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- čas přidán 7. 08. 2017
- We were married October 16, 2015 in the Gilbert Arizona LDS temple. Pictures and video from our wedding are included, as well as details about my dress, the temple, planning the reception, and my regrets.
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omg totally clicked this because I thought it said my LSD wedding lmao
Yoga Savvy 😂😂😂😂
what they do in there is crazy
Yoga Savvy ..
Yoga Savvy and you found out it was the same thing! Just without the drug! I mean, c'mon, don't you have to be on something psychedelic to let somebody tell you God wants you to wear special underwear that you can only buy from them? As you can see for yourself I'm sure. Lol
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My wonderful husband and I were engaged only 6 weeks after we first met too. We married 7 months later, in a Christian church, and that was over 20 years ago. We get closer and happier by the day
I don't know how you feel about doing makeup videos, but I would seriously LOVE a tutorial for your eye look!!😍
+Allison D I would love to do that! Thanks!
@@HaleighMarkar This!!! Yes, this grandma wants to know also!! Thank you Haleigh!
Congratulations on your recent-ish wedding! Both my wife and I are converts (been married 36 years!), we totally relate.
you got married on my birthday!! but you've been such an inspiration in my life recently. thank you so much for sharing your experiences. 💕
+Rachel Dollar you are so sweet thank you!!
I'm 17 right now and I converted at 15. None of my family are members. I've always been nervous about the whole wedding thing. Thanks this made me feel a lot better haha
+Nicole loren you're welcome!! It can be stressful but nothing is more worth it! ❤️
Haleigh Everts hi haleigh, i am really just asking from curiosity, in your video u said u guys went back home, so does that mean u were living together before you got married? I thought the belief was only living together/sex after marriage if you are mormon?
romosweethearrt I explained in the video that we moved into our apartment a few weeks before our wedding and he had all his stuff there but just wasn't sleeping there, until the wedding night.
Haleigh Everts o ok sorry i was doing stuff while listening and missed that
I converted at 17 and 1/2. My parents gave me permission to join. (I have since resigned). Long story.
Can you do a video on the cut up leggings and how you incorporated it to your dress?! I loved the idea! I've been having such a hard time finding a affordable modest wedding dress
It would mean sooo much!!
+Jessica Siliezar m.czcams.com/video/UCt9oTuf8dc/video.html
That is super clever how you "modified" your dress!
Happy Anniversary! I'm watching this on October 16, 2017! Hope you have a great day!
Wow, your friend did a great job with that video, especially making the first song blend so seamlessly. I'm not Mormon, I'm a born-again Christian. But I wasn't either when I got married (or when I subsequently got divorced), but we had a receiving line at our wedding, too. I don't think that's particularly a Mormon thing. You looked beautiful in your amazing gown, and so, so happy with your husband! :)
Wow this video just popped up on my CZcams.... u look and sound like a totally different person now, so glad u seem so happy n relaxed nowadays xxx
I’m so happy I found your channel!!!!! Can you do a video on making your wardrobe more garment friendly? I’m getting endowed this winter!
For those of you that have non member family or friends. A tip that I have is to give those family members the time of the event if they wish to wait for the entire ceremony outside. Or you can give them the option of arriving 30 mins before the ceremony ends that way they can still be there for pictures and for when you and your spouse are coming out. This is what my spouse and I are doing
Yippee the family can't go in the temple but they can be outside for pictures. I'm sorry that's just wrong
Most awesome hack ever! CJ's epiphany to use nude hosiery to cover the undergarments was brilliant.
My gosh, the only LDS grounds I've ever gone to was this exact place. I didn't remember where it was, just that a friend suggested we go visit. I was in Scottsdale for a conference, so I was in the general area. The Gilbert Temple garden is indeed spectacular.
So happy for you! I look beautiful in ur dress
Thanks for sharing your wedding story 😊 You're so pretty!
