FRIENDSHIP BETRAYAL IS THE WORST! WOMAN BETRAYS HER FRIEND TO BE WITH HER MAN! + MY OPINION
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- čas přidán 21. 02. 2023
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I discuss the viral story on twitter about a girl's friend betraying her to be with her man.
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Kindness has to be demonstrated and being nice can be a smile. I don’t trust nice women I trust kind women. Women have mastered the art of manipulation through niceness some call it “nice nasty”.
A MF WORD!!!! passive aggressive women are the most dangerous and hateful!!!
ABSOLUTE FACTS!!!
Oh yeah nice nasty is for real.
Sounds like what happened btw lashanote and Teyana Taylor. Look who's married now. Lashonte definitely got her karma back
As soon as a bitch say they’re nice nasty, I don’t fool with them. That means they’re fake and it’s way too much of that going on these days.
My Mom told me “Just because she’s your friend doesn’t mean you’re hers.” She told me that in high school and I never forgot it.
Shouldn't this be the other way around? My mother told me the same thing .. except, she said doesn't mean that they're yours. Women are FAKE I always stood on that.
@@mikaylamyers3410 It’s your belief that a person is your friend. That’s your reality. You don’t know a person is fake until you find out, meanwhile you’ve NEVER truly mattered to them. Like being married but it’s one sided and he’s been cheating from jump.
@@mikaylamyers3410 Anyone's fake best not to trust anyone now our days. Betrayal is the worst. Her friend and the dude was wrong. But it's always the women to fight over man you got be careful of they be desperate
I still have my same friends since middle school.
I can count all my friends on one hand
Or less than 1 hand actually
Right, exactly!
A relationship that start like that won’t last. She lost a friend for a man, what a terrible exchange
Yup. I read a comment that stated: “Relationships that are built off of a women’s pain, never prosper”
great comment
That is not true. Lol. Y’all women be delusional! Sometimes those are the longest lasting relationships. Unfortunately!
It definitely won't last.. but she didn't lose anything, if anything, she gained freedom from this toxic circus... And I would LOVE an update on whatever he does to her because it WILL be worse🤦🏾♀️
No loss, she was never her friend to start with. Just evil
There was a story similar to this going viral a couple weeks ago. A girl had escaped her abusive baby daddy and then her best friend ended up talking to him. The bf ended up killing the snakey best friend.
The hardest of lessons to learn. These women are really on demon time but the men are even worse smh
Where can I find this story?
@@memebeingreal6776 it's a movie.
@@sabir1208 excatly
Karma's a bitch
She was jealous of her. I notice when people go out of their way to disrespect and degrade someone like this instead of working on themselves, it usually has something to do with jealousy because of their insecurities. If you have to tell someone that you're better than them or that they are beneath you, then your statement is void. It's like, who are you trying to convince at this point? Yourself? Smh. No humility in their bones whatsoever. That man is gonna annihilate her ego unless she plans to drain him and leave.
Preach. It’s 100% jealously and envy. I’ve dealt with ppl like that. Very very disturbed ppl who desperately need to get help but instead want to help themselves to the peace of others. Yikes, they don’t understand that they’ll have to one day pay for all this wickedness :/
My sister in a nutshell
@hurdle87 You sound very wise..so well said!!
@@Sarah-dq1fmsorry to hear that..what a shame!!
she could’ve sent her a text saying how she felt but she has the nerve to degrade this woman on the internet
Repeat after me: THE SAME WAY YOU GOT HIM, IS THE SAME WAY YOU WILL LOSE HIM.
thank you. Thats all I can say on the matter.
🗣️ no lies have been told, it's been like this since the dawn of time
Y’all do know that this is not the Reality!! Y’all be delusional! Lol
Unfortunately those are some of the longest lasting relationships. And the ones that don’t last are the ones everyone thought would last. 🤷🏽♀️
Oh yes this is very true
@@Roller324 I beilvie in karma hun. And I don't care if some of these trifling people end up together forever and ever, that's even better. they can stay together to save other people from their rath. If you want to be stepped all over and go through this drama, be my guest. AND. Who even asked you?
@@unknownlove888 exactly 😂
That’s foul. The side chick describing how they were never friends is terrifying. Can’t trust anyone out here. She purposely hurt that woman with her words and her actions. It’s giving personality disorder.
I'm sure there were some red flags that were dismissed. Snide remarks, little smirks at the corner of her mouth whenever things went wrong, always up in her business pushing for personal/private information etc
they always say that when they do shady ish. Don’t worry he will do that to her when he finds someone he thinks is better
Definitely giving personality disorder. She needs to speak to a psychiatrist.
It's giving "Single Black Female" (The movie, in case anyone gets offended).
it is giving personality disorder!! and I know someone ppl feel a type of way about labeling folks certain things but sometimes it's good to call it out for what it is. Mental illness or not you shouldn't be treating people like that. I'm always weary of people who are so desperate to be your friend because those same ppl will also discard and devalue in a hot minute!!
