Why I'm Giving Up on Dating...
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- čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
- Here's why I'm giving up on dating...for now.
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I have never even been on a real date lol
Ive never been on a date lol
@@bakadoge5565 pain
Orenthal James Simpson lmaooo
@@bakadoge5565 it's just why would I waste my time chasing girls
Young love is sometimes not real
Brother, I FEEL YOU. I’m 21, never had a girlfriend, never really talked to anyone before and also a virgin. Did I mention I never had my first kiss? It can definitely be concerning. Especially when people our age already had plenty of relationship experiences and plenty of one night stands. It just makes you ask yourself is there something wrong with me? What am I doing wrong? And the answer is nothing. God (In my case) or maybe just the universe for other people has someone already assigned to us and we can’t meet that person and experience these things, until people like us reach our full potential in investing in our selves. But honestly now, just like yourself I’m also done with dating. And I don’t care how long it takes until that time comes. I won’t allow myself to try and start dating until I know I got me, I’m fully in love with me, and I don’t need to depend on anyone else to make me feel that “special kind of happy.” BTW, I just started watching your content and it’s honestly helped me personally developed in certain areas in my life. It’s good to see someone in our age group not only trying to better themselves but giving the knowledge you gain to also help people our age better themselves. Keep up with the good consistency and you’re definitely going to blow up. Just wait on it.
Power to you bro🙌🏾
Thanks for sharing bro🔥💪🏼
yo bro i appreciate the transparency! focus on yourself and your journey, and the right one will come along when youre ready. and itll be worth the wait, because youll be ready for each other. and bro i didnt even get my first kiss until like a month ago, and it was honestly nothing special 💀 so dont even worry about that
You literally took the words out my mouth, except in my case I’m a girl. But anyways, your patience will pay off and everything will come together in the end✨
Same dude, but I'm 19 instead XD
I feel you man, I don't have much experience either. I like to believe that it is because some of us are here for a bigger purpose and our focus should not entirely be on sexual relationships. The universe is powerful, the right person for you will come naturally at the right moment. Just believe in yourself and stay positive, everyone deserves the right love.
youre SPITTIN bro! focus on yourself and your own journey and the right one will join you along the way when the time is right and youre ready
i’m 19 years old and i’m slowly giving up on dating, because i came to the realization that my needs haven’t been met and plus i was tired of dealing with goofy people
yeah got out of a relationship over 6 months ago and I am DONE w dating AND relationships. I want to deeply accept the fact that I will die alone. And not even try to derive happiness from love. Bc the disappointment is greater and longer lasting than any happiness love could possibly afford me, so, why try?
I'm 20 year old guy and never dated a girl. I just wanna focus on myself too.
As someone who’s been in a committed long term relationship for about a year now I can say it’s an amazing and beautiful thing being with the person you’re supposed to be with but at the same time you should def enjoy the time that you have as single! Not saying I’d want to go back but it is a time where you can develop yourself and work towards things that better you
facts bro! both are beautiful in their own way, and they can both prepare you for the other. wish you and your partner good vibes 🤙🏾
I don’t blame you. Women have unrealistic expectations. They base relationships on finance. I’ve accepted the fact that I’m going to die alone and inexperienced with women. They’re just not worth it.
Same here, despite me wanting to get to know multiple girls. Most of my family has been in relationships and marriages, except me. All girls do is lie to me, reject me, ignore me and ghost me. That's why I always feel ugly, invisible and empty inside. That's why I gave up a while ago because it's like pulling teeth. Like Damian on the Adulterers movie: "love ain't shit anyway".
Me too
I'm 17 and I've never had a girlfriend and I'm happy about it. Alot of people mock me of it but all honestly I'm not embarrassed of it. I feel like I'm too young to have young and I dont feel ready to have one, and I'm enjoying my life right now so I dont need one. I'll probably start dating when I'm like 20
Shoot.
I'm almost 20 in just a few months XD
I NEVER go searching for relationships, the guys usually finds me. And for some reason I keep attracting dudes who have extra baggage and a lot of unhealed trauma from their childhood and past relationships.I get the guys who always have an ex that they can’t seem to let go of and still in contact with. In the end I’m always the 3rd party and get the short end of the stick. Im over the mind games and trying. I will be asking God to remove the desire of marriage and children from the equation. I hate this society today
Your fault, your only see value in a man that other girls want as well. Hive mentally. 3+ billion men. stop the shy girl act and put yourself in area of the man you want then when he accepted you, you vet him for the qualities you want in a man. That simple. 🙄
every one has baggages thats why communication is a key you dont just shut people down just because they have this kind of trauma .
