Is Mental Health Genetic, Habit, or Personality?

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Komentáře • 822

  • @mr.dephiant9713
    @mr.dephiant9713 Před rokem +1057

    "We suffer more in imagination than we do in reality" - Seneca

    • @Luke-kj1rj
      @Luke-kj1rj Před rokem +11

      If only peterson could make a terse point like this

    • @davidoneill2949
      @davidoneill2949 Před rokem +8

      My dear Lucilius we are more often frightened than hurt. And we suffer more from imagination than in reality.

    • @shockingdocumentaries4255
      @shockingdocumentaries4255 Před rokem +12

      That’s not always true. There’s a reason words like “denial” exist.
      That ‘cliché’ doesn’t factor in the fact that bad things do happen. The worse part is the re-victimization of people in denial saying it’s not so bad.
      It’s easier too face those feelings in order to see if those fears are legit.
      Sound bites sound good on t-shirts, but don’t work for EVERYONE, ALL the time.
      Especially if they require you to pretend ALL fear is invalid as is if things like death, sickness, and discrimination don’t exist.
      Some people don’t have the “luxury” of pretending their life isn’t a nightmare. Those who do end up co-dependent alcoholic, rage-aholics, and telling people with problems “it’s their imagination”.
      That’s the same mentality used to deny people care. And the same excuse working poor people use to scream at disabled panhandler’s “get a job”. Thus misdirecting their frustrations on a marginalized person they are pretending to help, with abuse.
      If this thought helps you fine, that’s cool. Whatever works.
      However in order to feel positively inspired, I personally benefit by dealing with situations on a case-by-case basis. Finding things I can believe in.
      For example, this entity may be denying me services because of discrimination that existed before me, but with the law, common sense, decency, and the court of ‘public opinion’ on my side, it’s just a matter if I’m going to get my needs met the easy way or the hard way as I go over my head.
      The people who ignore the proof I have don’t seem better off for the denial. In fact that seem to me worse off mentally. Their denial has made them emotionally volatile, screeching holler monkeys.

    • @jabikuriee33
      @jabikuriee33 Před rokem +1

      Someone else is living your 'loco' imagination. Reality is the complete opposite but honest.

    • @one-seventeen.rev310
      @one-seventeen.rev310 Před rokem +2

      Because your fight has not been with flesh and blood, but with Principalities and The Rulers and The Powers of this dark world and with wicked spirits which are under Heaven.
      EPHESIANS 6:12

  • @Randomness11oh
    @Randomness11oh Před rokem +257

    I'm 35. I found jordan peterson 4 years ago. When I was going thru a tough time. I was homeless, jobless with no hope or direction. Since then I've found my passion. I started with Nothing at the bottom. But I started living right and stayed constant with my goals. Now im at the top of my field with a 6 figure income and climbing every day. Just have to have a clear head, have definitive goals, and Chase them constantly

    • @liam.4454
      @liam.4454 Před rokem +4

      whats your passion lewis?

    • @ryanlipple6854
      @ryanlipple6854 Před rokem +11

      No one goes from homelessness to the top of their field in four years.

    • @philoneussquire3877
      @philoneussquire3877 Před rokem +1

      ​@@ryanlipple6854why not

    • @josecabanas6293
      @josecabanas6293 Před rokem +7

      @@ryanlipple6854 That is where you're wrong, hard work goes a long way, but if you rather make excuses to why you cant move up in life then thats a demon you have to fight like the rest of us =:3

    • @Seamannon
      @Seamannon Před rokem +1

      That sounds amazing! How did you get from homeless and jobless to earning a 6 figure income in 4 years? What would you do and say to someone who's at the starting point of this transformation? There are a lot of people struggling to make ends meet, would you help them out?

  • @anaviana2641
    @anaviana2641 Před rokem +156

    If you are suffering from procrastination, its definitely a fear, something has scared you (criticism so intense that its paralyzed your judgements). Its crazy how you have to start little by little to gain confidence in yourself again, by doing small things to completion AND telling yourself that you did a good job. Overcoming these negative thoughts/criticisms is the key skill to mastering your reactions to criticism and your environment (negative, hostile).
    May Gods love be with us all.

    • @pawelzabicki7785
      @pawelzabicki7785 Před rokem +2

      Definitely not, it’s not that simple, especially when you take ADHD into account.

    • @poultry1977
      @poultry1977 Před rokem +3

      Definitely what happened to me . I have buck teeth and since I was little it never bothered me at all . Until middle school when ppl would call them out or call me names like “squirrel “ “beaver “ so yeah my confidence absolutely plummeted and I’ve been so insecure searching for flaws …. I got anxiety so bad I started to depart from my family because even around them I had anxiety as if they were judging me . I’m now 20 and for the past few months I’ve been really focused on my mental health and it’s been getting way better …. I can now walk into a store with less fear of being judged or talk to people without feeling judged (still have anxiety but slowly fading ) I think cutting off a lot of bad habits and really focusing on how your mind works REALLY helps overcome stuff like that . Doing small things like cleaning your room , going for a run , working out , stopping drugs or liquor or self pleasure like jerking off or really focusing on your future and being productive everyday definitely helps in the long run … if u have bad anxiety or are depressed please give what I said a shot 🙏🏾 I promise theres no other feeling of seeing your mental health progress and finding who u truly are and if you’re suicidal please try a mental health journey , I used to wake up with daily thoughts of suicide because I felt like a failure and the feeling of life problems overweighted me . I know most suicidal people don’t want to die , they just want to live . Live a life that isn’t so stressful or overwhelming so I encourage anyone who has suicidal thoughts please try a mental health journey and think as positive as possible …. Give urself a patt in the back over big and little achievements and give yourself compliments like “ you did great today “ “ I’m glad you tried “ things like that . I Know it’s hard but at the end it will be worth finding yourself … much love to you all ❤️

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Před 10 měsíci +1

      I'll do that now and I have no fear even if she and or he says no I'll be okay

    • @benmoore5168
      @benmoore5168 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Amen, by gods love I think it’s important for the American people to reeducate on the importance of fables in society, such as the holy Bible. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, google Aesops Fables and find the link from the “original internet archive” then open up a notebook and start writing down what you take from it. God isn’t about convincing yourself to sell your soul to a god. It’s about having faith in god and his goodness that allows you a easier road to have faith in yourself. Religion is just the modern man’s word for a fable. Something to believe in and in return themselves.

