Women are more open to emotional connection first where men look for sexual connection first. The problem with sexual connection first it ruins you because you dump to many people and your looking for the next shiniest object thats more physically attractive. Emotional connections are important for a long term relationship not just a one nightstand.
60% of men (18-30) are single and a good majority of them can't get a one night stand. What are you women even talking about? Average men have no chance to date an average girl. No man is dreaming about the next shiny thing because they can't even get the dirtiest thing. You are stuck in this idea that men sleep around and go from girl to girl. LISTEN. Those men are the top 20%. The 80% is invisible, you don't even see them as humans. A man who wants emotional connection will get ignored, the man who doesn't want anything serious gets the girl then dumps her. This is the male experience. You women train men to be heartless, evil people because you don't appreciate good honest men.
@@dotexe4981funny isn’t it how when we say anything negative about women we have to preface it with, “I’m not an incel” cause the idiots can’t stand women being criticized.
Sadia Khan where were you 6 six years ago for advice. Your clear words could have saved so much drama. Guess I had to learn the hard way by trial and error.
Like what this lady says As a bloke you can look for example at great literature written by ladies Personal close relationships are right at the heart of it Each sex should try hard to understand the other one
She seems to be making it sound more complicated than it is. What I think she means is women, that is many, want to connect with a man getting to know him and what his values in life are, what his passions are and the path he is on before she gets connected in a physical way. If you go straight to the physical first, it usually taints everything afterwards in the relationship. Your purpose in life should be your drive regarding connections with others. Quality not Quantity.
Trusting ourselves, learning to ask for what we want + need, expressing how we feel, having a purpose which we honor, living our dream which we have defined for ourselves gets us off the road of self abandonment and back onto our horse are what we have to fill up our life + our relationship with on a vigilant, daily basis. We have to own our power. Not give it up. (Meditation helps). Nor accept to bargain it for love from a man who is often differently wired from us, to the point of even have a bloated ego and being an avoidant rather than a secure partner. If we do not watch out, we can become his puppet, slave + whipping child, everytime he fails. There is a danger of narcissistic abuse here.
There and successful man behind , there are wise women. And man was good stupid enough to do as his women says. But women needs to be , first very wise to keep her own dignity.
Sadia trăim într o societate care pune presiune doar ptr statut dar nu și ptr familie. Și aici fiecare își urmărește propriu interes și viziune. Băieții alearga după succes iar fetele își doresc familia ideala.Succesul are prețul sau.Deci...
My 67 year old Mother, who reared 4 children, now between 33 and 38 ran a business with my Dad, did house work, reared us and was a great companion to my late Dad...just watched this twice and has gotten a headache listening to it...God help u son....her exact words😂
It would be a shorter list if you name the things that don’t bother women that bother men Most everything on that list would be something that women were doing two men poorly intentionally
Most Women are just tiring and draining outside the bedroom. Most women pick the wrong type of men to begin with due to female hypergamy. WOMEN NEED TO PICK THE RIGHT MAN FROM THE BEGINNING, AND THEN PUT THE WORK AND EFFORT INTO THE RELATIONSHIP, AND THE RIGHT MAN WILL HAPPILY RECIPROCATE. THAT CREATES A POSITIVE FEEDBACK LOOP,ALSO CALLED SYNERGY.
Ive learn the tools & now have the time 2 work with my partner to make a connection that caters 2 both our Needs, Wants, Desires The connecttion with me is her full focus. Lose the ego & pride. Tom Scott. Lost in Love & Dream Lady
OK so women don't find so much meaning and purpose and drive in work...n she says "when we lack a bigger purpose "...can any one tell me what is this bigger purpose that she is talking about...coz what she says sounds like 🗑
yes..exactly i dont understand it the way you understand it neither would i ever want to...n true that makes a huge difference n I value respect n cherish n enjoy that difference.. coz that makes me who I am...if these differences never existed between us humans to enrich us n expand our minds there would be no difference between us n a herd of sheep...for every mind which thought out of the box was in complete acceptance n peace with itself...n eatch of those times humanity was catapulted to new heights...
@@shanebriggs1039 Like career and "independence" from men.... Whether it be financial or social.... These things are misleading distractions from what will grant them true fulfillment, ie family and companionship with a man.
I grew up watching my parents fight most nights, Dad was a wife beating drunk. Mom ran around a lot. I mean a lot. I have no Faith in love, marriage or relationships.