I know exactly what you mean. A lot of men don’t heal themselves they just jump from girl to girl and put all of their trauma on the the next person. Or they are trying to be playboys and have one foot with their ex and one with the next girl.
@mocha Caramel I get you babes hugs .maybe one day we will testify something great
@@realtalk6720 Facts bruh 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
To be really humbly honest. I given up getting a girl. This is the 4th attempt I tried the confidence, the dressing up neatly, the skincare routine and working out. Won’t lie I had progress but for some reason God doesn’t want to have one. Now if I see an attractive girl I am not even gonna bother cause it will be the same result.
Just be lonely that way you can focus on more better things in life.
This is the same exact reason why I stopped too. Trying to find love just destroys my mind so I recently decided to let go of it all.
I feel you bro
Very wise decision by you Jordan...Focus on yourself my g ♨
For me I looked and looked for many many yrs. My last relationship is 9 years ago, and it lasted for 1 month.
I came to realization that there is nobody is there for me. You can put yourself out there, and not get a response etc.
I turned 27 last month, one brother is married, the other brother is going to be this Summer. I have never kissed a girl, never dated one, never did anything with a girl. I never plan to, either. I will just continue to play my video games, watch anime, hang with the guys every weekend, work, work out and exercise, eat right, etc. I don't want to get married or have kids or do any of that stuff. I refuse. The constant pressure friends and family give me doesn't exactly help, either. Why should I bother putting any effort into something when I know exactly what the results will be every time? It's nothing more than a waste of my time, and I value my time very much these days, especially. I'm also not exactly very trusting and would constantly be worrying about being cheated on if I was in a relationship, so I don't want that happening, either. I refuse to be a victim. Dating apps also don't work, especially Tinder. I've reinstalled it and tried 6 times for a while to give it a chance and I get nothing out of it. All those apps don't work and just suck. They're not good.
ngl this is powerful and kinda sad bro. but do as you have planned, the goal is to be happy G. Be well.
Those apps are just full of toxic manipulators and users.
Glad someone lives the same live style as i do and has found happiness. :) Cheers
Fr as long as u have friends that’s all that matters
I understand you bro, i’m 19 and I can only date people my age of below, older girls always ignore me because they think I look like a child
I'm 20 and never been on a date
@Tyler Gibson I'm always friendzoned
I’m 16 and never been on a date or had a kiss yet 🤷🏾♂️ everything’s gonna fall into place at the right time
wish I was more like you keep holding your seed brother
Their is no rush. Things will happen as they happen, just learn to appreciate when you're happy, and learn from your lows rather than trying to avoid them. Dating is a small aspect of being alive, their is beauty everywhere if you're willing to look for it.
Bitches ain't shit
Bro your a handsome dude, I can relate so much to what you said and I'm in a similar situation, thank you for sharing 🙏
CZcams gods has brought me to this channel (from the work out video), pretty interesting to see because we are the same age and share some similarities.
i hope your CZcams career will work out and i am interested in seeing where will you get
Good luck!
Im starting to become a misogynist because women have never been attracted to me
Instead of finding your Soul mate, u should be finding your soul m8.
And your twin flame will come
there is not soulmate. that's the most arrogant, narcissist and solipsist statement. someone don't just exist to make you happy.
no doubt i’m quitting as well but jordan try something new like go to a public place like a mall & interact with more girls
even at malls i dont see too many girls. idk where they at, but im not trippin 💀
Jordan Green but no doubt though u right about that too
You’re in the right spot! You’re young anyways and all you need to keep doing rn is keep the focus on you and your career and building your own empire. Sure enough universe will conspire to give you a beautiful queen that’s meant for you. You got this bro, trust the process. 🦾💯🔥
all facts bro! trust the process 💪🏾
I completely relate to you bro I’m 18 from the Uk and never had a girlfriend. I find it hard to meet the girls that I want to meet like yourself as I’m not into girls that like to go partying regularly. Tried dating apps for a few weeks most conversations tend to fizzle out as I tend to put effort into the conversations trying to make them interesting and playful and just get one word answers in response. I’ve had a couple of opportunities to hookup with a girl but I’m not about that like yourself I’m all about a meaningful connection. In high school about 5 years ago I was very overweight and had no confidence in myself as I was getting bullied for being one of biggest kid in my year group. Last 10 months I’ve just been working on my looks getting nice clothes working out often and just building myself as a person. I always tend to struggle to read if a girl likes me or not I was recently arranging a bumble date with a girl and then got unmatched. I’m just looking for a girl that is sweet warm hearted and will love me for me as I would love them for who they are. Love your channel btw
You’re young. Live your life. Work on yourself, give time to yourself, it will all work out c
Pick hobbies you're truly passionate about and you'll find someone who shares that love. Its genuine.
