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Game of Thrones - Why Tyrion Can't Be Killed
Tyrion Lannister has a knack for staying alive. He is constantly getting into trouble and talking his way out. But Tyrion's genius is replicable if you learn how he thinks. And one of the first thing he thinks of is what other people want. That is how he manages to continue through season after season in Game of Thrones.
We cover 3 ways to figure out what people want by examining how Tyrion Lannister survives through Game of Thrones:
1. Cold reading - watch how Tyrion cold reads Bronn . Contrast that with Lommy, who never even attempts to cold read Polliver before he kills him
2. Listening - Tyrion listens very carefully to what people say. When the pirates take him hostage and mention they will sell his "manhood" to the cock merchant, he comes up with a clever reason for them to keep him alive. Cersei provides a foil to this in how she behaves with Joffrey.
3. Asking people for their stories - Tyrion asks the members of the Night's Watch for their stories, learning about Grenn and Pip. Jon Snow, on the other hand, just assumes that they hate him because he is better.
If you put those 3 things into place you might not win The Game of Thrones, but you can still display some of Tyrion's genius.
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"What the fuck is a Lommy?" - Sandor "the Hound" Clegane.
Give that man a Chicken
He wants all the fucking chicken in the room
*what the fuck's a Lommy*
+Jolly Roger I'm gonna have to eat every chicken in this place
Lommy got killed by Meryn fucking trant?
He protecc
He atacc
Be most importantly
He demand a trial by combat
so tired of seeing this everywhere... srsly dude get a new one
This is actually the best version of this joke
He protecc
He atacc
But most importantly
She got bodied from the back
Shae*
He protecc
He attacc
But most importantly
He has a wolf pack
-John snow
Don’t be a Lommy
The Hound: “What the fuck’s a lommy?”
RIP Sandor
The Mountain: "Some dead man!"
RIP
The Hound was one of my favorite characters.
2:12 I encountered this comment right as it was playing
Moral of the story: As soon as someone says “Tell me about yourself,” run away. Gotcha.
😂😂😂
Hmm that’s a very good point bro
Btw, what do you *want* ?
I'd be like "erm, i eat cheese..."
true
@@erissablackthorn9444 Have you ever tried french premium cheese? Marvelous. I am friends with an owner of the best cheese shop in town, i bet he could recommend you the perfect cheese for your taste my friend.
In Game Of Thrones, you either get Littlefingered or Tyrioned
Sofia Newman
hahaahhaha... did you mean that to sound dirty? 😂
eh , maybe
saemus hailstorm
what u mean maybe??
Littlefingered haahahha
Or Varysized....atleast I tried :(
Q: "Why should I give you this job?"
Wrong Answer: "I need a good job."
Correct Answer : "My skills and experience will make your company more profitable."
Correct answer: I'm a very humble guy who won't complain if you take credit for my work.
@@junoguten that's the Baelish answer
@@shredforceone Which means it's a good one, right?
@@junoguten I don't think it will work cause you will be insulting or intimidating the one who is hiring you not a good Idea
@@Jessie_Helms you used sales skills to influence other people who do sales
nice
Besides Tywin and Lady Olenna, Tyrion is the most consistently superior "player" in Game of Thrones. Plus he has empathy, and oddly enough, is loyal.
Varys and Baelish?
Tywin, Olenna, Tyrion, Baelish, and Varys... masters. These are the best characters on the show and only 2 remain.... in favor of a boring cliche hero in Jon Snow
Alejandro Bello YEP 👍🏽! Most of the gd guys don’t have that intelligent sharp, witty, articulate, humorous personality.. it had to be Tyrion, one from amongst the Lannister. Kind, caring & ballsy..
You forgot about varys... He's just as a good player as tyrion and tywin and little finger
Tywin is not smart enough to up there with others ... , especially when compare with sombody going from nothing like Varys and Baelish .. He is lucky enough to born as a boy in a great House , and have brutal and ambitious to become a great leader ...
Tyrion is a perfect example of someone who NEVER forgets the purpose of his interactions with others. Add to this his excellent speaking ability and it’s no surprise that so often he’s able to escape tricky situations.