My step dad left my mum for her so called best friend, they had been married for 18 years … one thing l noticed is when these so called frends betray u they start saying we was never friends just to downplay how much of a shitty person they are … deep down they know what they did is fucked up so they start saying “we was never friends “
🎯🎯🎯 thissss...exactly what my "friend" said!
I had a "friend" like that. She would talk badly about every person close to her. Of course I thought I was expempt bc I was the "bestie". Turns out she couldnt stand me the most. The things I found out she did to me were evil. It always comes down to jealousy.
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Exact same thing happened to me, deep secrets and things about myself that I couldn’t even recall because it happened a long time ago. I ended the 10 years long “friendship” immediately.
Can't believe women really do this for a man, couldn't be me
exactly😂 a bunch of birds
Hell they kill for a man. It’s sad honestly.
It’s giving Porsha 😂
@@KingRose339 💯💯 what's crazy is how she was saying Kenya was a whore... But turned out to be a backstabbing slut herself 🤣
Of course, They both deserve themselves, they fit so perfectly together.
I WAS NOT EXPECTING ALL THIS COMMOTION TO BE OVER A 5'2 MAN I COULDNT BELEIVE MY EYES WHEN HE POPPED OUT.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This be 4 something..
They're probably Nigerian. These bull frog looking dudes get all the play and get good looking women in their culture🥴🤣
😂😂”popped out”😂😂like a leprechaun 🤣🤣
😢😂😂
Chilllllleeeeeeee😂😂😂😂😂😂
Watch girls who are that involved in your relationship. Constantly calling you perfect and couple goals
Thisss, they the ones wanting to secretly be you. It’s so weird
“They smiling in your face, whole time they wanna take your place the backstabbers, backstabbers.” The O’Jays said it best.
This is why I don’t disclose my business to everyone I’m associated with. You never know everyone’s true intentions/motives.
God I can handle my enemies but can you protect me from my friends
Amen!!
Nah if you have to say that they’re not your friend. They are someone who you are close to. Big difference.
David said the same thing, he could care less about his enemies it was those posing as his friends or family that hurt him the most.
Amen
All this for a miniature cheating dust bucket? I experienced this level of betrayal from a childhood friend once & she regretted it down the line. I can’t stand women like Abiola, she was always jealous of Moni & planned this from the beginning. I can’t believe she’s dumb enough not to realize that when her karma comes, it’s going to be EPIC! Moni should be glad someone took this loser off her hands.
Preach 😊
Exactly. I’ve seen so many women get karma off of this and it’s like why do you want what others have/ had type of thing. These ppl usually are comparing themselves to others. They end up with no man or friends . 😂 I’m sorry I don’t won’t no leftovers from my friends. All of these dating apps and you want someone I was dealing with. It gives off an energy of I want to be you or have your life, it’s best to cut these ppl off. They are so desperate for a man. Why don’t they ask you to set them up with your man’s cousin or brother. It’s definitely envy and competition. They end up losing hard. My aunt did this to all of her friends and now she don’t got none. My got with her karma back , when her hubby got her new friend pregnant. They baby died. All of her friends are doing well and they’re with better men now.
@@chacha2321 You are spot on ….. I would never !!!! It’s funny cause she actually thinks she’s winning.
* aunt
@@blessedforever1424 trust me, they one up themselves with dusty men and played out short lived opportunities. My aunt is one case but I’ve seen others with that same ego. It’s funny how it gets shattered throughout time. Keep doing you and block her ass.
She’s gaslighting her, trying to make her feel like she’s the problem but she’s sitting over there with her ex friend man. Just like he went with her friend he’s gonna do the same to her!!💯😂
This is so triggering because I legit knew a girl that was over invested in my dating life. She’s full blown hot, so I gathered that she wanted to someday steal my fictional man. A lot of girls get a high off of that and it’s super weird and unfortunate
I couldn’t even look at myself if I was even capable of this. I’m so glad God made me the way he did. I’ve never seen someone else’s man as a option (friend or foe). I don’t want nobody’s boyfriend or husband ESPECIALLY not a friend. Even if my friend just liked him, he’s off limits. We don’t roll like that in my circle.
Yes! For the women that missed it, any man my friends likes or kinda liked are off limits to me. Guys take pleasure in saying they ran threw the crew, trust me!
Girl me too, I could never do that to a friend. I don’t even like being a third wheel. Idk how you can have an attraction to a man your friend was intimate with, that’s way to close for me.
Agree. Im not perfect, but I'm happy I don't have that kind of treachery in me also! Some people get so turned on by stuff like this! Gross
Lol your not a narcissist we’re seeing a rapid rise in the narc traits ppl have buried deep down , these ppl have no empathy just soulless
It’s embarrassing that women think “stealing” somebody else’s man is a win. She’s gonna end up pregnant and left just like mudi did🙄
That text message sounds like she's been waiting for this moment to come. Even perhaps preparing for it. She was patiently waiting on her opportunity to take that girl down.