  • @amandawease1900
    @amandawease1900 Před rokem +951

    Jordan! There is something different about you. It’s in your voice, in your comments and your disposition. It appears that perhaps you are truly at peace with yourself! It’s really nice to see.

  • @JohnWilliams-channel
    @JohnWilliams-channel Před rokem +29

    Mental health is the ability to negotiate with and navigate in reality in good humor. It is not seeking escape through addiction. It is not soothing the ego with delusion. It is simply looking forward to the day when you wake up and being curious about things you don't understand yet.

  • @natashaassaf8815
    @natashaassaf8815 Před rokem +414

    “In terms of habit; you become what you practice” Love it JP!
    I was WAY too agreeable and through JP podcasts I’ve learnt to be more assertive, to standup for myself and be comfortable saying NO to friends and family who took advantage of my agreeableness ✊🏼 woo!

    • @curlyfrys5279
      @curlyfrys5279 Před rokem +3

      👏

    • @lisafeck1537
      @lisafeck1537 Před rokem +12

      Bravo! Maybe I, and many others, can achieve assertiveness too. It's no way to live by other people's whims. Being flexible and agreeable is an awesome disposition, I like that about myself. However, constantly sacrificing in a way that looses yourself for others, is a dismissal way to exist.

    • @TheMerioz
      @TheMerioz Před rokem +9

      I was actually like you (agreeable who learned to be more assertive) but somewhere along the way I lost it again and became way too agreeable. I hope I would be able to gain my momentum again.

    • @KopMike94
      @KopMike94 Před rokem +5

      Might need to try that as well then, is his podcast on spotify?

    • @truegee247
      @truegee247 Před rokem +4

      Im learning this as well & congratulations

  • @hunterboniface6379
    @hunterboniface6379 Před rokem +714

    Hey chief, I’m not sure if you ever see these comments, but I just wanted to throw out a thank you for keeping these free and posting so frequently. It’s always nice to have an hour or so out of my day to really think about something specific within the vast topic of life which not only will help me with how I approach my future but which also keeps my mind active and nimble.

    • @visualblacksmith2100
      @visualblacksmith2100 Před rokem +13

      I absolutely agree! Truly valuable content. University level information all for free on CZcams.
      Dr. Peterson has helped myself & many other people so very much with the adversities of our modern lives in this new world we find ourselves in.

    • @NurseMendoza
      @NurseMendoza Před rokem +3

      Well said because your vernacular just hit home 🏡 with me. 🙌🏽

    • @mattjohnson8492
      @mattjohnson8492 Před rokem

      jordan peterson is a putin owned chaos agent and a psychopath, is putin paying you or are you acting against your own interests for free because you have been brainwashed by russian reflexive control ?

    • @dmc1806
      @dmc1806 Před rokem +2

      💯 Thanks for speaking for me and 1000s of others friend 👍

    • @pinkshark856
      @pinkshark856 Před rokem

      This is not JP`s official yt channel.

  • @frequentlycynical642
    @frequentlycynical642 Před rokem +342

    I read Twelve Rules for Life four years ago, and have watched untold hours of his videos. His genius and his ability to communicate his knowledge still amazes me.

    • @crazystemlady
      @crazystemlady Před rokem

      Next on the list is Ben Carson speeches. Just as impactful in a different light.

    • @mattjohnson8492
      @mattjohnson8492 Před rokem

      jordan peterson is a putin owned chaos agent and a psychopath, is putin paying you or are you acting against your own interests for free because you have been brainwashed by russian reflexive control ?

    • @fahrinf
      @fahrinf Před rokem +2

      the question is is did you implement anything of what he says in your life or do you just watch him? Not trying to be rude, really, my English skills aren't great, I genuinely want to know.

    • @frequentlycynical642
      @frequentlycynical642 Před rokem +3

      @@fahrinf Your English is fine. Can't say that I specifically changed any processes in my life. More like philosophical perspectives.

    • @TheoMassiveLove
      @TheoMassiveLove Před 11 měsíci +1

      I know, right?
      Isn't he is an amazing human being?

  • @Zebra66
    @Zebra66 Před rokem +272

    Best advice I heard from Peterson is that thinking about yourself makes you depressed.
    When I get depressed now I try and think about my family and do something nice for them. When I'm alone I practice thinking about nothing, or something useful (like learning a skill).
    It makes a huge difference. I'm 100% convinced that depression (that isn't caused by a physical health problem) is created by our thoughts.
    And... we have more control over our thoughts than we think....

    • @gloriakurkowski101
      @gloriakurkowski101 Před rokem +6

      Very true. I remember a quote from somewhere that goes like this, "As you thinketh, so you are." Sounds right on point. If you're surrounded by family that constantly impacts you with negativity and neglect, your life seems to be just as you were drilled into believing it.

    • @mattjohnson8492
      @mattjohnson8492 Před rokem

      jordan peterson is a putin owned chaos agent and a psychopath, is putin paying you or are you acting against your own interests for free because you have been brainwashed by russian reflexive control ?

    • @viperstriker4728
      @viperstriker4728 Před rokem +6

      Also watch what music you listen to. If you listen to something sad ever time you start feeling depressed... that certainly wouldn't help.

