How To Keep A Man - 12 Rules
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- čas přidán 8. 10. 2009
- here is a video I've done on rules to keep a man of course all rules can be broken and compromised...but in general...these are a few personal opinions so don't take it too seriously folks...enjoy the video...all comments are welcom
Rule # 2 You already know you look nice😒😑" "I don't know sh*t!"😲😡
lmao😂😂😂💀💀
Only thing I disagree with is the single friends giving advice. It depends on the person. Not all single ppl are lonely. I would rather listen to a single, non-bitter friend than a friend who is in a horrible relationship. Everyone has experience whether they're single or not. Also, men need to learn too cook. That's an EXTREME turn on! I love the part about changing men. If he's a project, you don't need to be with him! Thanks for the vid DeStorm!
This really reminded me that I don t listen to my boyfriend when he talks about the things he want to do to his car because I find it very boring...but after I watched your video I started to be more interested in it and sent him pictures with some DIY to paint his grill because he asked me about it in the past .He was very happy and it was awesome to see him excited to talk to me about the things he likes. Thank you for you tips !
Great advice Storm!! I followed all those rules and got wife up and still going strong 10 years later. On the real you kicking some real knowledge about keeping your man :)
So real and honest, and a lot of women need to hear this. Great tips.
When he said "be spontaneous" i immediately thought 'hmmm good idea i'll surprise my man by turning up somewhere unexpected' then he said "but dont fuckin pop up!" 😂😂😂😂😂 sitting here hella confused
I love you for being so honest, everytime i heared 'okay sure' or "thats okay" or smthn like this of a man. But now I know, how you really think about everything and now I can do it better :) thx alot ♡
I am not your age group (older). You are so right! Good for you young brother. I'm a surgeon and successful education doesn't replace being a lady and knowing how to support your guy. A lot of women don't know what to do. A lot of my peers extremely successful professional women need to hear what you're saying. I grew up with all boys so I overheard what they would say, and you're on point.!!!!
"brush your fucking teeth" omg I just died LOOOOOOL😂😂😂
"Don't fuckin' pop up!" LOL
I AGREE WITH YOU 100% THAT IS WHY I AM IN A LOVING AND HAPPY RELATIONSHIP....I TAUGHT MYSELF HOW TO BE A GOOD WOMAN...SO FAR...IT WORKS....I ADORE THIS VIDEO...YOU ARE ON POINT!!!!
SO glad you mentioned it goes both ways . I personally try to do all those things for my man because I have asked a MAN for advice on what men like . It just really sucks when a man gets comfortable with you doing all those things for him and doesn't reciprocate and give back . Good video like the sense of humor as well !
Lmao! "Don't pop up don't f****** pop up" hahaha
What women really need to do to be totally honest is be more concerned with what makes "them" happy and whole instead of spending so much time trying to figure out how to make other people happy. When a woman truly knows her worth and she is focused on Jesus then everything else will fall into place. ReAl TaLk!!!!!!
AMEN!!
lol you sound single
So So True and Married people say the same thing
Actually what women need to do is being pretty , if she's ugly there's no hope for her with guys
from a guy's perspective I love this video, because I recently come out of a relationship and I've been feeling bad about it, feeling down and that but watching this video and literally my ex did only about 2 of those rules. Thanks man real good stuff, made me feel a lot better about the breakup.
this the most realest video ever ! you speak the truth and know what's join down ! respect
These are all fair points.... if your not interested in keeping a man then why are you watching a video about keeping your man? he isnt saying that guys dont have to do anything to keep there girl, this is a video from one perspective anyways he did go on to say that guys have to do there part also... he said one thing about physical appearance and that was to take care of youself... he didnt say be a size 2 he said dont let yourself get comfortable to the point you are letting yourself go... i say good call dude...
I couldn't care less about keeping a man a man is not a prize to be kept. Saying if you won't do it somebody else will so let somebody else do it if that's your mentality. Women are way too desperate sleeping with men who they are not married to. Just letting a man use you up in hopes that he will marry you. The bible says when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing not the other way around.
U are so right!
Preach it sister !
Amen.
+Grand Champ you are already desperate and lonely
sha you are right man!!