She probably had it pre drafted. These girls are wicked to bloodclot
@@karinal75 lol 😆 🇯🇲
Lol right bitch had a whole sermon prepared to me it sounds like she’s the one who’s obsessed with her. Like you’re hanging around her friends and got with her man Lmao.
She doesn’t realize that she has taken herself down.
I’m gonna go out on a limb and say she started plotting when she heard that she was being badmouthed behind her back. It’s weird asf though, she should have just cut the girl off.
This is a fatal attraction, I've dealt with this more than once. People who are jealous of you "befriend" you only to get close enough to take your spot. This woman is projecting her insecurities and how *she* feels onto her "friend", it's reverse psychology and gaslighting on another level. You can't hate me without first loving me! The cheating friend is nothing but a hurt, insecure, and jealous little girl. She'll be broken and crawling on her knees when karma is done making a fool out of her.
Hear me and hear me good. If anybody can be taken they were never yours to begin with. Ole girl did her a favor. Once she heals watch how God moves. On periodt 💯
This is why I have no friends.
Lol same
Sammmmeeew
Same here 💯
Cause of one bizarre situation?
Now that's extreme 😳 😅
This happened to me, a toxic ex friend of mine, she would always sneak around with guys I’ve dated. I guess I didn’t care at the time since we were younger until she tried to attack me, unprovoked. Started telling me all the sh!t she’s done for me, she was basically keeping tabs. I’m married now with my first born and thank god I cut her out before that. Narcissistic and jealous behaviour. I was friends with her over 10 years, she would tell ppl that I’m her sis, goes to show that means nothing!! Just trust your gut ladies! Stop giving these friends chances, breakup from these psychotic women.
Same thing happened to me with my child’s father/ex and a child hood “friend”. After I found out what they did, she claimed we were never friends (clearly) they came out with their relationship and were actually engaged 😂 Chile a mess. And this started while I was pregnant. In the end they’re not even together, he used and abused her and she got an abortion to keep from being treated the same way he treated me. Years later she says to another “friend” she wanted to reach out to me. For what?! I said deliver this message “I’ve moved on and I suggest she do the same or she can catch this dog walking I had saved up for her” she never reached out and he doesn’t even take care of his child. My baby is about to be 14. I’m well over it and I’ve learned to vet my friends thoroughly before calling someone a friend.
@Miss Divinely I couldn’t agree more. I’m so sorry you had to experience this. I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone.
@Miss Divinely Oh I can relate 100%!!!! It’s still fresh for you and I am sooooooo deeply sorry you have to experience that. This a actuality happened for me when I was pregnant with my son. He’ll be 14 in June. He is the BEST thing to have ever had come out of such mess. I am well. I appreciate you and I wish the same for you. It’s not your fault, and give it all the time that you need to feel that. Peace unto you always my sistah🙏🏽🤍
Something similar happened to me in college. One of the girls in my friend group smashed my boyfriend. I thought we were friends, we had pictures together and went out together often. she just straight up told me we weren’t friends like that and I said ok and carried on about my life. she was secretly jealous of me because she really liked him and he was with me. She cried after that because even after I dumped him it still wasn’t her, he kept chasing me 🙃
Did you beat her ass?
@@irresistiblechocolatebonbo5935 No. I would never fight over a man. I just learned my lesson from it and was glad it was exposed. I just got them from around me.
@@TeriMYaki Same, it’s not worth to fight and waste your peace and energy.
@@TeriMYaki that’s what she gets. She played herself and I’m sure she attracted other female snakes that will get her.
Y'all was friends. They all say that to make it "okay" and to take away the guilt
Women like this are not only jealous but have a scarcity mindset. There’s plenty of men out here that could have given her the lifestyle she wanted. What’s going on where the “friend” couldn’t get her own man? I have too much pride and high self esteem to take any friends leftovers.
She has no self-esteem. A woman who has respect for herself respects other women. It’s a scary friendship to be in when the person has no respect for themselves.
@@BriaBarrows amen!!
There are plenty of men in the world, but not many of them are good quality. But she played herself. The fact that she thinks he wouldn’t do the same to her? If he can do that to the mother of his child, he can do the same and worse to her. I hope she keeps the same energy when he screws her over as well.
Shes going to be crying fire. Attacking the mom and the baby is next level asking for karma. That man looks like a 2
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 OKAY!! Like you were that desperate for a couple expensive dinners 😂
She dodge the bullet if the man really love her, he will never go after her friend
I went through this. I took someone into my home. She got evicted from out of her apartment. I fed her. Took her back-and-forth to work. I was there for her when her baby father left her out of the cold, my baby father, and her baby father we’re best friends. Next thing you know she was having sex with my son father, in my son bed at night while I was sleep. Then she told me I only knew her for a couple of months we were never friends.
