TIM Vol.14: Let's Talk About It

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  • @abubarrie88
    @abubarrie88 Před 2 lety +26

    You can’t control when panic attacks happens let alone warn someone ahead of time. I’ve had them before and it’s the most debilitating uncontrollable thing someone can experience especially when you don’t know what your triggers are.

    • @shaketamcghee5011
      @shaketamcghee5011 Před 2 lety +2

      Same here. Facts. You definitely need water and fresh air.

  • @SuperJazzi3
    @SuperJazzi3 Před 2 lety +24

    I feel like her family knew she ain’t worthy of that man because, I’m surprised they didn’t nudge her outside to go check on him if they were “so-called “ in on the Proposal🤷🏾‍♀️ they just sat there with her 🤣😂🤣….He was a good man Savannah!

  • @Creativeambitionz_LLC
    @Creativeambitionz_LLC Před 2 lety +13

    Whew! Fumbled the husband chile. Hope he finds the lady he deserves.

  • @karenwilson5320
    @karenwilson5320 Před 2 lety +11

    Like the old folks would say get sick and see whom is there for you. She isn't the one. I'm glad e found out now and not years later.

  • @karenwilson5320
    @karenwilson5320 Před 2 lety +9

    LOL she got what she asked for. Great story.

  • @cjordn
    @cjordn Před 2 lety +5

    WOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!

  • @shanenashakes1696
    @shanenashakes1696 Před 2 lety +1

    Girlll that gremlin sound you made when you said it was embarrassing has me weakkkk.. I was cleaning a clients home and was hollering 😅

  • @mowalker483
    @mowalker483 Před 2 lety +2

    Not “pushing “P” 😂😂😂😂😂😂💕💕😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kaylenamalia6629
    @kaylenamalia6629 Před 2 lety +2

    Pushin 🅿️ 😂 hilarious Jami ❤️

  • @k0kification
    @k0kification Před 2 lety +9

    This one had me in suspense! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾So good!!!!! #TIM

  • @yendaaaa
    @yendaaaa Před 2 lety +3

    Ive had a few panic attacks, years ago. Scariest thing. Feels like impending doom, like you’re gonna die for a moment…its cray 😵‍💫

  • @vacationeveryday
    @vacationeveryday Před 2 lety +4

    Your song at the end cracked me up 🤣

  • @LoveDoveDe
    @LoveDoveDe Před 2 lety +2

    Girl SHUT UP!!! 😂😂😂😂 “don’t put ya hands on me”

  • @celiabutts1124
    @celiabutts1124 Před 2 lety +14

    She is a sorry human being . Understand if she was not capable of handling his disorder all be it fake but to not even care enough to check on him shows you her character. Luckily he found out before the marriage what type of person she really is..

  • @meghanbetter4713
    @meghanbetter4713 Před 2 lety +8

    I just knew it was a proposal…then the messages confirmed it. Yikes.

  • @nanayaabrooks8817
    @nanayaabrooks8817 Před 2 lety +8

    my fav segment, she did too much, super selfish of her to not even try to check up on him

  • @femmeboi
    @femmeboi Před 2 lety +16

    I have a panic disorder and would've had to step away in that situation to calm myself and let it past. I can't control it and don't always know when it would hit, but I do know some triggers that would cause one and will act accordingly. I would not want her as a partner because she isn't understanding and supportive. The "trait" statement was horrible because anybody could have an anxiety disorder. I'm currently single but any of my close friends or ex would have followed me and supported me in that moment, or at least checked in on me to make sure I was okay. I have had panic attacks in a large crowd before. Yea me and her would be over at that point. Showed me her true colors and feelings about mental health.

    • @Anime_no_joō
      @Anime_no_joō Před 2 lety +1

      My triggers usually happen at night. I would be good and then all of a sudden boom, heart racing, room spinning and I can hardly breathe. The first time I legit thought I was having a heart attack. I went to the hospital and they told me what it was and I was embarrassed.

    • @angeleyes3386
      @angeleyes3386 Před 2 lety +1

      🎯 Mental Health challenges can happen to anyone in life. May show up differently for each person but it can be a life passage of some sort just like you can get any common physical health issue

    • @femmeboi
      @femmeboi Před 2 lety

      @@Anime_no_joō Same. I went to the ER thinking it was a heart attack. My anxiety attacks had graduated to panic attacks.

    • @femmeboi
      @femmeboi Před 2 lety

      @@angeleyes3386 I try to explain it this way to folx and sometimes myself. "You would take meds or seek help if you had a heart condition? Then do the same for your mind and take care of it"

  • @karenwilson5320
    @karenwilson5320 Před 2 lety +6

    I understand why he left., her family probably was asking a lot of personal questions.

  • @Mamabear-ru4qj
    @Mamabear-ru4qj Před 2 lety +5

    Love your hair!

  • @Anime_no_joō
    @Anime_no_joō Před 2 lety +11

    I don't think anxiety is a genetic trait. No one in my family deal with it and I do. She wrong for this. Having a panic/anxiety attack is the worst feeling. Sometimes it hits you be out of nowhere.