You're welcome. And I agree that "first loves are hard to let go." If it's any consolation, when you do finally value yourself more than you do this guy, you'll attract someone worthy of your love and you'll see that what you have with this guy now was truly a waste of your time, not b/c he's necessarily a bad person, but b/c you two aren't "equally yoked" (you're not the love of his life). Good luck to you.
I've watch this some time ago and just stumble upon it by accident and i swear it just gets funnier and funnier every time lol........but true words i appreciate it thanks!!
My question is, if we do all this shit, a guy says he's attracted, and he still pulls stupid stunts and games, what then? Is he just stupid and cowardly? I guess so.
Also, if women are expected to shave their armpits all the time, how come I see so many men with bushes under their arms? That shit is nasty but women are expected to look past that and see men for their "personality". Believe me, I've spoken up about it and none of these "men" care.
And it's not just physical stuff. Men keep expecting all of this shit, placing all of these expectations, then turn around and make it seem simple as if women are looking to complicate things. I do all of these things for men and I just want the same treatment in return. I want a man who can speak up, not hold grudges, not tell lies, not play games, and not use my trust and emotions against me... but if I ask for that, my standards are too high, apparently. Fairness means being single forever, I guess.
+Ashley Cenatus So true. Why would any woman want to get married when it means working in and out of the home seven days a week? It's also true about the armpits, the inability to carry a conversation, grudge-holding, lying, game-playing, and using a woman's feelings against her. They like to sit in front of a TV while the woman does everything. If the guy wants her to wear expensive underwear all the time, he'd better pay for it and hand wash the delicates.
#1 fair enough
#2 true
#3 that goes for both genders
#4 again, goes for both
#5 this is SO true for men as well. Chill out your jealousy guys.
#6 you should work out together....
#7 men also get icky, but women get NASTY. (and she is allowed to dress down)
#8 as long as men are, too
#9 ....men and cars. nuff said
#10 o_0 women like crazy things, too
#11 support your ladies as well
#12 how about you guys take that advice for yourself
--coming from someone happily married for almost 11 years now (been together for almost 13)
right on!!
I love this!!!!!!! This is real and to the point.... No filter... thanks.
I loved the video. I just have one thing to add with one of the rules. It's that everyones (men and women) bodies are gonna change. They will never really stay the same so keep yourself up but don't expect us to stay EXACTLY like we did when we met. If you do then you'll be very disappointed.
Its very simple and yet very hard for this modern women to understand.
Treat him like a king and you will be his queen. If you do that he will love you more then could ever imagine.
hm. kinda sad how many physical things girls have to change about their natural selves to keep men "interested"
honestly girls don't really care that much. i mean 12 year olds are obsessed with abs and what not, but average women have lower standards
I love your video and I was really happy because I was already doing most of it but I lost most of my friends because they don't like my man because he is a felon and I used to be a teacher and an evangelical Christian so he does not meet their standards but too bad and I told them all that on FB so now I have like 38 friends or something on FB but I don't care they suck
D B K I know this comment is way late but you should lower your standards? Really? If you lower your standards you'll get a lower standard man. If you raise your standards and approach the game on that level with yourself then you'll get an above standard man.
Thanks it's actually nice to hear the guys point of view,,, You opened my mind to a whole different level
I know you've taken quite a humorous approach here but - my goodness - you raised a lot of damn good points!
5:55 don't fucking pop up 😂😂😂 dead
A lot of this sounds pretty one-sided, so the fact this guy is single isn't really surprising.lol
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Lamp, I saw this title and I was like let me see what guys are saying to women and this guy is hilarious but true speaking from a straight man's perspective.
i'm impressed. just saw your video and listened...have no regrets. kudos!
LMAO, this dude said, "I DONT KNOW SHIT"
Have no idea how I ended up in this video
Lmfao, this made me laugh
You are speaking the truth, you could not have said it better than that.
I loved this. This was the best video I've seen so far about us females told by a dude. Props.:)
this guy is hilarious but he is right!!!! lol Great advice.
lol, gran mama blumas..... i died
I LOVED THIS. Lolll and thank you for the insight and humor, you are so right and even though I am young woman I think I'd want this also in a relationship too... Great advices..