Oooo the boldness! I don't know how people do some of the things they do with no remorse or care.
@@ws4182 me either.. I was so hurt.. went through a lot of changes because of this but I’m better off without either or them .. Both of them was a bill!! They are suffering!!! Real bad!!!
@@INDIA_BEEGood for you!!! ❤️ I'm not going to lie; I would like to see what the people that mistreated me get for their lies and betrayal. Like I just have to see what is really happening behind the scenes because I just can't or don't want to believe that God allows people to do whatever without recourse
@@ws4182 HE DONT SIS❤️ Be patient… GOD will show u what needs to be seen…
@@INDIA_BEE ❤️❤️❤️
Once a man even slightly messes with ANY of my friends or past friends, he gets immediately placed in the bro zone. This man could be the hottest man alive and it's not going to matter. Something is so NASTY to me about sleeping behind other people! I don't date friend's exes, crushes, etc, it does not matter. Completely and utterly off limits!! Wtf I look like even kissing a man that my friend put her mouth on? Like swapping spit with siblings. Ew! People who date their friends past lovers need to get a life and are severely desperate.. beyond trifling
That's exactly how I felt my whole life but you'd be surprised how many women want to your leftover dusty. It's always rooted in jealousy.
Same, this is weird.
Sis you didn’t miss anything 😆
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Frfr. The person automatically becomes unattractive to me. Honestly, I don't even put them in the friend or acquaintance category because that gets sticky. I'm not trying to laugh at his jokes, sit by him, keep him companying while you get something, have a 1 on 1 convo...NOTHING 😐 And it's not even because I can't control myself but because people get weird.
Imagine pretending to be someone's friend. While being out right jealous and hateful of that person. They always says the worst enemies are the ones that smile in your face, while pretending to be your friend.
It definitely exists and God will block it immediately.
Baaaabbbyyyy this! Who has the time, energy and most of all why?!?!?!
Factsss
Something similar happened to me. My first boyfriend who i was dealing with half my life and my ex bestie had a whole affair secretly. And then when she told me, she expected we’d continue to be friends.
And chose him over me. We had been friends half our lives. Her self esteem was sooo low she perceived that my ex was her only chance at love….
Just imagine knowing his red flags before you decide to sleep around with him, and then going for it thinking it’s your “chance at love”
My ex was the ugliest man I ever dated. She also would be considered on the less attractive spectrum. But, peep this. He already got another girl pregnant while being with her 😂
😂
Karma 😂
My grandmother and great grandmother always taught me these women are not your friends and the quicker you learn that the better off you’ll be. Don’t let them in your home don’t have them around your man. I have 99 problems but a bih aint never been 1.
You really cannot call everyone a friend. I had a similar situation with a “friend”
I was dating this guy and I would confide in her about him she took everything I told her and told the guy and started dating him behind my back. When I say karma is real. He ended up getting another woman pregnant. She had the nerve to come crying to me about it. Lmao
They always end up needing you again before you'll ever need them! Funny how life works!!!
and I hope you slammed the door in her face. lol The nerve! I actually learned this lesson early in elementary school, thank goodness. 4th grade all the girls were talking about crushes for some reason & I said mine & the other girl who I thought was my friend got angry, went up to him & told him (before throwing in insults.) When you're little, it's more transparent. I'm so glad though. I never did it again as a teen/adult. My business is my business.
@Shaun S I hope you told that garden tool to kick rocks.
The audacity 😂 smh
😅😅😅
She'll learn the same way every woman who thought she's "different" because the snake slithered in her direction had to. 🥴🥴
Remind me of "the yellow bone is what he wants" ....until he made a fool out of her live.
I had a "friend" like that. I always sensed envy when i was around her, but I ignored it because I didn't want to believe she was envious of me. Fast forward, I meet my husband, we got married, and her envy really showed. Her behavior around my husband didn't sit right with me. After that I kept my distance from her.
She was so desperate for a man, that's all she talked about. She had a set of twin boys whose dad was not involved due to domestic abuse, and all she wanted was a man.
I used to feel super sad for not having friends. but the more I hear stories like these, the more I thank God, I ain't got no friends. Acquaintances at best. With friends like these who needs enemies?
If you feel weird around a “friend” and can’t speak with them, why don’t you just back away?! Plotting on their bf tho, that’s the best route?!! People are strange. 😒
This! It's giving immaturity.
That’s an excuse she using Lmaoo
@@kaylaferguson6916 oh definitely! It’s pure madness, just to sit in her face that entire time & plot.
@@just_dev1981 heavily!!! If she really felt that way, that would’ve been the easiest move for both parties. It’s wild !
She’s feeling weird about her, yet was messing around with her friend’s boyfriend?? The audacity of these birds is astounding.
Rejection is God’s protection
That is actually heartbreaking. Can you imagine you been in a one-sided friendship for all this time?