  • @traceylawrence7363
    @traceylawrence7363 Před 2 lety +2

    She was embarrassed because the people were looking at her. She was the one panicking.

  • @bobbiharris6119
    @bobbiharris6119 Před 2 lety +5

    Good he found out how she really was before he married her.

  • @MsTiJai
    @MsTiJai Před 2 lety +7

    Hopefully he left like she said and didn't look back. It's crazy how her concern was all of a sudden "triggered" when she found out he was gonna propose.

  • @realietv975
    @realietv975 Před 2 lety +2

    for him to propose must have been an intense and serious relationship and she was willing to throw it all away in a hot sec.
    dodged 1 there

  • @samk_beautytap2020
    @samk_beautytap2020 Před 2 lety +5

    Yassssssssss....a good ol This is Messy...while getting my hair did😁

    • @PurpleKeysh
      @PurpleKeysh Před 2 lety

      Lmaooo right I’m doing the same thang….under this dryer just a cackling

  • @twiggalloway1
    @twiggalloway1 Před 8 měsíci +1

    He dodged a Bullet!!!!!

  • @Jess1991virgo
    @Jess1991virgo Před 2 lety +4

    I have social anxiety which can cause panic attacks in crowded areas. I haven't had one since I was a kid. I am super vigilant of when I get increasingly uncomfortable when in crowded spaces if I can't avoid them. Sometimes I have to remove myself. My mom didn't know how to handle it and got mad at me.

  • @spicyfries4260
    @spicyfries4260 Před 2 lety +1

    Your hair is gorgeous

  • @Myretta
    @Myretta Před 2 lety +5

    Very sad

  • @hollygolightly8943
    @hollygolightly8943 Před 2 lety +2

    TBH, as someone with Anxiety; When you get triggered, you get triggered; and you feel the need to fly. you can't always see or control when you get triggered. At least he knows now, instead of after the wedding.

    • @crystalking2727
      @crystalking2727 Před 2 lety

      Absolutely. I deal with chronic anxiety and it is very debilitating.

  • @shaketamcghee5011
    @shaketamcghee5011 Před 2 lety +8

    You can’t control panic attacks. I suffer from this disorder. You definitely need fresh air and water. It has to pass on its own. She was super selfish and that’s troubling. Anyways enjoy your content. Keep it up boo! By the way I’m from Dothan, and have a few family members In Montgomery. Looking to move to Atl in Jan of 2023. Any suggestions on location?

  • @moneyvegas
    @moneyvegas Před 2 lety +2

    She showed her true colors. Now she's gonna be the talk of the office amongst her coworkers lol

  • @1libra1diva
    @1libra1diva Před 2 lety +4

    Look at God!!! He may not come when you want him but he'll what!?!? 😆 He definitely dodge a bullet!! I wouldn't have told her about the proposal. I would have packed my things and blocked her number. 👻

  • @chasitysoloman7831
    @chasitysoloman7831 Před 2 lety +1

    🤦🤷Would've told her as* fix ya face sis.I'm good love enjoy. In the words of Chris brown " I know you mad but so what, wish you best of luck now I'm fittin throw them deuces up."😂😂😂😂Chucking up the deuces

  • @JAVONEETHEMOMMY
    @JAVONEETHEMOMMY Před 2 lety +2

    He told his truth n she shamed him instead of helping him. He needs an empathic woman. She could have checked on him at least cause he was stressed. She embarrassed yet he bein honest tryna live his life. Anxiety isnt a genetic trait specifically so shes rude n wrong

  • @IsaacDaniels777
    @IsaacDaniels777 Před 2 lety

    I haven't been in a restaurant in years so I feel him

  • @BlayzMonet
    @BlayzMonet Před 2 lety +2

    She was wrong but he wasnt right. I cant stand when folks wanna pull tricks and when they dont get the reaction they want it was all of a sudden a "test"

  • @mommaj7393
    @mommaj7393 Před 2 lety +1

    Talk about a do over … please bae!! …. She let the brotha stand outside and suffer… who suffering now!! SMH

  • @murphyl8782
    @murphyl8782 Před 2 lety +2

    An outside proposal? Why outside?! What friend/family member worked on that idea with him. How many people were at the friend/family table and were they all supposed to leap up and speed walk behind her as she got up to speed walk after him if she actually did get up to go check on him? Was the restaurant warned to make way and have the aisle clear so a table full of people could jump up and go running out after the guy as a unit, lol. Was everybody just supposed to leave their jackets and purses at the table as they got up to run outside with her, I mean, did this plan involve the guy giving the friends/family time to gather themselves and all get outside as a unit to watch the proposal?The way this proposal was set up is the real Messy feature in this story. And is he living with her?

    • @JAVONEETHEMOMMY
      @JAVONEETHEMOMMY Před 2 lety +2

      If u love someone u make sure they ok. U dont focus on the crowd when u love someone n she didnt really love him