I live in Phoenix, AZ. I received my Endowments in the Mesa Temple. Not that it matters but October 16 is my birthday! Ha ha
+Jesse Dallas great day! It’s also my best friends birthday too
This is the one thing I don't understand. Why not a civil ceremony? In Europe in most countries civil ceremonies are mandatory, so there is no discussion. You have your legal wedding, your reception and typically the next day (or Monday, many weddings are on Saturday) you go to the Temple to get sealed; which for many is half a day away.
Just wanted to say you looked beautiful on your wedding day and you still do!
I'm getting married in the temple and I have so many questions. I've never been to a wedding in the temple or anything so this is great.
Congrats!! Feel free to message me if you need any help.
Have you noticed how the tip of your nose looks with your highlighter on it ?
Congrats!!!!!!! soooo happy for you!!❤
I love your wedding pictures!! I hope mine are as gorgeous as yours!!!😍❤️
+DianeCrystal thank you!! I’m still obsessed with them haha
Just found your videos, love how honest you are and thank you for sharing your experiences! :) New sub from me!
+Eloise Morris yay thanks!!
When I get married I want to have an actual wedding then get sealed later. I am really close with my brother and sister as well as some of my cousins but they are too young to have a recommend. It just wouldn’t feel right without them there
Forever obsessed with you. 💞
+Katelyn Fleming 😘😘😘
Those pictures are beautiful!
Beautiful Temple. I like how you decorated the gym.
All talk, I wanted to see pictures.
Were you immediately certain that you wanted to marry your husband as soon as you met him? What convinced you?
+alwaysquinith after 3 days I was certain! I wrote our love story and how I knew he was the one on my blog. foreverts.wordpress.com/2016/03/10/how-i-knew-cj-was-the-one
Thank you for the reply, I'll take a look :)
I just moved to Portland Oregon , but lived right next to the Gilbert Temple!
Your dress is beautiful!
So I know in a regular wedding that the woman from the Bride and Bridesmaids have their makeup and hair done the morning of the wedding. Did you have the same thing done with your makeup and hair for the wedding day?
just found you today, love your videos!!!! What lashes are you wearing??? you should do make up tutorials!!!
Also goofy about the different sealing policy for three countries to wait a year after a public wedding service is many LDS who already are sealed to a spouse who died might remarry for time in the church chapel. So why can't a first time couple marry for time and then seal for eternity immediately?
kris Sharp it's a fear tactic the Church uses to try to get people to marry in the temple, it's all about control over every aspect of your life. They punish them if they get a civil ceremony first in countries that's allowed. They'll scare you with stories of how a spouse died before the year waiting time is up, and they lost them forever and can't be together in Heaven. There's many partitions segregating people in Mormon heaven.
They can marry right after a civil marriage, don’t comment unless you know the gospel!😮
Fabled Creature you have no knowledge of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.......why would anyone be scared of the gospel of Jesus Christ,,,,,you’re so ridiculous.....we love the Savior and his Church, if anyone tells you they are scared they do not know Jesus Christ our Savior! I have been a member for 54 years, never have I had fear of this church or the beliefs! I have found true peace through knowing the true and living God.....Jesus our Savior can give us all love and peace, no matter what problems you have! I’ve known many members that married civil first for their nonmember families and followed through with Temple Marriage.....they now can Marry civilly throughout the world and have a Temple marriage right after........no fear!
Girl, your lip color is amazing in this video, what are you wearing?!?
+Dani Taylor I believe it's rimmel stay matte in 100 pink bliss
+Dani Taylor I lied! It's 110 I think
Ah I’m going on a mission and this video made me so excited to get married hehe. :)
Hehe it’ll be worth the wait!
I was prompted to watch this. Seriously you have been on my mind for a week. I knew I had seen this in your videos and didn’t think it was relevant to me until Friday night then that’s when I was prompted to watch it as these questions are now ones I am asking 😬😬🤗🤗
WOW!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Haleigh Everts I know. 🙏🏻
I bought a dress from an LDS woman that made wedding dresses. My family is also non-members. We got a divorce. I found out I had a mental illness. My parents are divorced too. My mom paid for photography. My dad paid for the catering and DJ. Our wedding was crashed. People that weren't invited showed up for free food. I got married in the Columbus Ohio temple which was good, because my parents wouldn't have wanted to drive to DC for a wedding that they couldn't go to. The temple was built in 2000, we got married in March of 2000. My family got to tour the temple in the open house, which I was happy about. We did a ring ceremony for my family. We didn't know that you could have a procession (with my parents). The Bishop gave it, but I put the ring on the wrong finger and was so embarrassed. (We forgot to bless the food). The pictures took forever!! I was really mad because I wanted to enjoy the reception. We should have taken a picture at the temple, but we had a non-LDS photographer and didn't suggest it, and I didn't know. Yes, my family waited in the lobby, I didn't know they could do that, but the whoever said they could, I thought that was nice.