I had a “friend” that would tell me my ex was childish and I deserved better, just for her to turn around and start sleeping with him when we broke up. I found out cuz his messy a** actually sent me screenshots of her messages, as if that excluded him. Crazy thing, she wasn’t the only “friend” that has gotten involved with my exes. We not gon even talk about the ones that suddenly start liking a man once you do🤨 It’s too many stories out here of women being hurt by their jealous/envious friends. I look at friendships differently now that I’m older because it definitely be the ones closest to you. You HAVE to vet these women that you’re allowing in your life just as much as you vet men.
I had a “friend” like this last year. My momma told me she was jealous of me after I introduced them. I had a guy I was dating come and hang out at my job a couple of times before I moved out of state. A couple months after I left, I found out that they’re together. Mommas know smh
They ALWAYS know! My mom clocked some fake friends of mine also
They sure do! I told my mom some comments she would make and my mom would say, "she's jealous of you" and I would shrug it off. Ha, low and behold she showed her colors! Smh
Mom's know! My Mom has told me about a few of my so called friends. She was right everytime.
It’s such a shame. I think one thing is some women will vet men more than women. You have to vet everybody. A lot of women that get backstabbed, saw their “friend” be shady, have nasty attitude towards other women, take someone else’s bf, etc.
Then be shocked when this friend does something negative to them.
You should vet MEN more! Often times the a FAKE woman does is take your man or be fake friend. But a man often times will unaliving you, your mother, sister grandmother and kids.
I learned that lesson; been good ever since.
Happened to me except I wasn’t shocked. I knew what was up with my “friend.” When it happened to me I just took note and moved on. I needed to cut her off anyways so she gave me the motivation to do so after talking to my ex. Keep him sis 🙃 oh, and she dated ANOTHER friend’s bf too. Complete trash 😂
Happened to me except I wasn’t shocked. I knew what was up with my “friend.” When it happened to me I just took note and moved on. I needed to cut her off anyways so she gave me the motivation to do so after talking to my ex. Keep him sis 🙃 oh, and she dated ANOTHER friend’s bf too. Complete trash 😂
@@msunje9862 or just vet everyone like the original poster said 😂
I have no interest in being friends with my friend's man/husband. I'll be cordial when he's around, but I keep DISTANCE out of respect for my FRIEND.
My friend's husband used to text me asking simple requests like "can you bring ketchup?" But I'd text my friend's phone to reply "I got so-and-so's message, sis. I'll bring ketchup" 😂
Heart breaking. Nothing worst than your friend’s betrayal and taking your man. Yes he may have allowed it but that friend violated.
Imagine going through this much stress while pregnant!
Prayers to her❤️
So bad for the baby! It's been scientifically proven. I was a senior in college when I got pregnant and prioritized my mental health doing yoga and meditation.
She can abort.
Nothing but the devil--- I pray she is praying hard against this nonsense. 🙏🏽
That's even worse
The one thing I have to strongly disagree with is you said he is manipulating her. I would say all he did was give her validation to what she was already feeling. She already hated her and all he provided was confirmation when they’re not that confirmation existed. She was always going to hate her. Which is why he was able to get close to her to begin with.
So true! Great point 😊
@@RealTalkWithYanie thank you, just trying to be fair
I agree. She just needed a sign to go for it
She grown....You never get with your girls man. ..
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That fake friend that was exposed just gave me second hand embarrassment. I really hope Mudi heals from this. She’s mourning 2 relationships. 😢
The same way you got ‘em the same way you gone loose ‘em my momma told me everyone ain’t your friend I call them associates
The woman with the blonde hair is so gorgeous. I hope she steps away from this situation.
Adeola just did ole girl a favor. She got rid of a bum man and bum friend. Thank her and count your blessings! 🙌
Also, Adeola CLEARLY wanted Muni’s man because of the lavish lifestyle he could afford her. It won’t last long…
@@prtdivaexactly, not bc she actually likes him...I mean, just look at him...🤢nothing wrong in wanting a man solely for money...especially considering the way he's willing to treat his ex.😂
I had a fake ass friend like this before and funny thing is after we stopped being friends, her whole family still stayed in touch with me. 😂 i wish my mom taught me about fake friends.
Claiming a man who would abandon the woman carrying his child to be with her friend? Not a man worth choosing… who knows what lies he told that girl and it sounds like he’s doing classic triangulation that narcissists use 😢
Nothing more than that man made Mudi seem like a horrible friend just to get Adeola and because she has a "main character" superiority complex, she fell for it. Adela is one of those women whose self esteem is tied to two things: men and feeling she is better than other women, so when the man came to her putting her on a pedestal over the friend she ate it up, it fed her ego. Her friend being upset about the relationship feeds her ego, that's why she posts him, that's why she sent that long ass message. That's my opinion, I could be wrong.
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Omg I couldn't love this comment more! U said it all
This!