With many characters in GoT being complete slaves to their emotions, Tyrion almost always keeps calm and remembers what’s really important.
I want ALL of the Tyrion Framegames.
If you did a 30 part series, I would watch it all, multiple times.
+Daniel Taber Completely agree!
Agreed
Same
me too
Here Here!
More Game of Thrones. More Tyrion. Maybe even other characters.
Agree
+Marat ever seen a show called "The 100" ?
it is survival based kind of like Game of Thrones, but is more of a sci-fi and it displays different power dynamics. i think it would be a great show for this channel to breakdown the art of influence :)
Experimental 2. I've seen it and I am a fan. But sometimes I think some characters and storylines are not consistent though.
Marat it would be interesting to see how murphy uses his influence tactics. he always seems to get out of a rut; similar to tyrion
+Marat Yea maybe Petyr 'Littlefinger' Baelish!!
About Lommy, you don't say enough for what he's doing!
1st mistake, when he was yelling for help, he didn't say please.
2nd mistake. When he was asked, Is something wrong with your leg boy? He answered. LOOK AT IT. He was RUDE!
instead of saying something like, I got injured with an arrow and I can't walk. And
3rd mistake, When he was asked, can't you walk? He answered. START CARRY ME.
HE GAVE A COMMAND! Instead of saying, if you take care of me, I will be in your debt.
You give FIRST, then you ask!
@Yer Blues A cripple with a hole on the neck
Backup for if money does not work: I am connected in the next town over. All I ask is to be taken there. Food, women, gold. I'll pay whatever you desire. (Sure, it may be a bluff. But that bluff buys you at least a few more minutes of life. Plus if you come across the right opportunity you can make an escape later.)
4th The ones he asked for help where murderers. Better pass as corpse instead.
Yep, Lommy used to be an adventurerer, until he took an arrow to the knee.
When i went to prison the reason i wasnt really bothered by anyone were 5 little words. Please, thank you, and excuse me. Manners will get you places
Tyrion lannister became my favourite since first season when Jon snow asked him "why do you read so much?" and he replied " a sword needs a whetstone if it is to keep its adge.. So does a mind needs books".
Often in the show he is shown to study books which I have rarely seen other characters do.
So since that season I knew this little one is going to last till the end whatever that may be.
Also he is the only one from the aristocracy to have visited the wall out of sheer curiosity.
Vesper Vesper you are right he lived! Out lived many even Vrys
He was my absolute favourite character also
Proving the tongue and the pen can be mightier than a sword.
He would have outlived all these principal characters who are ruled by their emotions, base desires, and pride/aggression. Smarts for the win. Such an actor, such a voice. The best protagonist of ancient middle earth or something.
Tyrion was a whole study project for me,, I literally rewatched the goddamn series with a notebook
What the fuck's a Lommy?
He was my friend
ahahaha
He's a kid who stupidly died
"needle, of course you named your sword"
"lot's of people name their swords"
"lot's of cunts"
Tyrion is probably the main reason i watch GOT. He's the only one i find to be the smartest.
°That well may be true but he can be wrong as well, as this season shows.
Yes, he can, but i like the fact that he can get what he wants, and not kill anybody. That's why i like him. He's smart. Anybody else in similar situations that Tyrion has been whould've been killed a long time ago. Tyrion is like Gold, he doesn't rust. He finds out what other people want and uses that to his advantage. Right or wrong, he knows how to play the GAME OF THRONES.
For me, Littlefinger and the Spider are ahead of him in terms of intelligence.
They probably are more intelligent, however, Tyrion always finds his way out of impossible situations, that's why i like him. Not saying he's the most intelligent, but he is smart as all get out... :) Littlefinger scares me. I think he's up to no good. The Spider, LOL Nuff said.. He is pure genius.
I personally love Littlefinger just the way he is. I agree with you about Tyrion, but there were some situations he had more luck than intellect to find a way out.
*Why Tyrion Can’t Be Killed*
Me: Because he’s played by Peter Dinklage
Rule number 1. PAY ATTENTION.
Rule number 2: Know the players in the game.
Rule number 3: Be prepared.
I heard the last phrase with Scar's voice. Disney has ruined me.