wow loved it and beautiful wedding!
just curious, does your dress have like. beige lining under it because it looks like you aren't wearing garments just wondering :)
+Alyssa Hammer did you watch the video? I explain all about my dress and wearing it with garments!
Haleigh Everts yes she did....watch video before you ask questions!🧐just saying!
I found this to be very informative. I’m the only Mormon in my family and none of them live in Arizona. I thought that for myself I would ask that in lieu of gifts my friends could bring a donation of food for the reception. It would be a way to cut costs and not have anything go to waste. Also I have a friend who does Temple photography so perhaps as his gift he could photograph and video the wedding.
+Jesse Dallas that’s so awesome! Great ideas!
Yasssssss sister 💙
Beautiful wedding!
I would not go to a church to get married if my family can't be there period that my special moment what I going to my kids I want that special moment to be with me forever my family is for me is everything well that for me any way some people are different I can't speak for everyone.
I can't imagine getting married in a place but your non same religion parents can't go to. That tells me something about the religion
My wedding colors were teal and gold!
Interesting, but it would have been so nice to have seen pictures of your dress, etc.
You got engaged after 6 weeks? And the marriage failed? I’m shocked
I see she's engaged again. How long do you think that marriage is going to last?
Hi I have a question, my boyfriend is going on his mission next month. Our plans is to get married as soon as he come home from his mission. What type of recommendation of dresses do you suggest? I'm a new member, May 19th marks my one year as a member. Are you able to have an open back? Or a sweetheart neckline?
Also your pictures may be on Pinterest!!
Hello. Thank you for sharing your heart. I see your heart and passion for God,however things can seem like truth and indeed not be. Read the New Testament in the Bible. Praying for you.
I agree read the new testament. But I also encourage you to read the book of Mormon and pray about it. You can't judge a book if you haven't even read it
I’m from santan valley Arizona!
Can I ask where you got your wedding dress?. What is the name of it. I love it.
+TheVishakegirl thank you! I got it from Suzanne's bridal in Gilbert AZ. it's a Maggie sorrento (sp?) design :)
I'm curious about temple wedding. In my case, I'm a converter and my parents are not member. But I still want to marry lds people and do my wedding in temple. How the things go then?
西出優佳 they'd go the same way she explained hers. I am the only Mormon in my family and married another Mormon. We were married in the temple and only his Mormon family were in the ceremony with us. My family had to wait in the waiting area inside the temple.
Are you in the US? I'm most countries you marry publicly for the state and then can be sealed immediately in the temple. If you have been a member long enough to get a recommend. If you are able to get a ecommend but marry first publicly so famliy can be there they make you wait a year to seal. Goofy rules. Way to allianate family to let his side in the room and hr parents behind the door unable to witness real vows.
I have never been to a wedding that didnt have a receiving line and I have never been to a LDS wedding
+R Rye oh interesting!
Congratulations
Question, were you Mormon when you got married because I know if you're not, you can;t get married in the church? (Just confused because the title says Non LDS family haha)
Krista Vlogs my family isn't LDS but I am. I got baptized at 15 so yes I was able to get married in the temple but my family wasn't in the temple for the ceremony.
Ohh ok! So both you and your Husband are LDS but your Family isn't. So if I (Catholic) met a Mormon and we wanted to get Married I would need to get baptized or we have an outdoor wedding? I know that's what Aspyn and Parker (also youtubers) did because he's LDS but she isn't
Krista Vlogs I know I'm not Haleigh but yes, you're right 🙂 you can only get married in the temple if both you & your spouse are Mormon.