Yep sound like a narcissists
This ENTIRE comment is exactly what I think happened!
Jesus, Yanie are you looking at my life right now ? My now ex best friend was the other woman for who my ex boyfriend left me for. She is pregnant with him right now. Mind you, it's her Mother who called me and told me this.
I'm still in denial bruh. I had to shred her out of our family pictures. We grew up together. My mother and hers fell pregnant at the same time. She is my sister. There are pictures of her and I together when we were learning how to sit, crawl, walk. She is the sister I never had. When her mother told me I didn't believe it, but her sister sent me their pictures and thank God I was with my other friends. I fainted that day. I lost almost 30 pounds, I have lost hair due to the stress. I don't even care about the ninja, he can d1e for all that I care. But her ? It's like I lost half of my soul. And God know the type of pain I am into. May y'all be protected out there.
Many prayers going up for you, and I used to cry bc I don’t have that sounds like I never needed it. Prayers and hugs you’ll get the one God has got for you and you’ll be 1000x better❤❤❤❤
May U prosper while that female
Dog suffer !!
Oh wow. May you receive so much better. 💖🙏🏾
Prayers to you hopefully you will be able to heal from this pain
Prayers going up to you, Their rejection is GOD’s protection. GOD got something in store for you sis, it’s going to blow your mind and you will thank him for exposing those frauds. Best wishes to you.
This happens far too often. When I was in job corps there was girl who wanted my now husband. She even had a bf and tried to make up a LIE that I wanted her bf and everything. She literally was trying to get so close to me and tried to call me her “best friend” just to get close to my man. I literally told her that I would have to know her longer in order for us to be best friends. She got upset, made lies about me to everyone in school, tried to pay girls to fight me and everything. Even at one point my husband thought I really did something with her man because she was trying so hard to break us up. I had to tell me that she was doing this to me to get to him. It was so hard to believe until I told him how females are. She literally told me that she was going to break us up and then break up with her bf and get with my man. Even told me she thought I should be with someone like her man and she needs to be with someone like my man. I told her I would never and to not even play with me like that and we stopped being friends. 4 years later we got married and have a beautiful blended family with a 6month old. And who knows wtf she’s doing some where being bitter. Me and my husband saw her in the mall a couple weeks ago and she looked mad as hell seeing us together and didn’t even speak but she was supposed to be my “best friend” tuh she wish!
Ain’t no way in this life or the next would I do a friend like this. Even if we were no longer friends, her dude/ex-man is OFF limits. Karma is real. Too many men out here to be sinking to such a desperate level to “take” her “friend’s” man.
I just had a conversation like this with a family member. She said "well what 1 women won't do the next Will" 🤢🙄 I said girl please and all ima say is how you got him is how you gonna lose him.
Exactly! What comes around goes around
Karma's a bitch
you have to look at what ppl say bc that’s usually how they think, keep YOUR man away from that one cause she already told you what it is with her💯
@@veebee9942 Keep your Man away it's your Man he needs to stay away from anyone that would potentially put their relationship at risk, not the Woman your Man owes you loyalty.
Why do we as women have to keep “our men” away from other woman. Men can’t be tied down. I would want to know if the man is truly loyal to me and if he would allow another woman to jeopardize our relationship. If another woman “takes my man” then he was never my man to begin with. In my eyes, the woman isn’t the problem, the man is. If he was a loyal man that loves you, he wouldn’t give another woman the opportunity to “take him” from you.
@@prettyxbonez96 shut up! The whole “only your man owes you loyalty” is exactly why HOES like in this video be moving how they moving cause y’all make excuses for them when they BOTH are wrong
They say they love you, but they don’t even like you.
Sounds like she was jealous and stalking that woman's man on low. Then when she got her man, now she showing her true colors.
Glad I don’t have anyyyy friends. I get lonely sometimes but my mental is more important
She wrote an entire dissertation behind this shorty. And has the nerve to show pride. SMDH 😔
It’s giving psycho, right? I hope she remembers God when that loser screws her over.
That whole long dissertation about how she must leave her man alone. Give it a few months and she'll be crying about this same man, who's cheating on her. When this man walked out I couldn't believe it. I nearly died laughing. Plus, what do I say about putting your whole relationship up on social media? Her Instagram screams insecure and looking for everyone else to admire her relationship. Do y'all see this man putting her up on his Instagram like how she's putting him up on hers? She will be rudely awakened.
Her pride won't allow her to voice it. They're very in love. So even when it turns to ash won't she complain because she knows no one will have sympathy for her. Everyone knows how she met him.
Ms. Adeola is delusional. She thinks it's all about her and that she won. What she don't understand is men will do anything to get in between your legs and he also see what type of friend Adeola is so this is in his head. Once he gets tired of her he's running back to baby mama or someone else. She wanted him from the jump and he knew it, that's why he played his hand. Trust and believe she's going to reap what she has sown.