@The Pshycho Path DnD didn't know what they were doing without the books and GRRM as a guideline. Their curse is that they streamline everything without breathing space and lack of originality.
Be polite
Be efficient
Be prepared to kill everyone you meet
Rule number 1: you gotta be quick
Rule number 2: don't fall down
and rule number 3: whatever you do, DON'T LOOK BACK
Yea, I wouldn't want to meet Tyrion. Not because he's powerful, a midget, and very witty with really, really great looking hair. It's because he could motivate me to buy literal horse shit from him and I would be grateful for the sale. No thanks.
ErwinSchrodinger64 me too
I don't know, I think he would make for a great drinking buddy as long as you do him no wrong. He doesn't seem the kind of guy to fuck with people as long as people don't try fuck with him in the first place.
I was married to Tyrion. Only she was a woman, 5'9", and Korean.
So true!
"Silver tongue"
i think he cant die because if he died no one would watch GOT
Griff Unknown yes they would of course they would, Robbs death actually brought in more views, if tyrion dies it would do the same, killing the popular characters is a good thing not a baf thing!!
but Tyrion, I just don't want him dead
We'd riot!
season 8
@@somethingsomething5571 Count us as 2 😊
There's a video here on CZcams of an interview with a psychopath, "A Psychopath Describes His Behaviour
", and the phrase that stuck with me the most from that interview was "the best way to fool people is to help them".
Tyrion knows this very well and that's why he's my favorite character in Game Of Thrones.
Link that video.
Tyrion definitely isn't a psychopath. If he is, he is a very calm, and kind one
@@mattl6492 all psychopaths are.
@@archenforever7264 not quite. All psychopaths are calm most of the time.
Most psychopaths are mostly kind because it's in their interest to be part of the social group.
I have seen psychopaths be rattled and angry and it's not pretty.
I have also seen what low functioning, self gratifying psychopaths can do and that's appalling.
Link it
Tyrion to drogon:what do you want?
Drogon: yes
you! *chomp*
Very well said drogon
i cannot get enough o tyrion so go ahead and make more
:O
I know, same here.
+curaxu Curaxu I'm a fan! Hi!
Owen Bollard hello fan!
+Cubic Complex Woah what are you guys doing here! :D
I love Tyrion for one reason.
He proves something I've always said. "Knowledge IS NOT Power... only the APPLICATION of Knowledge is Power."
Knowledge is merely a tool... and better to have a tool than not... but a Hammer sitting unused on a desk doesn't build a house. You have to APPLY that tool.
Tyrion applies his constantly gained Knowledge.
Just like Littlefinger, he applies it when the time is right an episode about him Varys and Tywin would be amazing.
+Sannie I second that one too!
Bradley Kell During a brief flirtation with Business Studies, we looked at the Information Society, and a theorist argued for a hierarchy with data at the bottom, then information, then knowledge, and at the top is wisdom. I think Tyrion has this model down pat, because he is never content to assume anything and his drinking allows others who don't know him well enough to underestimate his intellectual and emotional intelligence.
“Don’t be like lommy”
-Charisma on command
Wtf’s a Lommy 😐
No one:
The Hound: What the fak is a *Lommy!!*
Every time he says in the video "don't be like Lommy" I hear in the hounds voice "What the Fuck's a Lommy"
It's a type of noodle with thick sauce and best eaten with soy sauce.
@@yehudiel4588 SOOOOOOOY SAUUCE
I'm about as stupid as the jailor.
You can construct better sentences than him... that's a start
Jon Snow [Targaryen] [DAKINGINDANORF]
Lowkey *sentence* pun. Love it.
your name is date mike but your profile picture is prison mike
The worst part about prison was the dementors
I like you because of the legend in your profile picture
Yeah but another important thing is that Tyrion is a Lannister so people generally believe him when he says he'll give them money. I can't just walk around town saying I will give money to everyone I want to manipulate.