    • @rosiewallace4449
      @rosiewallace4449 Před rokem +4

      Proverbs 23:7 KJV

    • @rickspalding3047
      @rickspalding3047 Před rokem

      Thinking about nothing opens door ways you don't want opened, most likely why peterson is mentally unstable

  • @Maverick_City_Music
    @Maverick_City_Music Před rokem +11

    Health, sobriety, freedom restoration. Thank you JESUS

  • @miketemple7686
    @miketemple7686 Před rokem +189

    Growing up as a teen in the 80’s, I can reflect on how much was just common sense back then. We all understood individuals had emotional strengths and weaknesses. Second Dr. Peterson gave a remarkable example of how psychologists or therapists use to work with patients to help control their mental illness. Now all these doctors do is ask specific questions in order to hop you up on the latest psychiatric drugs. All society does now is make you feel special to be a victim. So the trend is to be a victim not mentally tough.

    • @redtobertshateshandles
      @redtobertshateshandles Před rokem +6

      I talked to a great therapist. She mostly listened and also gave me a judgement I thought was unfair. But I felt better.

    • @amandawease1900
      @amandawease1900 Před rokem +5

      I totally agree! Well said!

    • @fahrinf
      @fahrinf Před rokem +9

      I think I am from totally different society than you but I still agree. Nowadays it's MERIT to be a victim. While in those days a merit was to be a strong person.

    • @jenniferliotta2108
      @jenniferliotta2108 Před 2 měsíci

      😢 sad

  • @malcolmdoyle5385
    @malcolmdoyle5385 Před rokem +127

    Having to Live with one of the worse sickness can be exhausting but I still have to believe I can be healed.

    • @malcolmdoyle5385
      @malcolmdoyle5385 Před rokem

      @Casey Muller That’s nice, I have Been diagnosed with a cancer and I will definitely need her help and would also want to know how to get in touch with her. I hope she cures other sickness also?

    • @malcolmdoyle5385
      @malcolmdoyle5385 Před rokem

      @Casey Muller Thank you a lot you are a life saver. I have found her website on the internet.

    • @elizabethy2912
      @elizabethy2912 Před rokem

      Please do not contact the occult ! God designed our bodies to heal itself. Look up Dr. Pardip Jarmandas on the Galen Foundation about fasting. Fasting is known to help people with cancer. Look it up. It's true. May God Bless, Guide, and Protect you in your healing journey.

    • @a.a.2526
      @a.a.2526 Před rokem

      @@malcolmdoyle5385 please check Dr Michael Greger’s book & Dr Colin T Campbell ( The China Study) clean your diet by moving to plant based if you havent already, watch Forks over Knifes, The last heart attack & What we Eat Matters HOPE.
      You can do it 💪💪💪 body is stronger than our mind tells us.

    • @brittany6951
      @brittany6951 Před rokem +9

      Read Psalm 103 for the true healer and way to be delivered. A sorceress is not your answer. Trust in the Lord who is not human and no man or woman can compare. He alone.

  • @emilycarrots1990
    @emilycarrots1990 Před rokem +29

    I think my depression got worst with my phone addiction and I kept rejecting my self
    I can her telling me to stop but I ignored her cries with food, sleep, staying up all night watching random crap
    And that made Me feel good for a short moment and sad for weeks
    So yeah try waking up earlier, pray, eat a good breakfast, clean ur closet first then the bed then the floor ect
    Baby steps, be gentle to yrself, join the gym and lift weight, cook Nd clean
    U will feel alive

    • @redtobertshateshandles
      @redtobertshateshandles Před rokem

      Try meditation. Just taking time to think of nothing. Depression?? It's like self torture. I'm prone to it, but now I just don't go there. I think meditation makes your thinking stronger. I'm way more relaxed in my mind.

  • @AS-pn5zl
    @AS-pn5zl Před 9 měsíci +6

    From personal experience mental health is highly connected to what we put in and on our bodies

  • @jonahcaparros
    @jonahcaparros Před rokem +79

    This is Jordan Peterson at his best. Calm, encouraging, incredibly articulate, creative, making new connections within his work. I like JP most when he is the one being interviewed. He should have Tammy on stage with him more. It’s a great dynamic and she brings out the best in JP. Overall, fantastic clip. One of his best recently.

    • @veryexciteddog963
      @veryexciteddog963 Před rokem

      no, if you wanna see him at his best look up the quote about his dream with his grandma

  • @AI-ch3if
    @AI-ch3if Před rokem +84

    Well, all I can say is I used to have a big problem with depression. I tried supplements, herbs, and psychology, but the only thing that brought me lasting relief was self deliverance in Jesus' name. In my situation, the depression was mainly a spiritual problem.

    • @georgepayne3066
      @georgepayne3066 Před rokem

      You most likely have the worship gene. Often becoming spiritual has profound positive effects on mental health and well being if you have the worship gene.

    • @dalmatiansausage6603
      @dalmatiansausage6603 Před rokem +12

      Same for me...,ps there is no such thing as a worship gene,spiritual world is real,Jesus is God i saw Him while i was unbeliever and He saved my life.

    • @aurograce2983
      @aurograce2983 Před rokem +2

      My boyfriend suffers from depression and anxiety. Once I brought him to a church service hosted by the nearby college and he walked out half way through and wanted to bang his head against a wall and he was very upset. All these people worshipping and talking about the good things God has done and he couldn't handle it because he was still in a very bad place. I was not equipped to help him and he left and a lady came and prayed with me after. Do you think this was caused by demons acting up inside him (like making him want to bang his head against a concrete wall and not being able to stand praises to God) or a physical manifestation of the deep despair of his soul in the presence of a hope he didn't have?