Big facts
I’m 30. Probably the oldest to comment. And I give up too 💯
33, you’re in good company.
36 here
Im 29, i gave up love a while ago
never believe a woman when they say things like this, thats like saying i wana stay broke but everytime you walk up the street you got people offering you money.
Anyone telling you, “you’re so young” don’t understand the point of this video. He is not talking about never finding a relationship. He’s talking about wasting his time on searching for “the right one”.
Shit, I’m 25 years old and have had multiple relationships but I’m done. They are a waste of time because majority of them ended up with me getting cheated on or they lost feelings. I say I’m done because the perfect relationship doesn’t come from seeking one. It’s more of either they come down the road or they never do. Also, don’t play the waiting game. Either you wait in misery searching for the one or you live your life and achieve your ambitions and goals.
Bro I've been watching your vids for the past couple weeks and I've gotta say bro, you're killing it! Everything you're saying resonates with me and it feels great to know I'm not walking alone.
that means everything to me! youre never alone bro, we are all on this self improvement/self love journey together
I’m done, simply never again do I want anyone that close to me aka a relationship. I’m 42 and been screwed by every one I’ve ever been with, I mean that’s from age 15 until a couple years ago. I have a class a cdl so guess what, I’m going out over the road trucking. Soul mate? Lmao good luck finding me, hell I’d probably laugh in their face bc I won’t believe a word they say.
I've never been on a date. I thought I did once but it was just a friendly meetup. I'm 22 btw, very attractive and semi-social
I can agree as you get older as a man, and the more you build for yourself, you do have a lot more options when it comes to dating.
I am 35 and i still dont get girls...i fucking give up
Great video bro bro and I feel where you are coming from get your goals out of the way and better yourself and I’m 19 and never had girl or nothing like that so I want to find a girl but I’m just not going to force it and let it come naturally.
exactly bro! let it come naturally when youre ready. dont try to rush it like i did
Much blessings to you. I’m 37 and never found a good man, I gave up. Celibate, single over a decade, o gave up on black men, gave up all together. I do believe and hope for others to find love and a family they wish and desire. Dating today as a woman, she’s better off being a prostitute or a handmaid. Sick of being sexualized, wanted for my body parts, time, to waste my time and years of my life committing to a rodent who cannot respect me. It’s not fucck boys, it’s men with careers, education, partially okay upbringing, whatever. I’m done. Dying alone probably the best safety net for me. I hope everyone finds true love.
Seriously..? Take a good hard look at your own comment and tell me what society is like today. Women sexualize THEMSELVES on a DAILY BASIS. And you have the audacity to say “ThEy jUsT wAnT mY bOdY pArTs”.. no shit! do you realize the affect that only fans and porn as well as other “sexualized” marketing schemes have on men to start making them think this way..? And don’t even bring up “keeping your tendency’s/ self control in check” when you mf women keep putting on the booty shorts, see through crop tops, and all sorts of other exposed shit to get men religiously thinking of just that. So good job, with how women sexualize themselves in society today and how they use men for their finances in exchange for some sex, it’s no wonder most men are now out here only looking for a one night hit and quit. But you’d rather blame men for what women and feminists started doing which is “showing off their body’s” and “fucking every dude in a 5 mile vicinity” ALL because it’s “empowering” to women while calling these guys creeps because “how dare they want me sexually”. 🙄 What a joke of a society we live in today. The best any woman will be getting now with how y’all treat yourselves in dudes eyes is having them only think about sex and what’s under the risqué clothes you’ve got on. Maybe if we were traditional like before, yk where the woman actually stays celibate and waits for the right man to DEDICATE himself and his time and resources into you, trying to prove he’s worthy enough for you before you even THINK of just giving it up to him. Now it’s so easy to get box on the first night, it’s a question of “why would I stop if I can go to the next and get the same exact thing”. Seriously.. think about it.