MsWrongPerson well if you watch seasons 5 and higher you would know he doesnt rely on thay
MsWrongPerson You're sort of missing the point here. The fact that Tyrion is a Lanister and that so many people know it is only an added bonus. The real trick is knowing what people want an what is within your power to give it to them. Take for instance, you're a bout to get mugged. In that instance, it quite obvious that the mugger wants your money, and could possibly take your life for it. What you should consider is why the person wants that money. It could be for food, drugs, anything. Imagine you don't have that money, and in his volatile state the mugger might harm you or worse out of anger, fear or frustration. Consider what you do have to give him whose loss may or may not be of consequence to you, but will achieve a similar goal for him. ( Like for instance, a snack or something which might not have been planning to eat, and was looking for a way to dispense of).
Lmao! Exactly! & a Lannister always pay their debts! 😩🤣
MsWrongPerson Exactly! I have no gold and my father isn't renowned
It's about using your tools and strengths. Everyone has different things, you just have to learn how to use them.
He's my favorite character, smart, cunning, genuinely a good person and uses underhanded tactics only when needed
I admire his cunning and intelligence, but Arya will always be my favorite, I have a soft spot for anti-heroes and adorable mass murderers.
After Arya Stark.... Yes
0:05 You're right. And when you reminded me of this, you reminded me that the reason why he's the most devastating of players is because he doesn't hold power, so he never makes himself a target, instead he convinces the people with power that they want the same thing. He is a persuasive GENIUS. And it's the reason why he's the most interesting character. His "crippled" and "lesser" form make everyone think he has no power, and the fact that he's always in positions where he has none basically makes this a running theme. But because they lower their guard toward him, they lower their guard toward words because they expect violence, he's able to convince them much easier toward his own point. Like you said in another video, their frame is violence, his is a third option, usually "I go, I leave you alone, and you'll get something out of it too".
loved the video!
although the title of this video had already killed tyrion, because r.r.martin just watched this and accepted the challenge.
+Kalihman “ThEitan” Eitan I sincerely hope not! I think Tyrion is safe until at least book 7
Charisma on Command Me too, he's a favorite of mine, and you do a great analysis of his charecter! ;)
+Charisma on Command so he's safe until 2045 at the least.
+Kalihman “ThEitan” Eitan Iirc correctly rr martin has talked about not having a computer connected to the internet, so as long as people don't directly tell him Tyrion should be fine.
+Charisma on Command Well then he is safe forever. That prick R.R Martin is taking the piss with his constant delays with each instalment.
MOAR!!!
I can give you gold!
+OlRustyEye Lots and lots of gold!
I guess I should really say I can give you likes, because that would be more applicable to you.
+OlRustyEye women? wine? ...boys?
+OlRustyEye Be sure to appeal on many fronts and give them choice of what they want ;) But I totally agree with you MORE!!
+OlRustyEye MOAR!
Please more Tyrion breakdowns...
It's way more interesting than watching season 8.
Andre Emanuel trueeee
Andre Emanuel but yet again everything is more interesting than season 8 xd
Agreed
It's been 30 years since I finished a 12-year stint as a US Army interrogator/linguist/humint collection, primarily in S Korea. This young man's observations and strategies have been very impressive so far.
Since it's been so long and as I start to write more fiction, these summarized keys on how to "communicate" with other people are priceless reminders along with maybe a new idea or two. I use communication in quotes because I believe the word encompasses so much more than tone, body language, syntax, and other readily acknowledged nuances. Communication strategies that are portrayed so well here are an underappreciated art/aesthetic. Did I use "aesthetic" right? I don't think so.
Figuring out what motivates others, applying appropriated incentive in that direction to align with your goals will always be a winning strategy--that doesn't always win. lol, nothing does
Thanks again, good stuff
So ESL Arabs get the content & context comparison...coming from a grunt & groan perspective is quite perplexing...does that sound the same while water boarding too... gargled speech always befuddled me...what did you say honey? Okay I gotta go the higher ups calling me to duty...yes I took the red pill today!
Perhaps you should make a video or at least finish the book you started here.
Hey Dave. Rarely do I meet another 97e. Small community. Small world. In enlisted in 06. Been in since then. Was also I South Korea. Amazing assignment. Hope you are doing well.
@@robertschwartz2915 never in my life have I been this bamboozled trying to understand the content of your words, did the old lady eat a fish, perhaps but who is to say if she hadn't keep in mind our dear leader sir Jones Kim the third may she rest in piss.