    • @AI-ch3if
      @AI-ch3if Před rokem

      ​@@aurograce2983 Maybe both? I can't say for sure what's going on with your boyfriend, but I worked at a prison, there were many inmates who were cutting themselves and otherwise self-harming, and I do believe this has a demonic root. In the Bible there is a story about a demoniac living in a graveyard who was cutting himself, and Jesus delivered him of Legion and then he was normal.

    • @purplehearts3287
      @purplehearts3287 Před rokem +3

      Amen. 🙏💜

  • @Golgibaby
    @Golgibaby Před rokem +85

    Timestamp: 11:36 The modeling of play, for which I am delighted it was in the context of collaboration with Tammy. Dr. Peterson actually looked "younger" at 12:04 with Tammy's honest response. Spontaneous. Honest humor, that even the audience resonated with. It was heartwarming. Bless you both for your energy and modeling wellbeing...reinforcing the valuable lecture material.

  • @noeleenjackson9605
    @noeleenjackson9605 Před rokem +16

    Jordan I love your wife being with you. She has a beautifully calming effect on you. You are both beautiful souls that I am so grateful to be able to listen to your podcasts daily. May God bless you all and keep you safe and healthy. Noeleen from South Africa 🙏🙏

  • @mariaguzman1552
    @mariaguzman1552 Před rokem +14

    I love JP and his wife. Their personalities are different , they share the same values and respect one another. I have been married 52 years, my husband and I have 180 degrees different in our personalities, we share the same Values. Family, Faith both of us come very large families. Both of our parents have been married at least 60 years. Life is complicated, but we learned to negotiate our differences. We have 3 grown children and 10 grandchildren. 💖

  • @celinenaville
    @celinenaville Před rokem +48

    Aww Jordan. I love this side of you. I think because of the chaos of the world lately we've seen more of the angered warrior, but I love seeing the wise conpassionate counselor. More, please.

  • @albatross0175
    @albatross0175 Před rokem +89

    Always look forward to my daily dose of Jordan and your wife is lovely. You too are a treasure in this chaotic world we live in.

    • @mattjohnson8492
      @mattjohnson8492 Před rokem

      jordan peterson is a putin owned chaos agent and a psychopath, is putin paying you or are you acting against your own interests for free because you have been brainwashed by russian reflexive control ?

    • @nikhiltirmare4654
      @nikhiltirmare4654 Před rokem

      I love his wife too

  • @blackdog1392
    @blackdog1392 Před rokem +73

    Dr JP: the wise, attentive, helpful, parental figure most of us never had ...

    • @jasondoolin6476
      @jasondoolin6476 Před rokem +2

      If only right?

    • @indiakhetri
      @indiakhetri Před rokem +2

      But ever so tough ….takes no prisoners

    • @blackdog1392
      @blackdog1392 Před rokem +1

      @@indiakhetri ...doesn't suffer fools or tyrants and rightly so.

    • @mattjohnson8492
      @mattjohnson8492 Před rokem

      jordan peterson is a putin owned chaos agent and a psychopath, is putin paying you or are you acting against your own interests for free because you have been brainwashed by russian reflexive control ?

    • @veryexciteddog963
      @veryexciteddog963 Před rokem

      "most of us"
      It's almost like you're assuming that the majority of his fans are fatherless... what could have lead you to that assumption?

  • @chuckchan4127
    @chuckchan4127 Před rokem +25

    You cannot have healthy mental health
    Without
    Physical health.
    Get sunlight, eat healthy, get good sleep, exercise.

    • @faithofamustardseed8198
      @faithofamustardseed8198 Před rokem +2

      Amen.
      Highly recommend reading "Nutrition and Physical Degeneration" by Weston Price.
      The members of the last remaining traditionally eating/living indigenous groups were some of the healthiest, happiest, kindest people on the planet.
      Without a healthy lifestyle, it’s difficult to maintain a healthy mind.

    • @MojoVince
      @MojoVince Před rokem +1

      This make so much sense when you look at the food and meds we are fed...
      Even the lazyness or "entertainness" of our lifes are social constructs to me, we don't want you to grow too much as a human beeing and stay a slave.
      As opposite as the kindness of Dr Peterson a big part of the world is preying on you.

    • @genesises
      @genesises Před rokem +1

      @@MojoVince literally everything is a 'social construct' depending on how you look at it. we are social animals, and "do everything" for a reward. this reward doesn't exist without comparison - comparison is only made with our fellow man. i see what you are trying to say but your perspective will just make you paranoid and bitter as you keep depriving yourself of any relaxing or joy.

  • @mariaisaten
    @mariaisaten Před rokem +13

    He so gently discusses this, I can see how he would be a great therapist. 😊

  • @guyjrtimpson-hj1xq
    @guyjrtimpson-hj1xq Před rokem +35

    Thank you Dr. Peterson. My life was extremely chaotic when i discovered you a year ago. Now i have mended many relationships that were unhinged and have a clear path going forward. Thank you for your continued work and sharing of your strategies and in particular for the spotlight on men’s mental health.

  • @msp.9780
    @msp.9780 Před rokem +25

    My big fives were tested within my psychology study and it is so amazing how much this test helped me to understand myself, my behaviour, my actions, and the extent to which I can influence that. Also, what I learned is to understand being an "open introvert". It feels like reaching out, being confident about this but then regretting whatever you did or said. The mind is a weird yet incredible place.

  • @siddharthbouddha
    @siddharthbouddha Před rokem +14

    Decisiveness, that’s how a partner completes you ❤

  • @beckh8466
    @beckh8466 Před rokem +14

    I've been seeing snippets of this interview everywhere and never realized who this woman was... Now I do. Makes this so much more beautiful.

  • @felibunni
    @felibunni Před rokem +28

    Watching this unemployed and terrified of getting a job and you made me tear up (in a good way). Thank you sir

    • @israelekundayo
      @israelekundayo Před rokem +1

      I hope you find the strength to do what you need to do.