And when you say it’s the “men with careers, education, partially okay upbringing” all going for him.. just say you’re chasing a top tier of man and that you’re a part of hypergamy. You’re chasing career dudes making a lot of money whom are also hot, tall, charismatic, etc and I’ve tried telling women over and over and over again that NONE. OF. THESE. MEN. WILL. SETTLE. FOR. YOU. You’re chasing the top 1-20% of dudes like 80% of these other women and these dudes KNOW they can get around with lots of women and you still play into the fairy tale that “I’m special so even though he gets around, he’ll settle with me.”.. that’ll never EVER be how it works even though I’ve literally heard women say crap like that. It’s ridiculous and sad and then they go and end up playing the victim card as soon as the top tier guy leaves to the next woman after using her. It’s probably the most common thing I’ve ever seen and constantly hear of in different situations. You may try chasing a different type of man.. this time one who isn’t going and fucking around every week with a new disposable woman.
Since 2000s we are in a loop of abusive relationship mode. This is why I also give up on dating. But also people do not want to commit anymore and that is correct because we live in a society that do not allow us to feel comfortable doing relationship status no longer.
Jordan is speaking facts , I have to applaud you for this video, classic video😎thanks for the message yo
I also give up because all the men I met just played and use me.. there are a lot of man who likes me but nobody wants to take me seriously.. I dont wanna waste time anymore.. You are still very young,. Im 32
Your fault, you don't know how to choose. 3+ billion men, find the one who you're attracted to put yourself into his presence and act feminine. That simple. 🙄
@@realtalk6720 no you wouldnt know the real chatacter of someone in the first time you meet them. And only those who experience same encounter with a narcissist will understand. It is different. Your too insensitive..
@@realtalk6720 get out of there, incel
@@ArtandKitchen_ nah. It's called using your common sense idiot to see through people's bullshit
@@babymilksnatcher I bet if I have one day with your chicks that bitch will be calling me daddy and we'll all see who's the real incel. Ha
Seeing what ur struggling about is definitely relatable man. But I would also see the successes and situations u put yourself in as huge accomplishments. Ur life is different than others doesn’t make it something to be ashamed about. But definitely understand what ur trying to say 💯
Facts bro . I believe the relationship finds you and you don’t have to go looking
Jordan, look man, I feel you. I really do. If you remember my comment from a while ago, I was habitually single, too. I gave up. I was done. I even stopped praying about it, and the girl who is now my gf found me. It turns out she liked me when we were kids. People always told me that it happens when you least expect it, and that was so true for me. I couldn’t be happier now, man. The thing was I had to open my heart back up. I was so afraid of getting hurt, but I’m so glad I opened my heart to her. It WILL happen for you, bro. Let’s be honest, you are really attractive, and you seem like a great guy. Don’t stress. It will happen naturally. We’re all rooting for you, bro. And congrats on 10K! We’re moving on up! 💪🏾
Alston Singletary Love it man. This is exactly how I feel. I’ve had friends tell me it will come when you’re not even looking. I strongly believe in that and the first step is just letting go. Letting go the desire to being in a relationship. I’ve recently just done that and I honestly can’t wait for the moment MY GIRL finds me. In the mean time I’m going to HEAVILY invest in my self.
i appreciate your story, and i appreciate all of your support over the months. youre right in that if i want to be in a relationship, i have to be vulnerable. when i find the right one, shes gonna see all of me. im not going to hide who i am, im going to be transparent and there will be a mutual acceptance for each other. i wish you and your girl good vibes bro ✊🏾
I am recently going through something right now. I am in this weird situation where I started getting feelings for a girl a month now. But the thing is I never liked her even when she was dating other guys and never saw her as someone I would date. She is an attractive person and has a great personality but she is still hung up on her ex. Not only that I have my thoughts if I actually like her because it just seems forced and I feel like I am just falling for this girl just to make my life not feel lonely. And I say all this because I never want to go into a relationship with someone for my personal problems because that is not right and I’m just going to get to know her and just see how it plays out. Someone please give me advice!!!
Yeah man. Leave it to the universe and attract the right person, in the meantime be unapologetically you
a1 advice
This guy is too cool!!!! Liking the wisdom your putting out there, very insightful bud.