@@sire1169 sire " what do you want?"
But what does Hodor want?
+Gary Stump Sr. Hodor
HODOR
HHHHHOOOOOOODDDDDDOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRR!
Tyrion revealed he studied his halfwit cousin to discover what his reason was for crushing beetles. Tyrion knew what he wanted, to crush beetles... But he wanted to know why. If you study hodor you can figure out one of his biggest desires is simply to be safe. With his size you can wonder why... And I don't know the real answer and without him having the ability to talk we may never know. But I suspect this is subject to change if bran takes control of him more often in future seasons. He saw that he killed a man already. This type of thing can lead to him feeling more secure and probably lead him to finding a different desire.
Tyrion would have no interest in hodor most likely. He's just scared and wants to be protected. But if he did decide to find out more about him he'd probably start by asking hodor simple questions and looking at his facial expressions for answers. He'd attempt to find out who hodor has known the longest and then ask them about hodors story
+Shane Dobson Hodor hodor hodor?
"Anyone can be killed."
- Arya Stark to Tywin Lannister
Then she can't be killed. Cause she's no one
I never liked Arya Stark character most BS character on the show!
"Tyrion is a genius"
This didn't age well...
Philip Bellingham the show didn’t age well , I think
Tyrion is a genius the season 8 show writers are morons
@wearealltubes are you being serious? Or sarcastic. I can't tell. And I'm concerned.
@wearealltubes well said
Nope forget season 8...he stopped being smart after he became hand of Queen of khalessi
To be fair, it's easy to play the 'I'll give you what you want' card, when you're part of the ruling & richest family in the world and literally have all the things most people want.
On a side note, Tyrion always was and still is my favourite character in this show. Even despite the writers butchering his character, along with everything else in the last seasons.
Agree but i think the writers butchered everyone’s ending lol 😂. From amazing series and to “this is my favourite” to what the f*** and sh**😅 after the last season.
You should make a video on Littliefinger (Petyr Baelish) he seems like a genius that knows what he is doing aswell :)
that would be awesome
Yes littlefinger the most trusty guy in the world. Especially if your a Stark then it would work out perfectly for you.
sort of sad how GoT shows that to be truly powerfull and get through to people you have to manipulate. Tyrion atleast seems to have some morale
but that's how real life works... sadly? yes, but still true
but has the OP says, you can do it in a perfectly honest way, so i guess it's not that bad
What do you want? Tell me...
For you too stfu
Hash
i want my dog and I to be immortal and I want to have my very own warp drive equipped spaceship so I can explore the universe with him
Ooo that's good.....
Tell me.. What do you desire?
well, in season 8 he survived only because the writing died.
😂 savage and true!
the writing died in season 5 lol.
[Speech 98/100] "Kill the Mountain for me Bronn"
Do a video on Littlefinger.
And then one on the powerful Tywin Lannister.
Cheers xo
+SuperiorSeven Both of these need to happen.
Varys.
+SuperiorSeven
I agree... but take a look at my post.... I talk about Petyr Baelish in it... I dont believe he has a big enough roll in the show to do a huge video on him.. But I do believe he would be on top if Tyrion and him had to go head to head in The Game Of Thrones.
+SuperiorSeven powerful Tywin Lannister
i have some bad news
+Casey P (*spoiler alert) You dont believe he had enough role to put in the show? He is the mastermind of almost all of the major things happened since season 1! Ned killed, why? Because Littlefinger betrayed him. Jeoffrey (sorry if I misspell it) died, why? Littlefinger had huge role in it. Lady Arryn died, why? Littlefinger killed her. Sansa ended up married to Ramsay Bolton, why? Because Littlefinger arranged it and convinced Sansa to agree to it. And so on, and so forth.
Would be genuinely interested in your personal insight on Hitler and the way he displayed himself in the presence of others.
+FkYouImDope LOL
does he ever do any non english speakers
+The Devil Himself ... What the ...
+The Devil Himself Im a jew and and I'm greed as fuck and don't give a shit
His character is the best in this series, he's why I watched it all the way to the end. So, yes, do more.