    • @redtobertshateshandles
      @redtobertshateshandles Před rokem +1

      Do what interests you. It's what I told my three successful daughters. If it doesn't work out, then you can always get a boring job.

    • @StoneAgeWarfare
      @StoneAgeWarfare Před rokem +1

      You can always get a lowly job. I used to be like this. Then I got to working and, honestly, was not as bad as my imagination made it out to be.

    • @HamzaAli55659
      @HamzaAli55659 Před rokem

      So true i am in the same boat as you 😭😭

    • @conservativelibertarian
      @conservativelibertarian Před rokem +1

      Rend yourself to the employers! Conform to the expectation! Become a slave?

  • @obitooftheworld6761
    @obitooftheworld6761 Před rokem +9

    I believe this type of discussions/interviews are superb. Everybody asks questions via an app, a person in the middle asking those questions out. Very well put together responses, which also make people laugh at times, in a good way.

  • @stoneyascension7250
    @stoneyascension7250 Před rokem +12

    It's fantastic to see this husband & wife team.

  • @bonnymary3103
    @bonnymary3103 Před rokem +3

    What heroes are JP & Tammy. It's a privilege & joy to be alive at this time & to so freely be able to choose learning from so many wise & awesome people. JP & TP you rock🤗🕺💃.

  • @Huckleberry04
    @Huckleberry04 Před rokem +48

    I have been in the stage of learning to discipline my life and self. Learned behaviors/habits are not easy to break. I am trying to be proactive when I recognize signs but I have not mastered keeping myself out of depression. It's so comforting to stay wrapped in bed and not let people hurt you. I am also managing impulse and anger issues at the same time. I have to pull myself up and out by myself because no one but a counselor is able to help me. It's best to stay away from people so I dont hurt their feelings. People run away fast as soon as there is work to do no matter the kind of work it is

    • @conservativemovement
      @conservativemovement Před rokem +1

      🏆

    • @aaronhorak710
      @aaronhorak710 Před rokem +2

      Whatever stage you're at is right for this time in your life. If you find its time to change then realize adrenalin in your body is interpreted by your expectation and desire. If you expect and desire adventure and excitement, then a shot of adrenalin will be totally pleasant and not frightening. Your brain locks into and enhances your expectation.

    • @Huckleberry04
      @Huckleberry04 Před rokem +1

      @@aaronhorak710 I have managed at times by listening to that concept. But I cant keep following adrenaline signals because I have fight or flight responses and mostly its caused by fear and panic that are percieved but not always real. So I cant let that adrenaline concept be what motivates me. I have to learn to control that type of thing and not let it control me. Trust me, I am very frustrated with my own brain and body so others will be frustrated with me too

    • @aaronhorak710
      @aaronhorak710 Před rokem +2

      I certainly hope the best for you. Best idea I have is something I heard that if you immerse yourself in a task for others, it reduces the perception of the size of your own worries. Best of luck.

    • @Huckleberry04
      @Huckleberry04 Před rokem +1

      @@aaronhorak710 I have done that and still do. Thanks for the best of luck.

  • @infamouscha
    @infamouscha Před rokem +7

    I love how Dr.Peterson’s and his wife banter. They really do enjoy each other’s presence.

  • @ibrahimsaheed1249
    @ibrahimsaheed1249 Před 8 měsíci +17

    00:00 Mental health is determined by genetic factors and personality traits.
    02:50 Tattooing and piercing are associated with creativity, not psychopathology.
    05:12 Creative achievement is rare and most people score zero in 13 different domains.
    07:42 You can shift people's habitual traits quite a lot
    09:53 Overcoming obstacles towards a goal through a routine.
    11:52 Assisting people in calming down and reducing anxiety while performing work tasks
    14:13 Order your surroundings to reduce anxiety
    16:28 Put order in place of chaos to improve physical and emotional wellbeing

    • @angrypidgeon1714
      @angrypidgeon1714 Před 4 měsíci

      tattoos are a sign of an identity crysis, a major psychosis. If I see a tattoo on a person, I distance myself as much as possible from that idiot

  • @stephenadonis3953
    @stephenadonis3953 Před rokem +12

    This woman is so beautiful. This is the man the world wanna stand against.
    He hasn't done anything to anybody
    He taught common sense and things sensible people should agree too

  • @terrormilk384
    @terrormilk384 Před rokem +13

    0:48 a man needs a women, and a women needs a man and this is displayed so beautifully here, you know i need someone to play my second pair of eyes watching me if id left my jacket or keys behind walking out of the restaurant because im just so scattered and all around the place mentally, and ive always thought of this second pair of eyes as of true love, not in order to use that other person, but in order to fall into symbiosis

    • @genesises
      @genesises Před rokem

      sounds like a caretaker to me XD but i get what you mean

    • @terrormilk384
      @terrormilk384 Před rokem +1

      @@genesises i wont even argue against that bro im in absolute need of someone to look after me in some ways but of course im the first person in charge of that, its just some stuff where i have observed men becoming better in their ways by having the voice and ears of a womens highly attentive brain around them, but dont be fooled this absolutely goes both ways, that symbiosis ive menotioned can also be just described as teamwork

  • @angieeissa8679
    @angieeissa8679 Před rokem +8

    Prof. JBP's tender voice tone, honesty and brilliant analysis are my tranquilliser ...
    His opinions validate my life experience and keep me motivated.

  • @corrie977
    @corrie977 Před rokem +6

    This short video has been more helpful to me than months of traditional therapy.
    Thankyou Dr. Peterson.

  • @albertrodriguez1923
    @albertrodriguez1923 Před rokem +3

    We saw Dr. Peterson a couple of months ago in Florida and my life has changed for the positive ever since. I highly recommend going to see him. Thanks for all you do Doc.