Keep it up.. I’ve never met any CZcamsr who’s real like you🔥🔥
Your so young, you litterely have your whole life ahead of you. Weather you date or not is up to you. But you have plenty of opportunities ahead of you. I wish you well in all you do with your life. 💟
The problem is, you're young - until one day you wake up and you're no longer young. The time just flies by and you barely even notice. Then you realise you've missed the train and options are way worse and way more scarce than before. Also, they are even more demanding even though they are worse. They seem to think they've aged like a wine but instead they've aged like a banana. A banana full of baggage. Then you slowly build up your baggage during a search for a good and worth it person you can never seem to find.
I’m tired of going out meeting ppl i just got friendzone he wanted me in first place now change his mind I’m so unlucky in love and I’m tired and lazy tired of restarting so I just like to be alone now it better
Same here I give up on Woman too and I think it’s a waste of time to be in a relationship now these days
I totally agree with you the strongest relationships happen by chance. It really is fate that brings people together modern day dating does not work.
You are a really good guy the right girl for you will be really lucky!
Focus on yourself but don’t limit yourself. As far as girls go you should study game and seduction. Be confident because you should be. You remind me a lot of myself at your age. You have the looks and you are well spoken. You have the best tools for getting women. Have confidence in yourself I know you’re 20 which is hard. Be comfortable with failure because every man will fail with some women, when I look at you I see a winner so go be one.
First off, great video! And second, I’m 20 also and I feel the same on dating right now. It’s crazy that I found your channel back in May and it’s like I was suppose to come across your channel. We have so many similar views and experiences on things it’s actually crazy. But anyways keep putting that work in and it’s like you said the time will come.
im glad you been around since then bro! seen a lot a growth since may, and im thankful for it. all in due timing ✊🏾
I swear this dude is the male version of me, I have watched his videos and I realised we share a lot in common but I'm 20 and I'll be 21 on the 31st and I don't wanna date guys younger than me but I'll def' date him cuz he seems like a mature man. Its unfortunate that I'm not from his country.
Think I am in the same boat man. Every time I look always get the line "Not looking for a bf rn". I also feel like being 30 I should enjoy my best years in life. She will find me.
Ay man, I feel u
I’m bout to be 19 in a couple days n the struggle is real since I’m not in college rn n I’m already introverted to the point where I barely see any girls of my preference.
rlly appreciate how open and honest you are with us bro, none of this even rlly applies to me yet but you're v well spoken and easy to watch g
I'm in my mid-30s and looked at as a sexual object even though I have so much to offer and deep, but all I attract are guys who just want to hook up and not wanting more than just that, so I gave up
Love the upload schedule man it's perfect keep up the great work
glad youre enjoying the content bro! stay tuned
Jordan you are such a lovely young man with great wisdom. I hope the universe brings you the fated love you seek. Someone who shares your values a best friend to share the journey with. In the meantime it sounds like you have goals and it's your time to focus on you and your journey. Trust a much older woman here that experience doesn't necessarily give you an edge. Knowing and loving yourself and being in a good place is way more important. When someone seeks a life partner they don't care about how many people you have kissed. They care about who you are and you my man have a lot to offer. 😊
Matching websites are the best way to meet others who you have characteristics in common with, even if it is exclusively to interact with them online, otherwise if you are motivated to make money to get to where you want to be and to be independent, then that is a very smart move and more power to you Jordan!!!
Forgot to mention to the younger guys on here look y’all got youth on your side an plenty of opportunities for love etc. but the older u get the harder an more complicated it is to find someone especially if u been through a lot of heartbreak just saying don’t ever put much of yourself into if always keep a little piece of your heart put back cuz ya don’t know what can happen.
I have given up on relationships too.
And it’s not because I’m frustrated or because I’ve been rejected, as it’s pretty easy meeting any woman.
it’s because it’s too difficult to meet the right person i’m looking for.
Traditional, exclusive, nurturing, feminine, loyal, faithful, honest.
There is no women with those qualities left anymore, and even if they do exist they are all looking for top 1% that look like Christian Grey.
It’s a complete waste of time. Majority of women want marriage aswell. I don’t.
They just want a provider. Someone that will take care of them financially. Someone that will offer them a certain luxurious lifestyle.
Also there is no way I’m settling for some woman that’s been ran through with kids to another baby daddy, looking for someone to share the bills.