Same here. He’s my favorite too
Tyrion reloads save every time a conversation path turns bad. He is the greatest RPG player ever.
Tywin was the most brilliant player, perhaps only superior to Tyrion by experience, but you should note Olenna Tyrell very much held her own against Tywin, that makes her the remaining major player of intelligence. Tywin was cunning but Olenna is cynical, Tywin fell because he was ruthless towards people who were close enough to put an arrow in him while taking a dump, Olenna isn't that over confident nor cruel, she is a real force to be reckoned with.
Ray Butler If she was the best she wouldnt have died
Well Tyrion has been lucky as well as smart. It's not really fair to say Olenna wouldn't be dead if she was the best.
It’s Tyrion’s failed war strategy that got her killed, he underestimated his brother.
Tywin's and Olenna's style only apply if you're in a position of power/influence tho
@@TheIronyoshi I think so we should also see how genius Little finger is.....ya he is cruel and selfish but he is a rags to riches person surely a role model for us.
Never can get to much Tyrion!
+Laura Dean °I agree!
+Charisma on Command does this apply to getting women to like you ?
I'd like to see a video of you on that topic !
You'll get millions of views
1. Don't apologize for long videos. Your videos are amazing.
2. Game of Thrones is a-ok with me
This dude did it he lived and was made hand of the king for the third time.
Stellar observations and please continue your coverage of these "power plays".
More Tyrion, good vids, game of thrones topics are the best especially with the premier coming very soon. You will get a lot more views and we enjoy them. Win-win.
ikr!!!
You where really listening to that video weren't you
quick learner
There's a scene before the tyrion's trial by combat with the mountain and the viper when tyrion is talking to Jamie about his cousin the beetle smasher..he's explaining how he tried so hard to get to the bottom of why he was smashing beetles, wut he got out of it, how he became obsessed with his reasoning behind his actions..woulda been a good clip to show..definitely aligns with this video
The monologue Peter gives in that scene is brilliantly done. It was such a simple story he told, but the way he told it was just brilliant... His delivery kept me hooked.
"Don't be a Lommy" 😅👍🏻
If possible, it would be interesting to do a run of the characters who have been killed, and pointing out their mistakes that led to their death when interacting with people
+DrasticSkuba that would be interesting
+DrasticSkuba follow the chain of events for most people and it will lead back to catelyn stark
+Sigma So this will be the Six Degrees of Catelyn Stark?
I would love to see more Tyrion video.
me too :P
"Tyrion can't be killed." A brick falls out of a building and caves in Tyrion's skull. "You were saying?" - George R.R. Martin.
I watched this for the second time to remind myself of how to win every argument with my sister.
... it was an ad the whole time!
+Mjoll he has one of those ad guy voices
+Mjoll the ads are getting smarter...(Southpark)
+Mjoll It wasn't. Of course he refers to his other work in the end, that's what you can find in all good videos on personal development. It's an entrepreneur way to think, which is something all people advanced in personal development share.
Mjoll the lioness ! Skyrim !
+Jon Snuh New to riften, huh?
Please do more of these
+Hithesh Ram °I love GoT so expect more of these, for sure.
If you just love GOT then what we do GOT ? Man O'Men you are eating GOT MAN,,,
"People act like homing missiles towards their deepest desires." xD
Putting everything else in this video aside, the way you define empathy at 5:32 was perfect.
There can never be too much Tyrion.
Don't worry, I won't die
Tyrion Targaryen
hahahaha
Targaryen? Hmmmm
The dead wont bargain with you,
no talking yourself out of this one.
Yes sir
Within a week or two we will see how well this ages.
This is basically, "How to Win Friends & Influence People" written nearly a hundred years ago. A very good read.
More Tyrion ! The writer/s of GOT surely must have a deep understanding of human psychology and power plays. Your breakdowns are worth gold, land and women !
+VFXProductionsTokyo Haha! You're too much, man!
Do Walter White.
Yes
It would be cool to see the breakdown
Mohamed Helmy oo
Mohamed Helmy YEAH
Balthazar Berg c
The character growth in Tyrion was a riveting story arch, and some of the best character acting ever done.