  • @inevolution1
    @inevolution1 Před rokem +2

    Thank you..! You have helped so many like me become more self aware and by that more honest and by that a better human being.. thank you wisest man on the planet today🙏

  • @kajsilee
    @kajsilee Před rokem +1

    Big Thanks from central Europe ! You are saving lives world wide.

  • @pedrogil7803
    @pedrogil7803 Před rokem +3

    I truly am in awe of his gravitas, such a fascinating and pragmatic individual

  • @sharonpritchettrichards2426

    How darling, to have your wife interview you like that. What an incredibly gentle woman she seems to be!

  • @marnieoloughlin9366
    @marnieoloughlin9366 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for your wisdom and delivery! It's your delivery that makes the difference! There's always compassion in your voice no matter what you're speaking about there is compassion there. ...even if its just compassion for us to hear what we don't know. I can't explain it...your tone is passionate & decisive like you are excited and determined to school us. You put yourself in the individual....it's priceless & Gemini style!!❤

  • @christopherw6309
    @christopherw6309 Před rokem +12

    Yes, thank you Jordan, for what you do! We all need some work!

  • @gypsysoul4994
    @gypsysoul4994 Před rokem

    Thank you! Awe, Ms Peterson is a sweetie!! I cannot wait to meet JP in May! 🎉

  • @Marciethelegendary8
    @Marciethelegendary8 Před rokem +10

    I'm just so overwhelmed with gratitude and love for this man. He is the very antithesis of condemnation. He has the ability to see a pinprick of light in a human soul where others might only see darkness.

  • @Winston_P
    @Winston_P Před 6 měsíci

    The whispering exchange with your wife was heartwarming. This made my whole day. I'm smiling now.

  • @chuglyc
    @chuglyc Před rokem +3

    Fantastic advice. I can’t find anything negative in his messages. He seems so deeply concerned about helping people make improvements in their lives.

  • @Scaredycat55
    @Scaredycat55 Před rokem +1

    What a great Teacher, very refreshing and rewarding to discover your program on YT. Really able to sort out a lot of the static Interference that manifests while battling severe chronic pain, ptsd, depression. You have such a great grasp on the mind and how to reshape it to save the Person. Thank you so very much Prof. Jordan Peterson and God Bless

  • @SecretMind2000
    @SecretMind2000 Před 6 měsíci

    I appreciate the positivity in your content. It's vital to create a supportive environment for those struggling with mental health issues. Keep up the fantastic work! 🌟

  • @shoutatthesky
    @shoutatthesky Před 7 měsíci

    What a great talk! And so uplifting to see how JP and his wife interact.
    I love these complete talks. There are so many JP videos that are poorly edited together snippets from multiple videos. Half of them completely butcher what he is trying to say.

  • @maryhill813
    @maryhill813 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hi everyone. I was diagnosed with bipolar 1 and I had psychosis. I was in and out the hospital 5-6 times in one month. I don't do drugs and I was never diagnosed with any mental health issues as a kid until recently. I was never depress or anything. I've learned a lot through my mental health journey. It took me almost a full year to recover mentally. I have not been taking any medications for a couple months. I would like to help anybody that wants my help because I believe that anybody can fully recover without medication. I was hearing voices in my head, seeing things that weren't there, and going through manic depression but I am fully recover.

  • @imagineLife333
    @imagineLife333 Před 8 měsíci

    Dr. Peterson I gave a book to your wife Tammy for you and your family, I want to tell you I've been following you for 5 years and have applied the 12 rules and many other lessons you've taught in your lectures and your lessons have not only transformed my life but helped me get my footing during tragic moments that would have otherwise taken me out. You are the professor I've always hoped for and sought and I feel grateful to be alive during a time where you are a live and teaching us. Im so grateful for you and I pray for you Mrs. Tammy your daughter and son and your whole family. 🙏❤ Please keep championi g truth and those high values you teach. We are in a strange time in society in the world right now, and you demonstrate what I've always known which is that one persons reach and goodness can reach so deep so high so wide. Please never give up we support you! I will co tinue going to your lectures to financially support your endeavors because I know how deeply transformative for the Good your work has been in my life and in the life of so many. Also I know that your current battles require the funds to fight them. And I support you 100 percent! Keep fighting the good fight! Your unofficial student from Miami

  • @melissabell8961
    @melissabell8961 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for your service an understanding of complex issues in a pallatable way. You are a great story teller. So refreshing. Blessings to you and yours.

    • @mattjohnson8492
      @mattjohnson8492 Před rokem

      jordan peterson is a putin owned chaos agent and a psychopath, is putin paying you or are you acting against your own interests for free because you have been brainwashed by russian reflexive control ?

  • @hardpathpoet2859
    @hardpathpoet2859 Před rokem +25

    The big five test helped me understand that in almost every personality dimension, I am naturally at the extremes. Understanding this has brought me to seek more balance that has done wonders for my mental health, despite struggling with overcompensation in that process. I'm exceptionally high in openess and exceptionally low in consciousness, I'm in the process of developing balance and and more aware of my tendency to overcompensate and I'm successfully avoiding overcompensation. I'm naturally exceptionally agreeable, and learned very well to stand up for myself, but I overcompensated very much in that process, but have overcome that and I am now much more balanced in that regard. I'm exceptionally high in nueroticism, and learned to not take myself too seriously in order to be more vulnerable to joy, but again I overcompensated and had to overcome that overcompensation in order to take myself seriously enough to move ahead in life. Extraversion is the only dimension that has always been balanced for me, except that the extremes in other dimensions have caused challenges in socialization and not always allowed me to express my extraversion in a healthy way. So yeah, personality has a huge impact on mental health.

    • @redtobertshateshandles
      @redtobertshateshandles Před rokem

      Try meditation. It works for me.