RamDaRealist we wear wedding dresses and robes over them.
Krista Vlogs you can still get married in Mormon chapels though! Just not temples.
Sorry this is off topic, but I'm wondering if you know my family? The Mizukawa's?
I don't understand. You can't wear the nude lining/pantyhose in the temple so did you wear a separate dress during the marriage? It looks good though. When I first saw the photo I thought, "Why is she standing in front of a temple and she didn't get married in the temple?"
+Dana Scully it's not that I couldn't wear the nude lining in the temple, it was that overall my dress wasn't temple appropriate. Temple dresses need to go to your wrists and not be distracting. My dress wasn't plain enough and the sleeves didn't go to my wrists. But yes you're not the only one who was confused! I did get married in the temple I just wore my normal temple dress during the ceremony :)
Everything she wore inside was white. When she changed into her public wedding dress she deviated. That is fine.
kris Sharp you people watch the video before u comment,,,,,,she explained the whole thing at the beginning!🤔
How long were you guys dating before you got married?
I am from Arizona
So your parents paid for your wedding & didn't even get to see you actually get married? How sad 😭
+Laken Pate nope but they didn't care as long as I was happy
They would have preferred to see you exchange real vows and then enter the temple without them immediately to be sealed. It would not have been an issue in England. Or most other countries. Why a different policy in America and two other countries for a global church? Like the priesthood and men of color ban before the 70's this weird sealing year long ban if a public service is done in only three countries will go by the wayside.
She asked her parents if they wanted a ring ceremony, which they probably could have exchanged vows if they had wanted to but her parents said not to worry about it, it would have been a lot of extra work. Regardless of "when" they would have had a ceremony for her parents, her parents were the ones that said not to worry about it. Regardless of preferences spoken or unspoken, everyone sounds happy, I think Haleigh Everts would have brought that up if it had been a problem.
The ring ceremony per the rules can not include a vow exchange. It is a jewelry exchange. Now say her hsuband passes and she reamarries for time wanting to stay sealed to her first husband that will be only for time, does not take place in the temple and they can be present for that wedding. Now if she passed her husband can remarry and seal to another woman all in the temple. If they lived in London they could have had a vow exchange with all nonmmber family present and then immediately walked across the street and been sealed for time and eternity in the temple. If she dared have a public vow exchange in the US she would have waited a year to be sealed in the temple. I am catholic, i do not believe in joseph smith having a vision nor they do they beleive our lady appeared to the children of fatima. I do not believe Christ appeared again to north anericans. Actual doctrine beliefs are different which is fine. But this weddng policy isn't doctrine. Or a church history event. It is goofy for a global church actively seeking converts from nonmembers. Hopefully soon it will change or members with nonmember immediate family will simply marry publicly with actual vow exchange and wait the year to seal after just like most grandparents did, without the year wait but it took some months to travel to a temple. Or the church will stop converting nonmembers and membrs will only members other lifers in the church where no parent grandparent or sibling expects to be there unless they are the right age and members in good standing with a recommend.
I love your videos! one of your videos were recommended for me and I'm so glad I clicked on that video! I feel like I can relate to you a lot! we should do a beauty collab sometime!
+Hannah Hatt thank you!! That sounds fun!!
I m mormon too, grew up in the church
jessica faulkenbery my wife is mormon....and in have spoken to missionaries in the 7yrs I have been married to her........the Mormon religion contradicts the bible in several ways....and when I quote bible verses.....the missionaries have a hard time responding. But overall the mormon people are amazing people and very friendly. I just do not have the same beliefs... No hard feelings...my beliefs come from the bible
😂😂😂😂 a “revelation” about tights
You got married the day before my birthday
Why didn't you have people RSVP to the reception?
+Felicia Breshears since it was more of an informal come and go thing instead of like a sit down dinner we didn't feel the need to know exactly how many people would be there.
6 weeks? 😑
Wait u live in Arizona i live in Arizona 😄
You looked gorgeous. I'm confused. You don't have to wear your garments when you wear something like a wedding dress if you want to show off the lace? You can substitute and wear cut up yoga pants or something else?