Can’t be bothered.
As a 30 year old in a traditional Mexican Catholic community where guys & girls get married at 15, I pretty much missed my airplane due to college and work so now I'm single and screwed cuz everyone treats you like a leper, like singlehood & childlessness is contagious. Only choices left now are move overseas or entirely give up on the dream of a Mexican Catholic wife.
Rather keep stacking that money instead of wasting it on a place just to impress chicks. You only need your own place once you decide to settle down and start a family. Don’t be foolish. There’s no shame in staying at home until your finances are established. You’re only 20, relax.
I had buddies who did what you did (amongst other poor choices) while I stayed at home. We in our 30s now and these guys have no financial freedom at all. I’ve been traveling the world the last few years and I’m about to launch my own business.
The place you're most likely to meet a compatible (economic/education/cultural) mate is school or work but feminist laws have made that impossible.
I just turned 20 a few months ago and still the same progress which is good of course and that means no gf ever! It’s jute fate that makes me single forever and naturally. I gave up so long ago and I regret ever showing interest in a girl, I could have been great friends with her if I’ve never showed affection in the first place. That’s why dating is dead and nonexistent for me.
I quit too. Even ended up posted my own video on this.
Damn you got your 1st kiss at 20
Dass *TUFF*
I’m 24 i had my first girl before had sex too but we broke up a few years ago and now I’m extremely lonely due to covid but I’m still trying to improve myself now
Jordan: Obviously I’m Not In HighSchool
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Jordan: I’m a Grown Ass Man
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There's a wise saying: I've never got a lot of 💰💰 chasing love, but I got a lot of love chasing 💰💰
Replace love with coochie
@@thatswhatisaidbunnybread.5317 that's how I used to think, until I realized how much of a drug the vagina can be
thats facts bro, except instead of money, chase peace of mind 👌🏾
@@JordanGreenYT no doubt
Been single for 3 years now dating is so hard it’s not even worth it anymore dating apps just consist of the same people both men and women who you’ll talk to for a week go on a date and it’s awkward af lol
I can relate 100% everything was said so amazingly well and you just earned a subscriber
BRO WE'RE LIVING THE SAME LIFE!!! T - T
You giving up on dating, ain't a bad thing. Focus on your dreams & goals, that you have set for yourself. Women wanna to to much to be with them, an they really don't love you as a man. I'm single, an I don't care about having a girlfriend.
I think our real woman, or just our Queen, appears in our life when we become a King. When I say King I mean you know who you are, you make your own story careless of others opinions, what is your Path and when you got the wisdom to aknowlledge who is She. The Universe its so far beyond our imagination. Nothing is coincidence, everything is connected. I enjoyed this content and your point of view! Keep it going and Share your knowledge brother 💪🏼
That's so right, just first focus on yourself, on your life and you'll eventually get one
exactly bro! focus on yourself and the universe will unite you and that person when youre ready for each other. not a moment sooner, and not a moment later
women don't want to build anything. just wait at the finishing line and pick up whoever they find there at their liking.
FACTS. This is the video I was looking for.
I feel the same way. Focus on yourself and be where you wanna be at in life and everything will fall through.
f a c t s
Congratulations on 1 million subs bro.... (idc what anyone says he already has em!!)
ill look back at this comment when i hit it
I feel like if you want to meet that potential partner , it should be balance it doesn't have to be always , liking the same things .. that can be draining in the long run.
I’m so glad I’m not alone at 18 and inexperienced my last relationship taught me a lot and I genuinely loved her but I didn’t understand the weight of a relationship and I’m still a virgin myself and that’s okay; I wish I did right by her the first time but hey it’s life we make mistakes, we grow and we learn.
You are right about the "finding the right person", they exist and they never come when we search for them. I've met my soul mate few months ago. I just knew it was him when we started to talk, you will know it almost instantly. Funny thing is that it was just a complete conscience that we crossed our paths, both of us were just going on with our days that day. But just a few hours later this complete stranger knew me better then my mother or any friend I ever had. We just sat and talked and talked about everything (did I mention that I'm a very shy and closeted person? This is usually very out of character for me although I love people) and for the first time in my life I felt like I'm not alone, that someone was seeing my soul as it was. But quess fucking what, we were both in relationships. Mine was on the verge of break up because we just weren't compatible at all but he already had a serious relationship with the sweetest girl ever. I couldn't live with breaking her heart. I couldn't keep a contact with him so I just disapeared from his life and never spoke to him again although he tried to reach out to me. I've been depressed ever since and have been considering killing myself many times. This shit will take time to heal if I ever will. All I want to say is that they are somewhere in this world you just better concentrate on being a better person first and foremost. Do it for you not to impress others. Fingers crossed.