    • @mattjohnson8492
      @mattjohnson8492 Před rokem

      jordan peterson is a putin owned chaos agent and a psychopath, is putin paying you or are you acting against your own interests for free because you have been brainwashed by russian reflexive control ?

    • @brockbaumgartner8203
      @brockbaumgartner8203 Před rokem +1

      That's awesome you've been working at and improving your self. Good luck on your journey

    • @francescomeola
      @francescomeola Před 7 měsíci

      What do you recommend reading from JP? I want to have the same level of understanding of my traits.

  • @Portlandpeeps
    @Portlandpeeps Před rokem +1

    Your the father like voice in my head, you answer the questions IV been struggling to know what is the path of least resistance on a moral level socially in today's world with 3 kids to teach. Thank you so much

  • @ghassenelloumi3086
    @ghassenelloumi3086 Před rokem

    I learned from watching this and I very much enjoyed it. Thank you mister Jordan you're my favourite mentor ❤ already read your books and spent hundreds of hours watching you speak on CZcams and yet you never run out of things to teach me. Man you're incredible.

  • @kennygold217
    @kennygold217 Před rokem +4

    I noticed when I further myself away from discipline I noticed on how dark my mind takes me and that's because I have been away from my discipline in my mind thinks it can mess with me cuz I'm really not strong yet but with the wisdom from this man I think I can win this battle

  • @jonathanbonde8808
    @jonathanbonde8808 Před rokem +30

    Love you Dr. Peterson. So grateful to God for putting you here to educate and help us along on our journey.

    • @mattjohnson8492
      @mattjohnson8492 Před rokem

      jordan peterson is a putin owned chaos agent and a psychopath, is putin paying you or are you acting against your own interests for free because you have been brainwashed by russian reflexive control ?

    • @butterfly-ln6rr
      @butterfly-ln6rr Před rokem

      Agree Jonathon Bonde! Godsent! Dr Peterson has emotional and spiritual intelligence God is surely using this man to make truth known

  • @phoenyxrose3731
    @phoenyxrose3731 Před 2 měsíci

    Something about his voice that allows you to be able to listen to him for ages ☺️ definitely helps that he's so chill and has a sense of humour 👌🏼

  • @imranbutt9630
    @imranbutt9630 Před rokem

    This is my first full one and i am really glad to be here.

  • @belgianshepherddog5047
    @belgianshepherddog5047 Před rokem +1

    Absolutely excellent. Best I've seen this year! Thank you for sharing/uploading. :)

    • @balar376
      @balar376 Před 7 měsíci

      visit our website for mental health counseling :: lifesolutionhub.com/

  • @JuanMTossi
    @JuanMTossi Před rokem +8

    The CV part almost had me in tears, Jordan. I'm in entertainment, sort of, and it really hits hard. Sometimes it gets just too much. Thank you for this.

  • @nicolaulucala
    @nicolaulucala Před rokem +2

    His capacity of dissecting quit obvious subjects is outstanding.

  • @Romeolives619
    @Romeolives619 Před rokem +1

    Thank you, I know I'm just screaming at the wind but then you for helping me understand myself a little bit better.

  • @ChristopherMiles.
    @ChristopherMiles. Před rokem +6

    Love you bro. Thank you for your wisdom

  • @jamiedunning9650
    @jamiedunning9650 Před 4 měsíci

    I have taken on Jordans advice over the last 18 months and l have found that my life has changed for the better! Thankyou Jordan for your wise words,God bless you and your family 🙏❤️,from Jimmy ,Nowra,N,S,W,Australia😅 Australia Australia

  • @breatheinlife
    @breatheinlife Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you Dr Peterson How wonderful and open you are to sharing valuable information otherwise afforded by a few

  • @donduckensen441
    @donduckensen441 Před rokem +1

    Dr JP reminds me to try to be a better person then I was yesterday . Ty

  • @debbiewood3819
    @debbiewood3819 Před rokem

    Beautiful!...chaotic room/ house, makes me anxious....organize, habitable order, recreation of my original Eden...
    I love Dr Peterson's UTube's...thank you Tammy for being his wife, for your abilities. Your Faith...thank you, both...

  • @joeykostyk8765
    @joeykostyk8765 Před rokem +5

    Very well put together perspective. It has helped me greatly. Thanks for giving your logical perspective on tattooing and creativity as well. It would be an honor to hear more on your experiences with the tattooed. It's always been weird to even think that I'm a tattooed person and how many tattoos I have. I'm only a human that loves to collect art so dearly that I'll try to take it to the grave with me. Cheers, bud!

  • @carolbutler4512
    @carolbutler4512 Před 7 měsíci +1

    He is truly blessed with spiritual knowledge and understanding like none other in these times I'm truly grateful for him❤

  • @user-xy8bd9ff5x
    @user-xy8bd9ff5x Před 8 měsíci

    Having a lot of mental problems is very much a obstacle to suffer with this every day. But in my opinion everyone has something going on in their life. But we all manage in our own ways. What is the greatest advice to see your problems with yourself and sit down and check yourself. These are wonderful things to help. This man has such a influence in my life to listen to Jordan on a daily basis. Ty for letting us see what we are short on and for us to try to become a better person every day

  • @carolineprenoveau7655
    @carolineprenoveau7655 Před rokem +10

    I'm very low in conscientiousness and I can relate to that joke! XD
    Though, instead of low conscientiousness, I prefer to think I have high chaos tolerance, which is what I believe low conscientiousness really is. I noticed it many times. When the office gets disorganized, when the unexpected happens and people are thrown out of their comfort zone, when it's time to improvise to get us out of deep sh*t, I virtually always emerge as a leader. I was like that even when I had no experience whatsoever, so it's not experience. I wonder if you think there's an element of truth to that idea.