You just described how women get bored and not getting as much attention as when they where younger. That's why most women get divorced. Note you did not mention him or what he wants, no its all about you hmmmm.
We want sex, but however, you should never let your girlfriend know that you want it. Just say no some of the time. I never said no, and she became disgusted, and went dry on me. So i started sleeping with someone else.
Wow she totally double talked there... Completely contradicted herself. What the actual F.... Do you people actually listen to what she is saying...? Because it makes no damn sense... Stop giving attention to these fake guru's and coaches. They are mostly full of absolute bullshit. This is why we need to only seek private PROFESSIONAL therapists who had to actually study and practice to get a degree or license. These people are in my opinion, 80% responsible for the war and abuse between men and women in the world right now... plus very few healthy longstanding relationships left as an example. They are not helping, just dividing further and further.
Women are more open to emotional connection first where men look for sexual connection first. The problem with sexual connection first it ruins you because you dump to many people and your looking for the next shiniest object thats more physically attractive. Emotional connections are important for a long term relationship not just a one nightstand.
60% of men (18-30) are single and a good majority of them can't get a one night stand. What are you women even talking about? Average men have no chance to date an average girl. No man is dreaming about the next shiny thing because they can't even get the dirtiest thing. You are stuck in this idea that men sleep around and go from girl to girl. LISTEN. Those men are the top 20%. The 80% is invisible, you don't even see them as humans.
A man who wants emotional connection will get ignored, the man who doesn't want anything serious gets the girl then dumps her. This is the male experience. You women train men to be heartless, evil people because you don't appreciate good honest men.
These days I think it is the exact opposite. And I'm not some incel, I've dated a lot and I got a gf.
@@dotexe4981funny isn’t it how when we say anything negative about women we have to preface it with, “I’m not an incel” cause the idiots can’t stand women being criticized.
Who cares?
Not all men look for sexual connection first though
Back to basics people! 🙃❤️
Hi there 😃
Sadia Khan where were you 6 six years ago for advice. Your clear words could have saved so much drama. Guess I had to learn the hard way by trial and error.
I’ve learned a lot from this woman. I haven’t watched all her videos but the ones I have watched are credible 👊🏽🙏🏾
Like what this lady says As a bloke you can look for example at great literature written by ladies Personal close relationships are right at the heart of it Each sex should try hard to understand the other one
She seems to be making it sound more complicated than it is. What I think she means is women, that is many, want to connect with a man getting to know him and what his values in life are, what his passions are and the path he is on before she gets connected in a physical way. If you go straight to the physical first, it usually taints everything afterwards in the relationship. Your purpose in life should be your drive regarding connections with others. Quality not Quantity.
Or she means if he is superior to her...she is not able to feel connection, because he makes himself look, more important in everything he does.
That's the woman's fault. She controls sex.
This is very true it's too much of a complicating it's too much of a complicated thing to
Connection is a human need, not just female needs. Weird.
I agree
Sadia is alwaya right
No she is not always right.
good insight
Good morning my beautiful coach Sadia 🎉🎉🎉
Trusting ourselves, learning to ask for what we want + need, expressing how we feel, having a purpose which we honor, living our dream which we have defined for ourselves gets us off the road of self abandonment and back onto our horse are what we have to fill up our life + our relationship with on a vigilant, daily basis.
We have to own our power. Not give it up. (Meditation helps).
Nor accept to bargain it for love from a man who is often differently wired from us, to the point of even have a bloated ego and being an avoidant rather than a secure partner.
If we do not watch out, we can become his puppet, slave + whipping child, everytime he fails.
There is a danger of narcissistic abuse here.
There and successful man behind , there are wise women. And man was good stupid enough to do as his women says. But women needs to be , first very wise to keep her own dignity.
Sadia trăim într o societate care pune presiune doar ptr statut dar nu și ptr familie. Și aici fiecare își urmărește propriu interes și viziune. Băieții alearga după succes iar fetele își doresc familia ideala.Succesul are prețul sau.Deci...