This is absolutely NASTY BEHAVIOR. Humans scare me. How can somebody be so hateful
I am Mexican and while women do their very best to desmantele patriarchal beliefs a lot of them fall deeply into this rabbit whole of dating men who are taken best friends or not. Couldn’t be me neither, sis, most of them are not even worth the headache of dating them LET ALONE snatching them away from a friend or an acquaintance.
OH! And one more thing I have also noticed a pattern of men who when they feel slighted by their girlfriends or ex girlfriends then they “magically” start saying sweet things to their homegirls for revengeful purposes ONLY. Everything about this situation is messy looking circus we NEED to evaluate very carefully what kind of men we are entertaining ‘cause let’s be honest no man wearing sunglasses on every Instagram post is worthy of any woman’s time!
It’s not the patriarchy. It’s the simple fact that women dislike eachother and compete with eachother all the time😂
Karma may take her time but she always comes back around. May God double their heartaches and woes,
amen 🙏 lol
Damn. It was the last statement for me! Lol
That sunglasses comment too me out😂😂😂
@@christinagatwechFACTS. AND MEN BANK ON THAT TO KEEP MANIPULATING AND GASLIGHTING US.
The other woman was beautiful enough to get her own man. What a shame
People will really pretend to be your friend and hate you the entire time. They want to study you, watch you, and secretly laugh at you when your down. Pay attention. This story is messed up.
If he bashes the mother of his child he will definitely drag her to the ends of this world. Shes gonna get played so bad she will want to bury herself. Watch…….
when you read that dissertation it sounded like she was PROJECTING the entire time. Ew.
14 years and I don't allow nobody around my man. I have alot of family who never met him and never will. 💯
This‼️‼️‼️
That sounds toxic if you're in a relationship were you have to hide your partner especially from your family you need a new partner. You should be able to trust the person you are with regardless of where or who they are with, and not turn into a control freak. Rather just stay single then live with that stress. 😊
If you gotta hide your man why have him 🤷🏾♀️😂
You don't allow anyone around him, meanwhile he's been around the block several times.
@@ceenichole6866 facts 😂 I don’t have to hide my man to keep him faithful. If he’s gonna cheat he’ll do it with whoever. If I have to hide him I don’t trust him, nor do I trust my family and friends. Rather stay single if I gotta do all that 🥴
One thing my auntie always use to say is “if he’ll do it with you. He will do it to you.” Also for all she know she just might be the good time girl. So ultimately you flaunting over here just to end up with egg on ya face. This new breed of young women is something else.
Who you think is their mamas cause this ain’t nothing new
My best friend of 20 years hated my X so much she would constantly have him aressted for hitting me! She would often say, “I know my BD ain’t hate but I’m so glad I don’t have your BD”! I thought she was my sister, my best friend! Until 4 months after I left him, she married him, she would constantly call CPS on me to try and get my children, she moved into mine and my fiancée house with my ex 2 days after we moved out, she would beat him, and he’s constantly coming to me claiming how abusove & hateful she is! I’ve always been told if I could write a book about my life that I’d make millions! There’s way more to the whole situation than just this! WAYWAY MORE!! My situation is far far worse than this one, believe that!
Right now I don’t have friends and sometimes I get sad about it but most of time I’m doing just fine. This is wild and that way I have hard time trusting people. People will smile in your face and spit on your back.
I see where you are coming from but please keep an open mind when it comes to friendships. You can usually see the red flags before you decide to fully integrate them into your life☺️
Same. It’s peaceful af tho
I love my solitude. I have my husband, kids, mom and in laws. That’s all I need…🤷🏽♀️
I don’t have friends and I won’t lie I used to be sad about it. I thought it must be me. I have trust issues. I refuse to be burned. Well I opened myself up to a new friend a couple years ago. We were getting close and then bam shit went left. Everyone around her is kissing her butt because she has money but one thing you’re not going to do is son me or talk to me crazy because I’m not here for that. You find alot of women are seeking something from you. They either want to be around you because of your looks, or because you make them feel superior, or they are envious and want deeper access to your life ( see your house car, husband, what y’all do, how y’all live) they want to peer into your life find the flaws so they can talk about you behind your back. It’s quite disappointing so I just keep to myself and stick with my husband. He sees it too and agrees 100%
@@candyc4713 🎯🎯🎯 exactly what happened to me! Coworker/"friend" pretended to be a friend a whole year. Hanging out, came to my place, asked about me shopping (because she was a tomboy and nobody really paid her any mind). Next thing I know, she snaked me and now talking to the guy that I confided to her about. She's flipped it to make herself the victim and people believe her! She did exactly what you said--got close enough to find out about me to make herself feel superior and turned on me.
“I am not your mate” instantly knew she was naija 😂😂😂
Exactly and she is Yoruba by her name.
100 percent! Even the God reference. I was like “enheh”
Always remember the person u trust the most can hurt u the most.