I think he did a good job explaining the rules I've been in long term serious relationships since I was 15 and just ended an 81/2 yr relationship and everything he said was so true!
I actually don't think about giving my men compliment at all. Will have to change that
Hilarious! !! Thanks lmao #9
U
I'm not sure how I got to this video, but I really enjoyed it.... I agree w/ a lot of what was said..... Great Job
youre absolutely right - spontaneousness is so important and a spontanous action can be so freakin funny :D
"Brush your fucking teeth!" :))))
Did all that shit and guess what "still single" 😓
cuz u fat
I really really! Enjoyed this video I laughed the entire time. This video was truly helpful, and you spoke nothing but truth.
Im a girl and i really REALLY appreciate this video =) this made me smile like the whole time i mean. I do want to improve myself as human being in all aspects like gain knowledge about stuff.. Its easy get a book read it apply stuff. But with guys .. theres no book? and its nearly impossible for them to talk so you explaining shit just made me happiest girl :D because i understand now atleast something
This is funny but don't even get me started on men! Trust me, women would have alot to say. I don't know why women don't as much as men..
There's a guy I met from online last week and he lives in his car . he has 4 kids they stay wit the mom, he's really nice and has a good heart, hhmmm I'm wondering if I should support his dream to b a rapper, he's been trying for over 15 yrs.. Probably not
luv muzik Is this even a question? What does he have to offer you? Do you want kids of your own? With 4, he might not want any more. He wants to be a rapper, how far has he gone with it and how realistic is he given that he has 4 kids AND not enough money to have a place of his own?
It wasn't a question just more of a comment, no I want no kids with him I have 2 of my own . his rapping isn't going anywhere but he thinks it is, he's got problems of his own to deal with, we hang out sometimes and chill so idk I'm just having fun I guess
luv muzik Ahh then I guess have fun :).
luv muzik yeah... but he probably has a better heart than you'll ever have
Nikki McInnis You don't know anything about this woman other than what she's mentioned. What about this guy makes him out to be someone with a good heart? He could very well be a wannabe rapper who will never make it...15 yrs is a long time to keep at it. With 4 kids and living in his car, should the only consolation be the fact that he might have a good heart?
I don't mean to come on too strong but I've seen a number of girls get bitter after saddling themselves with men like these.
yes you right about that,guys do not like a lot of talk. be blessed. good tips cause I love him forever!!
Bravo! I very much enjoyed this video, your candor and obvious intelligence (and maybe not so obvious, your kindness). Useful information in my field. Keep up the good work!
why the fuck dont i have a man then? WTF?
if these tips worked i think i would have a man . duh
Because u is a bitch x'D
LOVE what he said about trying to change a man, if he has that many issues or things you wanna change about him then you shouldnt be with him and the jealousy shit, i can see how it would def drive a guy away..thats real talk!!
Amen! You speak the truth brother!
LMAO! I agree on not listening to other people. They never really truly know the full situation. Very good rules, thanks! :)
I love how blunt your advice is
I love this guy's honesty tho!!!!!!!
NEW SUBSCRIBER! this video is so helpful and funny af!
btw I love your eyes and your voice! omg
All the Rules are TRUTH!!! Great video.
Some parts made me laugh...some made me say "oh shit im fucking up". Love this dude! Thanks for the honesty!
I saw you a long time ago and died laughing. Glad I found your vids again!!
very true...some compliment for you: u are smart,handsome & u can teach the people,u have potential!! thanks for advice
The best relationship advice of all time!
OMG i remember watching this once and i laughed so much! i saw it again and you still havent dissapointed me! man ur funny!
I LOVE THIS VIDEO!! JUST DISCOVERED IT, YOU'RE SO VERY RIGHT. THANKS FOR HELPING US GIRLS OUT. LORD KNOWS WE NEED IT SOMETIMES!! LOL
Thank you i never had a friend tell me this,, and i always listen to single women
you see all the views you have here... almost 500k in views...At this point in time in 2009 ....10 percent of the population had smart phones..everyone was on laptops and home computers..CZcams ain't broke....People aren't giving undivided attention on a smart phone....It's not the whole problem but 60percent...Now how do you figure a way around it.?. Your a smart guy and I love how honest you are...I saw your article about your youtube channel was broke...I feel you..
me as a guy i had evaluate him lol...everything he said was right listen to him ladiez he speaking honestly..good video man
I died @ "Lady Do- Rag"!!!! Loved it!! Thanx:)
LMAO your video was super funny but you kept it real luv it.. subscribed!