    • @SonamSangpo
      @SonamSangpo Před rokem

      your comment reminds me of the meaning behind the film melancholia, except in the film the reference point is depression

  • @dustinhughey2313
    @dustinhughey2313 Před rokem +1

    There are seemingly endless observations to be made about Dr. Peterson. I suppose the direction we take of him within our own conceptualization can potentially be described as idiosyncratic.
    As for my observation of this communication, I always find it refreshing that despite his knowledge of the subject matter coupled with his “success” (and I say that respectfully), he is willing to start from the beginning of the suffering, or pain of others.
    That is critical. He establishes how we can move beyond what he considers nontrivial circumstances, and expounds on how working on the solutions necessary to overcome them are limitless.
    His approach seems to me as all encompassing for not only myself, but a worthy reference for others I know who could use his form of understanding as a platform for personal development.
    Thank you Dr. Peterson.

  • @fabricegorgeon5325
    @fabricegorgeon5325 Před rokem +1

    Thanx once more to Jordan Peterson to give us ways to better our patience to deal with the promises in control loss of random magnitude offered by our world, and therefore tools to get involved (or to withdraw, if we feel our implementations are toxic) in the societal change it is seeing.

  • @KingdomMessenger35
    @KingdomMessenger35 Před rokem +6

    Jordan! There is different about you, It's in your voice,in your comment and your disposition,it appears that perhaps you are truly at peace with yourself, It's really nice to see...

  • @christopherj.sernaquencpt

    The opening description of the Big 5 was fascinating. 0:00 to around 3:00.

  • @donness7295
    @donness7295 Před rokem

    Dr. Peterson, I've noticed on several occasions the "thumbs up icon" or "like icon" is not accounting for my "likes!" I had this happen with other personalities, Joe Rogan for one!
    I thoroughly enjoy your work, so thank you very much for everything! Take care!

  • @gamingduo7045
    @gamingduo7045 Před 2 měsíci

    Dear Jordan thank you so much for being in this life🙏🙏🙏🙏 changed my life

  • @lcox6468
    @lcox6468 Před rokem

    Jordan is a blessing….. please listen it is about self respect, respecting other and having self discipline.Amen. ( I am not religious).

  • @laurensouthgate2458
    @laurensouthgate2458 Před rokem +1

    Ienjoyed this and i really hope to see more.

  • @arturoferreira4439
    @arturoferreira4439 Před 9 měsíci

    I go through social anxiety most time and its true what he said we worry more in imagination than in reality. My mind is playing games on me. Ive been on a journey to break through

  • @MissAmberlee1
    @MissAmberlee1 Před rokem +1

    Makes sense of everything I cannot express coherently.

  • @snowman4098
    @snowman4098 Před rokem

    What a human ! You're welcome
    Dr. J !
    Thank you, Tim

  • @Josestrangerjay
    @Josestrangerjay Před rokem

    This person changed my life. Thank god for him.

  • @rkl3692
    @rkl3692 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much JP for making me put a name on my behaviour... neuroticism. When I first learnt to turn on the computer, I was like gosh, that's enough for today. Still fighting the dragon. Hope to be okay one day.🙏

  • @user-dw9qg3lm6u
    @user-dw9qg3lm6u Před 4 měsíci

    Iv watched a lot of Jordan Peterson videos and this was prolly one of my favorite

  • @ItinerarySweat
    @ItinerarySweat Před rokem +1

    Amazing work God Bless you

  • @cynthia-jo1zz
    @cynthia-jo1zz Před 6 měsíci

    Started listening to jordan Peterson beginning last year. All my trauma was exposed( not easy to seat and listen to him as he will only expose those parts of yourself you buried, they will come out screaming no running away from them) it took me prayer and deliverance to become normal again.

  • @gofaonepaul
    @gofaonepaul Před rokem

    Thanks again for the words of wisdom, Dr Peterson. You mentioned that organising our rooms is like recreating the lost garden of Eden. Afterwards, you contextualised the remark by saying you are speaking metaphysically. I can't wrap my head around why that act or the referenced story/idea describes something metaphysical rather than just being a statement on ethics. I thought the closest we are to metaphysics is physics.

  • @rogfusionkid
    @rogfusionkid Před 10 měsíci

    I love this guy, we need more people like JBP helping us all to have better lives. I'm not sure if he's right about everything, but it makes sense to me & I'm trying to do some of these things. I need to pull myself out of my own personal hell & I have to do it by myself because I know I'm the only person that cares.

  • @seekthetruth824
    @seekthetruth824 Před 11 měsíci +1

    J.p. helps you beleive in your ability to do the right stuff and that your life will be better if you carry it out. Love u jordan

  • @DJC3PO
    @DJC3PO Před rokem +4

    When he was saying that creative people will have those traits and the audience laughed.. his "I did a study" right afterward was priceless.. because you just know that tone is: "well shit, they think I am joking. I am going to have to drop this truth bomb now".

  • @realnaveen
    @realnaveen Před rokem +1

    Practical application in reverse also helps to experience personalities.
    Social chaos is projections of personalities.

  • @mariettestabel275
    @mariettestabel275 Před rokem +6

    How to escape from a sick society?
    Stay close to yourself. Protect yourself. Think for yourself.

  • @ninabambinabambina2304
    @ninabambinabambina2304 Před rokem +2

    I was watching a video by Marissa Peer on You Tube. She interviewed a list of celebrities & the one common trait or characteristic they all had was their complete & utter faith & belief that they would make it & they did.

  • @joemulligan7153
    @joemulligan7153 Před rokem +5

    This is a concrete pathway for getting out of a rut. I find I put to much weight on shopping around for answers especially waiting on a solution from an authority type. This is way better and who cares if I don't get a real time "ata boy" that likely isn't coming . It's good to have a trusted friend though. Thank you, and I mean that.