Man, I was so underwhelmed when I saw the lil man they both embarrassing themselves for! I'm crying 😂!
She better be careful. He’ll do the same thing to her. 😂
I can bet you she ain’t gonna have her friends around him. She gone be stress out and that’s going to be her karma.
I am a lone wolf. It simplifies my existence.
Same
Thisss 🙌🏽🙌🏽
This so scary how many have no loyalty but lovey dovey in yo face. Everyday I'm grateful for singlehood
This video triggered me a bit cause it kinda reminds me of my own situation almost six years ago. I had a "friend" that slept with my bd right before we broke up and just had his child. She's gone out of her way to make me out to be the bad friend and I'm crazy. You literally can't trust anyone.
P.S. hey Yani! I love your channel 💖 I'm happy I came across it on CZcams and have been a subscriber ever since. Keep up all of the good work you do for your content ☺️.
She was jealous and wanted what she had. That’s why she feel like she won a prize but he’s going to treat her so much worse like my mama always say the way you get them is the way you going to lose them. They all nice in the beginning but he has already showing her his true colors but she trying to hurt the other woman so bad and being spiteful she doesn’t realize he’s playing her until the next one come around.
My mama said, "the way ya get 'em is the way ya lose 'em."
The worst part is that she didn't lose a dear friend for a man , no no no no she lost a dear friend for a ' cheater' , she really played herself here
One thing I learned from men, they always keep that you snake your friend for them in the back of their minds. I had coworkers/friends say they will never truly take that girl serious because she snaked a Genuine friend. Men always look at loyalty, no matter how UN -loyal they are, you better not do it. They also laugh saying if a woman does that, he knows she will do anything to keep him. A very old video of travis scott and lil baby laughing about women doing this now fast forward look how they treat their BM's both of them snake their friends to get with them
Wow this comment needs to be pinned! Thank you for the wisdom gems 🙏.
I agree, please pin this.
Im sorry I don’t get this comment
@@Justforme7 basically they’re saying that by ol girl messing with him to piss off her alleged friends shows he can’t trust her either and she lacks any sort of loyalty. Lol
Prayers up for Mudi as she navigates through motherhood with this heartbreak and betrayal. We don't have to say it, but we all know God will make your enemies your footstool! Take your time healing, take your time processing, and take time for yourself... 🖤
Amen!
she needs to take FULL custody of those her kids they're are not safe around her BD or ex-bestfriend.
This happened to me before. I had to cut them both off and moved on with my life.
I learned a long time ago not to trust chicks around your man even if you've known them a long time. Hell sometimes family will do it too!
Ive had ex family members do it just for the fun of it because my exes were not even all that besides looks. Lmaooo
Girl yes! Family is worse.
Y’all better keep an eye on your female cousins Lmao
what would you do if you caught your man with your best friend or a family member?
@@mattyrock2467 set them both on fire, wbu
The Karma coming to those two is beyond comprehension
The fact she said he came to her and told her everything she “supposedly” said about her blows me! So she just took his word for it and mudi was supposed to be her friend!!! Girl u was envious from the start stop playing! 🙄
There are so many men in this world. Why her friend's man, though? This is more than envy.. it's so weak! Made herself so cheap. Karma Karma Karma.. she'll have to pay up and it's not gonna be pretty.
Funny the “friend” thinks anyone is beneath her, and even funnier she thinks she won a prize. Who is that little man? I’ve never seen a non-famous man with so many photos and videos on instagram. That’s probably the first sign a man ain’t shit.
Sad….I just kicked someone I called bestie to the curb. She was toxic, hating, and not a good friend anyway. Not doing that again.
It's a blessing in disguise that she discovered both of their disloyalty, it could have potentially ended with it being her life!!
I have the luck that I can never give myself fully to people that don't care about me I can't open my heart to them, its like something is pulling me away from them. I have very good friends that are great human beings. I notice that people are always betrayed by "friends" who love to maliciously gossip about other people, women who love to degrade other women, women who are envious of other people, problematic women, women who are messing with other women's men or lusting after other women's men can never be your friend.
If they have the heart to treat other people bad they will do the same to you one day.
I never feel comfortable with people who treat others bad I think that saves me from those types of people.
Oh!!! Her Karma Is going to Hit hard 😫
Girl yes it is her day is coming she thinks she's getting away with it now she is needs to think again
One thing men love to do is pillow talk and make the other woman believe she’s being negatively talked about because if they’re always beefing they’ll never share notes.. It’ll become competitive. I’ve seen women take a man back JUST to show the other woman she could.. He’s gonna make her eat those words though.
They better get that 48 laws of power book. Law #2. This is wild
You can't expect to live great and happily ever after when your relationship was formed out of betrayal and hurt of another person. Karma is going to humble her one day
just wait she will get hers
Ooh Baby …
Karma is brewing
Exactly
Probably end up a single mother and heartbroken