Omgosh I love you so much. I giggled the whole time, but some guys must not be as easily pleased as you because i do all of that, and i'm told i'm too much of a bro :/ oh and throwing a compliment your way, your smile is so pretty :)
Seriously, I watch this everyday. 2 things I would add though are Communication and Honesty. Without either of those, your relationship will just fall apart.
Omg I ❤️ this!!!!! I knew and do ALL of these, already..... I'm in a new relationship
this is the best and truest advice, those are things men need from women
you just made my morning!!!!lol. Love it
LOL!! Ur funny and have good points, rule number "before 1" love yourself first, then you can truly love him :)
U just help me start my new relationship.I been single for two years n I'm use to doin me.now I gotta compromise and work with him n his dreams.your so right about all this.I commend u
Man, you are awesome... i love your videos!!! :)
You are absolutely right about the things you say. I mean I am doing all these things and I am keeping my man (32) interested for 2 months now. I look like I am in my late thirties, but I am actually 50. We just met after we both split up after a relationship, (we hang out a few times before). I asked him the other day about if I was a friend with benefits and if he also got a wondering eye for other women, actively. He doesn't. Maybe because I do all the things you say naturally, I keep him interested. He wants to be the centre of attention all the time and I let him. He is like a young dog (also in bed) and I love it. I told him also that I don't have the illusion we will be together for a lifetime, but we got great fun and respect eachother. Ofcourse I am a little jealous and insecure at times, but I don't show it. I am interested in the things he does (I have 2 adult sons myself, in fact I am a grandmother), we play videogames, make music, smoke pot. I like to talk a lot, but so does he. I am the one who is backing down a bit, but i dont mind, i mean he is gorgeous. This could well work for me ( at least for the time being). Anyway, i feel very lucky and happy to find out i do all the things right. If you really care for someone you give it your best, but you also don't need to settle for anything but the best from the other person, in the end. Well, keep up the good work. Hope it will work out for everyone. Like your video. Love from the Netherlands.
rule number 3 is sooo right ^^ ..... that's why i divorced the dude ^^ .... long overdue! good video.... i think u just reminded all women basically treat the dudes just like how u wanna b treated..... another one though and this is from all my guy friends, it''s try not to be clingy (i.e texting every 5 minutes, getting angry when u dont text back right away, always have to cling on to u when hanging out.. just dependent and clingy, never gives you time on your own.show some independence too)
I know ur video is old but just wanted to say it was very fun to watch and brilliant- well done!
As a woman, i totally agree with u, love ur video !!
You go boi!! Loved this video you helped me / my Man lol A LOT!!!!
Good advice given with great sense of humor!
these rules were really good! I learned a lot! Thanks so much for this video!
This was very informative! I agree with you about us curing our jealousy hell when my man looks I'm looking too lol! I will give credit where it is due.
Love it!! Made me laugh! & when you were talking about a guys dream, I totally thought of astronaut too! Lol
Omg I love it!!! I always love to learn about men from men which is probably why I have male tendencies due to my male friends lol
I love yuh man..frst tym watching this amd im lyk daayymn..yu the best
You are so funny dude! I could hang out with you all day! Thanks for the advise lol :)
alright ALRIGHT we get it haha good tips, I agree 100%. Your list is the same list that has existed since the dawn of time.
I Loved this video so much! keep up the good work.
I agree. The best relationship advice ever.
I miss your videos like this! You should totally do more!
Omgggg so spot on!!! 100% agree with all your points, I am going to make a great wife I tell ya!! Well done the man that made this bid I forgot your name xx
This is amazing! U just got a new sub :D Thank you!!
He is too real. Love it
OMG you killed it......Good advise & hilarious....I laughed so damn hard great video, I am sending this to every chick I know....
Love it! well spoken sir!