Peter totally embodied the character.
wow, i didnt realize how persuasive Tyrion is. Especially in that last clip with Braun
George is gonna see this and kill Tyrion off immediately
You think GRRM has ANY influence on the show anymore?
@@ThespianPrince13 I think not.
@@ThespianPrince13 saw the leaks eh
Please stop giving away all my secrets.
I LOVE how not only you explain the characters to us, especially those that are hard to understand, but you also lesson us on phycology, mental survival and life in general, teaching us on characters mistakes while explaining how the human heart reacts to different situations. Love your videos
~ Glad to hear you're loving them Leyla!
7:50 In the books the issue wasn´t the jailer didn´t understand but more how he is distrustful of Tyrion because he was lied before. So he made Tyrion to write down a document saying he owes gold to him, and it worked. Tyrion had his freedom and the jailer has his the gold.
8:40 Nah, he knew what Bronn´s like. He already had a castle, lands, titles, even a wife (which by the way she was way different compared with the books version except of her intelligence), and knows very well he can´t defeat the Montain. So he wasn´t surprised when Bronn said no to be Tyrion´s champion again, specially when he doesn´t have nothing offer. He is a sellsword after all.
Yep, more Tyrion stuff is totally alright for me.
+Barefoots Child Can't get enough of him huh? :)
No, actually it is a combination of him and the way tou use his characters abilities to get your message out They go well together.
Fascinating. I've always loved Tyrion as a character, and it's been really interesting to look back over his story and dialogue after watching this video.
Glad you like it, thanks!
It‘s incredible how deep those conversations actually are.
Charisma on Demand: Why Tyrion Can't Be Killed
After Season 7 & 8
D&D: Hold our beer. We'll just assassinate his character, make him really stupid.
I think Tyrion said it to Jon that his mind is his weapon, and he's been honing it for a long time.
+Phil Lewis no it was me to him
Tyrion can't be killed? Nope. Valar Morghulis.
+ Calham He's refering to the Tywin-Arya scene in 2nd season
"But what do we say to the God of Death?"
"Not today."
"I demand trial by combat (with a champion)"
Shame, Shame, Shame,
Valar dohaeris. All men must serve.
PLEASE make more videos like this!
I've never gotten around to watching the movie, but that guy is brilliant. Even more so when you explain the things you do.
Your videos are very enlightening. And they explain why certain things I do naturally work, and all the things I don't always do right and should change. It is absolutely VITAL for my people and communication skills to learn these things, and you do it so well!
Tyrion is also one of the most honest and down to earth (sorry) characters of the show. He sees the absurdity of all that's happening.
I work in sales and you can really tell a good sales person when they ask "what do you want?", instead of just telling people why they should buy their product without first asking the question.
Tyrion would be good at Sales.
Great video!
+Alhamza Almarsomi (Elseyed) -- Thanks!
Lol that sweet Freudian slip. I just happen to love game of thrones and it seems that people like it too. Weird when the common folk like something you like, right? Building relationships based on first impressions and manipulations is unwise. It is very effective and efficient for jobs like sales and other short term relations. Otherwise its energy consuming and counter-effective once people figure you out or you are unable to manipulate them (besides the fact that is takes a solid narcissist to treat people like tools). If people don't do what your want don't manipulate them like a teenage girl, just negotiate or move on.
persuasion is not about manipulating people, its about getting them to realize that both of you can achieve something together easier that not. manipulating people into doing something they don't want to do can not be achieved with persuasion.
You are going down on one very slippery slope. Teaching people to persuade people is giving them the means to manipulate. In the end most people end up manipulating others to some degree. You think everyoen who watches this will only uses these skills to " work together"? Thank god this kid is trash. On a sidenote I prefer the Tyrion vids by far because his on screen appearence are pure cringe.
uraui everything can be used in a good way and a bad way, everything you've said is just stupid.
There's a book called "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie that teaches how to do these exact things. An excellent book actually.