The cut up leggings were to COVER my garments. I still wore my garments. I just wore the leggings/top over them.
Haleigh Everts Oh, that makes sense.
Such a sad day for family members. I couldn't imagine if my daughter said she wanted to be part of a religion that would not allow me to be part of her wedding ceremony. It's such a special once in a lifetime day and my heart breaks for the family that couldn't participate.
+Crystal 72 again I did offer to do a ring ceremony that they could be part of, but they said they didnt care about it.
Haleigh Everts I wouldn't want to be part of a reenactment. As a parent, I would want to be part of the real ceremony not an after the fact reenactment because some religious official decided I didn't qualify to be a part of my daughters actual wedding. It's just my opinion but I think it's really sad.
Its not a public vow to be exclusive until death. Just elope. This would not be an issue in over 180 countries. Sad. God forbid you lose a spouse and marry again for time only, they can attend that wedding. Of course if you husband remarries if heaven forbid you pass, he can also seal in the temple since he can seal to more than one woman in eternity.
Crystal 72. Most of my wife's family weren't Mormons and in hindsight one that was shouldn't have been in the temple because she wasn't worthy. My father-in-law's initial reaction was to swear that he wouldn't come to any part of it. He had the biggest smile of anybody at out ring ceremony. Nobody among our family and friends complained. The ring ceremony isn't a reenactment. The temple ceremony involved some symbols that are too sacred to even talk about outside of the sacred temples. Haleigh should delete any comments following this that describe those sacred things.
If any of the nomember, never a member family, found out you can do a tradiational civil exchange of vows real wedding in front of them and do a sealing immediately after what they would have rather had happen. As you said the ring ceremony isn't a reenactment. No one should have had family there if they all could not go. All these it was fine coming from member about those who could not see the wedding. It is like asking a white person living in the south in the 40’s if the n word is hurtful. Even nomembers see the ring ceremony as a Nonwedding. It is something that converts and their nonmember families do not have to go through in all but three countries. Why can the church be global. They are knocking on doors for pity sakes, you think they would not cause arbitrary allienation of family.
So weird to hear my name in a video (Shayla)
I hate the receiving line and I don't want one for my wedding haha.
It was a little awkward since we didn’t have a lot of guests lol
I'm not Mormon, so I have no clue on this. Sorry if it is a dumb question, but why are non LDS people not allowed in the temple. I'm catholic so we allow everyone to come in. Just curious not saying one is better. Just wanted to know.
+Symantha Donaldson temples aren't normal churches. Anyone can come to our normal meeting house and come to church on Sunday. But temples are sacred and it's where special ordinances are performed. So you have to be prepared and worthy to enter to perform those ordinances.
Symantha Donaldson they're taught that others outside the temple are not worthy actually they're not worthy neither for no one is worthy the only people that become worthy are the ones that fellow Jesus Christ when you are baptized in the name of Jesus Christ and are you receive the gift of the Holy Ghost Acts 2:38 that is when you are seal and are in the book of life thats it there is nothing you can do nor not do it is all in the hands of God
Haleigh Everts Be honest with yourself and with your viewers you should of told them the truth you should of said rituals are performed there is nothing of God in those corrupted rituals how ignorant you are prayers go out to you , I have knowdest many have told you the truth and yet you still haven't repented for your emissions of sins instead you rather deceive yourself and many others , Repent while the kingdom of heaven is at hand
Haleigh Everts Thank you so much! I was very confused.
Wow so great .but maybe I can't ...Hmmmm...may God bless me to get through all my problems and stay more and more closely to God,in the name of Jesus Christ,amen.
I love your channel...but if the Mormon church is all about family then why are they being so cruel to them?
How did you become involved in Mormonism?
+MaliceInWonderland it’s a long story! But the whole thing will be available soon :)
Wait was there beer or wine!🤔
+mockingjaye no there wasn't! Not even champagne to toast with.
It's good to see that this young lady is happily married now, congratulations.
This video is a classic example of how the LDS church controls it's members.