-Every Hinge Profile- “my love language is quality time”
When you lies lies by the Thomson twins song 🎵
My 67 year old Mother, who reared 4 children, now between 33 and 38 ran a business with my Dad, did house work, reared us and was a great companion to my late Dad...just watched this twice and has gotten a headache listening to it...God help u son....her exact words😂
It would be a shorter list if you name the things that don’t bother women that bother men Most everything on that list would be something that women were doing two men poorly intentionally
Most Women are just tiring and draining outside the bedroom. Most women pick the wrong type of men to begin with due to female hypergamy. WOMEN NEED TO PICK THE RIGHT MAN FROM THE BEGINNING, AND THEN PUT THE WORK AND EFFORT INTO THE RELATIONSHIP, AND THE RIGHT MAN WILL HAPPILY RECIPROCATE. THAT CREATES A POSITIVE FEEDBACK LOOP,ALSO CALLED SYNERGY.
True that
Women are Lost today. Men build. Women nurture. That's purpose
Staying away from women makes me focused, its beautiful but hard cos its not natural but i find so much peace when they are absent from my life
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Wow
Ive learn the tools & now have the time 2 work with my partner to make a connection that caters 2 both our
Needs, Wants, Desires
The connecttion with me is her full focus.
Lose the ego & pride.
Tom Scott. Lost in Love & Dream Lady
Why is every single thing men or women for her. Men and women with similar personalities are more alike than 2 men or 2 women who vastly differ.
Ok how about the very long wait between direct contact lol❤
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God this is complicated.
Yeah right. Women are all the same. There are no differences. Women are like this, men are like that. Istnt that a little bit to easy?
Yeah, your actions are always different from your words
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This is a gross generalization bc I've known women who don't value a romantic relationship that much at all and men who do value them more
B.S. I need to wear waders with that statement.
OK so women don't find so much meaning and purpose and drive in work...n she says "when we lack a bigger purpose "...can any one tell me what is this bigger purpose that she is talking about...coz what she says sounds like 🗑
No... It's trash because you dont understand it, big difference.
yes..exactly i dont understand it the way you understand it neither would i ever want to...n true that makes a huge difference n I value respect n cherish n enjoy that difference.. coz that makes me who I am...if these differences never existed between us humans to enrich us n expand our minds there would be no difference between us n a herd of sheep...for every mind which thought out of the box was in complete acceptance n peace with itself...n eatch of those times humanity was catapulted to new heights...
@@divyasweety787 You went all the way off trail with the topic... 😂
People work to servive and keep their head above water as noonelse is willing to support and have their back.
So she’s saying she doesn’t find purpose in her work? Interesting. Speak for yourself. I know a lot of women who are highly invested in their work.
Women are being taught to pursue and value things that are not going to give them fulfillment....
Like what?
@@shanebriggs1039 Like career and "independence" from men.... Whether it be financial or social.... These things are misleading distractions from what will grant them true fulfillment, ie family and companionship with a man.
How does your partner of 4 years after making a fortune abandons you and travels the whole world leaving you behind ?
More propaganda.
Men value connection with unrelated men much more than women value connection with unrelated women.
I grew up watching my parents fight most nights, Dad was a wife beating drunk. Mom ran around a lot. I mean a lot. I have no Faith in love, marriage or relationships.
You just described how women get bored and not getting as much attention as when they where younger. That's why most women get divorced. Note you did not mention him or what he wants, no its all about you hmmmm.
BS 100%
Dont listen to her.
Postman
You mean we shouldn't listen to YOU & you're meaningless TEXT. I'd much rather listen to Sadia & her insights.
Well said. This woman is full of rubbish.
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How about a date with you ?
Know lot's of women who have 2/4 kids and still work...she's full of bs
Find you real female friends
That is a lie
We want sex, but however, you should never let your girlfriend know that you want it. Just say no some of the time. I never said no, and she became disgusted, and went dry on me. So i started sleeping with someone else.
More BS from her as usual
This woman talks absolute rubbish
Blah blah blah, nonsense talk for I'm gonna cheat eventually and it's your fault and not my own
Wow she totally double talked there... Completely contradicted herself. What the actual F.... Do you people actually listen to what she is saying...? Because it makes no damn sense... Stop giving attention to these fake guru's and coaches. They are mostly full of absolute bullshit. This is why we need to only seek private PROFESSIONAL therapists who had to actually study and practice to get a degree or license. These people are in my opinion, 80% responsible for the war and abuse between men and women in the world right now... plus very few healthy longstanding relationships left as an example. They are not helping, just dividing further and further.
No accountability. Basically saying they are gonna cheat eventually and it's the guys fault