I would like to point out one flaw in your reasoning on how Tyrion's ways to succes could be used in every day situations: Tyrion has the huge advantage of being in a position (wealth and power) to be able to (almost) always actually meet the other person's demands/needs, while most people IRL do not. In Bronn's example (asking a friend to do something) most people wouldn't be able to capitalize on the options of money or land even if they figured out that's what their friend would want most. So missing in your analysis is that in order for the '3 tools' to actually work, you need a 4th tool: capital. Capital can be everything: political (land), economical (gold), social (friendship), pressure (pride), etc. Without this fourth one, the first three tools wouldn't work.
Close but I would say that capital is rather restrictive. That 4th tool should be resources(money, connections, stuff etc) or skills that you have which can get them closer to their goal.
This channel should be named Manipulation 101 :P In all seriousness, great analysis
Not bad, although some of these are fairly obvious. Further to this, I would add that Tyrion's genius is that he can do all this whilst under pressure for his life. Although that may have been a situation that he's been in many times in his life.
We forget that Tyrion has grown up in a powerful situation with powerful people with every disadvantage, i.e. that he's been training for this all his life and if he didn't have those skills, he'd already been dead.
Thanks for the input, nicely done!
well said
U do realize this is just a show mate
On top of the intelligence and cunning, he also has wisdom. The wisdom to repay kind with kind. Those loyal to him, are rewarded with his loyalty.
These are really cool analysis, I love them so much. I notice that in the series of Game of Thrones, there are a number of characters that have great persuasion skills, but all in different ways: Tyrion, Littlefinger, Sam, Davos and Margaery. They are those who really pull the strings of the game, maybe even more than the powerful ones (Tywin, Cersei, Robert, Ned or Daenerys).
I sometimes wonder which one would be the most persuasive if they had to convince each others, because strangely they did not interact much each other in the book or series (we have only seen Littlefinger and Margaery talking briefly at Bitterbridge, and Tyrion and Davos at Dragonstone). I know you already analyse some of them, it could be interesting to compare their methods of persuasion.
Kinda hard when u have no gold land women or even pride like Tyrion lmao
Dont Read My Profile Picture yh
Well then fake it
''How did Tyrion knew that Bronn wants money and women ?''
oh I don't know, because that's what every man wants !?
Damon Hart even RuPaul?
Tyrion: gold or women, men and pretty dresses?
He observed Bronn's behavior (i.e willingly giving away his room for gold and talking about women)
even RENLY?
ikr. he should have did other example. other scene.
It’s so true, when I think about these principles I understand why they work and how I could use them. But I’m not yet at a point to use it in everyday situations. I think I’m on the right way though. Thank you so much for helping to me and so many others to learn and improve in these things!
Most important lesson for me from this video: figure out what others want and using this information in a useful way ☺️
I never noticed before this video what a great actor that Jailor was. He nails that part with his responses and facial expressions. Like really processing the simple things Tyrion is saying as opposed to the confused angry reactions.
Brilliant!
Thanks!
Charisma on Command You're welcome!
Clarence Stinson the same The
I love Tyrion so very much #PeterDinklage #GameOfThrones ; A quote specially dedicated to the Great Little Lord #PeterDinklage " There is a great man who makes everyone feel small but the real great man is the one who makes every man feel great " That great man is you Tyrion Lannister ; Great fan of Peter Dinklage . Must say the content is so wonderfully elucidated .
Will definitely keep going!
I’m a cop. When we have new people in training and they get stuck, we tell them to ask “What would you like me to do?” If what they ask is legal and moral, then do it. If it’s not, explain why. That satisfies most people. It either gives them what they want or helps them set realistic expectations
BAM! Truth bombs throughout! People can't be shamed anymore, so there really is no point trying to appeal to people's better nature. I feel like I've wasted my life trying to encourage people to behave better. This is your most compelling video so far.
Yeah, I pretty much gave up on encouraging people. They don't want to hear it let alone improve anything.
It's shocking to me that I already know a lot of this stuff before watching the video, but still I learned new things, Awesome as always!
Happy to hear that!
No, no, no, this is what they're doing. They're telling you things you already know to make you feel smart
The title of this video should be
"How to succeed in life by being like Tyrion".
D O N ' T B E L I K E L O M M Y
The best phrase in the hole show is given by Tyrion in the first episode of the show when he told John snow "own your weaknesses , wear them like a shield , that way your enemies won't be able to use them against you"
Literally words I live by.