The Church would not allow her parents, (who paid for the wedding) to attend, they were non Mormon and therefore 'unworthy' to enter it, but WERE deemed worthy to enter the lobby and wait till the ceremony was over.
Her wedding and reception were all arranged around church requirements,i.e.
She was not free to even choose her own wedding dress, it had to be 'Tempted appropriate' and 'Temple garment appropriate', and dear Haleigh was ok with all of that.
I would assume that she believes that the Lord brought her and her husband together, it struck me that her 'Lord' wasn't mentioned once, it was all about the Temple and church requirements, how odd.
What Haleigh didn't say was why she is getting married in the Temple anyway.
Like all things in Mormonism, Joseph Smith said she must be Temple married,( so that after death she can become a Goddess, with her God husband, ruling over their own planet, producing millions/ billions of spirit children), all this is possible if she tithes 10% to the LDS church and follows a multitude of rules, for the rest of her life.
This is the fundamental reason she was Temple married, Joseph Smith and his church say that she must be.
Jesus testimony was that in the resurrection people neither marry or are given in marriage, Luke 20:35.
Like all devout Mormons Hayleigh has 100% faith in the writings and teachings of Joseph Smith and the ongoing revelations of the church leadership, like all LDS people she 'knows' that the Bible is unreliable, because Joseph Smith said so, (Mormonism's 8th Article of faith).
Read the Holy Bible and trust it, trust also the Jesus Christ of the Bible as your savior and Lord.
Kind regards to all, especially dear Hayleigh.
Have they allowed people to marry people who are outside the church or are they still super intolerant of others?
LDS marry non-LDS all the time. We are encouraged to marry in the Temple, but it is not required.
Your beautiful but your highlight on the end of your nose is a bit much maybe???
I agree, and in another video, I was so distracted by it. I'm a certified makeup artist, and we call that the, "Frosty the Snowman Nose". It's very "instagrammy" and I wish that trend would dim out.
Jesus Divides Families
Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth.divide families I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to turn ‘a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law - a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’ (Mat 10:34-36)
The God of truth (Isa. 65:16) is the God of the Bible. Since truth divides, then Jesus would naturally divide his followers away from those who reject and hate God’s truth, even one’s natural family members. Remember, Jesus divides families:
Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” (Luke 12:51-53)
Jesus Came To Divide - NOT Bring Peace On Earth
To be worthy of Jesus and eternal life, one must side with God’s truth even though it divides his own family.
Your volume is terribly low on your videos!
thank you for bringing this to my attention. from my phone it doesn't sound low at all but I will make the future ones louder!
Haleigh Everts it’s in your technology,,,,mine is half mass, and the volume is perfect!😇
After just seeing a picture of a young Hollywood celebrity lying on a beach with boobs PROUDLY totally exposed I am more and more appreciating MODESTY! I guess a good question would be is how you want to stand before the Lord at HIS judgement... Dressed or undressed...
According to the mythology, Adam and Eve were naked. So it wouldn't matter.
why in the world does a guy want to watch a wedding video. Why? I can't believe I loved it. I'm very happy for you and ask that you two please do not let yourselves allow the devil to cause you to drift away from each other. Please do not allow it. Never ever believe that you do not have every reason in the world to be happy together and have reason to not appreciate each other always. If it ever happens please realize that it is not you or CJ it is that lying destroyer of souls making you think things that are not.
So,you became a Mormon at 15 and lived and up and down life in the church.Then you married and 5 years later you have 2 kids and are divorced.Hmmm.
Stranger things have happened.
Getting engaged 6 weeks after meeting someone just translates to "I really wanna have sex"
Nope, we had to wait 6 months to get married. It translates to “I’ve been wanting to get married for 4 years and have desperately been trying to find my husband. Now I’m prepared and ready for when the right guy comes along. oh hey the right guy is here! Why waste time when you’ve found the one!”
I would not bust my butt to go to a Mormon wedding, very boring. Bring on the drinks !!!
But like why even have your wedding in the temple? Ugh such a cult
Why get married in a church? Or anywhere at all? Not seeing your point