop on the soapbox around here every now again. Thank you for being
tolerant and united in the appeal for greater human decency.
...make me a channel of thy peace
--Prayer of St Francis
Be well. Thank you, sincerely.
Jesus said his mother created him and also destroyed him.
Paul said women aren't worthy of life, Jesus agreed, saying it's okay though, he can make mary become as a man.
Jesus said you must hate your mother, father, siblings, even your own life if you want to be a disciple.
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How do you know that " he" said that. Just because it is written in a book, doesn't make it true. We all have knowledge and even think we have wisdom, but it all came from outsiders. This makes the information second hand info, reiterating what others have heard, said or done ,a give mind. Jesus probably wasn't even a person. Have you ever thought about that? Scriptures/ bible.. everything is scripted before we came into this world full of deception and evil. It's written as a parable to hide the truth for the masses...without having any proof of it, believing this, makes us people with second hand knowledge. The problem is, that most humans can't think for themselves and Be-LIE-ve everything others feed them. Despite the fact they know men wrote all these books, and men can't be trusted..., it's been translated a thousands of times, could there have been made mistakes? Yes...And it uses fear based stories, to control the masses. Jesus said...is this true? Can you 100% be certain of this fact? Where you there? No... Think.
Scholars agree that in the case of hate your mother, father siblings ..what is really meant is Love less than and not actually hate … Scholars also agree that throughout Paul’s writings, he changed his stance on women as he grew and evolved, as most of us do change as we gain knowledge… he no longer put Priscilla‘s husband’s name first when he wrote their letters to them…He started to only address Priscilla and left her husband out completely. Eventually as he continued his ministry ..he found that the women did most of the work in the church, and one actually saved his life… most of the men didn’t even like him, and didn’t trust him ..although he wrote most of the New Testament, ..it usually takes a deep deep dive into the Scriptures to truly understand them, and not miss quote them as so many of us have done in the past .. Hence, the scripture study to show yourself approved, RIGHTLY dividing the word ..a workman, not to be ashamed
@@ecace8699 Yeah, churches try painting a nonsense picture, like the one you're coming out with. I listen to Jesus, not a churches interpretation, just the actual words used, and I interpret them the way I see fit. Not the catholic church, you, or anyone. Stop trying to twist the words of Jesus.
He also denied his mother and brother. Who is my mother, or brother? Answer: Those who do the will of our heavenly father, because it wasn't them. I suppose you're going to twist that too?
Have a good day.
What kind of bullshit is this? Paul and Jesus never said this. Mary never destroyed her son. Paul never said women aren't worthy of life. What total tripe!