I relate to almost everything you said in this video.
He is talking about the unicorn woman. He will get burn as long as he keep that mind set. There is no unicorn, there is only your turn.
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LOL Jordan. Hearing you say imagine if im 24 and not experienced. Well I can tell you from experience its not that fun hahhaha
I believe like you bro but I couldn't careless rather I'm dating or not. Personally I rather be single, just haven't got all that energy for being with a girl anyway. Lol
feel the same. I'm a 22 y/o bisexual woman and recently relocated in the countryside. Don't feel like moving, I belong to the nature and city folks are too self-absorbed for my liking. Gay girls in the countryside are unicorns, and the few single men that still live there are either full-blown alcoholics or extremely misogynistic. It's a harsh environment, but I found there my friends, a job I like, and a house I can picture myself living in until my death. It's all that matters.
Hey have a good life man try online gaming you will become part of a community
*Standing Next To My Nissan Silvia S15* I Would Rather Spend My Money For Her Modication And Her Engine Than Having A Girl *Smokes*
Bro i took the same decision recently. I am also a guy who doesnt like hook-ups
Well I don’t know what to say to the younger guys here but even being older love an relationships aren’t what there cracked up to be you can waste months or yrs I wasted 7 yrs an trust me I gave up to stressing an I’m almost 44 so yea even being older I get those using lying an time wasting ppl and if u do find something just don’t let your guard down completely cuz it could be a big mistake take from an older guy.
to be honest, if you continue to focus on your girls and aspirations probably at one point that "dream girl" will come... no promises attached to that but either way if you're focused on your goals you win either way
I am also on a dating Hiatus ,trying double down on social media ,working towards my business and working out.I know for a fact that it will work out and I am gonna be the best at what I do
rushing to move out is a terrible mistake. Where else can you get free rent, free food , family support and be able to save money without paying for the cost of living on your own. I just feel like you're rushing to move out in order to f have a gf or to feel like you can stand on your own two feet which is overrated. Now is the time to build and giving yourself that much extra stress will take away more than benefit you long term.
I understand , but you know for me I’m so depressed living with my family it’s too much that sometimes I just go to work and I don’t want to come back , it’s too much stress with their problems
I'm 21 yes I kissed but I'm a virgin and never had a good relationships I get forced to lower my standards and yet they set there standards higher why is it that many women focus on bodies and wealth when it should be character I got tired of ladies focusing on needless things I've been abused and been hurt many times I've been cheated on too many times I am emotionally numbed I can feel love or true happiness just anger and sadness and fake happiness I don't even have friends anymore I got nothing I tried but never worked so I gave up on dating and love cuz no woman would want someone like me whose got Asperger's and autism they look down on us too much and I got tired of it
Still kissed someone, i havent hugged anyone for 6 years, am i too ugly
Holy shit we are the same, i have a bit of autism too
kudos for you for admitting you are still a version. Concentrate on yourself
I agree with you bro im also giving up on dating there's no point of me finding love anyway
let love find you king
You're so attractive! I think you can easily find a girl just by chance. But looking for a girl is not that bad
Love the videos man 🤛
what about that girl you had your first kiss with, did it work out?
I would say probably not since he says he’s done with dating
nah bro me and her never really found that connection. no hard feelings tho, i wish her the best
Jordan Green aight bro , focus on yourself bro👑 goodluck
Yo man im just here to tell u that you will find a special someone at the least expected time just patients
i appreciate that! i know the universe will bring me the right one when im ready ✊🏾
Gave up a long time ago
Same here
Damn Jordan im fw the upload schedule
I respect you
Try being 40 single I give up
@Tranzor Z yeah it's ok I use my focus on making moneyook8ng fly eating good
I’m 26 and I give up
iam 42 and gave up dating 6 or 7 years ago.
@@VitorCaldeira1980 hell yeah bro
I know a few In this age range, they went through midlife crisis, went abroad to get a wife and now are about to lose everything in their divorce. It's best to stay single man, you wouldn't wanna be one of these people.
cheers to u miles morales